How To Bounce Back After You Lost Everything

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  • Опубліковано 19 лис 2024

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  • @LetsGrow_Dro
    @LetsGrow_Dro Рік тому +64

    This video came at the right time I just lost my job this morning 😢

    • @dustingray4663
      @dustingray4663 Рік тому +7

      Keep your head up. If you are willing to work jobs are hireing

    • @drewe9514
      @drewe9514 Рік тому +8

      Go all in on you, live cheap, and build your business as your own boss.. it’s a sign to innovate

    • @icedwhaticed
      @icedwhaticed Рік тому +2

      I was in the same boat 6 months ago. I immediately got on indeed to start looking for a job. But I went out there and started to gig work. Door dash, Instacart Uber etc.

    • @Mario10070
      @Mario10070 Рік тому +3

      “Life happens for us”
      Keep your head up, You got this.

    • @gomezgang8286
      @gomezgang8286 Рік тому +3

      Recoil and bounce back, could be a blessing in disguise.

  • @yonasyohannes4652
    @yonasyohannes4652 Рік тому +7

    Got laid off this morning, thought I was doing it right.
    Staying hungry and keeping it moving.

  • @tbsharkey
    @tbsharkey Рік тому +38

    I lost my job from a major tech company in February. I didn't make excuses, focused my efforts, and put myself out there. I had a total of six offers at the end of it and started with Google last month. It's ok to fail forward.

    • @cuvaolanrewaju2958
      @cuvaolanrewaju2958 Рік тому

      Wow nice ! Also want to venture into tech but I’m finding it hard to get a laptop! Laptops are expensive out here 🥲

    • @campsteel7344
      @campsteel7344 Рік тому +1

      Winning!

    • @amichii19
      @amichii19 Рік тому +1

      Congrats man! It's hard out there right now especially in the tech field.

  • @jronald262
    @jronald262 Рік тому +9

    Same boat! Don't stop grinding. Don't feel sorry for yourself. I'm in the real estate business and my income is less than half of last year. I'm looking for a part time job, but that's life. Don't look at other people and think they had it easy. This is temporary, keeping pushing everyday.

  • @dylonabubo7513
    @dylonabubo7513 Рік тому +13

    lost my job about a year ago. used to tow airplanes here at the sandiego airport. 22 an hour, easy over time, hours between tows. i honestly wouldve retired there..
    bought a car with all that i saved up, got a dui, lost the job, literally went into debt as much as i used to have saved after the lawyer and court fees, and now im on a mean bounce back
    went to mcdonalds because i knew id get hired on the spot and after 6 months of that bullshit i quit and got employed at a chevron. gunna go to welding school while tackling that debt into a manageable amount, maybe get hired at the walmart or the home depot across the street and leave chevron.
    once i get done with the welding program and find me a 6figure salary (or close), i'll invest into owning rental properties. maybe a duplex or triplex, or maybe even buying and renting out cars/jetskiis to tourists
    **we have 22 fridays left of this year. give me 40 and ill be looking for that big salary. my goals are close and i can feel it**

  • @g.a.6013
    @g.a.6013 Рік тому +16

    I had a HUGE issue getting out of the military and put a crap ton of energy into my new job and it still didn't pan out financially. Just kept pushing. It got better.

    • @mustbecome
      @mustbecome Рік тому +2

      This is fantastic that you kept going brother. This is the exact kind of inspiration that more men need to see. Thanks for sharing.

  • @peytonsimien4043
    @peytonsimien4043 Рік тому +6

    I heard the word firefighter and drop everything and listen. As a firefighter of 4 years, our schedules are 24 on, 48 off. That’s roughly 10 days a month, 120 days a year and full pay and benefits. Many people have businesses or work side jobs with other firefighters. I’ve spent my off days learning about fishing and bass tournaments and I’ve been able to win a couple of club tournaments. It is possible to continue to work and be all in on your art. I believe in everyone out there. I love being a firefighter and I love fishing and I have found the best way to do both without being exhausted or fatigue and to continue love what it is I do. Thank you Mr. Keuilian for your knowledge and words of wisdom.

  • @chrismarrero7072
    @chrismarrero7072 Рік тому +7

    lost mine on monday but been doing uber until my mobile barbershop getting build gets done and barbering on the side😊

  • @JoshHonaker-xk2kt
    @JoshHonaker-xk2kt Рік тому +1

    I can't believe this advice is free this dude got me ready to run thru a brick wall. Thank you kind sir

  • @jefferykolb
    @jefferykolb Рік тому +3

    To me this is the number 1 reason to have at least 3 months worth of supplies and cash on hand. Restarted from zero three times and it has saved us from stress and insanity each time!

    • @BayonleArashi
      @BayonleArashi Рік тому +1

      This is a hard thing to do in America. It is hard and if you are a salary earner you gonna get it. Not impossible but hard.

  • @wussupbre
    @wussupbre Рік тому +3

    I’m going all in on me 🙏🏾

  • @JFit21
    @JFit21 10 місяців тому +1

    Yo Bedros just wanted to say thanks for the motivation I’m currently in one of the worst situations in my life back against the wall and all bets are on me I got nobody I’m all alone just me and the grind.. after seeing what you said about failure and getting back up just got me more fired to not give up and still strive for success thank you sir.

  • @JTBDiego
    @JTBDiego Рік тому +2

    Tech job canned me about 2 months ago. Said Roger that and started my own business. I bet on myself.
    I think a lot of jobs just dont have the cash right now. So you can hustle all you want. They cant afford you.

