Elyse, i love how genuine you are. You remind me of a golden retriever with anxiety. That is a strange compliment but i think youre just so lovable and pure friend material.
I receive this compliment with so much pride. I’ve been called an anxious golden retriever before and it made my heart happy in an unexplainable way. Thank you for this!
I'm reading with my anxious Jack Russell staring at me.😉 I was having a conversation about my do with someone once and the conversation shifted to my friend saying, "You know, I do think there is something to that old adage that dogs resemble their owners..." I have to admit I felt slightly upset as we had just been discussing how nervous, anxious, and pesty my dog can be....
The diagnosis matters to childhood Elyse. Consider it a gift to child Elyse, the one who struggled to get here and now finally has answers. -someone diagnosed late teens
Well said. It helps the process of transitioning from negative labels you’ve internalized, to giving yourself grace for things that were not in your control.
Yes, I DO care too! That mic cover reappearing has ‘glitch in the matrix’ written all over it. But I remember when it vanished and I feel better with this closure.
Same. I have two favorite clothing items, actually three (one is my sons’s) that just went *poof*. Literally it’s a mystery and I’d cry with happiness if they popped up again from their black hole.
I felt exactly the same way about getting diagnosed. My AuDHD diagnosis was completely life changing. My life makes so much more sense now, and my soul is more calm than it ever has been because I feel understood and validated. I was incredibly fortunate to be able to go through the diagnosis process, not everyone has that option. I will never take it for granted, and I'm happy you are able to have that experience too. ❤
My parents & pediatrician hid my Asperger's diagnosis (for my protection) until I was 25 and the laws/public attitudes changed. The diagnosis has been challenged by other medical professionals, b/c of old knowledge and Im still trying to get assessed as an adult. However, when my dr told me "You have Asperger's", I felt such relief. Realizing Im not just annoying or wrong, has allowed me to start figuring out who I am and love myself. I'm 15 years along and still learning about my brain, and while there is still so much trauma to work through, my default is now validation instead of gaslighting myself that I must just be acting up/misbehaving/weaponizing my needs for attention. For some people, self diagnosis isn't enough, and that is ok. That need speaks more to how we have been treated in our lives, instead of something inherently lacking in ourselves. 😂😊 Good for you for recognizing your need and pursuing the offical diagnosis 🎉
@@waitingandlearning it makes me so happy that you are figuring yourself out and loving yourself! Thanks for the support...and I am sending so much support back your way!
Also, congrats on the somewhat new self awareness to being neurodivergent and continuing to learn more about that part of yourself. You figured it out all on your own! 🎉 I myself am struggling with self-identifying as autistic without having "proof" - this is part of the reason that I am seeking a formal diagnosis as well. There's so many complex and complicated feelings that come with late life diagnosis - I actually counsel people to support them through this process. Just wanted to share you're not alone in those feelings! Sending lots of love. ❤
Yes! I do another version of this: the kindle books that REALLY stole my heart I go and buy the paperback version of it secondhand. This way I can have it in my bookshelf but not spend double the money for one book 😊
Thank you, Elyse for including the bit about your diagnosis process. I have been going back and forth with wether or not I “need” it and you explaining how dismissed and invalidated you have been made to feel and how you have been made to feel “annoying” “particular” “a bad friend”, etc, made me have such an emotional reaction due to the similarities. Your videos bring such joy to me. Your journey and experiences are so valuable, unique, and important. Thank you for sharing ❤
Getting a diagnosis can be so important to just feel okay with yourself. The understanding and knowing you aren’t broken is incredibly important and valuable. That is one of the biggest reasons that I got a diagnosis. Plus it will help if you ever need accommodations. Also if any of your kids get assessed it can be helpful knowing you are too. Plus Joann is always the safe store for me too. 😊 💖
This! 🎉 When I got my son assessed it was the first time I was told that many of the diagnosis are inherited. I come from a family that just didn’t get psych health treatments in the past.
When you held the bear speaker close to you....I felt that in my soul. I don't like loud sounds most of the time but I LOVE feeling the sound. And I loved seeing the joy on your face when you held it close to you! 😊
Elyse, I got diagnosed with autism at 31. It’s simultaneously relieving while also being something I deeply grieve. I grieve the criticism and pain I brought upon myself for not being able to “do life” as well as everybody else. But a relief in the sense that I truly do just process things differently than other people. So I’m not too “bitchy” for preferring quiet, too selfish for preferring certain clothes or foods, too standoffish for wanting alone time. I was diagnosed in march and am still grieving and rejoicing. Enjoy the ride. ❤️
This is how i feel with my ADHD diagnosis. Grief and relief. I cried out of both. The first because life was so much harder for me, and it didn't have to be (I got diagnosed at 35). The second because at least now I have support and understanding and more coping strategies. ❤
I got diagnosed with ADHD a couple months back (at the age of 30) and I would love to encourage you that it is actually so freeing ✨it might feel silly to want a diagnosis so bad, and that it won’t change anything but for me it really did! It was so validating and relieving. It gave me permission to be who I am and also a better understanding of who I’ve always been. On the surface it may just feel like a label, but for me it put so many things into place that haven’t made sense my ENTIRE life. I always thought I was lazy or dumb or something but now I know I just really really really struggle with executive functioning and I’ve been able to implement so many tools to help me operate at a “normal” baseline. So proud of you for seeking out that information even though it can be scary/embarrassing/feel imposter-syndrome-y!!! 🧡
I am a late diagnosed autistic woman. Unfortunately even with an official dx many people will not believe you and all those bad broken feelings about yourself don't just disappear. You may even face increased discrimination and bullying for becoming official and coming out with your ASD. Be very careful who you share this with and prepare for grieving time after your dx. Still worth finding out for your own piece of mind. Good luck!
It's so true that the craft store is the safest place. You can find me at hobby lobby during their 30% off yarn weeks frolicking through the aisles and telling myself I don't actually need to take it home and add to my yarn stash.
I very recently got a diagnosis of ADHD. I went in looking to get a diagnosis for my dyslexia and was hoping they would find autism because i was so sure i had it. When I was told I had ADHD (among other things) and not autism I was so surprised. it never crossed my mind that it could be ADHD that caused my crippling anxiety and low self esteem. I’m so glad I did it for so many reasons. It felt so nice to see how my brain worked on paper. It was very validating and worth the year long wait for my appointment.
