Alia Bhatt breaks down as sister Shaheen opens up on her battle with depression to Barkha Dutt

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  • @veenjharmemon8097
    @veenjharmemon8097 4 роки тому +853

    18:50 Alia: I didn't want to cry because all of a sudden it will be all about Alia shedding a tear
    Title of this video: Alia Bhatt breaks down ...

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому +2

      ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html Veenjhar Memon

    • @erinakhersa4452
      @erinakhersa4452 4 роки тому +2

      For no obvious reason

    • @positivevibes577
      @positivevibes577 4 роки тому +7

      I was thinking exactly the same thing.

    • @smrithih607
      @smrithih607 3 роки тому +1

      Seriously 👍

    • @anyaa2802
      @anyaa2802 3 роки тому

      Omg seriously! I was thinking the same!

  • @prashantbhatia6426
    @prashantbhatia6426 4 роки тому +88

    So wonderful to see Alia being visibly supportive of her sister's mental health journey. Meaningful social connections are very important when one is going through any illness be it depression, anxiety or something else.

  • @namrata1351
    @namrata1351 4 роки тому +3386

    A very young girl was trying to ask a question but unfortunately used the wrong word "Criticism", could be because of less exhaustive English vocabulary. Barkha shut her down so badly. Maybe if we had listened to her patiently, her question might have had made sense, maybe better than other generic questions. We are talking about depression which builds up slowly. (Shaheen was asked to be out of the frame and that affected her at so many levels). Barkha shushed that girl in public. We do not know what kind of effect that is going to have on that girl. She might feel afraid to speak up again in public. She may become super conscious of her English Skills. Her peers may make fun of her when goes back to school or college. I just hope that if something happens to her as what happened to shaheen, she gets a stage to share her story.

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +126

      Namrata Nimmi Yeah I felt bad for her too . I understand they are running on limited time, but I hope that girl is alright. ✌️✌️

    • @rajwantkaursohal4819
      @rajwantkaursohal4819 4 роки тому +65

      I 100% agree with you

    • @zishanshirsath5035
      @zishanshirsath5035 4 роки тому +83

      It pissed me off too.

    • @speaktoexpress3215
      @speaktoexpress3215 4 роки тому +41

      Absolutely right.

    • @himaniverma13
      @himaniverma13 4 роки тому +85

      I was also thinking about it. So insensitive. Atleast she should have given a chance to complete the sentence.

  • @ashritijain
    @ashritijain 4 роки тому +140

    How ironic that they titled this video as “Alia Bhatt breaks down....” when she said that she didn’t want the media to say like Oh. Alia cries...

  • @winne538
    @winne538 4 роки тому +1586

    The story is about Shaheen not Alia. The way video has been captioned is itself quite offending.

    • @suruchisingh3344
      @suruchisingh3344 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah, even the title

    • @simrantab6362
      @simrantab6362 4 роки тому +22

      @Lilly Illy its very easy to judge people like Alia. But you have to understand how young she was when this was going on. Dont need to put someone down.

    • @jeongukkkim1762
      @jeongukkkim1762 4 роки тому +6

      Simran Tab sorry but she’s an adult, stop babying her

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +5

      May be to get more clicks! But any kind of marketing to get more people watching and listening about mental illness is a good thing especially in this country where this is a big tabboo.

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +7

      @lilly u r bombing each comment with anti Alia comments and distracting from the main topic which people should focus

  • @AvaniVee
    @AvaniVee 4 роки тому +490

    Shouldn't the title be 'Shaheen Bhatt opens up about her battle with depression'? It's wonderful that Aalia is supporting Shaheen, but would've loved for the focus to remain on Shaheen as this is HER story, not Aalia's.

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +9

      Vee Modha Yes, but people know Alia and will watch. They don’t know Shaheen. A lot of people like me was recommended to this video by UA-cam because we are subscribed to Alia Bhatt UA-cam channel. so they had to used Alia Bhatt name in the video title to get people to watch.

    • @NiharikaMG
      @NiharikaMG 4 роки тому +1

      Totally agreed

    • @loveandlight5986
      @loveandlight5986 4 роки тому +1

      Telling Alia to be at the shadow for a while whilst Shaheen receives the award and yet not convinced that putting Shaheen in the title wouldve gotten them as much views as with Alia. This shows the level of hypocrite these host/organisers are, masala seeker..

  • @mehrozewaseem6831
    @mehrozewaseem6831 4 роки тому +293

    Six minutes into this video and I'm already crying. Kudos to shaheen for writing about it and alia for literally being so emotionally real about it as well.

