So Is Constantly Lying And Cheating Multiple Times. She Was More Upset With Him Keep Reminding Her Of How She Hurt Him But Didn’t Show Enough Remorse For Hurting Him In The First Place.
RaeThe Queen no wonder, it ends like that. If the man is not respecting the woman, he is with for 10 years and calls her all kinds of names, one day you will get, what you are calling for
She is only 24 they have been together 10 years. She was 14 when they started dating. They would have had to be together 4 years before she was even legally able to marry.
idk if he's going to talk to her that way how would he treat his children? What would they hear/see in his house with a new gf/wife? He's abusive, I wouldn't want him around kids period.
Wait lol you mean he. He better off co parenting with her right? Isnt she the cheater. Fyi thats if you need a justification for the "verbal abuse" just cheat on any human being u will get verbal abuse.
Yes, when you suppose to have a relationship with this woman you have to accept her w/all your heart not to hurt her verbally, physically & emotionally that's why she found another guy because maybe she thinks she's super tired
Right...some of what he said to her on the show was WILD. I can only imagine what he says to her when he thinks no one is listening. He's well within his rights to be mad about the cheating but he's handling the aftermath horribly. He's literally doing the damage to his daughters that he claims he's trying to prevent her from doing.
You think coming home preggers from another man is respect? You think trying to make him out to be the bad guy is respect? You think being there to rub in the kid that is not his needs his money, day in day out, is respect?
@@jamegumb7298 - Jame I think that if you are going to STAY in a relationship with someone who cheated, you have to move to the stage where you work on healing. If the man is angry and wants to work things out, he can't continually mistreat her. He has to either forgive her and move forward or let her go! If you are going to stay with a person who cheated and just treat the person horribly, you might as well let the relationship go because you are only going to make yourself and the person you are with miserable. This is one of the key reasons why it is so hard to forgive a cheater and stay with them. You become evil and vindictive and want to make them pay for what they did over and over. It is often easier to walk away than it is to stay and forgive. SHE did wrong, but trying to stay with her and mistreating her isn't the right thing to do!
@@crazifyit This only applies if the cheater is a woman, it' is fully acceptable in our society to try to ruin a man for hurtuing your feelings, she didn't forgive him for cheating, then she kept cheating and somehow it's all on him because she is the one up there crying, He should have gotten the test sooner, and possibly things would be better but the fact is this women isn't trust worthy, You can say the same for him, and if you don't think she brings up whatever he did constant and often, then you have never dated a woman , they never let anything go, and I mean never.
@@onewayfarer53 - Marcus, I don't think it was respectful to lie to his face. However, if you make the decision to take someone back INSTEAD of just leaving, then you can't abuse them! She cheated, which was wrong, but he decided to try to make the relationship work. You can't do that if you are abusing the person you are with! She was wrong, for sure, but he is now wrong for how he abuses her. Two wrongs don't make a right!
10-year Relationship with this man and they both are only 24? Ummm, 14 years old and they were sexually active? Where were the parents? Three Kids and not married? Help us, Lord!
@@sensual2kizz613 , No and that is why the Black Community is overwhelmed with women raising a no good man's children. Women are excepting kids before marriage which is out of order. Marriage, bond, then plan for Children.
Sis, it's ok to leave. Co parent. You dont deserve to be emotionally and verbally abused and made to feel worthless because of whatever. Dont tell someone they can leave, you leave! Dont waste another 10 years. ( I hope she sees this and my sisters who are in the same position, take heed).
i believe cheating is the worst abuse. he should have left her and took the kids. he doesnt deserve a wife like that. he is obviously a great father thats why she wants to stay so badly
@@TishaPisha They miss those parts because then when the same thing happens they would not feel they are cheating either. But if the woman has or could be they can deflect their guilt away on to her.
"That's why I'm here, to give you your proof", she says, after telling him for over a year that the baby probably isn't his. She's already decided that she's the only victim here.
Right! It was all about her! Even when the judge was having a moment with him cos she could see he was emotional talking bout when hes holding the baby, she pipes up and says, "oh but he keeps calling me names"....like please shut up 🙄 Shes a pick me
24 years old relationship for 10 years. Cheating go figure. You were too young for commitment. Go to school work travel find out who you are before you try to lock someone down. I wish them the best.
Yeah leave him it's best for both parties because he can never trust her going forward ha ha ha ha this is Soo easy to move on from unless the kids is his. 😱😱😱😱😱
He got some things aired out. She hurt him and hurt ppl hurt ppl. He had every right to question her and their situation, pain made him abusive and some of that pain has been removed
Not always you can be scared into silence I often was as a child and still shut down if yelled at can’t bring myself to say anything Im 25 I know your point but it’s not always the case
@@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 I hope you are healing. I'm 26 and shutting down is my coping. Fight or flight or freeze. A lot of people freeze I think more than we realize but it gets better.
And sadly she ate it up. She craves his approval but unfortunately he will never fully give it to her. She needs to leave if he won't, both for herself and thier children but I fear she doesn't have the self esteem to do so.
Jonathan Barronville They were separated when she slept with someone else, so she was free to do as she wished at that time just as he was. However even ignoring that there was absolutely no testimony given that she ‘repeatedly cheated’. Where she was wrong was not telling him right away once she went back to him and discovered she had gotten pregnant while they were separated that it may not be his, however she did tell him before the baby was ever born and he then chose to stay.
They both need to go their separate ways. Lies, cheating, arguing daily, emotional and verbal abuse,soon they're gonna mess up those kids mentality. Relationship is too toxic to raise kids around. There's no trust so the arguments are going to continue. I rest my case. Good day everyone!
@@denisebourne3770 Why are you turning this into a gender war? Just because she was the cheater this time, you try to find fault with him like it's a competition. Get over it!
"I'm woman enough to admit..." Please do NOT ask for extra credit for admitting you've been unfaithful. You need to be humble and ask forgiveness. But you have attitude!
I won’t agree i have been with my husband since i was 12 & had our first when i was 14 & we’ve been together for 23yrs married for 13 and have a beautiful granddaughter soooo EVERYONES outcome isn’t there’s mine is beautiful we’re college graduates and business owners, so love and blessed💗
You know what I tend to notice that in majority situations when the judge asks "if in fact; the child is proven to NOT BE your biological child do you still wanna maintain a relationship with them?" & they say that they'd rather not (for whatever reason) she tends to not really like their decision! As if she just expects every man to just stay & continue having a relationship with said child but not everyone wants to do that & they have that right! He's young & if it isn't his child he has every right to want to move on & hopefully build a family with someone else! I have been binge watching these videos & I've just come to noticed that. I could be wrong but that's just my observation 🤷🏽♀️
It's not horrible for everyone! I started a relationship at 14, got pregnant at 17, got married at 17 and had our 1st child at 18. It's not easy, you have to communicate, work together and be honest & faithful!! 24 years now we have 3 beautiful children together, 2 adopted and a grand baby. Living happy, healthy and lovingly♥️♥️
I know a kid that got his gf pregnant at 14. They stayed with their parents and each finished school. Before they graduated they had a second kid. When they became 18, they got married and have two more kids together. Think the guy is 23 or 24 now, but he's staying with his now wife and has always held a job to support his family. Not the best way to get started but even at that young age, they were both committed to the relationship and moving forward together as a family.
"If you don't wanna be with me just say it" ...Lil sis his verbal abuse and his actions in this courtroom have shown it. It's crystal clear and he hasn't shackled you to the bed has he? YOU are FREE to walk away. The power is in your hands not his. Chile please...
THANK YOU... He was insecure from JUMP, because she didn't tell him the exact number of Men that she had intimate encounters with. So, like the insecure, immature person that he is... He begin to try to verbally terrorize her and bring her down. So while they were separated she found solace with someone else.
