It’s a spiritual battle, fight and break if there is any generational curse, find a prayer intercession priest or pastor would refer you to pst kiongo wa panties great prayer warrior 🙏🏽
Wow, I pray for peace that surpasses all human understanding, May God give you strength to take good care of your children. May you & your children never lack, May He bless the works of your hands in Jesus Name🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mutumia utigaga mwana wake agathii eciritie ni muthuri araherithia, Na akahota kuria irio igakinya nda na agakoma toro akang'orota ucio na muragani matiri ngurani. Wiyumie brasa 💪 twana nitugukura
@@grasgrass464 my dea siwezi ongea hivo kama sijui uchungu wa mwana, mimi ni mzazi hustler number 1.No riu ngurie íí ciana icio ciatigwo na ithe niguo mathina mathira? Githi ona tikuhe ciana icio ruo makiria? Kíu kiumbe gitiri na umenyo.Umenye muciari wa mutumia ndungiringithania na mundurume (angikorwo e muonyo). Mwana ndakoragwo aigiriirwo ihiga.
Bettie Joy -Mtoto Wa Mama monaga tooro atia? Ata nkue nakula mawe wangu ntabeba akakule hizo mawe! Mwana utaremenya ndingimutiga no way ! That woman seem to be so controlled though ☺️i still wonder why this guy hasnt made an effort ata ya kuhanda ithigi pia
I love your jovial mood....pray n break all demonic bondage...you have a great destiny,God is well able to turn every impossibility to possibility...you are in my prayers
Ben please please reject that name “break down”. No you cannot call yourself ‘breakdown’. Your life keep breaking down. We become what we call ourselves. Ben that name is impacting your life. I pray that God opens your eyes to see that. I love your voice.
Naming is spiritual. Change the name breakdown it speaking in the spiritual realm. It keeps haunting you ones you start a new journey... Bythwy this takes spiritual sensitivity to see this...
There's power in the Name of Jesus,therefore there is also something speaking in your name breakdown change your name to breakthrough..na maundu nimakwagira..ucoke uracirie mutumia waku urathimwo ni aciari.
@@juliusmaina5819 you're misadvicing him. Dowry is part of honouring parents. Reason he's going through too much warfare. He needs to do it for God to release his blessings
@@juliusmaina5819 it seems kuna vitu mingi sana hasemi..i am sure nìaraciirie the first wife b4 wa wed,is he legally divorced?secondly he started the relationship with the mother of his kids on the wrong foot "nì tha amuiguiriire"they stayed for a whole yr bila kids,why didn't the parents came for her then?in a span of one yr alikua amedate 4 girls aaaiih..si judge lakini hii ni twendi twendi.
Iam a preacher and my understanding is that,from first marriage God gave you all signs but you ignored,the blessings of God adds no sorrow,second mistake you took ungodly direction by marrying anon believer you were driven by fear,and last you looked your to a preacher who took things for granted.
First, Change your name. The spiritual warfare here is deep, it continuously follows you, so change your name to an uplifting name!!!!! Second, there’s something to be said about a woman who leaves her young children. It is not normal. It is a warning sign, so, RUN!
Not advisable to say to him run..He has a strong power fighting his marriage life and cordinating his battles..that is the power he needs to address. Coz it must be the one manipulating his wife..Only deliverance is needed here
Ben for sure your life is in your hands you continue loving God,your kids and entire family but never attempt to sooth that woman by paying dowry price,mah theri iyo nyumba ndukaria,nierehe we mwene if she was in need of family,Tena wee wina ciana otoria wahoeirwo ni bishop na ucoke ukwo ringi muhoere mutumia ucio kugia na ugi na umenyo.
Such stories make me appreciate being single.... he's been through I think the second wife is something to do with "officiating" your union..jipange go with dowry and see how things will change...this is a battle God has chosen you to fight and test your faith.
He sounds like a good guy and I hope God will continue blessing him even after numerous turbulences but you must change that name from breakdown Ben to Blessing Ben. Good luck
Every situation reveals something about who you truly are.. You will never learn anything if you keep thinking that everyone else did you wrong..because we all play a part in creating a dysfunctional life.. Just an opinion..
I know this guy.He is one of my spiritual sons that I raised at Youth.He is humble and goodhearted at the same time and very hardworking. Apostle George King knows him too..
