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We have to learn or acquire these things for ourselves people will generally like us I mean the better half too.. But don't try to learn to impress somebody
This is called being Brutal honest. Felt like a fatherly advice, Chetan. According to me, just try to be presentable as per the situation. "Presentation matters"
I am a well established doctor. Got everything by my hardwork but daily I try to work on my fitness because it really feels good to look good. People should really work on themselves physically. Such simple topics but have great meaning in life. No wonder why you are the best writer
Very similar to my story I used to think looks don't matter at all during my high school and senior years but when I got the reality hit than I lost some 22 kg weight and it has been life changing ever since. It was a 180 degree shift. I got so much attention in college that I had never gotten before. And you are telling people the real truth.
Looks have a lot to do with what we feel, how confident we are and how our personality is. Shahrukh Khan was not perceived as conventionally good looking, but still had the charm, personality and confidence which made him what he is. One can be really fit and well groomed, but still might not have an appealing personality. So rather I would say, personality matters, a lot more than looks. Good looks doesn't have a prototype, because something which is beautiful to one person can be not that beautiful to others. But a magnetic personality is universally attractive.
This comment should be pinned. Indeed Beuty is subjective. Yes, having a good face can attract a person and give great first impression. But that doesn't do any good in long term. It's a person's charm, behavior and character that makes his or her place in people's hearts. There are numerous examples whom people literally worship today but they weren't so good looking at first. Love is natural, it isn't organic and whomever has the great moral character is loved by mass.. Like you gave the example of SRK, this is what I was going to comment before I found your comment. He didn't change, people's perception about him changed.
@@ExamsSimplified101 It's a blessing but one cannot throw out his or her responsibility of thriving for success on not having a good face or not having rich parents..
@Santosh Parvatikar Personality is determined by your intellect, knowledge, confidence, sense of self awareness, how comfortable you're in your skin, authenticity and good communication skills. Ofcourse nobody should be a slob and should dress up decently. Rest of the things are quite volatile and depends on people's choice.
Okay product and packaging both matters. Proportion may be differ But yes they matter. Sandeep Maheshwari sir and Chetan Bhagat sir are the great youth icons who helps us to become better version of ourselves
@@Shubh_Unde 😅ok..pr ek bat he ki..sandip maheshwari is like an artificial speaker and chetan sir is natural..dil se..I mean no extra expressions..for delivering content..
I earn 90k per month but bcoz of my ugly looks people think i am a uneducated, poor, bad guy. Bcoz of my bump nose I know many people who are poor than me (20-30k per month) but they look beautiful so they have more respect than me. If anyone is good looking people they will get respect no matter how bad guy you are
Life bitter truth-: every guy is ugly when he had not achieve anything in his life but if there is a man who is successful earnings in crores.. He automatically looks handsome in the eyes of people around him ❤
Mate it takes ton of hardwork to achieve that success or to be worth in crore , ofcourse people are gonna respect you and your people will be proud of you if you are that resilient and hardworking guy , nobody is proud of a loser .
Looks does matter. Not only does it take us to an advantageous position be it in a job interview, placement, marriage prospects but it also develops and adds confidence and self esteem within us and that is why doing the best that one can is of significance today.
I am your age Chetan and I really like your world views, I totally agree with you. It just reinforce my own views. Frankness, honesty is what I love about you thoughts and I guess that we all love reading yourbooks, it's not a fluke that you are the best sellers. YOU ARE THE BEST. God bless you , we Indians are fortunate to have you in this world and in our life.
Chetan sir ........... there are few people in 21st century who are strong enough to reveal the truth no matter how bitter it is . Dr. Anubhav Jain , Acharya Prashant , Shwetabh and Chetan sir. I am proud of my country because it has an outstanding author like you.
what you said is so true. I interview lot of people for high performance jobs, and this really plays a big part. Once you are fit, confidence automatically comes and you will portray yourself much better in interviews. Being fit and well groomed adds to the whole equation, including your credentials.. You really spoke about the elephant in the room. Kudos to you for inspiring the next generation.
Even Vikas Divyakirti sir IAS has told that its easier for good looking persons to get more marks in interviews and we can see in recent times the IAS toppers have remarkable looks.
@@Studymode0overthinking ki baad mein bahut underweight hu mere saare dost log job lagayi unke saath meine bhi interview Diya ek interview tak ne muh pe bol Diya aap rough and tough nhi dikhte ye job aapke liye nhi
100 percent agree with you. Like you, I also use to believe that it doesn't matter. I don't know if it was 'films influence ,😀 where they tell you all the time it doesn't matter. But over the time I realised it matters.Along with looks, how you talk, how confident you are also matters because once you open your mouth and not able to talk effectively then also people start loosing interest in you.definitely one need to try to look well groomed, crisp, fresh looks including body smell.Your sense of style matters including your hair cut, choice of clothes etc . My point being one should be aware of how they look. Accordingly, You need to find your style and find what works for you. Also dress as per occasion or evolve with time.Its not something that should be taken lightly. It's important in career, to build relationships, to have influence on people.
