Hi army, the first thing I noticed in the video is your comment since from then I'm crying my father didn't came for 15 days after my birth I was cesirian... She had so much pain but no one was there to help her.... He don't love me and my Mom I was a burden for him... Ya but now my Mom is having divorce I hope she get the divorce....
They don't get enough credit. Watching someone that you love suffer and go through so much and not being able to do anything is so, so hard. They don't know what it's like for us, but we don't know what it's like for them them.
@MT TheNoctHunter There is a sense of duty for giving birth, yes, but there is always a Well Done for afterwards so I would say women ARE applauded. And Fathers ought to be applauded too. The sense of helplessness when there are midwives being busy and the mother in obvious pain and discomfort is a distressing thing. And anything that causes distress deserves a "Well Done, Good Job, You did Great" for when you get through it afterwards. Then comes the "Congratulations, here is your Child" and THAT is when it turns into a duty. But yes, emotional fathers like this should be normalised, I agree.
My dad fainted. My mom took her oxygen mask and pressed it to his face while she was in labor. Uh. Yeah he wasn't one of these guys 😂 By the time he woke up, I was out.
@@grass7864 He woke up, found out I was a girl, said "I thought we had a boy" and fainted again. He then spent the next 9 years pretending I was a boy to make sure he had lineage in our ancestry records. Pretty sure he wasn't one of these dads 😂 Not a bad dad. Just. Very traditional 🤷♀️
@@animelover6195 Woah. Seriously? Your dad is weird. Dude's acting like some feudal lord with the family name thing. And he fainted AGAIN? Damn. Sounds like a unique guy. I guess as long as he cares for you, it's fine.
That men or I should say that father who's tears dropped on the mother's thighs.. Ohhhhhhh my heart just melted in that moment, its beautiful. The best version of men iis shown in this video !!
This def isn't the "best version" of us but def the more loveable one yes. You won't love to see us cussing at the next dude in the oil rigs cause the mf pulling to hard.
After becoming a mother I cannot tell you how many posts I've seen of unsupportive, abusive and uncaring father's. This right here is how it should be. Just because women are built to give birth and we are the reason for the continuation of the human race doesn't mean it's not a hard ass thing to do. Support your mamas! Our bodies go through such incredible changes to be able to give life, support.. be there. try. That's what we need.. I am so thankful that my husband is just like these men in this video. He went to every appointment, every ultrasound, every birthing class... You just gotta be there. True, I don't know what it's like to be the guy in that situation, but as a mama just wanting to be there and be involved matters SO much.
Indian husband's are also supportive and caring. But they cant show most of the time coz of the involvement from in laws. So basically indian parents need to change themselves
My dad waited outside the door for 2 days without going anywhere as he is not allowed inside , just bringing my mom food, was just terrified becoz of stillborn before .He even gets tears when he mentions this and he even teases my mom " u would have been dead if it wasn't me there for u " , don't just generalise Indians plz , they are 1.4 billion , they are different people .
I do agree that they arent very expressive through words , the amount of effort they put in makes up for it. My mom works in a hospital I basically spent 2-3 hours everyday there after school, never seen a father who does not care. I live in the south,maybe things are different in northern states.I m sorry if you had a bad experience.xo
I am greatful to have had my dad. I miss him so much . I lost him 2 months ago .my mom told me when I was born ,he was dancing outside with happiness . I miss him so much ... I will love to hes image in my future husband. Rest in peace dada❤❤u are my hero
Your dad reminded me of my neighbour. Just a little over a year ago my neighbours had a baby girl. They live downstairs so we're in the same building. I've never seen a man this happy before, he was very drunk but he mentioned that his daughter was born at least 50 times in one hour, he was so happy I almost cried. His wife was still in the hospital, but he had to go home because they have a 7 year old son, and someone had to watch over him.
I just feel humbled and honoured to witness these men and women at their most vulnerable. Congratulations to you all, thank you for letting us share these moments.
When i was in labour, even pre labour, i was in another plane of pain. I was suffering. Every 5 mins you could literally run a clock of off it i was having contractions. My man didnt get a wink of sleep. He tried and so did i but i just couldnt the pain was so intense and consistent. When it came to active labout where i had to push, id never see him so scared. He supported me and tried his hardest to help amd not look but the dummy kept looking and grimacing. He was so pale. Like you wouldnt believe. He looked so stressed. I had an epidural so there wasnt any pain for me. He looked more stressed than i was coz he watched as she literally snipped me to help the baby come. He told me later he was so scared because there was so much blood he thought something might be wrong. When they put her on my chest he cried and just stared trying not to watch as she stitched me up. After 17 hours of labour, he finally got to hold her. And he was to happy. He had to leave because the wards didnt allow overnight visitors. He was distraught. Going through pregnancy and giving birth was one of the most stressful times of my life. But it was hard for him too amd im grateful he was right by my side.
This is so beautiful to watch. It reminds me of the day I gave birth at home. My husband went in the birth pool with me and lovingly held me all the way through. We received our baby girl together, we were the first thing she ever saw in this world. I’m so grateful for him ♥️
He stood outside OR when I’m having my C-Section. Carried our 12-hours old son in the middle of the night after breastfeeding because I’m still in pain after the procedure... I was a mess, physically and mentally, but he soothes me during that time. Thank you Daddy
These guys are very blessed to have witnessed the birth of his child. As for me I am unable to have children due to medical reasons, I know that being a dad can be tough at times. But, I still hope/pray that I can be a dad to someone.
