can they overcome childhood heartbreak? | tea for two
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Director: Sari Arambulo, Nicole McCullough
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0:00 intro
0:40 what is your trigger on a date?
3:17 something you regret that you failed to do in past relationship
4:32 what's the worst thing someone can say about you?
5:39 facetime the other person's mom
6:35 When was the last you really cried
09:37 Search your name in the other person’s messages
12:12 What is your most consistent and greatest fear?
13:39 phone incident debrief
17:38 Justin and Diane write letters to each other - Розваги
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i feel so bad cod him
Bro, when you felt disrespected you should have conveyed that in words. However, you leaving was not big deal it is part of growing together in relationship
Can I date him? 🙋🏻♀️
This is why you don't trust southeast Asian women.
As an east Asian, we know what they're like.
He was beginning to dissociate at @12:05 . You guys need to have a counsellor on set for things like these, it's extremely irresponsible to put people in such vulnerable situations without a trained professional to help manage when things go south. This is coming from a therapist myself. Please.
bro's face and demeanour totally changed after seeing her phone. He was ready to cry. Sad to see that shit ngl
all hopes for the date had left this body at 10:22☠️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro was going through it
She was playing him and laughing in his face, I'd be fuming
You get that knot feeling in your throat. It’s brutal
fr man
She’s a walking red flag. Trying to excuse her actions on technicalities yet lying to the other person about the status is hypocrisy at its finest. This is why “situationships” gotta go, they really just be excuses to play with the others feelings
shit’s haram for a reason 😂
she’s pathetic like actually. girls like this will play in peoples faces when they clearly need more internal work.
a 304 that runs back and forth
ew
Yup ....the streets it is ! Typical though. Not surprised. Pretty common among the so called modern women.
Yup situationships and friends with benefits only benefit women because they have carte blanche to any guy possible. Guys are too desperate they'll date someone who is taken already.
I really hate this type of girl, like nothing can satisfy them they always want more. She even pulled the “situationship” card and completely invalidated my man’s feelings. He deserves better.
She’s 21 and wait once she hitsw 25 -27 the 304 gna hit the wall
Onlyfans and a bunch of cats waiting for her no doubt
@@danhewitand believe me she will be dming him 😂 I just hope he learned his lesson
This type of girl? This is all women!!
Fr lmao all fun n games @@danhewit
One look at this guy and you can tell he's sincere, serious, and nice. She KNEW she was leading him on just enough to efficiently use him for everything she can. I hope this follows her the rest of her life as if it were in her LinkedIn. Venomous woman.
This is why body count matters. Never waste your time with a woman who sleeps around, they have no value.
This is all women get over it!
You can always accurately judge a person by one glance? Lmao. The woman is dirty but damn you sound corny as hell
That explanation is very acurrate
My guy got play broooo damnnnnn 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
exactly
That big lump in your throat after you see or hear something you weren’t supposed to see/hear. That kind of pain can never really heal.
She enjoyed his pain. The smile the body language. It was sicking to watch
I've been cheated on so many times, that pain never does heal. There's no really about it. I think about shit from my first real relationship in high school and I STILL feel some kind of way about it, and that was over two decades ago. Recently (within the past 10 years) I was with someone who had a guy who was problematic and instead of dropping communication with him, she kept him around, then cheated on me but blamed it on some anonymous guy at her college, then I found her later on dating apps, then she ended up getting pregnant by him and saying the baby was mine but I had a vasectomy, so we moved to Florida to get away from him. When the twins were born, instead of going to the NICU to see them, she was emailing him about the twins birth, then later confessed that the very first time she cheated it was ACTUALLY this guy (the father of the twins) and then later I discovered a screenshot of a craigslist ad of her trying to find someone to impregnate her with my exact same build and features.
None of that, or anything else, is ever going to heal. This guy, while this hurts, he's saved himself from so much more pain.
it heals, but it can take a really long time. been there
Cap, i moved on and i completely healed myself from it
Saying you can’t heal is not true, there is just no schedule on the healing, it happens over time
I applaud the way this guy is able to control his emotions. Bro got a thousand things running through his mind at once and he still kept his composure
This is something that some of the redpill/alpha male community should do
@@harry31619I thought that red pill was all about emotional composure and logical stoicism, despite knowing the truths about women’s behavior. That’s how i see it, at least.
