i relate to this so much! i’m going to a russell group university this year but i haven’t made anyone in my asian family very proud because i’m doing liberal arts lol. I know what it’s like to feel alienated by your community for doing humanities/social sciences. I find myself wishing a lot of the time that I was pursuing law or economics or medicine like all the other asian girls but i just can’t put myself through that to “fit in”. I know that a lot of asians actually do those things because of cultural pressure to conform and “get a good job”, lots of asian (desi) girls i know aren’t even excited to do medicine but they feel pressured. So i think people like us (brown people who refuse to to conform) will inspire those who feel pressured by their culture. I guess if most brown people choose not to do things because there’s barely any poc then there will always be a lack of poc in those sectors. People like me and Ibz can be that change!
Shehzadi Aziz yesss same, as of now I am 3/4 months away from sitting my A level exams and I am still unsure as to what to do at uni, at first I was following what my dad, and my extended family were suggesting and advising me to do, or TELLING me to do and while I took what they said into consideration, I decided fuck this I'm going to do what I really want to do at uni but I'm just worried for that backlash that will come from my extended family (we are quite a small family which is shocking as most Asian families are huge) and I do understand their point of view on the courses I choose, but they put me off doing psychology which I really wanted to do since secondary school, and directed me to do courses that I didn't exactly like such as mental health nursing, medicine etc. I think another reason as to why I'm hesitant on doing what I really would love to do is the thought of what if my family were right and that it would of been better to do the course they said?!
Angelinia Y im doing my exams this year too! yes it’s such a sad thing, parents like ours make us doubt ourselves so much. i ultimately chose liberal arts because it’s flexible and i’m also not sure what career i want to go into as well. i suggest you look at that degree programme, it’s new to the uk but well known particularly in america
Shehzadi Aziz Good luck on your exams!! And will look into that, I am also swaying to do creative expressive therapy, which is like art and therapy combined ish??? But it sounds nice. If I had done arts at a level I would have defo done it at uni, but again a levels were another thing that family told me what I should pick and shouldn't pick. Its sad.
lmao my parents don’t even like that i wanna be a lawyer but they don’t care cuz at the end of the day I’m the one who’s gonna be doing all the work and if I do sum I don’t like that won’t be good lol
omg legit same thing, my parents wanted me to become a doctor (typical asain/african parents lol) bc like eveyone else in our family is a doctor lol but i chose to do psychology and i know its what i love and didnt give a f**** at what they said and what my other family members said. bc at the end of the day you're gonna be doing the hard work therefore you need to choose something you enjoy doing.
my parents are very typically asian.. my father was a doctor and my parents always insisted that a degree in a good subject was essential... if you dont have a degree in asian culture you are a failure... i didnt get a degree i was a university dropout but i showed my parents i wasnt a total loser and became a multi millionaire instead
My parents always wanted me to be a doctor or a lawyer and I've applied for a Psych degree and my brown parents think I'm going to become a 'crazy mad scientist' loool. They think Psych sounds so stupid but ay doing it anyway
Shehzadi Aziz omgg i laughed so hard. but follow your heart even though you may get resistance from your family. once they see how happy you are and how well you're doing, tjey've got to change their mind
The low key shame of living that Gunners life right now! They've been my team from day but raah right now the shirt is in the cupboard under the stairs. An Ibz Mo vid on my birthday? Life is good. Best comment: "because I've been studying psychology for 14 weeks now I feel I'm qualified to advise you!". LOL on this 276 bus.
What your friend on the left said about mixing the colours of insulin pens, I thank you babes! The amount of times I've got my two different insulin pens mixed up and ended up in hospital is ridiculous
Yessssss! Firstly, you go girl! Secondly, I'll make sure we meet. We may even share some lectures! Let us raise our trowels in archaeological solidarity!
Sarah S hi Sarah! I'm thinking of studying archaeology at uni, what kind of stuff specifically do you study???? Like what are some modules/classes... Any advice/help would be soooo appreciated. Thanks in advance!