That's my Lovely cousin,,,May the Almighty God keep you to always to testify of his goodness,,keep trusting in Him everything happens for a reasons,,Romans 8:28 In all things God works for the good of those who love him ,who have been called according to his Purpose#You are blessed bro
God has been on your side and he has always made a way for you whenever trials rose. I would urge you to change that name "break down“. You are prophecying to Yrself break down all the blessings God is bringing your way. Names carry a lot and until we realise that, we will keep going around the same mountain.
TEN GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE. 1. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS WEAKNESSES. '' Only God has no weakness and every rose flower has its own thorns.No one is perfect so learn to persevere with one another.'' 2. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY. '' No one is an angel. Avoid digging one’s past-forgive and forget.'' 3. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU A COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE IN MARRIAGE. “ He gives him/her in form of raw material in order for you to mould what you desire.'' 4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES. '' Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of fire.Marriage is not a bed of roses .'’ 5. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE. “ There is no ready made marriage.Marriage is hard work ,volunteer yourself and perfect it daily.'' 6. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS, '' We can never be equal,some will be far front and others far behind.Work hard and with time your dreams will come true.Patience pays.'' 7. MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK. “ To marry is to a risk. You cannot predict what will happen after marriage: - situations or a person may change, so leave room for adjustment.’’ 8. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR “ When you marry you enter into a battle field be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.” 9 .EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY. '' There is no free love in marriage. You cannot love without giving and sacrificing. 10. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT IT’S PERMANENT “ Marriage needs total commitment. Love is the binding factor that makes a couple stick together.Divorce starts in the mind.” N;B;Composed by mr magnet.
Oh!!! You have said God has blessed you and has been blessing you,,,, now why delay visiting her parents?? Its unfortunate how our African husbands take paying dowry lightly,,,,, please handle your marriage with care n love ,, go for your wife as early as yesterday,, when you keep delaying you add salt to injury ,,, gather your clan/ pple n make a point of officiating the union ,, I believe all is well but ignorance or any kind of arrogance is not good for either side please
Ann we should be careful with relationships,for one in kenyan law you can't hv customary n legal marriage n he knew haezi wed tena.Amesema since the wife aende they've never met meaning she's still his wife.i feel for the mother of his kids 😥
IT IS ONLY A PERSON WHO GOES THROUGH SUCH THINGS CAN KNOWN SUCH A SITUATION BETTER. JUDGING HIM WON'T HELP. I JOIN THOSE SAYING HIS NAME BREAKDOWN SHOULD BE CHANGED.
You are ight bro. People especially men need to talk to heal. You will overcome. Nalea wawili, son and daughter, and it has been so fulfilling to watch them grow.
No one ask for the other side of a story if a woman gives their story,I wonder why people are asking for wife to give her story....God blessings to Ben and Family
Names are very strong you must try and change that name "breakdown'' agsin break the soultires of the first marriage cause u had been joined together and blessed as a family get a pastor who ll understand these things search FB for Rev.cephas k karanja he'll help you
you are a star that why devil is fighting you continue soon you will be rewarded. Atumia how on earth unaacha watoto naunapata usingizi pole bro i wish you are my neighbor watoto nigekusaindia
Ladies please musiwache watoto wenu,..nababa zao,. Omba mungu, a bless the works of ur hands... Never leave ur children for other wemen to take care of them.. Whats wrong with this genenaration...?
Hey Ben.Be encouraged n keep trusting in God coz he is able.Never loose hope.Mwana wa kahìì aturagio nì kuìyùmia.l beleive God is still on your side n none else can be against you.You are blsd.May God give your children peace,joy,wisdom n comfort all the time Remember also to bring them up in church.Shalom.
When you see a repeat of something in your life it means there is something that speaks against you in that area. You need to break the alter of broken marriages,thats why too much suffering,rejection and alot of stuff that you don't know why! See your pastor give a sacrifice and may God break you free in Jesus Name.
Everything happens for a reason. You are a good guy with faith keep trusting God is not done with you. It's not over until God says that is over. Trials and temptations are always there but for those who trust God they are overcomers. Hold on God is on the way.
