People really need to understand that if there is no trust then there is no relationship, if you don't trust your partner then you don't need to be together. Distrust causes so much toxicity.
Right. He had 12 years to get married. It must be something that SHE wants. I think he's only putting it on the table now bcuz he's in trouble and thinks it may be his get out of jail free card.
He literally told the world and her to her face that he didn't put a password on his phone until he was with her. Now why would he not have one on his phone but then put one on when he got with her? ... to hide stuff.
@@jasmineoden6423 Naw she caught it hell she caught both of the lies… She asked the first time “oh so you didn’t have a passcode” then caught it again when she said “oh I thought you didn’t have a passcode” 🤣 She was listening and paying attention but makes me wonder after she got the truth from the other dude… Why she still here looking for the truth
100% he is. She doesn't want this drama to continue in her relationship and neither should he so if he was innocent, to help get rid of the drama, he would have followed all the rules that was given to him before the test. Her mental health and the relationship is not important to him as it is to her
I think the fact that he cheated on her so many times is very telling. And if he was allowing other people to use his phone he would have deleted the text thread
It’ll really surprise me if he’s back, clean & passes. Like Steve says “I’ll need someone to catch me”…when I fall down in shock.🤣 Would love to be proven wrong!
Some guests claim to make a promise to come back on the show to not do drugs nor smoke weed, but they come back by still doing drugs and smoke weed or they don’t come back. The reason they do this Is to hide the truth, but, there are some who come back clean.
Because clearly he still has sexual attraction to women. They will say bicurious because he hasn’t admitted to being gay. If they label him as gay it can open a can of worms
Easily. Some ppl are great actors, masters of deception, & experts of leading double lives. I know DL men who've been married for 20 or 30 years, & their wives are none the wiser. I know a guy whose wife of a quarter-century is always suspicious that he may be creeping with the women he works with. She has no clue about all of the men, and he's been pristine in covering his tracks. Consequently, she isn't checking for the homies and male colleagues he screws in peace and even brings around her.
Sure that is easy cause she puts up with shit and he is used to having his way. I doubt she is forthcoming or forward in the past when he steps outta line. And now she gotta a little backbone.
It’s not normal to think your boyfriend is having sex with guys. Some people are paranoid and think their partner is sleeping with everyone. Chances are if you’re not a paranoid person and have that feeling and can’t shake it, deep down you already know the answer. She should leave this man. He’s putting her health at risk.
@@thomasyoung5013 of course he was. You’re reading in something I didn’t say or imply. Her health is a risk because he’s a serial cheater. First with women, now with guys. Her partner is sleeping around with a lot of people and lying about it. Like I said, he’s putting her health at risk.
@@thomasyoung5013 Gay men have very high rates of STDs, and black gay men are the highest risk. Statistics say 50% of gay/bi black men are HIV positive in the US.
Read this too fast at first I thought you said it was normal to think your bf is having sex w guys LOL. I was about to call you a final boss level liberal
He's a down low bi sexual man. He was told not to do drugs before the test. He did what they told him not to do. Someone who claims to be innocent of such accusations would have followed the rules to prove his/her Innocence and to get rid of the drama ASAP in the relationship.
@@nastyyella300 you're obviously someone who doesn't understand sacrificing and prioritizing. Easier said then done is part of life. It's so easy for me to say " I don't want to go to work tomorrow" and it's hard to go but I go because I have responsibilities. He's not going to die if he stopped temporarily so his gf can have a peace of mind. Smoking weed should never come before your family.
Don't need a lie detector test or a gay detector test either to know he is gay. She is so beautiful and intelligent woman who deserve better than that liar...
Why does this remind me of “Are you gay? Carl : How you gonna ask me a question like that? Jo : How did you marry a woman, and then turn around and let a man bend you over? Carl : Ain't nobody bending me over. Jo : So you doing the bending? Is that what it is?”
Every SW episode involving Queer people: Bi women- accused of cheating with all people under the sun, partner not really focused on the Queerness aspect of it but more on the cheating aspect. Bi men- accused of being gay and forced to out themselves as Bi on TV, partner not really focused on the cheating aspect but more on the Queerness aspect.