There are people who can't do anything about the way they look, like Stephen Hawking, because of their inherent disorders. They rather focused on their work and made their mark. Even entrepreneurs, and other people at best maintain their basic hygiene but don't run after getting a 6 pack. Like you said what you can do is just take care of basics, but not beyond that because there are 100 better things to do in life. So what really matters is to give your best at work, looks and secondary shit will follow.
Yeah looks should only be a very very small part of your life not that ki completely ignore kardo because reality aisa nahi kehti but priorities set rehni chahiye.
thats only for guys.....but what abt girls. even while marrying no one looks at guys face.....they are just judged by salary but girls are judged by their face and beauty....why do all billionaires have pretty wives. so for girls looks matter a lot.
Yesterday I finished your book : The girl in room 105 . It was really full thriller, suspence, twist and happy ending. You have work really well on deciding red herring.
Absolutely they do matter. Your video reminds me of a time when i used to extremelt casual about my looks and did not care. Today when i see older pictures i genuinely think i was ignorant. Right now i am succuesful, am a CA and working with a Corporate Firm and have started to take care of myself. Feels so better. Thank you Chetan Bhaiya :)
Thank you so much for picking up this very important topic. Actually there are two types of people one who becomes very freaky about their looks and the others who completely ignore it. Your suggestions will act as a guide book for all of us. Thank you so much once again for sharing this video.
Hi Chetan, I Just love the way you are addressing these harsh but true topics. You are exploring those topics which people are trying to hide in moral excuses. Keep making more videos on such unspoken topics. Kudos and Love ❤️
Sir you are absolutely right. I am working in a Latin American MNC Based in Dubai. Looks matter , I have experience it. Sahi bolun to ek dam sir nas ko pakad ke bataya hai aap ne 👌
Myth: boy should have good sense of humor,down to earth ,loving nature...should have inner beauty coz beauty faded over a period of time but personality is forever...pesa to aata jata rehta h...money can't buy you happiness Fact: looks,money everything matters....don't fall in trap of rumors
Chetan Sir, I would like to tell you that looks is like an ENTRY PASS, it helps you to qualify but only HARDWORK, CONSISTENCY and DISCIPLINE will make us successful in life. Thank you.
Although we r being modernised,still this question is being discussed always...today I got an answer which will put this thought to end for ever..such a wide range of thought of a Writer,God bless you Sir 🙏
Wonderful eye opening truth sir.Before watching this video I used to think the same that looks don't matter but now I understand thai it does matter.so now I will focus on grooming as you told in this video.thanks a lot for clearing my doubts related to this.i must say that for me u r a wonderful mentor.
05:46 i agree. I attended your live seminar in Delhi almost 14 years ago. U were in poor shape then. U inspired then. U still inspire. These are really good practical new age advice we all need to hear and follow. U are really helping lots of people. Thanks.
This is so true sir .. your advice is on another level ❤️ thanks sir for telling us these little things of life . In our lives nobody tells us these things . Thankyou sir ☺️
Nothing matters in life. Only confidence, personality and character matter in life. Looks work like a pain killer. It is not permanent solution in your life.
Sir i am in class 11th and watching ur videos !! It gives me positivity and pulls me to real world !! Mai chahti hoon ki aap misconception about streams sci/com/arts ko lekar ek video banao plsss sir 🙏🙏
Do looks matter? Yes. But looks are not the only thing that matters. That been said, we have this responsibility to make ourselves more presentable. That does some good to your self image and improves social acceptance. And why should we ignore this aspect? So great video and great advice Chetan jee !
Agreed! I work out and take my grooming seriously. I recently went to a job interview where the interviewer commented that I was well dressed and looked professional. Guess what, I got the job.
Hi Chetan sir... what you said is exactly what I think, while watching I was feeling like , yes this is what I mean.. your expressing way is just awesome. Many people keep saying me that I'm beutiful , n talented as well I feel very good n confident about it, but yes many a times I myself start feeling that some time I look good sometimes not that much n this is the reality you have to take care of your self , keep grooming yourself , loving yourself to become best version of yourself .I'm an mbbs graduate n preparing for Post graduation, also In academics I feel like I'm not able to concentrate as I used to do before but yes I start again to concentrate n give best out of it . Thank you so much for this vedio 🙏 This is what a writer is jo normal insaan nahi keh pata wo aapne itne achhese bataya
Wow, sometimes I talk the same things with my friends, some agree with me and some conflict, and here you, such a big personality sharing the same thinking. It gave my thoughts a strong support atleast in my mind and yeah, we should face the truth bcoz that's what which helps.
we need to listen the truth which is quite bitter, everyone wants to marry a beautiful person, then we also need to be presentable that's true..I agree
Yes sir i agreed with you a little. Because I remembered my clg days and used to think that i just need to focus on my career that is what only matters but now I understood that enjoying our life is also equally matter.
So true. Your videos are so honest. No cream coated fake words. This video has just broken all the stereotypical videos which says that only inner beauty is more important, blah blah. Thank you for such useful and wonderful contents.
