He’s despicable! I hope she grows up and moves on with her babies🙏🏾💛
She should have followed up with those charges and let his soft a** get some prison time with some real men!
Even the nerdy looking ones can be dusties? Oh Lord 🥴
My heart is hurting for those babies! I couldn’t imagine watching this in 15 years and watching how my father disrespected my mom & completely denied my sibling and I!!! SMH
WHAT A “DIS”GRACE FOR A PERSON, A FATHER AND A MAN!!!
He’s too trifling to be considered IGNORANT!
JUST PLAIN “IGNANT!!!
@@1cheeseakamulti so your logic, he's not supposed to pay for the kids he help created?🤔🙄
Judge Mathis nearly took me out with that fake laughing like the defendant. Then Judge says. "it ain't gonna be funny when they lock you back up. Then you're gonna be cheating on her with two people!" 🤣🤣🤣💀🤣🤣😄🤣🤣🤣
Wait, is he still denying the child even after Judge Mathis read the paternity results?🥴😵💫
Ignorant is NOT bliss boy you didn't need to see it he read it!!! Like JM said you'll see it when you get served with them child support papers!!
What's funny to me (Notice, I said to me!) is that he looks like Soulja boy a bit, so Soulja strikes again by being the first ng*a to deny paternity after being read the DNA results.😅😅😅
"When I see it in the mail, that's when I will know"🤦🏾♀️ what a piece of work
True, he don’t look like the type with an address. He is so young with a full bummie life ahead of him. Just sad
Lmao
"It could be fake. I don't know. "
Lmao it's the Judges fault.
It's the child's fault.
It's girls fault
Its everyone's fault but his lol
@@diofiglio1 it's DEFINITELY her fault for choosing a BM when the majority of them are bums. But as long as she chooses to stay away from them, she can be redeemed. Him on the other hand, will be in and out of jail because that's what these BM like. To go to jail/prison looking for boyfriends,a place to lay for free and a meal. That's just the reality of it. Typical ANGRY BM
That jail joke went right over their heads, JM gave them ample hints/clues 🙄😂…
That dude is plain disgusting and extremely disrespectful. He’s a 21 year old in a 8 year old’s body. He’s not hard like he think he is. As far as the mother, I hope she gets ALL of the child support for her children. I also hope she can heal and love on herself moving forward.
@@audrelordhammercy612 she's also an air head for making a baby with a 21 year old dude with no job... A dude who threatened to beat and shoot her smh
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 I know right. It’s all her fault that he’s a psycho. She should’ve known that at birth. She’s completely responsible for him and his actions as a human being. Makes sense to me.
What a Scrub smh 🤦🏾♀️ he got a lot of nerve
And she spread her legs for said scrub... She's just as dumb as him
He acts just like my BD. Denied my son for a year, even after that he still didn’t step up. My baby will be 18 next year and is graduating from High School in May. I did it without the child support (b/c he has been working under the table for years) and without him or his family. It’s hard AF but it’s rewarding.
I really hope this young man steps up and becomes the father his children deserve.
I hope and pray she remains strong.
@@birdbuc9542 well brother instead of insulting each other maybe you could just say I disagree.....I'll pose a question the sister made a comment..... yes or no could she have chosen a better father for her child
The way JM snatched that darn envelope!😂🤣🤣🤣
He is the type of man that I wouldn't even want raising my children. I wouldn't even bother with your support I would kick record live his life. He will be more detrimental to the children than the benefit.
Exactly! Bums that make threats against u and your child, u gotta move on from. I wouldn't even press getting child support from a nut like that.
That's great and all but that's still their father. Once you make children with them, there's going to be a connection. Support isn't about what you want it's what these kids deserve.
@@whoisdickieschnabel I don’t understand why women won’t get child support for their child.
This bothers me so much. You want to know why black women are so disrespected by others? It’s because they see how our OWN would treat us so they feel they can do it too. We need to do better as a whole. As black women, we need to realize that we are worthy of true love and being cherished just like everyone else and we don’t need to settle for individuals like this. Please protect yourself emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. As for black men, step up and refuse to be the stereotype that people already has set out against you. We really need to come together and change because this isn’t okay.
I wish I could “like” this a thousand times sis! WELL put, and so very true! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I appreciate your comment and agree with you wholeheartedly. This problem in all its facets boils down to a spiritual one. The answer is a spiritual one. I'm aware some (or most) will disagree, but whether we believe and accept, or not; the truth will be made known to us sooner than most think.
