HELLO to all of my new subscribers, existing subs, and viewers in general!! Thank you for tuning in for this video! Drop a comment with your own CLEAN confession below. I can’t be the only one...😁
@@OneDownGeneUp just say your going for a bike ride. The LL think bicycle then after a year of that say motorcycle and I’ve been talking about the motorcycle for a year don’t you guys ever listen to me.
Hi Gina I can relate to this topic as I have been riding off and on for 40 years. Ten years ago after many years of not riding I bought and then shortly sold my sixth bike. Not long after that my mom said she was glad that I did not have a bike anymore. She told me she always worried about me when I had all my bikes but did not want to tell me that in fear that I would give up riding because of her. Seven years went by and the urge hit me once again but this time I didn't tell her, so it's still my secret but sometimes I thinkI might just spill the beans .My situation is different from you but not in some ways .
Oh yeah. I can TOTALLY relate to your situation. I truly understand why you’re keeping you riding a secret. Stay safe out there and enjoy those two wheels!
@@elgringoec Well, I've never actually been flying except in a passenger jet to Egypt and that was like being in a train with wings. I'm talking about raw flying such as in a microlight, glider or dive bombing in an old Spitfire. Something I want to try.
@@Apollo949 I'd say, give it a go! No point in regretting not trying something you want to and are capable of. There's nothing like the reaction forces of riding, though, whether whipping through the twisties or muscling a dirt bike through rough terrain. 😆☮️
@@Apollo949 Sweet! I forget what year was my first ride but I bought my first motorcycle in '70. Had a mini bike before that. Now I have about 14 bikes but currently registered VF1100S and 300XC-W. I'm thinking I might like to get a tenere 700. ☮️
"nobody wants to see a 50 year old woman riding a motorcycle"... Ummm I do. Not because you're 50 years old, and not because you're a woman, but because I ride motorcycles, and I know just how idiotic that grin you get is when you've been on the bike for five minutes. Everybody should get to experience that grin in their life, that sense of freedom. It's something rather special.
I realy admire your openness, I couln't; simply I don't trust internet. I am somewhat surprised about not telling all to either mother, family or friends. Once I was a child, never a parent, I was/am a free spirit, never had a strong connection to my family, even less to inlaws, slightly stronger to friends, none to governments/religion. I always help, support, the vulnerable, but from an inner strength. Fab to see you enjoy motobiking as a liberation, pls continue!!
I’m with you on not telling your Mother. I’m 54, got my licence 8 years ago but am just getting my first bike this year. My Mom knows none of this. I think of it as saving her from a lot of worrying.
I just saw your post about being 54 and getting your license 8 years ago. Same here! I guess I'm not the only one who got my license 8 years ago and just finally bought a bike. I'm a grown man, 56 and bought a Honda Monkey:-) Glad I got something small because it's fun and you can make all sorts of mistakes and it's not a problem. Plus you can go on dirt trails where there are no cars. Did you finally get yourself a bike?
I totally get what you’re talking about at the 7:27 point. For me, just taking the first step was the hardest. The only person I told I was buying my first motorcycle, a brand new 2012 Victory Kingpin, was the salesperson at the shop in central MD where I was stationed. I was 32 at the time and the purchase was a much-needed turning point in my life. I didn’t plan anything about it; it was a pure impulse buy and one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. Close to 10 years later, I just got re-assigned to a European location and bought my fourth motorcycle yesterday, a stalwart 1992 BMW K75, with the intention of cruising as many EU countries as I can before they send me back to CONUS. Keep up the good work and ride safe!
Being a motorcycle rider is something to be proud of. Starting this at 50 just shows you are now embracing your next stage in life rather than many who start to close in their sphere and avoid things new and challenging. Your true friends should be accepting if not supportive. You took a bold step, and you already know the reward. It just gets better with experience, and you will find many friends you haven't met along the way. You have many years of riding ahead of you. If you decide to move forward on the relationship front, try to find someone who rides. Couples who love riding have a great bond to share, and avoid the conflict of not sharing the same interest at vacation or retirement time. As far as telling your mother goes, I personally feel that hiding who you are to a family member is a slippery slope toward trouble. People who worry about something they can't control are wasting emotional energy. Offer to take her for a ride. She might surprise you. Florida- such a shame, all that sunshine and no curves or hills. Still, you get to feel the wind and the machine. Your next step can be to travel into the mountains when you feel comfortable to take trips. Best of luck as you learn.
Have just bought a scooter as a first bike for my 83rd birthday . One of the best things I have ever done- absolutely love it. Can't tell mother, but my 78 year old partner approves. You go girl, good on you.
Yo Ginger, No embarrassment needed. You are out there riding. My parents used to come home and tell me about every Motorsickle accident they seen. They were not fans of 2 wheel transportation. I showed up at the house with a Motorsickle I had purchased with money I had earned over the summer working on a farm I was 13 years old. Yup I have been riding ever since. It doesn't matter how or when or even if you never want to tell them. Jus Do It. Keep the shiny side up
Enjoyed your video very much. I have been riding for 60 years and I can tell you got the fever! Love your honesty. Keep sharing your experiences. It brings back so many exciting memories of my own journey.
I am 61 and i still ride my yamaha xjr1300 over here in England uk ..i must say you give out out really good advice to all first time riders. Love your blog long may you carry on with them..stay safe and happy riding.
I love listening to the excitement of new riders and seeing someone closer to my age starting this journey is a unique point of view-subscribed. Oh, and sparing mom worry is okay.
Hi Ginger, I had always wanted to ride a bike, I turned 50, got divorced and found a wonderful new lady, passed a bike test in the uk, now 3 years later I am loving my bmw rt1200, be safe and love life x
@@GingerDashMoto well i subscribe to your Channel and im following you on Instagram and you are pretty woman. Im taking the msf course in may im excited and nervous at the same time. I went bike shopping and found two bike that i really like, hopefully ill be able to buy a bike in the next year or so
Growing up in my home, motorcycle were verboten. I learned to ride on a friend's dirt bike in the sand pits at 15. My mother never knew. At 26 I bought my first street bike. Passed the test a month later and went to see my mother and little brother. She was not happy. Last year I helped my son get his motorcycle endorsement. That weekend I told my family at a gathering. Again, my mom was very unhappy. It's like taking off a bandaid. It has to be done. It's probably going to hurt a little. But the anticipation of it hurts 1000x worse. Just do it quickly and honestly. Don't drag it out.
Well done.....! I bought a bike last year after decades of not having a bike - so I'm the archetypal 'born-again biker'. I retired last November, and my main aim is to stay ON the bike - and alive. Everything else is a plus...! Winter here in the UK isn't much use for biking - but as we enter Spring now - I'm looking forward to flexing my wings. Good for you in following your heart. Take care xxx
Good luck with your mom. She will actually be proud of you. And impressed. Our parents have dreams aspirations that they may not have told us. My mom is no longer here and I know that once they are gone you will miss being able to share things in life with them. Glad you are including her in this part of your life. I'm a 52 yr old female and took the Harley riding academy a couple weeks ago and got my license. Been watching motoman on yt and trying to decide what my first bike will be. I was very confident and did well with head and eyes....definitely want all cornering to stick. Good luck.
I fully get it. I started riding at 58. My father was, years before a motorcycle cop so he was okay with it. My mom, just told me, always, "be careful". One is blessed to be well into his sixties before losing his parents (both were WWII vets, btw) and I often am amazed at their courage in each other and their faith and support in their two sons. One thing they taught, its a good thing to be pushed beyond your comfort zone. Security stunts growth.
I am 35 and have been riding for over a year. I still haven't told most of my family. I just don't want to deal with all the worrying. I have debated showing up on my motorcycle on Thanksgiving this year as a way of letting everyone know. Not the best way, but it's pretty in-line with my personality they've come to expect.
I know just what you mean. My mom would have worried most likely, but I did finally tell her and she was surprisingly supporting. It was a pretty funny conversation.
Don't be so hard on yourself. The channel is great and many motorcyclists are interested in how you get on and what you think as your skills develop. Best wishes from the UK.
I just found your channel and have enjoyed watching. As a almost 70 years old guy I think it is great that you decided to ride a motorcycle at fifty years old.
Hi Ginger, I'm a 55 year old man, and i first wanted to let you know I subscribed today. WOOHOO! haha. I feel the same exact way about my mother and my family too. Of course with my mothers alzheimer's continuing to get worse, she doesnt recognize things like she used to. But, I'm looking to get another motorcycle at some point. I will tell no one, because it doesn't really matter. I have a daughter, who like her mother decided they did not want me anymore. I love your videos, please keep posting them and please take care.
Good on you Gina, and relax given your good relationship with your mum, she will support you and i am sure it will be fine. As for being 50 and taking up riding a Motorcycle, I reckon your doing just fine. I have only been riding for around 3 years and I am 61. Your never too old and I am sure there are plenty of us in this age group who enjoy watching and even learning from others in riding a Motorcycle and the places you enjoy riding.
Keep making the videos. Don’t be too concerned about the thoughts of others. I’m sure your mother will eventually understand especially since you’re riding safe. Your third video will determine my subscription. Ride on road warrior.
Good morning Gina!! I actually tried to write this last night, and POOF!! it disappeared... lol. I was tired so I hit the sack, and decided to try again this morning. I totally understand your situation of not telling your mom! My folks are 91 & 92 still living in WV. Mom still worries about me (I'm almost 68), it's kind of funny really, lol! So yeah, there are a lot of things that I don't tell them just because I don't want her to worry! They know I have a bike, but no idea how much I ride!! Here's one thing I haven't told them yet... I'm going up to Alaska in May for a couple of weeks to start clearing off some property up there, and I plan on making my big move in August!! Every time I go up there I get this: it's dark all the time, or light all the time or it's -60 all the time... all of which are wrong!!! My property is on the Kenai Peninsula, about 150 miles south of Anchorage. On the shortest day of the year, they had 5.75 hours of daylight. Their winters up there are very similar to their winters in northern WV. But you can't change the pre-conceived notions of some people! They don't have internet, never have and never will! I'd given them a couple of my old computers over the decades, but they just give them away. Remember back in the old dial-up days and AOL??? Well one time I was back there visiting and dad wouldn't let me connect my laptop to his phone line because he was afraid it would destroy his phone system!! LOL!!! So no, they don't know I have a UA-cam channel, they don't even know what UA-cam is... LOL!!! Ride Safe Gina!!
The hardest for me was to tell my two adult daughters that I wanted to learn to ride a motorcycle at 50. They both said, “that’s cool”. And then asked me if I was having a midlife crisis. To which I said - I would be ok with that, means I live to 100! They have both since gone to MSF and want to ride with me. So that’s pretty cool for me to learn something new and get to do it with my daughters.
Awesome! I love your midlife crisis! I'm signed up for the MSF with my 18 year old daughter April 16th. I rode a little in the distant past. I am worried I'll be terrible, as an old guy. I'm not worried about my daughter.
