Why African marriages abroad fail

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  • Опубліковано 13 гру 2024

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  • @juniourx2203
    @juniourx2203 24 дні тому +4

    I hope that someone watches your video today, reflects on it deeply, and starts making meaningful changes in their lives. Your honest, straightforward approach-sharing the truth without sugarcoating-resonates deeply. It’s refreshing how you highlight that in some cultures, like the West, people might bluntly conclude, “It’s not working; just divorce.” But the part where you emphasize finding someone within your culture, specifically in Kenya, to build mutual understanding is profound. Thank you for shedding light on this and for your enlightening perspective.

    • @ruthKim-dt4lt
      @ruthKim-dt4lt  22 дні тому

      Awww thank you so much we need to create awareness and thank you so much for watching and appreciating my efforts

  • @gracewaithira2512
    @gracewaithira2512 24 дні тому +5

    Marriage is good but its about giving..... not too much expectations....

  • @spiritadora
    @spiritadora 24 дні тому +1

    I like the way you don't mince your words. You say it as it is. Hapo kwa age difference, I dated a guy who was 14 years older and I also dated a guy who was close to my age. Both cases have their pros and cons. The best way to choose a partner is to get one whose personality intertwines well with yours, regardless of the age. Hiyo point ya Bad influence ikuwe underlined. So many good and promising relationships have been messed up by wrong friends. You do something for your partner, unaitwa simp. 😢 Thanks Ruth for always putting facts on the table. ❤

  • @angangaus
    @angangaus 24 дні тому +2

    ndoa ni uwongo. save ur time and 💰. use protection and u see life is not as complicated as we make it

  • @janetmbogo1956
    @janetmbogo1956 24 дні тому +6

    Girl, I am so happy I found your channel, I feel like in another life you're like my sister or a close friend we think sooooo alike ❤

    • @ruthKim-dt4lt
      @ruthKim-dt4lt  24 дні тому +3

      Thank you so much in this life positive energy na kuweka God first is everything. Who knows may be we will need one day and be friends

    • @isaiahmiringo7009
      @isaiahmiringo7009 24 дні тому +3

      Me am here to hear her say weeeeeeh

    • @stevenmutumbu2860
      @stevenmutumbu2860 23 дні тому +3

      ​@ruthKim-dt4lt You talking "Nothing but the truth".uhoro neguo uhana.

    • @stevenmutumbu2860
      @stevenmutumbu2860 23 дні тому +1

      ​@@ruthKim-dt4ltNa to Germany ona UK in the same.

    • @ruthKim-dt4lt
      @ruthKim-dt4lt  22 дні тому +2

      @@isaiahmiringo7009😅😅

  • @fideliswanjirukaranja2836
    @fideliswanjirukaranja2836 24 дні тому +2

    Gutiri kwega kana kuuru in marriage you learn to dance in the season you are and give each other Grace

  • @Boke-ji2ng
    @Boke-ji2ng 24 дні тому +2

    Something else I will add, is the problem with alcohol.

  • @yvonneanyango4731
    @yvonneanyango4731 19 днів тому

    Great content Ruth❤❤❤

  • @DallasDallad
    @DallasDallad 24 дні тому +1

    Thanks for this your platform and advices you give in english nowdays talk about the plenty and cheap alchol when it was 25 cent and korn vodka 2 euro many drank here and lost lives

  • @STACY_KENYA
    @STACY_KENYA 22 дні тому

    Even with the papers and being stable relationship is struggle!Germany is a special place.. was getting to know someone and in our second date of which I was paying my bills as ussual culture here , that thing told me if I will further my studies he will stay home I work and provide for the family coz he can’t stand a woman making more money or having higher education than him. 😮

    • @elizabethn4131
      @elizabethn4131 10 днів тому

      Wueh! This is a very insecure man. I hope date 2 was the last you ever saw of him

  • @vanessamshana4144
    @vanessamshana4144 10 днів тому

    Mimi naomba kujua how you make your hair please share and is your hair relaxed ?

  • @HeleneaTroy
    @HeleneaTroy 23 дні тому +1

    The problem with some African men is that they want a traditional wife like their mother & grandmother who does all the housework and who is at his beck & call at all times. They want to behave like their fathers back home. With this mentality in diaspora a marriage is doomed to fail 😢

  • @oscarotieno1089
    @oscarotieno1089 16 днів тому +1

    ❤I am your die hard fan watching from france

  • @kennethchege4096
    @kennethchege4096 24 дні тому

    New subscriber, enjoyed watching your videos!

  • @petermureria2942
    @petermureria2942 23 дні тому

    could't help laughing when you were perusing the booklet it was so funny

  • @ezekielndungugithinji1884
    @ezekielndungugithinji1884 24 дні тому

    Uko na kizungu inanifanya nisikize video zako zote.
    About marriage, age is just a number.

  • @lydianyambura-vy4gc
    @lydianyambura-vy4gc 23 дні тому

    Kwanza hapo kwa getting kids.....waaah people need to decide before getting married ....

  • @gracejayne4580
    @gracejayne4580 23 дні тому

    Hello Ruth. Love your hair, what is it 💖

  • @fideliswanjirukaranja2836
    @fideliswanjirukaranja2836 24 дні тому

    What pple dont get is Marriage is work from both sides

  • @ProfessorBobAnam
    @ProfessorBobAnam 24 дні тому

    Between Germany 🇩🇪 and Canada🇨🇦 which do you view as better for citizenship?

  • @cate3863
    @cate3863 24 дні тому +3

    Why do you have a dream catcher 😶‍🌫️fanya Research they are not good

    • @ruthKim-dt4lt
      @ruthKim-dt4lt  24 дні тому +2

      To be honest I didn’t even know they have a name

    • @HeleneaTroy
      @HeleneaTroy 23 дні тому

      What's wrong with a dream catcher? Germans like them 😅

    • @cate3863
      @cate3863 16 днів тому

      ​@@HeleneaTroy yes😂 Germans.... but ni poa kufanya utafiti enda usearch witchcraft stuffs in houses or demonic stuffs in houses to throw away ...search apa youtube iko among them

    • @cate3863
      @cate3863 16 днів тому

      @@ruthKim-dt4lt yeah zinaitwa dream catcher sort of witchcraft charms to catch dreams usiku ati ndio usiote scary ati "inacatch " izo dreams😂

  • @kanabayayaa1100
    @kanabayayaa1100 23 дні тому

    The question is are you married or you are just talking. Another thing is that when you move to Europe you forget your culture Why don't those from Europe don't leave their culture?? Reason out why.

    • @emmakioko174
      @emmakioko174 19 днів тому

      But she is mentioning even the name of the husband.

  • @martinmagure7606
    @martinmagure7606 24 дні тому +1

    😂😂😂supporting your wife to make more money its really tough if you are an African man coz you will end up submitting