Hello Ibz, Love your content💙💙💙💙 I am aspiring to do medicine at university (my parents in no way force me 😂😂😂😂) and consider to apply in Cambridge!!! Thank u for you continuous support😊😊😊😊😊
In the midst of going through a miserable past paper, I saw your face pop up on my notifications and the way I clicked so fast 😄😄 just the 15 mins excapism I need ❤️
I'd also say to the person worrying about whether to do the degree their parents want or they want...whichever you choose you need to go into it with the most positive mindset you can or else you may make it a bad experience yourself !
Your parents will be angry at the first few weeks. But after sometime they will agree. That happened to me too. They wanted me to do medicine i refused though my dad was furious. I finally did Commerce and my parents got used to my degree
First! The Arsenal rep has to be the first fav thing about the video. Also your wearing that jumper again, it is nice 👌🏻 You gotta appreciate the diversity also.
Im in a similar situation. My parents want me to do medicine. I'm asian by the way 😂Anyways, I want to get into maths at uni, but I don't want to upset them. They're paying for me to go to a private sixth form, not any of my siblings. It's not as easy to just do the course I want to do. They're already going through a lot, and I don't want to disappoint them like my elder siblings have by not doing medicine. I asked them why they want me to do medicine, and they say it'll give me a better future. I've explained to them that maths could do the same but they don't listen.
Oh, it's my face! If anyone has any further questions regarding this topic, feel free to drop me a line on IG (spillsofsarah) or as a reply this comment. Between my essays and what not I will do my very best to respond! That is if anyone gets to see this comment, among all you bad b!tches! ;)
Heyyyy Ibz! How are you? I was waiting for this video and ngl it said that this was created 2 months ago and I was so confused omg because I haven't missed any of your videos 🙈👌
Hi Ibz, I'm most likely doing a psychology degree this year. How hard would you say it is? could you do a whole video about your experience with your course too?
My advice would be if you dislike ibz's videos then you must be corrupted by Oxford... Please seek help!
Or exeter
He goes Oxford now LOL
There's more diversity in this video than in Exeter
Hahah - unfortunately true :( I'm from near there but currently living in Cambridge and loving it!
DEADDD 😂😂😂
It’s weird how Ibz has a planet on his shirt because he deserves a whole world of seasoning #psychologibz
i relate to this so much! i’m going to a russell group university this year but i haven’t made anyone in my asian family very proud because i’m doing liberal arts lol. I know what it’s like to feel alienated by your community for doing humanities/social sciences. I find myself wishing a lot of the time that I was pursuing law or economics or medicine like all the other asian girls but i just can’t put myself through that to “fit in”. I know that a lot of asians actually do those things because of cultural pressure to conform and “get a good job”, lots of asian (desi) girls i know aren’t even excited to do medicine but they feel pressured. So i think people like us (brown people who refuse to to conform) will inspire those who feel pressured by their culture. I guess if most brown people choose not to do things because there’s barely any poc then there will always be a lack of poc in those sectors. People like me and Ibz can be that change!
Shehzadi Aziz yesss same, as of now I am 3/4 months away from sitting my A level exams and I am still unsure as to what to do at uni, at first I was following what my dad, and my extended family were suggesting and advising me to do, or TELLING me to do and while I took what they said into consideration, I decided fuck this I'm going to do what I really want to do at uni but I'm just worried for that backlash that will come from my extended family (we are quite a small family which is shocking as most Asian families are huge) and I do understand their point of view on the courses I choose, but they put me off doing psychology which I really wanted to do since secondary school, and directed me to do courses that I didn't exactly like such as mental health nursing, medicine etc. I think another reason as to why I'm hesitant on doing what I really would love to do is the thought of what if my family were right and that it would of been better to do the course they said?!