@@miporsche Naw, there were a lot of old guys in my class. We had fun. And we showed the kids up. They had problems with rear brake and clutch at the same time. Go have fun. It will be a memory for your daughter.
I had the same with mum. I started at 45 years old,and still riding. You have a wonderful mum ,if she didn't worry about you then that would be strange. Ride safe. Mark ,, from london.
Ginger; You did not lie to your mother. Just because you did not share this with here is not a lie. Are you a grown woman living your own life? Are you married? You have a life of your own now and there is no reason you have to answer to your mother or get her approval. I realize that may sound a bit rough, but I have learned a very long time ago that if I am going to look for my mothers approval in what I do with my life, life is going to suck. I very much enjoy seeing a middle aged woman riding motorcycle. As a middle aged man I love to see women around my age riding. It is very encouraging to know there are women around my age who enjoy the same passion for riding as I do.
You are considerate of your mom’s feelings and that shows you are a good hearted person. Now that you have riding experience she should be reassured. Enjoying your videos.
Geez I feel the pain. I moved from the PNW and have a house in Texas now and have my 90 year old mother staying with me to sharing the care of her with my sister. That lives nearby. When my mom saw my bike she was shocked and I got “ they are so dangerous “. I said “ Mom I have had cancer twice and I am still alive. Killing myself on the bike is not a worry for me “. She got it then.
Mom’s never stop worrying. I passively worry about my son, but I let him live his life. Because that is the point. You’re either living or simply existing. I did that for far too long. The latter. No going back now.
I actually appreciate that you didn't blurb to everyone this personal journey you're on with the motorcycle. Glad you finally were able to get that 'witholding the truth' lie from mom. Just found your site, so I'm assuming you followed thru :) As a 51yr old guy that is going thru a similar midlife crisis with an adventure bike.. appreciate your vids. Hope this channel treats you well.
Thanks Bebo! I did eventually tell my mom and we had a good laugh about it. She was entirely supportive and I felt pretty silly for having withheld the truth for so long.
KUDOS and thanks for sharing! I am the other side, having ridden for over 40 years and still love motorcycles..... My adult children are now the reason I also retired from riding, but still watch and look at motorcycles :) Being 70+, I had to admit, I was fortunate, never having an accident at all, and too the MSK again much later as I had been off for quite some time. ENJOY you ride! Just didn;t want my daughters to worry about me, and last bike was an 07 Ninja 650R :) Loved it! All the BEST to you and Cheers from the soggy corner PNW :)
I have been riding a bike for about 10 years now and when I got my first bike I was 45 years old well 23 days before I turned 45 in June and now it is a big part of my life. Love your videos and the content you are doing is awesome. Just be your self and you will be fine. Thanks for sharing your life with us on utube.
Great post! As far as secrets and fears are concerned, I suspect yours is relatively benign and not as rare as you might think. As a recovering corporate exec, and now retiring CEO, lots of eyeballs rolled when I rode into work one day on my shiny new 2020 Goldwing at 56! (I rode for 20 years 20 years ago before putting bikes up at the behest of those hiring me.) My explanation today is simple: I’m living proof you’re never too old to have a happy childhood! Good for you for doing the same while you still can and can likely appreciate it more thanks to experience and far greater wisdom! I look forward to hearing about your adventures in the future! 😋
As I sand dowels for my new tent and watch your videos, I am truly enjoying you! My 82 year old Mom is why I moved back to Iowa from Montana. Being closer to care for her makes the emergency commute easier. My Mom hates that i ride! I bought a new helmet as a deal to get her to use her cane. For too many years i never rode a bike to visit her. Now as I am needed more i just get to her anyway I can. Gosh being 50 doesn't make us all that mature does it? Do not worry we do not judge you. Few can explain why we ride so all of our loved ones relax. Having full insurance for extended medical care is my Mom's demand. I prefer to educate the public that we are out there also. So look for bikes and know that we to have families and loved ones. Take care of yourself Beautiful Lady. Get that rain riding experience under your belt so the fear doesn't ruin your riding. Please? You all are in my prayers Hoka Hey
So glad to hear you have such a good relationship with your mother, it took me 40 years to realize my own mother only cared about herself and was never going to change. I miss her but my life has been better for it.
(Sorry, this is a long one.) I got my license last year, about 2 months into the pandemic before I turned 28. I signed up for the MSF course and told my parents about it 3 days before the course. They were not happy. "You're going to get killed. There's too many people on their phones." Anything and everything they could say, they did say. My mom was almost in tears. Ultimately, they knew that they couldn't stop me as I may be their son, but I'm also an adult. As the course went on, I told them about what I've been learning and how I've been doing on the course bike and they slowly started to understand that maybe I could do it. (I'm a very skinny guy at around 5'10'' and 115 lbs so I think one of their major concerns was me actually being able to handle 500 lbs between my chicken legs.) I passed the course, got my endorsement, and immediately started looking for a bike. I knew the turning point was when my mom was actually sharing some seller pages from FB Marketplace and Craigslist, as well as asking some of her old patrons from her bartending days for bike suggestions. Settled on a 2017 Honda Rebel 500 from a dealership, booked the Uhaul trailer to pick it up, and started up my 'brand new' bike right outside their house. My dad immediately runs out, sits in the saddle, and the next thing I knew he was around the block! (He used to ride dirty on his new Sportster back in '06.) After I get back from dropping off the trailer, my mom comes over to me and tells me all about how my dad said he was proud of me; how I took the proper steps, got some good gear, signed up for the course, got my license, found a good bike, and got it home safely. While it may not have come directly from my dad's mouth, it's a moment that I'll never forget. Now I'm trying to convince him to get that Spyder that he's been talking about ;)
I definitely do not think you are boring, it is a new and exciting adventure you are on and it is exciting to hear what you have to say. Yours Sincerely The Danish Viking
Yo! I’ve been watching your videos (not in date order) and this is the first time that I hear that you are 50??? YOU ARE NOT 50 YEARS OLD!!! Try 35, I would believe that. You don’t look 50. You are gorgeous! Your personality and spirit is awesome! And let me tell you, your videos have helped me too! I am 49 years old and I just started riding 4 years ago and I love it! Seeing your video about being nervous helped me and allowed me to better navigate while riding. Like the video with the gusty winds, that happened to me too! I was like, “this is what Ginger Dash was talking about!” Oh yeah and I understand about not telling your Mom. I told my my Mom, but it helps that she lives down in Alabama LOL!!! Thank you for posting these! Don’t stop posting and don’t stop riding! Ride safe! Oh by the way, I’m jealous that you’re in Florida, my bike is the garage because I live in Illinois and there is snow everywhere!
You are a mere youngster still. A friend I regularly ride with is 83 and can handle a motorcycle better than most riders half his age. Love your videos 😊
I’m happy to be one of your subscribers that does know you in person. ❤️ Totally understandable to not share with your mom until you were ready. Keep on being the badass you are girl!
Hey Gina, i just want say ‘ go girl you’re awesome’ . It doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 70, we all share the love for motorcycles. I’m 45 and I’ve still so much to discover with my bike, so keep riding and in joy
I understand the Mom thing. My mom is a big worry wart. Luckily my parents are only 4 hours away so get to see them alot. Bless my mom that she asks alot about my bike and shares my excitement of riding all while worried that I am being safe. Love listening to your excitement of this hobby/sport. For me it has been a life saver and hearing wonderful people share their passion is fantastic. Keep up the great times!
@@GingerDashMoto Well that is wonderful. All is well. Been a few years since being in that neck of the woods. Visted Merit Island a few times (family). Coco Beach was so beautiful. Just couldn't imaging riding in that heat in the summer.
Hey Ginger it’s not about how old you are. It’s wether you enjoy what you do. I’m 50 this year and had my moto license since I was 16 but just finally picked up a moto and loving it. Just be careful and keep going.
Well first of all this is the first time I have seen your channel and I would like to say good on you girl for taking up motorcycling, we need more women like you to ride motorcycles and to enjoy the thrill we all get riding on two wheels, yes motorcycles can be dangerous, but ride within your limits and ride safe and you will build up your confidence, and keep up the channel and I'm sure your mother will be fine if you show her that you are ridding safely. I'm Ron and I'm a rider in the UK,I'm 60 and still love to ride. So keep it up and good luck.
I've got my motorcycle license last year, at 30 years old. I wanted to do it for a long time and then the pandemic happened and had to wait, but I finally did it. I told my parents because somehow they are a big part of my decision-making, in the sense that they have the right to know. They are no strangers to the motorcycle world and while my dad was troubled by the idea but supported me, my mom was totally against it, but respected that it was my call. So what I did was to tell them, specially her, every little (big) thing that I was learning in school and step by step she was more supportive. Mind you, she was still worried, but she was more open minded. One weekend I took her with me and she met my instructors and saw me riding. At the end of the lesson when we were walking home, she told me that she saw my passion with different eyes and saw how happy I was on that rebel 500 and she loved it. One of the instructors told her that I was made for this and she told me that she felt proud at hearing that and seeing how happy I was riding. It's her job to worry as a mother, she will always worry, but she also trusts me and that is huge. Today she tells me every time she sees a motorcyclist and what gears he/she was wearing, whether she like his/her bike or not and things like that and it's kinda fun. Thing is, our moms will always worry, because it's in their nature, especially when it comes to their daughters. :) Keep riding!
Thanks for sharing YOUR story. It’s a good one! As a mom myself, with a son who also loves to ride motorcycles, and has had some scrapes, you are right that moms will always worry. And in the end, my mom was really positive with me when I shared my new passion with her. I’m happy to hear you have a very supportive family. It’s a good feeling!
@@GingerDashMoto I'm happy to hear that! I was certain that she would be positive about that. You're awesome so there was no doubt about your mom being awesome as well. Best wishes!
With me it was just the opposite, my mother had known about my desire to reenter the world of motorcycling for many years , she would never have agreed with it prior to me turning into an older man but as I was approaching age 58 she figured that pushing 60 I was old enough to responsibly handle it, I mean one should be able to do at least some of the things that they have always wanted to do by that age, so my mother had gotten me a motorcycle for my 58th birthday a few years before her death , I mean I shall always be grateful to her for doing that for me because without her I would never had been able to experience this once again.
I got my first bike at at 58 & hid it from my Mom. She got eye cancer about the same time ( she's fine now). She had a fit when I finally told her. Finally when she asked, again, WHY, I said because you never know when you might get eye cancer & then you can't. She then at least understood. Sometimes she even asks about the bike. I think your Mom will be fine. Good luck.
I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel. I started riding at 30 and I rode for 4 years before telling my family! I understand your hesitation and one of my best friends said to me. “If something happens to you, do you want your family to find out from the hospital?” That’s when I picked up the phone. I’m proud of you for making this video.
Hey Derek! Thank you for subscribing and for your comment. Funny enough, that’s something my mom said to me when I told her. She wouldn’t have wanted to find out I had a bike if she got a phone call that I’d been injured riding one.
