NO FAULT DIVORCE (What is there to know)
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Following the strong interest of her TikTok video, mum has decided to expand on this subject and delve into common misconceptions and opinions. Please leave a comment down below if you have any further questions, mum woud be happy to answer.
This is information and NOT advice
Tracey is a Family Solicitor in England & Wales
I’m not even married and I find this very informative!
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I’m single and find this very informative! 😉
My question is, what is the point of marriage then if one can leave it just like that, I thought "till death us do part" meant something?
Given that most (63%) of the divorces are initiated by women in the UK and in the US among college educated women this number jumps to 90%, what are the incentives for men to marry?
I know some say tax breaks but it's far cheaper for the man to share or even live on his own especially with remote working.
No wonder many of my unmarried friends here in the UK say they'll love and have children but will never get married.
I got married at 21 and been married for 12 years now and thank God my marriage doesn't follow these rules lol.
63...? It's 80% and rising!
Imagine being stuck in a marriage that you can't get out of after it's got so bad, it has gone past the point of being fixable. Then you're doomed to be in a toxic relationship for the rest of your life. No thanks.
@55maltesers why get married in the first place then? Divorce rate is around 55% here in the UK, why should anyone get married here if they have 55% of failing and have potential of ruining your life especially if children and money are involved.
@@55maltesersNo need to get married then. Problem solved.
Holy shit? Glad I'm not married, thanks to this law never will
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Thanks this will come in handy Been separated since 2014 mortgage runs out 2025 she ran up more debt than greese lol she can poke the house and the equity after sold prob won't be much left just cba with all the dramas
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All there is to know is in 99% of cases,the woman gets the house plus maintenance payments off the man.Even though she's never done a day's work in her life.
As a 55 YO man who has never married, or had kids, here is my BEST advice. Do NOT marry. Also if you have kids your (soon to be) EX wife WILL weaponise the little shits against you. You have been warned!!!
Some people are religious and therefore must get married especially if they want children.
I find this very informative.
Thank God I never got married.
Goverment looking at abolishing no fault eviction by landlord and now there is no fault divorce. So it's easier to get divorced then get possession of your property and the tenants suffer because landloards are selling up. Nice one government!
I have a question regarding my petition. I've applied and am currently awaiting the conditional order, which is due soon. When we initially filled out the application, both my wife and I submitted a joint application, and we agreed on all terms. However, she is now contemplating contesting the application to seek additional financial benefits from my side. Is this allowed, or can she legally contest the agreement solely for financial gain? In simpler terms, she desires more money (out of greed).
Does this take away the financial ties as well? Had a quote of a company for like 799 quid to cut the financial tie, but I thought once you are divorce you were all done
Years the problems started and the consequences that occurred . # so they don't think he's a big fat meanie for making rules . # what not to do 📜✍️
My husband and I are waiting, So we can keep it civil🤞🏼
Hmm, by civil....let me guess...you get the LOT, and your ex is left swinging in the wind?
@@JohnSmith-kq2ff Wow John who hurt you? My husband and I have discussed everything and we are happy to be fair to each other after being together for 26 years! and we are glad these changes have come in as we hopefully can maintain a good friendship after! for all involved as I still go shopping for his mum and make sure she has all her bills paid and we have older kids so a good relationship is paramount to us!thanks though for your concern 🤣
Application ✅ done
@@sharongilbey3493 You're both very lucky that each of you are obviously reasonable people. Unfortunately, the vast majority of divorces are NOT reasonable and involve a massive amount of anguish, huge expense and general misery which can all be avoided simply by NOT marrying, or living with somebody.
And as for marriage, there is simply nothing in it for the average man. BTW, I'm not saying ALL marriages are bad, or fail. That would obviously be very silly, and also factually incorrect. But the fact remains that getting married is like playing Russian Roulette with 4 chambers hot; the odds of a good outcome are VERY low. Especially for the man.
@@JohnSmith-kq2ff Well John unfortunately your many years too late with your knowledge and wisdom and that ship well and truly sailed but rest assured we are in good communication and indeed plan on having a good divorce, but you be careful out there as you are correct there is some devious women out there ! good luck 😜
Question please. Can a male apply for a no fault divorce? I only ask as some commentators claim this law is more geared towards women rather than equality for both parties overall. Granted I understand where the division of assets or property comes into effect it can go either way. But I know of some men whom probably want a divorce without the wife contesting it too.
Yes they can
my ex wife divorced me 10 months ago i have a council bungalow, I am still paying half the mortgage do i still have to?
was she provided ownership of it?
I'm confused, the other person can't contest it, so in other words, if one partner wants to get divorced you are getting divorced? It doesn't require agreement from both parties? You file it on the government website and it's happening whether they like it or not? Is that right?
Because that sounds sensible to me, I really don't like the idea that someone else can just say "Nope, you're stuck with me, how you feel about it is irrelevant". Obviously it's different when there are children involved, but marriage should be 'we stay together so long as we're BOTH better off together than apart'.