    • @bhumika_t
      @bhumika_t 4 роки тому +4

      in 3 :(

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому +1

      Mehroze Waseem ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

  • @bilkisakhter2630
    @bilkisakhter2630 4 роки тому +269

    Shaheen talks so well. Came here to watch just 2 minutes of this but ended up watching the whole video of 40+ minutes.

  • @fizzyclub
    @fizzyclub 4 роки тому +79

    I see realness in Aliya's emotions. She is just so real in comparison to so many other actresses. Hats off to her.

    • @kinjal1989
      @kinjal1989 4 роки тому +19

      Why does there always have to be comparison? I always wonder! Every comment i read under such videos, there's always comparison more than appreciation for the real thing said in the videos. Just appreciate the beautiful relation these two sisters have. Other actresses are real in their own way!

    • @shuweynalove3622
      @shuweynalove3622 4 роки тому

      @Lilly Illy yeah by dating kat ex - bf

    • @lilabakir8419
      @lilabakir8419 4 роки тому +6

      @Lilly Illy who cares! katrina who slept with salman for fame & ranbir when he was still with deepika ! Give us break. Karma is bitch now she is alone with her botox..fake woman

    • @merin9298
      @merin9298 4 роки тому

      Just here

    • @shuweynalove3622
      @shuweynalove3622 4 роки тому

      @@lilabakir8419 hahaaa everyone will face karma katrina has already got her karma and ranbir also she will also get her karma if she deceived her

  • @nukhbamehdi9854
    @nukhbamehdi9854 4 роки тому +41

    Holding a conversation about Shaheen's experience and the first question is to Alia....wow👏

  • @wingardiumleviosa5311
    @wingardiumleviosa5311 4 роки тому +276

    As someone who’s going through depression as well, i just want to applaud her for saying it as it is and not sugarcoating it at all. And hats off to her family for hearing her and always being there for her. I am def going to buy the book and read it. I cried through the whole interview and now I am a mess but crying really made me feel better

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +3

      wingardium leviosa hang in there! We are all in here together! Talking about it helps!!!

    • @aayushadhakal5843
      @aayushadhakal5843 4 роки тому +2

      may you find peace soon

    • @esotericforever7955
      @esotericforever7955 4 роки тому +3

      I cried too😭😭 fighting depression and anxiety.

    • @paarmitashukla
      @paarmitashukla 4 роки тому +2

      Hey. i hope things get better for you. Talk to friends around you and people around you and let them know you just want them to hear you, go to a therapist if it's someone you can afford. Thank you for being here. Please continue to stay. ♥️

    • @kavyaramamurthy7930
      @kavyaramamurthy7930 4 роки тому +1

      Same here. I cried throughout t video cuz it brought back so many unpleasant memories which I had buried deep in my soul.

  • @ushmisethi5402
    @ushmisethi5402 4 роки тому +29

    Alia is so down to earth.So pure hearted.

  • @prathiputta
    @prathiputta 4 роки тому +334

    Alia is lucky to have a sister like Shaheen and Shaheen is lucky to have a sister like Alia

    • @ajsky1066
      @ajsky1066 4 роки тому +1

      @@pinkimahanta4811 lol... Kya hua be?

    • @prathiputta
      @prathiputta 4 роки тому

      @@pinkimahanta4811 fucker has came . Fuckers has no shame😂😂😂😂

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 4 роки тому

      Wish i had a bond that with my sis , we are 2 sister siblings too 😂😒😒

  • @rashione982
    @rashione982 4 роки тому +312

    Majority of the schools have teachers like Barkh Dutt

  • @fatimafatima0811
    @fatimafatima0811 4 роки тому +93

    Depression has no face even happiest looking people go through depression

  • @fatimahs2066
    @fatimahs2066 4 роки тому +431

    The host is super unprofessional . She doesn’t slow them to finish their sentence and she tries to control the whole conversation. The purpose of inviting people is to allow them talk... and if they say something she tries to make it sound the way she wants it to sound

  • @rockkkkkification
    @rockkkkkification 4 роки тому +18

    I started tearing up seeing alia cry . Reminds me of my mom crying when i was depressed. Alia saying that ' there's always something new to learn because depressed person suffers everyday ' helped me so much . Because i used go to therapists, feel better that day have my questions answered, and the following I'd have new questions and concerns and get depressed again. So i stopped going to therapy.

  • @shaziaa.7089
    @shaziaa.7089 4 роки тому +157

    15:10 - 15:14 “Being depressed is very hard but loving someone who is depressed is equally hard.”
    I have so much love & respect for Shaheen. She truly is a diamond and I’m so glad that throughout her tough journey she had someone like Alia beside her. Also can Barkha shut up and listen to people until the end for once?