Don’t worry sweetheart,I started riding at the age of 63 ,I am so proud you didn’t leave it as late as I did ,tell your mum how much it makes you happy riding a bike and she’ll understand
Hey Gina, it's so cool that you ride! I know it can be hard to tell parents about street motorcycles. See as a teenager I had a few trail bikes that my parent signed and even paid for. My mom is the baby of 7 and had 6 brothers and 4 of them rode motorcycles 1 of them was an actual racer, she tagged along with them often until one of them got killed on a motorcycle. So when a got old enough to buy my hone I intent about it and my mom went crazy, final word was if I was getting a bike, make it with a luggage rack cause I would be out of a roof over my head. Next day I got home with a brand new 900 Z1 Kawasaki without a rack, not a word was ever spoken and I had 12 other motorcycles trough the years and race 2 of them. It's a disease and it's in your blood you just cant resist. Now in my 60s I still would ride but a broken back and neck 17 years ago put a stop to it, now its sports cars.
It seems we all have interesting stories when it comes to parents and motorcycles. I’m glad you still get a thrill with sports cars if you can’t be out on two wheels.
Hello....I was in the same boat as you last year. It was rough....but I think that no matter how old you are...they’ll keep seeing you as their little baby boy/girl. And....you’ll Always care about what your parents think...even if it’s not what ya want to hear. Hope it went well with your mum.
Bought my first Harley in June 2020 but due to COVID, a broken ankle and Hurricane Laura and Delta devastation, I just got my endorsement a couple of weeks ago. About a month ago my husband bought me a Harley Street 500 to keep at home (we live in a camper while our house is being rebuilt and I have no place to keep my Heritage Classic out of the elements so it’s being stored about 2 hours away) and I absolutely LOVE that smaller bike. Hopefully by the time we get everything rebuilt and move back into our house, I’ll be ready to move on up to my Heritage. I just now told my Daddy a few weeks ago. I felt like I did when I was a kid and had to tell him I made a bad grade😏 He took the news very well tho. The kicker to it all, I’m a 56 year old ER nurse and still Daddy’s Girl😍
Wow! You’ve had a crazy year. Congrats on the bike(s) and best wishes on your two-wheeled adventures. Nothing wrong with being a Daddy’s girl at any age. ❤️
wow same jam Ginger..I didn't tell my mom until the winter began..My mom is 73 but she's a computer programmer so I couldn't hide it from her..hehe..She was concerned but after seeing my ATGAT habits and riding style she's really supporting me.
Well don’t hide things and definitely don’t be ashamed about the the choices you make. Learn from your experiences and move on. Keep your head up, shoulders back and walk with confidence. It’s your life , live it with purpose. Good luck 🤙🏼
Hi Gina, I just found your channel and love it! First off you look great for 50, I have a 2016 Harley Ultra and still riding at 70. I often hear from people that I look like I'm in my 50's, and honestly using "you are as young as you feel" is the key to longevity. I love your attitude keep those videos coming, I'm now a big fan!
I rode when I was in my teens, but stopped for some reason when I moved to Kansas at 19. I retired in 2019 and bought a 2010 Harley Tri-Glide, which I traded in October for a 2020 Tri-Glide. My point is, don’t let the age thing get in your way!
ahh mothers, everywhere, in every culture, in every age bracket, worry. I got get on a motorcycle at 37 even though i had expressed the love for them since I was a teen, simply because I wanted to avoid the "but it's dangerous" talk. I only managed to get through my mom's worry (she still does worry but at least she knows there is no other way) when I had to commute to work on the daily changing 3 different transportation and I was at my bodily limit, so my reasoning was "I'll either have to drive a motorcycle or stop working and do nothing with my life" which is something that neither of us wanted for me. I did give her quite the scare with the crash, but after telling her how much worse things would have been if I wasn't wearing gear and that it was gear that saved me, she now trusts me and the gear, especially since I'm a very responsible careful rider, I don't do crazy things, and I don't speed up.
Hello Gina and welcome to motorcycling. I absolutely love when young folks, women and otherwise anyone gets into the sport/hobby. It's an absolutely outstanding thing to engage in. I feel you on this one. first time I fell in love with motorcycles I was maybe 10. My parents were in the "Oh HELL NO!!" camp. So, long story short, I learned a lot about mechanics and built a hunk of junk minibike from old parts and a borrowed cement mixer engine. Well, when the police busted me for ripping up and down my street, completely illegal, my patents told the cops to keep my home made bike. fast forward 40 years, 4 years ago, I too was 50 and decided I wanted to ride. For me this was particularly questionable as I have a vision imparement. My entire family feels I should not be on a bike. Only my brother in law rides and he started just a year or so before me. So, I made a deal with everyone. I took the MSF. If the instructors told me that I wouldn't be a good candidate, I would give up the dream. Problem is, the opposite hapened. I was killing it on the MSF course. Instructors couldn't believe I had a vision impairement and that I hadn't been riding for years. So it took a lot of days for the wife to be OK with it. Didn't tell my 80 year old father for months. When I did, he took it well, but still is of the belief that everyone on a motorcycle crashes and has a horrible accident. Actually, my entire family believes motorcycle = accident. When I got my second bike, Harley Street Glide, they thought I'd lost it as this is a big heavy cruiser. Well, I'm still having a blast, kind of.... right now the wether here in Jersey sucks, snow, ice cold, dismal skies, but when spring hits, I'm back on 2 wheels. Best of luck and ride safe. Bob
That’s awesome, Bob! I love the fact that you overcame something that may have prevented you from riding. I’ll bet it felt darn good to nail that MSF course! The weather this year has been crazy. Rough times in Texas, etc. Wild times we are living in. Enjoy those two wheels of yours when it warms up and you get back on the road.
Hi, I enjoyed your story as it's similar to mine. I started a motorcycle driving course on my 50th birthday, two months later I had my first bike. I never told my mom cause she would have worried so much. Way back in 1978, my mother and I arrived at the scene of an accident to find it was my brother on his bike. He survived with bad road rash. Mom was so upset, hence why I never told her. Three years ago, it was my turn. I spent some time in the hospital with a severe broken leg from a motorcycle accident. I never told her that either. My mom passed a year ago at the age of 95 and I still ride today. Cheers!
Ouch! I'm always amazed at the resiliency of motorcyclists. To wreck, sustain injuries, and get back out there. Cheers to you, Daniel. Stay safe and ride well.
Accidently came across your page Gia, I thing you are doing an awesome job riding, I have been riding for a number of years now myself and only 4 yrs ago my Mother found out at I have been riding for years from my X, She never know but is fine with it now, She was against her children riding bike because that is how my dad and her meet after my dad had his motorcycle accident, She was a Nurse at the time they meet. Cheers ! Ride safe and enjoy...
It is so interesting to see how everyone in USA make such a big deal about riding a motorcycle, while in Asia everyone ride motorcycle , even very old grandma and her little girl. Because it is normal commuting. In USA it is about to show off how brave and cool you are.
I lost my mother about 4 years ago but she worried about everything so I completely understand. I subscribed to your channel because my wife is just now learning to ride at you guessed it 50 years old.
It is hard to tell your mom something like this as moms worry. It is awesome that you decided to start riding. I got my license when I was 41 and have had it just over 6 years. There is nothing like riding a motorcycle. More power too you. Yes we want to see people in their 50's riding it is awesome.
Do what makes you happy. You make us happy for you too. Around the world there are many like you who do what you did at the same age. Greetings from Philippines.
I just ran across your channel and watched all your videos I'm impressed you give insperatione to a lot of us how want to try new things but are nervous to try ..welcome to the world of motercycles I just picked up a bike this winter..after several years of not riding..
Congrats on pushing yourself and getting it out there. And bravo for sharing big personal moments as takes a lot to go public with anything. Your experiences make for great advice and reminders as well. Keep up the great vlogging, and keep the rubber down. ✌️
Love your channel. You come across as a very down to earth, honest, easy on the ears and easy on the eyes kinda girl. I'm 55 and been riding since I was 12. I've owned many motorcycles (sport bikes mostly) over the years. Love the sound of in line fours and love going fast. May I suggest you get an in line four or at perhaps try one just to get that buzz. Twins are ok but in line fours are on a whole new level. You don't have to zap and have your hair on fire but an occasional twist of the wrist will do the trick. But at the end of the day it's entirely up to you. Stay safe n happy riding. Just subscribed.
I bought a motorcycle for similar reasons as you when I was 47. Now i'm 55 and still have the same motorcycle. It's also a Suzuki gs500f I bought used for $3000 in 2014. So far I haven't regretted it.
Hi. Sounds like we have a few traits in common. 1. I also started "late". I had just turned 48 and I had the same thought of, "If not now, when? How long do I wait? When I'm 80 or 90?" It still took a year after I took the MSF course (I took that first just to learn more about riding and see if I was going to be okay with the basics), before I found my motorcycle. So far it's the only one I've had. 2. I also did not tell my mother when I bought a motorcycle. Resolution: I told her after I bought it, endured a 45 minute interrogation and she got over it and now does not seem to mind when I visit and am riding the bike. Getting forgiveness was a lot easier than getting permission. Afterthoughts: However willful ignorance is not the same as acceptance. I bet she has no idea what brand it even is. She's never really asked or talked about it at all. I started riding in 2013. "I don't want to hear about it. I don't want to know about it." is not the same as accepting and respecting your choices as valid. Then again if we are going to be grownups, at 50-plus, we should be grown up enough to make up our own minds. You don't need anyone's validation. 3. I also have not shared my UA-cam channel with family. Resolution: I figured in order to shield my mother or others who might make more work for me, I have not told them about my channel. In order to shield my family (cousins for example) who might think it's cool, from having to lie for me I would not tell them about my channel either. Afterthoughts: However this means that I have almost no one to share my victories and defeats, my worst day ever; almost being killed (video 0036: Dodgeball with Death ua-cam.com/video/5G8gii1ssks/v-deo.html ) and my best day ever; I was not killed and I attribute it mostly to riding technique and practice (video 0035: Mind the Gap ua-cam.com/video/de8ANxeCOXc/v-deo.html ). So no one to share a beer and a laugh with and no one to offer a shoulder to cry on. That lead to me not telling a cousin who came from Colombia and was coming over to my mom's house for Thanksgiving (or something like that). She had a young son and I was thinking that my cousin would not approve and I might be a bad influence on the son (my 2nd cousin). Well two or three years later they noticed my helmet and jacket in my original room (in my mom's house, again we are over for the holidays) and when they realized that the old BMW outside was my bike they had questions. My cousin says she had a motorcycle in Colombia. I had no idea. So the moral is when you limit yourself with your "concerns" (FEARS) you also limit everyone else since they are not given the chance to support you. You are also prejudging them. And most of the time what makes things like this a big deal is your fears projected as someone else's hang-ups or judgments. I have found that most others really, honestly could not care less and probably don't even notice what you're worried about until you point it out to them with self doubt and excuses. They have their own problems to worry about. That's been my experience so far. I hope that helps someone. Hmm, maybe I should make this a motovlog? : ) Stay Sharp & Stay Up Cheers
I hear you...51 here and got my first bike this year...just got my licence and parents dont know...worriers both, and I dont need that concern in my head at the moment. There is enough in there from me 😊
Since my 20s I've been riding a motorbike and for 30 years my mom hasn't liked it and worries about me. She's now retired and in Australia ( I'm in New Zealand) and I kinda sorta told her I'm done with bikes and they are all sold now. I still have one and yes I ride it and I do feel guilty. Nice to know I'm not the only 50 something doing this. I wonder how many of us are doing the same?
