7 Signs You're NOT Training Hard Enough (MAN UP!)

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  • @Sean_Nalewanyj
    @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +571

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    • @usuarioanonimo8684
      @usuarioanonimo8684 3 роки тому

      Hello Sean! Would you recommend hydrolyzed whey protein over regular whey protein? Is there a significant advantage over the regular or is it not worth the extra money? Thank you in advance

    • @7770robi
      @7770robi 3 роки тому +2

      I dont like the intro. Basically GO HARD or go home... Not all of us need to look like bodybuilders bro

    • @ryanrivard1455
      @ryanrivard1455 3 роки тому

      My three types of sets are: 1. introduction/warm up sets. 2. 2, or 3 RIR/Failure. 3. Vomit sets (no explanation needed) if you've never rolled off a bench or rack and started dry heaving you're not working hard enough

    • @oj818
      @oj818 3 роки тому

      Thanks man I always worried why I got butterflies in my stomach before each workout
      Now , I feel amazing that it's a good sign.

    • @justaregulargymrata
      @justaregulargymrata 2 роки тому

      I do all these things and im still weak help

  • @3166jlk
    @3166jlk 3 роки тому +9810

    Sign #1: you're using a V Shred workout program

    • @mjdino9803
      @mjdino9803 3 роки тому +92

      💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @SelgaStudios
      @SelgaStudios 3 роки тому +8

      👁👄👁

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +216

      @Krakrock just being really, really ridiculously good looking? (and having no moral qualms in scammimg the shit out of innocent people for profit)

    • @casparps
      @casparps 3 роки тому +21

      hahahahahah thats perfect

    • @mewtwosavage9003
      @mewtwosavage9003 3 роки тому +99

      At this point i dont feel bad for anybody still listening to him. Dude looks and sounds like he has no idea what hes talking about. So scripted.

  • @rossedwardmiller
    @rossedwardmiller 3 роки тому +6356

    Feels good af watching this and realizing “wow, I’m actually training hard enough. Sick.”

  • @ybbidimaano
    @ybbidimaano 3 роки тому +1515

    That "why am I even doing this" mini existential crisis in the middle of reps hits hard lmao

    • @JWSoul
      @JWSoul 2 роки тому +6

      Lol

    • @XiangYu94
      @XiangYu94 Рік тому +167

      “I’m an ape… lifting things and putting them back down… to be a bigger ape?”

    • @paulaljouny230
      @paulaljouny230 Рік тому +3

      Nah Forrest

    • @daevidpp445
      @daevidpp445 Рік тому +21

      i don't think that anymore, now i think "this is still not enough" and it helps me

    • @qwertyasdf4081
      @qwertyasdf4081 Рік тому +32

      Disappointed in myself today cuz those thoughts won and i put down the weight, then immediately regretted it. Did a full extra set of the same weight to make up for it

  • @Incredible_Mr.E
    @Incredible_Mr.E 2 роки тому +3769

    1:32 #1 Not pausing before a set (get into the “mode” think about pushing yourself before doing the set)
    2:28 #2 Not being nervous before a set (if you’re not nervous or anxious, probably not working hard enough)
    3:46 #3 Not feeling discomfort on the last few reps (you should feel like you’re slightly dying… to an extent)
    4:48 #4 Not making ugly ass faces on the last few reps (you should be pushing yourself hard enough to see your ugly face making an uglier face)
    5:27 #5 Not making some sort of grunting noises or…. yeah. Don’t be a baby.
    6:21 #6 Training is supposed to be fun, but if you’re breezing through your sets and it’s too much fun, maybe stop being a baby.
    8:08 #7 How you feel after workout (Do you think that you could of went harder? Are you satisfied with how hard you pushed yourself? Or were u a baby?
    You’re welcome. Go get it.

  • @penniesfromhell
    @penniesfromhell Рік тому +175

    Hey man im almost 30 and have done almost no weight training my whole life, but i just started recently and as someone who feels pretty out of my element, this video was a great reminder that i am on the right path and have the right attitude to follow it where it leads

    • @juancevantes7741
      @juancevantes7741 Рік тому +7

      Let's get them gains 💪

    • @pewpewTN
      @pewpewTN Рік тому +5

      Don't give up.
      Embrace the suck & keep working.
      The biggest tip I can give is to maintain 100% consistency.
      Don't let yourself make excuses for missing a workout.
      The self-discipline from that will spill over into all aspects of your life.

    • @penniesfromhell
      @penniesfromhell Рік тому +4

      @@Creedonator yes

    • @jmhj_
      @jmhj_ 11 місяців тому

      Pretty much exactly the same situation as me!
      My muscles don't get particularly sore after a workout, just a little stiff - and I was getting worried this might be an indication that I'm not pushing myself enough.
      However, this video settled my concerns a bit.

  • @tim..t175
    @tim..t175 3 роки тому +1679

    The nervousness is common with me , i never realised other people felt it, no one talks about it

    • @tawnipargman8237
      @tawnipargman8237 3 роки тому +12

      Me too

    • @THEWATCHER17
      @THEWATCHER17 3 роки тому +55

      Oh shit tommorow is back day

    • @RICHFRVR
      @RICHFRVR 3 роки тому +99

      Yea I always thought I was the only one who felt a bit scared before heavy sets.

    • @yoonglenoodle466
      @yoonglenoodle466 3 роки тому +123

      I always get nervous before squats.

    • @przemor1150
      @przemor1150 3 роки тому +45

      I always get atleast a little bit nervous before heavy deadlifts and heavy dips, because its so uncomfortable but also because im afraid I wont be able to make enough reps

  • @aadlersberg
    @aadlersberg 3 роки тому +425

    This was so much better than telling people to work out at 88.7% of your PR

  • @robertfishter2862
    @robertfishter2862 3 роки тому +363

    I must be working hard enough at my job, cause I'm asking myself all the time, "Why am I doing this?".