I have a dad,that didn't make me as a baby. But made me into a young girl and finally a good woman and mother. He raised me from when I came out of my mom's belly and I couldn't wish for a better dad. So yes!,u can be a father. ❤
As a mother with a very different experience in labour and birth with my children’s father. I’d like to say well done to all these kind and considerate men in this clip. It just shows there are still true supportive gentlemen out there. Ladies in the video, you have yourselves true diamonds.
We've been through 2. I definitely shed tears our first one, it was something can't even describe. Waiting 9 months and knowing how serious it is come delivery day, we were awake easily 24hrs lol. Best feeling in the world.
Unfortunetly not all men are like this at childbirth. They day I was leaving the hospital after giving birth of my first child, my 'man' started to basically run toward the exit. The nurses were stopping him and saying "wow slow down she cant walk yet, get her a wheelchair". I think its sad I never got the loving experience like the ladies in the video got. O yeah and he tolk me after I gave birth and I was talking about how unbelievle hard it was "yeah, I didnt think you could do it".... well okay thanks
@@samghar7837 omy, I hope you're doing well now with ur kid. Giving birth ik is very hard and u know dangerous sometimes. I'm also hoping the best in ur future!
@@gelbree2175 thank you so much dear. Yes, i need time to recover but looking at my baby I know it was all worth it. Childbirth is by far the most painfull experience human can go trhough. Thanks to better healthcare and training mortality rates are dropping too.
We are waiting for our angel.... and when i saw this video I felt lucky to have my man besides me..... The care and love you receive during this phase is so different and special... When he realises it not just his responsibility but his duty as a father and as a husband makes him a real man....❤❤
We are waiting on our angel too.. I know this will be my husband.. He is very loving but he is not an emotional person but the only times i saw my husband cry was the two times we lost our pregnancy so I can just imagine how overwhelmed he will be when he sees our miracle coming into this world 💕
My mom suffered miscarriage at home before me and she told me my dad held the little thing in his hands caresing it while crying... Nowdays we always see the bad face of mankind but there is still people that genuinely care about others and their partners I hope my father rest in peace after more than 30 years worriyng about my mom ❤️
Much love mama I was alone too family and companion wise but I was so blessed to have AMAZING NURSES who helped me stay strong showed me the strength of woman who support each other not tear each other down.
Tolle Männer, sowie mein Mann, der von Anfang bis Ende bei den Geburten unserer Söhne zu 100 % an meiner Seite war und das ist jetzt knapp 22 und 19 Jahre her! Ein Hoch auf diese Supermänner! ❤️🥰❤️
This woman's are so lucky to have an husband's like this. When I got birth on our beautiful baby girl, my husband was bizy with his smart phone. So girls,you are very lucky.
To al the fathers just love ❤️ I was so overwhelmed yesterday such a miracle when our baby boy entered the world. Doesn't matter how big of a guy you are it isn't something to be ashamed when you cry.
Love, worry, joyful anticipation, and utter helplessness in equal measure. Simultaneously... After our daughters were born, all I could say was " I love you. Look what you did!" Praise the LORD for mommas, new souls and dads
Tears in my eyes while watching this video...my husband is very unsupportive, abusive and uncaring..my mother in law is very possessive on my husband, she never allows my husband to visit me n my kid,it's been 8 months only once he visited us. Now my parents are only taking care of us..
I can understand u. In Indian Families there is alot control of In Laws. But still he's got brain & he shud have visited u. I wish I could be there beside u & adore u & ur child....
I'm sorry to hear that, but it's hard for men to throw away their own birth mother, specially for men, even if she is wrong. My mom and dad always come first. You would know being a mother now and having had a kid.
This is such a beautiful video, shows the gentle and vulnerable side of our men. We need more of these. And thank you to all the good men out there that support and love their families ❤❤
My husband wouldn't even let me take his hand! He went home during the birth to sleep, came back just when I received my daughter and after that, me two nights without sleep, he went home to sleep again. My second child he wasn't even there but I did not care. No surprise he looks for another woman on tinder now, although we are not devorced yet....
Tbh, its ur fault. After the 1st birth u shud have understood everything & leave him. Why did u gave birth to his 2nd child? Now, if u divorce him u'll need to care for the 2 kids all by urself. Anyways, don't worry I wish u all the best & beg u to take correct decisions. I wish I could be there with u to help u out during those painful days.
Looking at these, why many men still have the heart to cheat on their wives. Many women willing to sacrifices their youth and body in order to deliver their babies but some men didn't respect and love them. They go cheating with the younger and nicer body instead of chubby and fat wife which is coz of delivering their babies. Why not take turn to take care of the baby so the wife can take care of her body too? 😔😔 It was happen not to me though, but i felt so depressed and angry coz my best friend have to face this 😭😭😭
Dont blame him please, its how their parents raised him and her for that matter! Cherish your half unconditionally no matter if they fat, skinny, sick or any other issues, true love is what keeps them forever together.
@@arthaitu7430 I am so mad at him. My best friend accompanied him since their business still on scratch. She's not someone who easily talk about her problem. She always covered her husband up when any problem occurs but what she got, after the business growth, her husband cheated on her with younger woman and left her. She sacrificed a lot for her husband success but in the end ... He's such big asshole. I would accept it if my best friend is such nasty wife but no. She's so lovely. Her maids also said how she is. Her husband was and is a jerk and ungrateful man!