  • @vishalsinghlive
    @vishalsinghlive 4 роки тому +45

    She is really a brave and strong girl....even i was going through the same condition....now i am the way more happy to see....luv yoy Alia....you are soo emotional.🤘😍🤘

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +2

      Oh pls stop assumptions! Let the focus about mental health and it’s importance and encourage people to come out and talk about it. Whatever the real story would have been, think about the ppl suffering in silence and ignorance. Both girls helped in that sense and your focus as an educated person should be this as you should understand what the forum was about. So pls refrain from making the comments about Alia

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +3

      Vishal Singh Yes indeed, it’s very brave of her to share her mental illness in a world full of judgmental people. Shaheen is lucky to have a loving 🥰 sister like Alia. I hope you feel better too and I also hope you have a good support system. I wish you the best ✌️✌️💚💚💚

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +2

      Lilly Illy Please stop it ✋ 🛑 the discussion is about mental illness which affects a lot of people and it’s very lovely of them to share so other girls feel it’s ok to talk it about too . You don’t know Alia personal relationship unless she spoke to you about it. Your gossiping imagination is running very wild 😜😜

    • @vishalsinghlive
      @vishalsinghlive 4 роки тому

      @@hanah3401 thank you 🙂

  • @krittikasingh494
    @krittikasingh494 4 роки тому +31

    I'm extremely proud of Shaheen. I have been in Alia's position where I thought my cousin was one the most special person in my whole family and I had no idea that he didn't think the same way. I know exactly what she meant when she said that it broke her heart when she found out about that, I felt exactly the same.

  • @jyotimanral96
    @jyotimanral96 4 роки тому +14

    I self suffering with ocd + depression, it feels dying.. And after watching this interview i hve got so much courage and positivity. Kudos to shaheen for bringing out her emotions so beautifully, i will definitely read this book

    • @Mmmm12345
      @Mmmm12345 3 роки тому +1

      You not alone I’m suffering from intrusive unwanted thoughts 💭 and pure O ...

  • @sandhyachavali
    @sandhyachavali 4 роки тому +30

    Shaheen you are an inspiration , as for Alia's mature acting it always reflects her empathetic vibe, an artist is like a sponge absorbing energies and emotions.

  • @prabhjotkaurmalhi2285
    @prabhjotkaurmalhi2285 4 роки тому +147

    Don't let your pain go to waste !!!! Loved it

  • @suvarnashinde6933
    @suvarnashinde6933 4 роки тому +505

    37:50 Oh really, Barkha!? Audience can completely understand that you are running out of time but you can't be rude,for God's sake. Most people go through anxiety and stuff coz they weren't treated properly by others at some point of their lives. So you say you can empathise with Shaleen on one side,and on the other side you behave like this? Not cool.

    • @fatemajafferali2090
      @fatemajafferali2090 4 роки тому +22

      That was horrid of the host to do! Omg! I can't believe that just happened.

    • @fatimamahmood3083
      @fatimamahmood3083 4 роки тому +15

      She is a shit woman

    • @khushboomishra2336
      @khushboomishra2336 4 роки тому +8

      She is a shit ...gobar host

    • @silhouettes55
      @silhouettes55 4 роки тому +8

      Yes, I felt so bad for the young girl. It takes courage to ask a question and she gets humiliated for it!

    • @ikkiduniya
      @ikkiduniya 4 роки тому +1

      Suvarna Shinde ua-cam.com/video/c4wd01Xu-OE/v-deo.html

  • @hargyansingh7900
    @hargyansingh7900 4 роки тому +98

    Alia herself said that she doesn't want her shedding tears become the focus of the discussion.
    Still they put such title to the video.

  • @tarunaadhikari1262
    @tarunaadhikari1262 4 роки тому +26

    Shaheen is such a lovely and a confident speaker.More power to her and I have a gut feeling that she would be as successful as her family.

  • @ayushanand8100
    @ayushanand8100 4 роки тому +143

    We need more talk-shows like this in public domain.

  • @kata6054
    @kata6054 2 роки тому +19

    Sending lots of love for Shaheen Bhatt. Thank you for sharing your story and for raising awareness about depression. Mental health in India needs to be talked about more and addressed so people can get help without feeling like an outcast. Love you Shaheen and bless you with good days ahead.