    • @nirorit
      @nirorit 3 роки тому +16

      Same, i end up making weird noises and faces when it gets especially annoying as well.

    • @donovan901105
      @donovan901105 2 роки тому +3

      Hilarious

  • @fitnytech
    @fitnytech Рік тому +22

    Exercise is king. Nutrition is queen. Put them together and you have got a kingdom

  • @dragonglass5650
    @dragonglass5650 2 роки тому +55

    Note from newbie gym enjoyer.
    Don't make your workout imidietly uncomfortable.
    I gave up 4 times on the gym because my beginings were too sharp. Make yourself at first comfortable and get too know how to perform you exercises. Later when you feel comfortable with your movements, push your limits. This way you can make yourself comfortable with discomfort (kinda a paradox, but it worked for me). There is no gain in working out very intensivaly if you are gonna leave gym after 2 weeks

    • @billymartin5657
      @billymartin5657 2 роки тому +4

      Cut the crap. Be a man. Lol

    • @PieroMinayaRojas
      @PieroMinayaRojas Рік тому +30

      @@billymartin5657 he's actually right, someone who has just started won't have the same physique as someone who's already 1 month in, I remember I could barely do 15 push ups and I had shoulder soreness after the first/second day

    • @mslukas5984
      @mslukas5984 Рік тому +1

      ​@@billymartin5657agreed. but everyone isn't that (I don't have an exact term people call it being mentally insane. We call it man-ing up , being a man etc. Some call it enjoying the pain)

    • @dynamicflashy
      @dynamicflashy Рік тому +6

      Spot on. Learn the exercises, correct form, your current strength level, getting used to the gym environment etc.
      After about 4 weeks of doing this, your free trial has expired. It’s then time for some serious training with progressive overload.

    • @mslukas5984
      @mslukas5984 Рік тому +2

      @@dynamicflashy that's the way

  • @karlinggard
    @karlinggard 3 роки тому +917

    Deadlifting is my favorite exercise. However, there's always a lot of pause before I start any of my hard sets. Man, those sets can be brutal. Love the feeling afterwards though.

    • @hungpham4615
      @hungpham4615 3 роки тому +55

      Love it when I pass out after a hard set and my head hits what ever on its way down. Lol jk

    • @karlinggard
      @karlinggard 3 роки тому +17

      @@hungpham4615 lol, fortunately I don't go that hard xD. Have had to go sit down sometimes though

    • @hungpham4615
      @hungpham4615 3 роки тому +11

      @@karlinggard just do a back flip like Clarence Kennedy after a rpe10

    • @karlinggard
      @karlinggard 3 роки тому +7

      @@hungpham4615 that's a guarantee that I'll land on my head though xD

    • @JokinJoe
      @JokinJoe 3 роки тому +12

      Deadlifting is becoming my favorite thing, I always avoided them but now I look forward to them. I use to love benching but now realize it’s the most overrated loft of all time

  • @mcfarvo
    @mcfarvo 3 роки тому +599

    If you aren't reiterating "ain't nothin' but a peanut" and screaming "lightweight, baby!" before every lift, are you really bodybuilding?

    • @anthonyl9126
      @anthonyl9126 3 роки тому +8

      I do something like this! I look at it and say "It's not that heavy." Like I'm trying to convince myself it's not. It has a good effect. Like a placebo.

    • @GameN3rdz
      @GameN3rdz 7 місяців тому

      ​@@anthonyl9126😂😂

    • @shaheedmalikimuhammad1789
      @shaheedmalikimuhammad1789 3 місяці тому

      😂🤜🏾🤛🏿💯

  • @BurnMyEyes0107
    @BurnMyEyes0107 3 роки тому +538

    I can be guilty of this. But usually with legs I have that - “this isn’t worth it”

    • @Sean_Nalewanyj
      @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +162

      Yeah for me that's almost entirely on legs.

    • @spooked5747
      @spooked5747 3 роки тому +8

      For me it’s calves, I can squats to failure with 20+ reps but calves for some reason I always doubt

    • @BlackhelmetapparelUS
      @BlackhelmetapparelUS 3 роки тому +34

      What’s calves?..............

    • @steinerhayes
      @steinerhayes 3 роки тому +1

      Lol "this isn't worth it" ....

    • @CentinalxGaming
      @CentinalxGaming 3 роки тому +10

      @@spooked5747 opposite for me, I dont mind calves but for some reason I squats are exceptionally more difficult than almost any other workout. Mainly cause I feel more pain with squats then any other workout for some reason 🤔

  • @TomScott__
    @TomScott__ Рік тому +107

    I hate doing my exercises at 59 years of age and I was worried this video was going to tell me I wasn't trying hard enough.
    I feel better knowing I can relate to everything on the list.
    I'm working hard enough to improve.
    100 push-ups in 2 sets of 50.
    60 sit-ups in 2 sets of 30 with an 80 pound weight on my chest.
    Funny: I filmed myself in my sit-ups looking for potential form problems and discovered I was grunting on most of them. I was embarrassed until now.

    • @ashykn33s
      @ashykn33s Рік тому +15

      You make me want to get strong like that oh my god

    • @ixajersk6460
      @ixajersk6460 Рік тому +13

      50 push ups in a row and a 80 POUND weight on your chest at age 59?! Wtf are you the rock or something, that's just crazy...

    • @John-nh6lp
      @John-nh6lp 8 місяців тому +1

      Keep up the good work, you’re doing it right!!

  • @thechosenone7875
    @thechosenone7875 Рік тому +48

    I love how he gets straight to the point. No nonsense 100% authentic advice. I’m not a newbie by any means, but I love learning from this man.

