I would not be friends with those moms again, unless they were just lying and actually was telling me what was happening. Other than that they're bad friends
Right?! I'm sure some of them didn't believe everything that was said. At least one person should at least told her what rumors were going on and find out her side of the story. That's what a good friend would do especially for something that is out of character for that person.
If your so “ friends “ are that easily persuaded to stop talking to you because someone paid them, then they are not your friends. The moment she was out of their lives they would still be out of mine. They’re not your friends nor did they respect your friendship. They showed their true self to you and that they didn’t value your friendship the way you valued theirs. True friends will never turned their backs on you for any reason, not even for money.💴 You can see where their loyalty lies. Not with you apparently. Put them in your review mirror as you move forward with your life with your husband. Just see them as leaves 🍁 in your life. Concentrate on planting roots with your husband in your new house 🏠.
I would NOT be friends with those shallow 'friends' ever again. If they're so shallow and materialistic that they can be bribed by someone they supposedly HATE that easily, to stab me in the back like that? Yeah, hell no. I'm finding new friends
That's the problem with singing "Anything you can do, I can do better." Sooner or later somebody's going to put you to the test. And if your words are not backed up by your actions you are going to look like a fool.
There are mothers that hang around together in neighborhoods. They are not necessarily people you want to know. Some are not very nice. Some are nice. But you end up having to take the good with the bad. So, no, don't hang around with them if you want to avoid bring hurt and your children being hurt. (Yes, the not so nice ones will do things that hurt your child's feelings using the their child and the children of the other moms --that is how mean some of these moms can be.)
I don't know what's sadder te fact that she ruined her whole life just because 1 person wouldn't bend over backwards just to lick the floor that she walks on or the fact that there are people like that in real life
There's people who don't see the value in spending $300 on a plain shirt just because it has a name on it, and then there's people like Irene who have no life and just want attention.
It would only be okay if you were in on it with them. 'She's gonna pay you to stay away from me? Go ahead and take the idiot's money, and we will catch up later. LOL!'
Irene is a special type of crazy to get so upset that *one* person wasn’t giving her attention that she went into debt and ruined her marriage. It’s both sad and creepy.
It totally depends on the cost of living where people live. It greatly varies around the world, even within a country. I know some places that you can rent an entire 3 bedroom house for under $1,000 a month and the average income for a couple is around $45,000 annually. In those areas the average income of $60,000 is considered above average.
You cannot afford a 5 star hotel room on 60K a year, no matter where you live. Edit: My sister's SIL was an interior decorator for businesses in Dallas, TX. When she came to visit her brother and his family, she stayed in a 5 star luxury hotel in our state. My sister said it cost $2500/night. The "room" was huge. (There was actually multiple rooms in the luxury room.) This was 2 decades ago. This woman is now retired but owns multiple homes in at least 3 states. She is very active in dog rescue organizations.
Those were never real friends. I'd have no problem not dealing with rude people like that ever. I wouldn't ever want those friends back after they did that. I wouldn't be lonely at all. Ignore snobs = peaceful silence
If the offer of a little money was enough for your "friends" to stop talking to you or inviting you places then they were never your friend in the first place!
Wait I didn’t get my justification part!!!! You know what I mean, the part where her husband doesn’t make 25k a year, that’s his monthly salary and also my husband is your husband’s boss! Come on yall! LOL.
So let me get this right Little Ms, Splendid did all this for attention and got herself into debt and a divorced from her husband all because one person didn’t give two shits what she brought with money borrowed from the bank. How miserable and pathetic can one woman be?
15:41 Banks? Unless she went to a loan shark, how did Irene borrow money? She didn't have a job, and can't use her husband's salary with a bank without his okay. And it didn't sound like she had property or something in her name to guarantee a bank loan.
I am aware of how much I earn per month. I am aware of how much I spend each month. As long as my monthly accounts receivable are greater than accounts payable, I can sleep contentedly at night. What little I have left over goes into my entertainment budget and my retirement funds. My life is good.
I never understood superficial women or men who brag about the brand goods they buy. It just seems like a waste of time and money. Sure, reward yourself but don't be gross about it
Why the heck would she go out with those women again wow Stunned. Her ‘friends’ agreed to be paid to ignore her and she ends up still being friends. Wow
60k is a lot? Before or after taxes? Maybe I'm missing something. $1500 a month means they spend 18k a year on rent alone? After taxes they're probably spending 40% of their income on rent! Realism folks! (Maybe this is 1984 and not 2024. lol)
Wouldn't continue being friends with someone rude like Irene (haha my dog’s name is Peppah, so anytime I hear the tv show name cracks me up) Irene reminds me of a stalker
I'm just like Lauren, but I don't have patience or the temperament to forgive people who are quick to sell me out. It goes further to friends, family and children( Yes, children because teaching children about loyalty at young age is a valuable lesson building resilience, self awareness and independence). In fact, I admit I enjoy seeing people get annoyed bc I don't kiss their ass and stroke their ego. I admit this openly and proudly I am vindictive and petty at my worst. At my best I am kind, loyal, and supportive. I can't stand bullies, liars and arrogant narcissistic people, as well as weak, pathetic, doormats. My experience with these types of people is I will tell you exactly what I think of you, and if possible never deal with you but if I have too, I will not be miserable, annoyed Yes, miserable no but I believe matching energy with energy and to be even honest I'm the milder version my friends and family are actually worse than me.