I have watched two of your videos so far, and you are doing well with them. How about showing us a picture of your bike and tell us what you are riding and if you bought it new or used and if it has any aftermarket accessories. Congrats on deciding to get a bike and ride. Be well and stay safe.
This is too funny... I did the exact same thing and did not tell my mother that I was getting my motorcycle license as well as purchasing one. I was 50yrs old too when I secretly told my husband and daughter that I was going to work on a Friday night, Saturday and Sunday.... when in reality I was taking the course to get my motorcycle license . I had gone to the Drive Test centre a couple of weeks earlier to write my test on the way to work.. LOL! Once I got it I was so excited but did not tell them at all. I didn't want anyone trying to convince me not to do it. I just woke up one day and dedcided that was the goal I set for myself. Not really sure why I chose that as I had never ridden a bike before. I had a close friend that helped me find a used motorcycle and he found me a 2015 CB 500FA. My family or my mother did not know and I did not tell. My friend took the bike and had it inspected for me and kept it in his garage for a bit. Once my husband and my daughter went on a weeks vacation I got the bike home and practiced for hours in the school parking lot etc... The only person I told was my older brother who I swore him to secrecy. On the first day that my husband and daughter got home from vacation they opened the garage up and my daughter looked at my husband and said, "there is a motorcycle in the garage". When he looked at me he asked "whose motorcycle". I said "mine". He said "yours, but you don't ride a motorcycle'. I said "yes I do". He said " but you don't have a license". I said "yes I do" and that was that. They have been very supportive ever since but are worry warts when I ride. My mother passed less than a year later and I never told her about the motorcycle as she would have worried if she knew. Or so I thought.. I later found out from my brother after her funeral that she did know and he told her. He mentioned that she was very proud of me and teased my brother about it because he tried to ride but couldn't get the hang of the balance aspect of it. Anyway, I am going into my 4 season of riding at 53yrs old and I love moto camping. Sorry for the rant but I wish you all the best with your Moto adventures. I have subscribed and I look forward to watching! Take care, from Ontario, Canada - Angela
Love, love this, Angela! Just wow. Until I posted this video, and people started commenting, I had no idea how common it was to hide things from our parents even when we are far from “children” And your story is amazing. There are so many strong, capable women out there choosing to do things for themselves that make them feel happy and fulfilled. You’re a great example of that. Massive thumbs up to you. I truly appreciate you sharing your story. It’s a good one and something to be proud of. All the best to you up there in the frozen north. ❤️
Hey. I know the feeling exactly. At 55 I decided to learn to ride two wheel, I was previously riding 3 wheels. Made the official decision around new years eve. I sold my 3 wheeler and, 2 weeks ago, I bought a 2021 Indian Challenger without telling anyone in my family. They all read about it after I posted pictures on FB. BTW, I am a widower of almost 2 years. Lots of friends and neighbors think I went crazy. My late wife would have never allowed me to buy a 2 wheel motorcycle. I have 3 kids and one is still I high school. So, yes it was a tough decision given that I am still responsible for a teenager. It is really something I always wanted to do. But then life gets in the way and you have to postpone until perhaps you find the right moment. I just wanted to learn on the motorcycle I plan to ride for really long time; and I plan to ride to Sturgis this year so I have a lot of riding to do before that. I did take some precautions and added forward and rear crash bars and Drop Guards. Like you said in one of your videos, if not now, when? I'm will be almost 60 when my son leaves for college. I had to do it now that God is still blessing me and keeping me able and strong and I can learn fast and I don't have much fear of leaning and not too afraid of dropping an 800 pound ($30000) motorcycle while learning. So far so good. I'm enjoying my big motorcycle that everyone I know told me not to buy because it was too big. I practice every day slow maneuvers at a close by Church parking. I get better every day, and am already comfortable enough to ride on the street. Anyway, congratulations on turning 50 and joining the club and on making this great decision and setting an example for so many people our age that are probably thinking like us and haven't been able to take the plunge yet. It is all ok, and an easy thing to do, right? After we all successfully pass all the tests and shit that life throws at us...We all deserve to be a little bit selfish and Enjoy Life a little!! Good Luck!
Years ago I told my dad I wanted a motorcycle, he didnt like it at all, but my mom was ok with it. I have rode 5 different bikes, so far I haven't got into an accident yet and hopefully I can keep that up.
Totally understandable, I have the exact same mother. I’m 48 years old and I still don’t tell her about any of my motorcycle experiences with the exception of an accident that I had when I was 19 years old
Thanks Gina, Really like the Talks and The scenery. Donkeys too. Lol. Nice to see ya Happy. I myself tried to live my life like what others thought it should be. And cared what they said. 58 now and for the last 10+ years been living my life. Took me 3 marriages to figure that out. Keep up the good work. 👍🏼As always, ride safe be safe.
I am just about to start my riding career at 43. I was hoping that I would be well on my way now but the recent issues in the world has meant a delay to my tests as they kept getting cancelled due to lockdowns here in the UK. Just wanted to say I stumbled across your channel and am now a subscriber, like you I am looking forward to your journey on two wheels. ;) Great videos by the way.
Been riding since I was in college. Saw your vid and thought that's interesting an older person riding. Then realized I'm also close to 50 now n still riding.
Gina you are doing great! Just be you and do you. Don’t worry about the keyboard warriors/haters. I like that you are real and not trying show off by wearing less etc.
Absolutely fantastic video. I like you didn’t start riding until I was 50. Actually 51 to be exact. Keep up the great videos. Also, fantastic job on all of your thumbnails. They really stand out.
Thank you, Craig! I watched quite a few “training videos” with tips about UA-cam, including thumbnails and video titles and such. Lots a time spent researching and trying to do it mostly right from the beginning.
"No one wants to watch a 50-year-old on a motorcycle" Currently 439 subscribers disagree. That is a huge amount for such a short time. You are almost half way to where my first channel is after something like 10 years. As for moms? Mine is no longer around, but my grandmother is, and I take care of her in my home. I am a 43-year-old man and I am not going to openly drink a beer in my own home because of the disapproval my 93-year-old grandmother has for drinking. Call it respect, call it fear, but it is what it is.
You’re a good guy to be caring for your grandmother. I hope you find your own escape when that gets difficult. And the increase in subscribers in the last two weeks has been completely unexpected and humbling. Thanks for checking out so many of my videos. I appreciate it.
I have both a 2 wheel and a trike. I ride 2 wheels for me and I take my 86y/o mother on the trike. We went on a week long round trip ride from Waco TX to Las Vegas and back. We're planning a trip to Traverse City, MI. She has so much fun.
Gina you are absolutely right in your comment on buying and using the right bike that suits you and your own personal needs. The important thing is getting out there and riding. If in future you wish to upgrade, downgrade or move sideways in terms of which bike you own and ride is purely your choice and you shouldn’t let anyone influence your choice. Suggestions can be healthy and helpful but ride whatever you are comfortable with. I personally know people with awesome bikes but hardly use them, What’s the point in that. Keep riding, keep having fun and do as you please. That’s what freedom is all about X
I couldn’t agree more, Keith. It’s tempting to just float from bike to bike, but as much as I’d like to “move up” at some point, I’m not there yet. And when I do it will be a well thought out decision and not one I make due to external pressure. Advice and suggestions are always welcome and will be parsed and assimilated for use when the time comes. 😊
Are you sure we don't have the same mom? LOL I just came here to say, after finding (and subscribing!) to your channel a few days ago - I've never related to something quite like I do to your content! I am turning 48 in October. I just bought a Virago 250 as my "learning" bike with absolutely zero riding experience. I'm equal parts excited and petrified. Your videos calm my nerves, make me laugh and inspire me. Thank you thank you thank you!
That's awesome, Emily!! Welcome to the best adventure of your life. It's been that for me anyway. How have things been going since you posted this comment?
@@GingerDashMoto I am absolutely loving it! My husband had some riding experience (30+ years ago), and I know a small part of him was apprehensive when I announced my intention to learn and buy a bike. 2 days later he took it for a ride, loved it so much he picked up one for himself! We've gone on some really nice rides together and I have made so much progress in a short time.. I take my MSF course in a couple weeks and hopefully will be 100% endorsed by end of the month. 😊 Happy riding to you and I look forward to keeping up with you here! You are so sweet! Keep up the awesome work and thank you!
@@emilysimmons7318 Yay!! Best of luck with the MSF, but I'm sure you're ready for it. So happy you're loving the experience AND that your husband joined you. As nerve wracking as it can be to be a new rider, you'll never again feel that exact same sort of excitement once you've become experienced. All the best to both of you.
HELLO to all of my new subscribers, existing subs, and viewers in general!! Thank you for tuning in for this video! Drop a comment with your own CLEAN confession below. I can’t be the only one...😁
My folks definitely don’t know I ride...yet! 😬 Figured I’d tell them after the world isn’t crashing down around all of us.
@@OneDownGeneUp I hear that! ❤️
@@OneDownGeneUp just say your going for a bike ride. The LL think bicycle then after a year of that say motorcycle and I’ve been talking about the motorcycle for a year don’t you guys ever listen to me.
Hi Gina I can relate to this topic as I have been riding off and on for 40 years. Ten years ago after many years of not riding I bought and then shortly sold my sixth bike. Not long after that my mom said she was glad that I did not have a bike anymore. She told me she always worried about me when I had all my bikes but did not want to tell me that in fear that I would give up riding because of her. Seven years went by and the urge hit me once again but this time I didn't tell her, so it's still my secret but sometimes I thinkI might just spill the beans .My situation is different from you but not in some ways .
Oh yeah. I can TOTALLY relate to your situation. I truly understand why you’re keeping you riding a secret. Stay safe out there and enjoy those two wheels!
Moms only worry because they love us. We don't tell them all of the crazy stuff we do because we love them back.
My mother didn't want me to have a motorcycle when I was 18, and I'm now 66 and still riding. It's the best experience short of flying.
For me, flying was a let down over riding. It was great but riding is much more responsive and the forces considerably greater.
@@elgringoec Well, I've never actually been flying except in a passenger jet to Egypt and that was like being in a train with wings.
I'm talking about raw flying such as in a microlight, glider or dive bombing in an old Spitfire.
Something I want to try.
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I'd say, give it a go! No point in regretting not trying something you want to and are capable of. There's nothing like the reaction forces of riding, though, whether whipping through the twisties or muscling a dirt bike through rough terrain. 😆☮️
@@elgringoec Yeah, you're right. I've been riding bikes since 1972. Currently have a FZ1 and SV650S.