  • @dostal8775
    @dostal8775 3 роки тому +760

    My anxiety before a hard set closely outmatches my anxiety talking to a girl, lmao

    • @carnagemaximum2959
      @carnagemaximum2959 3 роки тому +37

      The worst than can happen if you talk to a girl is that she'll say no 😅

    • @Jnikola97
      @Jnikola97 3 роки тому +95

      Bro anxiety before approaching heavy weight for squat is the real deal xD

    • @kevinhedman2314
      @kevinhedman2314 3 роки тому +57

      “Hahahaha ew, no, of course not”

    • @jattin278
      @jattin278 3 роки тому +3

      @@carnagemaximum2959 But here you might snap , small chances but still chances.

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +1

      @@carnagemaximum2959 it's the implication

  • @louisfrongello8283
    @louisfrongello8283 3 роки тому +282

    I've been concerned that I wasn't training hard enough but after watching this it appears that I'm right on track. Thanks for this info, I needed it.

    • @nazfx2648
      @nazfx2648 2 роки тому +9

      Yeah something to add is that even those one year transformations on yt arent very realistic probably like two years. If youve been training for 4 months you’ll probably not even see any progress

    • @Carterrrrq
      @Carterrrrq 2 роки тому +2

      Among us

    • @abdealihamid2631
      @abdealihamid2631 2 роки тому +1

      @@Carterrrrq sus

  • @MarioTomicOfficial
    @MarioTomicOfficial 3 роки тому +1500

    8th Sign = You're not hitting the Like button on Sean's videos!

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +1

      That doesn't make any sense

    • @Slok727
      @Slok727 3 роки тому +76

      @@Cuzjudd sign 9: you don’t have any sense of humor

    • @freshpressedify
      @freshpressedify 3 роки тому +1

      @@Slok727 That also doesn't make any sense

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +3

      @@Slok727 if you're gonna try and do a funny, at least have some logic in there

    • @SchwabenDennisFTW
      @SchwabenDennisFTW 3 роки тому +9

      Most useful bromance on UA-cam

  • @ColeGray314
    @ColeGray314 Рік тому +143

    The amount of times during my workouts I thought to myself "I don't know if I can keep doing this", or "Why am I still doing this", all while telling myself to keep going really does make me happy to hear that it's a normal thing to go through. I'm glad to know that I truly am pushing myself hard enough

    • @disneyfan_1237
      @disneyfan_1237 Рік тому

      Same here. I feel like this every time I train calfs.

    • @ahmadsarr4277
      @ahmadsarr4277 Рік тому

      Keep on going bro you are not alone

    • @-juliuscaesarzeppeli--yuri9010
      @-juliuscaesarzeppeli--yuri9010 11 місяців тому +2

      Thats how i fell while i do squat haha

    • @Zentralrat_der_Maupen
      @Zentralrat_der_Maupen 11 місяців тому

      i can so relate to this. So often i'm like "why am i even doing it, i hate it, i would rather play a video game instead". But i started to think that is the part here the mentality gets trained as well. Because in the end i always keep pushing through my workout and after that i'm glad that i did.

    • @Not_Ciel
      @Not_Ciel 10 місяців тому

      @@Zentralrat_der_Maupen there is a level of mental discipline to it for sure.

  • @FandangoHoward
    @FandangoHoward Рік тому +32

    I'm so glad you mentioned picking out the perfect song from your playlist for sets you anticipate will be especially difficult. I also do that 😂 this whole video was honestly incredibly reassuring that I am, in fact, working *hard* towards my goals and not just tricking myself into believing that I'm working hard.

    • @nemonucliosis
      @nemonucliosis Рік тому

      If you can pay attention and listen to a song while training you're not focused and training hard enough.

    • @ernestogastelum9123
      @ernestogastelum9123 11 місяців тому

      @@nemonucliosis or, you are not good in doing both

  • @PutTheCookieDown
    @PutTheCookieDown 3 роки тому +1207

    If you don’t look like a DBZ character powering up on your last 2 reps, you’re not training hard enough. TO GO EVEN FURTHER BEYOND !

    • @Ninjaguard13
      @Ninjaguard13 3 роки тому +6

      @LionPro S Broly

    • @Samirfromthefuture
      @Samirfromthefuture 3 роки тому +14

      Z broly is best

    • @therealvaultyvaulty
      @therealvaultyvaulty 3 роки тому +4

      @LionPro we’ve never seen broly vs mui and we’ve never seen jiren vs ssjb gogeta but I’d say jiren since he quickl adapted to and overpowered mui

    • @sharpcuttah275
      @sharpcuttah275 3 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @benreilly5951
      @benreilly5951 3 роки тому

      Enjoy your kiddy Show ppl.

  • @carnivorehitman
    @carnivorehitman 3 роки тому +181

    Solid advice. It actually applies to life, in general.

  • @TheStevetoon
    @TheStevetoon 3 роки тому +723

    I’m a 58 year old guy , I’ve heard so much advise over the years . But this guy is the best he’s spot on the mark . Great delivery and great advice for us all, who are interested in body improvement/image 💪💪

    • @ghoch3
      @ghoch3 3 роки тому +15

      Just for the record. If you get older the risk reward Ratio Changes pleas dont forget that and have it in mind. Nothing to proof in the Gym after you are 40. And im only telling this because 2years ago i saw a Guy Passing Out on His deadlifts at about your age.

    • @michaelfera5515
      @michaelfera5515 2 роки тому +6

      @@ghoch3 That's silly, and condescending. There's nothing to prove in the gym at any age, and passing out during DL has nothing to do with age. We change our programming as we age, but there is nothing I can't do at 56 that I could do at 26. A little less weight and a little less often, yes. But I am safely pulling 2x bodyweight for reps. My back is as durable now as it was when I was 30. Maybe more.