@@yosilap4693 I am so sorry to hear that about your best friend. She sounds like a very lovely woman. I hope she will find true love soon, a partner who loves her unconditionally x ^♡^
@@yosilap4693 Ahh yea I understand where that's coming from, but sometimes it takes just one person to change a mindset, and I really, really, hope she'll eventually meets that person. Just keep supporting her whether she wants to remarry or not. You seem like an amazing friend. 💙
I wish that the man I had my child with was happy like this when our daughter was born. Every woman in this video are very lucky to have a husband/boyfriend who cares so unconditionally. These men are going to be amazing fathers.
I didn't have a chance to experience that kind of emotion because we had twins and required an emergency c-section for the second one; It got insane pretty quick. First was okay and we got to enjoy that knowledge for about 30 seconds before the doctor announced there was a problem. We didn't get to hold him as he's whisked away and I'm now being instructed to help unplug the bed, monitors,etc so they can get my wife to a surgery room. I'm trying to be reassuring to her as we're making our way down the hall, but we're both aware shit just got serious. She's rushed off into a room, I'm given medical coverings to put on and by the time I walked in...my wife is splayed open on my right and my son, who's not breathing, is to my left. And I'm standing in the middle of the room, freaking the fuck out and frozen like time stops when you're in a car wreck. Then I heard him cry and it was like a bomb of relief went off in the room. I was pretty much just in the way so they sent me back out. I was probably in there for like 3-4 minutes. After a short while that also seemed forever, they let me know all three were okay and doing good. I was relieved and happy, but also kind of numb. By the time I got to see my wife and sons in our room, it was quiet and content, and that was just fine. 😉
When I was giving birth to my first child my husband dropped me at the hospital and stayed with me for two hours I felt uncomfortable with him just sitting down and watching me so I said you can go home if you want and with no hesitation he left and came next day midday with my mum and dad I gave birth after 12 hours of pain I was happy to see my parents because I could see the happiness in their eyes but not him who was like "OK ok you have a kid now" In my second child he dropped me and goes back home with my daughter He was watching his programme I called him after 5 hours to tell him that the baby is out all what he said is "that was quick" I was like 😳🥺 When I see like these videos I still feel bad because of him I needed someone to be with me in those moments especially iam not in my country and my language use to be bad to communicate with the staff And my parents came to help me first time but they turned ill because of the weather Nine years past and I can't forget....
Girl divorce him. He simply does not care for you. A real men would take care of u and not go home. For fucks sake its his child too doesnt he care about the birth of his own child?
@@samghar7837 I would do that if it was up to me but iam thinking about my kids they love him to death and he is taking care about us from the side of money wise and that's it But in my head I don't see my self ending my life with him I hate selfish people 😔
@@moroccanabroad8841 while u are with him start working on yourself. Take trainings, classes, get a drivers license if you dont have it so that u can applying for better paid jobs. Set money aside every month. So in a bit when the kids are bigger u can divorce him. Your kids will be happier when their mommy is happier. Dont feel guilty, u only live once and you owe it to yourself to make yourself happy! Do not disregrard your feelings about him. I learned men like this dont change, once toxic always toxic. I wish u all the best and hoping that you will get away from this egoist, i can see u as a strong independent woman happier than you have ever been. Your kids will benfit so much from your growth.
@@samghar7837 thank you soooo much for your advices Iam trying my best I got my driving licence and iam trying to save money for the future I won't like the live this life forever because its very boring and full of trouble and selfish I will try to change my life to better life Again thank you very much for your nice comments 😊👍
I commend these moms and dads! It’s not easy going natural. My husband and I went thru Lamaze classes but when it came time my husband was watching tv. I grabbed him by the shirt and said BREATHE! The nurse came running and took over. Real men participate. Great work guys!
My birth was very emotional. I almost lost my son Jacob. Hearing his cry was a sigh that God was protecting him and keeping him healthy. My husband Tom was crying and I was too. But tears of joy because God spared Jacobs life.
Kudos to those women who have a diamond in their life. To the ones who don’t and had a labour no where near to this one, be proud of yourself. It takes a lot to carry a child, endure the labour and be here today.
I am due to deliver in a few months time. This video made me realize how much sacrifices a woman have. Having the utmost support from a husband means a lot and can ease the worries in pregnancy and during delivery of the baby. Glad to see men who respect their other half as the most strongest and wonderful human being on earth,.
Seeing this during pandemic makes me burst in tears.I miss him, continent away.I can only pray hard that we all will pass this hard time-pandemic,soon.So that we can plan our delayed plans.Stay strong for LDR couples around the world💪🏽🧡
Given birth 5 times now and definitely could’ve have done it without my hubby. Literally speaking with our 4th he actually delivered, cause I woke up and had a baby in our bathroom 25 mins after waking up. EMT’s didn’t even make it. My husband bravely dropped to his knees to deliver our baby. ❤️☺️
Awww, these men did and I'm sure do it the way it is supposed to be done, so much respect and props. Compassion and love. LOVE! Many of have never experienced giving birth with a man in the picture In such a capacity, unfortunately.
I'm so blessed !; my husband was with me every step of the way. He even cut the cord and because I had complications he took care of almost everything. She is even now daddy's little girl. 😍
@@hellobot67 Do you feel better saying this to all the women sharing their bad experiences with men here? Stop blaming women and start holding those men accountable for not being good people, partners and fathers.