  • @mehrozewaseem6831
    @mehrozewaseem6831 4 роки тому +79

    Watching alia cry is making me cry so baddd. Shaheen is so so brave Masha Allah

  • @rasikaa_
    @rasikaa_ 4 роки тому +162

    Did you see at 40:15 ? Shaheen signalled to Alia that she was shivering and Alia held her hand. That's so cute.

    • @cloweeist
      @cloweeist 4 роки тому +15

      Yes and the lady in the uniform was really gracious as well

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +7

      RG 16 Yes I noticed after you mentioned 👍👍, most likely shivering due to nervousness. I shiver 🥶 when nervous too 😭 . Alia is sweet lovely sister and they are lucky to have each other.

    • @sunilk.8419
      @sunilk.8419 4 роки тому +13

      The DIG lady also sensed it and hold Shaheen in tight little hug. Even offered her to be closer to Alia. I guess women have this superpower to read emotions or non-verbal cues better than us. We men would have been standing like dumb fools, not maintaining eye contact with each other. :D

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html RG 16

  • @fatimasadaf07
    @fatimasadaf07 4 роки тому +404

    I feel bad for the young girl who was trying to ask a question and barkha just shut her out saying they were not discussing criticism...... May be she just used the wrong word.. there was no reason for barkha to behave so rudely towards her in front of so many people.... I hope this incident doesn't affect her the way the photographer's behavior affected Shaheen.

    • @Aashmii
      @Aashmii 4 роки тому +2

      👏👏

    • @montukidsclass
      @montukidsclass 4 роки тому

      Well said ..@sunshine 101

    • @skyandbeyond1936
      @skyandbeyond1936 4 роки тому +2

      True.. I mean first u talk ooo that thing happen to u ans tell that u understand and than repeat that same behaviour with someone else.... I could see the expression in that girls face which made me sad

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      Sunshine 101 ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

  • @Letstalkbolly
    @Letstalkbolly 4 роки тому +20

    Wow..this conversation was worth watching!!! One of the bravest interview I have seen so far🤘🤘
    Kudos to Shaheen for being so open & Alia to put the voice for this topic💪💪💪 #bhattsisters

  • @MonishaKavita
    @MonishaKavita 4 роки тому +57

    Tears in my eyes while watching this..I feel you Shaheen! Kudos to her for telling her story 💖💖💖

  • @subbannar7319
    @subbannar7319 4 роки тому +45

    People who have suffered depression only know the pain and others can not understand it.

  • @tiger-lw6rn
    @tiger-lw6rn 3 роки тому +14

    What I learnt from this interview is that Alia is a good sister

  • @keerthikumaran8755
    @keerthikumaran8755 4 роки тому +441

    Barkha, please don't shut down anyone from asking questions, because it really needs a lot of courage to stand. Trust me! Just to stand.

    • @positivevibes577
      @positivevibes577 4 роки тому +21

      So true, so very true. And the person might not be able to stand again for a questions ever again, or it might take them years to get the courage.

    • @ShivamSingh-qz3kh
      @ShivamSingh-qz3kh 3 роки тому

      Blessings❤

    • @anshitajain6219
      @anshitajain6219 3 роки тому

      At what did this happen?

  • @harshusundar7353
    @harshusundar7353 4 роки тому +36

    Shaheen is so pretty,calm and humble.Alia is a good company for her!

  • @neisham7478
    @neisham7478 4 роки тому +29

    these girls are global influencers. single handedly they have resonated with an international audience. well done ladies

  • @leenachitwan
    @leenachitwan 4 роки тому +183

    The saddest thing about this show is, that young girl was left embarrassed. The instance may turn her under confident because she was behaved that way in public. Host could handle her compassionately.

    • @TheMjforeva
      @TheMjforeva 4 роки тому +1

      Leena Duwadi where is it???

    • @leenachitwan
      @leenachitwan 4 роки тому

      @@TheMjforeva watch at last

    • @AnjaliSingh-fj9zo
      @AnjaliSingh-fj9zo 4 роки тому +3

      SAS that part has been removed

    • @preethi_16
      @preethi_16 3 роки тому

      @@AnjaliSingh-fj9zo What did the host actually say?

  • @sundipsangha3007
    @sundipsangha3007 4 роки тому +11

    Awwww this interview was so emotional.kuddos to her for bringing her story foreword and encouraging and motivating everyone who is dealing with depression to not feel alone and to know that it’s okay to seek help and see a therapist . It takes a lot of courage to share about depression and mental health. I can understand and relate to some of the feelings she goes through. It is defintely not easy. I can’t wait to get my copy of this book.

