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Sadie, could you give me the link to the video you were talking about at 4:23 ?? 😁
Here is the link to “The evolution of the swim suit” video! It’s very eye opening.
ua-cam.com/video/WJVHRJbgLz8/v-deo.html
I want my future wife to look at me how saddie looks at Sam 🙈
😂😂😅
@@parahjapheth7920 Thats what I think about Sam looking at Sadie haha!!
For real!😅
This seems to only happen on UA-cam. The women in churches I've been to are entitled hags.
Aww❤😅
Would love to see a “night time routine”! Sadie cooking and how you spend quality time together after work would be so fun to watch! Especially as two people who didn’t live together before marriage :)
That would be so so fun!! ☺️ We’ll add that to our list!
@@samandsadie 🥰
Great idea! 🙌💯 God Bless You
I love this ❤
Lol, my best friend and I were just talking about where to find a good godly Christian man and this was my first recommended video!! God saw our texts 😂🤍 God bless you guys 🤍
Hey Connie! Sadie and I had a similar experience with Church yesterday where the topic was something exactly about what we’d discussed the night before! God hears us for sure! God bless! 🙏🏻
@@samandsadie God is the coolest!
@Connie K haha, I like that statement. God is the coolest.
Proverbs 31:30 KJV Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman that feareth the LORD shall be praised. ❤
Enjoyed watching this! I dress very modest. My Instagram feed is mostly nature photos, I don’t take selfies really unless it’s privately for my own memories and don’t post them.
That all sounds really good Amy! There’s definitely nothing wrong with selfies, I just think it can look arrogant if it’s posed in a certain way or when dressed provocatively. God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@samandsadie Yes and God bless you both.
I love this for you. I too don’t post my photos online just because I feel awkward just posing and posting on social media unless it for me in my own camera roll.
@@daughteroftheking3220 Yes but I do post some if someone else took it for me and my social media accounts are private now though.
The ability to kill bugs is literally something I have on my list of characteristics I want from my future husband.
Lol understandable 😭
Literally stumbled upon the video...Thank YOU! I pray that God's grace will continually uphold you both. ❤
These ideas are amazing
Thanks Sam, I didn't consider some ideas at first but now I'll add them to my principle and values
This is so encouraging! God bless you
Thank you for sharing!! This was insightful
Omg would love love loveee a video on learning to cook and clean . I am just starting to cook and clean and learning it mostly by myself as an adult. These videos simply ✨rock ✨
Love these videos, keep it up! Can't wait to see the one about what women look for in a Christian man!
Loved this!! Thank you!! ❤❤
You’re very welcome Jhenn!! Thanks for commenting! ☺️♥️
You guys are such a beacon for the Lord and an inspiration to me personally. Awesome channel guys, keep it up!
This was so good thank you!!
We’re so glad you liked it!! Glory to God! 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️
Thanks to you both
Very good points. As a man I agree with all of them.
I totally agree with the ick of people posting a bunch of selfies
No worries Sam and Sadie! We are super blessed to have you both opening up parts of your life to us! I believe if the world hears your story, the divorce rate would be so much more lower!
Keep up the great work!
Thanks so much for saying that Brendan!! Anything good that we do on this channel is because of The Holy Spirit, so we give all the glory to Him! God bless you brother!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I loved this video! Was so encouraged! I will say when it comes to Instagram posts. I think for me I get the ick if the guy follows a lot of women on social media. I’m not sure if men have that same ick if women do that. When it comes to photos. If they are modest photos, I don’t mind them. They don’t draw as big of a red flag as who they follow. Because who they follow Can potentially have an impact on them. Maybe I’m too picky in that regard! Those are just my thoughts! I enjoy your content keep it up!
i agree!
So cute, God grant this grace unto me and my man❤
Yes ! Thank you for answering my question about cooking and cleaning 🎉! I started practicing cleaning and I will start sooner to cook ❤️!
