RELATIONSHIPS...BUT KINGDOM
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
- Have you taken the time to forgive yourself? We pray the answer is YES! On this episode of the pod, we discuss what we will do differently in relationships now that we have been exposed to the Kingdom of God.
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I love this ! I just ended my last relationship because I know how important it is to stay pure . And how beautiful it’s going to be, to be in a relationship that God has just for me ! Yes it did hurt leaving but I Will always put God first ! ❤️❤️❤️ Real love is Gods love !!! Thank you girls !!!!!
Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽
Love it!
amen !
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I love this, my husband and I are born again believers who abstained until marriage. God has blessed us exceeding, abundantly, above all we could ask think and imagine. I just want to encourage you all to hold fast to God’s promises, he’s faithful! Blessings ❤
Love to hear it 🙌🏽❤️Thank you for the encouragement
Amen 🙏🏾
This is so encouraging thank you for sharing
@@divinelyadorned1930 Sure Sis, be encouraged! 💕
I’m 24 and never been in a relationship because I don’t believe in dating just to date. I could’ve dating plenty of men but clearly chose not to because I knew they weren’t for me & I’m waiting for the Lord to send me my manssssssss!
LOVED this ladies! Also about sex, I’m learning from the Holy Spirit that when choosing a life of sexual purity, it’s more than just simply not having sex until you are married to someone, but this involves a process of unlearning my understanding of sex and choosing to re-learn sex in the way the Lord designed and understands it to be. God is Spirit so He wants us to worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:24), so we must ask for HIS understanding when we try to live for Him, including when it comes to sex. Regardless of our experiences with sex or a lack thereof, we all have different things that have shaped the way we view sex due to the things we consume in the world, ie. our former sexual experiences of any kind, celebs/influencers we listen to, porn and masturbation, nudes, conversations in school, “advice” from friends and family, things we’ve witnessed, trauma, sexual fantasies, novels and erotica, romance films, etc. All of these things and more are the ways of the world that feed us a view of sex outside of God’s original intent of it, and they all influence and therefore shape the way that we view sex and engage in it. When we choose to not just refrain from having sex until marriage simply out of obligation, but instead live a lifestyle of sexual integrity that honors God, this means that by the help of the Holy Spirit, we are free to be candid and intentional in telling the Lord about whatever has influenced the way we formerly/currently view sex as, so we can learn from Him how we ought to understand and engage in sex, and so that we can experience it as the holy enjoyable act that God created it to be in the context He knows is best for us (a Christ-centered marriage with His guidance). This is how we exchange what we’ve believed sex to be for His design for sex instead. This is what living a life of purity truly entails, and regardless of your sexual history or inexperience this is applicable to someone who is single, dating, courting, waiting before marriage, AND is very helpful throughout the marriage too :)
Thank you ladies for all you do. Seeing you ladies being so bold about your faith and how you’re growing in spiritual maturity in the Holy Spirit is encouraging me to not live apologetically about my faith bc Jesus is nothing to be shamed of!💗 Keep growing in Christ loves, so proud of you and I hope this message is a blessing to someone in Jesus Name Amen😘
Beautifully said, thank you!❤
This was so beautiful 💕 🙏🏽 Thank you.
Thank you for this message. I learned something ❤
It’s amazing to know that we don’t need to tell God what we need because He already knows. Like how lucky are we to have a father like Him that He cares about us so much that somethings He already knows and is taking care off. He truly is the Alpha and Omega, the one who works from the end to the beginning.
Yes He is 🙌🏽 So faithful! Sitting high and looking low 🙌🏽Glory be to His name forever and ever
@@Softlifethroughchrist “Sitting high & looking low” love that ❤️
It’s crazy how I’ve been on my forgiveness journey & WERE TALKING ABOUT IT IN THE POD‼️ You ladies have literally helped me walk away from the life of dark magic & back to my Christian roots. Life has gotten better EVERYDAY since I asked God to reveal himself to me. You ladies shown me that you can love God, obey God, and still be YOURSELF inside & out. Thank you!
Amen literally
“Everything the devil tried to rob me of I am becoming that “ yes !!!!!!