@@alexandraarauz6607 it's not about feeling better. It's about the fact people pick bad people for partners and they ignore red flags. I've seen it all before and they act surprised when they end up with a dead beat
@@alexandraarauz6607 Nha nha she got a point tho. You picked the men to marry, to enter you and leave a kid there. You just as accountable for pickin bad men and leaving the good guys to pick better gals.
God bless all dad's in this world this so touching video ,i love my dad first and i miss him so much he passed away 4 months ago by this ### corona and i cant believe it yet May allah take care of him ,and thanks to my husband he was so supported in birth of my 2 childs
During the birth of my first child I was put into a really tough position to make a life-changing decision because my wife was unable to, and it was the most difficult thing I've had to do while remaining strong and not falling apart. I did this for my wife and for my now (thank god) healthy child. Some time later, I had to lock myself in the bathroom and let the river flow. It's true what they say, having children is like having your heart outside your body. And seeing your wife/loved one in such a critical state is not easy. I believe strongly that we should save all the drama of day to day nonsense for the big shit in life. You will need every ounce of positive energy when life comes kicking at the door.
Not all women are blessed to having husbands like these.. Mine don't care at all. He had no choice to stay with me.. First one after several hours labour end up having emergency c section.. Followed by 2 more c sections with high risk.. My man least bothered.. Never once went to see my gyno or saw Ultrasound appointments.. After delivery he disappears and nurses hv to look for him..
Everyone can be a father but not everyone can be a dad. It's so beautiful to see such men out there.!!
It's the other way around. Anyone can be a dad, but not everyone can be a father.
I wish my dad was good but no regrets....my mom loves me unconditionally.....this made me so happy💜
You can become a good, loving parent. You don't have to be perfect - just be loving, including to yourself
@@ghenderson6717 thx💜🙋♀️
Same here ✌ you are not alone 😊
Hi army, the first thing I noticed in the video is your comment since from then I'm crying my father didn't came for 15 days after my birth I was cesirian... She had so much pain but no one was there to help her.... He don't love me and my Mom I was a burden for him... Ya but now my Mom is having divorce I hope she get the divorce....
@@theunevenjourney1880 Im happy for you...you need to be strong and independent in term to give him an answer for what he did!!
One day I will too
My mom told me that my dad cried when she was having me because they didn't think I was going to make it from the umbilical cord
@Different Types This is not the place to advertise your video
They don't get enough credit. Watching someone that you love suffer and go through so much and not being able to do anything is so, so hard. They don't know what it's like for us, but we don't know what it's like for them them.
True. Kudos to you birth givers though- it will always be more.
Amen to that.
@MT TheNoctHunter There is a sense of duty for giving birth, yes, but there is always a Well Done for afterwards so I would say women ARE applauded. And Fathers ought to be applauded too. The sense of helplessness when there are midwives being busy and the mother in obvious pain and discomfort is a distressing thing. And anything that causes distress deserves a "Well Done, Good Job, You did Great" for when you get through it afterwards. Then comes the "Congratulations, here is your Child" and THAT is when it turns into a duty. But yes, emotional fathers like this should be normalised, I agree.
@Ban Ban I’m not even going to dignify that comment with a proper answer.
@Ban Ban he never said that tho? You overreacting.
I can't forget how my husband gave me strength and courage at that time, and we have a beautiful son, like his dad, I love my husband 🥰
My heart just sings "yes"
Mine too! 💚💜💙🧡💛🤎❤🖤
I was traumatized in that labor room. Respect to all mothers. I love my wife.
My dad fainted. My mom took her oxygen mask and pressed it to his face while she was in labor. Uh. Yeah he wasn't one of these guys 😂 By the time he woke up, I was out.
Poor guy. He was trying, but it it's a lot of pressure for him too.
@@grass7864 He woke up, found out I was a girl, said "I thought we had a boy" and fainted again. He then spent the next 9 years pretending I was a boy to make sure he had lineage in our ancestry records. Pretty sure he wasn't one of these dads 😂 Not a bad dad. Just. Very traditional 🤷♀️
@@animelover6195
Woah. Seriously? Your dad is weird. Dude's acting like some feudal lord with the family name thing. And he fainted AGAIN? Damn. Sounds like a unique guy. I guess as long as he cares for you, it's fine.
@@grass7864 just shut up at this point
@@paulomi833 huh
That men or I should say that father who's tears dropped on the mother's thighs.. Ohhhhhhh my heart just melted in that moment, its beautiful. The best version of men iis shown in this video !!
TRUE...
This def isn't the "best version" of us but def the more loveable one yes. You won't love to see us cussing at the next dude in the oil rigs cause the mf pulling to hard.
After becoming a mother I cannot tell you how many posts I've seen of unsupportive, abusive and uncaring father's. This right here is how it should be. Just because women are built to give birth and we are the reason for the continuation of the human race doesn't mean it's not a hard ass thing to do. Support your mamas! Our bodies go through such incredible changes to be able to give life, support.. be there. try. That's what we need.. I am so thankful that my husband is just like these men in this video. He went to every appointment, every ultrasound, every birthing class... You just gotta be there. True, I don't know what it's like to be the guy in that situation, but as a mama just wanting to be there and be involved matters SO much.
And much Respect to those Midwives,doctors and nurses...they are amazing!!!