  • @ClassyAddiction
    @ClassyAddiction 4 роки тому +212

    This is a serious matter that is unfortunately not taking seriously. Shaheen had the amazing thought to share her story to spread awareness, and Alia is surely the best version of a sister. Thank you for this valuable content 🙏

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +2

      Classy Addiction Well said!👍👍👏👏 I Agree.

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      Classy Addiction ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

    • @sam..3348
      @sam..3348 4 роки тому +1

      @@hanah3401 plzz Hindi me batao Kya story h Shaheen ki plzzz bta do

  • @krinalimbachiya5530
    @krinalimbachiya5530 4 роки тому +47

    Dear Shaheen,
    you have truly empowered me through this video. I may not have been able to understand you fully but I do feel connected with you. It takes a lot of courage to talk about things that you make you feel miserable every now and then, I just wanted to say that you are doing a great job. You inspire me to be stronger. Just remember that you are imperfectly perfect, even in the most subtle ways, and you may not always feel like the fire, but you will shine on anyway. Loads of love to you and your family.

  • @nindyaputri1940
    @nindyaputri1940 4 роки тому +106

    shaheen looks like her dad, and alia her mom.. both are brilliant!

    • @pranjali316
      @pranjali316 4 роки тому +8

      Nindya Putri ALIA looks like HER mom and shaheen looks like alia...very much resemblance👯‍♀️

  • @kinzaasif10
    @kinzaasif10 4 роки тому +308

    I wish the host could have been a little more sensitive and asked better questions. And probably even speak a little softly.

  • @menukadebbarma8098
    @menukadebbarma8098 4 роки тому +73

    Shaheen such a brave girl and still she's living with depression hats off to her

  • @riazulislam248
    @riazulislam248 2 роки тому +5

    Shaheen's style of speaking, personality is very unique. She's smart. I love her. 😍😍😍😍

  • @elliem143
    @elliem143 4 роки тому +33

    I think the scariest think about depression is that people often end their lives because of this. What’s also sad is that sometimes you may never know if someone is depressed or unhappy. Please be kind to all!

  • @n.n.mehenty3360
    @n.n.mehenty3360 4 роки тому +32

    Shaheen is a wonderful strong lady. God bless her. Alia is such a wonderful person. God bless her.

  • @kiratinayumarai7602
    @kiratinayumarai7602 4 роки тому +12

    Will surely buy this book.
    Its so true when they said that crying is as equally important as being happy.

  • @aafrinazad288
    @aafrinazad288 4 роки тому +62

    I have read the book online on kindle some months back ... I think I hv nvr been to depression but in many points I cud relate myself to those situations.. I felt like she is telling my story or my feelings in many lines in her book... And it made me cry ...

    • @javedmusharraf6490
      @javedmusharraf6490 4 роки тому +3

      Nice to hear that u read,I always want to write my biography..I don't have that potential of writing I think..

    • @aafrinazad288
      @aafrinazad288 4 роки тому

      @Divya Pillai you can download the Amazon Kindle app , u vl get d book over dr , u just need to pay some amount 😊

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому +1

      AAFRIN AZAD ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

  • @prathiputta
    @prathiputta 4 роки тому +125

    This sisters are the best in their own fields kudos to their family for giving birth such a gem like diamonds

  • @tasneemdawood5762
    @tasneemdawood5762 4 роки тому +14

    Let's all take a moment to realize one thing. Every human being goes through hard times. Especially celebrities. Let's be kinder to them.

  • @CyberSavvySadaf
    @CyberSavvySadaf 4 роки тому +110

    I cried with Alia, she’s such a genuine pure sweet soul 💕🥺

    • @jeongukkkim1762
      @jeongukkkim1762 4 роки тому +4

      Persian Pearl not really pure if she took her “best friends” man

    • @CaptainIndiaa
      @CaptainIndiaa 4 роки тому +1

      Oh Raja beta ko rona aa raha hai

    • @dearzindagi8894
      @dearzindagi8894 4 роки тому

      I also cried

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      Persian Pearl ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

  • @sunzingwangsu5325
    @sunzingwangsu5325 3 роки тому +9

    This sisters love is unspeakable ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ God bless them both abundantly ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aayushma2923
    @aayushma2923 4 роки тому +6

    the fact that alia explicitly says that she doesn't want her crying to be the focus in a conversation about her sister's book and they decide to title the video this way

  • @Sjm7480
    @Sjm7480 4 роки тому +13

    Can't hold back my tears...i hv lived with depression all my life....lost my mother at the age of 2...growing up with a step mother and sisters...i hv felt lonely and depressed always...when shaheen admits to the fact that she attempted suicide at the age of 17...i felt Alia's pain...like "sis how could you even think of going away from me" .... its very painful to live with depression...people will judge you instead of trying to understand you...