The most effective or beneficially video of your for me was about "Don't chase the girl". Really I got the things where I was stuck, mai khud ko thik kiya chize thik ho gayi...
Does APJ Kalam had looks? Does Willsmith had looks? Does nana patkar had looks? Barrack obama, vin diesel many successfull personalities had much confidence while there looks were not that much attractive... Bache read cse studies of them.
@Shubham Mishra...its very common to come up with examples of known personality. But, Chetan is talking in general. Normally, in offices, house parties or even if you are addressing a crowd, looks matter as people has the nature of getting attracted to beauty even its a person or even a scenery.
@@shubhammishra3863 but their hard work in their respective fields enhanced their personality a lot. If they stand beside any actor then they are way apart. Looks do matter but your achievements, education, personality matters more than looks. Stay fit and in shape, work on personality.
@@shubhammishra3863 will smith , vin diesel all have sexy bodies for years and a sexy body is also a part of hot looks and Nana is better than Amitabh in acting but behind in commercial success and now you tell me why Salman is so hit for last 30 years ? Why ? It's just because of his looks and body
I've been thinking this and working on ( fitness, grooming, attitude, conversation skills) from past 5 years and gradually over the period I look like a different guy and yes I can agree to the point it makes life alot easier people gives you respect and they take your words seriously and would like to be arround you more often... It may look harsh to say that but now I've accepted what I can't change ' how humans are wired' PS- I've never read any book of you ever since I was born I'm not a good reader but I'm a good listener and very gratefull to have CHETAN BHAGAT as my mentor♥️
Looks matters...but this mean that not ki skin color or costly clothes or any accessories or like this things.. representable hona matters..eg.daily nahana,good hair cut,clean kapade,i.e.acchi aadte and good sense of presenting yourself @society.. issliye always try to be better version of yourself... 😊
I am a girl who just finished her 10th. I’m fair, tall, thin have a decent face and I can say yes looks definitely matter. Teachers are sweeter to me and I can make friends quite easily. Though beauty is a blessing it has also been a curse for me. I have found myself putting all my self worth in my looks. If I gain a bit of weight or have a bad haircut I feel like now no one cares about me. Also, people judge me a lot, they think I’m dumb and/or stuck up and After hitting puberty I saw myself getting isolated by a lot of my female friends (out of jealousy or competition I guess) my point isn’t to complain or show off but to show that there are multiple sides to everything. And even though I fit our country’s beauty standards I still struggle with insecurities and social issues. Someone can be drop dead gorgeous but if they don’t have good character, tough skin and work ethic it’s basically pointless. I’ve seen it first hand, some of my pretty friends put all their worth in their looks and lose friends, get bad marks, develop self esteem issues etc.
Yes , Looks do matter I personally also feel the same as Chetan Sir . One having good looks can work on their physique and build his/her career in the fashion modelling industry or as an actor especially in a country like India were Hero/Heroine is supposed to be good looking regardless of how shitty they act!!
Sir you looked really great in decoupled. I look to forward to seeing more of you in series like those. Also a wonderful video. :) I believe everything is a man made construct to define certain things and their value. Things are important but to some extent. It depends upon what do you want in your life, looks don't really matter if you aren't great as a human being, no one would stick around you for a longer time. Being a good and genuine human is more important.
Sometime I get confused on overthinking for nature of people...thank you for clearing the cloud...it was much needed.Like soneome things are not told by people but they actually need it.
Yes! Reality is disappointing only if you take is so seriously. If somebody judge you on the basis of looks, Height, beauty its their narrow mindness & choice if they chose on this basis they will disappointing later in life. I will care for those who love me and want to accept me with my personality. Why care for those so-called mean good looking who are only interested in good looking people only.
Looks matter, one thing that will help in your good look is Truth. Be true and honest. Sir, your look is attractive because you speak from the truth in your heart. Thanks sir for the video.
This is just like "don't judge a book by it's cover" but people still judge by cover.. similarly we should not judge someone by their looks but be aware that someone is going to judge us by looks. (Ignore anyone's judgement if u r successful)
Okay, Mr. Bhagat, let me get straight that too. Yes, looks matter a lot in life. It's the very first thing people notice- physical appearances. Along with it attitude and personality of a person matters a lot too because that's what makes the core overall. Now, for those people who think are not charismatic aren't necessarily supposed to work on it but unequivocally, they should be the best versions of themselves. Then, Personality and attitude will play a vital role.
Huge fan of how you perceive and deliver things which such an accuracy! I've been thinking about something, And I think you can answer that correctly.........
Honestly when I got the notification somewhere I felt that you would not give false assurance and you would be on point with good insight and it was exactly that !
Agree. Long ago, when my musical show was a hit, a woman (whose show wasn't) said out of jealousy: "Ajitabh looks attractive so his shows are hit". Of course that wasn't 100% true but people do tend to think like that. I have a very hard time accepting an actor or actress who isn't good looking. And even among the colleagues the good looking ones certainly have some more magnetism (to begin with).