Diagnosed ADHD at 51, and can share 2 things I've learned that help explain the low self-esteem. First, Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which makes us perceive criticism even when there is none, or amplify mild criticism in our minds. But secondly, they estimate that kids with ADHD have received 20 000 more negative comments by age 12, as compared to typically developing kids. I mean, that low self-esteem seems pretty logical then, doesn't it? (But hopefully not irreversible once you know and can work to counteract)
The "extra yarn" myth is like the old hot dog and bun issue, where they would sell you 8 hot dogs and 10 buns. PS every time you post an awesome crochet vlog, that particular Joann's runs out of those colors right after! I made my mom a pillow using the daisy square tutorial, and almost couldn't get the same colors because that's the store I shop at. Guess I'll have to start going to the one across town lol.
Omg I had no clue I affected the color options that much! I think the same thing happened with a jalapeño Mac n’ cheese I mentioned on my stories a while back. I couldn’t find it anywhere after I talked about it 😂😂
I was over the moon when I saw a new video from you- coming off anxiety meds after about 5 years so having a rough couple days. Your videos have brought a lot of comfort so thank you so much! ❤❤
Future counselor here! Diagnosis is such a complex subject, and I appreciate your candor on what a diagnosis means for you. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 32 years old, and having access to a new explanation for my struggles helped me set foot on the path to unwinding all the other reasons I had come up with or been told for why I was struggling. (E.g., laziness, poor work ethic, quits easily) Your reason for diagnosis rings so true for me too! Women in our society are cultured to look outward for cues about our identity, and this diagnosis sounds like it will help you starting developing some self-trust and comfort with turning inward to understand who you are. I’m so excited for your journey of unlearning and relearning and shedding and believing and confidence! Keep up the good work!!! 🎉
1. Yes we are interested in the time travelling mic cover 2. The diagnosis matters because it matters to you and it's an important step in accepting yourself (going through the same process myself), and we already love you for who you are
I fully understand the safety Jo-Ann’s provides. I met a fabulous little ol lady named Carol who only crochets Christmas stuff and I see her every other week now and we call her Christmas Carol. I will dodge any person/conversation in public due to anxiety. But not Christmas Carol. I can talk to her all day! 😊
After over ten years 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with POTS. I cried when I got my diagnosis just from feeling validated. The night before, I bawled because I just didn't want to feel crazy. Thank you so much for these videos I relate so much to you.❤ I always talked too much for literally everyone. Here I am doing it again 😅😅
Oh man! These things do so matter! I’m 53 and I got diagnosed last year with adhd and let me tell you…it was like a boulder of shame was lifted right off of my shoulders! I salute your search!! And you’re so right when you say that a diagnosis doesn’t change anything outwardly at least. But inside…it turns the lights on!
Elyse, I’ve been hyper fixating on sewing for coming up to A YEAR. It’s so fun and relaxing and the best of a million hobbies I’ve picked up! You should try sewing next!!
I absolutely understand the desire to be officially diagnosed. It may not change anything, but you'll have a name for what makes you who you are. Also, I totally care about the mic cover.
Hi Elyse! I'm 35 and just got my official autism diagnosis. I literally went through the exact same thing - I've been self - diagnosed for a few years now, and I knew in my gut that it was valid, but I still felt this weird imposter syndrome about it. Everything you said about invalidation and feeling "bad" or "selfish" is EXACTLY my background - and honestly this journey has helped me start to heal a lot of that pain that my younger self went through. Every autistic person has their own journey - you have your reason for a formal diagnosis, and many people have their reasons for a self diagnosis. It's all valid - and it's about discovering a core part of ourselves and healing that pain, and learning to love and validate yourself.
I’m so proud of you going through the diagnosis process. It’s so slow and hard going as it all feels negative. My daughter is on the same journey at 24, her brother was diagnosed at 4. I know that I watch you as I love the any your brain works, I love the ping pong nature of the conversation and the random tangents you go off to. Our family is our biggest joy because of Autism. Getting the diagnosis is important for your own peace of mind, if nothing else. As a proud Autism Mumma Bear feel free to contact me any time if you have any questions or concerns xxxxx
Thank you Elyse. We so appreciate your open and honest nature, you make us feel validated and understood. I’m on the waitlist to be assessed and it’s loooong. I put my name down when my son was diagnosed at 18mo and still waiting for my turn and he’s 4yo now! ❤
And Then There Were None is one of my all time favorite books, and favorite Agatha Christie! I remember you losing the mic cover, so glad to see the conclusion! Also not sure if there are any accessible near you, but I highly recommend finding a local yarn store if there are any nearby. More expensive than big box yarn, but always nice to support local and get high quality yarn. And highly recommend crocheting coasters as an easy take-along project! They're so quick and satisfying and a great way to try out new stitches, use up scraps of yarn, great for gifts...
Elyse your feelings are valid. You are perfect. Reasons for who we are, are important. I adore your personality and think you are phenomenally hilarious!!! I wish we knew each other irl. But then you’d be completely annoyed by me. Lol!!! Bless you sweet girl on this journey you are on.
Sending you sooo much love!!! Needing validation is valid, even if it feels confusing or ironic when it’s part of your journey towards feeling safe in validating yourself. Completely relatable. 💜
I never comment on anything or have any presence online BUT I had to thank you for always being so genuine, talking about the diagnosis really hit for me. I’ve felt dismissed my whole life especially regarding my health and now I’m approaching my 30’s still with no support, now more than ever I want answers about my health. It’s an incredibly difficult uphill battle but we deserve to know ourselves! You’re so strong and admirable and I adore your videos, you bring me so much comfort and joy and make me feel seen/ valid. I automatically blame myself when it comes to all my struggles, weirdly seeing someone so lovely struggle in similar ways makes me see that it’s not limited to myself, or all my fault and for no good reason, I should rather be kinder and easier on myself. Thank you for being you!
I like real books, too. I love the lesbian bacon blanket!!!! edit:: 😮😮😮😮😮 that microphone cover, though. I thought stuff like that only happened to me😮😮😮😮😮
I was very similar to you about books, my wife bought me a kindle and I have never looked back. It’s amazing, every book at my disposal and I don’t have to carry them or try and squeeze them into my bag or suitcase x
I am autistic and assess people. Glad you know. I hate "diagnosing" strangers in my mind but I have been like... "does she know?" Like every time I watch your content. I believe you
Elyse, your brain and how you function is so beautifully intelligent. You are authentically you. I just turned 30 and I look to you for inspiration of being authentically myself. I loved every second of this video. Also, SO. WELL. EDITED. I’m so impressed!!