    • @michaelfera5515
      @michaelfera5515 2 роки тому +1

      Totally agree. Sean's channel has become my go-to for new ideas.

    • @Bumbling.blithering.buffoons
      @Bumbling.blithering.buffoons 2 роки тому

      Hmm I only stumbled across this dude a few days ago. So far it’s a very mixed bag advice imho

    • @davas5025
      @davas5025 2 роки тому +1

      @@Bumbling.blithering.buffoons What? How?

  • @jacobstarr9010
    @jacobstarr9010 3 роки тому +244

    I just started out last month, and based on what you’ve said, it’s good to know I’m definitely training hard enough to achieve some results down the road. Thanks Sean.

    • @godeminoveou6224
      @godeminoveou6224 2 роки тому +8

      how’s it going

    • @ThePhantomCoder
      @ThePhantomCoder 2 роки тому

      you jacked yet?

    • @drippin5762
      @drippin5762 Рік тому +5

      @@godeminoveou6224 Need progress updates

    • @qaiserkhan4465
      @qaiserkhan4465 Рік тому

      UPDATE

    • @jacobstarr9010
      @jacobstarr9010 Рік тому +5

      @@qaiserkhan4465 I’ve made some progress but not as much as I should’ve. Basically if you’re in a calorie deficit don’t expect to make a lot of gains. But I have made some progress nonetheless. If I were to do it again though, I would’ve bulked first and then cut down.

  • @phipsy6941
    @phipsy6941 2 роки тому +9

    0:52 this sketch had me actually cracking up hahaha

  • @robert50173
    @robert50173 3 роки тому +258

    #8 Being afraid to look at the logbook entry for the results of what you did the last several times on that movement because you know you need to do better than before and it scares you.

    • @ollvi
      @ollvi 3 роки тому +20

      yep, that feeling when i look at the logbook and i hit for example 8 reps with some weight and i know that now i need to get 9 reps... anxiety rising :D

    • @evanobrien7316
      @evanobrien7316 3 роки тому +5

      I know that fear, especially high rep to failure stuff

  • @JamesSmith5234-v7m
    @JamesSmith5234-v7m 3 роки тому +247

    Sean telling it how it is as always 👍
    Side note: You know you’re not training hard enough if you’ve never shat yourself on the last set

    • @Sean_Nalewanyj
      @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +52

      😂

    • @BrandonWest87
      @BrandonWest87 3 роки тому +42

      Or having eaten about 300g worth of pinto beans during dinner the night before and you’re knees to ears deep in your last rep of leg press and you can’t help but let the most audible rip of flatulence in history go in front of the entire gym. I failed that rep due to laughter!

    • @Professional_Narcissist
      @Professional_Narcissist 2 роки тому +14

      @@BrandonWest87 what did I just read? This sounds a bit specific, you good?

    • @tylerheldmann1
      @tylerheldmann1 Рік тому

      ​@@Sean_Nalewanyjmy legs used to get sore when I first started because I never trained them I get sore knees and tight Quads but never stabbing pain that's unbearable I feel the high you mentioned I always feel based on the sweat I got one in

  • @olletagtstrom7804
    @olletagtstrom7804 3 роки тому +234

    I am 14 and started taking the gym serious a couple of months ago (writing down every sesh, focusing on progressive overload and eating proper) and after this video I got a motivation boost and for the first time in my life did 40 consecutive push ups. Felt real good.

    • @sneakerguy2430
      @sneakerguy2430 3 роки тому +44

      Hell na drop right now and give me 60

    • @imperialspy7204
      @imperialspy7204 3 роки тому +25

      @@sneakerguy2430 drop right now and give me a 100

    • @hassnainhaider9897
      @hassnainhaider9897 3 роки тому +17

      @@sneakerguy2430 a true gym bro💪🏻👍🏻❤️

    • @julianwhite689
      @julianwhite689 Рік тому +2

      A bit late, but I’m glad you’re proud of yourself and your progress. Where ever you are, keep it up

    • @julianborjesson9857
      @julianborjesson9857 Рік тому +5

      ​@@julianwhite689 how is that late?

  • @joeyshurland9840
    @joeyshurland9840 2 роки тому +15

    Honestly I enjoy the pain from lifting. I wouldn’t consider myself a masochist but there’s nothing better than the burning sensation of going beyond failure and pushing your muscles to the max.

    • @bennywolfe4357
      @bennywolfe4357 Рік тому +1

      All muscles or certain muscles? I don’t enjoy the burning sensation from sit-ups.

    • @exjester6574
      @exjester6574 Рік тому

      I don't feel the burning when I do curls , even when I curl to failure. My arms just feel stiff as fuck.

  • @its.angelll
    @its.angelll Рік тому +15

    ik this is an older video by Sean but this was genuinely helpful. Im starting to focus on progressive overload and was questioning if I'm even working hard enough because I'd feel like it wasn't that much hard work at the gym, now I know to go in and really work those weights and give it my absolute all, no more "more reps, less weight" bs

  • @Cuzjudd
    @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +188

    I feel like there's a stigma in making legit noises when you're straining your ass off. Especially towards the end of a set of heavy deads or squats. I've never once in my life faked a face or a noise in the gym

    • @TheKisj
      @TheKisj 3 роки тому +29

      I feel like you can clearly tell when someone is doing that, I've seen countless new guys/older guys and females suddenly, out of nowhere in their..."warm up" starting to grit teeth and grunt 🤦‍♂️dude you just started, chill out 🤣

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheKisj hmmok

    • @TheKisj
      @TheKisj 3 роки тому

      @@Cuzjudd faking it i mean 🥴

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +2

      @@TheKisj yeah I know

    • @savini8234
      @savini8234 3 роки тому

      I love to fake it ;)

  • @Bow-to-the-absurd
    @Bow-to-the-absurd 3 роки тому +140

    My legs used to turn to jelly walking through the gym door.
    Because they knew what was coming.

