Why Joy Feels So Damn Hard After Loss // Personal Rant

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 30 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 25

  • @karencristobal4999
    @karencristobal4999 8 днів тому +2

    I really appreciate your honesty.

  • @AshCal10
    @AshCal10 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you for sharing, I understand and I am grateful for your honesty and thoughs many blessings to you and your family! 🙏❤

  • @renateeconomou9686
    @renateeconomou9686 6 днів тому

    I never comment on any reply.....My son died in his sleep this year. You have truly given me comfort especially now during the holidays. Thank you so much for your honesty and compassion. I know you must of heard this before, "they say childbirth is the worst pain a woman can experience, I say burying your child is." A roller coaster of emotions out of no rhyme or reason. Thank you.

    • @brookecarlock
      @brookecarlock  5 днів тому

      Ugh... I'm sending you huge hugs and and so much strength. There's nothing like this pain. ❤️

  • @Toinette2883
    @Toinette2883 9 днів тому +2

    I absolutely feel guilt too. For me I have to make the choice to be happy and feel joy everyday. When the feelings of guilt creep in I think of my wonderful husband and how the only thing that mattered to him was that I was happy. I feel I’m honouring him when I choose joy so I try really hard to do that. You have to practice, practice, practice and it gets easier. It takes time but it does get easier

    • @OlafVantVeer-f3d
      @OlafVantVeer-f3d 8 днів тому

      Yes, I suppose that is true. When it is your child that died it might be a slightly different scenario though. A bit more complex.

    • @brookecarlock
      @brookecarlock  8 днів тому +2

      I love this! And you are SO right about both the practice and the fact that we are honoring our loved ones when we choose joy. ❤️

  • @kimsexton4486
    @kimsexton4486 8 днів тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @OlafVantVeer-f3d
    @OlafVantVeer-f3d 9 днів тому +2

    Thank you Brooke! So 'happy' (for lack of a better word:)) ) you made the video! Am going to watch it on my break! Thank you again.

    • @brookecarlock
      @brookecarlock  8 днів тому

      You are so very welcome. I'm happy to make videos about whatever people need!

  • @suegarner4428
    @suegarner4428 9 днів тому +1

    That guilt has been lessening very slowly. Maybe it will be there forever? I totally understand your feelings though Brooke. ❤️

  • @HalehFarid
    @HalehFarid 9 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing this story with us ❤

  • @nadialaslie667
    @nadialaslie667 7 днів тому

    i feel this in my soul! tightest hugssss. ❤

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. 9 днів тому +1

    I understand.....❤

  • @SueSather
    @SueSather 9 днів тому

    I want you to know that you really help.. I read your book twice and passed it to a dear person who is going through a loss.

    • @brookecarlock
      @brookecarlock  8 днів тому

      Oh my goodness, this means so much. Thank you!

    • @carolinebielby5924
      @carolinebielby5924 8 днів тому +1

      There seems to be if we are human we have suffering 😢

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. 9 днів тому +1

    Enjoying the way you live..is part of coping with your loss...when someone you love is taken out of your life
    having something that brings comfort and helps...does that make sense?

    • @brookecarlock
      @brookecarlock  8 днів тому

      It absolutely does. Sometimes it just takes a LOT of reminding. :)

  • @pudik2008
    @pudik2008 8 днів тому

    ❤❤❤🫂🫂🫂