Ooooof... right there with you on the assessment. It's so much energy and effort to get it, so I keep putting it off, but I feel the same way - if a professional hasn't made it official, then am I just lying or making this up? It's frustrating to me that it's not enough for me to just know, even though I know it with all of my heart and soul, but yeah, I feel like if someone questions it, I'd be so stuck trying to defend myself and my own knowledge about myself, and being able to say a professional confirmed it makes that go away. Best of luck finishing the process and learning to believe yourself (with help)!
I am SO happy you were SO happy at Joann Fabrics! I completely understand that joy. I always say "there is always a sale at Joann Fabrics!". I live in a super rural area and super super sadly my Joann Fabrics closed and I miss walking around there so much.
As someone whose job is at desk in a waiting area people craft all the time in the waiting room. And getting a diagnosis helps, it validates the hard, it answers questions, it provides greater access. Diagnosis helps whether it be autism or strep throat; diagnosis helps
i wanna also say with neuropsych exams for things like this i definitely understand. i “have” to get them done every four years (it was relatively required in order to allow me to have accommodations for school) and every time i do it im like i know what the results are because they’ve been the same since i have four years old (im 23 now) but especially with something that you are sure you have there is a lot of validation with having it confirmed. it just makes it more real and it, at least for me, says that there is a reason i am the way i am and for me i like at least having a name for things to help me not feel like im going crazy bc ive been waved away when i brought up something i was experiencing that i knew was something and its hard to have that just instantly pushed aside. anyway all this to say it absolutely makes sense as to why it feels so important to have the evaluation done. it just puts more validation to what you’re experiencing (sorry for all the words 🙈)
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I have loved your content for a while, and am in awe of how open you are about your experiences. As a psychologist who evaluates for autism, I really appreciated hearing your side of the evaluation process. It can be a very validating, albeit scary and overwhelming, experience. You should be proud of yourself for taking this step!
The way you said you felt for so much of your life and the feeling dismissed is very much how I felt before my diagnosis. Even after my diagnosis I still experience those feelings at time but having it does make it a bit easier to combat those things and accept myself and feel validated/believed. Also, just wanted to say that I've been struggling with agoraphobia for the past few years and your videos have helped me push past it a lot. I recently got brave enough to spend a while in a bookshop and even, very awkwardly, purchase a new book. So thank you for your videos and everything you share Elyse.
Elyse as so many here: i‘ve been watching your videos for a while because they provide me a whole different level of comfort and safety💗 as a fellow late diagnosed adhder who suspects autism and has suffered for a long time without having words or explanations for what is going on: i wanted to thank you from my very heart for opening up about your autism suspicion/ diagnostic process, every single world about how you feel with regards to autism could have come from the bottom of my Soul!! You put how i feel in words perfectly. It is just gold to feel validated this way, and i sincerely want to thank you for putting yourself out there and blessing us with such honest and comforting videos! I find this inspiring. Stay true to yourself, we really need more people like you💗❤️
7:09 spoke to my SOUL. The untangling of the yarn literally makes me want to quit altogether most of the time 🤣 it’s like the lost time in a project you just don’t account for ♥️😩
Especially when you really don’t have a whole lot of free time but want to get as much out of it as you can…and then you spend 80% of that free time untangling yarn hahaha it’s like NO PLEASE NO
You have totally inspired me! My aunt's 60th birthday is next month, and I now what I'm making for her. She crocheted a rainbow baby blanket for me, now I can return the gesture 😊 Can't wait to see how yours turns out!
I love this so much!! I hope you have fun! It’s a really simple blanket once you get the foundation chain done! A great project to work on while watching a show!
I love your vlogs so much. They bring me so much comfort. I’m really struggling with agoraphobia right now and it makes me feel less alone. Hope you’re well Elyse!
I love untangling yarn! I find the process relaxing, and then when it's all wrapped into neat ball(s) I get this big dopamine hit! It's one of my favorite ways to completely waste time! 😆
Oh goodness I’ve missed you. Crochet and reading is life! I’m LOVING this! My BFF passed away sadly of cancer way too young and before she passed she said, Jess, if I get better I am just going to craft, read, and craft some more. So you’re doing a great job. If you needed to hear that. Also why is it so hard to get diagnosed!? Congrats for advocating for yourself! Proud of YOU!
I relate to you SO MUCH. Diagnosed with Autism and ADHD this last January. I felt the same way as you do before mine was done. I needed an official diagnosis for myself too for the same reasons as you. It has been really good for me to be able to process my official diagnosis and it feels validating to know why I am this way. I have slowly been working on figuring out my signs of a meltdown or shutdown, and have been working on adjusting things to take care of my needs more. It's so hard though. A looong process for me. Anyway, I just wanted to say I see you and I relate SO MUCH.
Wishing you all the best energy for the diagnosis and I hope it brings all the validation you have deserved to have all along ❤ If it doesn’t, I believe you and I believe you know yourself better than a professional ever could.
I have completely loved you since I first watched you about 6 months ago. AND there is nothing you need to change about out. You are real and genuine and are who you are because of the disabilities you may or may not have. A “diagnosis” doesn’t matter but some people don’t believe anyone unless it’s by a “professional”. So stay true and “Never”change, because those characteristics is what make you so LOVABLE AND TRUE! I don’t think you could lie to save a life, it’d be written all over your face. lol ( just an expression)
You’re such a lovely human. I think we may be soul sister in some ways, a fellow quirky women doing her best until she knows better and then does better. Fabulously endearing! I wish I had your confidence! I value you as a tribe member!! Keep it real and stay grounded sis 🫶
Finding out and knowing for your own peace of mind is good. We had our son tested at age 13 and it took about 6 months for a diagnosis. He isn't on the spectrum but a few clicks below... so you know, quirky :) He does have pretty severe OCD now as an adult. He's brilliant, shy and uber-sweet. And I love him just as he is.
Oh my gosh…I completely adore your personality!! I need your kind of energy in my world daily!! Thank you for being you! Oh..about the mic cover…this EXACT THING happened to me but on the floorboard of my car….and it was a pull tab of a can drink. That sucker showed up exactly where I had assumed it would be(after quite literally watching it drop)..but TWO+weeks later!! So thank you for with you showing this experience has helped ease my mind that it happens to others too! Well..that others notice too…it happens all the time to everyone I believe!!