@@Views-rj3nwthat’s how the members of that community view themselves, and it’s what they like to preach, but it isn’t what they practice
@@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 Are you referring to the entire community as hypocrites?
@@Views-rj3nw not the entire community, but rather the community as a whole. a majority of the influential figures in the community
I've been in this situation before. That moment when he lost his smile is when you lose all of your love for the other person. You just feel empty and you don't care anymore. He's gonna be ok in the future. One day he's gonna have that sigh of relief he dodged that bullet.
yep. in a years time he will be like "why did i even like her im such an idiot" tbh atleast he learnt something. all us men need to learn the hardway at some point he was lucky like me and learnt when he was young. some men learn this stuff after 40+ years.
He dodged the penicillin.
She has no empathy, sympathy, no soul. I pray that this brother finds happiness whether by himself or with a special person in his life 🙏🏾💪🏾
Factsssss
Damn when she deleted messages no wonder the guy was fucking pissed off
ong bruh 😂
@@ibrahim_-_-_😂he was cooking
He got so upset with the ones he read, imagine if he read the ones she frantically deleted…
Those were nudes…😳😳😳
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
pulling that card was a blessing in disguise, saved your time bro, she just wants to have fun
Her face is out in public.
She's going to face a lifetime of embarrassment now that everything was on video. Lmao
everybody is going to remember this and probably keep her in the "fun only" category
@@Candiosd I hope so- she honestly deserves it. Every man who wants to date her should watch this video.
Well she found out he gay or just super feminine, so she dont mind losing him. "Ill duu-ett Ill du-etttt" with so much sass
@funkthat nah. Youre a troll.
Lots of respect for that dude. A lot of composure, a lot of dignity. A developed man, dude will do well, I’m sure of it. She’s just a hurdle. She’s just less mature, not a bad person, just a naive narcissist, growing in popularity as the normal age people grow out of said behaviours is constantly increasing.
She’s slowly heading towards becoming “bad” (basically Karadshian minded narcissist) but if she get her heart shattered maybe she can learn.
Not a bad person? Cmon now buddy
Haha.. from her actions she will never learn. NEVER.
She's for the streets! She was smiling the whole time!
She's bad. She's a low quality person for the streets that eventually will either marry a rich guy and later divorce him for the 50% or just end up alone if she misses the timing. The latter outcome is better for societal purposes.
What makes me so angry, is the fact I've had conversations PAINFULLY similar to this one, and the girls all tend to react the same as this one, they act as if they're the victims in the situation and did nothing wrong
They never ever take responsibility - "i was confused, its because of my last break up blah blah, he got the wrong message, exclusive, blah blah"
Sociopaths 🤢
@@Chuck9852 But lying is wrong though.
We on the same boat brother.
Normalize treating women the way they deserve. When a woman is disposable, feel free to treat her that way. Stop showing respect to women that don't deserve it.
12:47 Props to the producer of this show for being sensitive enough to break when there was discomfort and checking with the two of them to see if they wanted to keep going.
Yea but they should have ended it way sooner it was clear he was bothered and trying not to say anything
I actually think they shouldn't have jumped in. They should have just let things happen naturally.
facts. it seems like both times when he started to grill her (rightfully so) on the clear mixed signals she's giving him, they would call for a break or times up. he may have been asking a lot or too much but he had every right, seems like he was fine with being just friends and she comes back into his life with romantic feelings knowing he still feels the same way but with no true intent to pursue anything real. just controlling his feelings at that point. I would've let them keep going but clearly by the voice the producer was a female so of course she's gonna jump in to save a fellow "woman"
They shouldn't worry about the woman
Nah he should have got an answer to his questions.
She shouldn’t have jumped in.
Life tip: the love of your life wouldnt put you in a situationship. I know its hard, but lets be real about it
TRUE
Situationships aren't about love. They're about not being alone.