I'm only 19,I leave for college soon and honestly I needed this message.I related to every single thing you beautiful women said,crazy enough I had a chat with myself about how my father not being present shaped me mentally and now I understand that he's human and I really just needed God ❤❤ I've been a softie for three months now and honestly you are God-sent .....God bless you all
I’m 19 as well and will be leaving for college as well soon . this channel has been life changing
We’re so glad the video was able to help! We pray you stay encouraged on your walk with Christ even during your college journey🙌🏽❤️ You got this!
A true Kingdom man does value a woman who is modest, & seeking God above all else. A true Kingdom man will also forgive your past too. He will not hold it against you. That full disclosure in premarital counseling will truly reveal a lot about the character and heart of the man you are with.
I’m 30 & just got married a year ago at 29.
Marriage is truly a selfless covenant. It’s about serving & giving to one another. & how you & your spouse can glorify God together. ♡
I'm so grateful for my kingdom husband. But God knew I needed to be prepared and pruned before my husband came into my life.
I was listening to the pod cast while studying for my exam. I did so good on the exam that I was so nervous about.
this is me right now. Simultaneously Studying for my last tests and for my exam.
@@luciahatutale3243 I know you passed in Jesus name 🙏🏽
this video was actually so beautiful, I cried! Relationships have taught me a lot and it's such a huge revelation to my heart. I spent a lot of time in different relationships wanting to date people and then asking God if he thought it was okay. Ultimately, these relationships all started off well and would eventually lead me to compromise my boundaries and values every time! This includes things like knowing I wanted to wait until marriage, sending nudes, late night conversations and pressure to have sex simply because the person I was dating was compromising. At 23 almost 24, as someone who is still a virgin, that's the hard part. You could say that I was forcing relationships, but at the same time I knew I would never be strong enough to go on my own and that hurt. God has always highlighted to me the importance of staying pure and being someone that respected my purity. Now I recognize that God is going to honor me in my wait. I definitely have to work on forgiving myself for partaking in relationships that God never ordained for me. It's hard rn, but I know that it will be worth it in the end.
Waiting for a kingdom marriage is SO worth it! Also, the marriage counseling is very necessary ❤ Love this episode. It kept me calm during my flight, praise God!
Amén I’m 29 and I have decided to wait for marriage for everything ✝️ i just want to please God on every level of life 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥
Amen ❤
Thank you so much ladies for allowing God to use you. Earlier today I was in prayer weeping before God to forgive me for letting myself stay in a narcissistic abusive marriage for so long. I finally left my ex husband, the father to my 3 children after 20 years of being together. I turn 40 in August and feel such a great relief to have managed to leave. I have been having a lot of guilt though for not getting out sooner and boom someone recommended your channel and you’ve talked about self forgiveness. I literally just felt like God was saying through you ladies that it’s ok, God has forgiven me and now I have to forgive myself. God bless you and keep on doing what you’ve been assigned to do 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes I love y’all 💕💕💕 I would love to see more blogs from you guys !! I am 21 I been through a lot since a kid when my father died in front of me, it crushed my heart I have a lot of trauma it changed me into a very mean person turning to liquor , smoking , toxic abusive relationships having a soul tie wit my ex for 4 years & being employed, fried from jobs , not having a good relationship wit my person kicked out the house in & out my mothers house. I wanted a change im starting to have a relationship with god & watching you both make me want to be consistent with reading my Bible everyday, journaling , playing the right music & changing how I talk & speak to people. But mostly trusting god & putting my faith in him , bring patient with him. I have a hair business & it makes me want to give up because I feel like it’s not going anywhere. Hearing y’all makes me never want to give up in life, I can be very suicidal sometimes because I feel unloved & no one cares about me but I know god does so I will continue being on my walk with him , it’s been 3-4 months & I love it ! Thank you i love to hear y’all speak so much.🥹🥹🥹
God Bless you ❤ Keep on moving with God, even when it seems hard. It will be bright days.
thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️god bless you too !!
