Men are built to work, the Bible says a man that don't work, he does not eat. Men are built for it. We go together like puzzle pieces, but they are different. A man has to be Lazer focused a lot of the times.
Family trips in the 80s and 90s, my dad always seemed in a zone. Like everyone else was having fun, but him. As I got older I recognized he was that way because he had 4 people he loved that he was responsible for protecting at all times, 24/7. He was constantly risk-assessing situations, especially on road trips. He never “relaxed” because he took that role as protector very seriously. Mom’s role wasn’t protector and provider, it was caretaker and nurturer. One without the other, the ship didn’t move harmoniously. Dad and I talked about it years later and he smirked, _”You understand now.”_ It’s sad to witness what is happening to traditional male/female family dynamics.
Mom always in fun and innocent timing, men know better. I got teen son's, and Mom thinks they just so innocent, nothing bad can happen because they are her children, meaning special to her. In which I tell her, yes special to you and me, nobody to the rest of the world or nature, so we have to be on guard and pay attention to everything that is happening around us. Her favorite line, I can't worry about nobody else but the people in this house. My response, well I guess the people in the house will never leave out of the house because the world can't be controlled
NPC baby 😂 shhhhyt, they don’t even have a controller, they can’t even afford a used one at Game Stop or the Flea Market 😂 that’s how retarded today’s Whoa-man is son
I think this is because of the difference in how we communicate. Men in general often say what they mean directly, while women in general often say things they don’t really mean and are indirect. So when a man says something to a woman she thinks maybe he doesn’t really mean it. And when a woman says something to man he takes it literal and there lies the confusion. Most of this happens subconsciously as well.
That’s the key word they don’t listen. They listen to other women about what men wants but if she says the same thing men are saying she is labeled a pick me.
It's crazy, how much more sense, women with active fathers have. He did a great job with her. The whole way she presented herself was positive, intelligent, and feminine. Everything she said was spot on! I'm sure her father is proud.
And that’s why they’re Welven the Entertainer Goteen in relationships with us then 😂 so basically it’s proof that men should never be in a relationship with a woman! Just straight pimpin
I'll add another layer to that - the women who choose to stay single and don't believe that men serve any purpose on this earth, there's the rapist, thief, and murderer waiting to embrace you. The point is you NEED men just as much as men NEED you. We NEED each other.
Majority of women gonna get mad at you for the gem 💎 you just dropped on their heads lol 😂 thinking they can move as swiftly/think as swiftly as a man looking to do harm to them!
She broke it down very well. Only a fool won't accept innate limitations and weaknesses and that's exactly what women do. Case in point, they no longer want to work and take care of themselves.
Dee Dee; I'll give you a perfect example of what this young lady is saying abt men playing chess. When my daughter was 4 she had to go to the track with me to run laps, starting at 5 she had to do push-ups every day , at about 8 when she was old enough to understand money her allowance was connected to how many laps she ran at the track. At 10 I've got her and her girlfriends in the parking lot racing each other. She gets to 9th grade I get her on weight training. Long story short I built her into a D1 scholarship track and field athlete and college didn't cost me a dime! Her mom didn't see it and tried to get in the way with foolishness in spite of the fact that I told her the plan from the beginning was we weren't gonna pay for college. I had run track in college so I knew what I was doing. A lot of times I'd work 16 hour shifts overnight and have to come home shower, shave and take my daughter to her track meet or her workout and then go right back to work with no sleep. Not that my ex wife didn't mean well but she would try to side track her so I couldn't trust her with what I needed done and my daughter would tell me because she loved track.
I wish my ex understood this while we were together. She never wanted to work together. Her idea was for me to get a second job on top of a 40 hour plus job .
Powerful dialogue Men are playing chess while Women play un no! Men have to operate for the greater good of his family while women worry about her own happiness!
Consider this: If a man meets a genuinely decent woman who earns good money, he's immediately thinking of what can be stacked & invested from Her money. He doesn't want her money, just Her, so Her money should be used to establish the family emergency fund & investments for early retirement or business start up. Women don't want to contribute anything but P. No future plans, but a whole lotta checks to spend at will.
