Three (3) signs he is a COUNTERFEIT and NOT God Sent | How to identify he is not GOD SENT

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  • @withlovestace
    @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +12

    God bless you all! I pray this video has been a source of encouragement and wisdom to you all. Just wanted to show my appreciation for all the love & support I've received so far. This is only the works of God! All glory to Him!!! I will continue to be encouraged by the spirit of God & be his vessel. Thank you all!! 💐💖

  • @thediamondaffect878
    @thediamondaffect878 3 місяці тому +140

    Use God’s discernment and TAKE YOUR TIME NEVER LET A MAN RUSH YOU OR CROSS YOUR BOUNDARIES OR MORALS.

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 місяці тому +1

      GOD DOES NOT RUSH, HE HAS NO NEED! AMEN!!

    • @harrietboateng5239
      @harrietboateng5239 3 місяці тому

      Yep the counterfit (once divorced ) told me he believes in s3x and cohabitation before marriage. this dude is dwarf height. The audacity!

  • @MzLena2You
    @MzLena2You 3 місяці тому +25

    Fortunately, in my most recent “dating” experiences, the counterfeits have not disguised themselves at all. They have been quite bold with their toxicity. I had a guy tell me, he wants to “trigger”. Definitely sent by the enemy and rapidly rebuked 🚫. If they don’t contribute to your peace, they are not for you.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      That’s right! Rebuke them! 👏

  • @jermekaneely3410
    @jermekaneely3410 3 місяці тому +96

    3 simple and straight to the point signs but very real signs. God has already chosen your spouse for you. We must surrender every area of our lives to God. When you build a relationship with God and surrender all to Him, you won't end up making the mistake of marrying who He hasn't ordained for you. Don't rush ladies and gents, you may live to regret it one day.
    Blessings Stace 🙏🏾

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +7

      That’s it!! 🙌👏 God bless you! ❤️

  • @Gracefullysaved1207
    @Gracefullysaved1207 3 місяці тому +67

    I said I would never date anything Asian. Not even mixed. Low and behold, God created my kingdom spouse to be exactly that.. with the same characteristics I never wanted😂 yet here I am married to him and still very attracted

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +5

      Glory to God! God bless your union ❤️

    • @MusiquedeNuma
      @MusiquedeNuma 3 місяці тому +2

      Maybe that’s why my KS is a little paunchy because I am obsessed with muscles. God has humor.😬

    • @Gracefullysaved1207
      @Gracefullysaved1207 3 місяці тому +3

      @@MusiquedeNuma probably! Lolll I loved a paunch… mine came athletic muscular… I liked a little aggression and roughnessin my men.. my husband is so gentle and not aggressive at all. I liked my men to be the star of the room.. my husband is cool calm collected.. looking back I told God the exact the same thing: He sure does have a sense of humor.. but he knows whats best for us. 😊

    • @shannonbrown-foodculture457
      @shannonbrown-foodculture457 3 місяці тому

      That’s beautiful! 🙌🏾 ~ Dig In and Pitch In (Shannon)

  • @Iamyl4
    @Iamyl4 3 місяці тому +54

    Backstory. I listen to secular music sometimes and really like the Afrobeat and Amapiano genres. I’m American for context. Any way I always loved Nigerian accents from listening to the music. Literally a week before I met this counterfeit I said to my best friend that I wish I could meet a man with a Nigerian accent. A week later I go to a new church and a met a man there from Nigeria, and crazy thing was that day was both of our birthdays. I thought it so peculiar that it happened like that. Well 6 months go by and we get each others numbers and immediately he is love bombing me and telling me everything I wanted to hear. Said he would take me to Nigeria and all this stuff. Well turns out he was sent from the enemy and is a worldly Christian. On top of that physically he was everything I like and had a great beard. Man oh man the devil is a liar!! Jesus help us ❤

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +9

      The devil is liar!!! I pray you keep seeking God for his will, discernment and wisdom. God bless!

    • @DerriciaDaley
      @DerriciaDaley 3 місяці тому +2

      @ the beard😭😭😭 i understand girl, it's rough

  • @Allieredeemed
    @Allieredeemed 3 місяці тому +58

    Girl you’re so right. Mine came packaged as my “type” I don’t quite have a type but someone told me what my husband is gonna look like so the counterfeit came looking like what I was expecting. Girl the situationship was mentally draining. I had no peace. I’m actually planning to share my story soon

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +6

      Please share it! & I am so happy you are out of that situation. Praise God!

