Retirement: The Best Years of Your Life? | James Cobb | TEDxUoChester

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  • Опубліковано 1 кві 2020
  • It’s no secret that we are ageing as a population. People are living longer but are they living better? Around the world, many over 65’s are starting to embrace retirement through new experiences, adventure and most importantly community, as they surround themselves by people that not only alleviate or even eliminate loneliness but also reinvigorate their lives. In a country where ageing and retirement is seen as a negative, is it possible that through a positive mental attitude, wellbeing and community, retirement could and should be some of the best years of your life? It’s no secret that we are ageing as a population. People are living longer but are they living better? Around the world, many over 65’s are starting to embrace retirement through new experiences, adventure and most importantly community as they surround themselves by people that not only alleviate or even eliminate loneliness but also reinvigorate their lives. In a country where ageing and retirement is seen as a negative, is it possible that through a positive mental attitude, wellbeing and community, retirement could and should be some of the best years of your life? This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @RetrieverTrainingAlone
    @RetrieverTrainingAlone Рік тому +25

    As a youngster in college, money was a constraint, then during my working years time was a constraint, in old age fitness will be a constraint. I retired at age 62. The next ten years will be the best decade of my life up here in Alaska as we have money, time, and fitness to enjoy backpacking, biking, canoeing, cross country skiing, gardening, etc.

  • @macmerc1556
    @macmerc1556 Рік тому +32

    Retired at 58, financially secure but have struggled every day for the last 4 years trying to find purpose. My advice would be, have a well thought out plan, dont go from 110% to 0% the day after. I found it a real shock.

    • @KB-ns4sn
      @KB-ns4sn Рік тому +5

      Why do you need a purpose? There have to be a litany if things you passed up doing during your work years due to lack of time. I've been retired for 8 years, and still don't have time to do everything I want to. My only purpose is enjoying myself

    • @grahamedouglas3432
      @grahamedouglas3432 Рік тому +1

      You're very fortunate. It is not that straightforward for everyone

    • @MrSteamDragon
      @MrSteamDragon 3 місяці тому

      Hello there @@KB-ns4sn ..."My only purpose is enjoying myself".... I like that !! I like that a lot !
      I was 'encouraged' into early retirement 3 months ago (am 66, so 1 year earlier than planned). Am financially ok and have lots of hobbies/pastimes that I can now indulge in so filling my time isn't an issue at the moment. In recent weeks though I felt I should be doing more with the time i have left - should I be doing something else ???
      But yes, I worked every day since I left school, paid taxes for best part of 49 years, worked hard and kept my nose clean so, indeed, I should just find a new purpose in enjoying myself. It's now 'me' time 😎 ...along with my wife of course 🙂. Thanks

  • @Legnerps
    @Legnerps 2 роки тому +10

    Naps are the highlight of my day !!

  • @sidinhasol
    @sidinhasol Рік тому +119

    Retirement at some point in life is needed

    • @sandrinhopjl
      @sandrinhopjl Рік тому

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    • @ana22btoss
      @ana22btoss Рік тому

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    • @sidinhasol
      @sidinhasol Рік тому

      @Philip Marnellenglish Orr What'sapp✙16692574165...

  • @quartytypo
    @quartytypo Рік тому +10

    Best part of retirement is when you get sick and don't have to go back to work to keep your job.

  • @sauropod5393
    @sauropod5393 2 роки тому +69

    I've been asked countless times "What do you do now that you're retired?"
    My answer:
    I was fortunate to have earned a chemistry degree in my younger years and now in my retirement, I put my chemistry to good use and I now enjoy turning beer, wine, Scotch, and margaritas into urine.

  • @howellwong11
    @howellwong11 6 місяців тому +4

    For me, retirement meant being free from working stress. Perhaps this is why I'm living to a ripe old age. I'm 91 years old and comfortably retired for over 23 years.