It is curious that modern women are so resistant to the notion of submitting to a husband as part of a loving relationship and family for a lifetime of fulfillment, but are so willing to submit to a boss/company at work for the benefit of the boss/company that will replace you "at will."
9:30 - "Women look at the outcome rather than the steps it took to get there. Women just want to feel better about the problem, men want to actually solve the problem." - Statement of the video!!!!
Her dad raised her so he obviously can multitask. He multitasks while still thinking broadly. On the flip side some males have become conditioned to live through their feelings and end up falling short in their relationships. Lots to unpack here…..
Absolutely spot on break down. This is the quintessential example of the type of relationship I’m aiming to have with our daughter, referring to the young lady in the video. Gonna keep it all the way 💯 wit her about how real world things actually work , especially dating & relationships. Her mother is already the epitome of what any man would want in a wife and someone to raise children with and my job is to make sure she is aware of what men of substance and value, actually look for in a woman & how to portray herself as such. Blessings to you & your family, keep fighting the good fight 🫡
Shoutout to all husbands with the capacity to be patient with their worrisome wives that just want what they want when they want it and are a chore to endure until they learn how to trust your timing. 💀 I may only not be married because I can't find it in me to deal with that for an extended period of time.
That phrase simply means women think one moves at a time & men think 5 moves ahead. My wife doesn't seem to think 5 minutes into the future, whereas I have to think 1-5-10 years into the future. She doesn't even know why I think what I'm thinking because she's thinking about right now & I'm thinking about 1-5 years from now. Women don't do lots of things at once that need a solution to a problem or prevent a problem. They just do everyday tasks that don't take a lot of brain power & or muscle, which is why they can do several tasks but not solve problems or prevent problems from happening. Those small tasks like cooking, cleaning, & making sure kids don't kill themselves by mistake are things women should do because that clears her man's time & brain so he can plot & plan their life out without running in problems that could've been prevented had he not been forced to do all of those small everyday tasks.
Imagine if everyone just did their jobs & played their role & not worry if someone else is doing what they're supposed to do. How easy would the world be if people just did what they're supposed to do.
She's basically talking about foresight. Men tend to use foresight and think about things that women tend not to. Reminds me of when a dated a chick yrs ago that wanted a Dodge Charger. She worked an entry level bank job which didn't pay much. I was trying to get her to think about keeping up with the payments on top of the fact that she was early 20s so her insurance was going to be high. I told her she'd be better off saving her money and buying a car cash or getting something used with a low payment. She ignored everything I said and went and a Charger. Withing a couple months she was complaining about how all her money was going into car payments and insurance. I could'nt do anything but say "I tried to tell you that wasn't a good idea." It pissed me off just listening to her complain after I tried to help her. Maybe her plan was to get me to make her payments but the fact that she went against what I said canceled that out.
But also we are built to take care of what's around us now so I can see it being a benefit. Like a mom handling her kids , sorting out dinner, tidying the house and all sorts of things. She might just be focused on what's Infront of her now. So I don't see anything wrong with not thinking into the future like that. That's why the man needs to have his head screwded on properly too so that he can bring that aspect...not saying it's always like that . But when 2 people combine what they are good at then it makes for a good team . In my opinion.
@@nonyabiz12 but also I get your frustration .this reminds me of every other call in on Dave Ramsey's show . He gives good advice on how to handle such situations where one is never minded about finances and responsibilities. It's interesting though. Go watch some of his stuff.
@@AGirlNamedVanAgreed, but how will that work if the short term thinkers have collectively decided to ignore and devalue the long term thinkers? That's why there's so much chaos now. We should be working together.
Ms DeeDee, I commend you for taking the time and effort of clear thought to create this exemplary stream. Outstanding me lady, simply out-freaking-standing! Props to you and the man who secured your amazing mind and heart. God Bless you and your household. To Him Be Glory and Honor. I feel like having chuurch now.
On a Toxic level, Women win playing men as long as the man dont know she is gaming him (which could last a while). The moment he figures it out, is the moment he thinks 5 steps ahead because we are better long-term thinking. The multitasking comment is also true, women are much better at those “burst of energy” related things that require fast responses/action, while men are better at focusing on one thing long term to seeing it through.