Thank God You have the guts to say the truth so easily. Thats make you so exceptional from others. This people know in heart but Only you dare to say it openly. Thank you So much Chetan!
If u feel good from inside then outside look doesn't matter.. Cos u r happy with urself n being happy makes our body feel good n we feel confident..dress well n neat.. Take care of ur body n mind.. N work on ur skills..strengthen ur character
Looks matter yes, but should not be an over riding obsession. For a lot of women and some men, it's the beginning and end of it all, THAT is very wrong 😕
I like how you tell the truth without bothering about what others will think. Looks Matters alot this is truth. I'm a average looking guy but have bushy eyebrows which makes me look weird and i can't tell you in which humiliation i gone through because it's past now. But I'm working hard and saving money so i can take treatment on my eyebrows.
Everything matters.. looks, knowledge, smartness, communication, skills all of it.. noone will have all of it.. one must maximize what one has and work on what one doesn't
I was always use to think till now that is look really matter's . You really clear my mind ,plz keep making such videos . Sir its true that we can't change the society and its scientific. Thank u so much sir
Looks really matters...It gives a first impression to others...And Not only for others, looks also matters for ourselves b'coz it makes us more confident.
Rich people say money doesn't matter, toppers say marks don't matter good looking people say looks don't matter but in reality everything matters.
@StuDY PsyCHoloGY Marks Matter My 12th Board Exam Gone Bad. I Know How Much I Broke 😑
Yeah but looks are a catalyst!
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@StuDY PsyCHoloGY matters bro ...
@@RYFMuzic yes bro term 1
Looks, money , professional degree, intellectual skill , fluent English speaking etc all these matters in our life, particularly in India.
We have to learn or acquire these things for ourselves people will generally like us I mean the better half too.. But don't try to learn to impress somebody
@Raj Dixit nhi pr ek garden mai dekhe hai.. 😀
Aur hamari body ek Garden hai ok
I got your point ❤
It matters everywhere
@rajdixit3574shahrukh khan
Virat kohli
They both are examples ❤
This is called being Brutal honest.
Felt like a fatherly advice, Chetan.
According to me, just try to be presentable as per the situation. "Presentation matters"
I am a well established doctor. Got everything by my hardwork but daily I try to work on my fitness because it really feels good to look good. People should really work on themselves physically. Such simple topics but have great meaning in life. No wonder why you are the best writer
Ma'am
I thought being a doctor is more than being beautiful ......
@@ompalsingh3772 I think you haven't understood what Chetan sir just explained
Very similar to my story I used to think looks don't matter at all during my high school and senior years but when I got the reality hit than I lost some 22 kg weight and it has been life changing ever since. It was a 180 degree shift. I got so much attention in college that I had never gotten before. And you are telling people the real truth.
Looks have a lot to do with what we feel, how confident we are and how our personality is. Shahrukh Khan was not perceived as conventionally good looking, but still had the charm, personality and confidence which made him what he is. One can be really fit and well groomed, but still might not have an appealing personality. So rather I would say, personality matters, a lot more than looks. Good looks doesn't have a prototype, because something which is beautiful to one person can be not that beautiful to others. But a magnetic personality is universally attractive.
This comment should be pinned.
Indeed Beuty is subjective. Yes, having a good face can attract a person and give great first impression. But that doesn't do any good in long term.
It's a person's charm, behavior and character that makes his or her place in people's hearts.
There are numerous examples whom people literally worship today but they weren't so good looking at first.
Love is natural, it isn't organic and whomever has the great moral character is loved by mass..
Like you gave the example of SRK, this is what I was going to comment before I found your comment.
He didn't change, people's perception about him changed.
One of the elements of personality is having a good face.
That might sound harsh but hey truth is always harsh, isn't it ?
@@ExamsSimplified101 It's a blessing but one cannot throw out his or her responsibility of thriving for success on not having a good face or not having rich parents..
beer biceps ka sun k kaha na? don't think me wrong i agree with you
@Santosh Parvatikar Personality is determined by your intellect, knowledge, confidence, sense of self awareness, how comfortable you're in your skin, authenticity and good communication skills. Ofcourse nobody should be a slob and should dress up decently. Rest of the things are quite volatile and depends on people's choice.
Okay product and packaging both matters.
Proportion may be differ
But yes they matter.
Sandeep Maheshwari sir and Chetan Bhagat sir are the great youth icons who helps us to become better version of ourselves
Quality of Product is not in our hands ..but we can try for betterment of it through packaging..😅
Last line absolutely true 👍
@@ajinkyabhil no bro, she said abt Sandeep Maheshwari and Chetan Bhagat that one.
@@Shubh_Unde 😅ok..pr ek bat he ki..sandip maheshwari is like an artificial speaker and chetan sir is natural..dil se..I mean no extra expressions..for delivering content..
Looks don't matter when you get successful but it does when you are not.
Exactly👍
No its not the point...the point is looks help you along success...