Such a nice hubby's
We indian's need this kind of life partner who cares at every moment
Uh wut do u mean ? 🤔
Indian husband's are also supportive and caring. But they cant show most of the time coz of the involvement from in laws. So basically indian parents need to change themselves
My dad waited outside the door for 2 days without going anywhere as he is not allowed inside , just bringing my mom food, was just terrified becoz of stillborn before .He even gets tears when he mentions this and he even teases my mom " u would have been dead if it wasn't me there for u " , don't just generalise Indians plz , they are 1.4 billion , they are different people .
I do agree that they arent very expressive through words , the amount of effort they put in makes up for it. My mom works in a hospital I basically spent 2-3 hours everyday there after school, never seen a father who does not care. I live in the south,maybe things are different in northern states.I m sorry if you had a bad experience.xo
@FBI
Wait for what
I am greatful to have had my dad. I miss him so much . I lost him 2 months ago .my mom told me when I was born ,he was dancing outside with happiness . I miss him so much ... I will love to hes image in my future husband. Rest in peace dada❤❤u are my hero
I am sure your Dad might be missing you as much as you miss him. No doubt he is proud of you and watching you from the paradise of happiness !
@@deeznutzaintnutting yes 😭 I miss him . I can still feel him around me.thank you so much. May God bless you. Tc
@@youxme7520 God bless you too. I wish a happy and healthy life to you and your family.
Your dad reminded me of my neighbour. Just a little over a year ago my neighbours had a baby girl. They live downstairs so we're in the same building. I've never seen a man this happy before, he was very drunk but he mentioned that his daughter was born at least 50 times in one hour, he was so happy I almost cried. His wife was still in the hospital, but he had to go home because they have a 7 year old son, and someone had to watch over him.
I know that pain. We will rejoice when we see them again and do our best to make them proud as we move forward. You're in my prayers sister.
The guy that was counting actually made me tear up
Ground control to major tom "Rocket ready for take off" 😅
I just feel humbled and honoured to witness these men and women at their most vulnerable. Congratulations to you all, thank you for letting us share these moments.
When i was in labour, even pre labour, i was in another plane of pain. I was suffering. Every 5 mins you could literally run a clock of off it i was having contractions. My man didnt get a wink of sleep. He tried and so did i but i just couldnt the pain was so intense and consistent. When it came to active labout where i had to push, id never see him so scared. He supported me and tried his hardest to help amd not look but the dummy kept looking and grimacing. He was so pale. Like you wouldnt believe. He looked so stressed. I had an epidural so there wasnt any pain for me. He looked more stressed than i was coz he watched as she literally snipped me to help the baby come. He told me later he was so scared because there was so much blood he thought something might be wrong. When they put her on my chest he cried and just stared trying not to watch as she stitched me up. After 17 hours of labour, he finally got to hold her. And he was to happy. He had to leave because the wards didnt allow overnight visitors. He was distraught. Going through pregnancy and giving birth was one of the most stressful times of my life. But it was hard for him too amd im grateful he was right by my side.
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Snipped...? 😱
This is so beautiful to watch. It reminds me of the day I gave birth at home. My husband went in the birth pool with me and lovingly held me all the way through. We received our baby girl together, we were the first thing she ever saw in this world. I’m so grateful for him ♥️
He stood outside OR when I’m having my C-Section. Carried our 12-hours old son in the middle of the night after breastfeeding because I’m still in pain after the procedure... I was a mess, physically and mentally, but he soothes me during that time.
Thank you Daddy
These guys are very blessed to have witnessed the birth of his child. As for me I am unable to have children due to medical reasons, I know that being a dad can be tough at times. But, I still hope/pray that I can be a dad to someone.
I hope that for you too homie.
I have a dad,that didn't make me as a baby.
But made me into a young girl and finally a good woman and mother.
He raised me from when I came out of my mom's belly and I couldn't wish for a better dad.
So yes!,u can be a father.
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Adoption would be great!
My dad didn't come to meet me
... He came after 5days 😑😶.... But my mom loved me unconditionally.... So... No regrets ♥️♥️♥️
the power a couple holds whilst the woman is giving birth is so powerful 🥺🥺and the love is so pure 🥺
As a mother with a very different experience in labour and birth with my children’s father. I’d like to say well done to all these kind and considerate men in this clip.
It just shows there are still true supportive gentlemen out there.
Ladies in the video, you have yourselves true diamonds.
The one whose tears was running down his partner's leg....OOOHH MYYYY😍😍They was ALL beautiful moments though!!! Great video💯💙💙
We've been through 2. I definitely shed tears our first one, it was something can't even describe. Waiting 9 months and knowing how serious it is come delivery day, we were awake easily 24hrs lol.
Best feeling in the world.
All man are aint nasty, that's why LEGENDS are called "dad"❤
These are true fathers ✊
Unfortunetly not all men are like this at childbirth. They day I was leaving the hospital after giving birth of my first child, my 'man' started to basically run toward the exit. The nurses were stopping him and saying "wow slow down she cant walk yet, get her a wheelchair".
I think its sad I never got the loving experience like the ladies in the video got. O yeah and he tolk me after I gave birth and I was talking about how unbelievle hard it was "yeah, I didnt think you could do it".... well okay thanks
I’m so sorry
@@angelicroses5067 So kind of you. I learned from this that its better to be alone than being in a miserable relationship
@@samghar7837 omy, I hope you're doing well now with ur kid. Giving birth ik is very hard and u know dangerous sometimes. I'm also hoping the best in ur future!