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes, please share your story so others may be aware

    • @irenehamilton2981
      @irenehamilton2981 3 місяці тому

      Just getting out of a situationship wasted 2/1/2 years of my life

  • @CBLady
    @CBLady 3 місяці тому +66

    I feel mines the opposite 😮my counterfeits are not my type but they promise me everything and the world and want to get married tomorrow. 😅

    • @divineanne5661
      @divineanne5661 3 місяці тому +2

      Woow. True.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 3 місяці тому +3

      Wow me too !

    • @CBLady
      @CBLady 3 місяці тому +6

      And I know that I’m not being vain, God knows that physical attraction is on my heart. If I’m not attractive to me but are perfect every way they r not the one

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +18

      Wanting to give you the world and making all those promises can be classified as “love bombing” Ask God for discernment.

    • @venusamor1515
      @venusamor1515 3 місяці тому +2

      @CBlady same exact boat I've been in twice.

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 3 місяці тому +3

    Yeah the confusion/lack of peace is really the only sign I noticed in my life

  • @SimpleWithMarygold
    @SimpleWithMarygold 3 місяці тому +13

    I always tell people that the enemy knows what we want ,he always sends his deceiver to manipulate you

    • @heirsofthekingdom9810
      @heirsofthekingdom9810 3 місяці тому +4

      Exactly! They will try to reason that The Most High, sent this situation. No, The Creator would NEVER send someone that doesn't have a solidified relationship with Him, first! It's not your job as a potential spouse to "guide" this person to The Most High. Each person must walk with Him before asking for a spouse. If he/she is "checking off your boxes" but doesn't have a solid relationship with The Most High, they are sent from the devil.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      That’s so true. Have to use discernment

    • @naomidambe
      @naomidambe 2 місяці тому

      Amen

  • @neidiawilliams8344
    @neidiawilliams8344 3 місяці тому +12

    So true,God gave me a vision about my soulmate.I was so excited and share it with friends. Then there comes the counterfeit. I almost fall for it but God kept me right through. But I end up leaving very quick and ask God for forgiveness. Know I'm on the right path again waiting patiently. Thank you.🙏😊

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +3

      God is good! Continue to be patient and wait for God’s best sis. It’s worth it. Blessings to you! ❤️

  • @QueeningChristian
    @QueeningChristian 3 місяці тому +20

    I am in a similar position. The perfect person is here, but we are both praying and willing to know each other. No gifts involved, we are not even dating. Just getting to know each other. However, sign 2.. We both are clear that "we have no intention to date" but every intention to marry. We get along but I am still... Waiting on the Lord. Third sign.. Met him immediately after I turned to the Father and we lead each other to Christ more. Thank you for the video.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +3

      Wonderful! Keep seeking God’s direction. I pray God blessings on you ❤️

    • @QueeningChristian
      @QueeningChristian 3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much sis❤️🙏🏼

    • @QueeningChristian
      @QueeningChristian Місяць тому

      Update.. We're officially friends. We've met twice and plan to meet more. We both are willing to be friends as long as we're together, even if it means no romantic relationship. However his actions prove otherwise (More than a friend) and mines too. 🥺 But we both are happy.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  Місяць тому

      @@QueeningChristian So happy to hear that you’re happy love! 🙌🏾Continue to pray on it and allow God to do what he does. God bless you sis! ❤️❤️

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ 3 місяці тому +12

    It was the second one and third one that hit me! I don't date anymore because I realized these men were nothing but counterfeits. I don't have a type really so the last two is what I look out for. I'm celibate, a guy recently tried to get me to change my mind, mind you he didn't plan on wanting to marry me so I was confused to why he wanted me to break it. Amazing signs

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      Continue to be discerning and keep seeking God’s wisdom. God bless you!

  • @im-glad.
    @im-glad. 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank you love! Now my eyes are open and my mind is clear. My soul would bother me so much in my last relationship and now I see why.

  • @Guvness
    @Guvness 3 місяці тому +8

    Girl, you are so right! May God continue to bless your union.

  • @realmccoy108
    @realmccoy108 3 місяці тому +2

    Just literally gone through this. He's my type, but after conversation about faith I'm like nope this ain't it.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      That’s good sis! Happy you got out of that situation, God bless you ❤️

  • @Itztoxins3
    @Itztoxins3 3 місяці тому +3

    This is so true ! This person came out of no where came as someone who I would have dated when I was younger, up and down all the time I had two recently. I just started to realized they were counterfeits this video showed up right on time thank you lord

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      Keep seeking God’s wisdom and ask for discernment. God bless!

