#8: Pornography and Nikah
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2024
- #Marriage #Porn #Islam
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Are these 2 related? You'd be surprised. Focusing on one literally prohibits you from the other, it goes both ways.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction
2:37 - The pathetic & unnatural nature of watching porn
9:45 - Rami briefly explains how Nikah works
12:21 - Can a Nikah be the solution for a pornography problem?
14:08 - The importance of properly educating your kid about sex and marriage
24:31 - Physical effects of porn addiction
28:48 - Physiological effects of porn addiction
38:40 - Anghel speaks about Erectile Dysfunction and “The Coolage Effect” (i.e. Mental Desensitization)
40:48 - Spiritual effects of porn addiction & the importance of fixing the spiritual aspect first
46:24 - Clarification: What does it mean “fix the spiritual aspect first” ?
48:04 - To Faiyad & Rami: How did it feel like watching porn as a Muslim?
52:53 - Rami’s point: Shame is a beautiful thing
54:27 - Faiyad’s Point: Forgive your parents if they did not teach you the religion properly
57:01 - The importance of not relying on blind faith
1:00:39 - Connecting the dots (i.e. How Self Improvement, Educating Children about Islam, and Pornography Addiction are related)
1:04:15 - Anghel and Faiyad make a connection from this topic to Karma and Karmic Energy
1:06:42 - Do Muslims believe in Karma?, And how your self-improvement is good for future generations
1:10:56 - Outro
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Would it be wrong to marry solely for sex?
@@AK-bk8rt it wouldn't be wrong, but the reward is less. The most virtuous of intentions earns the highest rewards but saving yourself from haraam is also important. We are all hyper sexualised by the society we grew up in, some less than others, but for many, it's very important to get into a Halaal relationship in order to safeguard against immodesty.
*TIMESTAMPS!*
0:00 - Introduction
2:37 - The pathetic & unnatural nature of watching porn
9:45 - Rami briefly explains how Nikah works
12:21 - Can a Nikah be the solution for a pornography problem?
14:08 - The importance of properly educating your kid about sex and marriage
24:31 - Physical effects of porn addiction
28:48 - Physiological effects of porn addiction
38:40 - Anghel speaks about Erectile Dysfunction and “The Coolage Effect” (i.e. Mental Desensitization)
40:48 - Spiritual effects of porn addiction & the importance of fixing the spiritual aspect first
46:24 - Clarification: What does it mean “fix the spiritual aspect first” ?
48:04 - To Faiyad & Rami: How did it feel like watching porn as a Muslim?
52:53 - Rami’s point: Shame is a beautiful thing
54:27 - Faiyad’s Point: Forgive your parents if they did not teach you the religion properly
57:01 - The importance of not relying on blind faith
1:00:39 - Connecting the dots (i.e. How Self Improvement, Educating Children about Islam, and Pornography Addiction are related)
1:04:15 - Anghel and Faiyad make a connection from this topic to Karma and Karmic Energy
1:06:42 - Do Muslims believe in Karma?, And how your self-improvement is good for future generations
1:10:56 - Outro
Back at it again with the timestamps 🔥🔥
Maybe you have touched on this already but from a female perspective, being with a man, husband, who watches porn, the wife, or girlfriend, feels cheated on. She constantly compares herself to these women he is lusting over. She feels used. She wonders who he is fantasizing about when he is being with her... the emotional pain is undiscribable, it cuts to the the deepest part of her being.
She will always feel less than... she will always keep a part of herself from you. She wont trust you.
It causes her to reflect on herself and validates that she is not the object of his desire... she is not the desire of his life on any level.... physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally...
Don't use Nika as an excuse to sin. Nika is great if you are in love and can't marry quickly. Be careful how you use Nika.
Maybe in the mans mind Nika is a way to have halal sex but always remember that her mind is at the least hoping that this will blossom into a permanent marriage, she has a different agenda then you, and she may tell you that she understands Nika..Many nieve women agree to Nika, with an ideah and hope that this will blossom into a permanent relationship.. her mindset most often is totally different than your agenda...
If the man cares anything about women as Allahs creation, a precious gift, dont use Nika to satisfy lust. Men, please be careful not to spin an excuse to just fulfill your, or even her, lust.
