How to Win ANY Argument like a Barrister! | BlackBeltBarrister

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  • @Parawingdelta2
    @Parawingdelta2 3 роки тому +153

    Winston Churchill used the expression (paraphrasing) "I would love to agree with you, but there's little benefit in us both being wrong".

  • @gordonlawrence1448
    @gordonlawrence1448 3 роки тому +23

    This is why I always start with two sets of information when representing people against the DWP (I specialise in representing people with Asperger's and Autism). Firstly I start with the medical evidence. Secondly I use peer reviewed medical journal articles from the best quality journals I can find, in order to prove that the commonly held views of the conditions in the NHS are in fact demonstrably wrong. I have been practicing for over 12 years now and have as yet to lose a case.

    • @dicktheaspergeron4988
      @dicktheaspergeron4988 3 роки тому +3

      Excellent work Gordon. Many thanks for helping my people. Many of us understand the complex frameworks required to present cogent and specific arguments but just can’t process why they can be unsuccessful.

    • @yourmamaok
      @yourmamaok 3 роки тому +1

      @Oz Lang department of works and pensions. Im guessing they deal with benefit payments to medically impaired people

    • @longandshort6639
      @longandshort6639 2 місяці тому +1

      department of work and pensions.

  • @jh9667
    @jh9667 3 роки тому +59

    I can't stress the importance of rhetoric. How you deliver the information is absolutely crucial. When an audience is assessing the veracity of your points, they're also computing the pitch, intensity and volume of your voice as well as your linguistic style. The cadence you have when speaking can dramatically change how an audience interprets what you are saying. Believe it or not, it's actually possible to be 100% right but still manage to come of looking like you don't have a clue.

    • @billy4072
      @billy4072 3 роки тому

      No sh£t Sherlock! Thanks! 👍🤡✅

    • @inregionecaecorum
      @inregionecaecorum 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely, I think that there is definately an element of performance in debate.

    • @BradBrassman
      @BradBrassman 2 роки тому

      One of the most important methods is your delivery. Try and catch the eye of everyone as you are making your points.

    • @davidwright7588
      @davidwright7588 2 роки тому +2

      I see it on PMQs every week, and the leader of the opposition is the one with legal training! 😭

    • @kardy12
      @kardy12 Рік тому +4

      @@davidwright7588
      PMQs? That place where adults behave like 8-year olds around a sandbox, braying like mules at irrelevant “gotcha” comments that have minimal substance?

  • @aussieglen1
    @aussieglen1 3 роки тому +28

    Really respect how you have created so much targeted content with authoritative, non-patronising responses. No fluff, just clear advice.

    • @BlackBeltBarrister
      @BlackBeltBarrister  3 роки тому +15

      Thank you! My aim is to help as many people as possible because I just don't think enough people have access to clear and simple advice (and too often not an option to pay for it) - please do share widely!

    • @Dixy3
      @Dixy3 Рік тому

      @BlackBeltBarrister, Daniel, I wish we had a few weeks to sit down and chat privately to resolve a 34-year ongoing situation 😢. Your talent and expertise are seriously lacking in the current legal framework, I think you and Alan are exceptionally talented offices of the courts. The hard part is seeing a clear path forward to resolve and deal with these individuals who we personally believe should be immediately suspended and placed on remand then a case built and judged by 12 peers in a high court of law as I believe is above a Crown Court considering the circumstances. Thank you both for sharing your thoughts and experiences 🙏 ❤️.

    • @DanThomasUK
      @DanThomasUK Рік тому +1

      @@BlackBeltBarristerthank you for the advice! (In a non-formal, non-legal way of course)

  • @gwenscoble6229
    @gwenscoble6229 Рік тому +5

    Only works when arguing with logical people. Your carefully constructed, calmly presented case is just disposed of with a 'No you are wrong', 'that's all rubbish', 'you are just a .....'. Wouldn't win in a court of law, or necessarily the audience, but you can't persuade the entrenched.
    Nice video.

  • @DH-uq1zw
    @DH-uq1zw 3 роки тому +38

    I’m also a barrister and I realised many years ago that in my personal life it is better not to always win the argument

    • @BlackBeltBarrister
      @BlackBeltBarrister  3 роки тому +10

      Agreed! This’s is probably worthy of another video!

    • @runswithcows
      @runswithcows 3 роки тому +6

      I'm a negotiator with many strings to my bow and I realised a long time ago that it is best for everyone if I leave the tricks of my trade in my office.

    • @steamboatwillie8517
      @steamboatwillie8517 3 роки тому +8

      Or to have the last word in an argument, say " Yes my love, of course"

    • @SandraD1911
      @SandraD1911 2 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @rogerbarton497
      @rogerbarton497 2 роки тому +3

      @@steamboatwillie8517 I've found "Yes dear" usually brings an argument to an amicable end.

  • @HarryNicNicholas
    @HarryNicNicholas Рік тому +4

    i always recommend "games people play" by eric berne, written in the 60's it's stood me in good stead in argument cos people aren't usually arguing about what they think they are arguing about.

  • @VinPetrol420
    @VinPetrol420 Рік тому +4

    An argument isn't just contradiction.
    Yes it is.
    No it isn't!

  • @thejournalistshersingh
    @thejournalistshersingh 3 роки тому +29

    What I enjoy about this channel, is that it’s simple to understand, and gives you pointers to go and do your own research. Plus I am not a barrister, but I have been stopped and arrested for having an offensive weapon over 10 times, and I realise that I know more about the Law than the average Police Constable. By the way, I am a Sikh, I wear my Kirpan (religious dagger) and I am protected by Law (criminal justice act 1988 section 139).

    • @BlackBeltBarrister
      @BlackBeltBarrister  3 роки тому +8

      Thank you for your kind comments!

    • @wiseowl6354
      @wiseowl6354 3 роки тому +11

      I have great respect for Sikhs, as they do a lot of care in the community and charitable works...

