She is absolutely right. If you go to the lounges, clubs and brunches you will see a multitude of middle-aged and older women competing with the younger women. These older women are dressing provocatively, getting surgeries and trying to get the small group of men that has many options.
I will be 42 this year and my hair has been going grey for 5 years. Almost EVERY famous dude I grew up watching STILL got jet black hair and beards. We need to embrace our AGE and STAGE✌🏿❤️
@@702softeyesno, I don’t feel you! Maturing level has nothing to do with determining whether you’re a man or woman. It’s your age that dictates that. Now a gentleman and a lady is a different level. Think about sports - HS and below are boys and girls; College and above are men and women’s.
So refreshing to see a respectable and feminine woman with a great perspective on the “real”. She’s so right, people are afraid to “age” this generation. Getting rid of shame and people living through a facade on social media has doomed our culture.
See, she gets it , I've made this statement , and these folks aint getting out of the way and kicking knowledge. The black community hasn't passed knowledge down in year's now the kids are raising themselves and it's not good. These old people trying to be cool and catch a wave all late in life go get a bag and get out the way!
I always like Older women's evening When I was a Teenager more Mature and Stability. 20 yrs later, I still feel the same way more mature and less drama
I knew it was Over when Essence Fest went from entertainment for mature, Educated sistahs with class and self respect to India.Arie questioning why Meg Thee Stallion was doing Hot Girl Summer bootcamp twerking for their target audience.
Can we please start talking to women like this more? Every show talks to ratchets now...I get that it's entertaining and gets views...this type video won't pull huge #s but it's the best quality one I've seen on the channel. Food for thought....
The WALL Is undefeated 😂😂😂. Younger women check for older men because older men have resources guys their age don’t. An older women who’s passed the WALL have nothing to offer but high mileage box and scrabble eggs. This is why it’s important for young women to find a husband early in life before the WALL.
Nobody wants the older model where the "check engine" light is on, and the odometer has flipped. Y'all can't "turn back the clock" and you refuse to age "gracefully." You traded your chance to land a "high value" man, and a comitted relationship for a high body count. You're DONE. You've "hit the wall." It's OVER. Quit trying to "reach back." Ain't nobody checking for y'all....
Where did they learn it from ???? Apple 🍎 don’t fall to far from tree 🌲 if you 52 out here competing and not married you are the problem lack of wisdom and being role model for them
@@michaelmayojr.2730What if your husband passed away. I am a young widow in my thirties. I pretty much feel like I need to look young for as long as possible because it might take me 5 to 10 years to feel ready to re-marry again. I anticipate being in my 40s and dating. I have to maintain my figure, eat healthy and ensure that I don't engage in too much stress in my life.
Nobody wanna look old lol...our mommas generation will be the last generation looking old on earth ....with the tech comming out Nobody gonna look old anymore not if you dont want too ....Rico! stop hating on older men...... I can't wait for you to turm 40 lmao you gonna be in the clubs.still trying to.be a pimp........when I was 21 I thought 30 was old now I'm 36 shocked at how much energy I have ....can't wait for rico to eat his words at 40 lmao 😂
Men don’t want to be young because young Men don’t have anything. In these discussions young guys don’t have the experience to understand the dynamics of aging. If he was correct older Men would be trying to compete in sport with young men as a whole. Older men get in their own leagues filled with older men, which isn’t the same for women openly dressing and trying to get the same Men as women in their prime. A man’s worth is cumulative!
The part you ignore is you either learn most women truly only want a small percentage of men or you are one. And at the same time most women never get that man. It leaves women disappointed, or yearning and men fighting to get to and stay at the top. It’s all driven by women, they drive the evolution of men. Trying to tell men to not try to acquire women and women to not want the biggest strongest most wealthy man is a fools errand. The conversation is about consequences of your action, and the reality of your place among your counterparts not shaming of the tactics or interest in what’s naturally gonna happen. It’s all the complaining, poor decisions, not dealing with reality that’s key. Fix your situation, have reasonable targets, and accept you are who you are.