Speaking from experience....
I got an addiction .it is watching your podcasts . Salam and love from Morocco my brothers in Islam .May Allah reward you
just letting y’all know that the content is appreciated a lot 💪🏻
We appreciate y’all also
- T3M Faiyad
Faiyad: It's a good deed to approach your wife.
Anghel: I'm going to get so many good deeds...
😂😂 love it bros
Thanks akhi
- T3M Faiyad
Man porn is a serious issue its the number 1 example of being a slave to your own desires, it literally fulfills you for a split second but than eats you up in the long term from the inside until you are completely empty, because the cycle always repeats itself. So many men are lost souls in this era... I never took the rules of islam seriously until I realized the damages of porn, now I know that these rules are there for a damn reason. I just hope that one day porn will be categorized as illegal, just like all the other drugs. I would even go as far as saying that porn is worse than smokin gas or drinkin alcohol, atleast these are materialistic substances (which ofc does not make them less dangerous) but porn is just all in the mind man, us men gotta stop watching that shit asap.
Ameen
- T3M Faiyad
QLF ✌🏼👀
KTW
1- Fasting. (Mondays and thursdays as per the sunnah. Or better, the fast of Prophet David a.s which was every other day, helps a ton. It basically castrates you.
2- Prayer. (Pray 5 x a day, with concentration and keep bettering your focus, and humility, then add sunnah prayers. then add witr. then add duha. then add night prayers. ) Prayers saves you from faahishah (filthy deeds) If you're prayer is god, you're good.
3- Lowering the gaze. Don't go on sites, cut off the gadgets to a degree. Keep accountability.
4. Make a lot of Sincere Dua. Ask Allah to help you.
I can kinda understand what Faiyad and Anghel were talking about when they mentioned Karma. And how people should make sure they’re the best person they can be and letting go of the flaws of your ancestors. But it is definitely important to stay away from terminology or concepts that are outside of Islam. Especially when talking about the Unseen aspect of the world.
Yes. Difference bw bidah and taking value that doesn’t go against the Deen
- T3M Faiyad
This is the content we need. Glad to see Taboo topics talked about because I have so many brothers came up to me in private who facing these problems.
always great content, thanks brothers
Lil quizzy , really good episode. It’s getting better and better, looking forward for more inshallah
Thanks akhi
- T3M Faiyad
I really needed to hear this. May Allah bless you all and increase your mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. So grateful for learning about this channel.
I haven’t even started watching yet but this one is needed given the current state of the world 💯
My man
- T3M Faiyad
Even as someone who is older than all of you, I found this podcast to be very beneficial. Great work my dudes, mashaAllah.
Alhumdulillah
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You 3 rock ..... loving the topics your bringing forward to discuss... people need to hear this & stop hiding away from the real issues are society faces ... bare love for the brothers ..
Love you brothers for real! I've watched a lot of sheikh's etc talk about this issue but this resonated with me on a different level Alhamdulillah. I can see the Noor (light) in your faces.
May Allah continue blessing you and make you all successful in this life and the next Ameen ❤️
Alhumdulillah
- T3M Faiyad
Great episode once again guys and Merry Christmas to anyone who celebrates it
Bruhh
We're muslim, we don't celebrate it
Mashallah these podcasts are very beneficial, keep up the good work brothers
I wish you would have touched up on the true victim of the pornography addiction amongst men in our ummah- women. I think its so needed to go into the impact of a porn addiction on your marriage and on your wife. The unrealistic expectations it sets of her, your lack of ability to now please her because you are busy pleasing yourself or you can no longer be aroused by the natural body (diff shapes, discoloration, hair) because porn has one beauty standard for women and most women in porn undergo heavy surgery everywhere including their private parts. I don't think pushing Nikkahs as a solution to a man that cannot control his urges. That also leaves a woman vulnerable to being used for sex. There are huge responsibilities that come with that nikah and we need to make sure her rights are upheld and that she isnt simple just a solution to a mans urges. Instead teach them how to control those urges............
@@Abu-Kurdi No they should learn to control themselves, training your will, training your nafs is something that exists. What will happen to alcoholics, drug addicts, youtube addicts, overweight people etc. etc.? You need to work to improve yourself, that's life.