    • @rayfinkle8860
      @rayfinkle8860 3 роки тому +3

      Why do you have to carry a dagger?

    • @mre.schoppaur9895
      @mre.schoppaur9895 3 роки тому

      It doesn't matter what you believe - it matters what you can prove?
      Isn't that just sophism?

    • @Aindriuh
      @Aindriuh 3 роки тому +1

      @@rayfinkle8860 He already said - his religion.

  • @SolvelawUk
    @SolvelawUk 3 роки тому +2

    Of course my learned friend, (I don't use the word winning as it is misleading) it is persuading a judge to prefer your argument as the law is already decided. The more points, the more evidence which points to the points, the balance of probabilities (the civil standard of proof) will fall in your favour.

  • @nobbystyles4807
    @nobbystyles4807 3 роки тому +3

    this is probably the best video ive seen on this channel. massively helpful for an upcoming dispute. being clear about exactly what your argument is about in a factual way and avoiding anything that can be construed as opinion will help the adjudicator to towards the decision that you want them to make. brilliant advice, thankyou!

  • @howdan1985
    @howdan1985 2 роки тому +3

    This is such a useful video - thank you for posting. One of my favourite things to do when I'm helping friends or family with legal cases is finding "Authorities" (previous cases/High Court Judgements) that closely relate to their particular case and I've often found that when quoting from the relevant judgement it usually does the trick of winning the case or winning the argument

  • @StarHorseLover2012
    @StarHorseLover2012 Рік тому +1

    This is very good. However, 'no emotions' is not the way I go about it. Emotions are human. And they help you convince the humans that are the Magistrate and the Jury.
    My approach is: no emotions when you analyse the matter and write your argument. But some emotions in your verbal delivery will help.

  • @MezNezShorts
    @MezNezShorts 3 роки тому +11

    "It doesn't matter what I believe, it matters what I can prove!" does not work with arguments in Employment Tribunal because ETs accept beliefs and opinions from employers as fact even without any supporting evidence. And you can forget the old ''beliefs must be reasonable and have reasonable grounds' because they dont; an employer merely saying they believe something, is good enough for it to be taken as fact!

    • @ultrademigod
      @ultrademigod 3 роки тому +2

      That is a massive flaw in tribunals. It should only matter what you can prove.
      Besides if one party can state "I believe" then so can the other party.

    • @MezNezShorts
      @MezNezShorts 3 роки тому +3

      @@ultrademigod According to ETs, your beliefs ought to be taken into account by the employer at disciplinary stage when you had to justify your actions; its not for the ET to determine if they were taken into account. ETs will only take employer's beliefs into account because its the employer who has to justify their actions to the court. My sticking point with this is when it comes to health & safety training which has to be recorded; why do ETs allow employers to rely on a 'belief' that someone was trained when the training records can verify that as fact!

    • @StephenBoothUK
      @StephenBoothUK 2 роки тому +1

      @@MezNezShorts I’ve used that argument at a disciplinary, management argued that the member had breached a technical point of health and safety (that is something that a person doing their job should be trained in but is not expected to be general knowledge). They argued that they believed the member had been given the training but I was able to show that their own records showed that the member had not. Additionally I was able to show that the member had repeatedly requested the training but had been denied time off to attend the training by their line manager.
      I was also able to deploy another methodology for winning arguments not covered in the video, which was taught to me by a legal executive I was representing in a pay dispute. If you are arguing a case in front of any sort of third party, you can improve your chance of winning by demonstrating an advantage, or removal of a disadvantage, or that third party by deciding in you favour. In this case I was able to present, prior to the hearing, as part of the argument that by finding against my member the senior manager who would hear the case would be exposing the organisation to legal jeopardy for failure to ensure that frontline staff were appropriately trained, but, by finding in favour of my member and then bringing a disciplinary against the manager for failure to allow this member, amongst others, to attend necessary training then they could be seen to be dealing with a rogue manager who had failed in their duty of care to their staff and others. The Head of HR called me a “Sneaky B****rd” for that, I told him that from him that was high praise.

    • @MezNezShorts
      @MezNezShorts 2 роки тому +2

      @@StephenBoothUK Im saving your comment for future reference...this is gold!! In the ET I mentioned the company failed to disclose any relevant fire safety training records to prove that the employee was trained. The fact is, there were no records to disclose because the employee was not trained. Instead the company claimed at ET that they believed the employee was trained and the judge simply said it doesnt matter if employee was actually trained or not, it only matters if company believed he was trained when they sacked him. Then 12 months after that a fire risk assessment was leaked from the company which established that the company knew at the time they sacked employee that no one had done the relevant training...but it was too late to do anything about it.

  • @dougsaunders8109
    @dougsaunders8109 3 роки тому +10

    I do a similar thing every day, I call it sales. We have many of same parts of the ‘argument’ in a sales strategy against a direct competitor

    • @AndrewClark4MarkRacing
      @AndrewClark4MarkRacing 3 роки тому +3

      As a former salesman of 40 years I agree...of course negotiating a deal depends on what you do say (& what you don’t say!) 😁

    • @dougsaunders8109
      @dougsaunders8109 3 роки тому +1

      @@AndrewClark4MarkRacing 💯 agree

  • @hfallouh
    @hfallouh 3 роки тому +10

    This is just brilliant. This can be applied to almost anything in life even outside court. Including a professional one in general as it is something many might have to do, day in, day out at work or in board rooms or even decisions about best way to treat a patient as it is the case with me. etc...moving from the substance, any tips about the style, ie the language, certain vocabulary that you find persuasive? This might be another video I know. Thank you a lot for the insight

    • @BlackBeltBarrister
      @BlackBeltBarrister  3 роки тому +6

      Thanks you for the comments! Yes there’s a lot to be said for style and just something about the way things are said that can be persuasive! Video to follow! 😁👍

  • @owendavies8227
    @owendavies8227 3 роки тому +6

    Can you do a video on what you can put on a farm without planning permission (polytunnels, fish ponds, rice terraces, etc)?