  • @sunainikhajuria1925
    @sunainikhajuria1925 4 роки тому +5

    So proud of Shaheen,such a brave girl !! Yes crying is very normal and healthy !! And talking about what it feels inside is brave thing and you gonna inspire so many people!!! Bravo🙌🏻

  • @Altamash23
    @Altamash23 4 роки тому +35

    I always wondered why people are suicidal or why they just give up on life like that but when depression and anxiety really hit me I could relate to those. It's easy to call out oh he's rich has a good job or oh she's a celeb or a member of the royal family everyone has their own issues and I feel it should be out to the young ones and should be given at least one class a week on health and well-being kids should know it's okay to feel low it's okay to fail it's okay to be yourself... When I was in school I was captivated by this whole family and relatives pressure that you always have to win.... People need to understand that not everyone is same after all it's a human being and each will work in their own way they aren't horses of a racecourse to always win.... mental health is a big issue and so many people aren't aware of it.....

  • @prathiputta
    @prathiputta 4 роки тому +15

    Now Please don't Compare who is Best
    They Both are best in their own field
    Kudos brave girls so proud of being Their fan

    • @shubhamagarwal2778
      @shubhamagarwal2778 4 роки тому +1

      @@pinkimahanta4811 spreading hate and being jealous of successful peoples is the only job you losers got .

  • @srijanprasad8319
    @srijanprasad8319 Рік тому +3

    18:53 alia says she does not wanna cry because then it'll be about she shedding a tear, as obviously the video is about her sister, shaheen's battle with depression, but so ironically, the video title starts with "alia bhatt breaks down.....". Yeah i am sure that helps getting views but....seriously??

  • @YATIN0
    @YATIN0 4 роки тому +7

    Kudos to Shaheen
    You are blessed.
    Being in the situation, I empathize with Shaheen completely.
    But the way Alia says it is understanding and listening and picking up cues and being sensitive, I wish every person has someone like her.

  • @shagunmaheshwari
    @shagunmaheshwari 4 роки тому +12

    Alia specifically mentions that she doesn't want it to be about her as it shouldn't be, and well, the caption.

  • @adrijaabarik6971
    @adrijaabarik6971 4 роки тому +13

    I bought this book today and it's so good. I just love it! It is quite relatable to my life.

  • @rupaliyadav2887
    @rupaliyadav2887 4 роки тому +29

    I had same feeling as Alia for my elder sister.

  • @unfiltered2.057
    @unfiltered2.057 4 роки тому +6

    Brave enough to speak about it. I suffered from depression back in 2016 and didnt even knew what it was. Luckily recovered from it. Please check with a psychlogist when you feel directionless and incomplete

  • @douluvmee
    @douluvmee 4 роки тому +8

    I always thought Alia was a bimbo and very privileged but seeing her break down when she heard Shaheen talking about her struggles with depression was sad. As someone who is going through chronic depression, I could clearly relate to Shaheen, I was crying throughout the whole video.

  • @amnakhokhar1666
    @amnakhokhar1666 4 роки тому +9

    Shaheen is beautiful, inside-out. It takes more than bravery and courage to do what she did. It's a reach and call for meaning. It takes heart to write your own story - it's more than just bravery. It's much deeper than that.
    And now, whenever and every time I would see Alia Bhatt, whom I admire, I would also think of Shaheen, and hope that she's doing good.

  • @shanigem295
    @shanigem295 4 роки тому +95

    The title is so demeaning and cheap! This is a complete talk about how sidelining can hurt someone so much. And the very title of this is about Alia. How shameful.

  • @aditi7851
    @aditi7851 4 роки тому +5

    Both sisters are amazing...
    people should stop posting negative comments( I have in the past)
    Everyones life is different and looks and money is not everything

  • @vaidehisingh5129
    @vaidehisingh5129 4 роки тому +27

    The first words which Shaheen gets to speak are when Alia stops to drink some water after about 5 minutes of Alia telling how she doesn't think that Shaheen should feel outshadowed by her because she is the most brilliant person in the family. The irony makes me hysterical. Also, the title of this video is just the icing on the cake.

  • @saieeayachit8034
    @saieeayachit8034 4 роки тому +12

    Shaheen Is MORe Adorable and near to us. so sweet she is.