In the meantime, if we could reach out to the younger generations and babies right now and instill values and morals, we could head off the upcoming generations from recreating the generational trauma. It would take so much concentrated and united effort, but it is worth a try.
A I viewed this video and noticed their young ages; I thought that this is still their growth period. Not the time to be having a family and struggling (or neglecting) to raise children. I really prefer for Black men and women to work together and rebuild our communities, but if that is not to be, young Black women take back your power (without looking at Black men or each other as enemies). One way is to forego sexual relationships with anyone who does not show you the honor of loving and cherishing you and MARRYING YOU.
Drop the stinky attitudes first and foremost and understand the world owes you nothing.
@@tom11zz884 well first and foremost, I don’t have a stinky attitude. Secondly, I never believed the world owed me anything. Thirdly, what you’re doing is generalizing. Fourthly, again, I don’t have an attitude I’m just letting you know. If you want to have an adult conversation about this let’s do it but if this is all you’re going to bring to this discussion I would rather to just respectfully agree to disagree and keep moving.
@@sharyageorge ignore the troll sis these people get online just to be hateful
But the plaintiff had a second child with him….miss me with the sobbing, ma’am…..🙄
I understand what you're saying. However, our young people need halp and guidance more than condemnation at this point.
We need a TV network called ManHood!
SOMETHING to counteract what is destroying us. We could do better as a nation, if everyone really wanted everyone to succeed.
Young brother will look back at this years from now and will suffer major chest pains in light of his horrible behavior...
Hol' up...I'm only a minute & change into the case and she said the Defendant threatened to shoot up her house, he got locked up but she didn't appear in court...so what was the point?
She doesn't know what she's dealing with and listens to his logic... Hopefully, she's escaped the situation fully.
She says she thought he’d “changed” and “learned his lesson”. 🙄 Because you know how men that beat you and threaten to kill you and your children are always “changing” for the better? 🤦🏽♀️ She’s a sad, delusional young woman. People like that don’t just “change” in a month or two, because it takes a special kinda somebody to even abuse and mistreat someone in the first place.
Thats the thing I don't understand.That should be enough to cut all ties and have nothing to do with him. There is no feeling sorry for someone who would say something like that. I don't care if he was young and just saying dumb stuff. Dude threatened her kids.
Them not understanding the joke made me mad😂🤦🏾♀️
@@mzfancy4767 mz fancy🤗. She’s crazy. I worked with this nut. She flipped out on me for absolutely no reason. She’s admittedly bipolar. She told the whole job.
When a person shows you who they are, believe them the 1st time...
I live by this quote.
She playing with her live and children's life with this nut.
It's no game.
Hate there's a child linking them together.
People really need to consider who they want to involve themselves with. That goes for friends or mates, because they can end up in situations like this where at the end of the day, its the children that will suffer for it. Its sad.
Her having the second when he didn't take care of the first one is crazy too.
He called her a how, so is he, he dipped in it too, when you call somebody a name and you do the same, yep
She can blame him but she has to blame herself too
This dude got a long way to go in life with this attitude..... I pray for them kids, damn!
He's the only one I was messin with. Wow 😳 Learn to love yourself ladies. Protect your minds and your bodies. Peace✌🏾
We need a bullhorn and people who would just walk the streets day and night spreading this message.
Calling your kids' mother names on national television is a very bad look. They will see this show eventually.
@@NubianP6 I have a feeling that this is a generational repetition of behaviors.
Aggressive, zesty, and slow is a horrible combination.
Poor Doyle. I know he be annoyed with them people lol😊
Ladies, I really wish some of y'all would stop making your lives harder than it has to be. Having kids and going through unnecessary drama with men you should've never been with.
Absolutely!!! You know how bad he was before the babies!! She trying to make him care ,honey the fact that he didn't care about you should have told you everything!!
Yes. Someone told me before a lot things we go through we bring on ourselves and that has definitely stuck with me because it’s so true. A lil daily birth control can save ppl from a lot of bs.
@@HARRIS4276 Or, IMO, better yet, respect for our bodies and intellect in the form of abstinence until we grow and mature into responsible adults.
They are both at fault. We need real positive daddies to help raise these children.
I would have looked just like Doyle at the end. Listening to two kids argue about two kids 😶
Sometimes we rush into doing grown people things and life humbles us for our rash decisions.
