SINGLE, SAD AND STRESSED ||The Joyride Stories
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- Опубліковано 31 жов 2023
- Hey Guys,
Welcome to our new segment, the joyride stories where we share your relationship stories, confession, or relationship issue/question you want the Joyride community to help you figure out.
We hope you enjoy this.
To submit a joyride story click on this link: forms.gle/pR3HhrCh9VBWDMsY7
Ben's book should be called ," Ben the Cyco- logist"😂😂
This is good ❤
😂😂Nice one
Good one😅
😂😂haikosi you listen to Mkuru
@@muthoniisdiary oh yess! Mkuru and the joyride is where the jyuuus is at😂👌
I love how Wanjiru loves Ben's jokes ❤
For the first one,I say pick your hard....If he is supporting financially, leverage on that for the moment...In the meantime,you work on yourself,get over him,boost your income and leave his ass....He clearly doesn't deserve you and wants other women...Let him offer the financial support as you work on making yourself better..... VOUCHING FOR YOU ❤
Dating a man I'm not physically attracted to is a level of maturity I never aspire to posses. Short guys have never been my cup of tea regardless of how angelic you are. I just can't.
For the first lady, don't try and save that relationship because its already dead and if you try to resurrect it, the foundation is already faulty. The fact that you have a New Born and he gives you that kind of treatment, tells you the kind of man he is, doesn't matter whether he is providing financially. Hope you find courage to see the door and all will fall in place. Sending you love and light.
😂😂😂Huyo wa obsessed na crush, loving ex-boyfriend, has too many open tabs jameni..............achunge kisimrambe😂😂
always here for Wanjirus Eloquencypeople go through alot and Ben is here to ease the pain through comedy😂amazing segment
I love the episodes with just Ben and Wanjiru. Takes me back to season 1!
Its the moral of the story "intentionally open your eyes because love closes them" LOL😂😂
😂😂yes
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Aki😂😂😂😂
It's Wanjiru's laughter for me 😂.... Joyride To The World ❤
Me btw napenda comments za Ben kusema ukweli. I appreciate his perspective and the curiosity he has towards what is true + good.
Alafu Shiru has a ka grace.
Hapo kwa pms, I think there's room for improvement tukisema tu ukweli.
I love these podcasts. I only got to know about you at the beginning of season 4. It's a regret sikujua earlier. But thank God I'm here. Officially a Joyrider!
Ben is such a vibe 😂😂😂 I like Joyride more when it's just Wanjiru and Ben 😍
Thank you 😊
Me too💯
I thought it was just me😍
@@brendachepkoech5465 Samesies
Me too
For the girl who only attracts guys that want sex. First, wherever you go you'll meet guys who just want sex. Its the problem with the current oversexualized culture. The best thing you can do is put personal boundaries. This will help her avoid getting into situations where a guy acts right until he sleeps with her. Boundaries help avoid unnecessary hurt, drama and complicated situations. They'll also repel the wrong kind of guys.
Eventually she'll find someone genuinely interested in her.
For the first lady
I think you should end things with the guy and don't live with him. I know theres hopes for going to see his family but that's not going to be enough.
First, he's shown you that he doesn’t want to commit. He feels trapped and pressured because you have his child. He already didn't want to see your parents and he's talking with other women behind your back. Your relationships is in the ER and even if you get married know the marriage won't magically change how things are... pia hio itakuwa ER tu and you'll be 'saving' as long as it remains. Also kids don't make a marriage and marrying because of a child is recipe for disaster. Even the child might just get trauma from how the marriage is.
Find out if he can continue supporting the child even after you break up. I know financial support is a reason to stay with him but there's a chance of getting another kid if you stay. So imagine staying for financial support then go through the same process now with two children and an emotionally absent partner. Its going to be worse.
I acknowledge its not easy to do but I think in the long run it's the best decision. You might break up and he figures his life and you get together properly. Otherwise for now...
Is it just me or is Wanjiru just gloooowing!!..that hair is giving!!
This has been great honestly ❤
I love stories so mtanipata hapa every Wednesday 💯
You guys are blessed to have each other.