  • @muntaharc4750
    @muntaharc4750 4 роки тому +27

    I wish this segment had a different host. I was so engaged throughout when the sisters were talking but I didn't like the tone of the host. Other than that, the conversation was beautiful! It was so real and relatable! It's very hard to talk about depression and I am so proud of Shaheen for sharing her struggle! Cant wait to read the book 🖤

  • @richashah5012
    @richashah5012 4 роки тому +5

    Who else cried looking at her

  • @firrzananadem
    @firrzananadem 4 роки тому +8

    Aaliya is so sweet and very protective about her sister.❤️

  • @PriyankaGupta-sx8fi
    @PriyankaGupta-sx8fi 4 роки тому +11

    After the way barkha behaved with that girl, I think barkha was only listening and not understanding what shaheen was saying throughout..

  • @suvarnashinde6933
    @suvarnashinde6933 4 роки тому +51

    36:00 Yes, hearing and listening are two different things but you mixed em up, Hearing is simply an involuntary,sensory thing, but listening is done at a conscious level, trying to understand the person on a psychological level.

    • @nomad_naari2329
      @nomad_naari2329 4 роки тому +1

      Rightly said

    • @tanayanadkarni3172
      @tanayanadkarni3172 4 роки тому +1

      Same thought

    • @neongirl5581
      @neongirl5581 4 роки тому

      @worldtraveller nyc 😬😬

    • @gaurinawathe6856
      @gaurinawathe6856 4 роки тому +2

      @worldtraveller nyc she was actually making a very good point even though she got the two words mixed up. She comes across as a very empathetic, sensitive and emotionally intelligent person. Why would you criticize her intellect?

    • @amanchaturvedi5633
      @amanchaturvedi5633 4 роки тому

      Suvarna Shinde ALIA BHATT CRIES AS SISTER SHAHEEN OPENSUP ON HER BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION AT WE THE WOMEN|BARKHA DUTT ua-cam.com/video/s4WexhAiKC0/v-deo.html

  • @ashuk445
    @ashuk445 4 роки тому +211

    It effects women in pregnancy too especially with 3 csections and no support . . Some men are just so ignorant and arrogant to their pregnant wife's

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +6

      Ash UK absolutely right! But then you need to take support from others like govt and doctors if u r in uk to help make your husband understand. Don’t let him make it worse

    • @LifeStyle-pd4ie
      @LifeStyle-pd4ie 4 роки тому +14

      Pregnancy is emotionally a tough time for women. I am in my 1st trimester and going through an emotional roller coaster.

    • @ss1148
      @ss1148 4 роки тому +1

      I totally agree

    • @fatimashaheen4197
      @fatimashaheen4197 4 роки тому +1

      U said the correct thing

    • @bercila7171
      @bercila7171 4 роки тому +2

      Absolutely! Depression during pregnancy may be a hormonal thing but it still is serious and needs attention

  • @shivanivyas0
    @shivanivyas0 4 роки тому +5

    Rajiv Masand interviewed Shaheen! 👏🏾 what a girl and what an interview it was!

  • @vrushalidhongade5725
    @vrushalidhongade5725 4 роки тому +7

    Shaheen is beautiful, inside and out. And so so brave!

  • @areebasaghir4130
    @areebasaghir4130 4 роки тому +12

    Much needed discussion. I could relate myself too...

  • @dolphinrose21
    @dolphinrose21 4 роки тому +24

    Shaheen is authentic following her own path and not her family's , be strong and don't fear your path

  • @goswamisisters5453
    @goswamisisters5453 3 роки тому +27

    I love Alia for her acting in films ❤️for her beauty 🥰 for her cuteness ❤️for a wonderful person she is🥰but after watching this I also just love shaheen ❤️Shaheen is really a good person and my alu also🥰

  • @deepalall647
    @deepalall647 4 роки тому +124

    In India if a young woman talks about depression,most people start commenting that it may be because of a breakup or boyfriend.The worst thing is when people tell you to "get over it" or say it's "attention wh@ring".

    • @neongirl5581
      @neongirl5581 4 роки тому +1

      THIS IS WHAT NEEDS TO BE SAID LOUDER!! When i quote something sad to my friends they're like "Did some guy do something?" 😵

    • @dreampinkbubbles
      @dreampinkbubbles 4 роки тому +1

      Absolutely, on point ! I still get questions on my depression. That’s so rude ! They think everything revolves round boys and shit. Which ain’t true ! Anyone can be depressed due to any reason, doesn’t need to be a dumbfounded boyfriend!

  • @shibasharifi915
    @shibasharifi915 4 роки тому +26

    Dear Shahin Bhatt her sister Alia Bhatt,
    very good done to dare speak out about depression
    such subject.
    Glad to watch sister Bhatts stand by each other.