@@minorperez5998ayo put that one on a shirt
100% ... accurate ... I'd rather be alone then deal with bs
You wouldn't know who it is until you're past the situationship stage.
She's keeping him as a backup once he moves on and gets a new gf she'll start to panic and try to win him over and in the end she'll still treat him as a "friend"
If that happens, I sure hope he’s moved on by then
hes a simp, she stood him up and apologized for getting mad at that. PUSSSeeeee ass boi thats why she walk all over you grow a pair
Factsssss
She was just keeping bro on the side, real respect for this dude for going through with the interview and being strong
She gonna be a drive thru in the future
@@user-sm5vo7ob9xshe already is
Factsssss
@@user-sm5vo7ob9xshe gone miss having someone good buy her side that’s forsure bro was broken after what he saw he truely cares
his face after he went through her phone almost MADE ME CRY. he looked so sad...it hurt...i wish i could of given him THE BIGGEST hug after that...poor guy 😢
Bro was angry asf 😂
@@exposed975 true…at first I thought it was pure sadness but then after he started talking more I was like “he is FURIOUS” I thought he was going to lose his cool for sure
@@fryeesauceeold him would've. He has said that he had a temper and had to change
@@imnotsurewhy He shouldn't have changed, atleast not in front of this kind of woman.
@@exposed975nah deff sad
i don't know what happens with them but i liked how raw and unfiltered this was.
Yeah I feel like I'm listening to someone's deepest emotions and I'm in the middle of a very personal conversation.
This is a lesson a young man needs to learn far sooner in life.
And what lesson is that? Wtf did he do wrong?
That's not what he meant. It's a lesson to warn him that there are women that are capable of truly hurting you, and that lesson is better to learn much sooner than later in life. It goes both ways between genders, but yeah, the lesson he learned here will protect him from future situations like this. He will become successful and find a true woman way better than his so called "best female friend" here. @@lezorn
Why just men? Women deal with this shit too..
@@lezorn Not all lessons are learned because of personal shortcomings
@@lezorn She's not yours it's just your turn.
This man deserves the world. I hate when ppl take advantage of kind people and ruin them.
I feel like the phone thing needed to happen, for his sake. I’m glad he got his clarity
Everyone’s saying he wanted to cry, But I felt like he wanted to snap. Especially after he shared he’s blown up before and it scared her. On the other hand home girl is playing him. Lol
Thought the same
I'd snap too getting humiliated like that on camera for millions to see by a girl he thought he loved is crazy.
She for the streets
She tried not to laugh at the situation so she seems to think this whole thing with him is a fun joke, man need to move on she is not worth it.
Bro reveled his true feeling just for her to play him this why you shouldn’t be vulnerable in front of girls do it with your bros instead
the fact that her IG isn't in the description but his is, lmao. smart decision
😂😂😂😂 everybody would be roasting her that’s why 😂
female former 304 producer wanted to protect her 304 comrade
@@janushomer9111😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thats was bullshiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bro got hurt but in the long run he will be thankful
I see different maturity levels, he's ready for something serious, she hasn't figured out yet what she wants. Not really a good match but it will hard as hell for Justin to get over her but I'm deffo sure he can. Best of luck budy
I completely agree. He deserves someone with the same level of emotional sensitivity and consideration that he has. It’ll be hard for him to “let go of her” like he said but once he meets someone who can provide him with the reassurance and trust he needs he’ll be happier.
Make girl bite the curb
More like, she knows what she wants but her ex wouldn't provide, so she takes what she can because she met someone who actually liked her
@@tate3248 thats so fucked up
She's gonna be a single mom in the future with her attitude.
That’s not sadness man that’s anger that’s just an unreal level of composure!
I don't even think it's anger. Bro's perception of the world was just shattered and he needed a moment. 😭
sadness and anger often go hand in hand
@@DegenerateHour he got blackpilled
Vulcan anger.
Man, that reminds me the chapter of Archer and sobek arguing about finding the bombers.
The vulcan was enraged AF.