  • @rogerbarton497
    @rogerbarton497 2 роки тому +1

    I'm currently disputing a bill from an energy company, centred around the unsuitability of a smart meter they've installed. The strategy I'm employing is exactly as outlined here, a bit at a time and win each element before moving to the next, rather going in with all guns blazing and getting confused.
    I'm the sort of person who can see the other side of any argument so I argue the point with myself and modify my own argument to make it difficult for the other party to argue against me.

  • @Paddythelaad
    @Paddythelaad 10 місяців тому

    Arguments are not about wining, just discovering the truth or helping others do the same, ideally without bias or ego. I recommend to apply the same mindset to life, living with growth mindset.
    I tested this thoroughly in many ways, including esports and got much better results when practicing to learn instead of playing to win, even in ranked games in the top 10 world, of multiple esports (Starcraft 2, Hearthstone & a few smaller ones as well as stuff like chess, physical sports puzzles etc). I also tested really caring and stressing for years and got much worse results. Now growth mindset comes naturally and its doing great for me.

  • @margarethill1071
    @margarethill1071 3 роки тому +3

    Just watched this and going to put this into practice today with the GP, to get a note of correction put on my medical notes. Hopefully I will get out of house arrest today!

    • @margarethill1071
      @margarethill1071 3 роки тому +2

      By the way the call never happened apparently another medical emergency which required the phone consulting Dr. Waited 45 minutes and nothing,. Can I change Dr and get my medical records to tell the truth?

    • @RichardWatt
      @RichardWatt 3 роки тому +1

      @@margarethill1071 Sorry I only just noticed this - wouldn't your requirements fall under Principle 4 of the DPA 2018?
      (I'm not a lawyer/barrister, but I do have some knowledge of the DPA since the first one in 1998.)

  • @RubberRivet
    @RubberRivet Рік тому +3

    I have found when arguing with my wife, logic or fact and figures don't mean a thing, in fact I usually end it with "okay, whatever you say".

  • @patchso
    @patchso 3 роки тому +5

    Excellent video. Obviously simplified, but for a 10 min video, very informative and useful. This seems like a really good channel to 'learn some stuff'.

  • @PINACI
    @PINACI 3 роки тому +11

    Definitely going to have to try this out on my wife !!

    • @denise4487
      @denise4487 3 роки тому +4

      Good luck with that 😂

    • @experiment54
      @experiment54 3 роки тому +1

      I suggest a different course, sometimes play to lose.

    • @jh9667
      @jh9667 3 роки тому +3

      Women, especially the married sort, are master rhetoricians. They don't need to be right or wrong, they just need to do that thing where they make you feel undeniably stupid. It gets us every time 😂

    • @BusbyTreeSurgery
      @BusbyTreeSurgery 3 роки тому +4

      it does not work on wives, you should know this by now

    • @mikechrist2913
      @mikechrist2913 3 роки тому +3

      I wish you luck sir, I will remember you as a brave and courageous man!

  • @Depression2Faith
    @Depression2Faith 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you very much for this concise video addressing a broad subject. Priceless knowledge.❤

  • @mikeemery3937
    @mikeemery3937 3 роки тому +3

    One of the best videos so far. 👍🏻
    Excellent channel, brilliant delivery

  • @mikechrist2913
    @mikechrist2913 3 роки тому +5

    I’ve learnt so much from you and your channel thank you 🙏

  • @stevemcilroy9518
    @stevemcilroy9518 3 роки тому +1

    Arrive late at court, and state you were driving manufacturer B's vehicle and it broke down. Had you been driving Manufacturer A's vehicle, you would have arrived early. Apologies M'Lord. Great Vid BBB👏

  • @notmenotme614
    @notmenotme614 2 місяці тому

    Another way to win an argument where you know that the other person knows they are wrong (they are arguing for the sake of it / out of pride) is to ask them “so what would you do?”, “what would you do better to resolve this?” and “what are you hoping to achieve here / what would be a good resolution?”
    If these questions don’t make them admit they’re in the wrong, at least it will make them think about it.

  • @Brutaga
    @Brutaga 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your concise points on how to best present any case on its merits. I I’ve in New Zealand and twenty years ago I was imprisoned on evidence that can now be seen as having been perjured. During this SFO presented, trial my defence counsel two QC’s abandoned my defence. I was then compelled into pleading guilty.
    The offences were property law and incarceration was not supposed to occur and or considered likely. However due to two witnesses one being a Solicitor and another being a Barrister, I was sentenced to three years and nine months. Whilst in prison I was able to find sufficient information revealing serious anomalies with the testimony that had been adduced by these two legal practitioners. Accordingly the NZ Police supported my release on parole and I spent several years assisting them with investigating my complaint.
    Search warrants were served on the Bank who’d made the allegations against me and against the solicitor who’d been the Crowns Star witness. Numerous files and documents that had never been disclosed to the Court in discovery were subsequently brought to light.
    However during the Police investigation it had also become apparent that the Crown Prosecutor had altered and removed passages from the solicitors brief of evidence. This testimony pertained to his legal executive, this woman was interviewed by the investigating officer and her evidence did not support what this solicitor had asserted to. It thus became apparent that removal of this evidence was carried out so as to ensure that the Crown case would not be challenged. It is in this regard that the Police were unable to bring any prosecution.
    Last December, the Police finally handed over copies of their search warrants plus, the evidence revealing the perjured assertions of three witnesses who’d deceived the Court.
    Understandably, I have lost faith in the justice system and have entrusted the services of an ex SFO forensic accountant and will be seeking to resolve this matter through mediation.
    Should either of these three defendants refuse to attend mediation, I will be instructing my previous defence counsel three QC’s to file formal complaints with the NZ Police.
    Your video was very helpful particularly in regards to removing emotion and opinions. Luckily in this regard the documents that were recovered by the Police, speak for themselves.