  • @ricovalentino1759
    @ricovalentino1759 5 місяців тому +2

    So we all have 24 hours in a day,
    On average 8 hours sleep 8 hours work 8 hours free time
    Plan a good routine/schedule to fill out the times of removing the 8 hours of work and there it is easy,
    An idea to think about doing,
    Go down to part time work before you fully retire so you can ease into retirement.
    Then only you will know when you are fully ready,
    Remember only you create your own world.
    God bless to you all.

  • @virtualtreadmillwalknature1488
    @virtualtreadmillwalknature1488 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this!!

  • @techguy3507
    @techguy3507 2 роки тому +5

    I’m 64. I loved this.

  • @etiennelouw9244
    @etiennelouw9244 Рік тому +1

    I planned my retirement or as I say "too tired to work". My house was paid off, I bought a new motorcycle (Honda NC750XD) that is very economical, great for touring. Have a ton of projects.

  • @ddd777a5
    @ddd777a5 2 роки тому

    I enjoyed this very much, especially at my age now.

  • @ianwall9152
    @ianwall9152 2 місяці тому

    Great video. I agree with everything. I am in my fifties and best is yet to come

  • @maaidakausar9802
    @maaidakausar9802 Рік тому +2

    Brilliant

  • @missadda8890
    @missadda8890 Рік тому +3

    I will work in some capacity until I die surrounded by my friends and family for as long as possible ,here in the US living in a retirement community is expensive so people move out of state to Florida,South Carolina etc and create a new life with new friends,I dont have this bug in me I'll cast my lot with the friends and family I already have but different strokes for different folks good luck to everyone on your life path.

    • @arthurthomasware5004
      @arthurthomasware5004 Рік тому

      "Working in some capacity" is the key, missadda8890. If you can find something you love doing, do it.

  • @osho9999
    @osho9999 Рік тому +11

    I retired about 3 years ago at the age of 58 which was our retirement age
    As a look back at the last 3 years, I think they have been my best years, as if i am reborn, or living a new Life
    Still miles to go before I sleep
    Let's see how much I can do for the orphans, old people, under

    • @charlesonyando6123
      @charlesonyando6123 8 днів тому

      would appreciate working with you for betterment of orphans and old people especially making and creating abilities for them to grow their own foods and income

  • @curtrice6060
    @curtrice6060 Рік тому +5

    I am 79 , and am as happy as a clam at high tide. I went to college, saved money, so I could retire. It worked for me. Snow bird. Stopped driving , take the train.

    • @Helibeaver
      @Helibeaver Рік тому

      Where do you go for a good time?

  • @andreawannop8670
    @andreawannop8670 Рік тому +4

    I like his talk. Certainly puts a new perspective on aging

  • @OneAmericanWriter
    @OneAmericanWriter Рік тому +1

    Hello where can we follow you Mr. Cobb? I want to see more video on this topic! (Ready to retire happily but still have to work some and that’s fine.)

  • @amskills5931
    @amskills5931 Рік тому +5

    I didn't hear much during this talk that the average person doesn't already know. I agree that the best years of our lives are ahead. It would be helpful to have some real examples delivered with energy and enthusiasm. As for living out your years in a "village" that's just one choice among many. The path forward can have many options.

    • @arthurthomasware5004
      @arthurthomasware5004 Рік тому

      Hi, Amskills5931. I've been retired for 28 years and am now 87. Just started placing videos on the subject on UA-cam. You might find them interesting. Try Some thoughts on retirement which was the first of these, placed just a month ago.

    • @marieb8774
      @marieb8774 8 місяців тому +1

      I agree and I think he works for or owns a retirement village!

  • @vijivijayaraghavan
    @vijivijayaraghavan Рік тому +1

    Retirement is definitely a new freedom and you have done ✅ your best for the family . In Hinduism you are in the last phase of your life which is basically that you have to free yourself from entanglements and lead a happy with life less dependence on others .