@@Apollo949
Sweet! I forget what year was my first ride but I bought my first motorcycle in '70. Had a mini bike before that. Now I have about 14 bikes but currently registered VF1100S and 300XC-W. I'm thinking I might like to get a tenere 700.
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"nobody wants to see a 50 year old woman riding a motorcycle"... Ummm I do. Not because you're 50 years old, and not because you're a woman, but because I ride motorcycles, and I know just how idiotic that grin you get is when you've been on the bike for five minutes. Everybody should get to experience that grin in their life, that sense of freedom. It's something rather special.
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I realy admire your openness, I couln't; simply I don't trust internet. I am somewhat surprised about not telling all to either mother, family or friends. Once I was a child, never a parent, I was/am a free spirit, never had a strong connection to my family, even less to inlaws, slightly stronger to friends, none to governments/religion. I always help, support, the vulnerable, but from an inner strength. Fab to see you enjoy motobiking as a liberation, pls continue!!
I’m with you on not telling your Mother. I’m 54, got my licence 8 years ago but am just getting my first bike this year. My Mom knows none of this. I think of it as saving her from a lot of worrying.
I know just how you feel, Laura!
I just saw your post about being 54 and getting your license 8 years ago. Same here! I guess I'm not the only one who got my license 8 years ago and just finally bought a bike. I'm a grown man, 56 and bought a Honda Monkey:-) Glad I got something small because it's fun and you can make all sorts of mistakes and it's not a problem. Plus you can go on dirt trails where there are no cars. Did you finally get yourself a bike?
I totally get what you’re talking about at the 7:27 point. For me, just taking the first step was the hardest. The only person I told I was buying my first motorcycle, a brand new 2012 Victory Kingpin, was the salesperson at the shop in central MD where I was stationed. I was 32 at the time and the purchase was a much-needed turning point in my life. I didn’t plan anything about it; it was a pure impulse buy and one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. Close to 10 years later, I just got re-assigned to a European location and bought my fourth motorcycle yesterday, a stalwart 1992 BMW K75, with the intention of cruising as many EU countries as I can before they send me back to CONUS. Keep up the good work and ride safe!
Enjoy that newest bike, Paul!
Being a motorcycle rider is something to be proud of. Starting this at 50 just shows you are now embracing your next stage in life rather than many who start to close in their sphere and avoid things new and challenging. Your true friends should be accepting if not supportive. You took a bold step, and you already know the reward. It just gets better with experience, and you will find many friends you haven't met along the way. You have many years of riding ahead of you. If you decide to move forward on the relationship front, try to find someone who rides. Couples who love riding have a great bond to share, and avoid the conflict of not sharing the same interest at vacation or retirement time.
As far as telling your mother goes, I personally feel that hiding who you are to a family member is a slippery slope toward trouble. People who worry about something they can't control are wasting emotional energy. Offer to take her for a ride. She might surprise you.
Florida- such a shame, all that sunshine and no curves or hills. Still, you get to feel the wind and the machine. Your next step can be to travel into the mountains when you feel comfortable to take trips. Best of luck as you learn.
Thank you, Thatcher!
Have just bought a scooter as a first bike for my 83rd birthday . One of the best things I have ever done- absolutely love it. Can't tell mother, but my 78 year old partner approves. You go girl, good on you.
Yo Ginger, No embarrassment needed. You are out there riding. My parents used to come home and tell me about every Motorsickle accident they seen. They were not fans of 2 wheel transportation. I showed up at the house with a Motorsickle I had purchased with money I had earned over the summer working on a farm I was 13 years old. Yup I have been riding ever since. It doesn't matter how or when or even if you never want to tell them. Jus Do It. Keep the shiny side up
Enjoyed your video very much. I have been riding for 60 years and I can tell you got the fever! Love your honesty. Keep sharing your experiences. It brings back so many exciting memories of my own journey.
I am 61 and i still ride my yamaha xjr1300 over here in England uk ..i must say you give out out really good advice to all first time riders. Love your blog long may you carry on with them..stay safe and happy riding.
You reminded me of a favorite quote. “This is the youngest that I’m ever going to be”.
Great quote!
I love listening to the excitement of new riders and seeing someone closer to my age starting this journey is a unique point of view-subscribed. Oh, and sparing mom worry is okay.
Hi Ginger, I had always wanted to ride a bike, I turned 50, got divorced and found a wonderful new lady, passed a bike test in the uk, now 3 years later I am loving my bmw rt1200, be safe and love life x
That’s amazing, Steve! Happy riding!
I too starting riding this year. I too just turned 50. Most importantly, I too did not tell My mother. All she would do is worry.
I understand completely. :)
@@GingerDashMoto well i subscribe to your Channel and im following you on Instagram and you are pretty woman. Im taking the msf course in may im excited and nervous at the same time. I went bike shopping and found two bike that i really like, hopefully ill be able to buy a bike in the next year or so
Growing up in my home, motorcycle were verboten. I learned to ride on a friend's dirt bike in the sand pits at 15. My mother never knew. At 26 I bought my first street bike. Passed the test a month later and went to see my mother and little brother. She was not happy. Last year I helped my son get his motorcycle endorsement. That weekend I told my family at a gathering. Again, my mom was very unhappy. It's like taking off a bandaid. It has to be done. It's probably going to hurt a little. But the anticipation of it hurts 1000x worse. Just do it quickly and honestly. Don't drag it out.
Well done.....! I bought a bike last year after decades of not having a bike - so I'm the archetypal 'born-again biker'. I retired last November, and my main aim is to stay ON the bike - and alive. Everything else is a plus...! Winter here in the UK isn't much use for biking - but as we enter Spring now - I'm looking forward to flexing my wings. Good for you in following your heart. Take care xxx
Congratulations!
Good luck with your mom. She will actually be proud of you. And impressed. Our parents have dreams aspirations that they may not have told us. My mom is no longer here and I know that once they are gone you will miss being able to share things in life with them. Glad you are including her in this part of your life.
I'm a 52 yr old female and took the Harley riding academy a couple weeks ago and got my license. Been watching motoman on yt and trying to decide what my first bike will be. I was very confident and did well with head and eyes....definitely want all cornering to stick. Good luck.
Thanks, Tracy!
I fully get it. I started riding at 58. My father was, years before a motorcycle cop so he was okay with it. My mom, just told me, always, "be careful". One is blessed to be well into his sixties before losing his parents (both were WWII vets, btw) and I often am amazed at their courage in each other and their faith and support in their two sons. One thing they taught, its a good thing to be pushed beyond your comfort zone. Security stunts growth.
Thanks for sharing that, Richard. You were blessed to have some amazing parents.
@@GingerDashMoto Indeed... indeed.
I am 35 and have been riding for over a year. I still haven't told most of my family. I just don't want to deal with all the worrying. I have debated showing up on my motorcycle on Thanksgiving this year as a way of letting everyone know. Not the best way, but it's pretty in-line with my personality they've come to expect.
I know just what you mean. My mom would have worried most likely, but I did finally tell her and she was surprisingly supporting. It was a pretty funny conversation.
Don't be so hard on yourself. The channel is great and many motorcyclists are interested in how you get on and what you think as your skills develop. Best wishes from the UK.
Best wishes to you, too!
I just found your channel and have enjoyed watching. As a almost 70 years old guy I think it is great that you decided to ride a motorcycle at fifty years old.
Hi Ginger,
I'm a 55 year old man, and i first wanted to let you know I subscribed today. WOOHOO! haha. I feel the same exact way about my mother and my family too. Of course with my mothers alzheimer's continuing to get worse, she doesnt recognize things like she used to. But, I'm looking to get another motorcycle at some point. I will tell no one, because it doesn't really matter. I have a daughter, who like her mother decided they did not want me anymore. I love your videos, please keep posting them and please take care.
Awwww...you take care as well.
Good on you Gina, and relax given your good relationship with your mum, she will support you and i am sure it will be fine. As for being 50 and taking up riding a Motorcycle, I reckon your doing just fine. I have only been riding for around 3 years and I am 61. Your never too old and I am sure there are plenty of us in this age group who enjoy watching and even learning from others in riding a Motorcycle and the places you enjoy riding.
Keep making the videos. Don’t be too concerned about the thoughts of others. I’m sure your mother will eventually understand especially since you’re riding safe. Your third video will determine my subscription. Ride on road warrior.
Good morning Gina!! I actually tried to write this last night, and POOF!! it disappeared... lol. I was tired so I hit the sack, and decided to try again this morning. I totally understand your situation of not telling your mom! My folks are 91 & 92 still living in WV. Mom still worries about me (I'm almost 68), it's kind of funny really, lol! So yeah, there are a lot of things that I don't tell them just because I don't want her to worry! They know I have a bike, but no idea how much I ride!! Here's one thing I haven't told them yet... I'm going up to Alaska in May for a couple of weeks to start clearing off some property up there, and I plan on making my big move in August!! Every time I go up there I get this: it's dark all the time, or light all the time or it's -60 all the time... all of which are wrong!!! My property is on the Kenai Peninsula, about 150 miles south of Anchorage. On the shortest day of the year, they had 5.75 hours of daylight. Their winters up there are very similar to their winters in northern WV. But you can't change the pre-conceived notions of some people! They don't have internet, never have and never will! I'd given them a couple of my old computers over the decades, but they just give them away. Remember back in the old dial-up days and AOL??? Well one time I was back there visiting and dad wouldn't let me connect my laptop to his phone line because he was afraid it would destroy his phone system!! LOL!!! So no, they don't know I have a UA-cam channel, they don't even know what UA-cam is... LOL!!! Ride Safe Gina!!
The hardest for me was to tell my two adult daughters that I wanted to learn to ride a motorcycle at 50. They both said, “that’s cool”. And then asked me if I was having a midlife crisis. To which I said - I would be ok with that, means I live to 100! They have both since gone to MSF and want to ride with me. So that’s pretty cool for me to learn something new and get to do it with my daughters.
That’s amazing, Jason!
Awesome! I love your midlife crisis! I'm signed up for the MSF with my 18 year old daughter April 16th. I rode a little in the distant past. I am worried I'll be terrible, as an old guy. I'm not worried about my daughter.
@@miporsche Naw, there were a lot of old guys in my class. We had fun. And we showed the kids up. They had problems with rear brake and clutch at the same time. Go have fun. It will be a memory for your daughter.
I had the same with mum.
I started at 45 years old,and still riding.
You have a wonderful mum ,if she didn't worry about you then that would be strange.
Ride safe.
Mark ,, from london.
Ginger; You did not lie to your mother. Just because you did not share this with here is not a lie.
Are you a grown woman living your own life? Are you married?
You have a life of your own now and there is no reason you have to answer to your mother or get her approval.
I realize that may sound a bit rough, but I have learned a very long time ago that if I am going to look for my mothers approval in what I do with my life, life is going to suck.
I very much enjoy seeing a middle aged woman riding motorcycle. As a middle aged man I love to see women around my age riding.
It is very encouraging to know there are women around my age who enjoy the same passion for riding as I do.
You are considerate of your mom’s feelings and that shows you are a good hearted person. Now that you have riding experience she should be reassured. Enjoying your videos.