@@samghar7837 you’re going to raise your child amazingly, I’m so proud of you
@@gelbree2175 thank you so much dear. Yes, i need time to recover but looking at my baby I know it was all worth it. Childbirth is by far the most painfull experience human can go trhough. Thanks to better healthcare and training mortality rates are dropping too.
I wish all men were this nurturing/caring/loving 😭😭❤❤
Only blessed ladies can have these.
TRUE HEROES OF DAD'S.MAY THE HEAVENS BLESS THEIR 7th GENERATION...IT TAKES TRUE GUTS.
Most men just built a thuff skin working hard, back breaking manual labor. But these emotional moment do break though to some of them.
We are waiting for our angel.... and when i saw this video I felt lucky to have my man besides me..... The care and love you receive during this phase is so different and special... When he realises it not just his responsibility but his duty as a father and as a husband makes him a real man....❤❤
We are waiting on our angel too.. I know this will be my husband.. He is very loving but he is not an emotional person but the only times i saw my husband cry was the two times we lost our pregnancy so I can just imagine how overwhelmed he will be when he sees our miracle coming into this world 💕
My mom suffered miscarriage at home before me and she told me my dad held the little thing in his hands caresing it while crying... Nowdays we always see the bad face of mankind but there is still people that genuinely care about others and their partners
I hope my father rest in peace after more than 30 years worriyng about my mom ❤️
It doesn't matter how brave you are. Tears will fall down when your in this situation...❤
I'm also a mother but I have never expected this moment because he is can't love me. i am really sad for seeing this .And more over happy 😊
The fact that I had to go through this alone and that I'm on this journey alone with my baby makes me so emotional
Much love mama I was alone too family and companion wise but I was so blessed to have AMAZING NURSES who helped me stay strong showed me the strength of woman who support each other not tear each other down.
Tolle Männer, sowie mein Mann, der von Anfang bis Ende bei den Geburten unserer Söhne zu 100 % an meiner Seite war und das ist jetzt knapp 22 und 19 Jahre her! Ein Hoch auf diese Supermänner! ❤️🥰❤️
This is so emotional! Is really nice to have a husband to support you through the birth of your child❤
Just praying , so that I can get a good and loving partner in the future who will stay always be my side.
May the wishes of your heart be granted...
Honestly speaking,it's a rare case.
This woman's are so lucky to have an husband's like this.
When I got birth on our beautiful baby girl, my husband was bizy with his smart phone.
So girls,you are very lucky.
To al the fathers just love ❤️ I was so overwhelmed yesterday such a miracle when our baby boy entered the world. Doesn't matter how big of a guy you are it isn't something to be ashamed when you cry.
The Famous question is answered "Do mens cry?" And the answer is this video
Yes we bloody fcuking cry only in moments like this , not for everything.
@@Doc-hp5wf
All human cry !! Female or male
Love, worry, joyful anticipation, and utter helplessness in equal measure.
Simultaneously...
After our daughters were born, all I could say was " I love you. Look what you did!"
Praise the LORD for mommas, new souls and dads
Tears in my eyes while watching this video...my husband is very unsupportive, abusive and uncaring..my mother in law is very possessive on my husband, she never allows my husband to visit me n my kid,it's been 8 months only once he visited us. Now my parents are only taking care of us..
I can understand u. In Indian Families there is alot control of In Laws. But still he's got brain & he shud have visited u.
I wish I could be there beside u & adore u & ur child....
I'm sorry to hear that, but it's hard for men to throw away their own birth mother, specially for men, even if she is wrong. My mom and dad always come first. You would know being a mother now and having had a kid.
This is such a beautiful video, shows the gentle and vulnerable side of our men. We need more of these. And thank you to all the good men out there that support and love their families ❤❤
My husband wouldn't even let me take his hand! He went home during the birth to sleep, came back just when I received my daughter and after that, me two nights without sleep, he went home to sleep again. My second child he wasn't even there but I did not care. No surprise he looks for another woman on tinder now, although we are not devorced yet....
Sweetie if he’s like that, it’s time to leave him. If he can’t appreciate you, he doesn’t deserve you. Especially since you gave birth twice.
Tbh, its ur fault. After the 1st birth u shud have understood everything & leave him. Why did u gave birth to his 2nd child?
Now, if u divorce him u'll need to care for the 2 kids all by urself.
Anyways, don't worry I wish u all the best & beg u to take correct decisions.
I wish I could be there with u to help u out during those painful days.
Wtf how can ppl be so cruel. Too many infantile men today.
@@faariashaikh255 so true
Pain, but there is beauty in it. The women is pain, but the man’s job is to encourage her and tell her it’s going to be ok. It’s a together thing.
“You are Loved Beyond Measures”
Ephesians 3:19
Yes!
Looking at these, why many men still have the heart to cheat on their wives. Many women willing to sacrifices their youth and body in order to deliver their babies but some men didn't respect and love them. They go cheating with the younger and nicer body instead of chubby and fat wife which is coz of delivering their babies. Why not take turn to take care of the baby so the wife can take care of her body too? 😔😔
It was happen not to me though, but i felt so depressed and angry coz my best friend have to face this 😭😭😭
Dont blame him please, its how their parents raised him and her for that matter! Cherish your half unconditionally no matter if they fat, skinny, sick or any other issues, true love is what keeps them forever together.