Looks+success > Same success without looks
I earn 90k per month but bcoz of my ugly looks people think i am a uneducated, poor, bad guy.
Bcoz of my bump nose
I know many people who are poor than me (20-30k per month) but they look beautiful so they have more respect than me. If anyone is good looking people they will get respect no matter how bad guy you are
@@dontcheckmychannel5882 right buddy☹️
Life bitter truth-: every guy is ugly when he had not achieve anything in his life but if there is a man who is successful earnings in crores.. He automatically looks handsome in the eyes of people around him ❤
Mate it takes ton of hardwork to achieve that success or to be worth in crore , ofcourse people are gonna respect you and your people will be proud of you if you are that resilient and hardworking guy , nobody is proud of a loser .
@@abhishekyadav-hy3gq jeff bezoz wife married with a private tutor!
Bill gates crying in corner 🤣
Kitna dilasa dilaoge apne aap ko , accept karlo na tumse bandi pat ti hee nahi . Responsible bano
100 takka Sahi 👍
@@jkshallinheritearth3883 so before that she has claim 50% of his net worth ye bhi to dekho
Being beautiful is like playing the game of life on easy level!!
Looks does matter. Not only does it take us to an advantageous position be it in a job interview, placement, marriage prospects but it also develops and adds confidence and self esteem within us and that is why doing the best that one can is of significance today.
Society don't accept ugly looking people, speaking from my years of experience
Who is ugly?@@dontcheckmychannel5882
Right
As an old guy I approve this is true
Kaash sala apni shakel achi hoti
It matters more than anything you can win most of the things with good looks. Most important it gives confidence and motivation 😉
uske alava bhi confidence a sakta hai
I am your age Chetan and I really like your world views, I totally agree with you. It just reinforce my own views. Frankness, honesty is what I love about you thoughts and I guess that we all love reading yourbooks, it's not a fluke that you are the best sellers. YOU ARE THE BEST. God bless you , we Indians are fortunate to have you in this world and in our life.
thank u so much ashok!
Chetan sir ........... there are few people in 21st century who are strong enough to reveal the truth no matter how bitter it is . Dr. Anubhav Jain , Acharya Prashant , Shwetabh and Chetan sir.
I am proud of my country because it has an outstanding author like you.
We are following same to same UA-camrs 😅
Nice coincidence
Anubhav jain is a gem
When did acharya prashant say looks matter ? his views are completely dissonant here
what you said is so true. I interview lot of people for high performance jobs, and this really plays a big part. Once you are fit, confidence automatically comes and you will portray yourself much better in interviews. Being fit and well groomed adds to the whole equation, including your credentials.. You really spoke about the elephant in the room. Kudos to you for inspiring the next generation.
Even Vikas Divyakirti sir IAS has told that its easier for good looking persons to get more marks in interviews and we can see in recent times the IAS toppers have remarkable looks.
Duniya main Sundar logo ko jaldi success milta hain
Yes kyuki baki overthinking me dube rehte hain.
@@Studymode0overthinking ki baad mein bahut underweight hu mere saare dost log job lagayi unke saath meine bhi interview Diya ek interview tak ne muh pe bol Diya aap rough and tough nhi dikhte ye job aapke liye nhi
There are so many fake gurus on yt bt this is called real guru , honest opinions giving us just as he sees it. Thank u so much sir 🙇
100 percent agree with you. Like you, I also use to believe that it doesn't matter. I don't know if it was 'films influence ,😀 where they tell you all the time it doesn't matter. But over the time I realised it matters.Along with looks, how you talk, how confident you are also matters because once you open your mouth and not able to talk effectively then also people start loosing interest in you.definitely one need to try to look well groomed, crisp, fresh looks including body smell.Your sense of style matters including your hair cut, choice of clothes etc . My point being one should be aware of how they look. Accordingly, You need to find your style and find what works for you. Also dress as per occasion or evolve with time.Its not something that should be taken lightly. It's important in career, to build relationships, to have influence on people.
There are people who can't do anything about the way they look, like Stephen Hawking, because of their inherent disorders. They rather focused on their work and made their mark. Even entrepreneurs, and other people at best maintain their basic hygiene but don't run after getting a 6 pack. Like you said what you can do is just take care of basics, but not beyond that because there are 100 better things to do in life. So what really matters is to give your best at work, looks and secondary shit will follow.
👍👍exact to the point...
Yeah looks should only be a very very small part of your life not that ki completely ignore kardo because reality aisa nahi kehti but priorities set rehni chahiye.
@@neutron417 sahi bola👍
thats only for guys.....but what abt girls. even while marrying no one looks at guys face.....they are just judged by salary but girls are judged by their face and beauty....why do all billionaires have pretty wives. so for girls looks matter a lot.
outliers
Yesterday I finished your book : The girl in room 105 . It was really full thriller, suspence, twist and happy ending. You have work really well on deciding red herring.