Well it is a big deal idk how the hell you miss that point nobody wants to be with someone who's not attracted to them it hits different now get over it that's just the way it is
@@theblackshepard4441 so the civil rights movement was a mistake? before then black people were just second class citizens, that's just the way it was, they should have just gotten over it right?
🤔 maybe because the women don’t want to put their mouth on something that’s been in another man’s a hole. Maybe the women don’t want a doodoo weiner in their vagina. Let’s not pretend it’s the same.
Girllllllll his story SUCKS! No way someone else sent those messages. I understand she doesn’t want to believe he is sleeping with other people, specifically men, but come on. He is a bad liar
What a beautiful black lady!! Cuzz, don't let a white boy like me comes across this beautiful lady. I'd make her happy and show her real love. It's not often an Angel brushes by you!
Inconclusive ha yeah he knew what he was doing . Smoking before test ! And that means he probably was involved with some gay stuff with another guy . Maybe he could be gay . Also was there an update ?
This is for you who are reading this keep going you’re doing fine no matter how slow your progress each new week is filled with tiny steps forward Be proud of yourself god got you🇧🇸
I strongly believe that a relationship especially marriage can survive anything but cannot survive no trust.If you can’t trust it’s only a matter of time.
What the f*ck are you talking about? Sounds like you have some past issues you still haven't worked through and you're taking your toxic view on how people can love and making an assumption that has no truth behind it. Maybe you should go talk with a therapist or something Amanda
This is a major problem within the black communities of men. Why doesn't he have his own place , and why is he allowing himself to be homeless and being thrown out continously and now sleeping on the floor. Many females nowadays choose bummy men who aren't competent leaders that are emotionally , mentally, physically , and financially set. If he was the best version of himself he wouldn't have to put up with her degrading and disrespecting like a kid. She likes having a weak man , she can control
It’s pretty common all across the board. Not just in the black community. What’s more common is black women choosing guys that have jet turbines for feet when they knock em up.
People really need to understand that if there is no trust then there is no relationship, if you don't trust your partner then you don't need to be together. Distrust causes so much toxicity.
yes!
Amen👏👏👏
Exactly. I don't waste my time with people who have to go through my phone, ask me questions, keeps tabs. Nope. Not the one.
Communication and understandings
Also… she wasn’t a dude lol
Girl...I'll give you my sneakers so you can run away. He's lying!
ROFL!! Yep, that's a fact!!😆😆😂😂😂
Take the sneakers, girl!!! RUN!!💯🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
🦵
Yes you don’t even need Steve to know he’s lying
They've been together for 12 years and he's saying that he wants to marry her someday? Given his past of abuse and cheating, I don't believe him.
Right. He had 12 years to get married. It must be something that SHE wants. I think he's only putting it on the table now bcuz he's in trouble and thinks it may be his get out of jail free card.
It would be for the best of they don’t get married
@@kenniapresident7666 I agree. He's the type who will give her an incurable STD.
3 years living w her n I’ll go ring shopping. Said what I said
She stayed because she’s desperate. That’s what women do today. Stay with men who cheat because they don’t want to be alone.
He literally told the world and her to her face that he didn't put a password on his phone until he was with her. Now why would he not have one on his phone but then put one on when he got with her? ... to hide stuff.
Nobody caught that and that's crazy😂
Exactly! I feel like they didn’t catch what he said..
I soon as he said that I was like how did no one caught that lol I caught it immediately
Lol I caught that too 😂😂
@@jasmineoden6423 Naw she caught it hell she caught both of the lies… She asked the first time “oh so you didn’t have a passcode” then caught it again when she said “oh I thought you didn’t have a passcode” 🤣 She was listening and paying attention but makes me wonder after she got the truth from the other dude… Why she still here looking for the truth
he just got a free pass..
and I don't believe a damn word he's sayin.. she's better off cutting that chain loose.. and she's to good of a woman.....
He’s not comin back…. And Steve knows😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They know they can’t do drugs they are told before they appear. He is a damn liar!