  • @steinarbruun3852
    @steinarbruun3852 Рік тому +3

    So old age is the golden age, eh? And all the ages before that are the dismal ones? Hogwash! My life has been an exciting adventure, full of challenges. I found a wonderful travelling partner early on and our life has been one of acquiring knowledge and new skills of all sorts. It has not been easy, but it was not dull. There may very well be old folks who are the happiest they have been - especially when they did not enjoy their earlier ages. Sounds like this speaker is one of those. I am 75, and some decades ago I inherited a disabling disease I had to come to terms with. I am unable to utilize nearly all the skills that require physical activity. Still, I am content as I manage to find things that interest me. To be content you need 3 things. Someone to love, something to do and something to hope for. Those I have. But no way are these my golden years.

  • @richarddiego3424
    @richarddiego3424 Рік тому +11

    Nice pick, I’m compiling and picking stocks that I’d love to hold on to for a few years before retirement, do you think these stocks would do better over the years? I’d love to retire with at least $2million savings. Now you gotta rely on a pretty good diversification if you must stay green. Currently up 11% and being cautious. Still better deal than letting it sit in savings or checking earning near 0-1% interest.

    • @berwickperu7683
      @berwickperu7683 Рік тому

      Well up at 11% in this present market is impressive. I was wondering if investing in a cumulative ETF during this next decade is a sound investment. Or is it better to invest in a distributing ETF (even considering taxes)?

    • @richarddiego3424
      @richarddiego3424 Рік тому

      @@berwickperu7683 ETFs are cool. My portfolio is very much diversified so it's not like i have a particular fund i invest in. You should probably copy a licensed person more so one with experience of the past bear markets. I copy a chartered financial analyst Karen Marie Emma" Been quite consistent. My portfolio returned $350k in Q1.

    • @orchmondosteen108
      @orchmondosteen108 Рік тому

      @@richarddiego3424 i am envious i've been in the red for too long even before the dip but would like to ask are you giving her your money or the money stays in your account?

    • @richarddiego3424
      @richarddiego3424 Рік тому

      @@orchmondosteen108 You don't give out funds here. My account only mirrors her trades in real time that's the ideal for this system. The lady I just recommended is a renowned advisor and knows what the heck she's doing. Check her out and get in touch if you'd need help

    • @cliftonkelly3812
      @cliftonkelly3812 Рік тому

      @@orchmondosteen108 m ever confident in Karen Marie Emmas ability to create expeditious future benefit. I made profit withdraw in December. A total of $570k for the final quarter. I used all of it to buy gold and resume investment with my original $200k cap

  • @robinschoenthaler5090
    @robinschoenthaler5090 8 місяців тому

    I would love to know his credentials and where he got all these stats.

  • @markkuahlamaa770
    @markkuahlamaa770 Рік тому

    I can Retired in Finland 55 age.
    Now I am 58 age. Later I want to Go Thailand Retired too !
    I think in Retired Time Finland & Thailand about then I am 65 age , and to stay 50/50.
    Retired 4 Tuy.

  • @designlife4living547
    @designlife4living547 3 роки тому +25

    The speaker provides no sources for his “stats”. No mention of his “experience”. It actually sounds like he is sellling a ‘concept’, i.e. promoting the retirement village industry concept. I’d rather live my retirement in society surrounded by people of all ages and in all conditions.

    • @mikeykpe6123
      @mikeykpe6123 3 роки тому +2

      I agree. The blessing to live in a world I have always loved from young till I am old. And thank God for it.

    • @ricksseniorlife
      @ricksseniorlife 2 роки тому +1

      You saved me 20 min

    • @matthewskiggundu9397
      @matthewskiggundu9397 Рік тому

      @@mikeykpe6123 rert

  • @belewis1478
    @belewis1478 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you James Cobb. This was an insightful presentation on an important issue. I love the concept of changing the language of aging. I turn 60 soon and am looking forward to the age of celebration.

  • @comicmikesilverageadams8360
    @comicmikesilverageadams8360 2 роки тому +2

    Tough crowd, wow

  • @Legnerps
    @Legnerps 2 роки тому +2

    In fact I'm trying to emulate those years now in retirement. Except I can drive a car now.

  • @Legnerps
    @Legnerps 2 роки тому +5

    Anyone here get the idea or the feeling he's trying to convince HIMSELF???