    • @matt1839
      @matt1839 3 роки тому +8

      So, I’m not the only one legs knows I’m doing leg day hehe

    • @RelaxAndSmokeMeth
      @RelaxAndSmokeMeth 3 роки тому +1

      Lol

  • @WiseFoolTrades
    @WiseFoolTrades 3 роки тому +59

    Gotta go through uncomfortable situations if you want to improve!

  • @GamerWithAttitude1
    @GamerWithAttitude1 2 роки тому +19

    The 2nd hint is great ! It's OK to feel a bit nervous when there's a chance you're about to fail. Knowing that you have the same feeling at your level is very reassuring. Thank you for your honest approach man, your vids are awesome 👍

  • @Insubordinate1204
    @Insubordinate1204 2 роки тому +29

    I’m 49 years old and have been hitting the weights off and on since I was around 13. There have been significant breaks in my physical fitness in my life and they are no one’s fault my own. That being said this gentleman‘s advice seems to be very sound and intelligent and based on science and not horse shit that you get from some 22-year-old dude that has been in the gym since he was a junior in high school. I consider myself to be fairly knowledgeable as it pertains to physical fitness and growing size and doing it safely, however, Sean I believe is really helping me make some good changes for the future as I work past 50 this year

  • @pvtdouchecanoeyt9335
    @pvtdouchecanoeyt9335 3 роки тому +93

    This was eye opening, especially the anxiety. I thought it was just general anxiety... Didn't know other people felt that before difficult lifts.

  • @ozzy5146
    @ozzy5146 3 роки тому +218

    Seems like Sean has upped his youtube game in the last few months. I've been watching much more after kinda forgetting about him. He seems more confident and purposeful. Good job! (Or maybe I was just not getting notifications or something!)

    • @Sean_Nalewanyj
      @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +54

      Thanks man! Have definitely changed the video style up the past 6 months or so.

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +1

      @@Sean_Nalewanyj just don't become Simon '7 list items or less' Miller. Good guy but his content format is stale as.

    • @amaladnan5522
      @amaladnan5522 3 роки тому +4

      @@Cuzjudd simon is cool man

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому

      @@amaladnan5522 I know

    • @Wolf462
      @Wolf462 3 роки тому

      Yea I’ve only been subbed for like 2 months but I love Sean’s videos. He’s in my top 3 favorite lifting channels

  • @GamerN131
    @GamerN131 3 роки тому +165

    Me reading the title: “Hey I train pretty hard.”
    Me seeing my physique in the thumbnail: “and never mind”

    • @theavgbrian
      @theavgbrian 3 роки тому +22

      Be patient man, training hard a few times doesn’t mean you’ll get a great physique. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. I definitely can relate to you tho,
      I’ve been there

    • @danielutkin
      @danielutkin 3 роки тому

      SAME

    • @ordinaryman403
      @ordinaryman403 3 роки тому +2

      Thats the problem. Ur letting social media influence u. Work on urself and compare to urself, not others

  • @mikeysaint4368
    @mikeysaint4368 Рік тому +5

    A thumbs-up straight away based on the first few words. Sean is absolutely correct when he debunks the idea that working out should be fun. Maybe if you're infirm or have various health issues "fun" exercises could be beneficial, but for anyone wanting to become fit, lean and build muscle most sessions should be hard work, not "fun". The enjoyment comes afterwards when you can wallow in the dopamine and endorphins created by pushing yourself.

  • @glago93
    @glago93 2 роки тому +72

    Dude, I was doing leg presses like you were doing at 4:25 the other night and my face contorted so much that I feel like I nearly dislocated my jaw. The stress was real during that entire set. Good to know that the ugly face is a normal thing 🤣

    • @alik5972
      @alik5972 Рік тому +8

      I workout in an old school gym in my university (it's also free) and instead of making faces I just grunt on those last reps and everybody's cool with it, I even get nods because of the intensity I put in that set. I fvcking love old school gyms

    • @Professor_Iron
      @Professor_Iron Рік тому +2

      i did legs yesterday, during my hack squat, leg press, and calve raises.. i felt like i was damn close to passing out after my sets. vision be blurry as hell and i be breathing hard. my legs felt like they were gonna fall off or tear off the bone. thats training hard

    • @emeraldmb65
      @emeraldmb65 10 місяців тому

      I did the same thing doing dumbell rows this week, so its good to know that im not alone

  • @adnanahmed9044
    @adnanahmed9044 3 роки тому +29

    2:31 man that nervousness before the sets is scary and fun at the same time..

  • @samadhussain6402
    @samadhussain6402 3 роки тому +41

    I can relate to everything in this video. I love getting high at the gym. So many people just go through the motions. Great video

  • @mikepal830
    @mikepal830 3 роки тому +50

    8th sign: if you don't pass out or shit yourself while performing a rep, then you def gotta dig deeper.