I was diagnosed about a year ago and I felt the same way. I always felt like I didn't fit, or that I was weird and wrong. While being diagnosed didn't change anything big in my life, it made me feel better about me. My parents and siblings always just told me I was dramatic growing up, now I know that I wasn't. I was struggling and surviving in a world not built for me.
You are so creative and talented and funny and beautiful. I enjoy watching everything you do, especially the singing. And ya, maybe on the spectrum, too-- and all that that involves goes into making you just the most perfect you ever!
A Mr.Kate wallpaper would look really good behind your yelow couch! I'm really glad the mic cover was returned from another dimension. My thought is that it got jammed up into your chair wheel and just barely popped out.
My diagnosis changed my life. It validated so much. I finally UNDERSTAND. I took my first dose of medication yesterday morning. I cried because, for the first time in my entire life, there's peace in my head. I'm 38, and I can finally tell the nasty voice in my head to take a damn seat.
If you learn anything from the diagnosis process, know that you are not alone in all the things you mentioned about growing up and how other percieved you. My son has experience those same types of things and also thought of himself as broken. In no way are either of you broken. Neurodiverse people are amazing and so often very creative, intelligent, sensitive, persistent and deep thinkers. As a mom of someone similar to you, I can appreciate you and your stuggles. Please know, you are doing an amazing job as a human!
I love that you are getting your evaluation. It can just be a personal validation. That way you know that all of your struggles weren't just your imagination. The Real housewives intro was hilarious. The microphone cover did leave through a portal. I have dripping things and they just disappeared, vanished into thin air. It feels really weird when they just magically appear at a future point in time.
As a woman with autism, I feel that same sense of guilt and embarressment about myself. But to know that you have the same diagnosis as me, and have this following on the internet because you are so likable, actually gives me hope that the world, at some point, could like me too ❤️ thank you for that!
OMG!! I had that phone!!! Found it at a garage sale and I thought I was SO cool!!! It ABSOLUTELY matters!!! My daughter was officially diagnosed at 18. And she said she felt SO SEEN!!! She felt understood and she felt relieved. She is high-functioning autistic and has a rare math learning disability - these are both hard to diagnose, we were told. She did not present as a “typical” child with autism. Everything we talked to her pediatrician, teachers & therapist about was just swept away and explained away. It wasn’t until we found her most recent counselor who LISTENED and knew where to direct us. Good luck Elyse ❤
Totally agree about actual books vs kindle! I have to read physical books.. its just not the same! Also love that you are listening to Agatha Christie audio books, she is my favourite author 💜
Thank you for articulating the complexity of autism diagnosis and the importance of wanting a formal diagnosis. I have been struggling to feel content with self diagnosis as well bc of the same reason of feeling like people think I’m lying too.
My grandma made donations blankets from left over wool. Just all lines and a new border to make it bigger at the end. Alle the leftovers got used and than loved by some who needed it. If you want to take some with you make little squares of the leftovers and at home make a donation blanket. So its small to take along with you. Have been in a diagnose traject myself and its deep but all kinds of puzzle pieces fall into place.
I had one of those Swatch clear landline phone phones in my room when I was a teenager. Mine was a neon yellow green clear though with purple accents. I loved that thing.
I struggle with wanting desperately to be known but feeling terrified at the idea of being perceived. It makes no sense and I hate it. I really admire your ability to put yourself out there to be seen and heard.
It's so nice to hear from someone else like me who has assumed they have autism for so many years, but it is also incredibly anxious to say anything about it because how the medical community views self-diagnois. I would love to be evaluated by a psychologist I trust one day in regards to it, but as you said, it doesn't change who I am (but it does) Sending love from a fellow boy mom ❤
My daughter is autistic and finding out her autism has made me realize that I am autistic as well. We’ve had all the tests done and genetics done. I see my younger self in her eyes so I can totally understand her. The waitlists are so long for getting the diagnosis and we were almost there when the world shut down in 2020. It took a long time after that.
Elyse, I spent 25 years working in pediatrics a child development specialist. I also served as the director of child psychology for a hospital system. One professional on our team was a neuropsychologist. I identified children we suspected are on the spectrum. She evaluated and diagnosed. I can’t tell you how much this video tore at my heart. You deserve an answer. It’s actually that you deserve validation for what you already know in your heart is the answer. My thoughts are with you. ❤
Elyse, i love how genuine you are. You remind me of a golden retriever with anxiety. That is a strange compliment but i think youre just so lovable and pure friend material.
I receive this compliment with so much pride. I’ve been called an anxious golden retriever before and it made my heart happy in an unexplainable way. Thank you for this!
reading this as my golden retriever has her head turned 180° so she can keep an eye on my every movement 😂
I'm reading with my anxious Jack Russell staring at me.😉 I was having a conversation about my do with someone once and the conversation shifted to my friend saying, "You know, I do think there is something to that old adage that dogs resemble their owners..." I have to admit I felt slightly upset as we had just been discussing how nervous, anxious, and pesty my dog can be....
And here I went full on Swiftie with the Golden Retriever comment!
I thought retrievers were prone to anxiety. Looked it up they were ranked third. 😅😂
The diagnosis matters to childhood Elyse. Consider it a gift to child Elyse, the one who struggled to get here and now finally has answers. -someone diagnosed late teens
Well said. It helps the process of transitioning from negative labels you’ve internalized, to giving yourself grace for things that were not in your control.
Ooh I LOVE this. I wondered why it mattered to me and this makes total sense.
I actually DO care about the mic cover. I love crazy things like that! Glad it teleported back to you!
100%!!
I watched the video where it was lost recently enough to remember it. I was so happy she found it! 😂
Yes, I DO care too! That mic cover reappearing has ‘glitch in the matrix’ written all over it. But I remember when it vanished and I feel better with this closure.
Same. I have two favorite clothing items, actually three (one is my sons’s) that just went *poof*. Literally it’s a mystery and I’d cry with happiness if they popped up again from their black hole.
That’s some borrowers level shit right there
I felt exactly the same way about getting diagnosed. My AuDHD diagnosis was completely life changing. My life makes so much more sense now, and my soul is more calm than it ever has been because I feel understood and validated. I was incredibly fortunate to be able to go through the diagnosis process, not everyone has that option. I will never take it for granted, and I'm happy you are able to have that experience too. ❤
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Exactly this! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Got my diagnosis at 26, 6 years later and i am still figuring out who i am but i like who that is for the first time in my life!