I’m waiting til 6 April because my husband doesn’t believe in divorce
@Rhys Hoffman absolutely I understand you completely. In my case it was an abusive situation that actually involved everyone around me at the time. I made the move to ‘his’ part of the country and therefore I was ‘welcomed with open arms’ by his parents and our landlord who was a family friend that allowed us to live in their ‘spare’ house for very low mates rates rent. Which was lovely at first but then I very politely and non aggressively mention that we had mould and also later I mentioned again very politely that the boiler leaks she turned on me and hated me and blamed the mould on my cats breath. My husband didn’t stand up for me and I wasn’t allowed to use the heating so my husband was out all day every day exploring or job hunting and I had to sit shivering in a cold damp and mouldy house…. I became more and more unwell and everything was now my fault and his parents were so embarrassing as well. It took me 6 months to decide to leave him. I’m dealing with ptsd now. I was abused every way other than physically. It’s messed me up big time.
Thanks for the clear info. Does this apply to Northern Ireland?
Dissertion? Should that not be desertion?
My divorce petition been issue after 6 April 2022. running 8 months now just conditions order been done by 7 months. To finish take me 10 months why??? It’s not finished by 6 to 8 months. So frustrating. Waiting waiting.
What are the laws in the UK with regards to unmarried couples ? This seems like the last resort for men in the West nowadays, except staying single. I'm Canadian and it seems like men are doomed no matter what. Married ? You give her 50% or more of your assets ! Not married but living together ? 50% of your assets ! Been in a weirdly informal open relationship wither her ? 50% of your assets ! Ordered a bicmac from her while she was working at McDonalds ? 50% of your assets ! Crossed her on the street one time in 2004 ? 50% of your assets ! Lol, I'm joking but there's truth to it. It seems like the second a man gets somewhat commited to a woman he's condemned to finishing his days living in a tiny studio in the shady part of town while his lady buys Gucci bags with his money.
Then do not get committed to any woman. SIMPLE!
What happens with your financial assets post 6th April 2022? Can this be settled outside of the divorce process?
All my kids are over 18 so they are not effected
I think no fault divorce is nuts as you sue for damages for breach of marriage contract so it will not work in practice given the case history.
What happens if he or she don’t sign the papers ?
What’s next step with the no fault divorce?
I’m doing my divorce now, we’ve just grown apart. The system wont let us do joint divorce, does my partner sign for joint divorce later in the process
It’s illegal and should be ignored. Next.
Great advice, Thank you so much x
What is the point in getting married.. they’ve just made it so easy to break these vows.. I know they’re trying to stop people from exiting abusive situations I get that.. but the idea that the bond of marriage is strong and is serious and is something you can’t just willy nilly get in and get out.. that’s just not there
Beautifully explained madam
I have a house but it was left to me we’re down I stand when we get a divorce as it in mine name and left to just me
Thank youu so much for simplifying this information.
1 question I have is that, I have already submitted an divorce application couple of months ago, and my wife is refusing to divorce me. With this new law, am I able to get a divorce?
what is your current petition based upon because if you dont want to continue with that one then you will need to withdraw it before submitting another one
@@thelegalqueen dear Madam his question is under the new law is he able to get divorced. He or she can’t delay intensonwly without saying nothing either he or she has to defend otherwise need to respond. Some case are not respond then what will happens? Please tell us kindly ? Many thanks 🙏 .
Are you a solicitor I really need some help or advice
Hi, one of my friend's husband is not giving her divorce because he is on dependent visa as he belif that after divorce his visa will be cancelled my friend doesn't want to live with him they are on work permit and she wants a quick divorce what should she do ???
I have a question about financial order
The house is in both mine and wife's name
My youngest is 11 and my oldest is 15
So do I have to wait until my youngest is 18 to sell house?
Potentially, unless there is enough assets to rehouse all of you by selling
With the new system would my spouse have to sign the divorce petition? Or could I continue with the divorce without it?
They would need to sign
@@thelegalqueen if they no sign? My one no sign. Been 8 months now. And she never sign what will happen to my divorce? Please tell me thanks 🙏
no fault divorce is bullshit.
Hi, I'm separated and we were waiting 2yr for the divorce. We decided on a 60/40 split of the house and I bought him out, however do I still need a financial order?, when I apply for a no fault divorce?.
Hi Emily. I'm a family law assistant and as I understand it, you would still need a financial order known as a consent order which outlines how you will split the matrimonial assets upon divorce. By recording the division of assets in a consent order you prevent either party from being able to make a claim against the other party's assets in the future. This is still the same as the old system as finances are dealt with somewhat separately to the divorce proceedings themselves
I sent my husband divorce papers almost 2 years ago and he won’t sign, because I’ve started that process does it mean I can’t do the no blame one now?