She was still married and got pregnant, that is cheating. Marriage is not being boyfriend and girlfriend, there's no such thing as a break. You cannot bring an affair baby back to the marriage! She allowed another dude to shoot up the club raw!
I'm just glad I'm not really interested in having a relationship anymore. The drama and pain just seem to be a part of it almost 90 percent of the time and I can't deal with it.
When one parent constantly degrades the other, not only do the kids grow up feeling like they can't look up to that parent or they hold a lot of anger towards the abusing parent. Also, a kid may feel that if the parent is ' awful' then the kid may also have poor self esteem.
@@melaniesmith1022 "Seperated". Aka retroatively on a break. Also that does not mean she should pin the baby on him. She just says "oh the past". How convenient.
Definitely needs addressed. People saying in the comments that it was warranted because she "cheated". BUT she said he was doing it before. They weren't together when she slept with someone else so how is that cheating? His insecurities are probably why they were broken up to begin with.
Sir....having a father does not guarantee your children will not be promiscuiios nor make good decisions . It's character and self accountability. It doesn't negate what she did but don't put her down when you stayed and treated unsavory either. Are you being the type of man you would like your children to bring home or be with? Are you the man you want your son to emulate ?
I agree 100% regardless you have to be the man you want to be. That being said people are human. You can’t harm people emotionally mentally or physically and not expect a wound to be there. He should have taken sometime away from her and decided how he wanted to move forward. Staying in that house with all that hurt was like reopening that wound daily. Got to get yourself right before you can be the best parent you can be
Well, I think we should consider why the man feels this way. He's making the comments to her, because she's obviously hurting him with her cheating. Just telling a man to stop it or leave her and his children is an awful thing to say. Let's address how he's feeling. What can be done to alleviate his insecurity, anger and pain and him acting out on it.
This isn't just verbal abuse, this is pure manipulation. When she said "That's why I'm here, to give you your answers and your proof" and his response is, "...I'm starting to respect you a little bit more because of that." you can just tell she's trapped.
You don’t have to wait for a man to say he doesn’t want to be with you. If he’s not treating you right...LEAVE! I wish a man would talk down to me and I stay...child/ren or not. Only YOU can teach ppl how to treat YOU!
@@taurisshingler2868 oh no i agree with that but in regards to him still going to be verbally assaulting her and I'm sure it was happening before that even happened is why I said he was insecure
She is so brave and strong woman....with a four year old son...and the father have no trust..so painful...and not only hurting her but to her sons who needs love and care by a father... the father is so immature...to treat them like that...a selfish man who thinks only his feelings..
Get some help because your self esteem is taking a beating. Go to court, set up your child support, and keep your legs CLOSED while you work o you and raise your children.....make God first in your life. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
He says they are separated, she needs to make it permanent. Regardless of whether those kids are his he will never respect her and she will not be happy. Sister, you dont have to stay eith him just because he is the father. Go and find yourself. 10 year relationship, 3 kids. Youre only 24. You could live a long miserable life with him but when you get older you'll realise how short it really is and you missed out on happiness.
No, he needs to make it permanent. She's done nothing to earn respect other than what any other animal on the planet hasn't done. Bare young, that doesn't make her special.
100% agree. Abuse cannot be justified. What kinda men throws in your face the fact that you didn’t have a father and blah blah blah all while calling you out your name in front of your children. The whole relationship is toxic and unhealthy. I feel sorry for the kids because even with these results he isn’t going to change. And she didn’t necessarily cheat, he said so himself they were on a break.
Exactly Jalisa but she's grown accustomed to him after 10 years but seems woman enough to decide it's either he change or relate to the children only...I'm happy that she's demanding change if she stays with him
I was in a verbally abusive relationship. Some of the things he said to me about me cut deeper than any knife could. And threatening to leave constantly is equally as abusive. The only way out is to leave.
i dont think the father should disrespect the mother in front of the children especially the boy as it will have a negative effect i think...he will either grow up disrespecting his mum or disrespecting and hating his dad for how he treats her
@@stephenmattia480 I wouldn't bother calling him names. It's a waste of my time and energy. I would be done with him. But ESPECIALLY not talk that way in front of innocent children.
Well call me a narcissist. But if we are married or in a serious committed relationship and we separate and you're sleeping with someone else so fast. Were done. Relationship/marriage is over. There's no take backs. In that case. Especially if I hadn't cheated.
I like how this lady clearly admits she's a lying cheater and she gets all the sympathy. She's not a victim. She deserved what she got because obviously she is what he said she is.
Torron Brown No one said she did nothing wrong. The point is why stay and degrade her every day instead of leaving? The lady said he can still have a relationship with his kids without being in a relationship with her.
5 minutes in... u can tell he verbally abusive. He trying to to tear her down right there in court with his words. He big hurt that she was with another man. Men need to learn how to deal with they emotions🤦🏾♀️
Its funny you said that cause women is the ones that always bust out crying in court never the guy, so i think we handle our emotions pretty well, unlike yal..
@@chestnutbrown9340 Sadly I think her self esteem is low enough. He knows exactly what buttons to push (such as her not having a father in her life) to get her to do exactly what he wants her to.
faith thomas so men need to learn how to deal with there emotions but women don’t ? Why is everything bias . It’s simple they both wrong and have reason for doubts and trust
"Big hurt she was with another man" " men need to learn how to deal with they emotions" like do you hear yourself. I hope you or your children would never be in a situation like this
TishaPisha she slept with other people throughout and that’s y they are in court even when they were not separated, you’re the one who’s not listening obviously
@@odekalebamidele4668 sir, he stated he slept with someone else, as well. And he stated they were separated when she slept with whomever. What are you arguing?
If she constantly cheating and not using protection , Leave! If you know that you can get pregnant use protection. And why do these women cheat and once they get pregnant never go to the one they cheated with. They always run back to their husbands and long standing boyfriends. Why? Because they know that the other man just wanted a good time with them and nothing else.
Here's the thing: if you go back to someone after KNOWING they cheated on you, you can't keep throwing it in that persons face, because you chose to go back.
@@Michelle-yj1mp that's the reason why she's not ready to be committed to one man they could be called parents and she don't have to say the relationship she could move on with her life and so is he
No type of accusation can drive a person to commit Adultery/Cheat. Being honorable and doing what’s right means so much. You cheat and make a mockery of yourself, you can only hold yourself accountable. He should have left her for his own sake Long Ago.
@@iceill3425 they both cheated.. he admitted it too. She did when they were seperated. But yes, he needs to leave her because fo some reason she didn't leave him. No one should be on a relationship where they don't trust and abuse each other.
John Doe he might be but i jus feel like if that’s the case why would he not only stay with her but continue to have children with a woman who he wouldn’t want his daughters to be like? I think he’s trying to hurt her by saying that.
She may have cheated but he is no better. He's verbally abusive and he also cheated on her as well. Only an insecure and immature man is going to ask you how many men you've been with before him and really it's none of their business. Counseling would really benefit them even if they don't stay together.
Well, it's not disrespectful to her. It shows disrespect towards himself. He doesn't want someone treating his daughters like he treats their mom. That's the real thing.
The woman is the problem. She doesn't know what she wants. Does she want her kids to have a father? Or does she want a fatherly figure in her life her kids? Naturally each child has a father, that's easy. The problem which this court cannot create is the father of each child being FATHERLY. You don't stay with a man who is not fatherly to his children . It doesn't matter that he is the father 100%. He has to be fatherly. Being fatherly makes a man "THE FATHER" of your kids. It's a duty and responsibility that are taken with passion and a good heart. It is based on love and is far more than physical presence. The physically present father ensures that the environment is safe and clear for the physical, emotional and spiritual growth of his children. Mothers must understand the difference between a father without fatherly motives. You must as a mother protect your children from such a dangerous man. It is irresponsible for any parent to stay in a toxic relationship just because this is your children's father. What type of children are you bringing up?