My parents & pediatrician hid my Asperger's diagnosis (for my protection) until I was 25 and the laws/public attitudes changed. The diagnosis has been challenged by other medical professionals, b/c of old knowledge and Im still trying to get assessed as an adult. However, when my dr told me "You have Asperger's", I felt such relief. Realizing Im not just annoying or wrong, has allowed me to start figuring out who I am and love myself. I'm 15 years along and still learning about my brain, and while there is still so much trauma to work through, my default is now validation instead of gaslighting myself that I must just be acting up/misbehaving/weaponizing my needs for attention. For some people, self diagnosis isn't enough, and that is ok. That need speaks more to how we have been treated in our lives, instead of something inherently lacking in ourselves. 😂😊
Good for you for recognizing your need and pursuing the offical diagnosis 🎉
@@waitingandlearning it makes me so happy that you are figuring yourself out and loving yourself! Thanks for the support...and I am sending so much support back your way!
The real housewife of Omaha intro made me laugh so much... "there's nothing mid about me" 😂😂😂☠️
Also, congrats on the somewhat new self awareness to being neurodivergent and continuing to learn more about that part of yourself. You figured it out all on your own! 🎉
I myself am struggling with self-identifying as autistic without having "proof" - this is part of the reason that I am seeking a formal diagnosis as well. There's so many complex and complicated feelings that come with late life diagnosis - I actually counsel people to support them through this process. Just wanted to share you're not alone in those feelings! Sending lots of love. ❤
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That’s when you read on your Kindle and then buy the physical book as a trophy when you finish the book! Best of both worlds!! ✨
Yes! I do another version of this: the kindle books that REALLY stole my heart I go and buy the paperback version of it secondhand. This way I can have it in my bookshelf but not spend double the money for one book 😊
Thank you, Elyse for including the bit about your diagnosis process. I have been going back and forth with wether or not I “need” it and you explaining how dismissed and invalidated you have been made to feel and how you have been made to feel “annoying” “particular” “a bad friend”, etc, made me have such an emotional reaction due to the similarities.
Your videos bring such joy to me. Your journey and experiences are so valuable, unique, and important. Thank you for sharing ❤
The Borrowers finally acknowlwdged your suffering and brought the mic cover back. What a reason to celebrate!
Borrowers was my thought too♡ Those cheeky scamps.
Getting a diagnosis can be so important to just feel okay with yourself. The understanding and knowing you aren’t broken is incredibly important and valuable. That is one of the biggest reasons that I got a diagnosis. Plus it will help if you ever need accommodations. Also if any of your kids get assessed it can be helpful knowing you are too. Plus Joann is always the safe store for me too. 😊 💖
This! 🎉 When I got my son assessed it was the first time I was told that many of the diagnosis are inherited. I come from a family that just didn’t get psych health treatments in the past.
When you held the bear speaker close to you....I felt that in my soul. I don't like loud sounds most of the time but I LOVE feeling the sound. And I loved seeing the joy on your face when you held it close to you! 😊
I'm in the outer right now and keep thinking...where does the bear come in from the title? Your comment made me realize it was the speaker 😂
I saw that microphone cover fall and disappear too! You are NOT CRAZY! You are wonderful and amazing!
Praying for your courage to complete the diagnosis journey. Do it for you! Believing and accepting yourself. We believe and accept you
Elyse, I got diagnosed with autism at 31. It’s simultaneously relieving while also being something I deeply grieve. I grieve the criticism and pain I brought upon myself for not being able to “do life” as well as everybody else.
But a relief in the sense that I truly do just process things differently than other people. So I’m not too “bitchy” for preferring quiet, too selfish for preferring certain clothes or foods, too standoffish for wanting alone time. I was diagnosed in march and am still grieving and rejoicing. Enjoy the ride. ❤️
In which parts of life aren’t you able to do? Do you feel that an autistic diagnosis makes you part of the disable communication? True question
This is how i feel with my ADHD diagnosis. Grief and relief. I cried out of both. The first because life was so much harder for me, and it didn't have to be (I got diagnosed at 35). The second because at least now I have support and understanding and more coping strategies. ❤
I’m going through the process at 31!! Just waiting to hear back about my evaluation.
labels that important these days?
Being rude seems to be important to you. I’d worry about that instead.
I got diagnosed with ADHD a couple months back (at the age of 30) and I would love to encourage you that it is actually so freeing ✨it might feel silly to want a diagnosis so bad, and that it won’t change anything but for me it really did! It was so validating and relieving. It gave me permission to be who I am and also a better understanding of who I’ve always been. On the surface it may just feel like a label, but for me it put so many things into place that haven’t made sense my ENTIRE life. I always thought I was lazy or dumb or something but now I know I just really really really struggle with executive functioning and I’ve been able to implement so many tools to help me operate at a “normal” baseline. So proud of you for seeking out that information even though it can be scary/embarrassing/feel imposter-syndrome-y!!! 🧡
I was diagnosed autistic and ADHD at 32 years old and getting that evaluation was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I hope the same for you! ❤
The validation of the diagnosis is worth the trouble. I love that things return, even interdementionally. 😮
I am a late diagnosed autistic woman. Unfortunately even with an official dx many people will not believe you and all those bad broken feelings about yourself don't just disappear. You may even face increased discrimination and bullying for becoming official and coming out with your ASD. Be very careful who you share this with and prepare for grieving time after your dx. Still worth finding out for your own piece of mind. Good luck!
It's so true that the craft store is the safest place. You can find me at hobby lobby during their 30% off yarn weeks frolicking through the aisles and telling myself I don't actually need to take it home and add to my yarn stash.
I very recently got a diagnosis of ADHD. I went in looking to get a diagnosis for my dyslexia and was hoping they would find autism because i was so sure i had it. When I was told I had ADHD (among other things) and not autism I was so surprised. it never crossed my mind that it could be ADHD that caused my crippling anxiety and low self esteem. I’m so glad I did it for so many reasons. It felt so nice to see how my brain worked on paper. It was very validating and worth the year long wait for my appointment.
Diagnosed ADHD at 51, and can share 2 things I've learned that help explain the low self-esteem. First, Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which makes us perceive criticism even when there is none, or amplify mild criticism in our minds. But secondly, they estimate that kids with ADHD have received 20 000 more negative comments by age 12, as compared to typically developing kids. I mean, that low self-esteem seems pretty logical then, doesn't it? (But hopefully not irreversible once you know and can work to counteract)
The "extra yarn" myth is like the old hot dog and bun issue, where they would sell you 8 hot dogs and 10 buns.