God bless you!🙏
From Switzerland
You are very welcome!! Sadie will probably do a whole video on cooking and doing stuff around the house in a night-time routine or something!
God bless you too! 🙏🏻
From the United States!
True.
I am going to date a christian girl in future from my local church, thanks for the advice
My favourite part of this is how you 'disagree' with each other but you welcome the disagreement... this is something that I've never found in a guy 😊
Hi, Sam and Sadie. Thank you for doing these videos.
Do you know of any online christian community that you can recommend?
Hi from Bulgaria. 🙂
I hope you know that NOT everyone in these sites are really people of CHRIST. 🧐
People think that if someone speaks about Jesus, that's it he/she is a "Christian", but there are many false teachings... the Muslims also are speaking about Jesus, but they do Not know HIM.😒
...Test the spirits - 1 John 4🎯
YHWHJESUSCHRIST bless you with one of His adopted sons, Amen YESHUA.✝🤗✝
Please also do the reverse version.
Hey girls ! Love the shirts. I want to start a Christian clothing brand as well. Would you mind sharing how you created the website or maybe make a video on the process ?
guys *** sorry. Thank you and God bless !
God's Agape Love is the greatest
You are alot like me ... am the same way and it's a good way to be ❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏
I admire you both. I wish I could have what you have, but I know for certain that I will never, indeed can not ever, have the marriage relationship that you both live in. You are most assuradly blessed.
I'd like to give an encouragement that you MOST CERTAINLY can have a pure and Godly relationship like this. The Lord is faithful, and He cares for your needs, from the tiniest detail to a major one. You can definitely pray and ask Him for a partner that loves God and loves you. I'll think of you in my prayer as well. May God bless your life!
@southidasithivongxay7682 If I was a 25 year old man I might agree with you, but I am in my 60s, suffered terrible abuse in childhood, and have a drug addiction. Sometimes what God wants for our best is to break us from worldliness. He never guarantees us marriage or a "wonderful life."
@@southidasithivongxay7682im in my thirties dude, what you said was the opposite of encouraging. Maybe in the next life.
You can tell a lot about people by what kind of photos they choose to share. If it’s all of themselves either at the gym, in fashion poses, etc, it’s a red flag for me. Doesn’t matter who it is or what their gender is. They value outward appearance.
On the first point, Sadie got defensive/triggered and did make a good point or two, but imho Sam is generally right. My take: the “best” men in general, and “good” (and especially the “best”) Christian men want or need (and may not be aware they need) the following: A woman who is feminine, loving, respectful, sweet, selfless, gentle, supportive (which includes: encouraging, edifying, positive, and peaceful (ie- calm, constructive, not-argumentative, and not-overly-confrontational)), modest, confident but humble and not seeking approval/acceptance from men or strangers, forgiving, gracious, adoring, loyal, faithful, and devoted. How “selfies” come in: if a woman is single, then selfies are fine as long as they’re not “sexy” or provocative and instead demonstrate she has the positive qualities above; if she is in a relationship, it should be about “we not me”, and selfies can demonstrate that she is still on the market or is open to it (even if subconsciously as part of our Sin Nature which can manifest even in godly women as “hypergamy”); moreover, if her man is in her pics (correctly demonstrating to the world that she isn’t on the market or open to it), then scenes, poses, emphasis, and body language should demonstrate the positive qualities above, too. If, for example, the pics demonstrate mainly highlighting her, or her man’s devotion/adoration/etc. of her but not vice versa, then - again - the negative qualities are being demonstrated and the positives are not.
Hi I am a 70 yr old grandma and mother. I wonder if you consider looking into how you would advise young people who were not Believers and followers, committed to Jesus but have since become so. such advice as you give here seems to be for young people who grew up in church families.
Hello Margaret! As a relatively new believer (2 years) I'd say their advice is great! Also, I'm 21 years old. I believe their advice really helps young people and new believers alike 😊❤ God bless you!