@@juwongowild1699 This is about maturity and growth, and they are both running on empty. She is broken. He is toxic. She needs to leave and seek therapy for her children’s sake.
Abuse how by him saying u lied nd cheat i guess to lock him away huh cuz guess what she admitted to the court she did the reason she upset cuz she don't know y he acting like he didn't know before this day so explain being told while she is pregnant and not knowing including when she should had told the man too so he could also be there just in case right but the truth is she probably did he was like not mine than dipped or she could still be with him don't know right. I agree with the emotion of that man if ur man or woman cheated got pregnant nd lied u call them every name too nd maybe leave them
@@victorvictorious8692 I see. In your eyes men can do as they please with as many women as they want, but women can't be with more than one partner. Typical attitude of one of those men.
@Gregory KEROR Davis : How does making an obvious observation become an OBSESSION ? it's a fact that lots of people on these shows do look older than there ages shown on the screen.
I think she faking or gaslighting truly abused people don’t speak up all tears aren’t real is a technique to victimize the true abuser and to take what the victim is saying lightly or not at all and when she was telling him to leave I can tell she wanted him to stay she controlled the whole courtroom as soon as she played the victim
She was massively playing the victim role though. Only talkin about how the man name calls her. When they were talking about the man on how he felt having to doubt if that's even his kid everytime he looked at it and how heart breaking it was she instantly said something along the lines off ''But you don't need to name call me'' attention got of her for a second and she immediately tried to be the center of attention again that seems very selfish imo. Ofcourse he shouldn't name call n stuff but she shouldn't've cheated. The fact that he was doubtful was warranted. cuz she cheated on him.
"And when he tells you you ain't nuttin' don't believe him And if he can't learn to love you, you should leave him 'Cause sista you don't need him And I ain't tryin' to gas ya up, I just call 'em how I see 'em" -Tupac Keep ya Head Up girl 😉
And i dont understand how some women would pin a baby on u just to have a same baby daddy to be in the social right. I dont even undestand how some women use child support as a self income. Because of does facts and reality. Givng the motives in which women choose to have childreb for now in days. I would question paternity for a child that looks just like me🤷🏽♂️. Its a 21year baby mama drama. Its not even about the kid.
@@josegrullon024 I understand your point, but what this have anything to do with what was posted here, I'm too amaze how many father's said oh the baby is more light or more dark, o doesnt have my head shape, like they really believe that the only genes pass down are the father's, and not the father's, the mother's and some genes that are not dominant but you can have in your chromosomes that can be from the grandparents or even great grandparents 🤦. I'm biological my parents child, I have hypothyroidism, none of my siblings or parents or grandparents has or had it, but from my mother's side her grandpa had it (also his daughter my Great aunt) so the genes can pass only directly , this means that my grandfather didn't had the disease develop but had the gene, and he passed it to my mom who didn't develop the disease, and she passed on to me who unfortunately develop the disease,If I had had children I could have passed it to all or some of them, my sisters may or may not have the dormant gene, if they had it then, they can pass it onto their children or not. And that's it for every trait, hair, eyes ,skin color, they could also have a mix like my hazel father eyes (mix between brown from grandma and light green from grandfather). If you think a woman is trying to pin a baby on you, then you have the right to not sign anything and ask for a DNA test
@@tazylab6233 and I commend you for your well thought out point of view. Still does not save you from some women pinning the wrong child on you. How about mandatory test upon birth of any child born in America. Now using simple common sense. Why you think thats not a mandated law. Wouldn't that highlight America now. FYI of a survey done in 2018 from the census. 32% of children born in America are born to a father that is not biologically theirs. And this was a survey, meaning only counting ppl that participated. That 3 children out of every ten. Lets picture the true numbers if every parent took that survey. "I'll still get my dna test jusssst to make sure"
looks like black men don't want a baby that looks black. they always question the child's appearance. then stop having kids all over the neighborhood AND PAY UP.
Nah, baby can be the man's twin ain't no telling she isn't having the same type of man, don't want doubt stay away from other man hitting in without protection on the conception days
A man that ALSO cheated is in NO position whatsoever to be calling his woman names for cheating on him. He cheated on her too but apparently she aint calling him names cuz he never said "well she does it to me too." I'm not saying the woman is a victim, but the man aint either when it comes to the infidelities in their relationship.
When a man cheats he wont bring a baby into the home and live a lie till he "if"decides to come clean. The child is innocent but he/she represents the deceit and that is the burden of being a female.
Girl..leave that man alone. If he can't respect then you get gone. Life is too short to be with someone who hurts you. He is setting an example of how the son can treat women and you are showing it's ok to be treated that way.
she has to earn his respect. she doesnt deserve any respect from him. being a born female isnt a reason to get respect. she needs to grow up and be a woman
I think he’s an idiot. This relationship needs to be over. They need to focus on the kids. Some people are best apart and if they try they can be great parents separately. Together is just going to be toxic.
10 year relationship????? Who seriously dates at 14 and understand what the heck is going on??? Y’all can co-parent, y’all don’t have to be together. Y’all brains are not even fully developed as yet, smh🤦🏾♀️
I get the doubt part but you cheated too and y'all weren't together than that shouldn't matter... name calling is abuse also if you don't want her leave her alone...
I already set the ultimatum with my boyfriend.... 3 years into our relationship, we need to be discussing marriage (or possibly married) and if it looks dismal at 3 years we need rethink the relationship. Within the 4th year we should be planning our wedding (if it drags out that long) and by our 5th year (the most), we should be married. I'm not staying with a man for 10 years only to be his children's mother.
Me: I hate drama
Also me: Watches paternity court faithfully everyday.😅
Jai T same lol
Same and now I'm into Couples Court it's messier!! 😂😂😂
Alisha Glapion Lol I’ll probably start watching that soon to🤣
Same
Lol...
People need to realize that verbal abuse is very painful.
I was just thinking that. I will be by myself than be with someone like that.
Darrin Jefferson
I was asking myself , why lying ??
Why cheating ??
Yeah it is I can relate
@@darrinjefferson2803 LOL, you know these thots always have excuses for their behavior.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♂️
So Is Constantly Lying And Cheating Multiple Times. She Was More Upset With Him Keep Reminding Her Of How She Hurt Him But Didn’t Show Enough Remorse For Hurting Him In The First Place.
I never understand being with somebody for 10+ years, no ring and all you have to show for it is kids and paternity tests.
IKR
RaeThe Queen no wonder, it ends like that. If the man is not respecting the woman, he is with for 10 years and calls her all kinds of names, one day you will get, what you are calling for
I agree 100.
That's what i'm sayn. Plus, he talkn about walkn away. Smh! Regardless they still have kids so he'll be walking away from his kids
She is only 24 they have been together 10 years. She was 14 when they started dating. They would have had to be together 4 years before she was even legally able to marry.
His strategy is to Torment and Humiliate her while under the guise of I want to be in my daughter's life.
EXACTLY!!
She needs him out of her life.
I think he’s actually torn. He wants it to be his baby and snaps when he convinces himself it isn’t. Should she leave? Yes
Should he leave? Also yes
But she is a liar and a cheat, she just admitted that,t
Yep!!!!
She keeps saying "he don't need to stay with me!" But really SHE doesn't need to stay with HIM either if she's fed up of the name calling....!🤔🤔
dee jones thank you!!
they both should be single
Heeeere
Because she know she wrong as well as wants someone to still support her so she takes the 'abuse'
its his retaliation to her after he been cheated on. its verbal assault to make her feel the pain he suffered.
She needs to just co parent with him and nothing else.
idk if he's going to talk to her that way how would he treat his children? What would they hear/see in his house with a new gf/wife? He's abusive, I wouldn't want him around kids period.
Wait lol you mean he. He better off co parenting with her right? Isnt she the cheater. Fyi thats if you need a justification for the "verbal abuse" just cheat on any human being u will get verbal abuse.