I dated a girl like this once. But she was much more attractive. They don’t understand what loyalty is and why it’s important. I believe you can’t really teach it to a person if they haven’t learned it by 18, unfortunately. My ex was 24. Moreover at that age, they learn how to fake what loyalty is. Always do your research even after you’re “official”. Every single date you are best served learning about each other. Good luck people, stay good
I was telling my bf my coworker had been flirty with me or trying to talk to me every time he got. My bf didn’t think too much of it and thought maybe he’s just friendly. My coworker mentioned he had a wife and they were on vacation and I was happy for him but a few days later he mentioned him and I should go grab some food sometime after work and that’s when I cut off contact. Like that’s just weird.
I can't believe this woman kept a straight face when Justin was answering the questions about the last time he cried... HE FELT LED ON!
Asian women are masters of leading you on.
bruh the amount of time she spent on her phone before letting him go through it is crazy,
she probably even deleted worst than he saw. bro was definitely been led on
Edit: Thanks for 775 likes, never had this much.
Nah, I think she deleted all the nice messages about him to assert dominance.
@@deegee6184😅😅😅😂
She was 1000% sexting the other guy.
Said the same shit .. she deleted the MOST important shit .. and let him see what she thought wouldn’t mean much.. she’s fucked up fr
She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is
This did him a favor. Now he knows for a fact where he stands. He can now fully move on.
The way he handled it was real af respect
he’s talking about a toxic relationship he was in and she didn’t even make eye contact. that was the first question and it only went downhill. poor guy.
Her mannerisms are just so awkward. She comes off like she doesn’t take anything seriously or have the capacity to act maturely
@@peptobismol3949 because she is not real with him. it can cause her to be awkward. just look at her eye moment is shifting in all direction. you can even see her staring down sometime too. body language show so much
becoz she knows she is also the toxic relationship. She knows dude got hurt before but she was also hurting him. so she couldnt look him into da eyes.
big red flag indeed. he just didnt read it.
She’s also not fully listening nor care much about what he’s saying. Bet she’s thinking about what she needs to answer while he’s talking.
He’s so mature and I love the way he communicates and expresses himself. I know he’s going to be a good boyfriend and great husband to someone.
Someone...
Too bad thats not what women want
@@arsq5020not true
@@DeeDee-se6vs it's kinda true honestly, he's a lot of women want to have but not keep long term
@@the-madvillain2636 it’s not true because he said women don’t want a mature boyfriend/ husband. Majority of women do.
SOOO many good emotionally mature men go through this and these stories are rarely shared so bro I respect you for how you handled it.
She's being a technicality technician... She knew what he wanted. She was just kind of keeping him around until the next best thing came along. She just didn't want to admit she didn't eat anything wrong. Like most people in that situation, they don't want to admit that they did wrong and they'll deflect, gaslight and outright lie...
Okay a situationship is one thing but bringing him to a interview catered toward “couples” is psychotic
Yeah dude. He needs to learn how to give the energy he's receiving. If she was talking to dude while they were dating I understand. But there's nothing official
@@alexgee3072 but the problem is that he did take a step back to see where her energy was at after she said she wanted to be friends. Then soon after she started to initiate conversations and wanting to hang out with him 1on1 and they even discussed plans to what to do for Valentine's day.
She's giving both Justin and her ex mixed energy. In the video she says they should stay as friends, but then says it's a situationship, 'not explicitly stated,' but then also told her ex, "me and Justin are not a situationship"
@alexgee3072 hey buddy. I'm going to assume you are young. The reality is, even if they aren't dating, but are great friends and had a situationship and if you had respect towards your friend, you'd tell them "hey, by the way I'm talking to someone else and seeing them" out of Respect to a friend. You could even remove the word "friend" and say " respect to your fellow men". There is no way anyone can spin it and say what she did wasn't disrespectful and manipulative. She tried so hard to validate the deceit. I'll even add this fact that we can all go back to and watch. Over and over, if what she said is true and if she believed that they both knew it wasn't anything serious, "why would she delete what she delete"? . If what she said was true, you'd let them see what all has been said and done and then say "but we both agreed it wasn't serious". But she knew, she knew he wanted her and she jjst strung him along as a back up if the other person didn't happen.
no she literally had a text saying "its NOT a situationshio" then she lies saying its not exclusive. shes an evil POS.