@@arthaitu7430 I am so mad at him. My best friend accompanied him since their business still on scratch. She's not someone who easily talk about her problem. She always covered her husband up when any problem occurs but what she got, after the business growth, her husband cheated on her with younger woman and left her. She sacrificed a lot for her husband success but in the end ... He's such big asshole.
I would accept it if my best friend is such nasty wife but no. She's so lovely. Her maids also said how she is. Her husband was and is a jerk and ungrateful man!
@@yosilap4693 I am so sorry to hear that about your best friend. She sounds like a very lovely woman. I hope she will find true love soon, a partner who loves her unconditionally x ^♡^
@@Miss_Nina. Thank you so much. I hope so, but she said she has no intention to remarry 😖😖
@@yosilap4693 Ahh yea I understand where that's coming from, but sometimes it takes just one person to change a mindset, and I really, really, hope she'll eventually meets that person. Just keep supporting her whether she wants to remarry or not. You seem like an amazing friend. 💙
It’s twelve in the morning and I’m up watching these videos. I’m not even close to the “average” age for parenting.
Same... we all idle i guess
Same
I wish that the man I had my child with was happy like this when our daughter was born. Every woman in this video are very lucky to have a husband/boyfriend who cares so unconditionally. These men are going to be amazing fathers.
I hope all mothers go to heaven because they deserve it😭😭💝
اخيرا لقيت عربية 🌚🤍
@@user-ayant-t منورة اختي مرحبا 🙋♀️❤❤❤
That's how how heaven works. But okay
Not all since there are horrible mothers but most do I'm sure, just like fathers.
I didn't have a chance to experience that kind of emotion because we had twins and required an emergency c-section for the second one; It got insane pretty quick. First was okay and we got to enjoy that knowledge for about 30 seconds before the doctor announced there was a problem. We didn't get to hold him as he's whisked away and I'm now being instructed to help unplug the bed, monitors,etc so they can get my wife to a surgery room. I'm trying to be reassuring to her as we're making our way down the hall, but we're both aware shit just got serious. She's rushed off into a room, I'm given medical coverings to put on and by the time I walked in...my wife is splayed open on my right and my son, who's not breathing, is to my left. And I'm standing in the middle of the room, freaking the fuck out and frozen like time stops when you're in a car wreck. Then I heard him cry and it was like a bomb of relief went off in the room. I was pretty much just in the way so they sent me back out. I was probably in there for like 3-4 minutes. After a short while that also seemed forever, they let me know all three were okay and doing good. I was relieved and happy, but also kind of numb. By the time I got to see my wife and sons in our room, it was quiet and content, and that was just fine. 😉
When I was giving birth to my first child my husband dropped me at the hospital and stayed with me for two hours I felt uncomfortable with him just sitting down and watching me so I said you can go home if you want and with no hesitation he left and came next day midday with my mum and dad
I gave birth after 12 hours of pain
I was happy to see my parents because I could see the happiness in their eyes but not him who was like "OK ok you have a kid now"
In my second child he dropped me and goes back home with my daughter
He was watching his programme
I called him after 5 hours to tell him that the baby is out all what he said is "that was quick"
I was like 😳🥺
When I see like these videos I still feel bad because of him I needed someone to be with me in those moments especially iam not in my country and my language use to be bad to communicate with the staff
And my parents came to help me first time but they turned ill because of the weather
Nine years past and I can't forget....
Girl divorce him. He simply does not care for you. A real men would take care of u and not go home. For fucks sake its his child too doesnt he care about the birth of his own child?
@@samghar7837 I would do that if it was up to me but iam thinking about my kids they love him to death and he is taking care about us from the side of money wise and that's it
But in my head I don't see my self ending my life with him
I hate selfish people 😔
@@moroccanabroad8841 while u are with him start working on yourself. Take trainings, classes, get a drivers license if you dont have it so that u can applying for better paid jobs. Set money aside every month. So in a bit when the kids are bigger u can divorce him. Your kids will be happier when their mommy is happier. Dont feel guilty, u only live once and you owe it to yourself to make yourself happy! Do not disregrard your feelings about him.
I learned men like this dont change, once toxic always toxic. I wish u all the best and hoping that you will get away from this egoist, i can see u as a strong independent woman happier than you have ever been. Your kids will benfit so much from your growth.
@@samghar7837 thank you soooo much for your advices
Iam trying my best
I got my driving licence and iam trying to save money for the future
I won't like the live this life forever because its very boring and full of trouble and selfish
I will try to change my life to better life
Again thank you very much for your nice comments 😊👍
Oh I'm crying, that was beautiful ❤️. Loved that guy 0:42, he is living it
I commend these moms and dads! It’s not easy going natural. My husband and I went thru Lamaze classes but when it came time my husband was watching tv. I grabbed him by the shirt and said BREATHE! The nurse came running and took over. Real men participate. Great work guys!
These fathers are amazing. Beyond priceless. God bless them and their families. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
I love you guys , you dad's are amazing place no matter what be with ur family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why am i so emotional, i'm not even married yet
PRAY HARD...PRAY HARDER.THERE ARE DEFINITELY STILL GOOD MEN OUT THERE.
That’s when it hits them how much she does for him and how much she has gone through to carry and deliver your baby
Love this supports. Congrats Mums and Das. God bless your hearts and the little one 💜
Having the support is EVERYTHING.