I agree. The trust is gone!
Yep. She's not trustworthy. You can't build a solid foundation on shaky ground.
Agreed and sadly, the way he learned to deal with life's difficulties is abusive and the kiddos will learn from him.
If he’s this mean to her in public I knowwwwww she going through it at home. Smh
You know this
Yes, when you suppose to have a relationship with this woman you have to accept her w/all your heart not to hurt her verbally, physically & emotionally that's why she found another guy because maybe she thinks she's super tired
Right...some of what he said to her on the show was WILD. I can only imagine what he says to her when he thinks no one is listening. He's well within his rights to be mad about the cheating but he's handling the aftermath horribly. He's literally doing the damage to his daughters that he claims he's trying to prevent her from doing.
@@ma.jeanejalandoni8668 - stop justifying cheating.
Can u blame him he tried to stay for her but she doesn't make it any better they both should of gone to marital Council in
He is NEVER going to treat her with respect! The way he speaks to her...UGHHHH! HE IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL!
You think coming home preggers from another man is respect? You think trying to make him out to be the bad guy is respect? You think being there to rub in the kid that is not his needs his money, day in day out, is respect?
@@jamegumb7298 - Jame I think that if you are going to STAY in a relationship with someone who cheated, you have to move to the stage where you work on healing. If the man is angry and wants to work things out, he can't continually mistreat her. He has to either forgive her and move forward or let her go! If you are going to stay with a person who cheated and just treat the person horribly, you might as well let the relationship go because you are only going to make yourself and the person you are with miserable. This is one of the key reasons why it is so hard to forgive a cheater and stay with them. You become evil and vindictive and want to make them pay for what they did over and over. It is often easier to walk away than it is to stay and forgive. SHE did wrong, but trying to stay with her and mistreating her isn't the right thing to do!
@@crazifyit This only applies if the cheater is a woman, it' is fully acceptable in our society to try to ruin a man for hurtuing your feelings, she didn't forgive him for cheating, then she kept cheating and somehow it's all on him because she is the one up there crying, He should have gotten the test sooner, and possibly things would be better but the fact is this women isn't trust worthy, You can say the same for him, and if you don't think she brings up whatever he did constant and often, then you have never dated a woman , they never let anything go, and I mean never.
And it's extremely respectful to cuckold your SO and lie to his face; it shows real character!
@@onewayfarer53 - Marcus, I don't think it was respectful to lie to his face. However, if you make the decision to take someone back INSTEAD of just leaving, then you can't abuse them! She cheated, which was wrong, but he decided to try to make the relationship work. You can't do that if you are abusing the person you are with! She was wrong, for sure, but he is now wrong for how he abuses her. Two wrongs don't make a right!
They shouldn't be together. Their relationship is obviously unhealthy and the kids don't need to witness any of that.
You’re so fine😍
@Anthony Mozon no, he can't that's why he's there
Finally an unbiased opinion... Thank You Geraahh... Yooooooou. Tha. Real. MVP!!!
Geraahh there young and they doing to much there only together cuz of the kids.
She got her self esteem up and has a beautiful family with a new man
10-year Relationship with this man and they both are only 24? Ummm, 14 years old and they were sexually active? Where were the parents? Three Kids and not married? Help us, Lord!
You're correct. Who set the example for these young people playing house?
Plus she was about 5 to 10 bodies in, if not more Remember ladies lie lol😂😂😂😂
They have 3 kids. He's not doubting the oldest.
NtheNow I know this isn't the first time you heard of this
@@sensual2kizz613 , No and that is why the Black Community is overwhelmed with women raising a no good man's children. Women are excepting kids before marriage which is out of order. Marriage, bond, then plan for Children.
Sis, it's ok to leave. Co parent. You dont deserve to be emotionally and verbally abused and made to feel worthless because of whatever. Dont tell someone they can leave, you leave! Dont waste another 10 years. ( I hope she sees this and my sisters who are in the same position, take heed).
Truth. Ain't nobody ever got an excuse to treat anybody that way. Male or female.
Exactly. I don't what she has or hasn't done, he has no right to talk to her that way.
i believe cheating is the worst abuse. he should have left her and took the kids. he doesnt deserve a wife like that. he is obviously a great father thats why she wants to stay so badly
@@lordtimothy2002 again, they both slept with other people during their separation. Did you watch the video? How'd you miss all this key information?
@@TishaPisha They miss those parts because then when the same thing happens they would not feel they are cheating either. But if the woman has or could be they can deflect their guilt away on to her.
"That's why I'm here, to give you your proof", she says, after telling him for over a year that the baby probably isn't his. She's already decided that she's the only victim here.
She is nothing but a wicked woman
I agree
I agree
Right! It was all about her! Even when the judge was having a moment with him cos she could see he was emotional talking bout when hes holding the baby, she pipes up and says, "oh but he keeps calling me names"....like please shut up 🙄 Shes a pick me
Why cant she move away also if she is being verbally abused, she should stand by herself
24 years old relationship for 10 years. Cheating go figure. You were too young for commitment. Go to school work travel find out who you are before you try to lock someone down. I wish them the best.
Right...what 14 year old is in a "relationship"....lol...that doesn't even sound right.
How do you cheat when your not going with someone?
Based on their older child, she was still a young teen when she got pregnant.
prettybrowngirl71 they grown now they can commit to each other they got children together
Cheese AKA Multi she probably was taught right every body got they own mine especially these young grown up
He is not going to stop verbally abusing her she needs to leave him and be happy.
The nerve of him to be name calling lookin like a sloth in the face.
Well and shes not going to stop cheating so he should leave her
He has no right to be verbally abusive, especially in front of kids. She should walk away from him no matter what.
@@UlikeTammy EXACTLY
Yeah leave him it's best for both parties because he can never trust her going forward ha ha ha ha this is Soo easy to move on from unless the kids is his. 😱😱😱😱😱
He's not going to stop being abusive to her,you can just tell.
I can see this escalating and then him going for sole custody.
Why not.?
He got some things aired out. She hurt him and hurt ppl hurt ppl.
He had every right to question her and their situation, pain made him abusive and some of that pain has been removed
She should stop cheating smh
Cheating women are statistically more likely to cheat again and again. She's abusive by cheating.
He's still going to find away of continually abusing her. Get out now girl...
he doesn't seem like he is willing to stop the verbal abuse. I think he likes the control he has over her. I wish them best.
She doesn't seem like she's willing to stop what she's doing
Confidence is silent. Insecurities are LOUD.
PREACH!
Not always you can be scared into silence I often was as a child and still shut down if yelled at can’t bring myself to say anything Im 25 I know your point but it’s not always the case
Bekah Wolken May I use this saying!!
@@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 I hope you are healing. I'm 26 and shutting down is my coping. Fight or flight or freeze. A lot of people freeze I think more than we realize but it gets better.
Amen very wise words
She cheated and he could've left. His emotional and verbal abuse isn't okay in any way, shape or form.
And so what. She didn't care if she hurt him or not. He was the one who was emotionally abused not her because constant infidelity.
If men cheat and women become verbally ABUSIVE and overly protective it ok tho
Do u people listen to testimony....he was verbally abusive before she cheated. Listen! Read comments after the show.
He said they were separated so how did she cheat?
@@thomasb577 No one said that. We're talking about this man being abusive to this woman.
You can tell he is probably more than just emotionally abusive
"I'm starting to respect you a little more bc of this"
........so cringey and disrespectful!😬🙄
I peeped that too👀👀👀
And then the audience started clapping 🙄
And sadly she ate it up. She craves his approval but unfortunately he will never fully give it to her. She needs to leave if he won't, both for herself and thier children but I fear she doesn't have the self esteem to do so.
he is a good man for respecting "that" at all. she is not worth his respect
Jonathan Barronville They were separated when she slept with someone else, so she was free to do as she wished at that time just as he was. However even ignoring that there was absolutely no testimony given that she ‘repeatedly cheated’. Where she was wrong was not telling him right away once she went back to him and discovered she had gotten pregnant while they were separated that it may not be his, however she did tell him before the baby was ever born and he then chose to stay.