  • @jdmfs1772
    @jdmfs1772 3 місяці тому +3

    I lost my job. I have no money. I have to move. I have nowhere to go. I have no way to get there. I have no idea what I'm going to do.

    • @mikelike3877
      @mikelike3877 2 місяці тому +2

      Praying for you. Have faith and trust in the Lord

    • @jdmfs1772
      @jdmfs1772 2 місяці тому +1

      @mikelike3877 thank u. That's been my game plan. I'm too far in to change it now lol.

    • @bararalewis775
      @bararalewis775 2 дні тому

      Ask God for guidance. Ask for a financial breakthrough. Be sincere. You have GOD!

  • @fernandocardoso4203
    @fernandocardoso4203 Рік тому +1

    Great timing, thank you

  • @Andrehutch876
    @Andrehutch876 Рік тому

    My guy asked some excellent questions and great responses from Bedros!

  • @HowardStolovitsky
    @HowardStolovitsky 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for the smart information

  • @domb7168
    @domb7168 7 місяців тому +1

    I lost over 100k on a bad real estate deal. I'm now selling off my portfolio to clear debt and start over. I needed to hear this. One property just listed today.

    • @domb7168
      @domb7168 7 місяців тому +1

      On top of that, the one house I'm keeping, the tenants decided not to pay rent this month. 😅

    • @kingdomfirst4541
      @kingdomfirst4541 7 місяців тому +2

      I hear you.. I’m going through a bad real estate deal

    • @domb7168
      @domb7168 7 місяців тому +1

      @@kingdomfirst4541 damn man, it's tough. What happened with yours?

    • @rockettuu
      @rockettuu 3 місяці тому +1

      how's going now?

  • @justjtv.
    @justjtv. 14 днів тому

    I needed this

  • @barnastil591
    @barnastil591 Рік тому +3

    Lost my job on a Friday had an higher paying offer Monday. Keep your skills and your mind sharp, hustle on point and know that your job ended because you're destined for better.

  • @loosebrown6697
    @loosebrown6697 Рік тому +2

    Great video Bedros and thanks for the advice man 💯

  • @BIGGELATO
    @BIGGELATO 25 днів тому

    "jumping out the plane and build your parachute on your way down" is great if you know you have the material to build one in the first place. But some of us (like me), have comfortably jumped out the plane, knowing that if my parachute doesn't open, I'll still have something to catch me, and that's what I lost, that sense of security. This is why I am stuck in fear of jumping because I know I don't have everything I need to make the leap, and even tho I don't, If I jump, I'll be too scared to make a move, and freeze when faced with this unknown beast, and just let myself go. I lost that "muscle" so to speak. And the only way to train that muscle is to make it easier on myself, get back into that state of mind that let me jump with no fear, like a mask, all while still knowing that I'm lacking that security, so in the end, that mask is there simply to hide an insecurity, and using ego to protect my insecurity.
    This state of mind comes with its repercussions and implications. Fooling myself into putting in the work, and now it feels like im not doing this for the fun results, but instead running from something. The carrot and stick. The mouse in the tube with cheese on one end, and a cat in the other... Fears. Demons that come with ego, masking insecurities. Questioning if any of life's opportunities are even worth it in the end. Knowing I'll come right back to phase 1 later, just like a game of monopoly, except richer; cars, cribs, materials, money, women; only to realize that none of it is truly worth it because in ego, you attract ego, so everything and everyone you attract ARE egotistical.
    Wtf do I need a Patek Phillip Nautilus for? A Bugatti Chiron? A super yacht? A penthouse suite? A white mansion? a dark moody mansion? all the cars I want to experience, only to then get rid of them? This is all just emotion exploitation. None of it is worth it in the end. It's all a fad. Whats the point of owning a company as big as blackrock unless your agenda is dehumanization? NONE of it matters. The smartest species on earth is the least smart because they hardly use the brain in the first place so they remain emotional, and the ones that do use their brain, use it against others, by exploiting their emotions, and sell them things they don't need. This is life? is this it?
    I guess in the end, it's up to you to realize you should be doing all these things for yourself, but instead, for your circle. And you get to choose who's in your circle. See, in the end, people are the ones that matter. The riches, the experiences, the fun, the lavish stuff is only worth it if its for you and your circle. Because personally, I can live in a shack for the rest of my life. Although, I don't want to, it's doable. But why do so if you can live a better quality life?...

  • @roycegallego800
    @roycegallego800 Рік тому

    I love you bedros

  • @forestgump8403
    @forestgump8403 Рік тому

    what are the high income skills you need ? great video btw 😇😎

  • @jayking3159
    @jayking3159 Рік тому

    Bedors What do you do when life hits you hits you with a lot of stop and go ?
    I've always get close and the the rug gets pulled from me

  • @harrygrace6539
    @harrygrace6539 Рік тому +3

    I’m 57 years old and Monday, July 31 is my last day at my full-time job. I’ve been there for 13 years I don’t know what I’m going to do I live in Harrisburg Pennsylvania.

  • @kaylalovell4045
    @kaylalovell4045 8 місяців тому

    I lost my job yesterday 😢

  • @stephanieriley5243
    @stephanieriley5243 Рік тому +1

    Average is not an option!

  • @stephanieriley5243
    @stephanieriley5243 Рік тому

    Average is not an option!

  • @Thecause-d2m
    @Thecause-d2m 10 днів тому

    Pin me. I'm your 1000th like.
    I just left everything.

  • @sageway479
    @sageway479 Рік тому +2

    Just get another job…?