*almost argued* jk😂 candid QnA w mumma | first child problems, feminism, parenting

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 562

  • @sangeydolma1309
    @sangeydolma1309 7 місяців тому +539

    Very rightly said "jitna cooperative baccha ho parents utna hi strict honge"

  • @kratiawasthi2786
    @kratiawasthi2786 7 місяців тому +86

    Love how the conversation is unfiltered and it kind of healed me a bit knowing that almost every child goes through such phases with their parents

  • @trapteebhatt
    @trapteebhatt 7 місяців тому +286

    Typical dialogues of all mom- ab wo apni marzi ki malkin hai 😂😂😂😂😂...

  • @nasihakhalpe14
    @nasihakhalpe14 7 місяців тому +90

    Really it's true first child ko bhot strict rkha jata h and 2nd and 3rd child tak bhot cool ban jate h😊
    I totally agree with the mobile conversation.

  • @suhanigautam5783
    @suhanigautam5783 6 місяців тому +149

    it seems mitali is quite upset with aunty i dont know why i m getting that feeling

    • @ga6880
      @ga6880 6 місяців тому +46

      I felt mitali ust wanted a little more attention from her mother(parents) and she is upset abt that 🙃 ( i kinda relate to it)

    • @kirtiverma4542
      @kirtiverma4542 3 місяці тому +7

      Ye har elder bachhe k sath hota h...but mitali ne bahut bravely face kiya h...jab ki ye sabhi hurtful situations hoti hain 😢😢

    • @Laila_617
      @Laila_617 Місяць тому +3

      It is same for every elder child it just feels bad to get neglected where your siblings get that love care affection privilege and freedom which you always crave for and it doesn’t even get changed

  • @undeflectedray315
    @undeflectedray315 7 місяців тому +275

    Bhaisaabb this conversation is reallyy unfiltered... I am also the oldest child in my family and i too have 2 younger sibling and meri bhi hamesaa esi behes hoti h mmy se😂

  • @shanayadiwaker3078
    @shanayadiwaker3078 7 місяців тому +40

    Yaar Mitali, I can completely relate with you in the beginning of the conversation and I’m also the first born daughter of the my house, and seriously I had also made so many sacrifices, and my siblings are getting everything very easily. I can relate to whatever conversation happens in this video. I’m going to show this video to my parents as well.

  • @Human11200
    @Human11200 7 місяців тому +250

    Her mother is literally my mother in every aspect 🤣🤣.....
    Lots of love for her ❤❤

  • @krishnaraj632
    @krishnaraj632 7 місяців тому +48

    Your mumma is just awesome
    How she speak how she express things out is just outstanding just love herr so much

  • @pranshipatel6941
    @pranshipatel6941 6 місяців тому +24

    Mitali.... littrely mere andar ki elder child vali speech de rahi thi😭🤣 oh my god 😂😂love this video!!! ❤
    And that sentence hit me so hard " bachha jitna cooperative hoga parents utna hi usko control karte he"❤️‍🩹🥲

  • @seemonwho-
    @seemonwho- 7 місяців тому +15

    Loved how your mother has clarity about everything. Love her!

  • @shivanshi_patel_
    @shivanshi_patel_ 7 місяців тому +25

    Absolutely loved this unfiltered convo 😂 Being a first girl child, i can totally related with you.

  • @tanyachopra2803
    @tanyachopra2803 7 місяців тому +22

    sorry mitali but i went through same things but the times are changed now and i made peace that what i had in those times were precious after looking at today's school kids..

  • @Akshditi
    @Akshditi 7 місяців тому +128

    Mitali ne video k chakkar meii apni sari bhdaas nikaal dii😅😅

  • @priyanshisaxena1175
    @priyanshisaxena1175 7 місяців тому +12

    Metali being the typical elder kid 😂😂...bro i totally get from where these questions are coming and where the debate is going..😂😂

    • @priyanshisaxena1175
      @priyanshisaxena1175 7 місяців тому

      @Dm_MitaliThisSide1 mere pass tumhare liye police ka number h chahiye???

  • @AaradhyaKashyap-dh6ce
    @AaradhyaKashyap-dh6ce 7 місяців тому +34

    Just love the way she tried to explain her mom abt unknown topics...