They both need to go their separate ways. Lies, cheating, arguing daily, emotional and verbal abuse,soon they're gonna mess up those kids mentality. Relationship is too toxic to raise kids around. There's no trust so the arguments are going to continue. I rest my case. Good day everyone!
I AGREE Good Day
No she needs to stop cheating and I think they'll be ok. We got too many single parent households.
@@inquizative44 She said that he's been calling her names for the whole 10 years. He's also to blame here!
He needs to grow up...he aint perfect neither....
@@denisebourne3770 Why are you turning this into a gender war? Just because she was the cheater this time, you try to find fault with him like it's a competition. Get over it!
Better to be from a toxic home than in one. Homegirl should leave. ✌🏾
I love this so much!
💯💯💯💯💯
Especially when you're the cause of it, like her.
I agree she should leave...you can’t turn hoe into a house wife!!
yes. he should not turn a ho to a wife
"I'm woman enough to admit..." Please do NOT ask for extra credit for admitting you've been unfaithful. You need to be humble and ask forgiveness. But you have attitude!
Facts!!!
Right. She blames him for calling her a cheater, when she cheated.
She has attitude because HE verbally abuses her!
Calvin Coats calling someone cheater is one thing and name calling is another. He can just move on
She’s not playing victim she is owning up and trying to change if he decided to be with her HE HAS TO FORGIVE
This couple is Exhibit A: Starting an adult relationship when you are 14 is a HORRIBLE idea
I won’t agree i have been with my husband since i was 12 & had our first when i was 14 & we’ve been together for 23yrs married for 13 and have a beautiful granddaughter soooo EVERYONES outcome isn’t there’s mine is beautiful we’re college graduates and business owners, so love and blessed💗
You know what I tend to notice that in majority situations when the judge asks "if in fact; the child is proven to NOT BE your biological child do you still wanna maintain a relationship with them?" & they say that they'd rather not (for whatever reason) she tends to not really like their decision! As if she just expects every man to just stay & continue having a relationship with said child but not everyone wants to do that & they have that right! He's young & if it isn't his child he has every right to want to move on & hopefully build a family with someone else! I have been binge watching these videos & I've just come to noticed that. I could be wrong but that's just my observation 🤷🏽♀️
It's not horrible for everyone! I started a relationship at 14, got pregnant at 17, got married at 17 and had our 1st child at 18. It's not easy, you have to communicate, work together and be honest & faithful!! 24 years now we have 3 beautiful children together, 2 adopted and a grand baby. Living happy, healthy and lovingly♥️♥️
I know a kid that got his gf pregnant at 14. They stayed with their parents and each finished school. Before they graduated they had a second kid. When they became 18, they got married and have two more kids together. Think the guy is 23 or 24 now, but he's staying with his now wife and has always held a job to support his family. Not the best way to get started but even at that young age, they were both committed to the relationship and moving forward together as a family.
Agreed!!
“Is that your doubt expression?” Judge got jokes 🤣 🤣 😭
😂😂😂😂
Rrrriiiiiiggggghhhhttttttt 🤣🤣
Right 😂 I love her!!
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She said it, right when I read your comment.
Girl leave him, he doesn't have to leave you. His verbal abuse is outrageous
I agree! He will continue to bring up her past.
They are still young and can make it work.
@@JoseLopez-wo7so no effin way should they make it work. He is too abusive
Women
he has every right to be abusive when some one is abusing his trust .
She so miserable in that relationship! You can tell she has very low self esteem. You can’t love nobody without first love urself.
"If you don't wanna be with me just say it" ...Lil sis his verbal abuse and his actions in this courtroom have shown it. It's crystal clear and he hasn't shackled you to the bed has he? YOU are FREE to walk away. The power is in your hands not his. Chile please...
That should tell you something. She thinks she need him..
Weak willed...
Low self esteem. Keeps her in that relationship. Sad.😏😏😏
So if one kid isn't his, he's abandoning the two that ARE his? What sense does that make?
Exactly
Make that make sense to me.
It makes good sense. Because If he isn't the father of the 1 than he must not be father of 2
I think he'd leave her and not desert his kids.
rick mckinnon That’s what I thought he meant too.
It makes good sense. Because If he isn't the father of the 1 than he must not be father of 2
Its seems to me like nobody listens... The guy was a cheater also... And they were separated so how is this consider cheating???
They were separated.... did he remain celibate while they separated?
THANK YOU...
He was insecure from JUMP, because she didn't tell him the exact number of Men that she had intimate encounters with.
So, like the insecure, immature person that he is...
He begin to try to verbally terrorize her and bring her down.
So while they were separated she found solace with someone else.
Im baffled too
Thats exactly what the heck I’m saying!!! They were separated!!!!
She was still married and got pregnant, that is cheating. Marriage is not being boyfriend and girlfriend, there's no such thing as a break. You cannot bring an affair baby back to the marriage! She allowed another dude to shoot up the club raw!
I'm just glad I'm not really interested in having a relationship anymore. The drama and pain just seem to be a part of it almost 90 percent of the time and I can't deal with it.
When a woman cheat n the man stay, she is dealing with a scorned man who will never forget how they were cheated on
She was separated.
Melanie Smith - that does not matter she got impregnated and trying to stick it on him. That creates doubt and unfair expectations from the man.
woman do the same, and when that happens it’s always well you have to give her time - same for the men as well why not!
When one parent constantly degrades the other, not only do the kids grow up feeling like they can't look up to that parent or they hold a lot of anger towards the abusing parent. Also, a kid may feel that if the parent is ' awful' then the kid may also have poor self esteem.
@@melaniesmith1022 "Seperated". Aka retroatively on a break.
Also that does not mean she should pin the baby on him. She just says "oh the past". How convenient.
So we are just skirting over the fact he is emotionally and verbally abusive to this woman
Talkindurinthemovie I’m not!!! I came out of a verbally and physically abusive relationship!!! It ain’t never okay!!!
I'm not, before I watched the episode I commented to her to leave, run don't walk
I bet he puts his hands on her.
Definitely needs addressed. People saying in the comments that it was warranted because she "cheated". BUT she said he was doing it before. They weren't together when she slept with someone else so how is that cheating? His insecurities are probably why they were broken up to begin with.
my ex was the same way
Sir....having a father does not guarantee your children will not be promiscuiios nor make good decisions . It's character and self accountability. It doesn't negate what she did but don't put her down when you stayed and treated unsavory either. Are you being the type of man you would like your children to bring home or be with? Are you the man you want your son to emulate ?
PREACHHHH!
Say it louder for the people in the back!!
@@faiththomas9533 Hey family :-)
I agree 100% regardless you have to be the man you want to be. That being said people are human. You can’t harm people emotionally mentally or physically and not expect a wound to be there. He should have taken sometime away from her and decided how he wanted to move forward. Staying in that house with all that hurt was like reopening that wound daily. Got to get yourself right before you can be the best parent you can be
Well, I think we should consider why the man feels this way. He's making the comments to her, because she's obviously hurting him with her cheating. Just telling a man to stop it or leave her and his children is an awful thing to say. Let's address how he's feeling. What can be done to alleviate his insecurity, anger and pain and him acting out on it.
This isn't just verbal abuse, this is pure manipulation. When she said "That's why I'm here, to give you your answers and your proof" and his response is, "...I'm starting to respect you a little bit more because of that." you can just tell she's trapped.
This is so sad...This woman seems so broken...And the man seems so cold...
how he seem cold when she cheated ...? women love sticking up for other cheating women smh
When a women let's a another man in her, coldness comes from a man that actually cares
Woman is broken, yes, but look at the bigger picture cheating and deception will always lead to an abusive relationship. That is a sad fact.
