I am super interested in how the social types might correlate to PDA (pathological demand avoidance). Its looking like a strong correlation with the 1's and 3's. My Ni trying to shove multiple things in one box 🤣 Not going to apologize for efficiency!!!
I feel that way too sometimes, the best we can do I find something that gives joy. The more I focus on the larger picture of my current life the more depressed I feel. I am locked into a box, and economically not doing well. For me it is coffee in the morning and really narrowing down on that coffee routine/ ritual to make it the best it can be. I try to attach emotions and ideologies to that like contemplating the use of matcha for health benefits (which I don't do but like to think about) including outside time with my coffee, keeping my coffee black and trying to increase the taste of said coffee. Just choose a thing that gives joy and expand upon that. Cold showers aren't as good without an ice pond. But they are better with a warm cup of water waiting on the other end. I eat a lot of eggs and add fresh garlic because it makes me happy. It's the experience and endeavor that makes things better. A book for this that I recommend is How to Cook a Wolf. Which is about eating during the great depression. Obviously don't eat yourself into being unwell, but having some mindfulness practices goes a long way towards increasing longevity of the spirit. For me when things become most bad, taking care of my body is the first step towards taking care of my emotions. It took time for me to learn that, but the more I fall back on it, the faster I rebound. Maybe you are excellent at taking care of your body and life just feels dull regardless, and so in that case a practice that could be a possible fall back I suppose could be asking tribe members what gives them joy and trying those things? Idk, I hope that is helpful and as a last side note something I have discovered recently is that my periods have a huge influence on my moods and keeping track of them through an app has also helped my understanding of what I'm experiencing too.
Sad to hear what you're going through. I hope you can find something for yourself soon, I know it sucks feeling empty so hopefully you can give it some time until these negative thoughts can improve on their own. Maybe you should try reaching out for help for your mental health if you haven't already, things can get better with time and a little effort so don't give up hope just yet. Wish you the best of luck and take care of yourself out there
Turn to islam bro, all these false philosophies and ways of life are false. Look at the Palestinians dying, yet they are resilient. Tell me any population exists that can do that. Don't end it and know that we humans are created with a purpose and that is to worship God the one creator, and to do good deeds on earth and then we will be judged and then entered into the hereafter. Have hope brother
@@sullt766 I am genetically Palestinian, I have seen photos of my family being detained and read articles from the 1970 about the torture and killing of some of my distant family in the past. it made me realise that Justice is just an illusion for the fortunate.
@user-uo7lu5hr1j you can tell yourself whatever you want to hear, to be honest. If you want to believe it you can believe it. I am very sorry for your situation but me being sorry or anyone else won't really help you you must pull yourself back up and pray to Allah and never lose trust. Indeed Allah will test you with which you can bear. And also for the cases of injustice on this earth they will be dealt with in the hereafter. The disbelievers don't believe in the hereafter so they think that way unfortunately. Please don't lose trust in Allah for your own sake and sanctity
Spot on. You can see the same happening with extreme ideologies. Far right and far left activism is exactly the same, when it comes to how brainless and violent it can become.
Khalyla a sweet girl? I honestly have not heard good things about her I’ve heard she’s very manipulative of Bobby but Idk they’re rumors I suppose 🤷♂️
I love how Dr. Drew is trolling Bobby. It’s like he’s telling him to be responsible for the Friends social need 😆
Yeaaa as a 3 I feel like my ego is only threatened in my own boxes
But I don’t need respect for most of stuff
Thanks Dave. Learning.
Respect is a need, yes. But more from others than having respect for my own shit
Haha 😂 I totally thought I could do his job when I was a teen. I really resonated with him and how he understood the world.
you mean bobby lee
I just learned about the Attitudinal Psyche personality system 2 days ago. And Bobby is straight up EFLV.
100%
Love how good I am in finding the right videos now hahahha
I am super interested in how the social types might correlate to PDA (pathological demand avoidance). Its looking like a strong correlation with the 1's and 3's. My Ni trying to shove multiple things in one box 🤣 Not going to apologize for efficiency!!!
Don’t really want anything. Just wanna end it.
I feel that way too sometimes, the best we can do I find something that gives joy. The more I focus on the larger picture of my current life the more depressed I feel. I am locked into a box, and economically not doing well. For me it is coffee in the morning and really narrowing down on that coffee routine/ ritual to make it the best it can be. I try to attach emotions and ideologies to that like contemplating the use of matcha for health benefits (which I don't do but like to think about) including outside time with my coffee, keeping my coffee black and trying to increase the taste of said coffee. Just choose a thing that gives joy and expand upon that. Cold showers aren't as good without an ice pond. But they are better with a warm cup of water waiting on the other end. I eat a lot of eggs and add fresh garlic because it makes me happy. It's the experience and endeavor that makes things better. A book for this that I recommend is How to Cook a Wolf. Which is about eating during the great depression. Obviously don't eat yourself into being unwell, but having some mindfulness practices goes a long way towards increasing longevity of the spirit. For me when things become most bad, taking care of my body is the first step towards taking care of my emotions. It took time for me to learn that, but the more I fall back on it, the faster I rebound. Maybe you are excellent at taking care of your body and life just feels dull regardless, and so in that case a practice that could be a possible fall back I suppose could be asking tribe members what gives them joy and trying those things? Idk, I hope that is helpful and as a last side note something I have discovered recently is that my periods have a huge influence on my moods and keeping track of them through an app has also helped my understanding of what I'm experiencing too.
Sad to hear what you're going through. I hope you can find something for yourself soon, I know it sucks feeling empty so hopefully you can give it some time until these negative thoughts can improve on their own. Maybe you should try reaching out for help for your mental health if you haven't already, things can get better with time and a little effort so don't give up hope just yet. Wish you the best of luck and take care of yourself out there
Turn to islam bro, all these false philosophies and ways of life are false. Look at the Palestinians dying, yet they are resilient. Tell me any population exists that can do that. Don't end it and know that we humans are created with a purpose and that is to worship God the one creator, and to do good deeds on earth and then we will be judged and then entered into the hereafter. Have hope brother
@@sullt766 I am genetically Palestinian, I have seen photos of my family being detained and read articles from the 1970 about the torture and killing of some of my distant family in the past. it made me realise that Justice is just an illusion for the fortunate.
@user-uo7lu5hr1j you can tell yourself whatever you want to hear, to be honest. If you want to believe it you can believe it. I am very sorry for your situation but me being sorry or anyone else won't really help you you must pull yourself back up and pray to Allah and never lose trust. Indeed Allah will test you with which you can bear. And also for the cases of injustice on this earth they will be dealt with in the hereafter. The disbelievers don't believe in the hereafter so they think that way unfortunately. Please don't lose trust in Allah for your own sake and sanctity
Spot on. You can see the same happening with extreme ideologies. Far right and far left activism is exactly the same, when it comes to how brainless and violent it can become.
Khalyla a sweet girl? I honestly have not heard good things about her I’ve heard she’s very manipulative of Bobby but Idk they’re rumors I suppose 🤷♂️
She made his life ten times better