Men multi task too. It's been scientifically proven. So many of us multi task without even realizing we are doing it. Multi tasking can be very detrimental because it lessens the potential to get the most out of the situations.
I thank God that my 2 daughters get to see this. We have annual business meetings on the family LLP we give them positions/ input but I bring forth ideas and topics to move the business forward my wife's strong suit is financials and I am creative.
Fact; Any man who only socially rates women importance in their lives as a 3 or 4 and not 1, is definitely playing 5th degree, black belt chess! Been there, done that, and it is definitely worth it. Oh, and when I would encounter the "I'm too pretty to turn down women, I would always just say NEXT!
As a woman you should be able to take a nap…I don’t want my woman overweight, stressed out, suffering from anxiety, always worried about deadlines and having to answer to a boss…being under a “man’s leadership” is not about control it’s about trusting your man will do what’s best for his family and to make sure his woman has a safe soft place to lay her head each night…😂
Cheakers is about consumption with little strategic thinking, chess is also about consumption but with more strategic playing, thats what she trying to say.
I can multi-task my ass off! Mitigating risks and managing chaos is the ultimate form of multitasking! The most effective leaders do this. Checkers requires some strategy but it’s largely move-to-move and even reactionary. While chess requires higher levels of strategic thinking and foresight, it’s simply more dynamic. Meaning, men have intuition as well but when you’re experienced intuition is reinforced by wisdom and foresight. I know the outcome because I understand the inputs….
I’m almost 60. For the last 37 years, after having great experiences with European women in Europe and Russia in the early 1990s, I have been plotting my return to Europe and am even open to starting a family if a spectacular European woman comes into my life. (Just Monday I passed a fit 20 something stud up a strenuous mountainside and I’m not even in full shape and I get attention from college girls all the time even with salt pepper hair). Meanwhile I have been focused on earning TWO American pensions and building my savings for that very reason, largely remaining celibate and avoiding American women LIKE THE BUBONIC PLAGUE. It will be 40 years before I implement my plan! So when I saw your title that men play chess, in my case I must agree.
Empathy is the keyword here More of it from either gender is definitely necessary God created men and women to operate on a symbiotic level, we're interdependent NOT independent or codependent First time absorbing your content and I enjoyed it, thank you for sharing your insight and perspective as a woman
0:38 There's a mystic quality or attribute to this Woman's beauty which is why I don't think I could ever "Prefer" Women of other races or cultures over our own, problem is, MOST Black Women don't know how to tap into this type of beauty because it comes from the inside and apparently this beautiful sister here understands that 💯💯💯
Times have changed but everything flows like the earth’s orbit. Full circle,”What goes around comes around “. Look at her mother or his mother if he’s a bastard , otherwise the father.
This whole man vs women vs men is tiresome..... Why you all out playing games . Just pick someone and treat them well . 🤷 Dont you all get tired of this shit.
Stop it with the cop out Keisha chess is more than just a game its a way of life but with your puny little mind I wouldn't expect you to understand. Try learning the game of chess before opening your fat mouth Keisha! 😂
I have a theory? AI, is about to diminish the work place market by at least 50% Time now for women to return to traditional roles. However, this time round respected for being women not owned by men
The biggest peice in chekers is 🍑. The problem is high value men aren't phased by that piece so women get stuck on the checker board. Little do they know they can become the queen on the chess board if they submit to a great man. Pookie and Ray Ray entertains the small checker game so women stay in that comfort zone stunting their growth.
The other part the whatever podcast missed about playing chess and how a man's mind works.......is the speed scenarios and plans are developed to perform the task to get the best outcome...100 different scenarios could run thru our mind and then pick the best outcome within 10ths of a second, I do it all day everyday, whether it's running my crew at work or at home with my kids by myself
She gave a terrible analogy but still make good points. I wish people would throw away the whole chess vs checkers analogy. It’s not actually good for societal purposes, both games are about domination, surrender or submission. Men and women play a game but there is a benefit to working together in the game.