PS every time you post an awesome crochet vlog, that particular Joann's runs out of those colors right after! I made my mom a pillow using the daisy square tutorial, and almost couldn't get the same colors because that's the store I shop at. Guess I'll have to start going to the one across town lol.
Omg I had no clue I affected the color options that much! I think the same thing happened with a jalapeño Mac n’ cheese I mentioned on my stories a while back. I couldn’t find it anywhere after I talked about it 😂😂
Neither CouldI"We" 😂 ❤hahaha@@elyse_myers
I was over the moon when I saw a new video from you- coming off anxiety meds after about 5 years so having a rough couple days. Your videos have brought a lot of comfort so thank you so much! ❤❤
Also as a late-diagnosed ADHDer, I know diagnosis is SO affirming for a lot of people- the neurospicy community gets you my love!❤
Omg I’m in the same boat this week 😭😮💨
@@carriecook8600 it’s rough so rooting for you too! Just went to see Inside Out 2 as well and that was hard minus meds lmao
Future counselor here! Diagnosis is such a complex subject, and I appreciate your candor on what a diagnosis means for you. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 32 years old, and having access to a new explanation for my struggles helped me set foot on the path to unwinding all the other reasons I had come up with or been told for why I was struggling. (E.g., laziness, poor work ethic, quits easily) Your reason for diagnosis rings so true for me too! Women in our society are cultured to look outward for cues about our identity, and this diagnosis sounds like it will help you starting developing some self-trust and comfort with turning inward to understand who you are. I’m so excited for your journey of unlearning and relearning and shedding and believing and confidence! Keep up the good work!!! 🎉
Granny squares make for fantastic mobile crochet projects!
“I don’t think there’s anyplace I feel safer than at JoAnne’s Fabric”should definitely be their new tagline
1. Yes we are interested in the time travelling mic cover
2. The diagnosis matters because it matters to you and it's an important step in accepting yourself (going through the same process myself), and we already love you for who you are
Being portable is the greatest part of knitting socks!
I made a lot of knit or crochet stuffies (animals, veggies, whatever) as gifts over the years, as those are also v portable projects!
I fully understand the safety Jo-Ann’s provides. I met a fabulous little ol lady named Carol who only crochets Christmas stuff and I see her every other week now and we call her Christmas Carol. I will dodge any person/conversation in public due to anxiety. But not Christmas Carol. I can talk to her all day! 😊
After over ten years 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with POTS. I cried when I got my diagnosis just from feeling validated. The night before, I bawled because I just didn't want to feel crazy.
Thank you so much for these videos I relate so much to you.❤ I always talked too much for literally everyone. Here I am doing it again 😅😅
Oh man! These things do so matter! I’m 53 and I got diagnosed last year with adhd and let me tell you…it was like a boulder of shame was lifted right off of my shoulders! I salute your search!! And you’re so right when you say that a diagnosis doesn’t change anything outwardly at least. But inside…it turns the lights on!
Thank you for sharing. Your humor and whimsy brighten my day. 🥰
Elyse, I’ve been hyper fixating on sewing for coming up to A YEAR. It’s so fun and relaxing and the best of a million hobbies I’ve picked up! You should try sewing next!!
Just realized that craft stores is one of the few places I feel that way, too! Same with Women's Bookstores, my safe space in college! 😍
I absolutely understand the desire to be officially diagnosed. It may not change anything, but you'll have a name for what makes you who you are.
Also, I totally care about the mic cover.
Hi Elyse! I'm 35 and just got my official autism diagnosis. I literally went through the exact same thing - I've been self - diagnosed for a few years now, and I knew in my gut that it was valid, but I still felt this weird imposter syndrome about it. Everything you said about invalidation and feeling "bad" or "selfish" is EXACTLY my background - and honestly this journey has helped me start to heal a lot of that pain that my younger self went through. Every autistic person has their own journey - you have your reason for a formal diagnosis, and many people have their reasons for a self diagnosis. It's all valid - and it's about discovering a core part of ourselves and healing that pain, and learning to love and validate yourself.
🤣 Your crafting commentary is spot on!
You are precious! Thank you for giving of yourself!
I’m so proud of you going through the diagnosis process. It’s so slow and hard going as it all feels negative. My daughter is on the same journey at 24, her brother was diagnosed at 4. I know that I watch you as I love the any your brain works, I love the ping pong nature of the conversation and the random tangents you go off to. Our family is our biggest joy because of Autism. Getting the diagnosis is important for your own peace of mind, if nothing else. As a proud Autism Mumma Bear feel free to contact me any time if you have any questions or concerns xxxxx
Elyse, you are a TREASURE. Thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you so much 🥹🥹
Thank you Elyse. We so appreciate your open and honest nature, you make us feel validated and understood. I’m on the waitlist to be assessed and it’s loooong. I put my name down when my son was diagnosed at 18mo and still waiting for my turn and he’s 4yo now! ❤
And Then There Were None is one of my all time favorite books, and favorite Agatha Christie!
I remember you losing the mic cover, so glad to see the conclusion!
Also not sure if there are any accessible near you, but I highly recommend finding a local yarn store if there are any nearby. More expensive than big box yarn, but always nice to support local and get high quality yarn.
And highly recommend crocheting coasters as an easy take-along project! They're so quick and satisfying and a great way to try out new stitches, use up scraps of yarn, great for gifts...
I love that Elise I just left Joann fabrics energy!!!!! I love that kind of joy and happiness for you!!
Omg the feeling of lying hit so close to home. Best of luck on your journey , you are loved. Stay well.
Elyse your feelings are valid. You are perfect. Reasons for who we are, are important. I adore your personality and think you are phenomenally hilarious!!! I wish we knew each other irl. But then you’d be completely annoyed by me. Lol!!! Bless you sweet girl on this journey you are on.
I just choked on my coffee when you said “oh, it’s like a rainbow!……” lol
this blanket was born with a destiny and there is no re-routing it, no matter how many colors I swap out 😂
Sending you sooo much love!!! Needing validation is valid, even if it feels confusing or ironic when it’s part of your journey towards feeling safe in validating yourself. Completely relatable. 💜
I never comment on anything or have any presence online BUT I had to thank you for always being so genuine, talking about the diagnosis really hit for me. I’ve felt dismissed my whole life especially regarding my health and now I’m approaching my 30’s still with no support, now more than ever I want answers about my health. It’s an incredibly difficult uphill battle but we deserve to know ourselves! You’re so strong and admirable and I adore your videos, you bring me so much comfort and joy and make me feel seen/ valid. I automatically blame myself when it comes to all my struggles, weirdly seeing someone so lovely struggle in similar ways makes me see that it’s not limited to myself, or all my fault and for no good reason, I should rather be kinder and easier on myself. Thank you for being you!