    • @1-4-johnny.cash.fan-8-8
      @1-4-johnny.cash.fan-8-8 3 роки тому

      I take a dump before I train legs specifically so I don't shit myself

    • @helloturkey1143
      @helloturkey1143 2 роки тому

      No joke sometimes I'm genuinely afraid of pissing myself when my body goes into full clench mode

  • @lucariette
    @lucariette Рік тому +2

    I hate going to the gym some days but I always love that I went anyways

  • @aidenralston5477
    @aidenralston5477 2 роки тому +5

    6:50 bro David hoggins is literally psychotic with the shit he does 😂

  • @andergda
    @andergda 3 роки тому +122

    The thought "why am I doing this to myself" is real, especially on legs hahah

    • @zippo5294
      @zippo5294 3 роки тому

      I can relate

    • @sarthakjasra1101
      @sarthakjasra1101 3 роки тому +1

      I love leg days.
      I hate chest...😅😅😅

    • @averagegameenjoyer797
      @averagegameenjoyer797 3 роки тому +2

      Bulgarian split squats make me feel like that

    • @benvinke6141
      @benvinke6141 3 роки тому

      I feel you

    • @fried_7332
      @fried_7332 6 місяців тому

      ​@@averagegameenjoyer797exactly, I hate how no one here's talking about it
      That sh*t is the bane of my existence

  • @jw-ws8dz
    @jw-ws8dz 3 роки тому +79

    this is reassuring to hear. I just did leg day today (focused on back squats) and that third point you mentioned hit too close to home. On the last few reps (especially in the later sets) I was genuinely not comfortable. I always enter leg day with some sort of optimism but when I start doing the lifting I get pretty stressed in between sets and sometimes start to question my existence toward the end of a hard set.

    • @mannyk7100
      @mannyk7100 2 роки тому +1

      100% bro. I honestly become discouraged by the time I hit my 3rd or 4th set cause I'm so tired, but I know it needs to be done

  • @painuchiha2694
    @painuchiha2694 3 роки тому +218

    Training hard isn’t even hard imo
    That’s the fun part
    It’s harder to eat enough food each day imo
    I hate the idea that I need to consume soo much life only to get beeg muscles
    How selfish

    • @ezaudafi
      @ezaudafi 3 роки тому +16

      Yeah maybe I’m the masochist or sociopath that he talked about lmao. I find myself sometimes having to dial back because I’m under recovering for my goals

    • @rachid8507
      @rachid8507 3 роки тому +4

      @@lexionis3901 no

    • @paladindanse98
      @paladindanse98 3 роки тому +4

      @@lexionis3901 nobody will get to their genetic limit without going into a surplus.

    • @ryanw5525
      @ryanw5525 3 роки тому +6

      @@paladindanse98 a 300-500 calorie surplus is more than enough tho, a lot of people are under the misconception that they need 1000+ calories surplus to gain significant mass.

    • @paladindanse98
      @paladindanse98 3 роки тому

      @@ryanw5525 I know.

  • @chakinabox
    @chakinabox 2 роки тому +7

    Honestly, pleasantly surprised how much my headspace lines up with these. Especially the nervousness prior to sets. Always figured it was a sign of me just wanting to procrastinate, but I've generally been good at keeping time in between reps and like you said having that moment of pause before getting back into it.

  • @nilskrzypczak7764
    @nilskrzypczak7764 2 роки тому +5

    the nervousness one I definitely agree with. When I'm sitting there getting closer and closer to the next set I get more and more nervous because the last set was so difficult

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 3 роки тому +43

    Training harder than last time is a good philosophy

    • @MINI_JasperJunior
      @MINI_JasperJunior 3 роки тому +11

      AND BUY MY FREAKIN' COOKBOOK! 📖

    • @Sean_Nalewanyj
      @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +10

      Yes and no. Depends on how it's being used.

    • @Sean_Nalewanyj
      @Sean_Nalewanyj  3 роки тому +31

      @@MINI_JasperJunior $150 for a cookbook - that's a no from me dawg.

    • @johndouglas1294
      @johndouglas1294 3 роки тому

      @@Sean_Nalewanyj well that can go for any program. Lol.

    • @paulcroft9483
      @paulcroft9483 3 роки тому

      Train harder than last time is Gregg doucetts trade mark saying period...

  • @FitLabb
    @FitLabb 3 роки тому +29

    Solid points! Put the phone away, remove distractions, & focus!!! Have to push ourselves out of our comfort zone & really get your head in the game during each workout!

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +3

      It's an extension of anything you want to be successful in life in

    • @FitLabb
      @FitLabb 3 роки тому

      @@Cuzjudd Great point, I couldn’t agree more! 👍

    • @toomanyblocks8448
      @toomanyblocks8448 2 роки тому +2

      I wouldn't have half the physique I currently do if not my phone, it's easy to use for planning and tracking workouts

  • @papasitoman
    @papasitoman 3 роки тому +19

    The Scooby1961 face/grunting on the last rep is a must!

  • @personalcontent4484
    @personalcontent4484 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this... I come from competing 20 years ago. I was surrounded by guys working with this intensity at the bodybuilding gym I went to.
    I got back into it now and don't see any intensity at all from anyone at the local gym, and all this new science is skewing things. But the thing I have noticed is the rate of improvement, at which those that are training with intensity are achieving, is outpacing those that are not.

  • @hal0dude7
    @hal0dude7 Рік тому +4

    This is such a great video, as a perfectionist I often stress and obsess over 'am I doing enough' or 'did I do that workout correctly' so being able to relate with most of the points on this list and knowing I am pushing myself makes me feel great.

  • @iamhawthornedude
    @iamhawthornedude 3 роки тому +59

    Dude thanks so much for these great points. I started my weightlifting journey recently and I was wondering why everyone is always so calm and collected while exercising while I’m over here making ugly ass faces and really struggling to pump those last reps. You really made me feel a lot better and confident that I’m definitely pushing myself to my limits. I’m ready to go feel that pain tomorrow 💪🏼

  • @chrisspinella
    @chrisspinella 3 роки тому +17

    When Sean swished and pointed at me saying “Yes, *You,*” I took that personal hahahaha

  • @Moose92411
    @Moose92411 3 роки тому +14

    I could write a goddamn novel on how applicable every single one of these is to me. Just absolutely SPOT ON.

    • @mohammadahmed1290
      @mohammadahmed1290 3 роки тому +3

      It feels so good knowing that I’m actually training well

    • @Moose92411
      @Moose92411 3 роки тому +1

      @@mohammadahmed1290 Absolutely agreed!