She's broken.
Sadder. Why? Because that's all she knows like most battered women.
However, she obviously invited some of the bs.
Mugu ..
@@omgitsdev4568 2:22 He's a cheat as well ...
You don’t have to wait for a man to say he doesn’t want to be with you. If he’s not treating you right...LEAVE! I wish a man would talk down to me and I stay...child/ren or not. Only YOU can teach ppl how to treat YOU!
@Sassy Cappie she didn’t treat him right by cheating
@Sassy Cappie Umm, Hello..... 🙌🏼 PREACH!!!!!! I say this all the time!
Sassy Cappie 🗣FACTS! Honestly, it’s usually mental imprisonment that keeps folks in these situations
Preach. It kills me when women feel like they have to take that abuse and be raising their children in that toxic environment.
Say that sis
He is mean. It doesn't matter what she does at this point, he's still going to be verbally abusive.
Hes a very insecure man
@@sissiebarthelemy5338 He's not insecure if he's right. She cheated. He's right about her being a cheated and liar
@@taurisshingler2868 but he is too soo 💁💁
@@taurisshingler2868 oh no i agree with that but in regards to him still going to be verbally assaulting her and I'm sure it was happening before that even happened is why I said he was insecure
Sophia Bentley she can leave/co parent as well. Simple.
She is so brave and strong woman....with a four year old son...and the father have no trust..so painful...and not only hurting her but to her sons who needs love and care by a father... the father is so immature...to treat them like that...a selfish man who thinks only his feelings..
She's pretty and he feels inadequate. His insecurities would've been chased me away ✌
Her fatness would’ve chased me away
She cheated though. He is feeling that way because she cheated.
Pretty is overated and doesn't give anyone a pass. Most women are pretty, and.......
@@MrEmman12 so wrong! 😂
@@MrEmman12
Hold uppp wait a MINUTE✋🧐
Isn't that *you* in your profile picture??!!
10 years,3 kids and NO MARRIAGE 🤦🏾♀️
Just a piece of paper for most people.
Right!!!!!!!!!!! I will never understand that
Just terrible!
They aren't married but they're together! He's in his kids life not running from responsibility. Most marriage ends in divorce nowadays anyway.
It’s a cultural thing
Girl let me tell you something RUN.
He needs to be the one to run
Didn’t see already run to another man that’s where the issue comes from don’t be bias
Get some help because your self esteem is taking a beating. Go to court, set up your child support, and keep your legs CLOSED while you
work o you and raise your children.....make God first in your life. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
Listen 🗣️ He would have to go. This will turn domestic real quick.
it's trippy how the concept of "honesty" has changed over the years.
So everyone missed it when he admitted to cheating too. They both wrong
Caught it, they always seem to gloss that over. They both were doing the tango.
Same thing i said...he is not a saint...but he is pouring on the blame on her
He didn't get pregnant tho
Chile its ok/different for men.
@@trilltaylor he got his side hoes THO
He says they are separated, she needs to make it permanent. Regardless of whether those kids are his he will never respect her and she will not be happy.
Sister, you dont have to stay eith him just because he is the father. Go and find yourself. 10 year relationship, 3 kids. Youre only 24.
You could live a long miserable life with him but when you get older you'll realise how short it really is and you missed out on happiness.
No, he needs to make it permanent. She's done nothing to earn respect other than what any other animal on the planet hasn't done. Bare young, that doesn't make her special.
An overweight woman with 3 kids? Yea they’ll be lining up to be with her
so she leaves then cheat on the next man and he laughs. We will love to see that
Young lady be happy. Don’t be abused
Abuse cannot be justified....besides she got involved in a serious relationship @ 14 didn't take time to discover herself sad....
calling her a cheater and a liar is not verbal abuse, thats just what she is.
Females are something else. 😒
So how is cheating justified? i believe cheated is much worse then him calling her a cheater and a liar. BECAUSE ITS THE TRUTH!!
100% agree. Abuse cannot be justified. What kinda men throws in your face the fact that you didn’t have a father and blah blah blah all while calling you out your name in front of your children. The whole relationship is toxic and unhealthy. I feel sorry for the kids because even with these results he isn’t going to change. And she didn’t necessarily cheat, he said so himself they were on a break.
Exactly Jalisa but she's grown accustomed to him after 10 years but seems woman enough to decide it's either he change or relate to the children only...I'm happy that she's demanding change if she stays with him
I was in a verbally abusive relationship. Some of the things he said to me about me cut deeper than any knife could. And threatening to leave constantly is equally as abusive. The only way out is to leave.
Even if she cheated he shouldn't call her bad names in front of the kids. That's just wrong. The kids don't need to hear that.
Maybe he does. If a man cheats you would call him names right? Yes or No?
Maybe he does. If a man cheats you would call him names right? Yes or No?
i dont think the father should disrespect the mother in front of the children especially the boy as it will have a negative effect i think...he will either grow up disrespecting his mum or disrespecting and hating his dad for how he treats her
@@stephenmattia480 I wouldn't bother calling him names. It's a waste of my time and energy. I would be done with him. But ESPECIALLY not talk that way in front of innocent children.
@@stephenmattia480 Not in front of the kids.
*Does anyone else "fast forward" to the results?*
Sometimes. When it's a bunch of screaming or name calling I do.
OMG I just did..I can't stand this guy
Sumika Brown haha - I usually always do!😂
All the time.
Always 😂
That man is a narcissist, didn’t she say they were separated when she was seeing that man and didn’t he admit he cheated ?
That man is cray cray
No. Just smoldering anger.
LOL. It wasn't the first time. She hints at that part while he didn't really focus on it. 'her past'
Well call me a narcissist. But if we are married or in a serious committed relationship and we separate and you're sleeping with someone else so fast. Were done. Relationship/marriage is over. There's no take backs. In that case. Especially if I hadn't cheated.
Thekeyman1 me too
nicole hallatt facts why he wasting ppl time 🤦🏿♂️😂😂
I like how this lady clearly admits she's a lying cheater and she gets all the sympathy. She's not a victim. She deserved what she got because obviously she is what he said she is.
Well. he was at least a cheater and an abusive boyfriend and father. That hurts the kids as badly as being hit 🥺
@@spongemonkeysooz No one said anything about abuse, fall back.
@@bobsburgers1556 At least verbal abuse. Even if it's not aimed at the kids it hurts them. It makes for a toxic environment.
THANK YOU BOBS BURGER!!!
AS SOON AS A WOMAN CRIES...EVERYBODY HAS SYMPATHY! NOT I!!!!
@@spongemonkeysooz WAIT A MINUTE SPONGE MONKEY! THE VERBAL ABUSE IS THE LYING!! LETS GET THAT CORRECT!!
He's been verbally abusive for a long time I can tell. Been there done that.
Torron Brown No one said she did nothing wrong. The point is why stay and degrade her every day instead of leaving? The lady said he can still have a relationship with his kids without being in a relationship with her.
Girl...me too! It is so hurtful & will send you down a dark path.
5 minutes in... u can tell he verbally abusive. He trying to to tear her down right there in court with his words. He big hurt that she was with another man. Men need to learn how to deal with they emotions🤦🏾♀️
If her self esteem is low enough he'll be able to keep her under his thumb. Been there done that.
Its funny you said that cause women is the ones that always bust out crying in court never the guy, so i think we handle our emotions pretty well, unlike yal..