I disagree I’m 41 had a bbl at 38 and breast reduction at 39 but I’m not doing to compete with 20 year olds my 40@s is for me my 3 kids are older my husband business is up, my career is good and we are doing the damn thing. I met my husband at 20, first kid at 25, married at 27 graduated from college at 28 2nd kid at 29, 3rd kid at 32, built my husband and my business, now at 40 I’ve did my part it’s my turn now, this ain’t got nothing to do with others. My whole life I catered to my husband and kids now it’s about me, that’s it!!!
So i have a question? Was he ok with your body before the Bbl? And if he was, why did you get one. Also and i mean no offense, but thos osnt about you at all. Its about the AVERAGE woman
She is absolutely right. If you go to the lounges, clubs and brunches you will see a multitude of middle-aged and older women competing with the younger women. These older women are dressing provocatively, getting surgeries and trying to get the small group of men that has many options.
And She will "Sponsor" You Gentlemen !
I will be 42 this year and my hair has been going grey for 5 years. Almost EVERY famous dude I grew up watching STILL got jet black hair and beards. We need to embrace our AGE and STAGE✌🏿❤️
They’re coloring their hair to hide the greys lol
Dammm bring her on the show a black women worth watching and cheering on.
It kills me when individuals say girls and boys when referring to adults. It’s men and women!
This conversation was needed. Keep this dialog moving
i get what you mean but just cuz you aged doesn't mean you've matured you feel me ?
@@702softeyesno, I don’t feel you! Maturing level has nothing to do with determining whether you’re a man or woman. It’s your age that dictates that. Now a gentleman and a lady is a different level. Think about sports - HS and below are boys and girls; College and above are men and women’s.
Women don't want to be called women because it makes them appear OLD. @theresonlyonejd
@@theresonlyonejd hey it's coo if you don't feel me, have a lovely day 🔆
Middle age people acting like they are still young is sad.........
Much respect to this lady!
No disrespect but I’m a 44yo man that will never dye my hair😂, I go swimming too much
So refreshing to see a respectable and feminine woman with a great perspective on the “real”.
She’s so right, people are afraid to “age” this generation. Getting rid of shame and people living through a facade on social media has doomed our culture.
This has been one of the better episode.
It's that 40 is the new 20 mindset that I remember hearing some years ago.
When people realize aging is a blessing they will embrace it more.
See, she gets it , I've made this statement , and these folks aint getting out of the way and kicking knowledge. The black community hasn't passed knowledge down in year's now the kids are raising themselves and it's not good. These old people trying to be cool and catch a wave all late in life go get a bag and get out the way!
I always like Older women's evening When I was a Teenager more Mature and Stability. 20 yrs later, I still feel the same way more mature and less drama
Love this! She giving game!
Much respect to this guest.
Protect this woman at all costs! These are the people that need platforms not these dizzy skeezers flooding youtube
Great discussion between God and a goddess. Finally a goddess who speaks the truth understands the reality of youth over maturity. Great discussion.
Yo in opinion you are dropping jewels. Please keep spreading the word
She is spot on
Im not competing. Either you like me, or you don't.
Include them 60 year old women too they be out here talking like their still marketable it's ridiculous
I love Ricco he’s a very intelligent young man ❤
They used want to be like Phylicia Rashad...now they settle for a Nicki Menaj
I knew it was Over when Essence Fest went from entertainment for mature, Educated sistahs with class and self respect to India.Arie questioning why Meg Thee Stallion was doing Hot Girl Summer bootcamp twerking for their target audience.
Shout out to Crystal XO. She a real one
The best show
“O.F.N.R” …🤦🏾♂️
Acting like at the end of this video BW didn’t lead the Me Too movement being mammies for their white counterparts is crazy.
Can we please start talking to women like this more? Every show talks to ratchets now...I get that it's entertaining and gets views...this type video won't pull huge #s but it's the best quality one I've seen on the channel. Food for thought....