  • @foragingfleur
    @foragingfleur 3 роки тому +6

    Has Alia not heard about this from sister before bc it seems she knew about it but she could not imagine her life without Shaheen. Hearing the reality and truth does hurt. They are soo close as sisters.

  • @lornadsouzaphilip3815
    @lornadsouzaphilip3815 4 роки тому +60

    I think it was psychological that has created the chemical that is now part of your DNA. The photographer may not have meant it but we have to accept we Indians are the most racist people that exist when it comes to color, shape and size and in making comparisons. Our competition is very often not a healthy one.

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 4 роки тому +1

      Lorna D'souza Philip totally agree!

    • @SA-lz1vx
      @SA-lz1vx 4 роки тому +1

      Well said!

  • @aryaphom3119
    @aryaphom3119 4 роки тому +34

    Trust me I was in this position.
    I took no therapy
    But today I completely heal now
    Am free from depression
    It's all because of Jesus Christ
    He set me free from this darkness
    Today I live without any fear of darkness.
    Therefore I would encourage everyone to seek the right now only one truth which will set you free from this depression
    That is seek the lord, Jesus.
    Trust me you will be free too soon

  • @akshitabhardwaj3216
    @akshitabhardwaj3216 3 роки тому +8

    Till the time I went through it, I couldn't empathize with people suffering from it. After it I know how we cannot know what someone is going through, and therefore must be always kind to every living being

  • @sudeshnanambiar1895
    @sudeshnanambiar1895 4 роки тому +11

    In todays age people want to see glam pics and happy faces, no one wants to connect with people who are sad, no one wants to give a shoulder to cry on, they will say no matter how you feel just dress up, show up and carry on like "normal" don't make anyone uncomfortable with your fears or tears. Empathy is truly lacking in society of pretending to be happy and successful today. The message is "Be Kind" and genuinely try and lend a helping hand🖐️

  • @yachnachug5020
    @yachnachug5020 4 роки тому +22

    I had huge respect for Barkha Dutt since very long..but for some reason after this interview she has lost some part of it.

  • @aksherasiddi9493
    @aksherasiddi9493 4 роки тому +19

    It is listening not just hearing someone, but I guess everyone got the point.

  • @ishaansharma9176
    @ishaansharma9176 4 роки тому +6

    *Depression is not Saddness...but it is actually numbness* 😞😞

  • @nargisbano2171
    @nargisbano2171 4 роки тому +3

    I just love the way alia supporting to her sister

  • @shalinikapoorsaluja7769
    @shalinikapoorsaluja7769 4 роки тому +22

    Kudos to Deepika Padukone who has paved way for other stars to come frwdd to speak on such an important issue

  • @chandanikashyap21
    @chandanikashyap21 4 роки тому +13

    Alia is so nice human being ...& Best sister .. best daughter..best girlfriend ...best girl 😍🤗

  • @arttravelvlogsgm9019
    @arttravelvlogsgm9019 4 роки тому +17

    When they speak about some real problems, still we have ppl in comment section comparing who is more beautiful than other 🙏 you ppl will never change.. എന്റെ കർത്താവെ 🙏🙏

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 4 роки тому +3

      Art Travel Vlogs, GM Well Said 👍👍👏👏 Some people are so ridiculous . They are commenting about looks and gossips . I guess this topic is too intellectual for them to understand 😂😂

    • @neisham7478
      @neisham7478 4 роки тому +1

      yeah absolutely...its almost pointless for such idiotic fools to see beyond the superficial aspect

  • @diyask95
    @diyask95 4 роки тому +3

    I have attended this seminaar n I just loved it the way Shaheen spoke about her journey where she lived her depression when a person nowhere found him or herself she wrote a book I hope each n every one should come up even I have gone through and still going but from such people you get inspiration and courage to fight against our depression...

  • @rituarya977
    @rituarya977 4 роки тому +5

    Shaheen looks so adorable when she talks 😍

  • @thegreatfoodie5389
    @thegreatfoodie5389 3 роки тому +2

    I liked how genuine Shaheen is and because she just can’t be fake and other person that she is not she didn’t became actor ❤️

  • @rachta7495
    @rachta7495 4 роки тому +16

    If i say to my mom am depressed, she is like you dont have kids and enough work to do, if you have lots of work then you won't have time to think about all this.
    Is this true? or anyone received the same type of answers, please reply

    • @psd3212
      @psd3212 4 роки тому +2

      My mum says the same to me. It stems from lack of awareness so please seek help if you need it 💖

    • @janvigor3924
      @janvigor3924 4 роки тому +3

      No parents want to know, how their kids are fighting with their depression in a locked room they just concerned about why the room is locked😓😓