@@chestnutbrown9340 Sadly I think her self esteem is low enough. He knows exactly what buttons to push (such as her not having a father in her life) to get her to do exactly what he wants her to.
faith thomas so men need to learn how to deal with there emotions but women don’t ? Why is everything bias . It’s simple they both wrong and have reason for doubts and trust
"Big hurt she was with another man" " men need to learn how to deal with they emotions" like do you hear yourself. I hope you or your children would never be in a situation like this
I think he has verbally and emotional abused her. I hope she find the self esteem and strength to leave him.
he deserves better than a cheater. this woman is sick
@@lordtimothy2002 they were separated and he also slept with someone. Calm down
TishaPisha she slept with other people throughout and that’s y they are in court even when they were not separated, you’re the one who’s not listening obviously
@@odekalebamidele4668 sir, he stated he slept with someone else, as well. And he stated they were separated when she slept with whomever. What are you arguing?
I agree. I can't believe the judge allowed him to speak to her that way in her presence. I feel some type of way now 🙄
If he's verbally abusive, LEAVE
If she constantly cheating and not using protection , Leave! If you know that you can get pregnant use protection. And why do these women cheat and once they get pregnant never go to the one they cheated with. They always run back to their husbands and long standing boyfriends. Why? Because they know that the other man just wanted a good time with them and nothing else.
If she's cheated on you, LEAVE
If " They" are verbally abusive
It has No gender. Despite you characterization as such
“I’m already starting to respect you a little bit more”.....that was hard to listen to because it was savage
Here's the thing: if you go back to someone after KNOWING they cheated on you, you can't keep throwing it in that persons face, because you chose to go back.
Why not? He said he stayed so the girls wouldn't grow up to be like the mom; that seems to be a pretty valid point to me.
@@onewayfarer53 then he shouldn't of come back.
EXACTLY! Leave her be.
@@mmadhi Child, please. 😂
Technically she didn’t cheat on him they were not together. I would leave him. Verbal abuse is worse than physical
There's no respect in this relationship, I feel they dont even like each other..time to count their loses and wave bye bye.
AMEN! I didn't know you watched this? LOL 😉
He stays because he gets off abusing her ..wth
No he is there because he doesn't want to be on child support
Girl, get some self-esteem and leave this man. You can co parent.
She is getting all the self esteem she needs from her boyfriends.
I pray this young lady learn to love herself!
Very sensible thing to say.
If she doesn't she will stay with him or continue to draw men just like him who will treat her like he treats her.
@@Michelle-yj1mp that's the reason why she's not ready to be committed to one man they could be called parents and she don't have to say the relationship she could move on with her life and so is he
I pray she learns to love her husband!
no just develope self respect.
She needs to leave him. This is a toxic, abusive, unhealthy union.
HE needs to leave HER!!!!!!!
No type of accusation can drive a person to commit Adultery/Cheat. Being honorable and doing what’s right means so much. You cheat and make a mockery of yourself, you can only hold yourself accountable. He should have left her for his own sake Long Ago.
@@sengcau4795 a good woman who cheated multiple times without protection. Gtfoh 🤡🤣
Exactly
@@iceill3425 they both cheated.. he admitted it too. She did when they were seperated. But yes, he needs to leave her because fo some reason she didn't leave him. No one should be on a relationship where they don't trust and abuse each other.
Judge Lake your common sense, compassion and eloquence are very much admired. Prayers that this couple will work it out.
🤭🤭 “you think I want them girls to grow up like you” I hope she doesn’t stay with him
He's right in a sense
John Doe he might be but i jus feel like if that’s the case why would he not only stay with her but continue to have children with a woman who he wouldn’t want his daughters to be like? I think he’s trying to hurt her by saying that.
she should of keep her foot close it is 10 yrs not 10 days
@Enrico Hall ignorant
@Enrico Hall you are so ignorant shut up
The little boy is super handsome
She may have cheated but he is no better. He's verbally abusive and he also cheated on her as well. Only an insecure and immature man is going to ask you how many men you've been with before him and really it's none of their business. Counseling would really benefit them even if they don't stay together.
Hopefully they don't stay together. It is a relationship worth saving. Learn to co-parent and grow up. Then find a healthy relationship.
But weren’t they separated !!!
He also slept with someone when they were depressed so he’s abuse is extra unwarranted
That could had been when they got back for one bd everyone ask that if u never asked or was asked they don't care hunny
Enrico Hall clearly neither did hers since he is the father
Who can BREATHE with that man!!!!!
He’s abusing her in front of judge! Judge should stop him!
How?
How ... she is what he said she is.
He's telling the truth, she's sleeping around.
She let things go sometimes to see the full picture so she can help
@@bigg6267 i agree
He is so disrespectful towards her saying he doesn't want his daughters to become like her.
Well, it's not disrespectful to her. It shows disrespect towards himself. He doesn't want someone treating his daughters like he treats their mom. That's the real thing.
Jamell Foster he doesn’t want his kids to be sleeping around with different men
Jamell Foster who wants a cheating women to take after her ? What is ur problemZz
He spoke straight
@@eyezbaby1 you know how it is .. birds of a feather flock together ...
they will make excuses for each other
He didn't want the kids to grow up without a father as the wife did, He clarified that almost immediately, but she was talking over him.
I hope she left him because he's not going to change and the verbal abuse will continue. Simple as that!!!
She needs to move on. Is not his decision whether he stays or he leaves. Is either change towards me or go. No abuse should be tolerated by anyone.
He WILL find something else to dogg her out about because thats WHO HE IS.
She can and should do better.
👏👏👏 Exactly!
She a how. Stop defending her.
@@funmiodus true
mitchell douglass
Your the NO# 1 ILLITERATE PERSON OF 2019👐👐👐😂😂😂!!!!!
@@andrewnehemiah3467 typo
Run lady run. This man is toxic. Take it from a survivor. He ain't no good daddy. Tell him judge.
latrece yes, Gawd! Run lady run!!!!
Dont run until they try to work this out
The woman is the problem. She doesn't know what she wants. Does she want her kids to have a father? Or does she want a fatherly figure in her life her kids? Naturally each child has a father, that's easy. The problem which this court cannot create is the father of each child being FATHERLY. You don't stay with a man who is not fatherly to his children . It doesn't matter that he is the father 100%. He has to be fatherly. Being fatherly makes a man "THE FATHER" of your kids. It's a duty and responsibility that are taken with passion and a good heart. It is based on love and is far more than physical presence. The physically present father ensures that the environment is safe and clear for the physical, emotional and spiritual growth of his children. Mothers must understand the difference between a father without fatherly motives. You must as a mother protect your children from such a dangerous man. It is irresponsible for any parent to stay in a toxic relationship just because this is your children's father. What type of children are you bringing up?
She cheated and all of a sudden its the man fault, hope you don't teach your daughter stuffs like this
@@juwongowild1699 This is about maturity and growth, and they are both running on empty. She is broken. He is toxic. She needs to leave and seek therapy for her children’s sake.
This woman is being abused by that man. She needs help!
Miriam Quintanilla she keep repeating it to it’s like a cry for help
She cheated uall6people need to,👀
She doesn't need help, she needs to keep her legs closed and learn how to use Birth control
Abuse how by him saying u lied nd cheat i guess to lock him away huh cuz guess what she admitted to the court she did the reason she upset cuz she don't know y he acting like he didn't know before this day so explain being told while she is pregnant and not knowing including when she should had told the man too so he could also be there just in case right but the truth is she probably did he was like not mine than dipped or she could still be with him don't know right. I agree with the emotion of that man if ur man or woman cheated got pregnant nd lied u call them every name too nd maybe leave them
@@victorvictorious8692 I see. In your eyes men can do as they please with as many women as they want, but women can't be with more than one partner. Typical attitude of one of those men.
I went to high school with that lady smh, small world, sucks to see people going through this, but we gotta make wise choices across the board
This guys emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse.
You are correct
@Enrico Hall no I don't if he was being abused they wouldn't be in court
In fact emotional abuse is more damaging
He definitely need to Stop the abuse, put God first and marry her and take care of your children.
@@mariebrunson9078 put an imaginary being before family and friends? Seems reasonable lol
Sometimes, the ages of this people seems not right in eyes.