@@alexgee3072She should be saying from the GET GO "i am seeing other people this is'nt exclusive! Just friends to see where we are" BUT she lead him on into that relationship couple thing thats why they are on a COUPLES SHOW!!
She clearly knew how this was gonna go. She was deleting before she handed the phone over.
Probably text between her and her ex about him we can only assume
@omotayosatuyi252 true we can only assume
@@omotayosatuyi252probable cause
@@omotayosatuyi252I’m guessing sexy photos. He wouldn’t have been able to handle that
@@salma_Nella22 that would've been awful if that was the guess
that girl just continues to smile through it all - that is just unbelievable..
Her eyes say it all. @14:03 You can tell she looks down on him, with no real respect, and doesn't really care from her eye emotions while he is explaining his fears. Watched it back a few times. That's just sad. Avoid these types of people in relationships. Stay strong bud
This man can find better in his life! Brother I hope you find someone who communicates to you on a open level that you did.
She just lost a keeper 😢that’s so sad he deserves so much better he’s so mature and pure
he got mad when he needed to look after her when she was sick idk that hes perfect either
@@jeeeenipurrright if you truly care about the person it wouldn’t matter if they got sick, you’d be happy just being in their presence. By the way he acted he prob was driving out to spend the night with her and get some, and when he couldn’t he got mad. That’s what I took from it either way dudes a red flag too
@@jeeeenipurrtf you making excuses for this trash of a girl
Time for him to take the "Red Pill"
And mfs wonder why "Andrew Tate" got famous
@@jeeeenipurr Typical femoid gaslighting. Curse to human civilisation
Being ok with being a friend, while you actually don't want to, is how you hurt yourself.
I like the fact that the part that hurt Justin the most wasn't the fact that Diane was talking to her ex, it was the fact that she led him on and lied to him about the whole thing. Granted, Justin could've been more aware of what she was doing, but I don't blame him. Justin seems so sincere I feel like he actually believed Diane.
She forgot he was a human being not a toy for her main character arc
She a main character? Hell naah she can't be that even of her own life. She'll always be a side chick fs.
She looked like she got what she wanted. She was enjoying it.
She’s somebody’s toy
She ain’t even that cute
@@Bunny11344 Hey, we don't shame exteriors here...
I’m ngl this is exactly how men process hurt, anger, and sadness.
Not necessarily bottle them up, but we are condemned for overtly expressing our emotions in an impulsive way. It’s not just one emotion he’s feeling. He’s feeling literally all of them all at once and feels the need to suppress it until he’s in private.
If this was her instead of him. We would have seen all the emotions you mentioned right there in matter of seconds.
That's literally suppressed because of toxic femininity
everyone is condemned, definitely men and women. emotions are literally bad according to the patriarchy and it sucks
Another woman trying to blame this on men, typical @@sonyagatien2555
@@sonyagatien2555no it is not men and women. Women are literally taught to wear your heart on your sleeve. I’m not saying all women can, but most definitely are not afraid to show their emotion in a moment like this, unlike men
She goes to UCLA bruh. She's living her best life, getting dug out raw. The streets has her now.
😭
“Till she buhhhhh”
Hahaha
As soon as the words situation-ship left her mouth there is no more conversation needed. She says she lost that spark in a few days, that is code for she found another toy but got ghosted, she then comes back to stability.
the vibe turned 180 at @10:15 Let me just summarise this "situationship". Guy likes her a lot and "respects" her boundaries and is ok being her "friend" .. Meanwhile the girl was talking to her ex potentially more dudes and uses "situationship" as a justification and basically says "Hey i like you but i dont like you a lot, meanwhile i am still talking to my ex and I enjoy the attention you are giving me. If things dont work out with my ex at least I still got you. " This is why situationships never work, i have yet to see they work. My man, have some self respect and cut this shit.