Angelinia Y im doing my exams this year too! yes it’s such a sad thing, parents like ours make us doubt ourselves so much. i ultimately chose liberal arts because it’s flexible and i’m also not sure what career i want to go into as well. i suggest you look at that degree programme, it’s new to the uk but well known particularly in america
Shehzadi Aziz Good luck on your exams!! And will look into that, I am also swaying to do creative expressive therapy, which is like art and therapy combined ish??? But it sounds nice. If I had done arts at a level I would have defo done it at uni, but again a levels were another thing that family told me what I should pick and shouldn't pick. Its sad.
lmao my parents don’t even like that i wanna be a lawyer but they don’t care cuz at the end of the day I’m the one who’s gonna be doing all the work and if I do sum I don’t like that won’t be good lol
Shehzadi Aziz mood, i do liberal arts too
#psychologibz wow ibz. groundbreaking. every psychologist out there is QUAKING
Ibz "Medicine. Medicine, Medicine"
Me: Yassssss Medicine Yasssssss
omg legit same thing, my parents wanted me to become a doctor (typical asain/african parents lol) bc like eveyone else in our family is a doctor lol but i chose to do psychology and i know its what i love and didnt give a f**** at what they said and what my other family members said. bc at the end of the day you're gonna be doing the hard work therefore you need to choose something you enjoy doing.
my parents are very typically asian.. my father was a doctor and my parents always insisted that a degree in a good subject was essential... if you dont have a degree in asian culture you are a failure... i didnt get a degree i was a university dropout but i showed my parents i wasnt a total loser and became a multi millionaire instead
@@Ecomatrix multi millionare? What do u do lol
Don’t think multi millionaires would have the time to chat in UA-cam comments - atleast that’s why I’m not one yet
@@Ecomatrix ur not a multi millionaire lmfao what
Turmeric soaked top 👌🏽😍🔥
Can we just take a moment to acknowledge how beautiful Sarah's hair is? Such goals 💖💖
Thank you!
Check out the curly girl method. Saved my hair! Also, I recently gave myself a hair cut, so it was looking little extra healthy that day ;)
Dulux paint back with the dislikes
Kaliyah Bower Hahaha! IM DEAD 💀😂
Dont forget bumbaclart megatron
i cant imagine doing a degree that i dont like, it’s already hard enough as it is
My parents always wanted me to be a doctor or a lawyer and I've applied for a Psych degree and my brown parents think I'm going to become a 'crazy mad scientist' loool. They think Psych sounds so stupid but ay doing it anyway
Tahnia lol, PhD is the safest bet for it at this piint in time.
I wanted to do psychology when i was in year 12 and my asian parents think psychology is just western propaganda 😩😩😩😩
jovita. good luck xx
Shehzadi Aziz omgg i laughed so hard. but follow your heart even though you may get resistance from your family. once they see how happy you are and how well you're doing, tjey've got to change their mind
Shehzadi Aziz what do they mean by that
Loved this collab!
How???I've seen you EVERYWHERE.👀👀
@@Isabel-cm7vj truee
Ibz you look so serious when all your friends are talking😂😭😂
Deanna Korotkova 😭😭😭😂😂 I have serious resting face
I have a whole lot of problems Ibz. First of all A levels 😭
yass!
We’ll make it don’t worry! Reunion on this comment when all of us get the amazing grades we worked hard for!
Yes yes!!!!
+Charmaine N I'll be here.
@@charmainen7824 when's the reunion
yasss psychologibz is lit - pls pls pls keep these chatty vids coming 😎❤️✨
I WANT TO FILM THIS WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!
@@IbzMo omds yes that would be so good, a collab with you and ela
when she said "don't go to bedfordshire" i was like lmao tea
YASSSS HACKNEY X CAMBRIDGE 💖 💖💖
😂😂😂arsenal is not going anywhere😂this video was lit 💥👏🏽
Leave my team alone. 😂 😭
The low key shame of living that Gunners life right now! They've been my team from day but raah right now the shirt is in the cupboard under the stairs. An Ibz Mo vid on my birthday? Life is good. Best comment: "because I've been studying psychology for 14 weeks now I feel I'm qualified to advise you!". LOL on this 276 bus.