I have watched the whole thing and I almost shed tears. Whatever you went/you are going through is too much. Here is my advice, the name you are calling yourself 'Breakdown' could be breaking you down and it will continue so long as its still your name. Please try to change it to a more positive name that sounds like blessings. Nature knows no jokes. Think about it.
I hope everything works out for your family. Those kids need both parents. Whatever the issues are, try n work them out for the sake of your children. They shouldn't suffer bcos of your differences. May the Lord guide you in it all as you seek dialogue. Listen to your wife. She may be crying for help
Thahabu iria njega igeragirwo mwakini... I won't be quick to despise any of the side...but anger sometimes. ...how can a woman leave behind an year old childrens...ladies let's stop being empty headed... Ni atige itheru ciana ni kirathimo na ni ngerenwa....2 bouncing baby boys its a blessings... Watoi ni innocent
wiyumiririe muriu,. we are all master pieces in progress, God perfects us each day. kiugo kiratwira Mwathani niakagathiriria aria metetreire mateguthethuka Ngoro ciyuire wihokeku na ukiriria wa mathina. Rathimwo.
Apostle George King told me so since he knows the whole story and was around when all that happened but couldn't help coz the lady was very cunning and things happened so first plus Ben had just got saved and he and other youth members had respect for that lady since the lady was praise and worship member.
I don't think dowry issue can be enough reason to make one leave her own children to go and stay with her mother... I want to believe that it's more than what we are hearing. Ben, this is a spiritual warfare, let God himself give you a strategy on how you're going to go about this battle. Pray for spiritual guidance.
There is spiritual spouse fighting your marriage! Is a stabborn spirit but it comes to an end by help of anointed man of God and through a decent Godly life style
The grace period to divorce the first wife is over so divorce her officially, then look for something little you go and see the parents of your current wife for blessings and also for your wife to feel comfortable in your house,
Any woman who abandons her kids is a serpent (I'm talking as someone who was abandoned together with my 2 brothers at a very tender age). Don't go back to the woman's family even with wazee's. It will be in vain because that woman is the devil in flesh.
How about any man that abandon his kids !? How about the men who terrorize their wives to an extent that they run away from the monster thus leaving their kids behind !?
@@blessedmama5367 Whereas I respect your point of vie, naturally, men are not nurturers. They are providers, protectors, and fixers. That's their biological programming. On the other hand, women are nurtures by nature. So, when you see a woman abandoning her naturally programmed role, that's an animal. No reason whatsoever justifies a woman abandoning her children. Like the wife to this guy, how can she abandon her kids at that young age?
@@brianmaina9925 it's not easy to grow up motherless but some women leave their babies cos of luck of otherwise . Most of Kikuyu women prefer to suffer with or for their kids but sometimes their mosnters husband make the situation unbearable for the mothers to deal with .look for your mother n hear her side of the story .
If a woman can't stand with you during your difficult times, huyo wachana naye, anakupenda maisha ikiwa poa, no ti hīndī ya mathīna, ucio ūtarī na ruo na ciana e ciarīire. Brother you are strong 💪
@@lucynganga2217 I appreciate the origin, but names spoken carry life or death...and I wish ignorance was a defence but it is not, it is okay to sing about it but to adopt that as his name mmm.. I wish all the best and I love his ministry. Thanks for chiming in 💕
Tuturagio ni kwinyumia..... Itu riu nirikuhituka... Ugoocage Jehova niundu Wa mawiko make na iyo woman ndukamigire.... Rera twana mwenye nyaga niaramenya uria are da nawe. Thii na mbere na kuhoya na kwihinga.
Life is just but a dream, so unfair, so unpredictable, sometimes sweet sometimes bitter but all is vanity. Just appreciate the gift of life and hold on to faith.
Mateso ya wenye haki nimengi Kanini Bwana wetu yesu hutoponya nayo yote it is better to pass through tough time than to pass it out when you don't have strength to encourage yourself my brother you are God's product face that challenges today do that you can have peace tomorrow in Jesus Name
Wooooiiii.....Mr Ben ndukanamake ningutigwo ni mundu wathy Ngai atangutingity ndukanamake tuturangio nikwinyumia, though ungefile divorce ya 1st wife ndio umwelcome the 2nd one officially, twana nikirathimo there nitukaririkananga how u struggled to raise them mamayo akiongozwa na pesa
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My words to you Ben, from today I give you the name Breakthrough Ben..and what The Lord will do for you, it shall be permanent
Amen
So true, there's power in the name...I love breakthrough
At least you are talking Amen
That's its Rose! That should be his name 🙏♥️
I thought breakdown was a song.