100% he is. She doesn't want this drama to continue in her relationship and neither should he so if he was innocent, to help get rid of the drama, he would have followed all the rules that was given to him before the test. Her mental health and the relationship is not important to him as it is to her
He's lying he definitely sent those messages and he's not gonna stop smoking because he knows he'll fail the test
smh smoking can cause cancer and some people can’t stop to save their life so they def not for no test! So that doesn’t mean he’s lying
Yall know he ain't coming back right🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hell naw.🤭🤭🤭
🤣
Too many men using women as a cover to hide their sexuality
Blackmen and rappers 😆 🤣 😂
@@jamesgamero7733 definitely the rappers 🤣🤣🤣
Bisexuality exists in men too just like women but it’s never a problem when women do it. Homophobia is the reason why they won’t tell you.
She's a beard!!
Too many women being hypocrites saying don't lie in one breath but won't accept in the same breath
Ain't no way he thought his lies were adding up.....
I think the fact that he cheated on her so many times is very telling. And if he was allowing other people to use his phone he would have deleted the text thread
It’ll really surprise me if he’s back, clean & passes. Like Steve says “I’ll need someone to catch me”…when I fall down in shock.🤣 Would love to be proven wrong!
He's definitely creeping to the other side.
Been together 12 yrs an he aint put a ring on it yet ?!! 🤔🤔🤔
He’s broke with no ambition in life. Black women wont wake up tho
She knows in her gut. Trust your gut!
Some guests claim to make a promise to come back on the show to not do drugs nor smoke weed, but they come back by still doing drugs and smoke weed or they don’t come back. The reason they do this Is to hide the truth, but, there are some who come back clean.
I mean, what more proof does she need? He got caught red-handed by the text message.
He convinced her that someone used his phone. It happens. I let others text on my phone
She needs to get rid of him, period
Once the trust goes all that remains is toxicity and then the relationship is on life support
He's definitely peaking around the corner at least. I bet there's no update he ain't coming back.
i like how he said bicurious instead of gay
Because clearly he still has sexual attraction to women. They will say bicurious because he hasn’t admitted to being gay. If they label him as gay it can open a can of worms
Well, bicurios people are usually heteros who want to test the waters.
Yea
How can you be with someone for 12 years and still not know who they actually are? Smh...
Some people don't even know themselves fully, so it's a little naive to think someone will be exactly the same after a decade
Easily. Some ppl are great actors, masters of deception, & experts of leading double lives. I know DL men who've been married for 20 or 30 years, & their wives are none the wiser. I know a guy whose wife of a quarter-century is always suspicious that he may be creeping with the women he works with. She has no clue about all of the men, and he's been pristine in covering his tracks. Consequently, she isn't checking for the homies and male colleagues he screws in peace and even brings around her.
Sure that is easy cause she puts up with shit and he is used to having his way. I doubt she is forthcoming or forward in the past when he steps outta line. And now she gotta a little backbone.
I'd love a update…Steves show is sooooo good….this one is over 2 yrs ago…wow!!! Can never get old!!! ❤
Don't ever go back to someone you have a *restraining order* for
I'm only 2 minutes in. If he passes I will be shocked.
Have they gotten your jaw off the floor yet.
Me too. Hes bi
He’s not going to stop smoking cause he knows he’s gay lol.
THAT BOY FRUITY
It’s not normal to think your boyfriend is having sex with guys. Some people are paranoid and think their partner is sleeping with everyone. Chances are if you’re not a paranoid person and have that feeling and can’t shake it, deep down you already know the answer. She should leave this man. He’s putting her health at risk.
So when he was cheating with them gals he wasn't putting her at risk huh?
@@thomasyoung5013 of course he was. You’re reading in something I didn’t say or imply. Her health is a risk because he’s a serial cheater. First with women, now with guys. Her partner is sleeping around with a lot of people and lying about it. Like I said, he’s putting her health at risk.
@@thomasyoung5013 Gay men have very high rates of STDs, and black gay men are the highest risk. Statistics say 50% of gay/bi black men are HIV positive in the US.
I mean with "gals" he wouldn't be giving her HIV AIDS or Monkey pox...
Read this too fast at first I thought you said it was normal to think your bf is having sex w guys LOL. I was about to call you a final boss level liberal
Just break up and be done with it
ALL the time it was Bill that was sleeping with her man.. LMAO
I HOLLERED 🗣️😂🤣
If the text said, " I am on the bus" that means someone took his phone and went. He is guilty.