I freaking just cried my eyes out, *because I Kno half the father's won't be there 24/7.* 😭
These ladies are truly blessed.
My birth was very emotional. I almost lost my son Jacob. Hearing his cry was a sigh that God was protecting him and keeping him healthy. My husband Tom was crying and I was too. But tears of joy because God spared Jacobs life.
Kudos to those women who have a diamond in their life. To the ones who don’t and had a labour no where near to this one, be proud of yourself. It takes a lot to carry a child, endure the labour and be here today.
Ok but that man lying inside the tip with his wife when all that stuff is going to come out of her, that’s real love.
These dads are great caring and supportive
Had to stop halfway because I didn't wanna cry anymore. Thanks for posting
I am due to deliver in a few months time. This video made me realize how much sacrifices a woman have. Having the utmost support from a husband means a lot and can ease the worries in pregnancy and during delivery of the baby. Glad to see men who respect their other half as the most strongest and wonderful human being on earth,.
What a beautiful video. Not enough dad appreciation. As a mum of two boys this is greatly emotional and appreciated video.
Seeing this during pandemic makes me burst in tears.I miss him, continent away.I can only pray hard that we all will pass this hard time-pandemic,soon.So that we can plan our delayed plans.Stay strong for LDR couples around the world💪🏽🧡
Love u mom dad for me ..for my life for everything
This is awesome...I respect Dad's like these...thumbs up for you guys...
It takes a good man,to be a good dad.
Given birth 5 times now and definitely could’ve have done it without my hubby. Literally speaking with our 4th he actually delivered, cause I woke up and had a baby in our bathroom 25 mins after waking up. EMT’s didn’t even make it. My husband bravely dropped to his knees to deliver our baby. ❤️☺️
Ouuuuu God! How cute they are!!! They really bring back faith..... GOD BLESS THEM ALL!!
The most precious moments of life!
Awww, these men did and I'm sure do it the way it is supposed to be done, so much respect and props. Compassion and love. LOVE! Many of have never experienced giving birth with a man in the picture In such a capacity, unfortunately.
Oh!! No words to express that moment......
I'm so blessed !; my husband was with me every step of the way. He even cut the cord and because I had complications he took care of almost everything. She is even now daddy's little girl. 😍
Being caring and protective is THE most beautiful way of masculinity
Wow. This was so beautiful. To all the men who love like this....Thank You. ♡
This is such a beautiful and wonderful video, thanks for creating 🥰❤️
This is the time when a wife her husband the most.....really appreciate these men❤️
Wow thats beautiful. I wish I had my kids father there to support me. Its such a special moment to share.
Why wasn't he there? Why did you pick a bad person to be the father of your kids?
@@hellobot67 Do you feel better saying this to all the women sharing their bad experiences with men here? Stop blaming women and start holding those men accountable for not being good people, partners and fathers.
@@alexandraarauz6607 it's not about feeling better. It's about the fact people pick bad people for partners and they ignore red flags. I've seen it all before and they act surprised when they end up with a dead beat
@@alexandraarauz6607 Nha nha she got a point tho. You picked the men to marry, to enter you and leave a kid there. You just as accountable for pickin bad men and leaving the good guys to pick better gals.
This is beautiful....I have no other words to describe it
My dad cried when my mom went to her house when she was pregnant with me. He didn't want to leave her.
These are true men right there
I’m so beyond excited to experience this with my husband. We are both looking forward to it so much. I couldn’t imagine a better birthing partner ♥️
I don't think anyone will ever love me the way these men love their wives.
God bless all dad's in this world this so touching video ,i love my dad first and i miss him so much he passed away 4 months ago by this ### corona and i cant believe it yet May allah take care of him ,and thanks to my husband he was so supported in birth of my 2 childs
This was beautifully made.
This is beautiful.
This was soo beautiful 😢❤
During the birth of my first child I was put into a really tough position to make a life-changing decision because my wife was unable to, and it was the most difficult thing I've had to do while remaining strong and not falling apart. I did this for my wife and for my now (thank god) healthy child. Some time later, I had to lock myself in the bathroom and let the river flow. It's true what they say, having children is like having your heart outside your body. And seeing your wife/loved one in such a critical state is not easy. I believe strongly that we should save all the drama of day to day nonsense for the big shit in life. You will need every ounce of positive energy when life comes kicking at the door.
God bless these fathers and beautiful family 💘
Fathers are amazing :)
Great video!! Thank you ❤️ Tears...
my mom was so strong to go through this twice and all alone
Absolutely beautiful ❤️ really touched my heart
Well that was absolutely UNCALLED FOR! 😭🥰😭🥰😭
Beautiful video ! Thank you .
Not all women are blessed to having husbands like these.. Mine don't care at all. He had no choice to stay with me.. First one after several hours labour end up having emergency c section.. Followed by 2 more c sections with high risk.. My man least bothered.. Never once went to see my gyno or saw Ultrasound appointments.. After delivery he disappears and nurses hv to look for him..
You deserve so much better, Saif
😔😔thats not good at all...was there anyone to support you?
Im sorry that you went through that. He is a piece of shit to be honest. You are must better and you deserve much better! Dont ever doubt that.
Whyd you have a child with him. That child nor you deserve that abysmal level of commitment.
He dont deserve you
Wow, there are loving supportive men out here!!!