This is only the beginning hunny! The world, and the Devil is going to try hard to stop your crossover from happening, but it’s inevitable. You got this. God loves you so much! I am proud of you 👏🏽
@@naniduh.how r u doing now nani
How did y’all know I needed this today! Y’all be on point with the timing
I felt you on the leaving part. God definitely had to show me that my silence was just as bad as me not putting forth effort to communicate. What’s amazing though was that the lack of communication was just a symptom of something way deeper. Now, I make sure I address Christ in regards to leaving… even if it’s a chat😄
God is so awesome! I’ve been telling myself I need a Bible study to join but I’m not ready to be around people because I deal with anxiety really bad and plus I don’t have a sitter. You guys have told me about a zoom Bible study that I can join in the comfort of my own home and no sitter required. I just started crying and thanking him! Thank you Ladies for doing Gods work💕
Raniyah you’re transparency during this episode was amazing 🥹 thank you girl, God bless you
When I tell you Jesus needed me to hear this right now … Jesus needed me to hear this rn !!
yes sis im wit you "if you are striped of everything do you still have substance" thats the kind of man im trying to have
thank you for choosing to serve GOD. your service is now benefitting many
So blessed and encouraged by my sisters in Christ! Celibacy for me until Marriage 👌👌🙌🙌🥰✅
I feel like this the phase im going through is forgiving myself through everything i went through. Ive always been hard on myself and trying to forget about while also always reminded of the pains i caused myself. Some days be hard but the more i spent time alone with god , praising him in my own space the easier it became. I feel like this just confirmation that im on the right path because it be hard sometimes being a single mother trying to raise children and your hurting. I loved this video i be sending these videos to all my friends . We all need to get closer to God . Lets all heal 🙏🏾 God Bless ❤
This was right on time!!! Thank you Lord for using these women to uplift and give us your teachings! I am so blessed to just be in connection to this! Thank you!
I’m so happy I stumbled across your channel but I don’t think anything is by coincidence. God led me here and I’m so grateful because you ladies have really been helping me in my breakup season. Also I feel like I’m listening to older sisters I never had! Thanks for Godly wisdom and humour, love your podcasts ❤
Everything y’all talked about I have been reading in the Bible which is so crazy how God works and confirms everything for you . I also just prayed last night how can I hear more from Him and so crazy last week I had just said 77 times Lord?! 😂😂
I’m a new subscriber love that this exist I can be cute living for God and not miss out on good talks and podcast something good to participate in
Keep pushing for Christ!!!!! I love how serious you guys are about God and even how you go about ministry holds your viewers accountable to how to walk in Christ!! Love you guys ❤️
I love how the discussion started on Kingdom relationships. I was reading my Bible a few weeks ago. I was thinking about marriages and how a lot of people I know have been married to people who were unbelievers and unsaved. I have the NIV Women's Study Bible and the describe how marriage to an unbeliever violates God's word. If you have the that Bible, its on page 1705. I am so eager to do things God's way. The way He orchestrates our lives when we are devoted to Him is immaculate. Relationships work when individuals stand and live in agreement with God's word.
AMEN 🙌🏽🙏🏿
What’s the actual scriptures verse please ?
@@stephanieberry5254 False, here is the right information.
‘And if a believing woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to continue living with her, she must not leave him. For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy. (But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.) Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you? Each of you should continue to live in whatever situation the Lord has placed you, and remain as you were when God first called you. This is my rule for all the churches.’
1 Corinthians 7:13-17 NLT
Thank you adding the Verse so I can read over it myself.
@@keke7256 Yes, for people who are already married as God doesn't like divorce. The OP is talking about marriage to an unbeliever (so one is not married but is still dating). If you're dating someone who is an unbeliever, leave but if you are already married, stay and try to inspire them to come to Christ with your faith.
"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"
--2 Corinthians 6:14 NIV
This Scripture I believe is suited for devout Christian women who are still dating, whereas the Scripture you quoted is great for women married to atheists or people of a different religion.
Edit: The second half of 2 Corinthians 6 is warning against idols, so Christian women should avoid idolizing or over-obsessing about their boyfriends and romantic love/passion. TBH most Christian women who are dating atheists or people of a different religion are likely doing it because they are sexually or emotionally attached to the man and just don't want to let him go.
Won’t HE DO IT! I literally replayed the intro twice because it was really hitting on the drive home. Then you said you released it?! God is soooo good! I just downloaded it NOW. When I tell you my car rides smoother with this song playing 😭😭 love you girls! God Bless!! Okay back to the podcast❤️❤️❤️
I’m a 19 turning 20 years old Christian girl who is waiting until mirage. I never dated and was waiting on God to send the one but made the mistake of trying to date a guy who was not Christian we kissed I got attached but we r no longer in anything yes I’m still pure but now I regret not waiting.