I missed listening to this VA. Been going over to other channels with these stories because of the length these stories are being. I mean 2.5 hrs for one story?
I would not be friends with those moms again, unless they were just lying and actually was telling me what was happening. Other than that they're bad friends
Right?! I'm sure some of them didn't believe everything that was said. At least one person should at least told her what rumors were going on and find out her side of the story. That's what a good friend would do especially for something that is out of character for that person.
A person who accepts money to ignore someone they have called a friend are shallow and no friend at all.
If your so “ friends “ are that easily persuaded to stop talking to you because someone paid them, then they are not your friends. The moment she was out of their lives they would still be out of mine. They’re not your friends nor did they respect your friendship. They showed their true self to you and that they didn’t value your friendship the way you valued theirs. True friends will never turned their backs on you for any reason, not even for money.💴 You can see where their loyalty lies. Not with you apparently. Put them in your review mirror as you move forward with your life with your husband. Just see them as leaves 🍁 in your life. Concentrate on planting roots with your husband in your new house 🏠.
If friends can be paid to ignore you, they are NOT friends! Dump all of them and find NEW friends!
I would NOT be friends with those shallow 'friends' ever again. If they're so shallow and materialistic that they can be bribed by someone they supposedly HATE that easily, to stab me in the back like that?
Yeah, hell no. I'm finding new friends
That's the problem with singing "Anything you can do, I can do better." Sooner or later somebody's going to put you to the test. And if your words are not backed up by your actions you are going to look like a fool.
Why become mom friends again with a bunch of women who dropped you just because someone dangled some money towards them?
If they can be bribed so easily they're not really friends
😂 I've never heard of "mom group" or "mom friends" until I saw these on YT.
There are mothers that hang around together in neighborhoods. They are not necessarily people you want to know. Some are not very nice. Some are nice. But you end up having to take the good with the bad. So, no, don't hang around with them if you want to avoid bring hurt and your children being hurt. (Yes, the not so nice ones will do things that hurt your child's feelings using the their child and the children of the other moms --that is how mean some of these moms can be.)
I would just type 5 words. "OH-MY-GAWD-SHUT-UP" and block her.
$60000 a year does NOT make you rich. Trust me, I know. 😂
Why would you want friends who could be bought off?
Oh my gosh, I'd have hung up and blocked Irene LONG before that phone convo ended! This person is being nice calling her a CREEP!
I don't know what's sadder te fact that she ruined her whole life just because 1 person wouldn't bend over backwards just to lick the floor that she walks on or the fact that there are people like that in real life
There's people who don't see the value in spending $300 on a plain shirt just because it has a name on it, and then there's people like Irene who have no life and just want attention.
09:58 If people ignore you for a little bit of money they never were your friends anyway.
It would only be okay if you were in on it with them. 'She's gonna pay you to stay away from me? Go ahead and take the idiot's money, and we will catch up later. LOL!'
She needs to sell all those expensive bags and clothes and pay it all off herself.
Irene is a special type of crazy to get so upset that *one* person wasn’t giving her attention that she went into debt and ruined her marriage.
It’s both sad and creepy.
Plus pathetic as well.
Its realistic
Trye plus they make tv shows on Mtv with people like that.
I've seen people like this irl. But it inevitably comes back and bites them.
Hard.
Luxurious life? $60,000 a year is pretty average. Nothing to brag about!
Yep
My thoughts exactly
Especially for 2 people but I guess it depends on where they live.
It totally depends on the cost of living where people live. It greatly varies around the world, even within a country. I know some places that you can rent an entire 3 bedroom house for under $1,000 a month and the average income for a couple is around $45,000 annually. In those areas the average income of $60,000 is considered above average.
You cannot afford a 5 star hotel room on 60K a year, no matter where you live.
Edit: My sister's SIL was an interior decorator for businesses in Dallas, TX. When she came to visit her brother and his family, she stayed in a 5 star luxury hotel in our state. My sister said it cost $2500/night. The "room" was huge. (There was actually multiple rooms in the luxury room.) This was 2 decades ago. This woman is now retired but owns multiple homes in at least 3 states. She is very active in dog rescue organizations.