I think they are telling the truth that women don't realize men play an important role in problem solving from a logical point of view to keep a balanced life for a relationship and focus on the positive outcome to keep things safeguarded. No women have the power to assert authority over a man for its written in the word of God. Empathy is great for women, but logics is needed to balance for both perspectives to understand how each role functions working in harmony of understanding respect and gratitude knowing their place in this life and stop trying to follow society negative out put on not needing a man. Nonsense. Man in power gives the woman authority in a negative way, and they try to use it to put down men as a way of saying they're created to be the higher superior. Not so. Because God didn't create us on earth this, but by a woman respecting a man's higher place based on much higher responsibilities. Then she respects God only if he's a good man. The same of men to women. The only thing man can not do that a woman can do is having children. Understanding and working through mistakes and making sense of behaviors can help limit the stress on each other to be a great leader, especially when one incorporates God's words, applying it with understanding being just as he let God leads him. Amen 🙏
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I think she's right.. I'd be lying if I said I didn't wanna play Connect four with you... Dee Dee...😂🤷🏽♂️
Men are built to work, the Bible says a man that don't work, he does not eat. Men are built for it. We go together like puzzle pieces, but they are different. A man has to be Lazer focused a lot of the times.
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I think you did an amazing job keep up the great work 👏🏾
You are surely a proverbs 31
Family trips in the 80s and 90s, my dad always seemed in a zone. Like everyone else was having fun, but him. As I got older I recognized he was that way because he had 4 people he loved that he was responsible for protecting at all times, 24/7. He was constantly risk-assessing situations, especially on road trips. He never “relaxed” because he took that role as protector very seriously. Mom’s role wasn’t protector and provider, it was caretaker and nurturer. One without the other, the ship didn’t move harmoniously. Dad and I talked about it years later and he smirked, _”You understand now.”_ It’s sad to witness what is happening to traditional male/female family dynamics.
Mom always in fun and innocent timing, men know better. I got teen son's, and Mom thinks they just so innocent, nothing bad can happen because they are her children, meaning special to her. In which I tell her, yes special to you and me, nobody to the rest of the world or nature, so we have to be on guard and pay attention to everything that is happening around us. Her favorite line, I can't worry about nobody else but the people in this house. My response, well I guess the people in the house will never leave out of the house because the world can't be controlled
Facts, I miss my Father🙏🏽✊🏾
She is telling the truth!! Some women today are really angry that they are not men!!
for years this was called penis envy. Its an old term that doesnt get used any more.
and they dont have to be angry, we role different. thats the way it go
The can be angry all they want, they’re children anyways! Remind them that we don’t care
She basically said women are on the unplugged player 2 controller thinking they're controlling the game on screen. Lolol
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Pretty much 😂😂😂😂
NPC baby 😂 shhhhyt, they don’t even have a controller, they can’t even afford a used one at Game Stop or the Flea Market 😂 that’s how retarded today’s Whoa-man is son
She's spot on with her comments. A lot of times men make their intentions known. But to women, it goes in one ear and comes out the other
@keionnandrews9447 That's facts, thus why us men don't even try
I think this is because of the difference in how we communicate. Men in general often say what they mean directly, while women in general often say things they don’t really mean and are indirect.
So when a man says something to a woman she thinks maybe he doesn’t really mean it. And when a woman says something to man he takes it literal and there lies the confusion.
Most of this happens subconsciously as well.
We actually tells them what we like in a woman BUT most don't listen because of social media so they actually miss the point of what we are saying
That’s the key word they don’t listen. They listen to other women about what men wants but if she says the same thing men are saying she is labeled a pick me.
They get triggered by how we say it, rather than listening to WHAT we say. It is all about them.
That’s a personal assessment to make. Why do words(which have set meanings and definitions) escape you??..they aren’t fluid to feelings
@@smurf_n_wesson9064They have fluidic morals now so critical thinking isn't necessary.
I see no lies
It's crazy, how much more sense, women with active fathers have. He did a great job with her. The whole way she presented herself was positive, intelligent, and feminine. Everything she said was spot on!