  • @benkendall5562
    @benkendall5562 Рік тому +3

    I've only been lifting for just over a year and I thought that nervous feeling I get before sets was just a 'me thing' and will sometimes question what's wrong with me. Thanks for validating that this is completely normal!

  • @jeroenvanderwal6375
    @jeroenvanderwal6375 2 роки тому +2

    3:53 , so relatable every time I’m just wondering why am I doing this, it hurts it’s hard, and at the and of the workout I’m the happiest person and ready to do it tomorrow all over again

  • @Derangh
    @Derangh 3 роки тому +15

    This is a real motivational video. Started lifting at the age of 32, and took me another year or so to get into a structured training plan, with everything else that's going around (family, kids and work), I sometimes wonder why the hell am I doing this. I can humbly say I'm most if not all boxes on these 7 things you laid out Sean. Another motivator to keep moving forward.

  • @marvinpierre2082
    @marvinpierre2082 3 роки тому +14

    6:43 😂😂 David Goggins

  • @TigerShark316
    @TigerShark316 3 роки тому +24

    I’m so glad you mentioned being nervous cuz I’ve been feeling that way for a couple years and thought I was just overly analytical and afraid of failure. Haha. Turns out it seems to be a natural reaction for those who are competitive enough with themselves to try to beat their last session

  • @neelkanth3002
    @neelkanth3002 Рік тому +2

    I was afraid that I wasn't training hard enough before clicking on this video. But I am glad that I fit in NONE of those points. Thanks for this little confirmation Sean!!
    Gym is absolute hell for me and I love it for that!

  • @shiggyvara3441
    @shiggyvara3441 Рік тому +2

    Last workout for core i was just laying on the ground after the end for about 5mins just laughing like a psycho from relief, thanks for validating my inner joker.

  • @alexandercastrosantiago1463
    @alexandercastrosantiago1463 3 роки тому +8

    Loved the David Goggins clip savage dude.

  • @p7reston777
    @p7reston777 3 роки тому +19

    These tips all apply on my 3rd and 4th set of an exercise. Thank you Sean for continuing amazing content!!

  • @BuddhaSmoove
    @BuddhaSmoove 3 роки тому +60

    That David Goggins clip 💀💀

  • @imclueless9875
    @imclueless9875 11 місяців тому +1

    Look, im 32, never been overweight but have always been the "skinny" guy and finally had enough and things need to change so i have started to workout, my biggest goal is to gain weight and muscle. Im nearing my third month of it and this video helped me realize im on the right path. The first two months were really rough.
    This month however Its been a very weird month. The first month i didnt notice any changes really, I used to have 1 - 2 meals never eating breakfast and normally all bad foods. I shifted that and forced myself to eat better, now i have 3-5 meals a day and have cut down my caffeine intake drastically. Used to have a 3+ coffees a day, now i have barely 1 cup. I dont even feel fully awake anymore until i eat breakfast. I was starting to get really discouraged by not really seeing any results physically the past two months. But this month I realized i have gained almost 15 lbs total and aside from realizing my veins seem to be getting bigger around my body it has been quite a system shock. I am starting to feel completely different mentality, i can focus better, i get more done, i havent had any headaches or health issues, i dont feel as depressed or miserable, my attitude towards the gym has also been really positive like a reward for myself that i get to go. It is weird to explain really. It's like a way "i can just be" and that is like my mental peace outlet where i get to go listen to my favorite songs and release my daily stress. This video has helped me realize that all the struggle this month has broughten has some tremendous positives along with them and i know im on the right path!
    For anyone like me, dont slow down.. BREAK through that damn wall. Cause once you pass it the grass is greener on the other side and you will thank yourself for it in the long run. Remember its a marathon NOT a sprint and every step you take is just one step closer to your goal!

  • @robwhitaker8534
    @robwhitaker8534 День тому

    Sean dropping absolute facts as always

  • @richardtrass
    @richardtrass 3 роки тому +42

    Sign 9 - I'm focussing on the girls in the background when Sean is psyching up for his leg press....

  • @GymGarageMan
    @GymGarageMan 3 роки тому +13

    Pushing it to the limit and beyond with every workout and gains will be made ! If you gonna train give it 100% every time!!!

  • @jaylil_14
    @jaylil_14 3 роки тому +5

    Been watching your channel consistently for 5 years straight, I don’t think I can say that about any other fitness channel. Keep up the good work and quality no BS content Sean!

  • @Seej_
    @Seej_ 11 місяців тому

    Im actually glad to hear being nervous or anxious about a set that is genuinely taxing on the body is a good thing.

  • @davidculver2252
    @davidculver2252 Рік тому +7

    This was definitely a confidence boosting video! I true feel like im hitting all those marks!! Your content is amazing and has definitely helped change my life forever! Thank you for all that you do!!

  • @jonathansalas9595
    @jonathansalas9595 3 роки тому +4

    Good to hear that feeling anxious before some lifts is normal. I feel this often with legs day lol, and I kept thinking it wasn’t normal

  • @selsalazar4387
    @selsalazar4387 3 роки тому +7

    I thought it's just me who feels anxiety during training specially during deadlifts and squats it's nice to know that this is actually a normal thing

  • @daandehaas10
    @daandehaas10 3 роки тому +10

    Dear Sean!
    Thank you for your videos, since none of the people in my surroundings do any type of fitness (or sports), it feels good to listen to someone way better than I am talking about this stuff.
    This is more motivating than you could ever imagine.