What did you base your divorce on if you want to ‘no fault’ you are going to have to withdraw your petition
I have question about financial order. House was bought outright with my personal injury compensation, ex inherited 9 months before we split. Inheritance hasn’t gone through probate because ex is delaying it. I want clean break and if house is included in pot so should inheritance? Can you advise? Married 17 years
That will depend on the equity available from the house, because if there’s enough in the house to rehouse both parties the court won’t insist on using or including the inheritance
@@thelegalqueen thank you. Inheritance is substantially more than house equity so I am proposing she keeps inheritance and I keep house as I have kids full time. She stopped paying mortgage even though she earns 50% more than me and has no rent as new BF is mortgage free.
Hi, thanks you so much for explaining this though I do have a question! Can I still apply for legal aid under the new law ?
The no fault divorce has no impact of legal aid applications.
@@thelegalqueenExcellent video and I appreciate your effort. I have a question regarding my petition. I've applied and am currently awaiting the conditional order, which is due soon. When we initially filled out the application, both my wife and I submitted a joint application, and we agreed on all terms. However, she is now contemplating contesting the application to seek additional financial benefits from my side. Is this allowed, or can she legally contest the agreement solely for financial gain? In simpler terms, she desires more money (out of greed).
I am going to apply for a divorce online after the 6th April however I wish to apply for a clean break order can I do this online at the same time as I apply for the divorce? X
You will put in the clean break order when you get to the conditional order stage, I am going through the same thing at moment, clean break order is the way to go
No you will need a solicitor to draft the clean break order for you.
Hi how do I get a divorce on legal aid my marriage is a shame married
Very good information.
You mentioned that the new order might impact financial settlement. I am going to apply for divorce now (after 19 years of marriage. 6 years separated because of his multiple affairs) so how would this new order impact my asking for work pension?
The new no fault divorce will have no direct impact on financial settlements.
@@thelegalqueen thank you.
During the proceedure, does he need to leave the house? I cant imagine we staying at same house during this 😐
Its not compulsory
Hi, I’ve been separated for 2 years but I still keep the same address with my husband though i live at my sister’s , do I need to get my own place and pay bills separately and things like that?
How long on the new law will it take to get divorce from start to finish
Does the changes only apply in England and Wales
Hi , please help me, My final order cert there is a mistake in the name written, they dont include my maiden surname, the HMCTS is not replying my email and they are very difficult to get hold on. What should i do?
Many thanks.
Call them they will definitely respond you 100%
@@subinoypaul8358 thank you for your comment, i have been sending them an email but i feel hopeless that they don't bother to respond me. I ring them but it took ages to answer. Shall i contact the court or the HMCTS? Please help
Miss me with that marriage sheeeet
Hi 👋 I was wondering if anybody could help. I'm planning on getting married in the next couple of months. My partner's family are fairly religious, so we will be having a religious wedding. It won't be a real marriage in the eyes of the law I don't think.
If we have a child and she decides that she doesn't want to see me anymore, am I entitled to anything. She owns the house and it's all paid for by her and she is nearly mortgage free. She earns 4 times the amount that I do. Basically I'm just worried that she might become hard to live with if years to come, and she might just kick me out. Would I be entitled to anything if I've had a child with her? I'm guessing not. I hope someone who knows the answer to this can help. Thank you
If its not a legal marriage then no.
You sound like you want pain!
Hi I'm a international student and I want a divorce and I'm also living separated from 3 months . What should I need to file divorce and what is the starting process.
Your marriage certificate
You must of been married for at least a year and one of you must be living in the UK.
The court fee is £593.
@@thelegalqueen we both are actually in uk now and is there any restriction on separation period in New no fault law
@@lovejeetkaur9355 if you manage to hold on some info could you please let me know ? Have no idea how to start
@@lovejeetkaur9355 hi your marriage certificate has to 1 year you before you get divorced
So how long do I have to wait for the no blame then will it be after 5 years I been separated for 3 years now she will not give me the divorce
you can apply on the 6th April using the no fault
Got to be someones fault lol loonie left law,just dont get married in uk and dont have kids saves you time and junk you just dont need
A friend of mine is separated from his wife for 6 and a half years ,there are no children involved but he works 15 hours a week so he gets some benefit from the dwp to help with his rent does he still have to pay the £500 odds solicitors fees or can he get help with that
Is the no fault divorce going to be available north of the border?
All of England and Wales
Hi can I still divorce my husband after 2 years on off relationship for adultery he's now committed
I really need your help on this as I am on UC Please
What happened 😢?
@@alvarezvanessa2248 hi sorry it’s taken a long time to reply Well my husband walked out on me in September 2020 He has been living next door to me with my daughter in that time twice he has put in to divorce me and twice stopped mainly because he was still sleeping with me on and off at the time I did and hoped we would get back together but I get it now he was just using me for the obvious Now he has another woman in his life yet we are still married so I guess the next step is divorce this time from me but as I am on benefits I can only get the divorce free from citizens advice when he left he took every pound we had and yet we both built up his bussiness together now I find myself in a situation where I cannot afford I think it’s called the litigation part any advice you can offer would be most appreciated I’m now 60 and don’t know where or who else to turn to regards Christine
In otherwords dont bother with marriage and stay single screw the uk tax system
Hi after nisi done for how long I have to wait and then can apply for a decree absolute
Thanks
6 weeks
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