I like real books, too.
I love the lesbian bacon blanket!!!!
edit:: 😮😮😮😮😮 that microphone cover, though. I thought stuff like that only happened to me😮😮😮😮😮
I just want to give you a giant hug!! I'm so much like you and I feel everything you say!! OMG!!
I love you no matter what the diagnosis is! You always make me smile!! ❤
I was very similar to you about books, my wife bought me a kindle and I have never looked back. It’s amazing, every book at my disposal and I don’t have to carry them or try and squeeze them into my bag or suitcase x
I am autistic and assess people. Glad you know. I hate "diagnosing" strangers in my mind but I have been like... "does she know?" Like every time I watch your content. I believe you
Elyse, your brain and how you function is so beautifully intelligent. You are authentically you. I just turned 30 and I look to you for inspiration of being authentically myself. I loved every second of this video. Also, SO. WELL. EDITED. I’m so impressed!!
Ooooof... right there with you on the assessment. It's so much energy and effort to get it, so I keep putting it off, but I feel the same way - if a professional hasn't made it official, then am I just lying or making this up? It's frustrating to me that it's not enough for me to just know, even though I know it with all of my heart and soul, but yeah, I feel like if someone questions it, I'd be so stuck trying to defend myself and my own knowledge about myself, and being able to say a professional confirmed it makes that go away. Best of luck finishing the process and learning to believe yourself (with help)!
I am SO happy you were SO happy at Joann Fabrics! I completely understand that joy. I always say "there is always a sale at Joann Fabrics!". I live in a super rural area and super super sadly my Joann Fabrics closed and I miss walking around there so much.
As someone whose job is at desk in a waiting area people craft all the time in the waiting room. And getting a diagnosis helps, it validates the hard, it answers questions, it provides greater access. Diagnosis helps whether it be autism or strep throat; diagnosis helps
i wanna also say with neuropsych exams for things like this i definitely understand. i “have” to get them done every four years (it was relatively required in order to allow me to have accommodations for school) and every time i do it im like i know what the results are because they’ve been the same since i have four years old (im 23 now) but especially with something that you are sure you have there is a lot of validation with having it confirmed. it just makes it more real and it, at least for me, says that there is a reason i am the way i am and for me i like at least having a name for things to help me not feel like im going crazy bc ive been waved away when i brought up something i was experiencing that i knew was something and its hard to have that just instantly pushed aside. anyway all this to say it absolutely makes sense as to why it feels so important to have the evaluation done. it just puts more validation to what you’re experiencing (sorry for all the words 🙈)
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I have loved your content for a while, and am in awe of how open you are about your experiences. As a psychologist who evaluates for autism, I really appreciated hearing your side of the evaluation process. It can be a very validating, albeit scary and overwhelming, experience. You should be proud of yourself for taking this step!
The way you said you felt for so much of your life and the feeling dismissed is very much how I felt before my diagnosis. Even after my diagnosis I still experience those feelings at time but having it does make it a bit easier to combat those things and accept myself and feel validated/believed. Also, just wanted to say that I've been struggling with agoraphobia for the past few years and your videos have helped me push past it a lot. I recently got brave enough to spend a while in a bookshop and even, very awkwardly, purchase a new book. So thank you for your videos and everything you share Elyse.
Im so glad youre seeking a diagnosis, i think getting the correct types of support will REALLY help you. Also DUDE the mic pop filter!!!! What a win
Elyse as so many here: i‘ve been watching your videos for a while because they provide me a whole different level of comfort and safety💗 as a fellow late diagnosed adhder who suspects autism and has suffered for a long time without having words or explanations for what is going on: i wanted to thank you from my very heart for opening up about your autism suspicion/ diagnostic process, every single world about how you feel with regards to autism could have come from the bottom of my Soul!! You put how i feel in words perfectly. It is just gold to feel validated this way, and i sincerely want to thank you for putting yourself out there and blessing us with such honest and comforting videos! I find this inspiring. Stay true to yourself, we really need more people like you💗❤️
I totally understand what you mean about wanting the diagnosis. It makes a huge difference!
7:09 spoke to my SOUL. The untangling of the yarn literally makes me want to quit altogether most of the time 🤣 it’s like the lost time in a project you just don’t account for ♥️😩
Especially when you really don’t have a whole lot of free time but want to get as much out of it as you can…and then you spend 80% of that free time untangling yarn hahaha it’s like NO PLEASE NO
You have totally inspired me! My aunt's 60th birthday is next month, and I now what I'm making for her. She crocheted a rainbow baby blanket for me, now I can return the gesture 😊
Can't wait to see how yours turns out!
I love this so much!! I hope you have fun! It’s a really simple blanket once you get the foundation chain done! A great project to work on while watching a show!
@@elyse_myers The pattern definitely looks doable. I just have to stay motivated 😅
I just love how you’re driving around with your coffee mug. I do the same.
I love your vlogs so much. They bring me so much comfort. I’m really struggling with agoraphobia right now and it makes me feel less alone. Hope you’re well Elyse!
I love untangling yarn! I find the process relaxing, and then when it's all wrapped into neat ball(s) I get this big dopamine hit! It's one of my favorite ways to completely waste time! 😆
Oh goodness I’ve missed you. Crochet and reading is life! I’m LOVING this! My BFF passed away sadly of cancer way too young and before she passed she said, Jess, if I get better I am just going to craft, read, and craft some more. So you’re doing a great job. If you needed to hear that. Also why is it so hard to get diagnosed!? Congrats for advocating for yourself! Proud of YOU!
I relate to you SO MUCH. Diagnosed with Autism and ADHD this last January. I felt the same way as you do before mine was done. I needed an official diagnosis for myself too for the same reasons as you.
It has been really good for me to be able to process my official diagnosis and it feels validating to know why I am this way. I have slowly been working on figuring out my signs of a meltdown or shutdown, and have been working on adjusting things to take care of my needs more. It's so hard though. A looong process for me.
Anyway, I just wanted to say I see you and I relate SO MUCH.
I love you momma. Diagnosis can be healing.
My mom always did carry around her crochet projects. She had a bag for it. Like a large purse specifically for her crochet project.
Wishing you all the best energy for the diagnosis and I hope it brings all the validation you have deserved to have all along ❤
If it doesn’t, I believe you and I believe you know yourself better than a professional ever could.