Shiro you are blessed
Hiyo title bana😌. Joyride doing bigger things this season, I'm here for it👏🏾👏🏾💐❤.
Liked even before 😂 I saw the whole video.Enjoy your videos always.
❤❤sending hugs to the 1st confession...the last one 😅😅😅ako tu sawa...I loved this ...Joyride stories...
Wanjiru has been looking ben with admiration sana❤❤I'm loving this love for me
About finding men who are only interested in sex; sometimes the vibe we give off as ladies attracts a certain kind of men. A life audit helps; how do I carry myself, what type of conversations do I entertain, what platforms and avenues do I engage with especially with men etc.
This sheds light on why these men seem to only be interested in sex coz I'm sure they consider settling down with other ladies and are not hard wired to only look for sexual intimacy.
Wanjiru and ben you should be doing this more often cause its soo much fun and engaging.
We cant wait for more
This segment is really fun,,I hope it keeps going. I love it😍😍
Watching this after being successfully single for 11 months😂😂❤
For the girl who is single and stressed 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yet ako na 5 guys wako kwa corner....hands down for you girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some sentiments for the girl in that last situation... it might help to just stay single for a while first, and take time to "find her center". It feels like she's lost her sense of self, and constantly wants to belong/be with someone. Some time alone (single) could help, so she's not constantly reaching out for someone to be with. It will also help with her levels of self confidence, enough for her to stand on her own, thinking "I am enough. Doesn't matter whether abc likes me or not, and I don't have to medicate by making out or wanting to get back with my ex"
Counseling can help with that too... not a must, but recommended.
My humble two cents. 🙏🙏
We need more of this👌
Never gets old🥳🥳🥳🥳❤❤
I'm i'm not sad nor stressed...happy single me😊❤❤
Happy for you ☺️
Its the "Dishi na Joyride" for me😂
The last story😂😂😂😂….Ey!!! Loved loved loved this episode😂😂🥰♥️
Ben , you have made me laugh a lot😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂Ben with chatgpt😂...also wanjiru is looking lovely and she's in such a good mood today ❤
For me height is very important, you have to be taller
Loved this so much 🎉🎉
😂😂😂am stuck at Single and stressed 😂😂😂💔
I just love you guys🎉🎉🎉
😂😂😂😂😂weeh,,,a segment we didn't know we needed
You guys are a vibe ❤❤🎉🎉❤
This is the segment I never knew I needed 😂😂 I've been laughing out loud nikitembea kutoka job watching this 🤣🤣🤣 Asanteni Joyride 🎉
Wanjiru gasing up ben go deeper go deeper..... I was on the floor 😂😂😂
This segment is what I needed on a Monday😂.
Calming and a mood lighter.
For the moral of the story girl😂😂ebu let her copyright the Quote💯
Billion dollar quote right there😂😂
Dishi na Joyride😂😂😂😂
I can't believe you will be in mku tomorrow 😂 I can't wait to see you guys ❤ hope mabouncer watanilet niingie😂
Bring these back prisss!
This segment has me on chokehold 😂😂😂😂 the last lady with four bf's kitakuramba i promise you 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂love this!!!
Aii this last story with the layers..😂😂aii
This segment😂😂😂..... Napenda
This is fun 😂
Number 3🎉🎉🎉
Ati single,sad and stressed😂😂weeh
dishi na joy ride lol .......lazima iwork hahah
😂😂😂😂 I love this duo
It's the consistency for me...
Nice save Ben after the dramatic comment😅
I laughed so many times 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't know for how long she's cried but she's crying😭😭, Beeen😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Last story has me on the ground😂😂😂
Learn, grow and Change 27:17
Ben's book should be called "Wisdom from Ben" 😂
Walai😊
Let me put my thoughts on the case that wanjiru mentioned about the girl that has sexual relationship with men only ..
The truth is how people approach things matter
Like how you see yourself,how you hold space for yourself,how you treat yourself &how you perceive yourself..then all those things can reciprocate , remember everything that you do has an alignment, in that stance how you view yourself is an alignment to how people will view you too
The problem is with the girl not the men .