  • @palak9896
    @palak9896 7 місяців тому +11

    Mitali is little bit disappointed by her childhood....ofc it is normal bacho se apni life compare nhi kar sakte if our mom is working women it's a truth❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmmmmmm465
    @emmmmmmm465 6 місяців тому +4

    being the 1st born with both working parents i feel you mitali ..even what you said and what you didnt

  • @ananyakatoch2929
    @ananyakatoch2929 6 місяців тому +5

    Salute to your mother. When i listened that line ki wo 3rd year hospital me hi rahy during her pg and when you were born at that time. Your father used to pick u up and then bring you in the hospital so that your mother can see you... That line really hits me.
    Your mother is really an inspiration for young girls like us. She really taught me today that what carreer is , what passion is all about.❤
    Really respect for her dil se. ❤

  • @varsharaj877
    @varsharaj877 7 місяців тому +94

    New room tour di plsss

  • @gargipatnaik7255
    @gargipatnaik7255 7 місяців тому +14

    this was so heartfelt and impromptu! Your mother is extremely witty and she totally nailed it. I am hundred percent sure my mother would agree with her views too lol

  • @Drgotthecards
    @Drgotthecards 7 місяців тому +278

    Re-upload hua hai meine pehle hi dekh liya tha

  • @nanditarathi
    @nanditarathi 7 місяців тому +54

    Mitali just ended watching this video with your mom and i really want to acknowledge how honest she was after you doing soo good in your life and successfully become a financial independent girl. Still her advice and thoughts are so ground to earth like every indian society mom's gave to their childrens. And that's the authenticity i love about you and your mother. Being an educated female she is modern yet not letting you to forget your roots. It feels so good to see these kind of content. Also appreciating you to keeping it so unfiltered and asking the questions that every child or parent can relate. Lots of love to you!!!!! ❤

    • @MitaliThisSide
      @MitaliThisSide  7 місяців тому +6

      🫶🏻♥️

    • @02nidhipriya90
      @02nidhipriya90 7 місяців тому +4

      Sis apke parents bahot shi kiye aapko 9 class me smart phone nhi de ke ....q ki ushke bad aap itna padhai me aage nhi aa pati

  • @pawanisworld611
    @pawanisworld611 7 місяців тому +21

    this video is crazy for sure 😂😂 ly aunty and mitali love love

  • @sakshitiwari2753
    @sakshitiwari2753 6 місяців тому +5

    Jo profession aapne passion se chuna hai uske liye regret nhi banta❤
    What a line😊

  • @reginaphalange7509
    @reginaphalange7509 6 місяців тому +6

    I LOVE this. If I could provide a little criticism, your mother seems a bit nervous, like you're putting her on the spot (w the camera, w the questions being of an intense confrontational nature) and that's evident. Maybe allow her some space to breathe and time to answer with honesty and less fear of judgement.

  • @Clueless246
    @Clueless246 7 місяців тому +32

    Ok so I have watched this video in the afternoon only 😅.. though it was deleted but I watched it completely because of glitch !😂 now will watch it again with my mom... she's a teacher and have came from school just now yaayyayyayayayy ❤

  • @Dr.Garima_Mis.Medicine
    @Dr.Garima_Mis.Medicine 7 місяців тому +14

    Your parents are proud of you.. soo dont worry be happy... m also the older one i can feel u

  • @justvibin30
    @justvibin30 7 місяців тому +79

    Us bro us 😂 same conversation mein meri mummy ke sath karti hnu aur kab wo argument mein tabdil ho jata he pata hi nai chalta 🙈 it’s the side effect of being elder child I think 🤔 but btw your contents are really nice keep growing 🎉❤

  • @saranoor3785
    @saranoor3785 7 місяців тому +16

    As a elder child.. I can also feel mitali... Bohat e injustice houa hain hamare sathe 😅😅
    Love this podcast❤

  • @Yjus67-wq4ps
    @Yjus67-wq4ps 7 місяців тому +9

    Trust me, this is what unfiltered conversation looks like😂🎉
    Now i m getting why mitali is so UNIQUE and so STRONG to handle everything around her. Keep growing bro ❤

  • @Zsk-x6b
    @Zsk-x6b 4 місяці тому +2

    I see here many ppl are saying about being a 1sr child ( me too) and the extreme criticism and strictness we face ...but I think u feel this difference to next level if ur younger siblings are only brothers! ( iykyk)

  • @Medicos12614
    @Medicos12614 7 місяців тому +16

    This is what the unfiltered content called ❤ love the way aunty express every answer by heart 💜 keep posting like this

  • @chaitalishende2887
    @chaitalishende2887 7 місяців тому +4

    She is very straight to her point😅
    Typical Indian mother just like any other mom..