I love these podcasts, keep going
Jzk Fauza
- T3M Faiyad
Keep working brothers ❤️❤️❤️❤️
نسأل الله ان يجازيكم عنا خير الجزاء 🙏🏾❤️
Salamwalekum Abdessamad
- T3M Faiyad
Salam Sheikh 2Pac
Hey Faiyad Bhaiya..This is Farhan from Bangladesh.It’s great to see you in such great videos.Surprised to see you actually.Keep up the good work man!
Much love akhi
- T3M Faiyad
Keep doing wat u guys r doing really great podcast brothers
Thanks akhi
- T3M Faiyad
Real talk, keep it up brothers.
masyaAllah tabarakAllah, great content as always.. are you guys planning to have a studio for the future? im curious
Appreciate the content
Subhanallah what a mashallah convo again - brothers, you rly do pushing my iman, barakallahu feekum! And @anghel: just like you said - WE NEED TO BREAK THE CYCLE OF GENERATIONAL PAIN/TRAUMA/BEHAVIOUR - May Allah azza wa jall make us to rightous parents and believers, raising multiple beautiful muslim kids and may we die with the deepest iman in our heart, assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu 🤲🏿
Inshallah and ameen
- T3M Anghel
Assalaamu alaikum
You guys are very brave to speak about a real struggle that real people have, men and women alike.
Well done, may Allah protect you guide you and make you pious spouses and good fathers. A good father is the best solution to our society's problems.
Mashaallah may Allah strengthen all of us with more knowledge, keep it up guys
May Allah increase you in knowledge and understanding of Al Islam.
Ameen Deeqa
- T3M Faiyad
This is an important topic that I’ve struggled with In the past
Amazing podcast
Thank you for this video. Alhamdullilah
pornography is like a drug and it is evil and it causes Social Anxiety...
I was addicted to porn for a long time, always felt so shameful and disgusted, which led to self harm psychologically
May Allah continue guiding you
- T3M Faiyad
@@The3Muslims Ameen
How are you doing now?
@@GHOST-cr2je I'm in a way better place now, I understand how to handle my emotions way better, thoughts way calmer, I can express myself better, thanks man.
@@nycnow811 I’m going through the same thing, how did you get past the stage of addiction
Great video
Damn the dopamine flat line.. was so accurate
Regarding the topic of Karmic Debt and Original Sin, that's one of the beautiful things about Islam; the sins of the father are not your burden or stacked on top of your own sins. Everyone is born into the world with a clean slate and there are consequences both in this dunya and the akhira for us for our actions and our actions alone.
@@mercedesf1fan176 when I say clean slate I'm referring explicitly to sins. Sure environmental factors, epigenetics, and genetic predispositions will make some more likely to fall into different types of sin in their lifetimes - and that will be their trial for this dunya - but the point I'm making is in Islam when they're born into the world out the womb babies are born pure and sinless.
@@mercedesf1fan176 nah homie you not understanding the context of what I'm talking about 🤦🏽♂️ Read back to my first comment. The original point I was making was comparing other religions view on sin to that of Islam, namely Christianity's concept of Original Sin, the Christian belief that because of Adam and Eve's transgression of eating the fruit, all of their progeny (ie: all of humanity) are born into the world as sinners and it's only through proclaiming Jesus (PBUH) their lord and savior they're washed of said Original Sin. As I said before, contrary to that belief in Islam babies aren't born with Original Sin but are born pure. This circles back to my main overarching point that the sins of the father are not the sins of the child. You're conflating that point with something completely different.
@@mercedesf1fan176 damn homie your goofy ass childish af 🤡🤣. Now that I've clarified my points and gotten them across you just going ad hominem on my ass because you realize you completely misunderstood them from the get go 💀 Ion understand why you're watching a muslim podcast if you don't understand or care to understand the religion itself. If you were more civil I'd be happy to answer your questions and doubts on the religion but since you probably just gonna disrespect my ass even more imma just disengage here.
@@mercedesf1fan176 really bc group thinking is increasing everyday with liberalism and all that political correctness. And how can you justify that the rules you make are actually objectively correct?