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the thing is though, this is so common with modern women that there’d actually a term for it 💀 it’s called branch swinging or vine swinging
they basically grab a new branch (man) without letting the old one go as not to “fall,” meaning lose both options, and once they have a tight enough grip on the second branch they let go of the first
My ex smirked just like the girl in the video did when she broke me. She got caught texting the guy she told me not to worry about. She tried to justify it, just like this girl did in the video, by saying her and I weren’t technically exclusive when they started talking. A few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that her health was deteriorating due to GERD and she was released from the Med Tech program cause of her shaky hands. I’m only being honest here when I say this but hearing all of that gave so much cynical satisfaction.
Went through this and she found someone new after, completely destroyed me over the course of the whole story, not sure if she’ll ever be back but Idk how I would react if she did
You must mean monkey branching. It all roots from women's hypergamy. They are hardly satisfied which is why they initiate 80% of divorces
@@Switch_Comics man i know you were dealt wrong but the satisfaction you felt is poison , let it go , feel indifference not hatred . I hope you are doing well and achieve everything in life , there will be many who will hurt you but don't lose yourself dealing with them
His first mistake was getting with a woman who uses the term situationship. In vast majority of cases it's cope. He'll learn. Most men will go through a real bad one like her.
Some more than 2-3 (after honeymoon phase).
This generation is so useless for using worthless terms like “situationship” “baby momma and daddy”
Back then it used to be full relationship or bust no stupid Kardashian type drama
@@user-sm5vo7ob9xand don’t get me started with OF…it’s sad
“I didn’t know this was going to happen” 💀 what were you expecting to be the result of what you did 🤦♂️
You need to learn womanese: "I didn't know this was going to happen" = "I know I cannot create an argument for why I'm right so all I have left is to feign ignorance because I cannot be at fault if I didn't do this intentionally".
I hope he looks back at this one day with gratitude. These are the lessons a man in your life is supposed to teach you but at least now he probably will know better
Damn… now I know why the mom didn’t even say “hi” on FaceTime. She knew this girl is bad news. She didn’t seem upset that Justin was upset. She was kinda smirking after he became upset. He can do so much better!!!
She’s a red flag
It's just an awkward smile. She's not evil. Just immature and inconsiderate.
@obi584 watch the whole video. It will change your tune
@@entezami777 I did. She lacks emotional awareness, communication and shows signs of narcissism. That doesn't make her evil. I'm not defending her actions, but to imply she enjoyed causing the guy emotional pain is a step too far.
@obi584 Don't narcissist enjoy inflecting some pain on others?
his face broke my heart. Sometimes I forget that dating can look like this.
I wanna give bro a hug. watching her smile is so disgusting not like she even care
The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it. The dude doesn’t have any control because he’s not willing to walk away and value himself..
best advice I've read so far and it's applicable to a lot of things in life, not just relationships. Being in a position to walk away is so important
That relationship was over the moment he took a sip of that wine and she knew it
Exactly. When he was putting down his glass you could see that flash of anger and disgust. Crazy
They weren’t in a relationship this is what happens when guys don’t fully commit she said that they were in a situationship and he never made it clear that they were exclusive
There is no loyalty in a unclear relationship
@@kennedigriffin9495this is the comment of the lazy and dense. Everyone can tell what the other person wants in any dynamic. If you need “clear lines” so your ass doesn’t cheat or play around else where then you’re still a child lmao
@@bobbyfrank9859 I feel like in this generation you have to make is clear bc the hook up culture is crazy and guys play around with women emotions all the time and proceed to not feel bad about it so I don’t feel bad for him he didn’t make it clear and she is a young woman who isn’t even married anyway that even if she was the one who brought up the situationship first he still agreed if he wanted a relationship fr he should of told her that bc nowadays there isn’t really real relationships if your a man then say what you want tf don’t agree to things you don’t agree with wtf they labeled it a situationship he agreed I’m not gonna be loyal to anyone in a situationship womp womp
She's a red flag, a big one. She definitely deleted messages before handing her phone over to him. I felt so bad for him, he was clearly heart broken. I hope he is able to move on from her, cause she's just playing with him and his feelings.