I'm sure her father is proud.
Women think more complex in relationships and men think more complex in life. Women think short term, men think long term.
And that’s why they’re Welven the Entertainer Goteen in relationships with us then 😂 so basically it’s proof that men should never be in a relationship with a woman! Just straight pimpin
Man this needs to be reposted everywhere 💯💯💯💯
I'll add another layer to that - the women who choose to stay single and don't believe that men serve any purpose on this earth, there's the rapist, thief, and murderer waiting to embrace you. The point is you NEED men just as much as men NEED you. We NEED each other.
People forget "independent" can mean "on your own".
Majority of women gonna get mad at you for the gem 💎 you just dropped on their heads lol 😂 thinking they can move as swiftly/think as swiftly as a man looking to do harm to them!
She broke it down very well. Only a fool won't accept innate limitations and weaknesses and that's exactly what women do. Case in point, they no longer want to work and take care of themselves.
Bums 😂
"checkers" is satan. "chess" is God
When you understand that, now we can play
🤣🤣🤣. I’m stealing this shit 🤣
"There's power that need the darkness and power that needs the light. Empowered-is still a subservient role."
Barack Obama
I like that analogy
Absolutely 💯
The order of God is God,Christ,Man,Woman. The order of Satan is Satan,Woman,man
This is why masculinity complements femininity.
Women tend to make decisions based on emotions, men make decisions based on what the most likely favorable outcome will be.
Dee Dee; I'll give you a perfect example of what this young lady is saying abt men playing chess. When my daughter was 4 she had to go to the track with me to run laps, starting at 5 she had to do push-ups every day , at about 8 when she was old enough to understand money her allowance was connected to how many laps she ran at the track. At 10 I've got her and her girlfriends in the parking lot racing each other. She gets to 9th grade I get her on weight training. Long story short I built her into a D1 scholarship track and field athlete and college didn't cost me a dime!
Her mom didn't see it and tried to get in the way with foolishness in spite of the fact that I told her the plan from the beginning was we weren't gonna pay for college. I had run track in college so I knew what I was doing. A lot of times I'd work 16 hour shifts overnight and have to come home shower, shave and take my daughter to her track meet or her workout and then go right back to work with no sleep. Not that my ex wife didn't mean well but she would try to side track her so I couldn't trust her with what I needed done and my daughter would tell me because she loved track.
Hey brother, as a former DIII 800M (1:50.3) All American, I appreciate your story. I love it! And agree 1000%
Perfect example of why us as men should always not give cuff what a itch say 😉
I wish my ex understood this while we were together. She never wanted to work together. Her idea was for me to get a second job on top of a 40 hour plus job .
She wasn’t the one for you… trust me
I’m not gonna 🧢 she was spitting
Powerful dialogue
Men are playing chess while Women play un no! Men have to operate for the greater good of his family while women worry about her own happiness!
The Grio recent layoff perfect example. Using and positioning Ebony K until the real chest master sacrificed the pawns
It’s refreshing to hear someone hold BOTH genders accountable! Great content sis, keep up the good work..💯
Thank you ❤️
Consider this: If a man meets a genuinely decent woman who earns good money, he's immediately thinking of what can be stacked & invested from Her money. He doesn't want her money, just Her, so Her money should be used to establish the family emergency fund & investments for early retirement or business start up. Women don't want to contribute anything but P. No future plans, but a whole lotta checks to spend at will.
It is curious that modern women are so resistant to the notion of submitting to a husband as part of a loving relationship and family for a lifetime of fulfillment, but are so willing to submit to a boss/company at work for the benefit of the boss/company that will replace you "at will."
FACTS/FIYAH!
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Preach!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Absolutely right, the level of confusion is craziness
Beautiful😂 that girl got taught good game, spot on.
9:30 - "Women look at the outcome rather than the steps it took to get there. Women just want to feel better about the problem, men want to actually solve the problem." - Statement of the video!!!!
The Black woman's father did an awesome job. She is an amazing young lady!