Ibz and Saturn, my two favs😍😍
What your friend on the left said about mixing the colours of insulin pens, I thank you babes! The amount of times I've got my two different insulin pens mixed up and ended up in hospital is ridiculous
The first 30 seconds killed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm coming to Cam for my MPhil Archaeology starting in October and I'm SO hoping I'll meet Sarah!! Archaeology nerds unite ahaha 😂
Yessssss! Firstly, you go girl! Secondly, I'll make sure we meet. We may even share some lectures!
Let us raise our trowels in archaeological solidarity!
Sarah S hi Sarah! I'm thinking of studying archaeology at uni, what kind of stuff specifically do you study???? Like what are some modules/classes... Any advice/help would be soooo appreciated. Thanks in advance!
Did you and Sarah meet?
Omg the girl in the green dress is beautiful 😍💗
Never been to uni.wont be goin to uni,but im addicted to ur channel ! 🤗
Hello Ibz,
Love your content💙💙💙💙 I am aspiring to do medicine at university (my parents in no way force me 😂😂😂😂) and consider to apply in Cambridge!!! Thank u for you continuous support😊😊😊😊😊
look another exeter applicant turned Cambridge student! 👀
Ibz tactics - but khadijas pregnant 💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
In the midst of going through a miserable past paper, I saw your face pop up on my notifications and the way I clicked so fast 😄😄 just the 15 mins excapism I need ❤️
good luck
Thanks
YES IBZ SLAY
Yesss!!! Love these girls!! The format’s great keep it up
OMG,I love you and your friends. Such a positive energy ❤️❤️
TO ALL MY BAD BITCHES!! If you like this video PLEASE show some love!!! Comment, Like, Share, Twerk, Eat. Poo!
YOU’RE AT 60K!! WORK, WERQ, WERK
Using this as a break from French revision, keeping me going ibz thx
Bedfordshire uni and an Arsenal shirt, that girl is one of the strongest I’ve ever seen
I love this new series omg ❤️ stir fry in the background tho🔥🔥🔥
I feel really lucky to have very supportive parents 😌
where can i sign up for the psychologibz course
I love how detailed this is
I'd also say to the person worrying about whether to do the degree their parents want or they want...whichever you choose you need to go into it with the most positive mindset you can or else you may make it a bad experience yourself !
8:51 Everyone was in deep thinking
Your parents will be angry at the first few weeks. But after sometime they will agree. That happened to me too. They wanted me to do medicine i refused though my dad was furious. I finally did Commerce and my parents got used to my degree
I GOT A*AU IN MY MOCKS (The U because I didn't turn up to the exam..) Thank you for all the inspiration you give😭😭💪
Asma Motin Well done that is amazing. I had ABU haha (Spanish, French, Maths)
The kind of squad I need!
He’s lit!😍 love his videos
I love this channel so much!!
Looking forward to more of this new series ibz😄😄
First! The Arsenal rep has to be the first fav thing about the video. Also your wearing that jumper again, it is nice 👌🏻 You gotta appreciate the diversity also.
Gunners crew. 🙌🏾
Yukkkkkkkkk
JimJamJummy yesss Jummy! 🔴⚪️
Fun fact: Arsene Wenger and I share a birthday!
But Jummy is proper, repping the gunners like that!
Sarah my g! 👊🏽
Love this series!!! Keep them coming
I'm with Ibz I went to study legal and forsenic studies but instead my true passion was psychological studies and followed what my parents waned
❤️❤️ love you Ibz 😘😘😘😘😘
I really like this format
AYYYYYY SNAPFAM
Yassss ibz another video. Slayyyy 🙌💓🙌 love ya
LOVE THIS SERIES
i want to be in that sofa with you all and just chill.
Warning: We all have massive bums.