  • @foxythedirtydog4494
    @foxythedirtydog4494 Рік тому

    In this example of car manufacturers, it is rarely that simple. One will never be better at everything so the best will depend on who you ask.

  • @tc9256
    @tc9256 3 роки тому

    I love to break down a set circumstances; and investigate both points of any argument, I believe to understand both sets of arguments and attempt to prove both will logically lead to the true facts.

  • @ricardohunte3086
    @ricardohunte3086 3 роки тому +2

    I just watched your video - great as always and the breakdown of the Theft Act was very informative as I always cite it as one long sentence. I'm looking forward to the live stream.

  • @LOOKOUT2012
    @LOOKOUT2012 3 роки тому +1

    Brilliant channel! How I wish I could have you on my side for the tenancy predicament I'm in and can't get any legal support for unfair eviction and landlady cut the electricity supply to attempt to force me out of workshops & starts a witch hunt against me and lies to the police and her solicitor and I'm having to try defend myself and now her solicitors taking me to court to claim landslides legal fees!!you couldn't make it up and it's about ruined my world! I will utilise parts of this video in the hope I can prove my side of the story.... Which is the truth and I have all the evidence.🙏

  • @007JHS
    @007JHS Рік тому

    I have a debate on a motion in council coming up in a fortnight...I'll listen to your clip again in preparing my argument against the motion... thanks

  • @rogerwitte
    @rogerwitte Рік тому

    When constructing an argument it is very important to think about who you are trying to persuade. You should do this step first before deciding what evidence to seek. For example, Barristers will frame an argument differently in a jury trial than when arguing before a judge alone.

  • @GMBasix
    @GMBasix 3 роки тому +22

    Is that the 5 minute argument or the full half hour?

  • @tonystrange7224
    @tonystrange7224 3 роки тому +47

    Can't wait for this one. I hope it works on wives. 😉😆

    • @benwiles7433
      @benwiles7433 3 роки тому +18

      No because this works based upon logic.

    • @monkeytrumpet11
      @monkeytrumpet11 3 роки тому +10

      Haha, no. Trust me on this no it does not. You have one option and one option only, admit she's right and move on to the next example of what you've done wrong. Rinse and repeat. This is your life now. Enjoy

    • @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL
      @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL 3 роки тому +10

      As a wife of 35yrs I can only say, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @denise4487
      @denise4487 3 роки тому +6

      Not a chance 🤣

    • @monkeytrumpet11
      @monkeytrumpet11 3 роки тому +4

      @@GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL as a wife for that long, I'm pretty sure that's not the only thing you can say 😂😂

  • @StephenBoothUK
    @StephenBoothUK 2 роки тому

    Being able to control the battlefield helps a lot as well. In your example of two different car manufacturers A may make cars that break down less often than B but it may be that when As do breakdown it tends to be a more major repair, that has to be done at a dealership garage and require a long lead time for parts to be delivered where as Bs cars breakdown a little more often but the breakdowns tend to be minor, are the sort of thing that can be fixed at any local garage (or even the front drive by a knowledgeable amateur with a copy of the manual) with parts that can be picked up at the local branch of Halfords or similar. If you are representing A then you try to keep arguments on to the lower frequency of breakdowns and away from the high cost and complexity when there is a breakdown, but if you are representing B then you admit the slightly lower frequency of breakdowns but argue that the comparatively high cost and complexity means that the net cost of A, in terms of both direct cost and opportunity cost of your car being out of action for longer, means that B is the best option, “Would you rather replace a few belts every couple of years of the entire engine and gearbox after 5” you might ask.

  • @jonathanforeman882
    @jonathanforeman882 3 роки тому +1

    Amazingly interesting and useful channel , great idea BBB and I hope it’s working for you . A topic that piqued my interest recently are the two recent stories of damage to property of someone that had annoyed the person doing the destruction . The car in the farmer’s field and the builder that knocked an extension down he built ( plus some of the house ). In both cases the papers reported that the police thought it was not a crime but it looked quite criminal to me! The farmer looked to have really hurt the car driver .

  • @grahamsmith9214
    @grahamsmith9214 Місяць тому

    The best way to win an argument is through a claims, arguments and evidence process as set out in clause 5.2 of the ONR's technical assessment guide 051 for safety cases. The IMechE ALARP for engineers - a technical safety guide is also excellent to understand problems that biases can cause, leading to accidents and a likely date in court.

  • @davidc3808
    @davidc3808 2 роки тому

    Very interesting. So many think that if they can shout louder they must be right.

  • @mike-ology22
    @mike-ology22 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing. You're very interesting and I appreciate you offering your expertise

  • @CameTo
    @CameTo 3 роки тому +2

    This makes so much sense on the surface, but it doesn't work anymore in today's society. The biggest mistake most people make is thinking the person they are arguing with is in disagreement over an issue, and ironing this out in the debate will resolve it... I'm sure you've come across the cases where people can't even agree on basic facts, and/or resort to name calling and such things when they are presented with a fact they can't deny. I wish it was as easy as gathering a few facts, showing them off, and moving towards a conclusion based off them.

  • @staggerlee2011
    @staggerlee2011 3 роки тому +9

    Is there any lawyer or group in london who are fighting the really crap leases tenants in flats are being given when they try to extend the lease?

  • @philosopher1276
    @philosopher1276 2 роки тому

    also, I'd substitute 'opinion' for 'claim'. For most people are not really capable of opinions; rather, they make lazy claims "this is good, this bad, this is X, etc", without supporting the claim with anything, or with much

  • @ricardohunte3086
    @ricardohunte3086 3 роки тому

    Hi Ya, I hope you don't mind. But I've said to a few people to check you out as you come across as a good guy and I get a good vibe.