  • @nishamishra4035
    @nishamishra4035 7 місяців тому +7

    I don't usually comment on videos but...... Through this q and a i got to know one thing about mitali ....this lady/girl is hiding hell lots of words and pain in her heart .... looking at her eyes... That emotionally she is self made woman...!.. itni tuti itni tuti ki ab unbreakable ban gyi !... Now she fears of nobody!.. nothing!.. she doesn't has fear of being alone in any situation!... Upar se mitali sharma social life jiti hai khush rehti hain multitasking multiple jobs krti hai lekin andar se Miss Mitali Sharma!.. she is in proper monk state!.. na kisi k aane ki extreme excitement na kisi k jaane ka extreme dukh !.. ❤️❤️
    Nd oh god my mother is homemaker with MA degree but yess looking at aunty inspite she is doctor we can say ... Indian specially up bihar jharkhand ki mummiya same ground level pe hoti hain simplicity at peak no over react nothing!.. even all the indian moms 🌷❤️

  • @tcokdear
    @tcokdear 7 місяців тому +8

    Truely said Mitali, more the kid is co-operative and understanding, parents will get more stricter with them especially to first-born, & vice-versa. This gives rise to self-doubt sometimes and many other unwanted emotions are evoked inside.
    If they would be as co-operative as first kid is, kid will have good cherishable memories to look aback. Nonetheless, they are parents, whatever happened cannot be changed, though can compensated with by creating good memories in present.
    By the way, very good video, feels like you have enquired everything which I wish I could asked to my Mum.
    Thanks Mitali, GBU.❤

  • @nandinipatel_x
    @nandinipatel_x 7 місяців тому +35

    Absolutely loved this conversation!! Your mum is the sweetest, loved her personality and values!

  • @Riya_22106
    @Riya_22106 7 місяців тому +11

    this is must watch for every parents and every child!!!!
    so truely said each and evry thing!
    enjoyed it alot and learned a lot!

  • @palak9896
    @palak9896 7 місяців тому +6

    Aunty ofc have superior opinions and also she don't saw ghungat pratha and all...kuki wo sikh h and in our sikh culture there is no boundaries for females...even they can go gurdwara in periods....so it's her religion who teaches her these freedom ✨❤️

  • @hitanshipatel9893
    @hitanshipatel9893 Місяць тому +1

    Mitali you are right at every point 💯🥲

  • @-_-Pikachu-
    @-_-Pikachu- 7 місяців тому +6

    I wish i had this much supportive mother 🥺you're so lucky to have her💕

  • @Idkanyone-x3v
    @Idkanyone-x3v 7 місяців тому +38

    Middle child left the chat

  • @sirf_mona
    @sirf_mona 4 місяці тому +3

    7:23 Ma'am Salute (kya baat bole ap)!! Hope these lines hits to every so called Genz.

  • @mokshikamalik
    @mokshikamalik 7 місяців тому +7

    Hands down, I follow you since really long, and this video was undoubtedly your BEST video. Loved it!
    Being an elder sibling, and that too a girl, I could relate to each and every part of the video. The phone, activa, the need to prove that yes, I am capable of this or that or the leniency that the younger sibling gets, the communication gap, everything was relatable. This is my first comment in such a long time following you, but this was meant to be stated. You are literally the most relatable content creator. Your aesthetics are literally inspired from real life of a student in Delhi, and I can say, you are unfiltered in that context. Hoping to meet you one day in the streets of Delhi and having a really good conversation.
    Keep doing great, Mitali

  • @dvkideologies2047
    @dvkideologies2047 7 місяців тому +15

    I love daughter mother conversations so real . Maybe often bring her too sometimes her honest opinions are evrything

  • @yashasvitripathi5539
    @yashasvitripathi5539 7 місяців тому +13

    Whh mitali whh❣️😂mza aa gya❤️..
    You are representing every child there😘

  • @Itsprito
    @Itsprito 7 місяців тому +6

    mitali is me, me is mitali. ,🤣 bs m sbse choti hu aur mitali sbse badi🙌

  • @Leotheleader54
    @Leotheleader54 7 місяців тому +11

    She has such a lovely and calm aura... love listening to her 🫶🏻💖

  • @riyarani3869
    @riyarani3869 7 місяців тому +4

    Best part.... females hamesha se superior rhi hai🌻✨

  • @anjaligoyal8153
    @anjaligoyal8153 7 місяців тому +7

    Being an older child i can totally relate to your upbringing argument

  • @shreyamishra1691
    @shreyamishra1691 7 місяців тому +6

    Di
    .it feels so nostalgic today...I started watching your vlogs two years back when I used to live with my parents..and today I'm alone in hostel...it feels so different today being away from home for the first time

  • @AartiYadav-qm6rz
    @AartiYadav-qm6rz 3 місяці тому +1

    U are so good yr so real just seeing this o my god u re so good on toppp❤❤❤❤ love uu for thiss girl u are a gem❤❤