Storytime!! Eeeek, my absolute fav!
love your jumper Ibz :)
Love yah so much!!!!!
Sarah looks extra gorgeous today !
and extremely sensible/super helpful.
Guys!!! You all spelled Sarah wrong! It’s “IBZ” xx
Thank you! I'm inspired by paprika.
I was also heading to a bop after filming. Usually I look a mess, like today.
Luv u IBZ. You and your whole squad are all so beautiful inside and out.
Basically have a PowerPoint presentation ready to try to be persuasive 😂
I’m from Bedford and Bedford uni came into my school trying to do a talk & stuff and everyone knows it’s a bad uni so no one was interested. 😬
YESSSS NEW VIDEO
Fave video of yours ibz❤️
I LOVED THIS!!!
ibzzzz
you make my day love you
Forget coursework for my English a level, Ibzzzz and his videos come first (atm) 🙈👌
Legit no denying it. U see a Pakistani u already know they're a future doctor 🙄 lol too relatable my parents are the same.
Loveee you so much ibzzzz x ❤️❤️
Yes, an Ibz Mo Video... & I'm Early!
i fully relate to this omg; I do a-level literature, psych, and art, and it lowkey bugs off my parents because they wanted me going the medicine route
When the video loaded and I saw that Arsenal shirt, I can just imagine what the comment section is going to be like haha.
loved this vid!!
yasssssssss. That is all. I'll go back to revising for my GCSEs
FIRST!!!! Love your videos IBZ 💗
Only people to dislike are Exeter students lmfao
Boyos, I want more so this video better get to 3000 likes goddamit!
Okay but how did my sis wear that arsenal shirt with her chest (literally), love yourself and burn it Jummy
ohkay LOOOOOOOOOOL
LOOOL 😅 allow me bro. I’m a gunner through & through.
Oh my gosh Ibz two minutes early I actually love you
I support you Ibz😘
I LOVE YOUR FRIENDS THEY ARE BABES
The first question tho..........
Bhoomi Gupta 😂😂😂😭
lmao my parents are gonna get a heart attack when I show them the unis I applied to
YASSS!!!! A NEW VIDEO!!😍😍😍❤❤❤
Im in a similar situation. My parents want me to do medicine. I'm asian by the way 😂Anyways, I want to get into maths at uni, but I don't want to upset them. They're paying for me to go to a private sixth form, not any of my siblings. It's not as easy to just do the course I want to do. They're already going through a lot, and I don't want to disappoint them like my elder siblings have by not doing medicine. I asked them why they want me to do medicine, and they say it'll give me a better future. I've explained to them that maths could do the same but they don't listen.
When the money comes they'll be proud
Lol ....Ibz mo seasoned his T-shirt with tumeric....
Oh, it's my face!
If anyone has any further questions regarding this topic, feel free to drop me a line on IG (spillsofsarah) or as a reply this comment. Between my essays and what not I will do my very best to respond!
That is if anyone gets to see this comment, among all you bad b!tches! ;)
Sarah S sorry who is this? Xxx
The white supremacy. Obviously. ;)
PsychologoIbz yess
18 more subs till 60k! ✨
CONGRATS ON 60K
Yess Ibz 🤗
This was really helpful even though I'm already at uni 😂
But yes absolutely take so much into consideration.
Heyyyy Ibz!
How are you?
I was waiting for this video and ngl it said that this was created 2 months ago and I was so confused omg because I haven't missed any of your videos 🙈👌
best part of my day oml
Like before watching cuz it’s IBZ MO BITCHES!
Hi Ibz, I'm most likely doing a psychology degree this year. How hard would you say it is? could you do a whole video about your experience with your course too?
DALE PAPITO DALE!
OMFFGG I ACC LOVE THIS VIDEEOO 😂😂😂❤️ YASSSS SLAYYINGGG #bringthemyourseasoning
ok but i really want to see a continuation or an episode of the first problem (with the fake bf) too