Yes Amen remember to not be unevenly yoked in a relationship God bless you ❤
Ladies you truely are a blessing,
You are both beautiful inside and out, God bless you both ❤️❤️
This was my first time seeing you guys and wow I am completely moved. Yall truly speak God’s truth into young women like me. I am so grateful to have found this page!
Hey Ladies ❤ I’m looooving the show! I just wanted to add on to the kingdom man/marriage part saving yourself for marriage…. I’m married to my Kingdom man and we both decided (before we even met each other) to wait until marriage. And let me tell you it was hard…at least for me to hold out. But thank God for my kingdom man, he was respectful, careful, and faithful more than me lol it was worth the wait because all I’m gonna say is we definitely bring worship to God when we 🤞🏾A true kingdom man will not lead you on nor put you in the position to compromise your purity. Also, I just feel like when you look at the man in his eyes you can see his intent with you!!!! K bye, God Bless 😘
i resonated with this so much. i’m so grateful that God is continuously working on me and sanctifying me and I look forward to the love that God has in store for me! I love you ladies and I pray that God continues to work on you and through you.
The timing!!!!! Omg I’ve been over here on this wave for 3 months now. Loved the conversation. Definitely reassuring that I’m on the right path
Just finished binge watching y’all’s videos yesterday as I’m a new Softie😊 was wondering if y’all were going to upload soon, so glad this popped up! 🤍
Not funny how fast I click on ya’ll content once something new is uploaded 😂🤣. Anyone else relate?!
i appreciate these episodes so much ladies! much love and may God continue guiding/blessing you girls🫶🏼
I want y’all to come to my church in Wesley Chapel, FL . I feel like y’all would be such a blessing to them like y’all have been to me. I even got my mom watching y’all. I really appreciate what you guys do!
One compromise led to another is so true
That soul tie B REAL y’all
Moesha and Ariana (Moses and Aaron) 🤣🤣🤣 love it!! love watching you girls!
I get so happy when y'all upload ❤
Thanks for watching 😊
Eyoooooo I think its the work of the Holy Spirit. Cause I was singing this song and I’m like where is the full song. We love you girls! Keep preaching the word of the LORD!!
My sisters in Christ 🫶🏽 a breath of fresh air
Already knowing y’all going to Atlanta next👀😂
The woman of God are back🙌🏿just on time thank yall
I really need to see this ladies several times a week. These ladies help to restore my faith every time I feel like I’m falling off track and remind me that it’s okay to not be perfect in your walk with Christ. Even when I stumble and make mistakes the Lord still loves me and he wants me to do better and be better. Never give up on your journey, no matter how hard or confusing it gets, our God will show up always.
The crazy thing is i asked god to please have yall release a new video because you guys helped me so much during my journey with christ and i been going through a real tough time focusing on just jesus i needed them ! god bless you guys
Thanks so much for the word and encouragement. This is a tough journey but all is well through Christ Jesus ♥️🤍
Heyyy sisters in Christ. Holy Spirit lit! 🔥❤️🙏🏼✌🏼🎺
yall need to come to chicagoooo !!
Dating truly puts you in control and if your in control Gods hands are tied, I love your advice ladies, woman of God should not be dating, we should be in communion with God to receive our kingdom spouse. ❤
Come to the UK please🇬🇧
I agree! I’d love to see them in London 🎉
Yes to how a toxic relationship will keep a spirit of stagnation
Thank y’all so much for what you pour into us! Raniya, I have a similar testimony as well 🙏🏾 currently 4 months abstinent and will be waiting for my Kingdom Husband. God is so great!
Omg I am so sad I missed the conference I am not on any socials right now but will be checking here on UA-cam to see the dates for the next one I pray it’s in Dallas!!! Love the podcast thank you for you guys obedience you don’t know how many people’s destiny’s is tied to you alls obedience 💕
Edit : 22:19 had me in tears because I have worked on for forgiving others but I have had SUCH a hard time forgiving myself for the things and situations I have allowed and the consequences thag come with that I.e being a single parent. I’m going to work harder to allow God to help me forgive myself
Amen 🙏🏽
@Soft Life Through Christ y’all gotta get @Phil Cofer on this podcast 😭💯💯
I was just talking about your last episode to someone last night. Happy to see you lovely, soft life through Christ, ladies posting again.