  • @drewgrows7765
    @drewgrows7765 2 роки тому +1

    Close to failure in the final sets is something important that I have taken from this channel. No pain no gain

  • @dvmo5553
    @dvmo5553 Рік тому

    Dude, you are the most honest UA-camr for fitness, I haven't encountered any of your videos has BS so far. Glad I watched this video, all your points applys to me, lol. I feel comfortable that I'm on the right track.

  • @ralphcarpenter760
    @ralphcarpenter760 3 роки тому +7

    Every point is spot on accurate, great video! I have deadlifts to do in 5 hours from now and I'm already thinking about it and getting psyched out for it! Same thing happens on leg day with squats.

  • @rastadog97
    @rastadog97 3 роки тому +19

    If everybody only did the exercises that they enjoy, then nobody would have big legs

    • @Top_Weeb
      @Top_Weeb 3 роки тому +1

      I used to love squats in high school when I only did half reps... I've been really pushing myself on squats lately cause I want to get to that zone where I really enjoy them.

  • @dookiecookie8443
    @dookiecookie8443 3 роки тому +4

    Glad to hear that I’m not the only one feeling anxious before a workout..

  • @firstaccount888
    @firstaccount888 11 місяців тому

    This was an awesome video! Each comment was right on. Thanks for the confirmation. I’m working hard!

  • @Bamboozler2349
    @Bamboozler2349 Рік тому +2

    I really like pushing myself while exercising and I often don’t question why I’m doing it, but when I do its either cardio or Bulgarian split squats

  • @mrpolarbearrrrr
    @mrpolarbearrrrr 3 роки тому +66

    You know when you’re training hard when you are on the verge of dying on the last rep on squats 💀

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd 3 роки тому +3

      The dreaded squat dreads 🥵

    • @jamesrussell5196
      @jamesrussell5196 3 роки тому

      Hell yeah!

    • @davida5053
      @davida5053 3 роки тому +1

      Yesssirrtr

    • @soonerborn7603
      @soonerborn7603 3 роки тому +4

      “Welp, I guess I’ll be stuck down here forever”. I’ve definitely had that thought...

    • @Black-zr6is
      @Black-zr6is 3 роки тому +3

      Oh squats are like that tall lady in the new resident evil, it's scary n beautiful at the same time

  • @Siegbert85
    @Siegbert85 3 роки тому +6

    4:38 "One side of your mind is urging you to stop this madness..."
    "Madness? THIS IS SPARTA!"

  • @Ender-ox1qr
    @Ender-ox1qr 3 роки тому +20

    Agree entirely. My partners chuckle when I have to take 15 seconds to get my shit together before any set of squat or deadlift but I have to be hyper focused to get a max effort out of myself.

  • @aircraftstructuralspeciali3006
    @aircraftstructuralspeciali3006 2 роки тому

    You are a bloody champion. The only person I have found to be "straight up - No B.S." when it comes to every aspect of a given topic

  • @ShekharKumar-jh3uc
    @ShekharKumar-jh3uc Рік тому +1

    You're channel has helped me realize how many parallels there are between the gym and life. I'm very grateful

  • @malavikaganesh9970
    @malavikaganesh9970 3 роки тому +4

    Totally relatable! I learnt what musle fatigue is from this guy. I lost 6kgs in 6 months. This guy talks perfect sense! ❤️
    Not to mention, I'm using the workout plan he mailed me for free.

  • @lifeinsidekyoto6553
    @lifeinsidekyoto6553 3 роки тому +9

    There’s a guy in my gym that sounds like Mr Krabs on his last couple of reps. Me and my buddy crack up every time we hear him. 😂

    • @Amund_-bd6zz
      @Amund_-bd6zz 3 роки тому +3

      There's a 50-60 yr old man at my gym SHOUTING "FUCK!!!" for every rep he does istg

    • @CommentedHere0
      @CommentedHere0 3 роки тому +1

      @@Amund_-bd6zz 😂 lol what

  • @grahamsalmons2027
    @grahamsalmons2027 3 роки тому +5

    These are just really good, straight advice and I really like how Sean has articulated the points, this really resonated with me. I try and remind myself that I don’t want to be disappointed at the end that I could have done better or more. Another way I know I’ve had a great workout is my fatigue level: if I’m like ready for bed at 22:30, and just am out like a light - I probably worked out hard

  • @sirluncha_lot4342
    @sirluncha_lot4342 2 роки тому +15

    3:40 I actually love the pain that's one of the reasons I work out at all

    • @socialreveluv5428
      @socialreveluv5428 2 роки тому +2

      I totally agree. The fun starts when you can feel the burn. Like you want to stomp that fkn exercise, let out all the aggression.

    • @sirluncha_lot4342
      @sirluncha_lot4342 2 роки тому +1

      @@socialreveluv5428 yes that's what I'm talking about !

  • @Faltzerbeast90
    @Faltzerbeast90 Рік тому +2

    I always play a hype song right before a heavy set, remember my form/how it should feel and a deep breath right before then i yell "lightweight baby!!" In my head 😂😅

  • @piyushdwivedi7195
    @piyushdwivedi7195 3 роки тому +24

    Me who feels like he's gonna die after the workout: YES

  • @brendenbarnes2071
    @brendenbarnes2071 3 роки тому +4

    I dread my leg workouts to the point where I'm psychologically looking for excuses not to. I go hard or don't bother. But boy, it feels great when it's over.👍😩😌🇦🇺

    • @syedmajidhassan4051
      @syedmajidhassan4051 2 роки тому

      That's why I love feeling like I can't get up from bed the next day due to pain because it's so satisfying

  • @stevooo1790
    @stevooo1790 3 роки тому +4

    I love how I thought of Goggins immediately when he mentioned "unless you're some crazy type A personality..." and then he showed a Goggins clip 🤣

  • @braxtonroy9732
    @braxtonroy9732 Рік тому +1

    I get excited before my sets like I can't wait to reach failure stuff exilerates me