  • @Sunshine-eq2zs
    @Sunshine-eq2zs 3 місяці тому +2

    Such a great video! Very direct as well. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Ashtarot77
    @Ashtarot77 3 місяці тому +4

    I don't have a type. I used to, but my last two, and my only partners, were both very different from one another. Now I like someone who isn't like either of them.

  • @riochime386
    @riochime386 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you So much for posting this! I am going through a situation where I believe I met a counterfeit. Thanks again 😁!

  • @shaunajaeee
    @shaunajaeee 3 місяці тому +3

    Needed to hear this, all the points were valid.

  • @Itsgorgejess
    @Itsgorgejess 3 місяці тому +5

    “Pick up ya two foot them” lol

  • @nursenatalie2.081
    @nursenatalie2.081 3 місяці тому +2

    Got yourself a new subbie!!! If this video didn’t come right on time. One day God will give me the time to expose my testimony of the counterfeit relationships I had!!!!!❤ This also goes for friendships and family

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      God bless you sis! I’d love to hear your testimony 🙌❤️

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 3 місяці тому +1

    I was calling out the traits and qualities of a man, God will send to love me and my his birth children 💗 with me who is my kingdom husband 💞🗾. I was not expecting this man at all but he's been the most peaceful person I've exchanged with energetically and I'm grateful

    • @amyj.4992
      @amyj.4992 3 місяці тому

      Even though, we've had our tiffs he was willing to discuss things thoroughly with me and I appreciate that patience 💟🥰

    • @amyj.4992
      @amyj.4992 3 місяці тому

      Oof I am very embarrassed by the exes I have entertained, and allowed negative influences on my walk with God the most high big time. Lesson learned

    • @amyj.4992
      @amyj.4992 3 місяці тому

      If I need to party, I go to the dance 🩰🪩 studio as my personal after school program to keep me out of trouble

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      I love that for you girl! 👏

  • @shanquitamariah
    @shanquitamariah 3 місяці тому +8

    What if was shown this person was the one but they are getting themselves together mentally and spiritually in order to be the man you want them to be for you? Person is overall amazing Pearson, vibe was everything, but he had something to come about that’s complexity.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +12

      Hey sis! I don’t know your situation and I wouldn’t want to assume but I’d just like to say if he’s “the one” and he’s having a hard time right now mentally/spiritually I suggest you keep on praying for him and remember that YOU CANNOT fix or change a man/anybody for that matter. You can continue to be his friend, encourage him and pray for him, & continue to seek God’s guidance and clarity on this. Remember that God knows exactly what you need and he would never send you a “fixer-upper”

  • @imogenii6920
    @imogenii6920 3 місяці тому +2

    wow, i needed to hear this 😢

  • @thelovely961
    @thelovely961 3 місяці тому +4

    Really great video, very true and you have a beautiful accent

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      Thank you! Blessings to you ❤️

  • @Consecrated93
    @Consecrated93 3 місяці тому +3

    My type is not physical appearance 😅 it’s always these “godly” men that the enemy uses to get me. And even though they are godly they have red flags that I can’t overlook. Unfortunately he didn’t lead me back to a life of sin but we just didn’t come from the same denomination and therefore don’t share the same views or understanding spiritually.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +1

      I get that completely. Continue to trust God for your person ❤️

    • @Consecrated93
      @Consecrated93 3 місяці тому

      @@withlovestace amen thank you sis 🙌🏾 I believe God has already shown me while I was praying about this guy I had a dream of someone else from my church but I am praying for more confirmations.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +1

      @@Consecrated93 yes keep on praying and seek his clarification. He will guide you in the right direction at the right time. And also that person if it’s His will for you both.

  • @SerenityLevy-gb5cv
    @SerenityLevy-gb5cv 3 місяці тому

    Hi just saw this video right and i just want to ask a question. So about the part when you talked about (lack of peace/confusion) , when you said ......"if this person like you one minute and then just like ghost you the other then it counterfeit. The problem i have though is that its not the person thats doing that its me. And i honestly feel bad about that and i just want to know what do i do then?..... Also we aren't dating but we like eachother ........tbh i really confused.....can you pls just help me out with that.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      Hey! If you’re not interested in this person then don’t give this person the impression that you are. Since you are not dating, let it stay that way. Pray about what you’re feeling. A feeling of confusion is not from God, ask God for clarity. Until then don’t treat this person poorly while you try to figure out your feelings.