It’s a spiritual battle, fight and break if there is any generational curse, find a prayer intercession priest or pastor would refer you to pst kiongo wa panties great prayer warrior 🙏🏽
Or pastor kepha
Shee Sheykoh check your gmail 😊🙏🏽
@@ruthkinyanjui9015 thanks got it!
Shee Sheykoh hope you got his no.
@@ruthkinyanjui9015 yes I did thanks dear.Hope to meet you soon.Keep in touch.
Wow, I pray for peace that surpasses all human understanding, May God give you strength to take good care of your children. May you & your children never lack, May He bless the works of your hands in Jesus Name🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mutumia utigaga mwana wake agathii eciritie ni muthuri araherithia, Na akahota kuria irio igakinya nda na agakoma toro akang'orota ucio na muragani matiri ngurani. Wiyumie brasa 💪 twana nitugukura
atiriri wui tiga kwaria uguo angikorwo wi sawa we ira ngai thegiu tondu nii mami ndendaga kwona ciana muthuri nitwahitania what do you do
@@grasgrass464 my dea siwezi ongea hivo kama sijui uchungu wa mwana, mimi ni mzazi hustler number 1.No riu ngurie íí ciana icio ciatigwo na ithe niguo mathina mathira? Githi ona tikuhe ciana icio ruo makiria? Kíu kiumbe gitiri na umenyo.Umenye muciari wa mutumia ndungiringithania na mundurume (angikorwo e muonyo). Mwana ndakoragwo aigiriirwo ihiga.
@@grasgrass464 usinjari mungu ako mbere njikase Na watoto wako
Bettie Joy -Mtoto Wa Mama monaga tooro atia? Ata nkue nakula mawe wangu ntabeba akakule hizo mawe! Mwana utaremenya ndingimutiga no way ! That woman seem to be so controlled though ☺️i still wonder why this guy hasnt made an effort ata ya kuhanda ithigi pia
BettieJoy true
I love your jovial mood....pray n break all demonic bondage...you have a great destiny,God is well able to turn every impossibility to possibility...you are in my prayers
Ben please please reject that name “break down”. No you cannot call yourself ‘breakdown’. Your life keep breaking down. We become what we call ourselves. Ben that name is impacting your life. I pray that God opens your eyes to see that. I love your voice.
Your name "Break down" has an effect on your life!pray about it...but God is faithful
Very true he needs to change his name
Naming is spiritual. Change the name breakdown it speaking in the spiritual realm. It keeps haunting you ones you start a new journey... Bythwy this takes spiritual sensitivity to see this...
Your so right....
You have to break tormenting spirit in your life,then you need deliverance and change that name "breakdown"it betrays you!
There's power in the Name of Jesus,therefore there is also something speaking in your name breakdown change your name to breakthrough..na maundu nimakwagira..ucoke uracirie mutumia waku urathimwo ni aciari.
elizabeth wanjiru you’re in the spirit sis
Ben ndukagure guoya na ruracio rutiitagio kia hinya so never attempt to sooth anyone
@@juliusmaina5819 you're misadvicing him. Dowry is part of honouring parents. Reason he's going through too much warfare. He needs to do it for God to release his blessings
We are in the same spirit...I felt that too...he need to do something concerning the name
@@juliusmaina5819 it seems kuna vitu mingi sana hasemi..i am sure nìaraciirie the first wife b4 wa wed,is he legally divorced?secondly he started the relationship with the mother of his kids on the wrong foot "nì tha amuiguiriire"they stayed for a whole yr bila kids,why didn't the parents came for her then?in a span of one yr alikua amedate 4 girls aaaiih..si judge lakini hii ni twendi twendi.
Iam a preacher and my understanding is that,from first marriage God gave you all signs but you ignored,the blessings of God adds no sorrow,second mistake you took ungodly direction by marrying anon believer you were driven by fear,and last you looked your to a preacher who took things for granted.
First, Change your name. The spiritual warfare here is deep, it continuously follows you, so change your name to an uplifting name!!!!! Second, there’s something to be said about a woman who leaves her young children. It is not normal. It is a warning sign, so, RUN!