Geez I feel the pain. I moved from the PNW and have a house in Texas now and have my 90 year old mother staying with me to sharing the care of her with my sister. That lives nearby. When my mom saw my bike she was shocked and I got “ they are so dangerous “. I said “ Mom I have had cancer twice and I am still alive. Killing myself on the bike is not a worry for me “. She got it then.
Mom’s never stop worrying. I passively worry about my son, but I let him live his life. Because that is the point. You’re either living or simply existing. I did that for far too long. The latter. No going back now.
I actually appreciate that you didn't blurb to everyone this personal journey you're on with the motorcycle. Glad you finally were able to get that 'witholding the truth' lie from mom. Just found your site, so I'm assuming you followed thru :)
As a 51yr old guy that is going thru a similar midlife crisis with an adventure bike.. appreciate your vids. Hope this channel treats you well.
Thanks Bebo! I did eventually tell my mom and we had a good laugh about it. She was entirely supportive and I felt pretty silly for having withheld the truth for so long.
KUDOS and thanks for sharing! I am the other side, having ridden for over 40 years and still love motorcycles..... My adult children are now the reason I also retired from riding, but still watch and look at motorcycles :) Being 70+, I had to admit, I was fortunate, never having an accident at all, and too the MSK again much later as I had been off for quite some time. ENJOY you ride! Just didn;t want my daughters to worry about me, and last bike was an 07 Ninja 650R :) Loved it! All the BEST to you and Cheers from the soggy corner PNW :)
Hey, Marty! Thanks for stopping by!
I have been riding a bike for about 10 years now and when I got my first bike I was 45 years old well 23 days before I turned 45 in June and now it is a big part of my life. Love your videos and the content you are doing is awesome. Just be your self and you will be fine. Thanks for sharing your life with us on utube.
Thank you for the support and kind words, Paul.
You know what you have to do. Call her as you are almost at her house, roll up and take your helmet off. Create great memories and laughs.
Great post! As far as secrets and fears are concerned, I suspect yours is relatively benign and not as rare as you might think. As a recovering corporate exec, and now retiring CEO, lots of eyeballs rolled when I rode into work one day on my shiny new 2020 Goldwing at 56! (I rode for 20 years 20 years ago before putting bikes up at the behest of those hiring me.) My explanation today is simple: I’m living proof you’re never too old to have a happy childhood! Good for you for doing the same while you still can and can likely appreciate it more thanks to experience and far greater wisdom!
I look forward to hearing about your adventures in the future! 😋
I love hearing stones like yours! Enjoy your two-wheeled adventures.
As I sand dowels for my new tent and watch your videos, I am truly enjoying you! My 82 year old Mom is why I moved back to Iowa from Montana. Being closer to care for her makes the emergency commute easier. My Mom hates that i ride! I bought a new helmet as a deal to get her to use her cane. For too many years i never rode a bike to visit her. Now as I am needed more i just get to her anyway I can.
Gosh being 50 doesn't make us all that mature does it? Do not worry we do not judge you. Few can explain why we ride so all of our loved ones relax. Having full insurance for extended medical care is my Mom's demand. I prefer to educate the public that we are out there also. So look for bikes and know that we to have families and loved ones.
Take care of yourself Beautiful Lady. Get that rain riding experience under your belt so the fear doesn't ruin your riding. Please?
You all are in my prayers
Hoka Hey
So glad to hear you have such a good relationship with your mother, it took me 40 years to realize my own mother only cared about herself and was never going to change. I miss her but my life has been better for it.
Wow, of course we want to see you! Best regards from Finland!
(Sorry, this is a long one.)
I got my license last year, about 2 months into the pandemic before I turned 28. I signed up for the MSF course and told my parents about it 3 days before the course. They were not happy. "You're going to get killed. There's too many people on their phones." Anything and everything they could say, they did say. My mom was almost in tears. Ultimately, they knew that they couldn't stop me as I may be their son, but I'm also an adult. As the course went on, I told them about what I've been learning and how I've been doing on the course bike and they slowly started to understand that maybe I could do it. (I'm a very skinny guy at around 5'10'' and 115 lbs so I think one of their major concerns was me actually being able to handle 500 lbs between my chicken legs.)
I passed the course, got my endorsement, and immediately started looking for a bike. I knew the turning point was when my mom was actually sharing some seller pages from FB Marketplace and Craigslist, as well as asking some of her old patrons from her bartending days for bike suggestions. Settled on a 2017 Honda Rebel 500 from a dealership, booked the Uhaul trailer to pick it up, and started up my 'brand new' bike right outside their house. My dad immediately runs out, sits in the saddle, and the next thing I knew he was around the block! (He used to ride dirty on his new Sportster back in '06.)
After I get back from dropping off the trailer, my mom comes over to me and tells me all about how my dad said he was proud of me; how I took the proper steps, got some good gear, signed up for the course, got my license, found a good bike, and got it home safely. While it may not have come directly from my dad's mouth, it's a moment that I'll never forget. Now I'm trying to convince him to get that Spyder that he's been talking about ;)
I definitely do not think you are boring, it is a new and exciting adventure you are on and it is exciting to hear what you have to say.
Yours Sincerely
The Danish Viking
Your bike size shows perfect decision making. I’m so proud of you!
Yo! I’ve been watching your videos (not in date order) and this is the first time that I hear that you are 50??? YOU ARE NOT 50 YEARS OLD!!! Try 35, I would believe that. You don’t look 50. You are gorgeous! Your personality and spirit is awesome! And let me tell you, your videos have helped me too! I am 49 years old and I just started riding 4 years ago and I love it! Seeing your video about being nervous helped me and allowed me to better navigate while riding. Like the video with the gusty winds, that happened to me too! I was like, “this is what Ginger Dash was talking about!” Oh yeah and I understand about not telling your Mom. I told my my Mom, but it helps that she lives down in Alabama LOL!!! Thank you for posting these! Don’t stop posting and don’t stop riding! Ride safe!
Oh by the way, I’m jealous that you’re in Florida, my bike is the garage because I live in Illinois and there is snow everywhere!
Beautiful, courageous and caring. This girl must be some kind of special crazy. I'm loving the journey thanks!!
You are a mere youngster still. A friend I regularly ride with is 83 and can handle a motorcycle better than most riders half his age. Love your videos 😊
I’m happy to be one of your subscribers that does know you in person. ❤️ Totally understandable to not share with your mom until you were ready. Keep on being the badass you are girl!
Hey Lana!! Thank you ! ❤️🤘🏻
Hey Gina, i just want say ‘ go girl you’re awesome’ . It doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 70, we all share the love for motorcycles. I’m 45 and I’ve still so much to discover with my bike, so keep riding and in joy
Thank you!!
I understand the Mom thing. My mom is a big worry wart. Luckily my parents are only 4 hours away so get to see them alot. Bless my mom that she asks alot about my bike and shares my excitement of riding all while worried that I am being safe. Love listening to your excitement of this hobby/sport. For me it has been a life saver and hearing wonderful people share their passion is fantastic. Keep up the great times!
Thanks Kelly! My mom and I had a good laugh about it when I finally told her. And she has been very supportive.
@@GingerDashMoto Well that is wonderful. All is well. Been a few years since being in that neck of the woods. Visted Merit Island a few times (family). Coco Beach was so beautiful. Just couldn't imaging riding in that heat in the summer.
Hey Ginger it’s not about how old you are. It’s wether you enjoy what you do. I’m 50 this year and had my moto license since I was 16 but just finally picked up a moto and loving it. Just be careful and keep going.
Well first of all this is the first time I have seen your channel and I would like to say good on you girl for taking up motorcycling, we need more women like you to ride motorcycles and to enjoy the thrill we all get riding on two wheels, yes motorcycles can be dangerous, but ride within your limits and ride safe and you will build up your confidence, and keep up the channel and I'm sure your mother will be fine if you show her that you are ridding safely.
I'm Ron and I'm a rider in the UK,I'm 60 and still love to ride.
So keep it up and good luck.
Thanks, Ronald!
I've got my motorcycle license last year, at 30 years old. I wanted to do it for a long time and then the pandemic happened and had to wait, but I finally did it. I told my parents because somehow they are a big part of my decision-making, in the sense that they have the right to know. They are no strangers to the motorcycle world and while my dad was troubled by the idea but supported me, my mom was totally against it, but respected that it was my call. So what I did was to tell them, specially her, every little (big) thing that I was learning in school and step by step she was more supportive. Mind you, she was still worried, but she was more open minded. One weekend I took her with me and she met my instructors and saw me riding. At the end of the lesson when we were walking home, she told me that she saw my passion with different eyes and saw how happy I was on that rebel 500 and she loved it. One of the instructors told her that I was made for this and she told me that she felt proud at hearing that and seeing how happy I was riding. It's her job to worry as a mother, she will always worry, but she also trusts me and that is huge. Today she tells me every time she sees a motorcyclist and what gears he/she was wearing, whether she like his/her bike or not and things like that and it's kinda fun. Thing is, our moms will always worry, because it's in their nature, especially when it comes to their daughters. :) Keep riding!
Thanks for sharing YOUR story. It’s a good one! As a mom myself, with a son who also loves to ride motorcycles, and has had some scrapes, you are right that moms will always worry. And in the end, my mom was really positive with me when I shared my new passion with her. I’m happy to hear you have a very supportive family. It’s a good feeling!
@@GingerDashMoto I'm happy to hear that! I was certain that she would be positive about that. You're awesome so there was no doubt about your mom being awesome as well. Best wishes!
Wish I could go riding, thanks for taking us along. Takes a lot of courage to open up to strangers. Stay safe!
With me it was just the opposite, my mother had known about my desire to reenter the world of motorcycling for many years , she would never have agreed with it prior to me turning into an older man but as I was approaching age 58 she figured that pushing 60 I was old enough to responsibly handle it, I mean one should be able to do at least some of the things that they have always wanted to do by that age, so my mother had gotten me a motorcycle for my 58th birthday a few years before her death , I mean I shall always be grateful to her for doing that for me because without her I would never had been able to experience this once again.
Relate much..!
We call it our silent rebellion..my heart goes out for you and your mom!❤️🙏
I got my first bike at at 58 & hid it from my Mom. She got eye cancer about the same time ( she's fine now). She had a fit when I finally told her. Finally when she asked, again, WHY, I said because you never know when you might get eye cancer & then you can't. She then at least understood. Sometimes she even asks about the bike. I think your Mom will be fine. Good luck.
Mom’s always worry. Happy to hear she has recovered!
I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel. I started riding at 30 and I rode for 4 years before telling my family! I understand your hesitation and one of my best friends said to me. “If something happens to you, do you want your family to find out from the hospital?” That’s when I picked up the phone. I’m proud of you for making this video.
Hey Derek! Thank you for subscribing and for your comment. Funny enough, that’s something my mom said to me when I told her. She wouldn’t have wanted to find out I had a bike if she got a phone call that I’d been injured riding one.