@@mercedesf1fan176 It might be late, might not make a difference, but a clarification to what brother said above is children are born sinless, regardless of their genetic and social disposition, if they die as children they will go straight to heaven. They will not start being held accountable for their choices until they hit puberty, and even then they will be held accountable relative to what they know and how the tried and what they were capable of. You don’t believe in any of that though, to which I would suggest (if you are sincere and not just emotional about your current position) to test the claim of the Qur’an, and see if it contradicts itself, but just because it makes you uncomfortable or hurts your pride doesn’t mean its the truth.
@Anghel if you found the links to the studies please post them in a pinned comment. Jazaka Allahu Khairan for your effort.
What we’re the studies again? I forgot exactly which I was referring to
-Anghel
lmao yo this is great. May Allah bless all 3 of yall and grant you 3 jannatul firdous!
You too my brother
- T3M Anghel
Perfect timing just got on UA-cam
Always
- T3M Faiyad
AssalamuAlaykum. Very insightful podcast. I just wanted to advise the brother Aanghel (based on 21:39) that as Muslims we're only allowed to swear by Allah. Swearing by other than Allah is considered shirk (polytheism).
*About Blind Faith*
_Then, is he who KNOWS that what has been revealed to you from your Lord is TRUTH, the same as the one who is BLIND? Only those of understanding will be reminded. (Qur’an __13:19__)_
Faiyad's hidden laugh at 7:31 got me dying😂
It’s true brothers I love your videos 🌹♥️
We love you
- T3M Faiyad
I think when talking about spirituality and porn/masturbation, you should address the touch of shaitan. I have heard scholars say it can be a reason for possession and there is a link also between frequent wet dreams and possession. Also the practical ways to abstain e.g staying in wudu especially before sleeping etc.
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet said: "A non-virgin woman may not be married without her command, and a virgin may not be married without her permission; and it is permission enough for her is to remain silent (because of her natural shyness)." (Al-Bukhari:6455, Muslim & Others).
just to add to your points, Even when your parents don't know how to teach you religion and give it to you as a natural obligation instead of giving you the basics of faith, you might still have some benefits related to it. for instance, if you where a bad person and then you reverted to being a true muslim and you are on the right track, you've already experienced the dangers and negative effects of a sin, so you have more of a reason not to go back to it. but in the end, it's better to teach your kids the "whys" instead of the "hows" and the "dos/don'ts" .
may allah help us fix our flaws and make us a great role models for our children and future generations to come.
Thank you
21:39
Assalaamu alaikum Aanghel. May Allah bless you and keep you upright upon good.
I just wanted to let you and everyone know that when we want to swear by something, we should only swear by Allah (i.e: "Wallahi, I swear by Allah" etc).
The Prophet said, “Surely Allah prohibits you from swearing an oath by your fathers. Whoever swears an oath, let him swear by Allah or remain silent.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6270, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 3104
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“Whoever swears an oath then let him swear by Allaah or else keep silent.” Agreed upon.
And he said: “Whoever swears an oath, let him not swear by anything other than Allaah.
Narrated by al-Nasaa’i.
Please provide reference from hadith and Quran on your screen so everyone can see it.
Just to remind you brother Rami the hadit of the knot is "weak of Isnad" 16.24 mn, barak allahu fikom
jazakum allah khairan ♥
Yooo I watch the saint and the sinner too. Real recognises real. 💪 💯
Salamaleykum brothers.
Talk topic about Jinns, inshaAllah
Episode is filmed, will drop in 2 weeks
- T3M Faiyad
We missed alot of things because of the culture, 🤦♀️may Allah help us to learn our deen more 🤲
"Oxytocin, THAT IS"
luv yall bro hahahah
Damn bruh don't bring up the neck ups lol I had an intention to start doing those
If done correctly they’re proper akhi
- T3M Faiyad
Rami's face at 14:58 haha
Twas my face too when I heard this
- T3M Faiyad
Salam brothers. Anyone know the Intro beat? Its very soothing.