Not advisable to say to him run..He has a strong power fighting his marriage life and cordinating his battles..that is the power he needs to address. Coz it must be the one manipulating his wife..Only deliverance is needed here
Ben for sure your life is in your hands you continue loving God,your kids and entire family but never attempt to sooth that woman by paying dowry price,mah theri iyo nyumba ndukaria,nierehe we mwene if she was in need of family,Tena wee wina ciana otoria wahoeirwo ni bishop na ucoke ukwo ringi muhoere mutumia ucio kugia na ugi na umenyo.
Dowry is no a request but a command from God,a man who can pay dowry is not a husband
Mr.Ben You are Blessed..Finest Gold Goes Through Fire..You Are That Gold..Remain Blessed
Such stories make me appreciate being single.... he's been through I think the second wife is something to do with "officiating" your union..jipange go with dowry and see how things will change...this is a battle God has chosen you to fight and test your faith.
Wanjiru hika tiga kwìyùmìrìria na ndùmbìtwo ùguo.
Jina lina umuhimu mwingi sio kuitwa jina tu.
He sounds like a good guy and I hope God will continue blessing him even after numerous turbulences but you must change that name from breakdown Ben to Blessing Ben. Good luck
Or Blessed Ben
Every situation reveals something about who you truly are.. You will never learn anything if you keep thinking that everyone else did you wrong..because we all play a part in creating a dysfunctional life..
Just an opinion..
True but in other cases NO.
Very true .The fact that his 1st marriage failed doesn't mean that . He can't do it right for his 2nd wife .It's not all me me me . 😣😣
Everything happen with a reason u r blessed man n never give up n b strong tuturagio ni 💪💪
I know this guy.He is one of my spiritual sons that I raised at Youth.He is humble and goodhearted at the same time and very hardworking. Apostle George King knows him too..
Wah
This is so bad yaani
Why did she have to get married knowing fully well she's pregnant? Some women are daring 😟.
That's my Lovely cousin,,,May the Almighty God keep you to always to testify of his goodness,,keep trusting in Him everything happens for a reasons,,Romans 8:28 In all things God works for the good of those who love him ,who have been called according to his Purpose#You are blessed bro
Mwambie hiyo jina breakdown achange
A You Conserned About That "BREAKDOWN " Name....
All This LIKES Demands You Change That Name Please
God has been on your side and he has always made a way for you whenever trials rose.
I would urge you to change that name "break down“.
You are prophecying to Yrself break down all the blessings God is bringing your way. Names carry a lot and until we realise that, we will keep going around the same mountain.
Change the names has
TEN GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE.
1. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS WEAKNESSES.
'' Only God has no weakness and every rose flower has its own thorns.No one is perfect so learn to persevere with one another.''
2. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY.
'' No one is an angel. Avoid digging one’s past-forgive and forget.''
3. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU A COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE IN MARRIAGE.
“ He gives him/her in form of raw material in order for you to mould what you desire.''
4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES.
'' Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of fire.Marriage is not a bed of roses .'’
5. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE.
“ There is no ready made marriage.Marriage is hard work ,volunteer yourself and perfect it daily.''
6. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS,
'' We can never be equal,some will be far front and others far behind.Work hard and with time your dreams will come true.Patience pays.''
7. MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK.
“ To marry is to a risk. You cannot predict what will happen after marriage: - situations or a person may change, so leave room for adjustment.’’
8. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR
“ When you marry you enter into a battle field be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.”
9 .EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY.
'' There is no free love in marriage. You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
10. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT IT’S PERMANENT
“ Marriage needs total commitment. Love is the binding factor that makes a couple stick together.Divorce starts in the mind.”
N;B;Composed by mr magnet.
very insightful, points taken
@@RyanRennox254 thanks madam
Oh!!! You have said God has blessed you and has been blessing you,,,, now why delay visiting her parents?? Its unfortunate how our African husbands take paying dowry lightly,,,,, please handle your marriage with care n love ,, go for your wife as early as yesterday,, when you keep delaying you add salt to injury ,,, gather your clan/ pple n make a point of officiating the union ,, I believe all is well but ignorance or any kind of arrogance is not good for either side please
Ann we should be careful with relationships,for one in kenyan law you can't hv customary n legal marriage n he knew haezi wed tena.Amesema since the wife aende they've never met meaning she's still his wife.i feel for the mother of his kids 😥
When someone is in a situation they are like blind
He should have called it quits when she refused to go for tests never doing the wedding
Haaaia na vile wanaume..wanakataa kuvumilia..wewe ni wa nguvu cos hukukibilia kumchika kwa nguvu
The problem started when he was approached and accepted....