Don’t worry sweetheart,I started riding at the age of 63 ,I am so proud you didn’t leave it as late as I did ,tell your mum how much it makes you happy riding a bike and she’ll understand
Hey Gina, it's so cool that you ride! I know it can be hard to tell parents about street motorcycles. See as a teenager I had a few trail bikes that my parent signed and even paid for. My mom is the baby of 7 and had 6 brothers and 4 of them rode motorcycles 1 of them was an actual racer, she tagged along with them often until one of them got killed on a motorcycle. So when a got old enough to buy my hone I intent about it and my mom went crazy, final word was if I was getting a bike, make it with a luggage rack cause I would be out of a roof over my head. Next day I got home with a brand new 900 Z1 Kawasaki without a rack, not a word was ever spoken and I had 12 other motorcycles trough the years and race 2 of them. It's a disease and it's in your blood you just cant resist. Now in my 60s I still would ride but a broken back and neck 17 years ago put a stop to it, now its sports cars.
It seems we all have interesting stories when it comes to parents and motorcycles. I’m glad you still get a thrill with sports cars if you can’t be out on two wheels.
Hello....I was in the same boat as you last year. It was rough....but I think that no matter how old you are...they’ll keep seeing you as their little baby boy/girl. And....you’ll Always care about what your parents think...even if it’s not what ya want to hear. Hope it went well with your mum.
Bought my first Harley in June 2020 but due to COVID, a broken ankle and Hurricane Laura and Delta devastation, I just got my endorsement a couple of weeks ago. About a month ago my husband bought me a Harley Street 500 to keep at home (we live in a camper while our house is being rebuilt and I have no place to keep my Heritage Classic out of the elements so it’s being stored about 2 hours away) and I absolutely LOVE that smaller bike. Hopefully by the time we get everything rebuilt and move back into our house, I’ll be ready to move on up to my Heritage. I just now told my Daddy a few weeks ago. I felt like I did when I was a kid and had to tell him I made a bad grade😏 He took the news very well tho. The kicker to it all, I’m a 56 year old ER nurse and still Daddy’s Girl😍
Wow! You’ve had a crazy year. Congrats on the bike(s) and best wishes on your two-wheeled adventures. Nothing wrong with being a Daddy’s girl at any age. ❤️
Enjoy the Florida roads they look lovely
It's great you have taken up motorcycling,shows you you have great spirit , keep on riding .😊👌
wow same jam Ginger..I didn't tell my mom until the winter began..My mom is 73 but she's a computer programmer so I couldn't hide it from her..hehe..She was concerned but after seeing my ATGAT habits and riding style she's really supporting me.
Your mom sounds pretty cool! It seems like a lot of people picked up motorcycling this past year. Stay safe and have fun! Thanks for stopping by!
Always !!! I’m a fan !!!
Well don’t hide things and definitely don’t be ashamed about the the choices you make. Learn from your experiences and move on. Keep your head up, shoulders back and walk with confidence. It’s your life , live it with purpose. Good luck 🤙🏼
Great work! Totally understand. I'm 50 and just getting back on a motorcycle. Not told my 80 year old Mum either because she would worry far too much.
Ha! I’m glad to see I’m not the only one!
Hi Gina, I just found your channel and love it! First off you look great for 50, I have a 2016 Harley Ultra and still riding at 70. I often hear from people that I look like I'm in my 50's, and honestly using "you are as young as you feel" is the key to longevity. I love your attitude keep those videos coming, I'm now a big fan!
Thank you, James!
I rode when I was in my teens, but stopped for some reason when I moved to Kansas at 19. I retired in 2019 and bought a 2010 Harley Tri-Glide, which I traded in October for a 2020 Tri-Glide. My point is, don’t let the age thing get in your way!
Thanks for the encouragement, William. Ride safe!
ahh mothers, everywhere, in every culture, in every age bracket, worry.
I got get on a motorcycle at 37 even though i had expressed the love for them since I was a teen, simply because I wanted to avoid the "but it's dangerous" talk.
I only managed to get through my mom's worry (she still does worry but at least she knows there is no other way) when I had to commute to work on the daily changing 3 different transportation and I was at my bodily limit, so my reasoning was "I'll either have to drive a motorcycle or stop working and do nothing with my life" which is something that neither of us wanted for me.
I did give her quite the scare with the crash, but after telling her how much worse things would have been if I wasn't wearing gear and that it was gear that saved me, she now trusts me and the gear, especially since I'm a very responsible careful rider, I don't do crazy things, and I don't speed up.
Keep it up girl. I have a 46 year old daughter who rides and has done since her late teens.her bikes are her release.
Hello Gina and welcome to motorcycling. I absolutely love when young folks, women and otherwise anyone gets into the sport/hobby. It's an absolutely outstanding thing to engage in. I feel you on this one. first time I fell in love with motorcycles I was maybe 10. My parents were in the "Oh HELL NO!!" camp. So, long story short, I learned a lot about mechanics and built a hunk of junk minibike from old parts and a borrowed cement mixer engine. Well, when the police busted me for ripping up and down my street, completely illegal, my patents told the cops to keep my home made bike. fast forward 40 years, 4 years ago, I too was 50 and decided I wanted to ride. For me this was particularly questionable as I have a vision imparement. My entire family feels I should not be on a bike. Only my brother in law rides and he started just a year or so before me. So, I made a deal with everyone. I took the MSF. If the instructors told me that I wouldn't be a good candidate, I would give up the dream. Problem is, the opposite hapened. I was killing it on the MSF course. Instructors couldn't believe I had a vision impairement and that I hadn't been riding for years. So it took a lot of days for the wife to be OK with it. Didn't tell my 80 year old father for months. When I did, he took it well, but still is of the belief that everyone on a motorcycle crashes and has a horrible accident. Actually, my entire family believes motorcycle = accident. When I got my second bike, Harley Street Glide, they thought I'd lost it as this is a big heavy cruiser. Well, I'm still having a blast, kind of.... right now the wether here in Jersey sucks, snow, ice cold, dismal skies, but when spring hits, I'm back on 2 wheels.
Best of luck and ride safe.
Bob
That’s awesome, Bob! I love the fact that you overcame something that may have prevented you from riding. I’ll bet it felt darn good to nail that MSF course! The weather this year has been crazy. Rough times in Texas, etc. Wild times we are living in. Enjoy those two wheels of yours when it warms up and you get back on the road.
Hi, I enjoyed your story as it's similar to mine. I started a motorcycle driving course on my 50th birthday, two months later I had my first bike. I never told my mom cause she would have worried so much. Way back in 1978, my mother and I arrived at the scene of an accident to find it was my brother on his bike. He survived with bad road rash. Mom was so upset, hence why I never told her. Three years ago, it was my turn. I spent some time in the hospital with a severe broken leg from a motorcycle accident. I never told her that either. My mom passed a year ago at the age of 95 and I still ride today. Cheers!
Ouch! I'm always amazed at the resiliency of motorcyclists. To wreck, sustain injuries, and get back out there. Cheers to you, Daniel. Stay safe and ride well.
Accidently came across your page Gia, I thing you are doing an awesome job riding, I have been riding for a number of years now myself and only 4 yrs ago my Mother found out at I have been riding for years from my X, She never know but is fine with it now, She was against her children riding bike because that is how my dad and her meet after my dad had his motorcycle accident, She was a Nurse at the time they meet. Cheers ! Ride safe and enjoy...
It is so interesting to see how everyone in USA make such a big deal about riding a motorcycle, while in Asia everyone ride motorcycle , even very old grandma and her little girl. Because it is normal commuting. In USA it is about to show off how brave and cool you are.
Because motorcycles in the USA is simply a toy. Unlike in Asia, motorcycle is a mean of transportation, a necessity.
I lost my mother about 4 years ago but she worried about everything so I completely understand. I subscribed to your channel because my wife is just now learning to ride at you guessed it 50 years old.
That’s great, Robert! All the best to your wife as she starts her own motorcycle journey.
It is hard to tell your mom something like this as moms worry. It is awesome that you decided to start riding. I got my license when I was 41 and have had it just over 6 years. There is nothing like riding a motorcycle. More power too you. Yes we want to see people in their 50's riding it is awesome.
There really is nothing else like it!
I can relate. Thanks for sharing
Do what makes you happy. You make us happy for you too. Around the world there are many like you who do what you did at the same age. Greetings from Philippines.
I just ran across your channel and watched all your videos I'm impressed you give insperatione to a lot of us how want to try new things but are nervous to try ..welcome to the world of motercycles I just picked up a bike this winter..after several years of not riding..
Hey, Mike! Thanks for coming by and sharing. Best of luck with that new ride of yours!
Congrats on pushing yourself and getting it out there. And bravo for sharing big personal moments as takes a lot to go public with anything. Your experiences make for great advice and reminders as well. Keep up the great vlogging, and keep the rubber down. ✌️
Love your channel. You come across as a very down to earth, honest, easy on the ears and easy on the eyes kinda girl. I'm 55 and been riding since I was 12. I've owned many motorcycles (sport bikes mostly) over the years. Love the sound of in line fours and love going fast. May I suggest you get an in line four or at perhaps try one just to get that buzz. Twins are ok but in line fours are on a whole new level. You don't have to zap and have your hair on fire but an occasional twist of the wrist will do the trick. But at the end of the day it's entirely up to you. Stay safe n happy riding. Just subscribed.
I bought a motorcycle for similar reasons as you when I was 47. Now i'm 55 and still have the same motorcycle. It's also a Suzuki gs500f I bought used for $3000 in 2014. So far I haven't regretted it.
Great choice, Joseph. Happy riding!
Hi. Sounds like we have a few traits in common.
1. I also started "late". I had just turned 48 and I had the same thought of, "If not now, when? How long do I wait? When I'm 80 or 90?" It still took a year after I took the MSF course (I took that first just to learn more about riding and see if I was going to be okay with the basics), before I found my motorcycle. So far it's the only one I've had.
2. I also did not tell my mother when I bought a motorcycle.
Resolution: I told her after I bought it, endured a 45 minute interrogation and she got over it and now does not seem to mind when I visit and am riding the bike. Getting forgiveness was a lot easier than getting permission.
Afterthoughts: However willful ignorance is not the same as acceptance. I bet she has no idea what brand it even is. She's never really asked or talked about it at all. I started riding in 2013. "I don't want to hear about it. I don't want to know about it." is not the same as accepting and respecting your choices as valid. Then again if we are going to be grownups, at 50-plus, we should be grown up enough to make up our own minds. You don't need anyone's validation.
3. I also have not shared my UA-cam channel with family.
Resolution: I figured in order to shield my mother or others who might make more work for me, I have not told them about my channel. In order to shield my family (cousins for example) who might think it's cool, from having to lie for me I would not tell them about my channel either.
Afterthoughts: However this means that I have almost no one to share my victories and defeats, my worst day ever; almost being killed (video 0036: Dodgeball with Death ua-cam.com/video/5G8gii1ssks/v-deo.html )
and my best day ever; I was not killed and I attribute it mostly to riding technique and practice (video 0035: Mind the Gap ua-cam.com/video/de8ANxeCOXc/v-deo.html ).