Just because he acts like a kid doesn’t mean he is a kid. Infantilizing black men is why they act like this now
@@CS48293 I think most right-thinking people will agree with you to a degree. However, what do you mean by infantilizing in this case? I would think that if we (preferably older mature men) tell this man that he is acting immaturely and work with him to correct his thinking and behavior would be the answer. IN OTHER WORDS, how do you help in this type of situation? How do you call attention to the bad behavior without describing it? Also, how do we rally against the system we live under that promotes the behaviors?
I say this ALL the time. Young people think being an adult is only about having sex and living together so they can have sex. VERY shallow minded. They always get the rudest awakening of their lives!
He is one sorry son-of-a-🤬! So he thinks the JM show went through the trouble of testing his raggedy behind, only to then reveal “fake” results? He is such a bum loser, but I have to look at the plaintiff and ask why in hell she kept sleeping with him when he wasn’t even supporting the first child, not to mention him being abusive, and threatening to blow her and her kid’s up?!? What is wrong with her? They weren’t even living together, so it’s not like she would’ve had to sneak away from him, but instead, she laid down and made *another* baby with him. 🤦🏽♀️ Him standing there after the results had been revealed, boldly proclaiming *”That’s not my child”* is hurtful beyond words. #KarmaIsReal
Baby girl need to just file those child abandonment chargers up the child support and move on
Happy Friday Everyone
Sending prayers and good vibes. Sometimes it takes a while to grow up and to get on track; praying for this young family. Together or apart!!
Soooo he wasn't taking care of the first one....so we have another one???
The courts should put the deadbeats in a room with their kids and have them explain to the child why y they aren't willing to acknowledge them nor support them or show up for them. I bet the fathers or deadbeat mothers couldn't do it!
I feel sorry for this young man … I can tell he’s never had any kind of strong male figure in his life because he is sooo far behind in this game of life it’s ridiculous!!! This thing called life is foreal bruh and he doesn’t see that !
Exactly what I was thinking! His father wouldn't put up with this type of foolishness...if he has a father in his life!
My question is why aren’t the BM in our community helping to raise these boys without a “male figure”? You all sound the same...delusional
For her to get pregnant by him twice though............he didnt start acting like that overnight. Imagine him at 17 and 18
Yes. She and he both need help. Hopefully, more are willing to help than scold and condemn.
Nothing funny about neglecting your children. He'll lose that smirk after he's introduced to his cell mates!
I really hope our young ladies do better with protecting their wombs...aint no way he should be planting any seed. He is a CHILD and more than likely, did not know his own father and had no positive male influence. SMH
I don't understand why some men impregnation their girlfriends, or wives the worst part is they don't want to take care of their children many women have to placed them on child support.
From why are you grinning!!?? To cheating on her with two people!! Bro I criiieeddd!!!😂😂😒😂 I just wanted to smack him upside the head and I know the judge wanted to as well😂😂😂😂
She had not one, but two kids with this immature, disrespectful bum. 🤦🏿♀️ he wasn’t supporting the first one, why have another one?? She gotta be held accountable too
Why in the world did she have another child with this immature dude? That’s crazy mann
I think when Judge Mathis kept saying, "Tell her u met somebody in jail", that went right over her head! I got it tho kmsl! Did anyone else get what JM was insinuating 🤔🤔
It sure did. And She seemed like she was trying to defend him saying,”he didn’t meet her in jail” over and over. She didn’t get it
You knew who he was after the first one why have a second one with him..!!!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡
It's time for her to find a very good stepfather for her kids, don't even let this fool be around🤷
WOW!! SHE PICK A WINNER 🏆
If a man says get an abortion just do it or accept the fact you will be a single mother. Sad but true
Man what was she thinking?? And you got 2 kids with him?? Also his parents should be so embarrassed and ashamed when they see this SMH.
Right on time for my lunch break 😊❤🍟🍕🥗🍔🌭🌮
She sends him to jail.. support him while he’s in jail… has one child by him.. has another one. What does she expect? He hit her before but she didn’t file charges. He’s 21. Had to get his GED .. At what point did she think he’d be ready to be a parent. I don’t blame men for stuff like this because a woman has all the ways to protect herself from ending up in situations like this. Keep having a baby by someone like this. JM be off his rocker too calling him gay.
It's not an issue of BLAME, It's an issue of how WE CAN STOP THIS MADNESS!