@@SD-qn5df I am not saying otherwise. I was just indicating another people group of which they might like to reference. Bless you too.
amen
My desire is to have a man that have relationship with God for I know that if you have Jesus you have everything ❤🙏❤
facts, if the man or woman loves God with all their heart. Then you know they have learned to love others as well.
Sam's doppelganger is Antoni Porowski lol
Sam is right, anyone that uploads a bunch of photos of themselves likely wants attention. There are tons of narcissists, but a lot of the ones I know personally are women- Christian or otherwise.
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I cook pasta all the time as a woman.😂
Marriage, even Christian marriage, is like a tick looking for a big, fat dog to attach to. But then after the wedding ceremony you discover there are only two ticks and no dog! Can't get more real than that...
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have
eternal life.” John 3:16
Your heart is in the right place to submit to the father alone… the one true God…
One question I have is...how absolutely essential is a Christian woman's virginity/purity, to a Christian man? Like, if hypothetically one was a Christian girl looking for a Christian guy, but not a virgin, should she just give up and expect to be single b/c no good Christian man, realistically, is ever going to want her? Like...I'm asking for a friend lol
Recent studies done by Christian groups have shown that there are basically no Christian singles over 30 that have not had multiple sexual partners. Also there are videos on UA-cam galore of Christian women who were not a virgin when they married going on into the 10th year of their marriages and contrasting them with videos of Christian singles who were celibate until marriage who's marriages have went off the rails or the couples are having compatibility problems. We weren't designed to marry in our 30's. Even Christians have screwed things up by buying into the world's system. But this is the world we are left with.
To answer your question, I personally want a virgin wife but since im not a virgin myself and im pushing 33 years old, I've come to the conclusion that it's not in the cards for me. What virgin girl is going to want me? None that's who. And I can't marry a non-virgin myself so im out of luck.
Sam is wrong on point 1 its literally just down to a difference of brain makeup and yes please make a video on home making what skills are more important than others does sewing matter anymore? Should it be a requirement that both men and women know how to do formal dancing? What are your thoughts on purity rings?
What I want doesn't matter. Im not a virgin and im in my thirties so im used up, damaged and old. Maybe in the next life.
It kinda sounds like you’re condemning yourself; that’s not of God. I’m a virgin, but I’m not automatically writing off every man of God who is not as long as he’s repented and given his life to Christ. You can’t erase all the consequences of your sin, but you’re a new creation in Christ and God doesn’t remember sins you’ve repented for. So if you want marriage, ask God to prepare you and wash you clean (of things like fornication and p*rn addiction etc.). Always speak life over yourself
@NanaHoneyB It'll take too long so im not bothering anymore. I had a time frame and that frame passed so I've accepted the reality of my life and I've moved on.
@@BansheeKing22 Sounds like you’re limiting God. But that’s your business. Take care🙏🏽
@NanaHoneyB No one can limit God but im also realistic. We're a short lived species.
@@BansheeKing22 Listen to God, not the enemy. People get married at all ages and against all odds. “Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh. Is anything too hard for me?” - Jeremiah 32:27. Maybe focus on your relationship with God and remember all the “unrealistic” things He can do. I pray that you find peace in His presence.
Not interested in your married life also not planning to get 'married' 😂
1) doesn’t celebrate pagan non biblical “holi/holydays”
2) very very low body count
3) no STDD’s
4) follows TMH GOD’s commandments AND has the character of Christ
5) values loyalty, biblical principles and has the fruitages of the Holy Spirit
I'd not date anyone with a body count.
Are you saved through the LAW or through the GRACE?
God Jesus redeemed His Church - His people through His blood . Acts 28:20🎯
TMH EL OLAM JESUS CHRIST bless His elect sheep, not the pharisees, Amen.✝
@@monkaZETTA preach, Facts
If she had insta, tik tok or any aocial media
..red flag...stay away men.