    • @12park12
      @12park12 2 роки тому +2

      Just advertising his homes perhaps haha

  • @josephj7991
    @josephj7991 Рік тому

    My Uncle just suffered thru cancer treatment and Died at age 82...

  • @patrickpilosi2349
    @patrickpilosi2349 Рік тому

    James, I believe you mentioned that 92% of the people 65 and older did not need assistance with their living conditions. I assume that people on Dialysis are included in the 92% or are they in the 8% category?

  • @davidforesto
    @davidforesto Рік тому +2

    Big ups to everyone working effortlessly trying to earn a living while building wealth. I’m 50 and my wife 44 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for us this early even till now we earn monthly through passive income.
    Thanks to fire movement. //

    • @arthurthomasware5004
      @arthurthomasware5004 Рік тому

      Looks like you've both plenty of time to 'feel out' what you really want to do from hereon.

  • @johnbryon7666
    @johnbryon7666 Рік тому

    i am 68 just retired and not happy very board

  • @tomm5810
    @tomm5810 Рік тому +5

    The secret is Pickleball! Just saying...😁

  • @spider2020
    @spider2020 2 роки тому +3

    I dis agree at least for myself the biggest fear about retiring is not the fear of being lonely but the "fear of the unknown" I feel like those guys you hear about who spend 60 years in prison then upon relieese from jail commit a crime as soon as they can so they can go back to a predicable life. I'm 67 and told them I will retire this Spring but I just don't think I can push myself to go threw with it...as it is now working 50 hrs a week still managed to get rejected again this year by 100% of the 300 girls that came up to me on the dance floor- never had a friend girl, no phone numbers, no nothin so I already know in advance what to expect and "The Happiest Years of My Life" ain't got nothin to do with it, at that point the term retirement is going to sound more appealing then The age of jail Cell ebration

    • @arthurthomasware5004
      @arthurthomasware5004 Рік тому

      67 is still young, Spider2020. I'm twenty years beyond that at 87. My advice: retire! I took voluntary redundancy at 59. Check out a few more videos by people who ARE retired, rather than those who haven't yet but talk on it.

  • @TailoredYarnMemories
    @TailoredYarnMemories 4 роки тому +4

    Great to see everyone's tedx talks released. Hope you're getting on well.

  • @sierrachoco5271
    @sierrachoco5271 2 роки тому +6

    I'm 64 and I don't know what this guy is smoking but I want some!

    • @Legnerps
      @Legnerps 2 роки тому

      It's legal in Maine! 🤣

    • @sierrachoco5271
      @sierrachoco5271 2 роки тому

      @@Legnerps Gotcha, legal in NY too - best wishes!!!

  • @robertabele5196
    @robertabele5196 7 місяців тому

    This guys charts are not my experience. The older I get the sadness is greater

  • @raphael2amartinez
    @raphael2amartinez 3 роки тому +8

    What income level are these people who live in these communities? I bet they are high income residents.

  • @islandgirldoherty2888
    @islandgirldoherty2888 3 роки тому +11

    Great talk and good timing. I am retiring in 3 months at 55😀

    • @johnnyvegas4583
      @johnnyvegas4583 3 роки тому

      So did you do it? What are your plans?

    • @islandgirldoherty2888
      @islandgirldoherty2888 3 роки тому +6

      Johnny Vegas yes i retired Dec 11, 2020. Plans are to downsize and travel when possible and help out our aging parents. One month in and doing great!😀

    • @joelschmidt2983
      @joelschmidt2983 3 роки тому

      That’s really nice to know, Any Post retirement plans?

    • @dimlighty
      @dimlighty 2 роки тому

      @@islandgirldoherty2888 How do you do now?

  • @4Kelvyn
    @4Kelvyn 3 роки тому +6

    Brill I been looking for this for over a year at 55 , thank you

  • @chengavitch10
    @chengavitch10 3 роки тому +3

    Meandering delivery of thin messages. The life expectancy in UK in 2022 is 80.9 years and the "happiest time in our life is 82 years".

  • @Shamrock777-oy9vv
    @Shamrock777-oy9vv 2 місяці тому

    What a long drawn out advert!