It’s a nasheed from UA-cam
- T3M Faiyad
@@The3Muslims respect brother
Porn addiction is quite pathetic than drug addiction while a person addictive to drug people know that but if you have porn addiction no body knows about it . porn addiction is like who are enjoying while watching but it's addiction that some people want to get rid off this but they can't they are still watching please put some light on it angel
Faiydfit and anghel need to collaborate lol
19:11 aanghel I would suggest hijama in the head to regrow the hair. A lot of people do it. And it is sunnah as well.
Mashallah 🙏🏼❤️
lads what happened to the jinn episode?
Dropping in 2 weeks
- T3M Faiyad
Al-Quran, (4:19-23) Marriage consent in Islam.
O ye who believe! It is not lawful for you to inherit women forcefully. And do not marry women to whom you father has ever married except what has passed. Indeed it was lewdness, disbelief, and a bad way. Prohibited to you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, brother's daughters, sister's daughters, your mothers that are those who suckled you, your sisters from suckling, mothers of your women, your step-daughters in your guardianship from your women you have entered upon but if you have not entered upon them then there is no blame on you, women of your sons from your loins, and that addition of two sisters (in a wedlock) except what has passed. Surely God is Forgiving, Merciful.
Brothers have you guys discussed the issue of exposing sins with a scholar in regards to the podcast, as I know we are not supposed to expose sins but I’m not sure if it’s acceptable if you’re trying to advise people, just a thought, and Allah knows best
Our intention is to always guide people through our mistakes and I speak for myself only when I say I am not running from my past as it’s what helps me help people going through the same experience akhi
- T3M Faiyad
@@The3Muslims Bro regarding masturbation it isnt as bad as u think. PORN is the substance which makes it bad. I know u should avoid it but before marriage its something which u cant avoid. Heres zakir naik answering the question if masturbation is haram: ua-cam.com/video/sDFxGu47Zu0/v-deo.html
@@sipan_pb yeah from my understanding it is makrooh not impermissible
- T3M Faiyad
@@The3Muslims @Sipan As Salamu Alaykum Ya Ikhwaan fi’l Islaam (My Brothers in Islam) 👋
In Regards to the Ruling on Masturbation It is Clear Cut Haraam (Prohibited)
There are Clear Ayats (Verses/Signs from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala (May He Be Praised and Exalted) from the Qur’an Al Kareem (The Noble Qur’an), two Chapters that make it clear are Surah Al Muminoon and Surah Al Maarij
In the first Surah, Surah Al Muminoon (Chapter of The Believers) Allah tells us in the opening verse : Successful indeed are the believers and then Allah goes on to lists the great attributes of the “Successful Believers “. Then when it gets to verses 5-7 Allah says: Successful Indeed are those who guard their chastity, except with their wives or those ˹bondwomen˺ in their possession,1 for then they are free from blame,but whoever seeks beyond that are the transgressors.
Therefore, You can only gain pleasure sexually from these two groups of people (your wife and a bond women) and anything else then makes one to fall under the status of “Transgressors”.
Listen I know there are people and Daees (Callers to Islaam) who say it is not Haraam (Prohibited) but Makrooh (Not Recommended).But, a reason why these Daees say it is Makrooh is due to other famous past scholars who took that opinion but the thing is that in those days some Imaams did not have hadeeths or tafsir of verses easily accessible as we do online but instead travelled to learned them. Thus some Hadeeths were not heard of yet to them nor some verses tafseers’ (commentaries) were made clear to them when making those positions. However, I and as Muslims should not interpret Quran in our own opinions and give rulings as if we have the knowledge of the Quran like our pious predecessors. Thus, Imaam Shaafii (May Allah’s Mercy Be Upon Him) (One of the Imams of the 4 schools of thought of Sunni Islam in Fiqh) Fiqh; Islamic Jurisprudence, explained what I am saying and that Masturbation falls under prohibition due to these verses and Many Contemporary Scholars who have recently passed like Bin Baz and Uthaymeen (May Allah’s Mercy Be Upon Them) said the same.
Plus the Prophet (May Peace Be Upon Him) never told anyone to Masturbate instead told us to fast in his Sunnah and that we should fast Mon and Thurs and if more needed then the fast of Dawood (Peace Be Upon Him) which is fast one day and then fast not the next day but the day after and to keep this pattern going. Also Our Nabi told us that fasting the correct way which is to lower our gaze as much as we can and eat light for suhoor and iftar will help as you will feel what he described as Wija’a ( a practice that the Pagan Arabs would do which is smashing the testicles of the Camel so that it does not mate (neutering basically) thus the goal is to feel that neutered feeling for us as we fast according to the Sunnah.