Absolutely they do matter. Your video reminds me of a time when i used to extremelt casual about my looks and did not care. Today when i see older pictures i genuinely think i was ignorant. Right now i am succuesful, am a CA and working with a Corporate Firm and have started to take care of myself. Feels so better. Thank you Chetan Bhaiya :)
Yeah It's True Dipanshu ji
Finally someone who's honest and said the truth..
Thank you so much for picking up this very important topic. Actually there are two types of people one who becomes very freaky about their looks and the others who completely ignore it. Your suggestions will act as a guide book for all of us. Thank you so much once again for sharing this video.
The way you reveal reality about the world itself is motivation for me sir!!!
Hi Chetan,
I Just love the way you are addressing these harsh but true topics.
You are exploring those topics which people are trying to hide in moral excuses.
Keep making more videos on such unspoken topics.
Kudos and Love ❤️
Sir you are absolutely right. I am working in a Latin American MNC Based in Dubai. Looks matter , I have experience it. Sahi bolun to ek dam sir nas ko pakad ke bataya hai aap ne 👌
Myth: boy should have good sense of humor,down to earth ,loving nature...should have inner beauty coz beauty faded over a period of time but personality is forever...pesa to aata jata rehta h...money can't buy you happiness
Fact: looks,money everything matters....don't fall in trap of rumors
*fades
True isse achha arrange marriage hi karlo
Money can buy happiness and looks matter
Looks matter a lottttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt in life
If looks matter than sundar pichai should not be exist
@@deepakuttarakhandi4828 i guess tu 17 saal ka hoga
@@Corehinduism 22 dear
@@deepakuttarakhandi4828 but more alike 15-16 yr
@@deepakuttarakhandi4828 sundar pichai is also goodlooking..
Thank you for telling the truth that every body knows but no body accept it.
Chetan Sir, I would like to tell you that looks is like an ENTRY PASS, it helps you to qualify but only
HARDWORK,
CONSISTENCY and
DISCIPLINE will make us successful in life.
Thank you.
Although we r being modernised,still this question is being discussed always...today I got an answer which will put this thought to end for ever..such a wide range of thought of a Writer,God bless you Sir 🙏
I totally agree with you Sir that looks matter in life..👍🙏..It gives a great level of confidence... especially if you are in a public place....
Wonderful eye opening truth sir.Before watching this video I used to think the same that looks don't matter but now I understand thai it does matter.so now I will focus on grooming as you told in this video.thanks a lot for clearing my doubts related to this.i must say that for me u r a wonderful mentor.
05:46 i agree. I attended your live seminar in Delhi almost 14 years ago. U were in poor shape then. U inspired then. U still inspire. These are really good practical new age advice we all need to hear and follow. U are really helping lots of people. Thanks.
I feel Looks change with success and personal growth🔥🔥
Log bs bol dete hain samne wale ka dil rakhne ke lie...
But looks matter krta hai 🥺
Yes❤
Addressed something so practically. In their mind everyone agrees however in reality none comes out accepting it. Thank you sir. Much love from Assam.
Yes, ugly girl struggles to get a date & relationships
Hi Niky
tumar mote ki ki qualities thakibo laage lora ajonor ???
Please tell me
Transparency, a good communicator and most importantly a good human at heart
@@jkshallinheritearth3883 But a ugly boys struggles more.
This is so true sir .. your advice is on another level ❤️ thanks sir for telling us these little things of life . In our lives nobody tells us these things . Thankyou sir ☺️
Nothing matters in life. Only confidence, personality and character matter in life. Looks work like a pain killer. It is not permanent solution in your life.
I know confidence and character but can u explain in few lines what is a personality really??
But where does confidence come bro if I am looking not proper?
Unfiltered Honesty and Pure Reality.... Thank you Chetan Sir.
Sir i am in class 11th and watching ur videos !! It gives me positivity and pulls me to real world !!
Mai chahti hoon ki aap misconception about streams sci/com/arts ko lekar ek video banao plsss sir 🙏🙏
I agree sir. Acceptance is liberation. After that we can work on whatever we have to be our best.
Looks matter a lot, basically how you carry yourself..
Yes..sir has a lot of meaningful points to be noted. Thanks for that
Do looks matter? Yes. But looks are not the only thing that matters. That been said, we have this responsibility to make ourselves more presentable. That does some good to your self image and improves social acceptance. And why should we ignore this aspect? So great video and great advice Chetan jee !
Agreed! I work out and take my grooming seriously. I recently went to a job interview where the interviewer commented that I was well dressed and looked professional. Guess what, I got the job.
Hi Chetan sir... what you said is exactly what I think, while watching I was feeling like , yes this is what I mean.. your expressing way is just awesome. Many people keep saying me that I'm beutiful , n talented as well I feel very good n confident about it, but yes many a times I myself start feeling that some time I look good sometimes not that much n this is the reality you have to take care of your self , keep grooming yourself , loving yourself to become best version of yourself .I'm an mbbs graduate n preparing for Post graduation, also In academics I feel like I'm not able to concentrate as I used to do before but yes I start again to concentrate n give best out of it . Thank you so much for this vedio 🙏 This is what a writer is jo normal insaan nahi keh pata wo aapne itne achhese bataya
Wow, sometimes I talk the same things with my friends, some agree with me and some conflict, and here you, such a big personality sharing the same thinking. It gave my thoughts a strong support atleast in my mind and yeah, we should face the truth bcoz that's what which helps.