Girl your not annoying you seem very sweet and relatable ❤
I have completely loved you since I first watched you about 6 months ago. AND there is nothing you need to change about out. You are real and genuine and are who you are because of the disabilities you may or may not have. A “diagnosis” doesn’t matter but some people don’t believe anyone unless it’s by a “professional”. So stay true and “Never”change, because those characteristics is what make you so LOVABLE AND TRUE! I don’t think you could lie to save a life, it’d be written all over your face. lol ( just an expression)
You’re such a lovely human. I think we may be soul sister in some ways, a fellow quirky women doing her best until she knows better and then does better. Fabulously endearing! I wish I had your confidence! I value you as a tribe member!! Keep it real and stay grounded sis 🫶
I can't help but feel seen with that first minute of content. Absolute GOLD.
So proud of you and the journey you're on. And thank you for sharing parts of it 🤍
Finding out and knowing for your own peace of mind is good. We had our son tested at age 13 and it took about 6 months for a diagnosis. He isn't on the spectrum but a few clicks below... so you know, quirky :) He does have pretty severe OCD now as an adult. He's brilliant, shy and uber-sweet. And I love him just as he is.
Oh my gosh…I completely adore your personality!! I need your kind of energy in my world daily!! Thank you for being you! Oh..about the mic cover…this EXACT THING happened to me but on the floorboard of my car….and it was a pull tab of a can drink. That sucker showed up exactly where I had assumed it would be(after quite literally watching it drop)..but TWO+weeks later!! So thank you for with you showing this experience has helped ease my mind that it happens to others too! Well..that others notice too…it happens all the time to everyone I believe!!
I love the muted colors you chose for the blanket.
I was diagnosed about a year ago and I felt the same way. I always felt like I didn't fit, or that I was weird and wrong. While being diagnosed didn't change anything big in my life, it made me feel better about me. My parents and siblings always just told me I was dramatic growing up, now I know that I wasn't. I was struggling and surviving in a world not built for me.
You are so creative and talented and funny and beautiful. I enjoy watching everything you do, especially the singing. And ya, maybe on the spectrum, too-- and all that that involves goes into making you just the most perfect you ever!
A Mr.Kate wallpaper would look really good behind your yelow couch!
I'm really glad the mic cover was returned from another dimension. My thought is that it got jammed up into your chair wheel and just barely popped out.
My diagnosis changed my life. It validated so much. I finally UNDERSTAND. I took my first dose of medication yesterday morning. I cried because, for the first time in my entire life, there's peace in my head. I'm 38, and I can finally tell the nasty voice in my head to take a damn seat.
That housewives montage is one of the funniest things I've seen in a while! Love it!
If you learn anything from the diagnosis process, know that you are not alone in all the things you mentioned about growing up and how other percieved you. My son has experience those same types of things and also thought of himself as broken. In no way are either of you broken. Neurodiverse people are amazing and so often very creative, intelligent, sensitive, persistent and deep thinkers. As a mom of someone similar to you, I can appreciate you and your stuggles. Please know, you are doing an amazing job as a human!
Your hair is looking so daaaamn incredible! Loving it half up in particular!
I love that you are getting your evaluation. It can just be a personal validation. That way you know that all of your struggles weren't just your imagination. The Real housewives intro was hilarious. The microphone cover did leave through a portal. I have dripping things and they just disappeared, vanished into thin air. It feels really weird when they just magically appear at a future point in time.
As a woman with autism, I feel that same sense of guilt and embarressment about myself. But to know that you have the same diagnosis as me, and have this following on the internet because you are so likable, actually gives me hope that the world, at some point, could like me too ❤️ thank you for that!
OMG!! I had that phone!!! Found it at a garage sale and I thought I was SO cool!!!
It ABSOLUTELY matters!!! My daughter was officially diagnosed at 18. And she said she felt SO SEEN!!! She felt understood and she felt relieved. She is high-functioning autistic and has a rare math learning disability - these are both hard to diagnose, we were told. She did not present as a “typical” child with autism. Everything we talked to her pediatrician, teachers & therapist about was just swept away and explained away. It wasn’t until we found her most recent counselor who LISTENED and knew where to direct us.
Good luck Elyse ❤
Totally agree about actual books vs kindle! I have to read physical books.. its just not the same! Also love that you are listening to Agatha Christie audio books, she is my favourite author 💜
No wonder I like you so much! You've beautifully expressed why diagnosis matters. ❤
That audio book of And Then There Were None (narrated by Dan Stevens) is soooooo good!!!! I got chills at the end!
Thank you for articulating the complexity of autism diagnosis and the importance of wanting a formal diagnosis. I have been struggling to feel content with self diagnosis as well bc of the same reason of feeling like people think I’m lying too.
My grandma made donations blankets from left over wool. Just all lines and a new border to make it bigger at the end. Alle the leftovers got used and than loved by some who needed it.
If you want to take some with you make little squares of the leftovers and at home make a donation blanket. So its small to take along with you.
Have been in a diagnose traject myself and its deep but all kinds of puzzle pieces fall into place.
I had one of those Swatch clear landline phone phones in my room when I was a teenager. Mine was a neon yellow green clear though with purple accents. I loved that thing.
I struggle with wanting desperately to be known but feeling terrified at the idea of being perceived. It makes no sense and I hate it. I really admire your ability to put yourself out there to be seen and heard.
It's so nice to hear from someone else like me who has assumed they have autism for so many years, but it is also incredibly anxious to say anything about it because how the medical community views self-diagnois. I would love to be evaluated by a psychologist I trust one day in regards to it, but as you said, it doesn't change who I am (but it does) Sending love from a fellow boy mom ❤
I don't watch any RH/Bravo but that intro was hilarious! I hope you're able to get the confirmation you're looking for in your diagnosis ❤
My daughter is autistic and finding out her autism has made me realize that I am autistic as well. We’ve had all the tests done and genetics done. I see my younger self in her eyes so I can totally understand her. The waitlists are so long for getting the diagnosis and we were almost there when the world shut down in 2020. It took a long time after that.
Elyse, I spent 25 years working in pediatrics a child development specialist. I also served as the director of child psychology for a hospital system. One professional on our team was a neuropsychologist. I identified children we suspected are on the spectrum. She evaluated and diagnosed.
I can’t tell you how much this video tore at my heart. You deserve an answer. It’s actually that you deserve validation for what you already know in your heart is the answer. My thoughts are with you. ❤