You attract what you're in alignment with .
Also same repeation of patterns maybe the cause she's attracting men with sexual desires
Wanjiru gassing ben up aki advice😂😂😂
Single and stressed is giving the Samaritan Woman at the well😂😂😂😂
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"I am single and stressed"😂😂😂well ...moral of the story "open your eyes coz love will close them"
Waaah uyu ati "flirting" then suddenly uko in three relationships😂😂alaaar
Well angry short man is a thing😊 more grace to dealing with those creatures because wuueh!....
I have enjoyed this podcast
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Ben saying that 'It wouldn't be held against me?'
That last one😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂eeeeeeh!!!!!!!!
As a lady you are bound to attract men from all walks of life. I think that's something that is beyond our control. It ain't your fault you keep attracting guys who want the chambers but the good thing is that you have the power to determine who gets to access it. As long as you know his intention put a full stop and move on. What you want is out here and at times you have to meet many men before you find the one 🙌.
It doesn't matter where you are hanging out because even those guys who quote Scriptures back to back, they'll be there asking for favors in whispers regardless of whether your skirt is sweeping the floor. They are thirsty but baby girl don't even try to quench that thirst just move on.
Fun fact: Tall, dark, and handsome has nothing to do with black men. It means a tall, dark-haired, and handsome white man.
20:12 😂😂😂😂too deep
Aki the last lady reminds me of Jesus at the well... even her boyfriend is not her boyfriend
For the girl attracting only sexually motivated guys, my questions are how do you present yourself? what conversations do you have with these guys? And lastly, what are you believing about you that makes you only attract these types of men?
number 1 yeeeeeeeey🤩🤩🤪
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'Alone with who....????!!!!'
I feel the next time you do the joyride stories, do it with a third person.🤗
I’m on that story of the woman with 4 guys, she definitely deserves the white chocolate 😂😂 “dating and lost the number”😂😂
About the girl who only attracts guys who just want sth sexual , I think she should check and evaluate herself based on how she dresses , how she carries herself and the energy she gives off. Sometimes how we dress , carry ourselves and the energy we give just screams that we just want sth sexual but we don't realize that.
Love your insights 😊
That 1st story...could be the guy felt trapped by the pregnancy and took up the responsibility just so he is not guilty of abandoning a child. Love yourself enough to walk way from someone who does not treat you right, doesn't respect you and more so is a non-communicator. He can support you while you live separate lives.
The last one though😂😂
Ni sangapi hii mnafanya nacheka na watu wamelala 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The last person is the OG hahaaa
Enyewe this is what we didn’t know we needed. Can we have such episodes weekly please or twice a week
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I enjoy the podcast but don’t understand Kiswahili. Please always put subtitles when you switch to Kiswahili so those who don’t understand the language can keep following
Benuggets 😂😂
For the 1st situation. Pole sana girl. 1st of all its foolish for a person who was having unprotected sex to say they were trapped with a pregnancy. Shame on him.
Leaving this man is the best thing she can do for herself and her child. However, she cant just leave without a plan. She dsnt have the the luxury to get lost in the emotions of her past mistakes. She has to sit down an analys her life. 1. She has a baby. 2. She is in school. 3. She has a job though low paying 4. She has help from a family member. 5. She has not disclosed to her supporter that she has a baby.
Whatever she choses to do will be hard. So she must choose her hard. The hard thats he is willing to leave with and will not be ashamed to tell her child about one day.
All the best to her.
Ps: nobody ever died from being a single mother..no child ever died from not having a present father.
Been single since Jan and oh my 😂😂
The soda story killed me aki ben …
Ben :”Ati pms makes people unreasonable ???? Or what are you trying to say “
Wanjiru : 👀👀👀
😂😂😂😂 aki you guys Weeh you made my night
More of them stories😂😂😂😂Makes work from home less boring
Hey guys is this only a relationship podcast? (Ifso okay, if not please diversify your topics there is more to life than relationship talk)
You are a newcomer huh😂😂
Smh
😂😂😂😂😂 welcome home
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