Chetan sir, you're a great example of realism today 🌟
we need to listen the truth which is quite bitter, everyone wants to marry a beautiful person, then we also need to be presentable that's true..I agree
Truth is bitter
Yes sir i agreed with you a little.
Because I remembered my clg days and used to think that i just need to focus on my career that is what only matters but now I understood that enjoying our life is also equally matter.
True to the core✌️
Behavioural psychology is a real thing 💯
So true. Your videos are so honest. No cream coated fake words. This video has just broken all the stereotypical videos which says that only inner beauty is more important, blah blah. Thank you for such useful and wonderful contents.
Most practical talks done by Chetan Sir🙌🏻
best channel ever only truth and reality
hwaa hwai baatein nhi
Yes. It matters a lot.
I couldn't get any girl till now despite of my good Nature
The most effective or beneficially video of your for me was about "Don't chase the girl".
Really I got the things where I was stuck, mai khud ko thik kiya chize thik ho gayi...
Absolutely yes sir looks do matter. It gives us confidence .
Does APJ Kalam had looks? Does Willsmith had looks? Does nana patkar had looks? Barrack obama, vin diesel many successfull personalities had much confidence while there looks were not that much attractive... Bache read cse studies of them.
@@shubhammishra3863 kid you need glasses if you think will Smith doesn't look good. And the others that you mentioned, they weren't ugly either.
@Shubham Mishra...its very common to come up with examples of known personality. But, Chetan is talking in general. Normally, in offices, house parties or even if you are addressing a crowd, looks matter as people has the nature of getting attracted to beauty even its a person or even a scenery.
@@shubhammishra3863 but their hard work in their respective fields enhanced their personality a lot.
If they stand beside any actor then they are way apart.
Looks do matter but your achievements, education, personality matters more than looks.
Stay fit and in shape, work on personality.
@@shubhammishra3863 will smith , vin diesel all have sexy bodies for years and a sexy body is also a part of hot looks and Nana is better than Amitabh in acting but behind in commercial success and now you tell me why Salman is so hit for last 30 years ? Why ? It's just because of his looks and body
I've been thinking this and working on ( fitness, grooming, attitude, conversation skills) from past 5 years and gradually over the period I look like a different guy and yes I can agree to the point it makes life alot easier people gives you respect and they take your words seriously and would like to be arround you more often... It may look harsh to say that but now I've accepted what I can't change ' how humans are wired'
PS- I've never read any book of you ever since I was born I'm not a good reader but I'm a good listener and very gratefull to have CHETAN BHAGAT as my mentor♥️
Looks matters...but this mean that not ki skin color or costly clothes or any accessories or like this things.. representable hona matters..eg.daily nahana,good hair cut,clean kapade,i.e.acchi aadte and good sense of presenting yourself @society.. issliye always try to be better version of yourself...
😊
Once I started seeing u and I am not able to stop ...Mr.Genuine.....Chetan Sir U Beauty.....
I am a girl who just finished her 10th. I’m fair, tall, thin have a decent face and I can say yes looks definitely matter. Teachers are sweeter to me and I can make friends quite easily. Though beauty is a blessing it has also been a curse for me. I have found myself putting all my self worth in my looks. If I gain a bit of weight or have a bad haircut I feel like now no one cares about me. Also, people judge me a lot, they think I’m dumb and/or stuck up and After hitting puberty I saw myself getting isolated by a lot of my female friends (out of jealousy or competition I guess) my point isn’t to complain or show off but to show that there are multiple sides to everything. And even though I fit our country’s beauty standards I still struggle with insecurities and social issues. Someone can be drop dead gorgeous but if they don’t have good character, tough skin and work ethic it’s basically pointless. I’ve seen it first hand, some of my pretty friends put all their worth in their looks and lose friends, get bad marks, develop self esteem issues etc.
Are you interested in writing?
You've experienced pretty privilege.
Same here...now I m in a process of spiritual awakening...
Teachers ke liye shayad mayne itna na rakhta ho lekin relationship me mayne rakhta hai log kabhi apko bhav nahi denge agar achhe nahi dikhte honge to
@@hirenahir76200 teacher r ke liye bhi looks matter karta hain
look the best version of urself 💘, you just changed my thougth process 🔥
Yes , Looks do matter I personally also feel the same as Chetan Sir . One having good looks can work on their physique and build his/her career in the fashion modelling industry or as an actor especially in a country like India were Hero/Heroine is supposed to be good looking regardless of how shitty they act!!
Fitness industry main bhi carrer bana sakte hain
Sir you looked really great in decoupled. I look to forward to seeing more of you in series like those. Also a wonderful video. :) I believe everything is a man made construct to define certain things and their value. Things are important but to some extent. It depends upon what do you want in your life, looks don't really matter if you aren't great as a human being, no one would stick around you for a longer time. Being a good and genuine human is more important.