He's a down low bi sexual man. He was told not to do drugs before the test. He did what they told him not to do. Someone who claims to be innocent of such accusations would have followed the rules to prove his/her Innocence and to get rid of the drama ASAP in the relationship.
Yep. He's on the down low
You obviously are not someone who smokes weed every day lol to stop smoking is easier said then done smh doesn’t mean he’s guilty
Fr
@@nastyyella300 you're obviously someone who doesn't understand sacrificing and prioritizing. Easier said then done is part of life. It's so easy for me to say " I don't want to go to work tomorrow" and it's hard to go but I go because I have responsibilities. He's not going to die if he stopped temporarily so his gf can have a peace of mind. Smoking weed should never come before your family.
@@nastyyella300 I smoke everyday but i can stop lol I actually didn’t smoke for like 3-4 days last week. Sounds like you’re addicted to it
Don't need a lie detector test or a gay detector test either to know he is gay.
She is so beautiful and intelligent woman who deserve better than that liar...
G detector test 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Closeted men are dangerous to their female partners.
@@ahumanlewis4793 this is a fact. I know 1 lady who is dead because of her down low husband
He kno he lyin he knew wat it was before coming smh.
Why does this remind me of “Are you gay?
Carl : How you gonna ask me a question like that?
Jo : How did you marry a woman, and then turn around and let a man bend you over?
Carl : Ain't nobody bending me over.
Jo : So you doing the bending? Is that what it is?”
Which movie was this again?
LMFAOOOOOOOOO this part
@@sweetrebel9907 for colored girls
5:21 lmfao Steve is hilarious 🤣
Hell yeah. He's a good dude
Rfs n that look when he turned back @ 5:28 killed meee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“I don’t know how those messages got in my phone.” Right 😂😂
Every SW episode involving Queer people:
Bi women- accused of cheating with all people under the sun, partner not really focused on the Queerness aspect of it but more on the cheating aspect.
Bi men- accused of being gay and forced to out themselves as Bi on TV, partner not really focused on the cheating aspect but more on the Queerness aspect.
the sad truth
There have been many stories on here that didn't care about their sexuality, the issue was cheating and not being truthful.
Well it is a big deal idk how the hell you miss that point nobody wants to be with someone who's not attracted to them it hits different now get over it that's just the way it is
@@theblackshepard4441 so the civil rights movement was a mistake? before then black people were just second class citizens, that's just the way it was, they should have just gotten over it right?
🤔 maybe because the women don’t want to put their mouth on something that’s been in another man’s a hole. Maybe the women don’t want a doodoo weiner in their vagina. Let’s not pretend it’s the same.
They aren't coming back 🤣
Girllllllll his story SUCKS! No way someone else sent those messages. I understand she doesn’t want to believe he is sleeping with other people, specifically men, but come on. He is a bad liar
Bro he was texting the homies🤦🏾♂️😂
I wouldn't need the show we'd be over after he said "I was not with you so I didn't need a password".
Great point
She's pretty and intelligent
Indeed she is.
Nothing intelligent about a woman staying with a man that abused her, and to stay for 12 years and no ring
@@8213apice you beat up your boyfriend and he still with you
What a beautiful black lady!!
Cuzz, don't let a white boy like me comes across this beautiful lady.
I'd make her happy and show her real love.
It's not often an Angel brushes by you!
Wake n bake watchin Steve
When it doesn't make sense it's a lie. That shit about giving my homeboy the phone and he's texting about gay porn..... come on!!
😂
Inconclusive ha yeah he knew what he was doing . Smoking before test ! And that means he probably was involved with some gay stuff with another guy . Maybe he could be gay . Also was there an update ?
So he's claiming everyone else can have access to hid phone but when he moved in with her he needed a lock ?!🤔What ?!?!?
I hope to God they come back! I would love to see how this turns out!
as soon as i saw his sweater, I already know what the answer is. 12 years and no marriage.