So no one to share a beer and a laugh with and no one to offer a shoulder to cry on.
That lead to me not telling a cousin who came from Colombia and was coming over to my mom's house for Thanksgiving (or something like that). She had a young son and I was thinking that my cousin would not approve and I might be a bad influence on the son (my 2nd cousin).
Well two or three years later they noticed my helmet and jacket in my original room (in my mom's house, again we are over for the holidays) and when they realized that the old BMW outside was my bike they had questions. My cousin says she had a motorcycle in Colombia. I had no idea. So the moral is when you limit yourself with your "concerns" (FEARS) you also limit everyone else since they are not given the chance to support you. You are also prejudging them. And most of the time what makes things like this a big deal is your fears projected as someone else's hang-ups or judgments. I have found that most others really, honestly could not care less and probably don't even notice what you're worried about until you point it out to them with self doubt and excuses. They have their own problems to worry about.
That's been my experience so far. I hope that helps someone.
Hmm, maybe I should make this a motovlog? : )
Stay Sharp & Stay Up
Cheers
Lots of similarities there for sure! The things we do - even as adults - as a form of "self protections". From criticism, or worry, etc... :)
I hear you...51 here and got my first bike this year...just got my licence and parents dont know...worriers both, and I dont need that concern in my head at the moment. There is enough in there from me 😊
Since my 20s I've been riding a motorbike and for 30 years my mom hasn't liked it and worries about me. She's now retired and in Australia ( I'm in New Zealand) and I kinda sorta told her I'm done with bikes and they are all sold now. I still have one and yes I ride it and I do feel guilty. Nice to know I'm not the only 50 something doing this. I wonder how many of us are doing the same?
I admire you! My wife just got her endorsement and same age as you. So proud of both of you.
That’s fantastic, Dave! Congrats to your wife. I’m sure she is going to have a blast on two wheels.
I have watched two of your videos so far, and you are doing well with them. How about showing us a picture of your bike and tell us what you are riding and if you bought it new or used and if it has any aftermarket accessories. Congrats on deciding to get a bike and ride. Be well and stay safe.
This is too funny... I did the exact same thing and did not tell my mother that I was getting my motorcycle license as well as purchasing one. I was 50yrs old too when I secretly told my husband and daughter that I was going to work on a Friday night, Saturday and Sunday.... when in reality I was taking the course to get my motorcycle license . I had gone to the Drive Test centre a couple of weeks earlier to write my test on the way to work.. LOL! Once I got it I was so excited but did not tell them at all. I didn't want anyone trying to convince me not to do it. I just woke up one day and dedcided that was the goal I set for myself. Not really sure why I chose that as I had never ridden a bike before. I had a close friend that helped me find a used motorcycle and he found me a 2015 CB 500FA. My family or my mother did not know and I did not tell. My friend took the bike and had it inspected for me and kept it in his garage for a bit. Once my husband and my daughter went on a weeks vacation I got the bike home and practiced for hours in the school parking lot etc... The only person I told was my older brother who I swore him to secrecy. On the first day that my husband and daughter got home from vacation they opened the garage up and my daughter looked at my husband and said, "there is a motorcycle in the garage". When he looked at me he asked "whose motorcycle". I said "mine". He said "yours, but you don't ride a motorcycle'. I said "yes I do". He said " but you don't have a license". I said "yes I do" and that was that. They have been very supportive ever since but are worry warts when I ride. My mother passed less than a year later and I never told her about the motorcycle as she would have worried if she knew. Or so I thought.. I later found out from my brother after her funeral that she did know and he told her. He mentioned that she was very proud of me and teased my brother about it because he tried to ride but couldn't get the hang of the balance aspect of it. Anyway, I am going into my 4 season of riding at 53yrs old and I love moto camping. Sorry for the rant but I wish you all the best with your Moto adventures. I have subscribed and I look forward to watching! Take care, from Ontario, Canada - Angela
Love, love this, Angela! Just wow. Until I posted this video, and people started commenting, I had no idea how common it was to hide things from our parents even when we are far from “children” And your story is amazing. There are so many strong, capable women out there choosing to do things for themselves that make them feel happy and fulfilled. You’re a great example of that. Massive thumbs up to you. I truly appreciate you sharing your story. It’s a good one and something to be proud of. All the best to you up there in the frozen north. ❤️
Hey. I know the feeling exactly. At 55 I decided to learn to ride two wheel, I was previously riding 3 wheels. Made the official decision around new years eve. I sold my 3 wheeler and, 2 weeks ago, I bought a 2021 Indian Challenger without telling anyone in my family. They all read about it after I posted pictures on FB. BTW, I am a widower of almost 2 years. Lots of friends and neighbors think I went crazy. My late wife would have never allowed me to buy a 2 wheel motorcycle. I have 3 kids and one is still I high school. So, yes it was a tough decision given that I am still responsible for a teenager. It is really something I always wanted to do. But then life gets in the way and you have to postpone until perhaps you find the right moment. I just wanted to learn on the motorcycle I plan to ride for really long time; and I plan to ride to Sturgis this year so I have a lot of riding to do before that. I did take some precautions and added forward and rear crash bars and Drop Guards. Like you said in one of your videos, if not now, when? I'm will be almost 60 when my son leaves for college. I had to do it now that God is still blessing me and keeping me able and strong and I can learn fast and I don't have much fear of leaning and not too afraid of dropping an 800 pound ($30000) motorcycle while learning. So far so good. I'm enjoying my big motorcycle that everyone I know told me not to buy because it was too big. I practice every day slow maneuvers at a close by Church parking. I get better every day, and am already comfortable enough to ride on the street. Anyway, congratulations on turning 50 and joining the club and on making this great decision and setting an example for so many people our age that are probably thinking like us and haven't been able to take the plunge yet. It is all ok, and an easy thing to do, right? After we all successfully pass all the tests and shit that life throws at us...We all deserve to be a little bit selfish and Enjoy Life a little!! Good Luck!
Congratulations, Jorge! Thanks for sharing your story and for stopping by. All the best to you!
Years ago I told my dad I wanted a motorcycle, he didnt like it at all, but my mom was ok with it. I have rode 5 different bikes, so far I haven't got into an accident yet and hopefully I can keep that up.
Totally understandable, I have the exact same mother. I’m 48 years old and I still don’t tell her about any of my motorcycle experiences with the exception of an accident that I had when I was 19 years old
Thanks Gina, Really like the Talks and The scenery. Donkeys too. Lol. Nice to see ya Happy. I myself tried to live my life like what others thought it should be. And cared what they said. 58 now and for the last 10+ years been living my life. Took me 3 marriages to figure that out. Keep up the good work. 👍🏼As always, ride safe be safe.
Great attitude! I totally support that mindset.
60 year old rider and loving it. I don't care what other people think. I do it because it makes me feel good.
I am just about to start my riding career at 43. I was hoping that I would be well on my way now but the recent issues in the world has meant a delay to my tests as they kept getting cancelled due to lockdowns here in the UK. Just wanted to say I stumbled across your channel and am now a subscriber, like you I am looking forward to your journey on two wheels. ;) Great videos by the way.
Thanks, Andrew! Have fun with it when you finally get out there.
Been riding since I was in college. Saw your vid and thought that's interesting an older person riding.
Then realized I'm also close to 50 now n still riding.
Gina you are doing great! Just be you and do you. Don’t worry about the keyboard warriors/haters. I like that you are real and not trying show off by wearing less etc.
Absolutely fantastic video. I like you didn’t start riding until I was 50. Actually 51 to be exact. Keep up the great videos. Also, fantastic job on all of your thumbnails. They really stand out.
Thank you, Craig! I watched quite a few “training videos” with tips about UA-cam, including thumbnails and video titles and such. Lots a time spent researching and trying to do it mostly right from the beginning.
"No one wants to watch a 50-year-old on a motorcycle" Currently 439 subscribers disagree. That is a huge amount for such a short time. You are almost half way to where my first channel is after something like 10 years.
As for moms? Mine is no longer around, but my grandmother is, and I take care of her in my home. I am a 43-year-old man and I am not going to openly drink a beer in my own home because of the disapproval my 93-year-old grandmother has for drinking. Call it respect, call it fear, but it is what it is.
You’re a good guy to be caring for your grandmother. I hope you find your own escape when that gets difficult. And the increase in subscribers in the last two weeks has been completely unexpected and humbling. Thanks for checking out so many of my videos. I appreciate it.
3 weeks later and she’s up to 4.79k subs.
Guess I got lucky, my Mom was actually glad that I started riding again - riding is a huge stress relief.
@@ClinttheGreat I was thinking exactly the same thing, way to go Ginger Dash.
She is up to over 5,000 subs now. 3/16/21
I have both a 2 wheel and a trike. I ride 2 wheels for me and I take my 86y/o mother on the trike. We went on a week long round trip ride from Waco TX to Las Vegas and back. We're planning a trip to Traverse City, MI. She has so much fun.
That's awesome!
Gina you are absolutely right in your comment on buying and using the right bike that suits you and your own personal needs. The important thing is getting out there and riding. If in future you wish to upgrade, downgrade or move sideways in terms of which bike you own and ride is purely your choice and you shouldn’t let anyone influence your choice. Suggestions can be healthy and helpful but ride whatever you are comfortable with. I personally know people with awesome bikes but hardly use them, What’s the point in that. Keep riding, keep having fun and do as you please. That’s what freedom is all about X
I couldn’t agree more, Keith. It’s tempting to just float from bike to bike, but as much as I’d like to “move up” at some point, I’m not there yet. And when I do it will be a well thought out decision and not one I make due to external pressure. Advice and suggestions are always welcome and will be parsed and assimilated for use when the time comes. 😊
Are you sure we don't have the same mom? LOL I just came here to say, after finding (and subscribing!) to your channel a few days ago - I've never related to something quite like I do to your content! I am turning 48 in October. I just bought a Virago 250 as my "learning" bike with absolutely zero riding experience. I'm equal parts excited and petrified. Your videos calm my nerves, make me laugh and inspire me. Thank you thank you thank you!
That's awesome, Emily!! Welcome to the best adventure of your life. It's been that for me anyway. How have things been going since you posted this comment?
@@GingerDashMoto I am absolutely loving it! My husband had some riding experience (30+ years ago), and I know a small part of him was apprehensive when I announced my intention to learn and buy a bike. 2 days later he took it for a ride, loved it so much he picked up one for himself! We've gone on some really nice rides together and I have made so much progress in a short time.. I take my MSF course in a couple weeks and hopefully will be 100% endorsed by end of the month. 😊 Happy riding to you and I look forward to keeping up with you here! You are so sweet! Keep up the awesome work and thank you!
@@emilysimmons7318 Yay!! Best of luck with the MSF, but I'm sure you're ready for it. So happy you're loving the experience AND that your husband joined you. As nerve wracking as it can be to be a new rider, you'll never again feel that exact same sort of excitement once you've become experienced. All the best to both of you.