Lastly, how sad is it for us to gain pleasure from our hand cause if you’re not viewing porn then just simply playing with yourself shows difficiency as it shows you are weak and that your giving the rights of you wife to your hand and that you don’t even get oxytocin and damage veins in your scrotum like way of life sq said and some may cause swelling and pain to your shaft if one were to rub so much and fast paced. In addition, once you obey your desires, Shaytaan will convince you to want more as he will then convince you to watch the porn to feel more pleasure and then just play with you at that point. That’s why so many people start off innocent to porn and then watch violent porn due to waswas (evil whisperings/encouragements) of the Shaytan. Lastly no point in wasting your seed if it is not planted as children are provision since a farmer would choose not to plant his seed til the time is ready and would never just throw it away for no reason but only holds on to it if not planted yet for a better time when he decides to plant his provision.
Last Point: Allah mentions in the Quran : Have you seen the one who has taken his desires as his Lord in verse 43 of Surah Al Furqan (The Criterion) . Therefore, Oh My Brothers and Sisters come back to this Deen as it entails having taqwa (fear and consciousness of Allah as he is All Seeing, All Hearing All Knowing, Most Wise, Most Just, All Forgiving and more).
To wrap up: Definition of bond women is down below, watch the link in my own reply to myself, and Indeed Allah is my Lord, your Lord, Our Lord, and Lord of the Worlds. And Indeed to Him we Belong and to Him we return. At last, we as Muslims must seek knowledge from Quran and Sunnah from the interpretation of the Salaf (The righteous three generations during the time of Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) as he praised them in a hadeeth and numerous ahadeeth (plural of hadeeths). This Deen consists of Tawheed (Oneness of Allah) as the shahada is “There is no deity (Ilah) Worthy of Worship EXCEPT Allah (The Most High) and I BEAR WITNESS that MUHAMMAD is HIS SLAVE and MESSENGER.
Thus Quran repeatedly says Obey Allah and Obey His Messenger BUT TELLS US MUSLIMS BORN IN THESE times and never saw the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) that those who also FOLLOW the Muhajireen (The Sahabas who Emigrated from Makkah to Madinah) and The Ansaar (The Sahabas who were natives of Madinah) are the ones Allah are pleased with. Reference: Surah At Tawbah (Chapter of Repentance) verse 100.
Thus My Brothers and Sisters this is the ISLAAM us Muslims are to be upon : Obey Allah, Obey Rasool, and how do we understand Quran correctly and Hadeeths? By following and implementing the interpretation of the Salaf (Righteous Predecessors; Sahabas) as they were there when the ayats of Quran were revealed and they were there when the Hadeeths were taking place and narrated them too thus We can only know the true reality of our Deen from those present at the time of when this Deen was in motion of and eventually being completed. Unfortunately , a lot of Muslims fall into deviation as 72 are to be in the fire and 1 in Jannah (Hadeeth of Prophet ) and that 1 is those who are upon this Islam (Salafiyyah; as even affirmed by Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (Another Imaam of the 4 Imaams of the 4 Schools of Fiqh in Sunni Islam). This Islam, Salafiyyah , is the ISLAM that I have told you all about and is the Islam that was what the Prophet and his Companions and Pious Predecessors were on. Sadly because of everyone bringing new forms of Islam, it was only befitting to give this Correct Islam a name so that it is to be separated from the other Deviant Groups like the Shia,Sufis, Deobandis, Barelwis, Ikhwaanis, ISIS etc) who have deviated from Worship only to Allah and took upon parters with Allah in Lordship and practice Bidah (Newly invented matters a.k.a Innovations that were not practice by the Prophet nor his companions such as celebrating the Prophet’s Birthday for example is one innovation. Or like in Isis’s case establishing extremism by unjustly killing and taking the laws in their own hands when there are procedures to be followed before carrying out an action with accordance-to Shariah and through advises of the Ulema( The Big Scholars of our times who are fit to give high rulings).Thus for those who read this the correct Islam is Salafiyyah (Following the Quran and Sunnah through Intrepretation of Sahabas/Righteous Predecessors. Good Mainstream Channels and Shaykhs who call to this Islam are Naseeha Sessions, Green Lane Masjid (Shaykh Abu Usamah At thahabi and everyone else), Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble, Abu Taymiyyah, and Al Madrasatu Al Umarryiah ran by Ustadh Abdul Rahman Hassan. May Allah preserve them All.