Pretty sure she deleted the messages from the random guys shes been seeing but still let him see the messages of her ex because that's what she couldn't get to in time. It seems like they weren't communicating a lot but just back and forth so it wasn't at the top of her messages.
I wasn't thinking he hasn't even seen everything. This whole situation especially on camera is so tough
He needs Andrew Tate
It’s really crazy what you’ll find out when you ask the right questions.
I went through something similar a year ago, I’m not going to lie. I kinda needed this as closure. I miss her but I need to keep going. Justin if you see this, keep your head up, you’ll find someone or it’ll work itself out
The way he let himself fully feel his emotions and sit with them in the moment was so powerful ❤
Women do it all the time 😂 and there's nothing about that
@@talkingtochapri clearly not.
@@talkingtochapri not even close
@@talkingtochaprino there is something special about it. Bc we're finally reaching a point as a society where it's ok for a guy to express himself emotionally instead of being told to not feel anything or keep it surpressed just because he's a dude. Don't be dismissing someone emotions because of their gender
@@talkingtochapriTry to dismiss his very good virtues by saying all women can do this is absolutely insane and a very weak try. In there you are not a victim, not all women are victims the guy is the victim and the girl is the abuser. Go and try to use the women victim card somewhere else it got declined here.
11:06 the whole conversation changed from this point bro probably just felt like what’s the point
Yho I felt it 😭
Poor guy
Yeah.
Bro as a man I wanted to give this dude a hug! I felt the hurt I saw it in his face stay strong king!
i strive for the amount of control this man has.
Man do I wanna grab a drink with this guy. Such a good guy and was willing to spill his heart out for the wrong girl
same bruh, wanted to hug him
True
Good guy or desperate guy 😂
@@talkingtochaprigood guy. We all gotta learn
@@talkingtochapriwell he's not the one still talking to their ex
Feel for my dude. His whole demeanor shifted immediately, you could see the internal struggle. We've all been there bro, I know exactly how he felt, mind racing, analyzing everything he thought he knew for the past however many weeks, its tough. Keep your head up man, do whats best for you.
If i was him, i just walked away and blocked her from my life
Ong not finishing shit just getting up and going home
I hope we get an update on these two. This was hard to watch because I’ve been in this man’s shoes before. Hopefully he now knows where he actually stands in her eyes and can move on to someone who truly cares and won’t drag him along on this up and down, good day/bad day, roller coaster hes been on.
I love how he called her out the whole situation and used her own words against her. She told him that the ex was the one reaching out, but she was too. She called it a situationship, but then in the texts he read, she’s telling the other guy that they weren’t in a situationship. She said they were just friends, but if that was the case, she would’ve told him what was happening. Because friends tell each other things like that.
I’m glad he had the confidence and chance to confront her and that he did it the way he did. He was calm, expressed his hurt and disappointment, and confronted her with her lies and manipulative behaviors.
He deserves someone honest and more loving towards him. I hope he finds her…
I feel like she doesn’t want to place that label of “friends” because she wants him around as an option in case things don’t work out with someone else, which is an awful position to be put in btw.
But I wish them both the best either way
Yupp
He lost her the first time
Naw she can go kick rocks 😂
“I didn’t know he was gonna react that way” - girlllll you knew he was because you hid it from him 😭😭😭
The one you’re supposed to be with will never make you feel like an option. What I saw him go through was a betrayal in real time. All his insecurities came true. She sat there smiling and making convenient narratives of why it’s a situationship. I hope this serves as closure for both. Accept that it’s not meant to be and find the one who will never keep you as a second option. This goes out to both men and women. Know your worth!