  • @shivigoswami7596
    @shivigoswami7596 4 місяці тому +2

    Very matured conversation with you ❤

  • @vernal_blooms
    @vernal_blooms 7 місяців тому +24

    Your mother is very different and dedicated to her work & her duties. My respect to aunty 🙌

  • @chichanu2831
    @chichanu2831 3 місяці тому

    you mom is so good in giving advice and the way she replies with full experience and in a practical way

  • @Oolalaaa
    @Oolalaaa 2 місяці тому

    Her mom is practical and witty. I like her ❤

  • @ManviBaliyan-s1w
    @ManviBaliyan-s1w 7 місяців тому +3

    Aapki Mummy ki baat hai itni relatable hai na didi bahut acchi hai aunty ❤

  • @priyankakhattar7200
    @priyankakhattar7200 6 місяців тому +2

    Really appreciate what your mom said. We totally agree with her.

  • @livanshi1279
    @livanshi1279 7 місяців тому +4

    Literally it was unfiltered

  • @MadhaveeKulkarni
    @MadhaveeKulkarni 7 місяців тому +11

    Lots of love to thiss cutieee!!💗🌻

  • @Neh0705
    @Neh0705 7 місяців тому +19

    Honestly, the best, raw and amazing podcast...so relatable yrr❤❤aunty is just so sweet!

  • @mamtaaagrawal9334
    @mamtaaagrawal9334 3 місяці тому

    Mitali ,you are quite privileged ..as far as ur family is concerned...u have educated parents , everything..Your mom here is very practical and you should listen to her ...later you may regret in life...

  • @ernstkim6370
    @ernstkim6370 7 місяців тому +7

    Last question is so relatable like pahale toh parents bolte hai ki career pe focus raho 20s me aate hai sbki shadi achii ho ye yaad aane lgta hai 😂.

    • @user-vo9uc1in3
      @user-vo9uc1in3 7 місяців тому

      Wo to parents ka kaam h bolna.
      Aur bacche kon sa unka baat 💯% Maan lete h , sab kuch to karte hi h chup chupa ke

  • @beacuse-why-not
    @beacuse-why-not 7 місяців тому +14

    Such an open and heart to heart video.. got so many different perspectives to think about.. do more such videos often..❤❤

  • @Sakshi2525-j6i
    @Sakshi2525-j6i 7 місяців тому +4

    without any pause 30 mins I watched it before the day of my 4th sem exams and definitely worth it.❤tons of love to your mumma

  • @anuragrawat9107
    @anuragrawat9107 2 місяці тому

    Good points at 7:32 about feminism balance is the key to lead a good life…

  • @yashiluthra2292
    @yashiluthra2292 7 місяців тому +2

    I liked aunty's views on equality n willingness of person to do for herself

  • @AnshuKumari-to4fj
    @AnshuKumari-to4fj 7 місяців тому +7

    12:05 question which all the first child want to ask their parent
    12:47 the emotions in the line 🤌
    Edit: Well I really liked this Q&A.... Felt the weight of Mitali's every word
    And really liked the point of view of Aunty towards the life ❤

  • @Gariyasee1611
    @Gariyasee1611 3 місяці тому

    Your mom is an icon bruh, the way shaped her career,married life, motherhood,that too for 3 times >>>🙂👑✨

  • @cheenu2064
    @cheenu2064 7 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes we forget that our parents also grow along with us while doing our upbringing.

  • @suzain70
    @suzain70 7 місяців тому +5

    Your mother is beautiful and brilliant doctor 💊🏥

  • @dmr4714
    @dmr4714 7 місяців тому +26

    19:45 Broo....Aunty roasted the whole male community..😗🤣🤣 roj rang badlte hai😆😂😂

  • @mirin2007
    @mirin2007 7 місяців тому +4

    Being eldest daughter,I could literally relate to every point

  • @Samiksha_pithore
    @Samiksha_pithore 7 місяців тому +5

    Loved your mother's views on living happy life and also thinking on feminism too❤

  • @MissRajput24
    @MissRajput24 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow Mitali, I truly loved it.