IT IS ONLY A PERSON WHO GOES THROUGH SUCH THINGS CAN KNOWN SUCH A SITUATION BETTER. JUDGING HIM WON'T HELP. I JOIN THOSE SAYING HIS NAME BREAKDOWN SHOULD BE CHANGED.
You are ight bro. People especially men need to talk to heal. You will overcome. Nalea wawili, son and daughter, and it has been so fulfilling to watch them grow.
My God what a testimony . Ben a good Man but meeting wrong Women. God bless you and your Children, very touching and God loves you🙏
No one ask for the other side of a story if a woman gives their story,I wonder why people are asking for wife to give her story....God blessings to Ben and Family
Your destiny is under attack young man. No weapon formed against you will prosper. Partner with some prayer warriors.
Names are very strong you must try and change that name "breakdown'' agsin break the soultires of the first marriage cause u had been joined together and blessed as a family get a pastor who ll understand these things search FB for Rev.cephas k karanja he'll help you
Wow I now remember this Gentleman!!!He is so amazing ❤️💞💞 neguturuo nduretuo neguturuo....🙏🙏
you are a star that why devil is fighting you continue soon you will be rewarded. Atumia how on earth unaacha watoto naunapata usingizi pole bro i wish you are my neighbor watoto nigekusaindia
Ladies please musiwache watoto wenu,..nababa zao,. Omba mungu, a bless the works of ur hands... Never leave ur children for other wemen to take care of them.. Whats wrong with this genenaration...?
Well said.
Hey Ben.Be encouraged n keep trusting in God coz he is able.Never loose hope.Mwana wa kahìì aturagio nì kuìyùmia.l beleive God is still on your side n none else can be against you.You are blsd.May God give your children peace,joy,wisdom n comfort all the time Remember also to bring them up in church.Shalom.
Wao, that's great.... Thanks for your testimony. Humbled. Things happen to Men as well
I trust this man needs Deliverance somethings are not normal
When you see a repeat of something in your life it means there is something that speaks against you in that area. You need to break the alter of broken marriages,thats why too much suffering,rejection and alot of stuff that you don't know why! See your pastor give a sacrifice and may God break you free in Jesus Name.
power of names, you are breaking down soo much, how about breakthrough? breakforth? May God see you through!
Everything happens for a reason. You are a good guy with faith keep trusting God is not done with you. It's not over until God says that is over. Trials and temptations are always there but for those who trust God they are overcomers. Hold on God is on the way.
I have watched the whole thing and I almost shed tears. Whatever you went/you are going through is too much. Here is my advice, the name you are calling yourself 'Breakdown' could be breaking you down and it will continue so long as its still your name. Please try to change it to a more positive name that sounds like blessings. Nature knows no jokes. Think about it.
I agree.
That's a revelation that most people need to have.
Waaaah Ngai ndari thome atoi oundu niuri gitumi wimwega kana wi muru yu are one in a million Ngai niegukwambararia muno niugutoria.
I hope everything works out for your family. Those kids need both parents. Whatever the issues are, try n work them out for the sake of your children. They shouldn't suffer bcos of your differences. May the Lord guide you in it all as you seek dialogue. Listen to your wife. She may be crying for help
Thahabu iria njega igeragirwo mwakini... I won't be quick to despise any of the side...but anger sometimes. ...how can a woman leave behind an year old childrens...ladies let's stop being empty headed... Ni atige itheru ciana ni kirathimo na ni ngerenwa....2 bouncing baby boys its a blessings... Watoi ni innocent
Wah mapezi kizungumuti 😂that first time alikataa kuleta results ungesimamisha hio harusi no need waste of money and time. .early better
So true! But sometimes when folks are in love, they can be blind to the red flags!