WHY DIDN'T JM GET ON THE PLAINTIFF. HE WASN'T PAYING SUPPORT FOR THE FIRST CHILD AND SHE LAID DOWN AND MADE ANOTHER ONE WITH HIM.
He didn't take care of the first child, so her answer was to have a second child and now play the victim?
Women please understand having a baby don't make a bad relationship good especially with kats like this
I hope she's careful around that guy. He clearly doesn't think straight. Why take responsibility for your actions. Why make another child be fatherless when they don't haft to be.
She knew he was like this with the first one, why have another one with him ?
There is no way I would have had another by him
What kind of mother would put the word "kill" in their child's name after birth?
This defendant is likely going to jail again. Or probably had gone to jail again.
We got to do better smh
If he wasn’t there for the first kid why have another with him .. ?
Ladies y’all need to stop having second kids when they don’t take care of the first. Then JM reads the results and he’s still denying it. Just pathetic!
Girl that's on u..he didn't take care of the first child so you decided to sleep with him to create a second child...girl 👋
She shouldn’t have had baby #2 by that weirdo but some lessons will be learned the hard way. I hope that young lady learns and grows from her choices. As for him I bet she get the last laugh. Goofy
She knew he was a immature joke with the first baby so WHY get pregnant again 🙄
😂😂😂 he making me laugh. And she goofy as hell for having another child by him.
These type of dudes be so bitter and angry because the hate and resent the childs mother they end up killer her. He is weak and because the judge clowned him he took his anger out on her.
So he denied the first. She decides to keep sleeping with him even though he is disrespectful to you and your babies. Grow up
Why have a 2nd child if he doesn’t take care of the 1st?
Oh! He hates her.
Smh this should be birth control for some people 🤢🤡
Young Lady gotta grow up quick!!😳😳 Those babies…And she is very angry!
Babies having babies, what could possibly go wrong 🤦🏿♀️! She was irresponsible by having a second by him and he's 🤮🤮.
She needs to deny his ignorant azz!!!! But still collect that child support! 😂💯
I am so tired of these cases if you would have used protection you would have to worry about child support. She gets all up in court talking about he doesn't help but i am sure you saw his bad traits but had a baby with him anyway!!!
Lmao JM mocking his laugh had me cracking up
He doesn’t care about child support because he’s not going to pay it sad situation!!!
JUDGE MATHIS WAS MAD BECAUSE DUDE WAS UNBOTHERED WITH HIS INSULTING AND DISRESPECTFUL WORDS 😂😂
Mathis sees punk all over him
From the title, I thought this was going to be an inspirational episode but the defendant was a straight bum. I'm glad Judge Mathis called him out but I still wanted JM to tear into him some more. I hope he's straightened up his act.
Edit: I googled him and he hasn't straightened himself up. smh.
9:56
Judge Mathis: "Are you denying the child or not!?"
10:22
Judge Mathis: "Why you grinning!?"
That was jail talk boo
Praying for y’all.
"Oh, ok, it Was a female " 😂😂 I'm weak!
Girl run don’t walk to the courthouse!
He was bully so now he's bullying her. I believe everything she's saying. Smh
He is weird. Girl why did you even lay down with him? Get everything you can from him and get him locked up. Pew. Yuck 🤮
He is simply not cute enough to act the way he does. You can’t be ugly and horrible 😂😂
JM ... TELL HER YOU MET SOMEONE IN JAIL...😂😂😂... HE LOOK LIKE A LIGHTWEIGHT THEY PROBABLY SNATCHED HIS ASH UP.... THAT LAST COMMENT...JM... NOW YOU CAN HAVE TWO FRIENDS IN JAIL
SHE SHOULD'VE BEEN RESPONSIBLE WITH HER REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH and USED 2 FORMS OF BIRTH CONTROL . . . . . KNOWING HE'S NOT WEALTHY #Irresponsible 🤯🤯🤯
He still a kid and sad smh
Question: If a man DON'T pay Child Support for the 1st baby, why have a 2nd baby with him? As Maya Angelou would say, "People show you who they are, believe them the 1ST time."
💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
In this instance, they are playing at being adults. She still feels something for him. They probably don't even know who Maya Angelou is
@@jlf7362 Too funny! 😂😂😂
Agreed!!
Exactly!!! It makes no sense and then you want to berate him but you keep sleeping with him!!!