  • @jamesdarcey168
    @jamesdarcey168 3 роки тому +1

    ADVICE PLEASE. Sir, I wrote the the BBC in 2019 explaining that I no longer need or required a TV License, however I have received countless letters threatening me with Legal action, the letters are causing me great concern and are injurious to my health and well-being. May I ask if I can seek a Court order to stop these threats and harassment or is the BBC and its agents exempt from such action?

  • @brownsugar2142
    @brownsugar2142 3 роки тому

    Loving the clarity!

  • @OldCharlieRum1903
    @OldCharlieRum1903 3 роки тому

    A very informative video. Applicable when objecting to planning applications. Often arguments are lost because objectors use opinions rather than demonstrating that an application ‘factually’ does not comply with local and national planning policies.

    • @youtubeyoutube936
      @youtubeyoutube936 2 роки тому

      That’s because if the Planning authority likes a scheme it complies but if they don’t it is deemed contrary to policy.

    • @breaker-one-nine
      @breaker-one-nine 5 місяців тому

      For planning arguments you need to concentrate on how development plans, council policy & previous appeal decisions favour your position. And don't forget about "material considerations" which may be community/area specific.

  • @fabolvaskarika7940
    @fabolvaskarika7940 Рік тому +1

    This all working with one condition: you have an argument with a sensible person who you can reasoning with. When you talking narcissistic people, it’s no way you can convince them. They only aim to get an emotional reaction. And when you constantly hit the wall, because they don’t care what you say, you reasonably get upset, angry. And they won. Unless you can ignore them and do not try to win the argument.
    It’s like playing chess with a pigeon. They they tossing around the figures, shit on the board and think they won. You can’t play with someone who doesn’t keep the rules and would not accept facts.

    • @bertbox69
      @bertbox69 Рік тому +1

      Current tactic of the energy companies with complaints

    • @fabolvaskarika7940
      @fabolvaskarika7940 Рік тому

      @@bertbox69 sadly not just energy companies. It’s widely spread and effect from public services, through insurance companies and many call centers to car salons. The rot doesn’t stop, if you don’t cut it off.

  • @budte
    @budte 3 місяці тому

    While I do try and put forward a fact-based argument, I am fortunately of an age where I can drop the insistance and be wrong when I am. Two things often occur. I learn something or because I have listened I hear the real objection or problem and am able to respond to that. Which is far more effective than trying to browbeat someone with information they might not see as relevant. I am not a barrister, but well aware that I have won arguments simply because I can browbeat someone. No one wins in that situation.

  • @craigross341
    @craigross341 3 роки тому

    Understand the other side's argument (or likely argument) at least as well as your own. If their losing is necessarily your winning, then showing that their case is incoherent or self-contradictory, or that they are dishonest, then you win by default. So in criminal hearings the Crown's case only has to be damaged, or in a civil matter that the pursuer has not proved their case.

  • @timothymartin3646
    @timothymartin3646 3 роки тому

    A brilliant piece of advice, education. Use evidence not emotion or opinion unless from an expert on the subject matter. Thank you mr BBB.

    • @Kyrelel
      @Kyrelel 3 роки тому

      The "judicious" use of logical fallacy is also a winning tactic

  • @arrystophanes7909
    @arrystophanes7909 3 роки тому

    Facts reside on the surface; truth is often found just beneath

  • @EyeSpyAudit
    @EyeSpyAudit 3 роки тому +3

    Just say okay, okay, okay 🤣

  • @inregionecaecorum
    @inregionecaecorum 3 роки тому

    Facts, a knowledge of logical fallacies and an understanding of the psychology of your opponent, and the audience helps, but I am sure presentation and appearance is very important as well. Two people could make precisely the same argument, but one of them would be more persuasive than the other. There are also some issues that are equivocal, qv Father Henry Garnet.

  • @jonathandaykin3067
    @jonathandaykin3067 Рік тому

    The 48 laws of power encourage you to win through actions, not through argument. Although it could depend on the situation, circumstances etc.

  • @peterthompson6651
    @peterthompson6651 3 роки тому +1

    The best way to win "at" court is to be a Man/Woman, then you never argue, you open up court following due process, and just write the truth in the four corners of your claim of right.
    Then the burden of prove is on the wrongdoer, then they are the one who court controversy by arguing, to disprove your claim of right.
    If the wrongdoer is stupid enough to employ a barrister, you know you got them, as they would be ruled incompetent, because they never have "firsthand knowledge, and will withdraw gracefully, to save face, as any barrister knows once he/she as taken on the case, they are paid in full, whether they do anything or not, but you can be assured they never won a single case against a Man/Woman who knows how to hold court and not lose jurisdiction by not objecting when a third-party interloper with no first-hand knowledge tries to speak, and as their client as walked in to court as an incompetent, a "ward of the court," it's a open and shut case.
    When both parties are present, if they don't know the rules of court, that's not the claimant fault, it's like taking candy of a baby.
    A claim once heard at open court when both parties are present is closed and sealed forever.
    What Man/Woman would be gullible and stupid to answer for the legal fiction ? By even believing it exist in the first-place ? By believing it exist you have giving it life, to exist if you believe it you.
    Anything written in capitalise lettering is saying nothing, to anyone who knows that no language is written in capitalise lettering that can be read, as it is written for the illerate, as it is sign language using pictures, and has to be interpreted, an irrefutable fact that can't be disputed.
    But if you don't understand this is so, because you can't be bother to understand your dumb down by your education, to being indoctrinated in to their system, where they are just getting you to be a slave of your own making, they use smoke and mirrors, trickery and deceit, wake up people, don't spend your life as a person, be the Man/Woman the father in heaven meant you to be, free, and have the freedom of freewill. That's the only way your be in the book of life, "be faithful until death, and I will give you the Crown of life".
    If people reading this comment doesn't believe a word I wrote, just ask this black belt barrister, he will tell you the truth, won't he ?, and if he disagrees with the capitalise lettering is not only written for the illerate. Just get yourselves a copy of the " Chicago manual style," that they use in courts.
    We would all be babbling if we don't adhere to a language that conforms to a set of rules called grammar, and that is set out in, "The Chicago manual style," and " The Oxford manual style," or what manual style of English are they using ?
    I believe now their cutting back on legal aid, these people might wake up and realise they are being used to dupe, people in to answering for the legal fiction, when these people should be telling them the truth, the only language the capitalise lettering is sign language, the language of the illiterate, and it's the language that corporation's use, there's a sign above every shop, department store, any business.
    So, if you can read it, it proves your illerate, and your easlier fool, just like cheap magician trick, of find the lady, it just trickery and deception from start to finish.
    Once you know it's an illusion, a trick, and the trick they use, it's your fault if you assumed they wouldn't deceive you, then who's fault is that, not the Grifter fault, that just their job.
    All because you never bother to see through the deception. Why not gain the knowledge, educating yourself to be able to be competent at your own "court of record," when making a claim of right.
    A Man/Woman should know their rights, if you don't, you haven got any.
    People in authority, so-called authority, can't tell a Man/Woman to do a damn thing, and they know it, but it doesn't stop them trying, how many do know how to open up court, and the process ?