Men are designed for purpose, and women are designed for nurturing, taking care of the household, being soft, feminine etc etc
She was DEAD ON!!! I never really thought about it like and when I look at how I move, it’s dead on.
This is one of best analogies I have ever heard on a podcast. Explained so well.
Her dad raised her so he obviously can multitask. He multitasks while still thinking broadly. On the flip side some males have become conditioned to live through their feelings and end up falling short in their relationships. Lots to unpack here…..
Who raised the men you are referring to?
Answer: WOMEN!
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Men raised by single mothers...
Good laawd, Lil mama was talking straight facts, frfr!💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Females you all better, listen frfr
I think men are made to go through a building of a family structure and it’s in us..
Absolutely spot on break down. This is the quintessential example of the type of relationship I’m aiming to have with our daughter, referring to the young lady in the video. Gonna keep it all the way 💯 wit her about how real world things actually work , especially dating & relationships. Her mother is already the epitome of what any man would want in a wife and someone to raise children with and my job is to make sure she is aware of what men of substance and value, actually look for in a woman & how to portray herself as such. Blessings to you & your family, keep fighting the good fight 🫡
She is 💯 in other words some Women think short term and most Men think long term. Good content
Real POWER is not something that is given to you! Real POWER is something that you take!!
I agree with what the young lady said as men, we are not just looking at solving the problem, but we are trying to mitigate it before it happns.
Funny how they thought they had the power it will always be a man's world😂😂😂😂😂
Shoutout to all husbands with the capacity to be patient with their worrisome wives that just want what they want when they want it and are a chore to endure until they learn how to trust your timing. 💀 I may only not be married because I can't find it in me to deal with that for an extended period of time.
She was speaking facts 💯
Thank you ma'am, for bringing this to light, like general electric. Felicity, tranquility & blessings to you & your entire family.
That phrase simply means women think one moves at a time & men think 5 moves ahead. My wife doesn't seem to think 5 minutes into the future, whereas I have to think 1-5-10 years into the future. She doesn't even know why I think what I'm thinking because she's thinking about right now & I'm thinking about 1-5 years from now. Women don't do lots of things at once that need a solution to a problem or prevent a problem. They just do everyday tasks that don't take a lot of brain power & or muscle, which is why they can do several tasks but not solve problems or prevent problems from happening. Those small tasks like cooking, cleaning, & making sure kids don't kill themselves by mistake are things women should do because that clears her man's time & brain so he can plot & plan their life out without running in problems that could've been prevented had he not been forced to do all of those small everyday tasks.
Chess vs checkers, a fair assessment.
Shout out to her dad 👍
She hit the nail on the head with that one 😂
Imagine if everyone just did their jobs & played their role & not worry if someone else is doing what they're supposed to do. How easy would the world be if people just did what they're supposed to do.
She's basically talking about foresight. Men tend to use foresight and think about things that women tend not to.
Reminds me of when a dated a chick yrs ago that wanted a Dodge Charger. She worked an entry level bank job which didn't pay much. I was trying to get her to think about keeping up with the payments on top of the fact that she was early 20s so her insurance was going to be high. I told her she'd be better off saving her money and buying a car cash or getting something used with a low payment. She ignored everything I said and went and a Charger. Withing a couple months she was complaining about how all her money was going into car payments and insurance. I could'nt do anything but say "I tried to tell you that wasn't a good idea." It pissed me off just listening to her complain after I tried to help her. Maybe her plan was to get me to make her payments but the fact that she went against what I said canceled that out.
But also we are built to take care of what's around us now so I can see it being a benefit. Like a mom handling her kids , sorting out dinner, tidying the house and all sorts of things. She might just be focused on what's Infront of her now. So I don't see anything wrong with not thinking into the future like that. That's why the man needs to have his head screwded on properly too so that he can bring that aspect...not saying it's always like that . But when 2 people combine what they are good at then it makes for a good team . In my opinion.
@@AGirlNamedVan ...Exactly. Both men and women have their own strengths. When they work together they make life easier on each other.
@@nonyabiz12 but also I get your frustration .this reminds me of every other call in on Dave Ramsey's show . He gives good advice on how to handle such situations where one is never minded about finances and responsibilities. It's interesting though. Go watch some of his stuff.