I seek Refuge in Allah as any mistakes are from me and Shaytan that Allah and His Messenger are free from it. May Allah have mercy upon me and all of you, guide me and you, and make things easy upon me and you all, and keep me and you all steadfast Allahumma Ameen!
A bondwoman is a female slave that a man owned either through purchase or taking her captive in war-a common ancient practice in many parts of the world. Islam opened the door for ending slavery by making it an act of charity to free slaves. Many sins (such as breaking one’s oath, unintentional killing, and intercourse with one’s wife during the day of fasting in Ramaḍân) can be atoned by freeing a slave. According to Islamic teachings, no free person can be enslaved. Islam also improved the condition of slaves. It was unlawful to separate a mother from her child. Children born to a slave-master were deemed free, and their mother would gain her freedom upon the death of her master. With regards to slaves, Prophet Muḥammad (ﷺ) says, “Feed them from what you eat, clothe them from what you wear, and do not overwhelm them with work unless you assist them.” He (ﷺ) also says, “Whoever kills his slave will be killed and whoever injures his slave will be injured.” In recent times, slavery has been outlawed in all countries-including the Muslim world.
@@sipan_pb O my beloved Brother in Al Islaam please read my long commentary below (the recent comment) as it is directed to this post of yours. May Allah reward you Ameen! And Watch this video : ua-cam.com/video/W7il22xeqng/v-deo.html
Brothers interview Jeffrey Lang in your channel. Salaam from India.
Are you guys from Ontario?
Me and Rami are
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What’s the upload schedule ?
They upload every Thursday now
Every week we will have an upload on Thursday at 3pm EST. Some weeks when we feel appropriate, we will do an additional episode Tuesday. And the weeks we do a live Q&A, it’ll be on Friday in sha Allah and that’s on top of the Thursday ep that is guaranteed for y’all.
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20:50 BROOOO HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
U know it
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Faiyad you’re from Waterloo?
From Toronto and the lived in Mississauga. Currently in Waterloo
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7:31 Lol Anghel daddy huh?😂
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(Qur’an,@).Watching porn is prohibited in Islam.
"Tell them (O Muhammad): My Lord has only forbidden indecent acts, whether overt or hidden?”
lil qweezy/queezy??
In Islam there is some narration about avoiding sin because it can have impact on seven generations. And we see this. Everyone thinks my sin is mine alone, but reality is most “individual” sins have an impact on communities eventually! So fix with individuals first! Islam does not teach only God can judge me, because we all serve multiple roles in our families and communities and in the world, so we have to call out and remind each other. And Nabi saw taught us how to do this perfectly as well, it’s not about throwing shade or shaming others it’s a reminder coming from a place of love and care. So check yourself and intention if you want to remind/ advise someone
Please invite Sh Omar Baloch!!!! Jazak'Allaah khair
The mahr issue I don’t understand. I come from a culture where our tribes have set the dowry and no one can ask for more. Dowries range from £200 to £1000 no more.
When I hear crazy amounts I am like I do not know how men do it.
That is the reason men from my background tend to marry more than one wife and that is also normal.
Your content is on point. Keep it up
@@taym2720 Gambian
The value had not been fixed but the very reason why is between those amounts it is because they consider anything higher than that unreasonable
@@wanderer318 yes, the ones I am aware off.
@@wanderer318 People aren’t raised the same and to be honest, no one puts much importance to the amount in our culture because the mahr is only a gift to the bride. Nothing more. It does not equate to the value of the bride. So we don’t see it appropriate to go beyond those amounts. When I said no one can ask for more it is because they would be embarrassed to do so.
If people from other backgrounds see it appropriate to ask for thousands that is them.
I can say that we at least do not push youngsters to commit zina because they can easily get married.