  • @denise4487
    @denise4487 3 роки тому +5

    Im good at winning an argument because its usually assumption that people use 😉

  • @basingstoke63
    @basingstoke63 2 роки тому

    Interesting ,treble B . If anyone is called for Jury service they couldn't go far wrong by watching this video beforehand . I myself served on a jury many years ago , I found it rather interesting and would happily serve again .

  • @wiseowl6354
    @wiseowl6354 3 роки тому +2

    BBB. You were considering doing a short on No Win-No Fee. Is this still a consideration?

  • @fredpuntdroad8701
    @fredpuntdroad8701 2 роки тому

    "There are many ways to win an argument but emotion and opinion will not help."
    I beg to differ in a very specific way.
    Working governmental law cases I've found it works well to bury a subtle insult towards the opposing side's lawyer in the reports and filings. Too many of them seem to be arrogant, take offense and will indulge in massive rants that eat up time of the hearing, so they lack time to make an argument proper. In one cases I've seen a judge rolling eyes and leaning back as the rant about me proceeded.
    Sure enough time was then up, hearing over and no argument had been made by the opposing side. The result was de facto a default judgement in our favour.
    Another way of doing this is to make a perfectly fine argument but deliberately mislabel it in legalese. Like "This illegal building has been there for longer than 20 years and has thus been legalised". Typically the lawyer zooms in on "20 years doesn't automatically legalise".
    Well it doesn't, you just can't enforce against it being illegaly any longer, and since you can't just leave it in limbo is why it MUST then be legalised in the next zoning plans.
    But the judge knows that, has already clicked the mislabeled argument into place in his head, while they waste their precious time argueing semantics that don't affect the case.
    But maybe that's easier because I'm not a lawyer but an expert-witness and I can afford to argue I know better on my area of expertise than people who also need to know procedures and other areas of law.

  • @annalee8968
    @annalee8968 Рік тому

    Thank you for your input on this topic.

  • @michaelbarton5273
    @michaelbarton5273 3 роки тому +1

    I'm looking forward to this one!!

  • @andrewcarter7503
    @andrewcarter7503 2 роки тому +2

    Barristers can't be that good. Every court case one of them loses.

  • @helendudden9638
    @helendudden9638 Рік тому

    I comment on disability and it's often the case that the other side do'sent want to make change happen. This is the reason why accessible homes is so difficult as with dropped kerbs.

  • @FAS1948
    @FAS1948 3 місяці тому

    I have had many arguments about politics, and it matters not that I can present hard evidence to support my case, because facts that contradict firmly held beliefs are ineffective. After I've demolished all the other persons arguments with factual evidence, they either walk away, or resort to insults or threats; it is the easiest way to lose friends.

  • @declantwomey7525
    @declantwomey7525 3 роки тому +1

    Great advice keep up the great work 👍🏻☘️

  • @lukemapley3684
    @lukemapley3684 3 роки тому +1

    I have a question ! If you have 2 different businesses but your the owner of both for example a bakery and a catering trailer could you buy your buns ect off the bakery that you own ? Thanks !

  • @chuckynickolodean8420
    @chuckynickolodean8420 2 роки тому

    My friend lives on a Council Estate, been a tenant for 25 years, people moved in next door, within 3 weeks after they moved in, they were causing uproar, shouting threats and my friend and his family, his wife came close to a nervous breakdown, he and his wife came close to moving out, the police were as much use a nothing, could you do a video on this kind of scenario please?

  • @wiseowl6354
    @wiseowl6354 3 роки тому

    BBB. If I may, I have a couple of questions.
    When a No Win - No Fee case is settled out of court, and the defendants insurers agree to pay an amount in a full and final settlement, will the PSLA damages/compensation/costs/fees, be paid directly to the claimants solicitor?
    And will the claimant then get a complete breakdown provided from their solicitors of the settlement made in total by the defendants insurers showing in full, and listing and itemising the fees/costs, disbursements and with the claimants awarded PSLA etc...?

  • @skynetintex5878
    @skynetintex5878 3 роки тому +1

    Good video. You mention though about proving facts. Facts are by their own definition fact and therefore you don't need to prove them.

    • @igw2b
      @igw2b 3 роки тому +1

      Not actually true. In a case of theft, for example, it may be a fact that X took something off the shop shelf and put it in his pocket. But how do we know that? We know it because Y saw him do it, or because the CCTV recorded images of him doing it. So although it is a fact, you need evidence to prove that it happened, such as the testimony of Y or the footage from the CCTV. Otherwise, it may be true that X took the item, but if nobody saw him do it, he may get away with it.