Yes sir. I do believe looks matter a lot in life. It attracts you.
True indeed we tend to focus more on the looks n personality.Glad that you shared us🤗😇🙏🏻
Much love
Everything matters, be it money, or looks. Earlier the acceptance better the result.
What kind of result.?
Sometime I get confused on overthinking for nature of people...thank you for clearing the cloud...it was much needed.Like soneome things are not told by people but they actually need it.
Yes! Reality is disappointing only if you take is so seriously. If somebody judge you on the basis of looks, Height, beauty its their narrow mindness & choice if they chose on this basis they will disappointing later in life. I will care for those who love me and want to accept me with my personality. Why care for those so-called mean good looking who are only interested in good looking people only.
Looks matter, one thing that will help in your good look is Truth. Be true and honest.
Sir, your look is attractive because you speak from the truth in your heart.
Thanks sir for the video.
Namste sir🙏
Receiving a notification from your channel is a happiness for me
Your consistency inspires me alot.
Always a delight to listen to you, Sir ❤️
Thankyou Chetan sir for a knowledge
Bahut sahi bola hai.
Dil se bola hai aapne.u r right
This is just like "don't judge a book by it's cover" but people still judge by cover.. similarly we should not judge someone by their looks but be aware that someone is going to judge us by looks. (Ignore anyone's judgement if u r successful)
I think do matter to an extent . I believe my looks helped to get some girls interest . I am very introverted and not a very charismatic person .
Okay, Mr. Bhagat, let me get straight that too.
Yes, looks matter a lot in life. It's the very first thing people notice- physical appearances. Along with it attitude and personality of a person matters a lot too because that's what makes the core overall. Now, for those people who think are not charismatic aren't necessarily supposed to work on it but unequivocally, they should be the best versions of themselves. Then, Personality and attitude will play a vital role.
Huge fan of how you perceive and deliver things which such an accuracy! I've been thinking about something, And I think you can answer that correctly.........
Honestly when I got the notification somewhere I felt that you would not give false assurance and you would be on point with good insight and it was exactly that !
Absolutely true and well said ✌️
YOU HAVE STOLEN MY HEART FROM THIS VIDEO
Agree. Long ago, when my musical show was a hit, a woman (whose show wasn't) said out of jealousy: "Ajitabh looks attractive so his shows are hit". Of course that wasn't 100% true but people do tend to think like that. I have a very hard time accepting an actor or actress who isn't good looking. And even among the colleagues the good looking ones certainly have some more magnetism (to begin with).
Thank God You have the guts to say the truth so easily. Thats make you so exceptional from others. This people know in heart but Only you dare to say it openly. Thank you So much Chetan!
If u feel good from inside then outside look doesn't matter.. Cos u r happy with urself n being happy makes our body feel good n we feel confident..dress well n neat.. Take care of ur body n mind.. N work on ur skills..strengthen ur character
Looks matter yes, but should not be an over riding obsession. For a lot of women and some men, it's the beginning and end of it all, THAT is very wrong 😕
Sir u were absolutely right in saying that humans are wired in the way that looks do matter .....not above all but definitely along everything else
LOOKS & DEGREES matter a lot.
With these you can "market" yourself into any job on this planet.
Such a real person you are ! Reality of life ! Even I think looks matters a lot .
Appreciated
Look matter a lot.......in any stage of life😊
Agree with the viewpoint and the clarification too that "looks" mean your "most presentable appearance". Genuine talks always hit the chords.
The reason I watch this channel is because he says everything which others avoid to.
I like how you tell the truth without bothering about what others will think. Looks Matters alot this is truth. I'm a average looking guy but have bushy eyebrows which makes me look weird and i can't tell you in which humiliation i gone through because it's past now. But I'm working hard and saving money so i can take treatment on my eyebrows.
Sir a huge fan.your thought process vision power always surprised me...what a great insight....always love to watch u...
The beauty depends on how you carry yourself ✨❣️
Everything matters.. looks, knowledge, smartness, communication, skills all of it.. noone will have all of it.. one must maximize what one has and work on what one doesn't
I was always use to think till now that is look really matter's .
You really clear my mind ,plz keep making such videos .
Sir its true that we can't change the society and its scientific.
Thank u so much sir
It is very first impression, after all. Bollywood is the perfect example, how looks influence the world
Exactly
Looks matter.. Yes.. Good looks is motivate good work nd confidence... 👍
Sir please make a video on how to stop overthinking
Looks really matters...It gives a first impression to others...And Not only for others, looks also matters for ourselves b'coz it makes us more confident.
I think looks matter to an extent. I believe my looks helped me to get some girls interest 😁 . I am very introverted and not very charismatic .
I think looks is not the parameter of judging persons 😇
Cope
That's Cap
in india it matters
But people in india do judge. If you are ugly people even don't think to talk with you. Some good looking guy will get the girl.