They looks older than their ages.🤔🤔🤔🤔
Living a hard life in the streets and HD tell it all.
Add 10 years then i could understand the 10 year relationship
24yrs but married 10 yrs hmmmmm
@Gregory KEROR Davis : How does making an obvious observation become an OBSESSION ? it's a fact that lots of people on these shows do look older than there ages shown on the screen.
Ages you having babies and all the nonsense that comes along with it when your still a 🚼 yourself
That baby is BEAUTIFUL 🥰
Both kids are.
She laid down with the enemy. Because of the kids, she can't just totally cut that devil completely off. My God🤭🤭🤭
You can tell she’s suffering badly in this relationship
I think she faking or gaslighting truly abused people don’t speak up all tears aren’t real is a technique to victimize the true abuser and to take what the victim is saying lightly or not at all and when she was telling him to leave I can tell she wanted him to stay she controlled the whole courtroom as soon as she played the victim
She was massively playing the victim role though. Only talkin about how the man name calls her. When they were talking about the man on how he felt having to doubt if that's even his kid everytime he looked at it and how heart breaking it was she instantly said something along the lines off ''But you don't need to name call me'' attention got of her for a second and she immediately tried to be the center of attention again that seems very selfish imo. Ofcourse he shouldn't name call n stuff but she shouldn't've cheated. The fact that he was doubtful was warranted. cuz she cheated on him.
Bergelyne Auguste how is she suffering when she is going about banging other dudes ???
Well she is a cheater
She plays the victim role well. But then he should have left her alone if didn’t trust her.
"Is that your doubt expression?"
I'm dead 💀😂😂 watch out Judge Lake is full of sass today
"And when he tells you you ain't nuttin' don't believe him
And if he can't learn to love you, you should leave him
'Cause sista you don't need him
And I ain't tryin' to gas ya up, I just call 'em how I see 'em" -Tupac Keep ya Head Up girl 😉
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Make me a sandwich
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You must be Single huh??!!!!😉
Yassssssss hunty
Abusing this woman has driven her to do what she did. I am a man and i hate men who constantly make their women cry
She looks like Pam Grier. She's very pretty.
Yes she is very pretty
She is!
Agreed
she really is
She is beautiful; she's not Pam Grier though!
She needs to pack her stuff and leave. He makes me nervous for her. I understand emotions but he has me on edge.
nope he need to pack his stuff and leave.
I need her to work on her self confidence. She has spoken about his verbal abuse this whole case.
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 somebody needs to leave this is a toxic relationship
Yes he is scary
@@avrilbbrown8594 yes he is!
I'll never truly understand how no man on this show accepts the fact that children get genes from BOTH of their parents.
And i dont understand how some women would pin a baby on u just to have a same baby daddy to be in the social right. I dont even undestand how some women use child support as a self income. Because of does facts and reality. Givng the motives in which women choose to have childreb for now in days. I would question paternity for a child that looks just like me🤷🏽♂️. Its a 21year baby mama drama. Its not even about the kid.
@@josegrullon024 I understand your point, but what this have anything to do with what was posted here, I'm too amaze how many father's said oh the baby is more light or more dark, o doesnt have my head shape, like they really believe that the only genes pass down are the father's, and not the father's, the mother's and some genes that are not dominant but you can have in your chromosomes that can be from the grandparents or even great grandparents 🤦. I'm biological my parents child, I have hypothyroidism, none of my siblings or parents or grandparents has or had it, but from my mother's side her grandpa had it (also his daughter my Great aunt) so the genes can pass only directly , this means that my grandfather didn't had the disease develop but had the gene, and he passed it to my mom who didn't develop the disease, and she passed on to me who unfortunately develop the disease,If I had had children I could have passed it to all or some of them, my sisters may or may not have the dormant gene, if they had it then, they can pass it onto their children or not. And that's it for every trait, hair, eyes ,skin color, they could also have a mix like my hazel father eyes (mix between brown from grandma and light green from grandfather).
If you think a woman is trying to pin a baby on you, then you have the right to not sign anything and ask for a DNA test
@@tazylab6233 and I commend you for your well thought out point of view. Still does not save you from some women pinning the wrong child on you. How about mandatory test upon birth of any child born in America. Now using simple common sense. Why you think thats not a mandated law. Wouldn't that highlight America now. FYI of a survey done in 2018 from the census. 32% of children born in America are born to a father that is not biologically theirs. And this was a survey, meaning only counting ppl that participated. That 3 children out of every ten. Lets picture the true numbers if every parent took that survey. "I'll still get my dna test jusssst to make sure"
looks like black men don't want a baby that looks black. they always question the child's appearance. then stop having kids all over the neighborhood AND PAY UP.
Nah, baby can be the man's twin ain't no telling she isn't having the same type of man, don't want doubt stay away from other man hitting in without protection on the conception days
It's not just verbal it's cruel torment it's mental abuse
I wouldn't be worried about being with him. His character should be enough to distance herself and just co parent.
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM? GIRL RUN. HE'S BLAMING HER FOR HIM CALLING HER NAMES
@Valeeda Davidson but she cheated though😂 y’all women stick together huh😂
Who else here THE DAY this video came out 🗣
It's been up an hour and 344 comments already. Yeah, we're obsessed.
Busy Yogurt it’s almost to 500 now 😩
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He would have to go. Too stressful.
I just love how REAL she is
Cuz period I said the same thing
Yes, isn't it admirable to be a cheater and a liar and be proud to admit it to your spouse? GTFOOH!
A man that ALSO cheated is in NO position whatsoever to be calling his woman names for cheating on him. He cheated on her too but apparently she aint calling him names cuz he never said "well she does it to me too." I'm not saying the woman is a victim, but the man aint either when it comes to the infidelities in their relationship.
When a man cheats he wont bring a baby into the home and live a lie till he "if"decides to come clean. The child is innocent but he/she represents the deceit and that is the burden of being a female.
@@evol111 the point of the comment is that he has no right to call her names for doing the same thing he did
He's manipulative, and wants her to think very low of herself.
A man can't take the same medicine they give.
Girl..leave that man alone. If he can't respect then you get gone. Life is too short to be with someone who hurts you. He is setting an example of how the son can treat women and you are showing it's ok to be treated that way.
Very true!!!
she has to earn his respect. she doesnt deserve any respect from him. being a born female isnt a reason to get respect. she needs to grow up and be a woman
I think he’s an idiot. This relationship needs to be over. They need to focus on the kids. Some people are best apart and if they try they can be great parents separately. Together is just going to be toxic.
His whole objective is to torment this women!
He is projecting on her what he himself feels. They r so lame!
When judge said she wanted to read the results in her chambers, I was like "uh oh!"😳
Mee to
I know right! Judge tricked me 😒
Me too
10 year relationship????? Who seriously dates at 14 and understand what the heck is going on???
Y’all can co-parent, y’all don’t have to be together. Y’all brains are not even fully developed as yet, smh🤦🏾♀️
Hoes date at 14
Gino Younger and bro-hoes too
F WB I was rewinding like wait what?!? 14? No one why she cheated you won’t let her go 🤦🏽♀️
It happens... young love, married for over 25 yrs. but I meet my Husband at 15 and so did alot of my classmates, which is about 4 or 5 couples.
kt J wow I meet my boyfriend at the age of 15 too and we’re having our first child 4 years later❤️ young love. Married for over 25 years congrats
I get the doubt part but you cheated too and y'all weren't together than that shouldn't matter... name calling is abuse also if you don't want her leave her alone...
I already set the ultimatum with my boyfriend.... 3 years into our relationship, we need to be discussing marriage (or possibly married) and if it looks dismal at 3 years we need rethink the relationship. Within the 4th year we should be planning our wedding (if it drags out that long) and by our 5th year (the most), we should be married. I'm not staying with a man for 10 years only to be his children's mother.