    • @skynetintex5878
      @skynetintex5878 3 роки тому

      @@igw2b Makes sense. I guess I'm stating here that a fact is a fact, irrespective of what is proven. To me, that's just what makes a case for the courtroom - but then again, in your position, that's exactly what's needed :).

  • @OldBiker
    @OldBiker 2 роки тому

    If an electrical inspection company on behalf of the local council book a visit causing me to have a day off without pay, can I claim the loss of my wages from the electric company if
    1. They turn up and say they cant do anything and need to come back another day 2. On the second visit late in the afternoon cancel it and 3. On the third visit say they cant do it and need to come back another day because it will take longer to do and need to book a slot in the morning? Three days they have cost me now and still they have to come back.

  • @teamloony
    @teamloony 3 роки тому +1

    This is brilliant, thank you. I’ve applied it to an argument already. I’m not sure I won as they just stormed off! Ha. I think that’s a win sort of. 👍🏼

  • @karenyoung8341
    @karenyoung8341 Рік тому

    I like to say I’m sometimes right but never wrong - everyone hates it!

  • @simonthomas4630
    @simonthomas4630 Місяць тому

    Thank you for another interesting video. I’ve just lost an argument even with trading standards involved!
    I returned a vehicle after several repairs under warranty, because I had the thing turned by another garage apparently it violated my warranty?

  • @FrostSpike
    @FrostSpike 3 роки тому

    Best and Better arguments... have to first agree the criteria against which the measurements should be assessed i.e. what does "Better" actually mean (and without a concrete requirement this usually comes down to someone's opinion). Otherwise it just becomes an exchange of facts and figures with no way of assessing which is actually "better."

  • @markeone
    @markeone 3 роки тому

    I've arrested a someone impersonating a police officer under section 24A of PACE. He's failing to give the identification required to prove he is a police constable to a member of the public. Now under citizens arrest, how would you make the argument and win for this police officer?

  • @loc4725
    @loc4725 3 роки тому

    But step 0 is to first establish the goal, so in the example you would need to first define "best".
    And qualitative arguments tend to be the hardest to resolve.

  • @n-steam
    @n-steam 3 роки тому +3

    I'm not a fan of 'expert opinions'. They too can be biased, and it wouldn't take much to find an expert sharing your own opinions.
    Interpreting facts for the laymen is understandable, but asked "do you think this could be the cause of", that goes into opinion.
    In that case I think there ought to be multiple experts with opposing opinions, so that the unbiased can form their own opinions from the most persuasive argument.

    • @seraphina985
      @seraphina985 3 роки тому

      The problem with that is if you are dealing with something that's relatively well established science you can only balance the established interpretation by finding a sellout quack. This is how the media often runs into the problem of actually coming across as biased by doggedly sticking to the idea they have to give every argument equal weight no matter how batshit insane or unsupported.

    • @n-steam
      @n-steam 3 роки тому

      ​@@seraphina985 Interpreting facts is one thing, but opinions are another (as I tried to differentiate).
      e.g. I get my roof repaired. Next week, a major storm happens. The roof is now leaking again. I argue the roof was not repaired properly. The defence argues the storm was just severe.
      Asking an expert "What do you think caused the roof to leak", is going to result in opinion for an answer.
      Asking "Were the materials used of good quality" gives an objective answer.

    • @experiment54
      @experiment54 3 роки тому

      yea watched far too many documentaries on Netflix with cases turned over after many years showing experts lied, were wrong etc wouldn't budge on their stance, made evidence fit their hypothesis etc Real eye opening.

    • @PMA65537
      @PMA65537 3 роки тому

      The other had the same body length, height, width, weight, wheel base, and wheel track as the '64 Skylark, and that was the 1963 Pontiac Tempest.

  • @retroonhisbikes
    @retroonhisbikes 3 роки тому +107

    Winning the argument is easy, just call the other person a racist, and you’ve won!

    • @moonshinepz
      @moonshinepz 3 роки тому +1

      Or call them a Gammon and you lose 😂

    • @Jack-fs2im
      @Jack-fs2im 3 роки тому +1

      @@moonshinepz the term Gammon means an unthinking piece of white meat and is Racist.like calling a black man a piece of coal.So I win. you lose

    • @Arcticnick
      @Arcticnick 3 роки тому +4

      Unless they call you a peadophile!

    • @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL
      @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL 3 роки тому +11

      I like Laurence Fox’s reply to the racist taunt, “list your evidence or face my lawyers”.

    • @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL
      @GrumpyDragon_aka_LjL 3 роки тому

      @jo king BBB help! 🤣

  • @AndreaReid-bl9ns
    @AndreaReid-bl9ns 9 місяців тому

    Daniel i have done court cases i am not qualified but when one walks into court one goes into win after going through all documents that the client has then from documents one has the power to win attitude and language can overturn any case

  • @igw2b
    @igw2b 3 роки тому +1

    I'd be interested to know how you approach it when there are facts that don't support your side of the argument. What if, for instance, Car Model A breaks down less often that Car Model B, but car Model B has lower emission figures. Do you only mention the facts that are favourable to your model, or do you mention them both but argue that the break down stats are more important than the emission stats?

    • @BlackBeltBarrister
      @BlackBeltBarrister  3 роки тому +2

      It is always good to "deal" with those not in your favour, and then argue on balance which is more important. e.g. I might say that just because Model B has lower emissions, if it breaks down often, the recovery processes and costs may outweigh the fact that Model A has higher emissions! You have to be creative and have an enquiring mind! :)

  • @wilbearworks
    @wilbearworks 3 роки тому

    I have taken a car firm to small claims court as they sold me a van which is not as described in their advert. It has some features missing that can only be discovered by driving the vehicle many miles. They replied to this on the last day saying they wish to go to mediation. In their reply, they have indicated that they are unavailable to mediate every day for the next year. Is this usual? This video on winning an argument will put me in good stead for the upcoming court case as I have asked to go to court. Any tips would be welcome?