    • @SerenityLevy-gb5cv
      @SerenityLevy-gb5cv 3 місяці тому

      @@withlovestace Ok thanks very much! ...........God bless😘

  • @vodkavuitton
    @vodkavuitton 3 місяці тому +3

    I literally just tolerated a real jerk who came around insulting me in every underhanded way rubbing his hands under my chin fat like who does that & be fr. If I missed a nail session & had some growth from an overdue fill in then he would rub across the top of my nails while cuddling. He has to be an undercover gay man fighting his sexual demons on some lame shit like that. I had 1 man before him who made a habit to point out my flaws & I discarded him nastily for being an old weirdo. Said I would never date an older man again & this one was 10 years younger but I guess I'll have to go even younger now to men who are comfortable with themselves & don't feel the need to pick on their "woman" to cover up their own insecurities ✌🏽
    I was being way too kind

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +1

      I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I pray you’re seeking God for wisdom as it relates to relationships. Learn from the mistakes but never make it be a cycle. God bless you ❤️

  • @bananarae9207
    @bananarae9207 3 місяці тому

    I met mine and he did all of those things. He was confused himself for a while, but now he's fooled himself into thinking his low self esteem is high again, he doesnt need me anymore.
    I saw it coming from a mile off, but it still hurts. And the pain isn't going. Why pray if it doesnt go??

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      Is there anything that you’re still holding on to? Prayer is healing, it’s handing over these same pains to God, letting them go in his hands. Remember he loves and cares about you, allow God to heal you. But first you’ll have to let go.

  • @fullarmourC
    @fullarmourC 3 місяці тому +5

    My litmus test is intimacy ans sex before marriage. I will not COMPROMISE for nothing. Once they come with these even when I've said it a thousand times; bye boy cuz im not budging. Keep your demons to yourself.

  • @andrealora9012
    @andrealora9012 3 місяці тому +1

    This was very helpful. Thank you

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      You’re most welcome. God Bless you!

  • @CBLady
    @CBLady 3 місяці тому +5

    Question 🙋‍♀️ why would God bring a man to my mind and heart who I never even considered at the time we met as attractive. And make me grow in interest and attraction when out of his presence, only for me to see him again, but this time with a serious girl friend?? So now I’m praying for a man who’s in a serious relationship. 😅oh God.

    • @BrittbyBit
      @BrittbyBit 3 місяці тому +17

      Hey! It's important that we don't blame God for things we have done. I don't know you, so I don't really want to assume. We are the ones who tend to idolize people or things. The Bible tells us to guard our heart so it's possible that you didn't somewhere down the line. The Bible also says that the human heart is deceitful and desperately wicked. Keep praying for God to teach you how to guard you heart and protect you from something that is not meant for you. God is not giving you something that will make you fall into idolatry. Again I don't know your whole situation but please humble yourself constantly before God. Keep bringing this up before God and ask for his guidance. I spent 4 years holding onto an old relationship because I thought God wanted us together.❤

    • @CBLady
      @CBLady 3 місяці тому +1

      @@BrittbyBit thank u for this

  • @crownedwithfaith
    @crownedwithfaith 3 місяці тому

    Such a great video! Thank you❤🙏

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      You’re most welcome! God bless ❤️

  • @andreamegec9836
    @andreamegec9836 3 місяці тому +5

    Blessings, very intersting. But what a situation where guy is godly man, but poor, not your type, not a lot in common , age gap , not handsome, not tall, but so much equall spirit,heart attraction , and person came sudenly 😮did anyone had experience

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +12

      God gives us free will and we do have a choice to choose. I’m not saying you should be with someone you don’t find attractive but to pray for clarity and wisdom in your decision making. God bless!

    • @sisternatalieandrade7293
      @sisternatalieandrade7293 3 місяці тому +6

      Wait upon the Lord… the enemy may come with deceptions/counterfeits but those who wait upon the Lord WILL KNOW!!! The enemy wants us to make sudden decisions. When it’s the one the Lord has chosen for us, even if they are not what we thought our desire for them is given by God and it is not of this world.
      AGAIN I SAY, WAIT UPON THE LORD. ❤
      ALL WILL BE REVEALED IN HIS PERFECT TIME!!
      THE LORD LOVES THE JOURNEY.

    • @sisternatalieandrade7293
      @sisternatalieandrade7293 3 місяці тому +2

      Wait upon the Lord… the enemy may come with deceptions/counterfeits but those who wait upon the Lord WILL KNOW!!! The enemy wants us to make sudden decisions. When it’s the one the Lord has chosen for us, even if they are not what we thought our desire for them is given by God and it is not of this world.
      AGAIN I SAY, WAIT UPON THE LORD. ❤
      ALL WILL BE REVEALED IN HIS PERFECT TIME!!
      THE LORD LOVES THE JOURNEY.