DAMN the raw emotions in this episode got me out of my seat (literally). What a great episode! Hoping bro is able to move on cause it doesn’t seem like she’s as committed or interested as he is
im so glad they gave him a 5 min break well done nectar
Yeah I felt it when he said no the first time cause I was like he wants to be strong and stoic but it’s ok to not be ok and I assume nectar saw that and decide it for him which might as well be what he was hoping for, I know I would be
He was a keeper. She knew he wanted good things for both of them but she's busy with something or someone else.
lol yes she is. i was talking to this guy back in january and she was his ex. he told me she cheated on him they were in a relationship for 2 years and she kept trying to contact him. she also went through his following and stalked girls on there including me.
convincing people, women AND men, that it's ok to be talking to multiple people at the same time as long as there isn't an "official" label on anything is one of the great tragedies of this time frame. IT'S NOT OK! It is breaking people's trust, their abilities to connect, and their perception of worth. This window-shopping mentality is literally just exploitation of other individuals. It's gross
This has pretty much broken me in dating. Last couple of women I've talked to/wanted to be with I've gone thru the situation you explained, interest and hope that this situation is growing, even words of confirmation that a more committed relationship is coming by the woman. Then out of the blue the conversations slow, the mood when around each other is cold/distant from her, then.... nothing but a text that usually reads "I think you're super sweet and a great person, but I don't feel it between us. You'll find someone amazing one day."
Then a few days later on the socials I'd see her with another dude and the realization hits, there was always another dude in the picture. I've pretty much checked out for the time being because of this.
She ain't the one homie, emotional maturity of a doorknob ik her type she just likes you around for the attention (especially true considering the fact she recently went through a breakup, she just coping with you lol)
“I didn’t know this was going to happen” = “i didn’t think I’d get caught”
Situationship is one of the worst things that can torn apart a person, but the lessons learned will keep you strong in the future.
Protect this man at all cost! He doesn’t deserve any of that
The fact that she is wearing the Goddess of Compassion/Quan Am/Guanyin is IRONIC
Foreals. It's just forshoe no values attached
Typical woman behavior. Displaying something they aren't
damn nahhh you ATE with this
Had to google it....funny
A lot of girls also wear the cross, not because they believe in it but because it's a cute accessory for them.
Let go dawg. She was wrong with not communicating how she felt about him, but i think gent just falls to hard and his heart stayed with her even when they ended the first time. End of the day love is a risk🤷🏾♂️
Bro was entering his Redpill arc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
well some of us have to be like that, unless you wanna be like her
@@30__ Bro needs Andrew Tate
It's good for him. He's learning.
That phone thing is everything. The second someone doesn't respond like that guy who clearly had nothing to hide, just run. Truly reveals someone's integrity
he deserves someone better who can reciprocate his love
He handled that better than I would. Maturity and self control is next level 🙏
He is too good for her
bro move on she‘s not the one
He did. Left her ass
Bruh, you are enough to someone that values you the right way, and let go or put boundaries to those who don’t see you. You are lucky to get out as early as you could than having it go down the road with all emotion invested and got it wasted.
i respect this guy, he is both nice and fearless, giving her no smile no play along type of shit... corners her in every answer she gives
This!
@@ShenellM your keybaord is broken or what ?
@@bossdev-tb6weThe person is agreeing with you lmao
Bro's reaction when he found out hits deep for me. Emotional Maturity and to act accordingly despite his emotions being shown, this only shows how matured and understanding he is in that moment.
The tension when he looked through her phone, i wouldn't be able to breathe
Now just imagine if he had seen the messages she'd deleted
The mood change after the phone switch was actually crazy
seeing him be upset and then having to carry on hurt my feelings tbh :(
Hurt your feelings ? 🤣
@@rltw2753 dont take it seriously lmaoooo
@@rltw2753This brother just discovered *empathy*
@@rltw2753 internet man is confused by the concept of empathy: news at 11
I’m sure I’m not alone on this; women that talk the way she does pisses me tf off. “Like, like, situationship, like idk, like”
Such a beautiful man he is! I wish you nothing but peace and a loyal partner! More powerr to you my brah
He’s so great at communicating and asking for her permission when revealing their past
When she straight up deleted messages, that's when I knew she was no good.
Lmao i know this type of girl. She's emotionally distraught over her recent breakup, hasn't managed her feeelings, and is just keeping him around on a lead until she gets the option she really wants
1000%
100% accurate
Almost was on the receiving end of that, luckily I snapped out of it and got away from her before I got hurt.
Yep stg I was in this same spot
This is so real and painful. I appreciate the mediator let him take a break to distance himself.
the sadness and anger at 11:38 cuts deep 🙏