  • @daze1945
    @daze1945 3 роки тому +1

    As much as I really enjoy and learn from your videos I do question that winning an argument does not involve what one believes. In many of your videos you refer to what is considered to be reasonable and what would be considered normal behaviour etc in a law court. Surely that is conjecture and opinion and I suggest is based on what the majority think? However that in itself would not necessarily make it right. As a crude example many people thought that black slavery was perfectly fine although contemporary opinion would contradict that. Globally the white population is technically the "ethnic" minority. Facts and opinion are two different things that can affect the outcome of the same argument.

  • @xVILOx
    @xVILOx 3 роки тому

    Oh my I can use this o.O 🤯 after 6 years of this feelings went out the window anyway

  • @testpilotian3188
    @testpilotian3188 3 роки тому +1

    Does this theory work for wives?

  • @stringer-ik1pc
    @stringer-ik1pc 3 роки тому +6

    This is sometimes the problem with the Law. Surely both sides (prosecution/Defence) their jobs should be instead of getting the better of each other they should be united in finding the truth. Especially in murder/rape cases etc.

    • @dlevi67
      @dlevi67 3 роки тому

      Welcome to the adversarial system of justice...

    • @wjf0ne
      @wjf0ne 3 роки тому

      stringer 2295
      France has an inquisitorial system of justice but is slowly coming away from it. Funny that they can get a bigger percentage of rape convictions with their system and we can't with ours so our politicians are standing justice on it's head in order to get the convictions be they right or wrong.

    • @thewizzard3150
      @thewizzard3150 3 роки тому

      @2295 only in mathematics will you find truth.

    • @dlevi67
      @dlevi67 3 роки тому

      @@thewizzard3150 And even then, only subject to the axioms one chooses.

  • @misplacedsouthern1236
    @misplacedsouthern1236 Рік тому

    Thank you for a great video!

  • @darensmith327
    @darensmith327 3 роки тому

    Hi
    I have adversely possessed a piece of land in 2004 I had applied to the land registry and proved possession. But the solicitor filled the form out wrong . I have photographs to prove possession. Because the solicitor made a mistake with the forms . Do I still have a case ? Thanks

  • @Normanskie
    @Normanskie 3 роки тому

    You see this is the sort of argument that someone in the legal profession would use when in fact reality does not have logic, when arguing with an ordinary person, they like many others do not like to lose, it does not matter whether you are right or not, it doesn't matter whether you have facts or not, but most people when faced with the fact that they have lost the argument and therefore 'face' will either change the subject or insult you, (which is another form of changing the subject) thereby hoping to win THE ARGUMENT by introducing something totally irrelevant and hoping to score points therefore walking away and saying, I was right cos I won the argument. In most cases the ordinary person in the street is not interested in facts, just winning their point of view.

  • @russisaac813
    @russisaac813 3 роки тому +11

    and to you the jury, I ask, "Does this not prove without a shadow of doubt how Flawed and Insidious the law of this land has become?"

  • @jamieeast4974
    @jamieeast4974 3 роки тому

    another note, surely, when you vehicle is "TOWED",
    This is also "Taking without consent" ?

  • @paulsedman7876
    @paulsedman7876 2 роки тому +1

    Iv just Been in tears listening to this clip.
    After 18 months of waiting to find out if I'm going to be charged or not, the only real person who knows the truth is me. No matter how good you are at winning an argument or court case worries me, I just know I'm not guilty, this now scares me to the core.

  • @hairyairey
    @hairyairey Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this BBB. As someone with Bipolar Disorder and Asperger's Syndrome I have found it very difficult to explain to courts what my case is. Although I have had some success. 1997 civ 2724 in the Court of Appeal if you have time to look it up in BAILII.
    Plus I have a tendency to mix submissions with my witness statement and I don't think that helps. This is going to really help with a case I have coming up next year. Thanks again.

  • @ianchinn6586
    @ianchinn6586 2 роки тому

    Hello, please please help. Is it lawful for someone to bang and thump on your door and eventually put a threatening letter through the door, threats to come back and serve a statutory demand. No mention of what the demand is, or who it is from, or for how much? Lots of words i dont understand, threats of bankruptcy petition? Im worried sick, im in bed after a heart attack and cant get to the door anyway. The anxiety and stress is killing me. Please help. Ian

  • @ozzybiker1013
    @ozzybiker1013 3 роки тому

    The problem with the example of using a poll to find out if whether car A or B is better is it is still opinion, Peoples opinions ore so often decided by the propaganda and misleading adverts etc put out in media and the government. The media and government have a habit of not giving facts but giving the interpretation of those facts that they want people to believe, statistics are a prime example. Unfortunately in this modern world people are not interested in looking at the facts themselves, they would rather believe the interpretation that is fed to them. Another flaw with example argument is that different people have different opinions on what a good car is. Some people prioritise performance whilst others are more interested in reliability or economy of ownership. So again it is all down to subjectivity.

  • @ForburyLion
    @ForburyLion 11 місяців тому

    Taking the car example, If you are tasked with proving A is better than B and in researching this you find evidence that B is actually better in some respects than A, Is it your duty to share these findings with the opposition and/or the court or can you legally ignore this or choose not to investigate that particular area of the case to avoid discovering something that won't help?

  • @borderlands6606
    @borderlands6606 3 роки тому

    If defence of a particularly grievous act breaks down, a case is often made with unfortunate background details of the defendant's life. While in no way suggesting such details are irrelevant to their subsequent actions, how are the moral implications of such deeds reflected in law? Without an absolute moral arbiter, it seems law must resort to ethics, which is essentially a popularity contest. If an entire life is used in mitigation, how does a jury objectively determine where the crime "began"? Apologies if this is a naive legal question.

  • @jayturner3397
    @jayturner3397 3 роки тому +1

    How about Archery 🏹..Still take up my bow..or quarterstaff ?