Why doesn't she just block her?
Those were never real friends. I'd have no problem not dealing with rude people like that ever. I wouldn't ever want those friends back after they did that. I wouldn't be lonely at all. Ignore snobs = peaceful silence
If the offer of a little money was enough for your "friends" to stop talking to you or inviting you places then they were never your friend in the first place!
Ok so why doesn't she just block her and not deal with it easy
Wait I didn’t get my justification part!!!!
You know what I mean, the part where her husband doesn’t make 25k a year, that’s his monthly salary and also my husband is your husband’s boss! Come on yall! LOL.
So let me get this right Little Ms, Splendid did all this for attention and got herself into debt and a divorced from her husband all because one person didn’t give two shits what she brought with money borrowed from the bank. How miserable and pathetic can one woman be?
The sad thing is, there are people like her in the real world... It takes all kinds to make the world go around, as they say
So basically, the Kardashians.
@@KnightDarkness-bv1ei That's a very good comparison!
Irene, you HAVE a source of income! Down at the corner at the red light
15:41 Banks? Unless she went to a loan shark, how did Irene borrow money? She didn't have a job, and can't use her husband's salary with a bank without his okay. And it didn't sound like she had property or something in her name to guarantee a bank loan.
If Irene could bribe your mom friends with a few dollars not to talk to you, they really weren’t your friends in the first place
If my wife maxed out her cards for bags and dumb stuff. She’ll be an ex wife soon.
Woah, she really went into debt just to keep up appearances.
She'd be blocked lol
I am aware of how much I earn per month. I am aware of how much I spend each month. As long as my monthly accounts receivable are greater than accounts payable, I can sleep contentedly at night. What little I have left over goes into my entertainment budget and my retirement funds. My life is good.
Reference Charles Dickens' McCawbers philosophy. In short, sixpence more than your expenses means contentment.
@@shoshanaudelson4481 Thanks fr the reminder! Bingo!
I never understood superficial women or men who brag about the brand goods they buy. It just seems like a waste of time and money. Sure, reward yourself but don't be gross about it
I called it, Irene asked for money. *face palm* She's sooooo annoying!!!
They weren’t friends if they were ready to “sell” friendship for some money,
60K is pretty good but definitely not luxury living. I do like a delusional braggart though.
60 grand is nice but 250 grand would be impressive……
Why would anyone brag about paying more for rent?
🙄
That's stupid.
She should share a recording of this to all of them and then block all
Irene’s voice 😂😂
Why the heck would she go out with those women again wow Stunned. Her ‘friends’ agreed to be paid to ignore her and she ends up still being friends.
Wow
That is confusing. Makes no sense.
60k is a lot? Before or after taxes? Maybe I'm missing something. $1500 a month means they spend 18k a year on rent alone? After taxes they're probably spending 40% of their income on rent! Realism folks! (Maybe this is 1984 and not 2024. lol)
It might be since the OP’s rent is only $600 😂
"Very successful" and "hefty income"... $60k?!!!
In some low average income states, 60K might be above average. But not money enough for luxury brand name items.
Wouldn't continue being friends with someone rude like Irene
(haha my dog’s name is Peppah, so anytime I hear the tv show name cracks me up)
Irene reminds me of a stalker
I'm just like Lauren, but I don't have patience or the temperament to forgive people who are quick to sell me out. It goes further to friends, family and children( Yes, children because teaching children about loyalty at young age is a valuable lesson building resilience, self awareness and independence). In fact, I admit I enjoy seeing people get annoyed bc I don't kiss their ass and stroke their ego. I admit this openly and proudly I am vindictive and petty at my worst. At my best I am kind, loyal, and supportive. I can't stand bullies, liars and arrogant narcissistic people, as well as weak, pathetic, doormats. My experience with these types of people is I will tell you exactly what I think of you, and if possible never deal with you but if I have too, I will not be miserable, annoyed Yes, miserable no but I believe matching energy with energy and to be even honest I'm the milder version my friends and family are actually worse than me.
I missed listening to this VA. Been going over to other channels with these stories because of the length these stories are being. I mean 2.5 hrs for one story?
Never mixed with school mums. Too much nonsense. Just a couple 9f friends from before then.
Never would help her
Why is it your business. Block and delete
Why is someone else’s money any concern to some people? Mind your own business and get on with your life.
Period❤
Exactly.
Irene oink oink voice.
I wouldn’t answer her
Irene reminds me of a noisy Mrs Cravitz (from Bewitched)..very annoying....
Do people really talk to other people like this
So annoying! Why continue the communication?!