@@AGirlNamedVanAgreed, but how will that work if the short term thinkers have collectively decided to ignore and devalue the long term thinkers? That's why there's so much chaos now. We should be working together.
Fefails have a proclivity for acting now, thinking later. Their “plan” is to follow their heart, until it gives out, and then blame the men.
Ancient societies the world over fully understood this that's why they were able to survive and maintain stability for FUTURE generations
Ms DeeDee, I commend you for taking the time and effort of clear thought to create this exemplary stream. Outstanding me lady, simply out-freaking-standing! Props to you and the man who secured your amazing mind and heart. God Bless you and your household. To Him Be Glory and Honor. I feel like having chuurch now.
"How he Needs To Think" And how She needs To "Empathize" with what he has To Endure To Provide for A Structured (stable) house hold
On a Toxic level, Women win playing men as long as the man dont know she is gaming him (which could last a while). The moment he figures it out, is the moment he thinks 5 steps ahead because we are better long-term thinking. The multitasking comment is also true, women are much better at those “burst of energy” related things that require fast responses/action, while men are better at focusing on one thing long term to seeing it through.
Men multi task too. It's been scientifically proven. So many of us multi task without even realizing we are doing it. Multi tasking can be very detrimental because it lessens the potential to get the most out of the situations.
I thank God that my 2 daughters get to see this. We have annual business meetings on the family LLP we give them positions/ input but I bring forth ideas and topics to move the business forward my wife's strong suit is financials and I am creative.
DeeDee did you know that Japan is now paying black men $75 thousand per child to save their society?
She speaking all facts 💯🎯🙌🏽🤌🏽
What man cant multitask when cooking and cleaning? Some women cant do that either and complain about the kids.
Fact; Any man who only socially rates women importance in their lives as a 3 or 4 and not 1, is definitely playing 5th degree, black belt chess!
Been there, done that, and it is definitely worth it.
Oh, and when I would encounter the "I'm too pretty to turn down women, I would always just say NEXT!
As a woman you should be able to take a nap…I don’t want my woman overweight, stressed out, suffering from anxiety, always worried about deadlines and having to answer to a boss…being under a “man’s leadership” is not about control it’s about trusting your man will do what’s best for his family and to make sure his woman has a safe soft place to lay her head each night…😂
This female is on point 👍
Sadly this is mostly gonna speak to the choir... Women aren't gonna hear it
Cheakers is about consumption with little strategic thinking, chess is also about consumption but with more strategic playing, thats what she trying to say.
Much needed topic, once we realize we are compliments life will be easier
I can multi-task my ass off! Mitigating risks and managing chaos is the ultimate form of multitasking! The most effective leaders do this.
Checkers requires some strategy but it’s largely move-to-move and even reactionary. While chess requires higher levels of strategic thinking and foresight, it’s simply more dynamic.
Meaning, men have intuition as well but when you’re experienced intuition is reinforced by wisdom and foresight. I know the outcome because I understand the inputs….
I’m almost 60. For the last 37 years, after having great experiences with European women in Europe and Russia in the early 1990s, I have been plotting my return to Europe and am even open to starting a family if a spectacular European woman comes into my life. (Just Monday I passed a fit 20 something stud up a strenuous mountainside and I’m not even in full shape and I get attention from college girls all the time even with salt pepper hair). Meanwhile I have been focused on earning TWO American pensions and building my savings for that very reason, largely remaining celibate and avoiding American women LIKE THE BUBONIC PLAGUE. It will be 40 years before I implement my plan! So when I saw your title that men play chess, in my case I must agree.
At 0.55 seconds she says each role is “detrimental“ to a relationship smh
Empathy is the keyword here
More of it from either gender is definitely necessary
God created men and women to operate on a symbiotic level, we're interdependent NOT independent or codependent
First time absorbing your content and I enjoyed it, thank you for sharing your insight and perspective as a woman
Ok!,....now these women are learning in a hard way.....chiiiiiile 😬😬😬
women play checker men play chess and kids play a mess 😩 boo hoo!