Mashallah man
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Yerrrr
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Damn mashallah man
A suggestion. For future podcasts you can invite muslim subscribers for a chance to share their opinion.
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Assalamu alaykum my beautiful brothers
Wsalam Hanif
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Are all these brothers reverts mashallah
LIL QWEEEEZY!
:-) Bruv I used to hate Podcasts (?)
Anghel the links brother
Which one? lol
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First 🥇
AANGHEL 10-15 times a day what??? holy shit you don't mean…
bro my max in a single day was 7 times (was a 17 yo teenager) and i felt sick after that , and from them on id never go over 4 times, but now Alhamdulillah I'm on semen retention.
He’s a rabbit
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@@The3Muslims 😂😂😂
@@The3Muslims Wallahi brother that's insane, that's way too much, can't wrap my mind around how he pulled that off 😂😂😂
Yeah and on top of performing the natural obligation with my girlfriend 7-14 times a week. High Testosterone issues lol. I still feel that same desire as back then to release all the time but Alhumdulillah, Allah keeps me strong and resilient from going back to that lol.
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Anas bin Malik narrated that the Messenger of Allah(salla allahu aalayhi wasallam) said: "There shall come upon the people a time in which the one who is patient upon his religion will be like the one holding onto a burning ember." Youth people are suffering wallahi, i have a very emotional video for you guys of sheik Al Abbad about that matter (نعمة البصر) Allahu mustaan its from Tafsir The book - Al-Da'a wa Al-Dawa'a (For Ibn Qayem) /watch?v=nSGkMmx3zFU barak allahu fikom
About circumsized/uncircumsized P what Faiyad says it's not rue at all... If not circumsized men had 1000x more sensitivity then they would last literally 5 seconds in bed... xD That is a myth. Maybe theres a little bit of difference in "tactile" sensation (as a study suggests) but in in sexual plseasure (as another study suggests). The circumcision is a health benefit and desiease prevention. Plus, the foreskin, in normal conditions, smells funny, so you might get rid of it... And most women prefer circumsized anyways...
Yeah I was kinda confused on that. Thanks for clearing it up.
1000x is a hyperbole of speech. My point is that they are way more sensitive. And no they wouldn’t last five seconds because relatively that is their norm just like circumcised is our norm. I think you mean if WE went to having no circumcision today after living a life being circumcised, we’d last 5 seconds. Sensitivity can change and that’s why since we got circumcised young and without any experience, we have not felt like we’re 1000x more numb. Our body adapts, hope this clears it up akhi
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@@The3Muslims salam. I know it was an hyperbole. But what I say is that it's not true that uncut men have more sensitivity. Look at studies. Theres one study that suggests that uncut have slightly more sensitivity (but they did a tactile experiment). When doing a cold/warm experiment (to asest sexual pleasure) they didnt find a difference. And, this is my conclusion, when the penis is erect the two kind of penises are similar. So, maybe when the penis is flaccid uncut people have more sensitivity, but not while having sex.
Anyways, 'nia is everything. Your 'nia was positive: to educate us, you cant know everything always...
Faiyad looks different
Video was filmed earlier than most others you seen now, and I’m currently cutting so idk if it’s that
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Nikah means sexual relationship it doesn't mean marriage or the marriage contract...aqdatu nikah means agreement of sexual relations which can be marriage but also ma malekat aymanakum or what your oaths possess is someone you have a verbal agreement with and the agreement is not written down such as a concubine in the past or a girlfriend today...
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
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:" الله ولى الذين آمنوا يخرجهم من الظلمات إلى النور والذين كفروا اولياؤهم الطاغوت يخرجونهم من النور إلى الظلمات أولئك أصحاب النار هم فيها خالدون."
صدق الله العظيم
2:30 Isn’t it haraam to expose your previous sins?
Did u just said Wali syndrome ahahahaha. Aanghel out here want fight wali. Smh 😃
Jzk Khadija
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Excessive use definitely can cause desensitation and escalation to distressing material. Defo not "healthy" as promoted in society.
01:05:30 we don’t have karmic debt in Islam! And sins do not get passed into chromosomes. Acquired traits do not get passed on!
I very much for the porn industry