  • @zdravkasoskic3169
    @zdravkasoskic3169 2 місяці тому

    Promoting communities?

  • @osho9999
    @osho9999 Рік тому

    Under privileged and armed forces who give the everything and even their lives so that other country men can live in peace
    I am not a rich man but I don't intend to give anything to my children you are well educated and already earning, I put my money and services to better use

  • @jameslee5520
    @jameslee5520 Рік тому +2

    I’m a multi-millionaire . Guess what? It doesn’t matter . Money is hollow. I need work. I need purpose. Don’t kid yourself. Retirement sucks and it doesn’t matter how much money you have.

    • @charlesonyando6123
      @charlesonyando6123 8 днів тому

      True but can reduce effects by working with vulnerable groups i.e. women ,disables orphans and drug addicts in Kenya

  • @sandponics
    @sandponics Місяць тому

    When the robots arrive, everyone will be retired early. For some, Men's Sheds, an Australian invention are a great solution to growing old. Baby boomers can do anything they want to, we have the money and the attitude to change the world for the better. AI will set us free.

  • @Legnerps
    @Legnerps 2 роки тому

    Heeeeey ... you skipped the best years. Pre-school childhood!!!

  • @willie346
    @willie346 2 місяці тому

    Sounds like someone selling retirement village condominiums...

  • @mrbluesoles8749
    @mrbluesoles8749 Рік тому

    I am sorry but this talk is so far from reality in the united states. How much time, Mr. Cobbs have you spent in "Nursing Homes" in this country? When older folks cannot live by themselves anymore and are forced to sell their homes (if they are lucky to have one) to pay for a bed (often in a shared room) where they get substandard care because these facilities are all struggling. Oh yes, if you own a million dollar home you have the resources to live in the finest posh retirement community - but this is not the norm in this country. There is no support for the older population in this country.

  • @logangray2066
    @logangray2066 3 роки тому +5

    I retired at 70 with the help of professionals with which I have formed a long term working relationship with managing my investments and franchises. Anyones regret should be not retiring earlier.

    • @dimlighty
      @dimlighty 2 роки тому

      How do you do now?

  • @hrench
    @hrench 3 роки тому +12

    Wasted 20 minutes. I thought TeD was "technology, entertainment, design.". None of those. "Old is good". Saved you twenty minutes.

    • @ddd777a5
      @ddd777a5 2 роки тому +3

      It won’t be a waste of time once your our age. You may even appreciate topics out of your comfort zone by then and not let it get to you as it does now. See you in 20 years :-)

    • @tonydonohue2727
      @tonydonohue2727 3 місяці тому

      Lol

  • @mainamwareri6984
    @mainamwareri6984 2 роки тому +3

    That's a very, dour, stiff worded narrative that better suited to an audience at a wake. You sound like a mortician.

  • @ET-cj8jo
    @ET-cj8jo Рік тому

    The speaker is tired, lifeless and ill-prepared. The structure of the talk is ... unstructured. Quite awful. One of the worst TED talks I have seen.

  • @dappy848
    @dappy848 2 роки тому +5

    This is a very boring advertisement

  • @jeanpauljeanpaul2530
    @jeanpauljeanpaul2530 3 роки тому +9

    Your retirement years will be the absolute worse years of your life, you think because your not working all the time things will improve. 50% of people don’t live past 70, look forward to being old, limited mobility and illness, no thanks. I’ll enjoy my life now between 30 and 65, while I’m at my physical peak. Horrible ted talk.

    • @kevinmchugh870
      @kevinmchugh870 3 роки тому +10

      Live every day well. Retirement will be what you make it. Just like when you were working.

    • @TR4zest
      @TR4zest 3 роки тому +5

      Where does he say you can't live your best life between 30 and 65? His message is that you can have a good life after work, as well.

    • @wesleytyler9599
      @wesleytyler9599 2 роки тому

      REALITY CHECK ✔ ENJOY LIFE NOW 🌎U NEVER KNOW 🤔

    • @sierrachoco5271
      @sierrachoco5271 2 роки тому

      Yup!