@grace exactly it was a sign .. ni male ego ATI being tough is the in thing shidwe
I refused to be ignorant so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
watching from Riyadh watching from Saudi who cares🙄🙄watch what you are watching na utoe makasiriko hapa🙄🙄
wiyumiririe muriu,. we are all master pieces in progress, God perfects us each day. kiugo kiratwira Mwathani niakagathiriria aria metetreire mateguthethuka Ngoro ciyuire wihokeku na ukiriria
wa mathina. Rathimwo.
Don't worry brother,,all is not lost,mih pia nimepitia mengi Ed am just trusting God,arokwehererìa maūndū mūhoi Ngai ndoragìra
Name has power, Ben change that name and the breakthrough will follow, your problems that name you call yourself.
Apostle George King told me so since he knows the whole story and was around when all that happened but couldn't help coz the lady was very cunning and things happened so first plus Ben had just got saved and he and other youth members had respect for that lady since the lady was praise and worship member.
GOD BLESS YOU. HE NEVER SLEEPS HE NEVER SLUMBERS.HE IS FAITHFUL GOD.
This interview is doing great. Good to acknowledge good work.
Women do not care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and go with the winners!!
Not all
He has such a beautiful spirit!
Your destiny is great and you are going far
I don't think dowry issue can be enough reason to make one leave her own children to go and stay with her mother... I want to believe that it's more than what we are hearing. Ben, this is a spiritual warfare, let God himself give you a strategy on how you're going to go about this battle. Pray for spiritual guidance.
Ushangamukire Indo ici😂😂😂niuigirwo muno,hee,ucio Mundu nake Kaii🤦I love ur songs Ben🙏may God intervin in ur lyf
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Ati, kuaragia gasturi gaku ucio niuhoro mwega. Pole for the past, am so happy for your story brother.
This is a very touching story ... keep strong and may the Lord come through for you
There is spiritual spouse fighting your marriage! Is a stabborn spirit but it comes to an end by help of anointed man of God and through a decent Godly life style
It's better to break up mapema rather than someone wasting 5 plus years for someone to change. Count it as a blessing
Exactly
The grace period to divorce the first wife is over so divorce her officially, then look for something little you go and see the parents of your current wife for blessings and also for your wife to feel comfortable in your house,
@Betty Williams great n wise advice my sister 👏👏👏
@Betty Williams......ya rwanio ikuaga ona rwanio, jipe shughli brother na ulee watoto wako plz,single fathers ni wengi pia nowadays
Waah people go through alot pole brother,breakdown is not a good name
For real it's not good, he need to change it aky
Aky
Look for a man of God who can break this chain all will be well in Jesus's name
May God remember you Ben and please change that name breakdown it has an effect in your life
Any woman who abandons her kids is a serpent (I'm talking as someone who was abandoned together with my 2 brothers at a very tender age). Don't go back to the woman's family even with wazee's. It will be in vain because that woman is the devil in flesh.
How about any man that abandon his kids !? How about the men who terrorize their wives to an extent that they run away from the monster thus leaving their kids behind !?
@@blessedmama5367 Whereas I respect your point of vie, naturally, men are not nurturers. They are providers, protectors, and fixers. That's their biological programming. On the other hand, women are nurtures by nature. So, when you see a woman abandoning her naturally programmed role, that's an animal. No reason whatsoever justifies a woman abandoning her children. Like the wife to this guy, how can she abandon her kids at that young age?
@@brianmaina9925 Stop the double standards...It is wrong for any person to abandon their child(ren),period!!!
@@brianmaina9925 it's not easy to grow up motherless but some women leave their babies cos of luck of otherwise . Most of Kikuyu women prefer to suffer with or for their kids but sometimes their mosnters husband make the situation unbearable for the mothers to deal with .look for your mother n hear her side of the story .
Some people are inhuman.
Pretty soon you will Sing a Song of Victory. You are Ben Victor devil will bow n your enemies subdued!!! I love your music Heni na Ngwa.
Soo tourching story ,nimekua niskia watu walienda hanny moon wakaachana najiuliza sababu kumbe ni mambo kama hii😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Oh my it's so painful but all in all jikaze kimwanaume.
Being a woman I don't second any woman who damp her kids run for ur dear life that woman is as worse as the 1st one
Change your name.There is a spirit behind every name.