They waite it out
14:04 facts
Thanks DeeDee for your helpful and inspiring videos ❤
You are so welcome!
Thank You 4 This Dee Dee ❤️.
You're welcome!🥰
0:38 There's a mystic quality or attribute to this Woman's beauty which is why I don't think I could ever "Prefer" Women of other races or cultures over our own, problem is, MOST Black Women don't know how to tap into this type of beauty because it comes from the inside and apparently this beautiful sister here understands that 💯💯💯
Times have changed but everything flows like the earth’s orbit. Full circle,”What goes around comes around “. Look at her mother or his mother if he’s a bastard , otherwise the father.
Your husband is TRULY BLESSED.
Deeeep. And on point
DeeDee is so right im an Alpha good looking successful & wealthy and im so sick of meeting tough women that want to be in charge... no way
Black man will never ask for a masculine woman if he lives in reality
Nice DeeDee great video. Definitely sharing,,
Thanks so much
The Hard way cometh😂
This whole man vs women vs men is tiresome..... Why you all out playing games . Just pick someone and treat them well . 🤷 Dont you all get tired of this shit.
How dare you make sense. You are so right that this is extremely tiring. Pick someone and treat them well. Wise conclusion 👊🏿.
How about you pick someone who's going to treat you well, rather than picking losers for shallow reasons?
Stop it with the cop out Keisha chess is more than just a game its a way of life but with your puny little mind I wouldn't expect you to understand. Try learning the game of chess before opening your fat mouth Keisha! 😂
This was enlightening and refreshing. Not tiring.
@@SigmaGentPodcastshe didn’t deserve that bro
I have a theory? AI, is about to diminish the work place market by at least 50% Time now for women to return to traditional roles. However, this time round respected for being women not owned by men
The biggest peice in chekers is 🍑. The problem is high value men aren't phased by that piece so women get stuck on the checker board. Little do they know they can become the queen on the chess board if they submit to a great man. Pookie and Ray Ray entertains the small checker game so women stay in that comfort zone stunting their growth.
Good content sis👏 well said
Great video!
The other part the whatever podcast missed about playing chess and how a man's mind works.......is the speed scenarios and plans are developed to perform the task to get the best outcome...100 different scenarios could run thru our mind and then pick the best outcome within 10ths of a second, I do it all day everyday, whether it's running my crew at work or at home with my kids by myself
acceptance Trumps feelings
She cooking
Ford, created the 5 day work week so he could sell more model-T , some men were behind feminism to get women out the house and into the workplace.
Talk to your sisters Dee. I can't put No Price on what you are doing. I just found your Cast
Great video, Dee.
*Good men play chess not checkers
This was juicy DeeDee!
She gave a terrible analogy but still make good points. I wish people would throw away the whole chess vs checkers analogy. It’s not actually good for societal purposes, both games are about domination, surrender or submission. Men and women play a game but there is a benefit to working together in the game.
I play Pac-Man and PS-5 myself!
Good video Dee.
what does that say about Kamala🤔
I think they are telling the truth that women don't realize men play an important role in problem solving from a logical point of view to keep a balanced life for a relationship and focus on the positive outcome to keep things safeguarded. No women have the power to assert authority over a man for its written in the word of God. Empathy is great for women, but logics is needed to balance for both perspectives to understand how each role functions working in harmony of understanding respect and gratitude knowing their place in this life and stop trying to follow society negative out put on not needing a man. Nonsense. Man in power gives the woman authority in a negative way, and they try to use it to put down men as a way of saying they're created to be the higher superior. Not so. Because God didn't create us on earth this, but by a woman respecting a man's higher place based on much higher responsibilities. Then she respects God only if he's a good man. The same of men to women. The only thing man can not do that a woman can do is having children. Understanding and working through mistakes and making sense of behaviors can help limit the stress on each other to be a great leader, especially when one incorporates God's words, applying it with understanding being just as he let God leads him. Amen 🙏
dee dee is a beautiful woman.
That whole multi-task issue is propaganda. Men multi-task too. Humans multi-task. There are plenty examples of that
love it
Great video