This is for you who are reading this keep going you’re doing fine no matter how slow your progress each new week is filled with tiny steps forward Be proud of yourself god got you🇧🇸
A lot of guys are secretly bisexual out here. Don't hide it. I'm bisexual. Just do you.
Be safe out there yall
we don't need his test we can tell that he's lying that none of his stories made no sense.
So He let his friend take his phone to the guys house cause at the end of the message he said here 🙄
Why do people go there if they know there lying
I strongly believe that a relationship especially marriage can survive anything but cannot survive no trust.If you can’t trust it’s only a matter of time.
He don’t need to come back, that man like men !
I tell you what..not supposed to judge a book by its cover, but how he get her in the first place?!? I'm BAAAFFFLLLLEEEDD 😯🤡
He got that good 🍖
8:13 Steve almost slipped up and almost said ''we need the ratings'' and then quickly said ''see your results'' 😂
i think he was saying read the results and see your results at the same time and then his words just got jumbled
@@thtsnotmia me too. I don’t think he would or needed to say we need ratings. There are plenty of messed up ppl out there 😂
I swear I thought the same thing😭😭
His name Omar first thing I thought about was the wire 😂😂😂😂
Update PLEASE!
Those earrings told me everything I need to know 🙄
He ain’t gonna stop smoking weed for no lie detector test!
6:38 Omar's lie detector test results
I might binge watch these to much
Same
Damn I believed him until the end 😮😂😂
Girl. He bisexuality honey. Take it from a gay man boo.
Good thing I'm very happy being single for all these years! 😁
Just be who you are for your own sanity..
Legend has it he lasted a week and a half and relapsed lol 😂
She a beautiful queen
She already knows how he gets down…
He does the TubeSteak Boogie!!!
Omg I don't know how those messages got on my phone had me dead
The dude’s earnings and shoes are a dead giveaway
Two earrings is always tell tell sign
I hope he showed back up…
I would like to see if he came back.
12 years and no ring ??? 🤔
Dudes face with the glasses at 1:51 😂😂
He’s gonna fail omg😭
"I love you a lot" means they don't really love you. Whoever needed this, you're welcome.
I say this to my husband. He's my other half. Oh hell yeah I love him
What the f*ck are you talking about? Sounds like you have some past issues you still haven't worked through and you're taking your toxic view on how people can love and making an assumption that has no truth behind it. Maybe you should go talk with a therapist or something Amanda
It's how he said it. His tone & facial expression.... he doesn't mean it
who hurt you?
Who ever has to go through your phone to keep tabs doesn't love you either.
The lock lol
You can clearly see he lying 😂🤦🏽♀️
He's definitely not truthful.
Hope to see an update!!!
To me, the update is he lied
Trust me...you won't. He's hiding in plain sight.
He never returned because he couldn't stop smoking and having affairs with men 🤣
I’m pretty sure this is a rerun. So if he had come back we would know!
He never came back.
How do you not know how the text messages with a gay man got on your phone? 😂😂😂😂
He did it.
The eyes never lie
He is full of it!
Best show ever 👍
This is a major problem within the black communities of men. Why doesn't he have his own place , and why is he allowing himself to be homeless and being thrown out continously and now sleeping on the floor. Many females nowadays choose bummy men who aren't competent leaders that are emotionally , mentally, physically , and financially set. If he was the best version of himself he wouldn't have to put up with her degrading and disrespecting like a kid. She likes having a weak man , she can control
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
It’s pretty common all across the board. Not just in the black community. What’s more common is black women choosing guys that have jet turbines for feet when they knock em up.
Funny how you managed to make it ALL her fault. His mother raised a wimp.
So you never seen white men who are in the same situation? This ain’t no black community thing definitely racist statement need to be reported.
BM are weak and unqualified as leaders period. They’re not dominate nowhere in life.
He bouta fail that test
She Payin Too Much Attention When He Did His Finger Code While Playin Cards
If he was telling the truth wouldn't the test say he PASSED no matter what?
You have no idea what weed does to your mind.
What a waste of time I can’t get back
I wanna marry her someday.
Hopefully tomorrow after the show.
Lol
Did he ever come back tho🤣🤣🤣😭
I hate when they waste my time
Every past guest who failed wants his number.
Did he go back?! lol