You are a strong man. Your name breakdown means you are able to pick or push what is not moving.you are very strong.your life is precious
God is Always Faithful to His People... Keep Trusting in Him.. Thnx for sharing your story
If a woman can't stand with you during your difficult times, huyo wachana naye, anakupenda maisha ikiwa poa, no ti hīndī ya mathīna, ucio ūtarī na ruo na ciana e ciarīire. Brother you are strong 💪
Sure that is a gold digger but wonders if she has guts to leave her kids, her own flesh and blood
wow! Change your name to breakthrough Ben! Wachana na Breakdown, you are going far...
The name is a nickname given from his song breadown
@@lucynganga2217 I appreciate the origin, but names spoken carry life or death...and I wish ignorance was a defence but it is not, it is okay to sing about it but to adopt that as his name mmm.. I wish all the best and I love his ministry. Thanks for chiming in 💕
You have a great destiny may GOD strengthen you and may the LORD come through for you
Don't worry God will bless us for this situation bcoz God will never leave us in every situation be strong watoto siyo kinonda
Pole sana Ben....dakumenyire ukiendia bangles and all that pale dubois rd na ngagura muno. May God remember you and your kids
Take heart brother you are going far. God will see you through, & may those small angles grow healthy & loved by God.
Tuturagio ni kwinyumia..... Itu riu nirikuhituka... Ugoocage Jehova niundu Wa mawiko make na iyo woman ndukamigire.... Rera twana mwenye nyaga niaramenya uria are da nawe. Thii na mbere na kuhoya na kwihinga.
Life is just but a dream, so unfair, so unpredictable, sometimes sweet sometimes bitter but all is vanity. Just appreciate the gift of life and hold on to faith.
Wah!!u r strong..God bless u for those babies..
Woooi Ngai ririkana ndungata ino yaku umikemie na umigirie maithori .... in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen
U r a strong man..women money is not everything..marriage is happiness..
You are a great man...prosperity in your life brother...I don't really know what women want...
U r my hero nd i'll name u Breakthrough Ben
God bless u
Courage brother, He will sail you through in Jesus name Amen
You need to pray that God may deliver you anytime you find repetition of of unluckiness in our lives they are covenants that need to be broken
Take heart, trust in God, despite what you are going through at the end of the tunnel there's light.
Take heart bro God is there for you
God is still on the throne. Kids are blessings he will make a way
Waaaoh vile uko na sauti,, aki honeymoon 🤔🤔🤔🤔Kai ruracio ruitagio kia hinya iii,, ona hau hatiri na utheri,,, 👏👏👏👏👏ur hiro rea watoi
My prob.Is that checkthru the comments before the story...Am as curious as a cat is😂😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣thought I was alone
Same here 🤣🤣🤣
@@njeshngashmamaboize2873 😂😂😂😂😂😂We are born of the same Mother
Me too🤦♀️🤦♀️
Am Gerald Toilet africa chairman ) owesome task I really love kdm... heaven seeth my brothers......
This man is also distressed. Traumatizing.hope He get a cheer up
I wish I can meet him to help
Sorry bro just take care of the kids she will come back. And pray for her
Mateso ya wenye haki nimengi Kanini Bwana wetu yesu hutoponya nayo yote it is better to pass through tough time than to pass it out when you don't have strength to encourage yourself my brother you are God's product face that challenges today do that you can have peace tomorrow in Jesus Name
Wooooiiii.....Mr Ben ndukanamake ningutigwo ni mundu wathy Ngai atangutingity ndukanamake tuturangio nikwinyumia, though ungefile divorce ya 1st wife ndio umwelcome the 2nd one officially, twana nikirathimo there nitukaririkananga how u struggled to raise them mamayo akiongozwa na pesa
God is able i have seen him deliver my son in a very horrible situation.Jesus is real
MAONI YANGU TIME ALIKATAA TEST UGESIMAMISHA ARUSI THEN HIO JINA BREAKDOWN IBADILISHE PLS HERI INGEKUA BREAKTHRO
Pole Sana my friend Ben. Andú a gúkú thíno magúthúra ririkana Ngai ndagúthuire. Blessings are waiting for you.
She leaves her kids that young, reason being? Lea watoto for now.
God is still faithful,don give up mr Ben,waaa huyo dem aki