The ratchets gotta be put back in their place as the lesser among us.
The WALL Is undefeated 😂😂😂. Younger women check for older men because older men have resources guys their age don’t. An older women who’s passed the WALL have nothing to offer but high mileage box and scrabble eggs. This is why it’s important for young women to find a husband early in life before the WALL.
AND THIS ID WHY I DON’T DATE BLACK WOMEN ANYMORE!!! Thank you Mam
Nobody wants the older model where the "check engine" light is on, and the odometer has flipped. Y'all can't "turn back the clock" and you refuse to age "gracefully." You traded your chance to land a "high value" man, and a comitted relationship for a high body count. You're DONE. You've "hit the wall." It's OVER. Quit trying to "reach back." Ain't nobody checking for y'all....
Not all of 52 year old are trying to to be young we just take care of ourselves. Also these young ladies have no morals
Where did they learn it from ???? Apple 🍎 don’t fall to far from tree 🌲 if you 52 out here competing and not married you are the problem lack of wisdom and being role model for them
@@michaelmayojr.2730😂
@@michaelmayojr.2730What if your husband passed away. I am a young widow in my thirties. I pretty much feel like I need to look young for as long as possible because it might take me 5 to 10 years to feel ready to re-marry again. I anticipate being in my 40s and dating. I have to maintain my figure, eat healthy and ensure that I don't engage in too much stress in my life.
Nobody wanna look old lol...our mommas generation will be the last generation looking old on earth ....with the tech comming out Nobody gonna look old anymore not if you dont want too ....Rico! stop hating on older men...... I can't wait for you to turm 40 lmao you gonna be in the clubs.still trying to.be a pimp........when I was 21 I thought 30 was old now I'm 36 shocked at how much energy I have ....can't wait for rico to eat his words at 40 lmao 😂
unless youre married with kids, you'll be the same at 50. You either look good or u don't regardless of age
Men don’t want to be young because young Men don’t have anything. In these discussions young guys don’t have the experience to understand the dynamics of aging. If he was correct older Men would be trying to compete in sport with young men as a whole. Older men get in their own leagues filled with older men, which isn’t the same for women openly dressing and trying to get the same Men as women in their prime. A man’s worth is cumulative!
This dude lacks wisdom. Old men have bank so they dont need to be young. Money seems to make a man more attractive to women.
The part you ignore is you either learn most women truly only want a small percentage of men or you are one. And at the same time most women never get that man. It leaves women disappointed, or yearning and men fighting to get to and stay at the top.
It’s all driven by women, they drive the evolution of men. Trying to tell men to not try to acquire women and women to not want the biggest strongest most wealthy man is a fools errand.
The conversation is about consequences of your action, and the reality of your place among your counterparts not shaming of the tactics or interest in what’s naturally gonna happen.
It’s all the complaining, poor decisions, not dealing with reality that’s key. Fix your situation, have reasonable targets, and accept you are who you are.
Old for no reason you should make a shirt
The guy is talking but saying a whole lot of nothing. Not knowledgeable enough or have enough wisdom to add value to this conversation.
I disagree I’m 41 had a bbl at 38 and breast reduction at 39 but I’m not doing to compete with 20 year olds my 40@s is for me my 3 kids are older my husband business is up, my career is good and we are doing the damn thing. I met my husband at 20, first kid at 25, married at 27 graduated from college at 28 2nd kid at 29, 3rd kid at 32, built my husband and my business, now at 40 I’ve did my part it’s my turn now, this ain’t got nothing to do with others. My whole life I catered to my husband and kids now it’s about me, that’s it!!!
A hurt dog will holla. If it didn't apply you should have let it fly. You exposed yourself.
@@montawhite2880boom 💥
@@montawhite2880thank you man for saying that.
So i have a question? Was he ok with your body before the Bbl? And if he was, why did you get one. Also and i mean no offense, but thos osnt about you at all. Its about the AVERAGE woman
Yea right tell that story to your husband he's the only man that needs to believe that BS you're talking girl bye