    • @andreamegec9836
      @andreamegec9836 3 місяці тому

      @@sisternatalieandrade7293 Bless you, yess Isaiah 60'22 when the time is right I Lord will make it happen' 🙏🏻 Jes Im waiting, and Its really not easy time nor situation since I have desire in my heart for Efesians 5 man, and never felt that before. 🌈

  • @Lafemme.du.bonheur
    @Lafemme.du.bonheur 3 місяці тому

    this makes so much sense

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for watching! God bless you❣️

  • @sha9music839
    @sha9music839 3 місяці тому

    I got what i prayed for and i almost went to hell

  • @entropyshade2120
    @entropyshade2120 3 місяці тому

    Babes when that u saying happens than I'm happy. Crazy that u guys had that and be teaching me not to even have that

  • @apollosmartyn
    @apollosmartyn 3 місяці тому +1

    Great work hope to collaborate with you on UA-cam ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @AlexParkYT
    @AlexParkYT 3 місяці тому

    I've never been in a relationship but this was helpful though lol

  • @funifetumani1741
    @funifetumani1741 3 місяці тому

    Funny how i keep going for guys that are not my type and still get burned.

  • @Tamara-xf6hx
    @Tamara-xf6hx 3 місяці тому +1

    I guess the world is ending thats all i ever attracted was counterfeit

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  2 місяці тому

      Just seeing this, I don’t know you nor the situations but it’s a possibility you’re in a cycle. Look out for the patterns of the ppl you tend to fall far. Hope this helps ❤️

  • @veronicasarabia3821
    @veronicasarabia3821 3 місяці тому

    He did not look like my usual type that is why I was so confused. Usually I liked blonde now this one was exactly like my color skin white and black hair . Now I don’t know what is my type anymore . I still think my type is blonde lol 😂

  • @catherinenzungnjume7822
    @catherinenzungnjume7822 3 місяці тому

    Thank you sis. This is for me😢

  • @vnosike
    @vnosike 3 місяці тому

    Wowww this is sooo wise 1:52

  • @ms.j661
    @ms.j661 3 місяці тому

    Hello I see You have an accent are from Jamaica 🇯🇲 by any chance?

  • @cutestuff59FR
    @cutestuff59FR 3 місяці тому +1

    I've experienced all 3 with my ex ...

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      I pray you’ll seek God’s guidance, discernment & wisdom for your future partner. May God bless you ❤️

  • @elizabethtaisacan
    @elizabethtaisacan 3 місяці тому

    My Angels? Are you going to give me a godly man and one that is not a counterfeit? Pretty please!

    • @HMcMillon
      @HMcMillon 3 місяці тому +6

      @user-qt4wtom6d I wouldn’t recommend asking for a godly man. Lots of godly homosexual, abusive, unfaithful, drug addicted, narcissistic men in the church. Instead why not leave it to God. According to Ephesians 1:11God already had a predestined plan for our lives before we were born. According to his plan he worked out everything according to his will. So I would imagine that would cover who we are destined to marry. Where we go wrong is we feel we know what’s best for our lives so we go off and find our own mates and mess up our destiny. 🙏🏾

    • @jeanholtz579
      @jeanholtz579 2 місяці тому +1

      I am leaving it ALL up to G-d. Already experienced narcissistic behavior from someone who is really EVIL and a warlock!!! Thank You for this warning!!!!♥️♥️♥️

  • @jairusbryant3229
    @jairusbryant3229 3 місяці тому

    How much grace should we give during dating phase though?

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +2

      We should always extend grace as much as we possibly can (The grace that we have received from Christ is far more than we can fathom) but giving someone grace doesn’t mean that you’re going to be unwise and tolerate abuse or anything similar. Remember that you can love someone, give them grace, forgive them but still not agree with their behavior and be wise enough to know that such behaviours are crossing your boundaries and against your standards and choose to discontinue being close to them.

    • @jairusbryant3229
      @jairusbryant3229 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for responding. I agree, but doesn’t that also mean that I give them time to change the behavior if it’s crossing boundaries?

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      @@jairusbryant3229 what kind of behaviour is it? And if it’s crossing your own boundaries then I think you should pray about it. Is it behavior that you can’t see yourself living with for rest of your life if they were to never change?

  • @aurorymack7138
    @aurorymack7138 3 місяці тому

    🎯

  • @CBLady
    @CBLady 3 місяці тому

    Cute shirt! Where from

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому

      It’s actually a dress & I got it as a gift

  • @ThePhatLady
    @ThePhatLady 3 місяці тому +1

    Praise the Lord. I really needed to see this video. God bless you.

    • @withlovestace
      @withlovestace  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you! And God bless you too ❤️