  • @anshulyadav5407
    @anshulyadav5407 7 місяців тому +4

    Epic yrrrr😂😂😂😂
    Literally sari zyadtiya ginna di

  • @desibarbie14
    @desibarbie14 3 місяці тому

    oh my god,mitali I relate to this video soooo much.I have so much built up against my parents soooo much and this whole video is a rant omfg

  • @unnatiople3349
    @unnatiople3349 7 місяців тому +8

    Mitali di u shouldn't have fought with ur mom for not having phone in 9th and not giving activa, farak bas waqt ka hai aaj aur aapke waqt me farak tha ye sabke ghar me hai younger siblings ke pass 5-6 th se android phones hai scooty hai and u being 1st child were more special for them so she being 1st time parent she was so concerned about each and every thing about u. (I adressed this bcoz meri bhi kuch din pehle meri mom se jhagda hua mujhe to phone nhi mila and all and i realised its not their fault ye bas waqt hai🙂)

    • @MitaliThisSide
      @MitaliThisSide  7 місяців тому +9

      Bro toh jab tak baat karoge nahi clear kaise hoga?

    • @unnatiople3349
      @unnatiople3349 7 місяців тому

      @@MitaliThisSide 👍

  • @_aishwarika_6235
    @_aishwarika_6235 7 місяців тому +5

    Wow...I loved it ❤...It was really so good and unfiltered actually... lots of love to Mitali di and aunty ♥️

  • @simplifyingstudy
    @simplifyingstudy 7 місяців тому +4

    Thats true... Daant khaana is a habit . Mitali is the real elder daughter 🤧🤧🤧. I can feel you.

  • @seedhijalebi8614
    @seedhijalebi8614 5 місяців тому

    I feel blessed, mai 21 sal ki hui aur mere parents ne mereko 9th mai janamdin par kudh phone gift kiya tha, aur mai unka single child huu, and my father is super chilll .

  • @pratulyaarora6734
    @pratulyaarora6734 7 місяців тому +12

    It was a very nice and entertaining podcast 😊. Keep growing, May Mata rani bless your family with good health aur prosperity.

  • @manshipoddar9590
    @manshipoddar9590 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanku Mitali and to your mom for explaining about passion which literally many people do not actually understand

  • @abhijeetgill6445
    @abhijeetgill6445 2 місяці тому

    Love this podcast with Mam ❤ pls bring more of her

  • @kashishmenaria9883
    @kashishmenaria9883 6 місяців тому +2

    My mother also didn't allow me smart phone in 9 -10 th and my brother had it in 7 th
    My mother's reply -"tumhe diya hota to aaj gov medical college me thodi hoti tu "
    And deep inside i know this is right 😂

  • @Astitva2006
    @Astitva2006 6 місяців тому +1

    Such a cool mom she is bilkul meri mummy ki tarah bezzati bhi face par aur tarif bhi
    As a youngest child in my family n doing mbbs I can say kuch bhi bolo bade wale pe pressure har ghar mai hota hai😂😂
    acha hua Im not the one bach gye

  • @adityavats3435
    @adityavats3435 7 місяців тому +7

    Really insightful and unique content keep up the good work ❤🎉

  • @nainaarora5596
    @nainaarora5596 7 місяців тому +2

    Last part : areee me nhi bolrhi.. was best😂💖

  • @rashi4328
    @rashi4328 6 місяців тому +1

    Great video mitali , very relatable.
    Keep it up

  • @Arpss
    @Arpss 7 місяців тому +5

    The mother daughter duo is just amazing ❤

  • @heenaupadhayay9486
    @heenaupadhayay9486 6 місяців тому

    So authentic and honest talk❤ ... Just love how natural this duo is lots of love ❤❤❤❤

  • @Nidhijha057
    @Nidhijha057 7 місяців тому +2

    Just maza aa gya❤😂,,btw mitali pichle saal ka bhi conversation i have enjoyed alot with your mother,and this time was also fab❤

  • @reenaseval9609
    @reenaseval9609 7 місяців тому +4

    Amezing Q/n session✨. Lots of love❤❤❤❤.

  • @richasingh2184
    @richasingh2184 3 місяці тому +1

    Lots n Lots of love to aunty ❤ ❤❤

  • @avanivaishnav1734
    @avanivaishnav1734 6 місяців тому +4

    sharma auntyji ❌ superwoman ✅

  • @sanchiyadav9220
    @sanchiyadav9220 6 місяців тому

    28:17 what a strong point Mitali made here🫶🏻✨❤️

  • @jyotianilgupta9625
    @jyotianilgupta9625 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved this raw and pure conversation between you and your mumma lots of love ❤😊

  • @Justlove.withAllah
    @Justlove.withAllah 7 місяців тому +2

    I can relate this😃
    Maine 'Dear Zindagi' dekhi h 🙃

  • @dn8302
    @dn8302 6 місяців тому

    Aunty is super cool.....n best part nhi diya tha tmhe NOKIA😂😂.....That part is Lit✨

  • @shagunchoukse2826
    @shagunchoukse2826 7 місяців тому +11

    Omgggg loved your mom so relatable being the first child and a doctor