Soul ties so real man broke mine after 3 years it was wild
Omg same 3 yrs
My sisters in Christ!! love yall so much
COME TO CHICAGO PLSSSSS
Me too once I sin I lost my virginity at 19 and I was keep my purity promise . We as women are so hard on ourselves and it didn’t work out .
Chile, I have yet to get into a relationship & I’m 24. I am waiting on my God ordained spouse! It’s the year of the bride. I have no desire to get into a relationship because I feel like a lot of men are shiesty 😭. In the meantime, I am focusing on my relationship with God & aiming to become the woman that God want me to be & I pray that my husband in Christ is also focusing on being the man that God called him to be!
My sisters are back!! Will be watching shortly and giving my feedback. Love yall in Christ🙏💖💫
I love how wise you young ladies are❤
I love y’all so much! Videos are ALWAYS on POINT & on TIME!💖🙏🏾
When I say y’all come right on time every time 🙌🏾
It’s a soft..it’s a soft soft lifeeee 🎶🥰
I don’t know how I came across this account but I’m HAPPY I DID ✝️🙌 I genuinely love you too and love how you ladies are honest & encouraging
Yesss! I’m so glad that your back. I missed y’all ❤️.
Love from Kenya! On unforgiveness, its very important to allow forgiveness of self & others I struggled & still do but I don't do it in my own strength anymore but His,and unforgiveness is a chain that holds you back, but they is power in the name of Jesus to break down every chain! Anyway thank you, glad to be part of this community
Just stumbled upon this podcast and this episode has been so refreshing!
So glad our sisters in Christ are back! Sounds like you ladies are headed to Atlanta for the next stop on the tour !?
Your conversation today was so on point! Love it!
I could watch this podcast all day!!!!!!! LORD THANK YOU for blessing our lives with such beautiful counsel from the most beautiful sisters✝️💕💝
y’all have perfect timing! omg
The song!!! Finally
Love the new set-up, so excited for this video as well!❤
Also, I’m praying for my brothers. My little brother needs more men like this in his life but he stays in the house. I always pray that God will place people in his life that will influence him to get closer to Christ. More young men of God in the church & reaching out is coming & I’m so ready to see the things God does through all of us women & men. Stay the course guys! It’s all worth it 💚💚💚
@DoitEmani tell ur lil bros about Phil cofer
Yaaaayyyy.. welcome back ladies.
Love these outfits girls ❤🔥
When I tell you the burst of energy I got when I seen this new upload!!! 😍😂 likeeee .. what nap siss ?? LOL .. I love this channel 🤍
❤️🤣🤣
The transparency is amazing!
lol at the moses and aaron metaphor😂😂
wow this was really the confirmation i have needed to continue following God, i won’t give up !!!!!!!
Firstttt 🥹☺️ so excited for this one !
Love this! Nothing but the truth
The best podcast! Glory be to God 🥹 come to NY or CALI 🥹
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony about not having your Heavenly Father being the reason for the decision-making in relationships! I love that. I still tell myself that lie but I’ve been released by hearing your testimony.
I love your podcast and so grateful for your walk for God. Love you ladies like my sisters❤
Ladies !!!!!!! The song is on repeat yassssss🎉. Imma need an album though sooooo……..😅 looking forward to more music from you. It’s a vibeeeee❤
I paused the video to go listen to the song and ended up playing it in a loop for over a hour lol I’m back now 😭
This podcast is transformational ❤️
I feel like going through those mistakes is just as useful to learn from experience. Granted there’s a limit
let me find out the next conference is in houston, texas 👀
Great book on forgiveness is by Lysa Terkuerst, “Forgiving What You Can’t Forget” 🙌🏿 10/10 💯 She is a faith based author, speaker & beyond.
That's interesting that you say you're not a fan of dating. I intentionally dated for the past 2 years and I have since retired dating lol I love the perspective you have about letting God send your Kingdom husband to you. I believe it is my season to rest in Him and let him continue putting my life together as it should be. Love the content ladies! Thanks for sharing your light with us.
I’m screaming I’m so excited to watch 💕🙏🏼
Anybody on their new walk with Christ I advise the show chosen. It will do wonders for you getting to know the lord and his presence 💙
Where can I watch it??
@@madaleinem8109 it’s an app called the chosen , 3 seasons already out . My favorite UA-camr goes more over it @Maya Graves in her latest vlog
It’s not a good show please look more into the actor that plays Jesus he’s openly catholic and prays to dead people. It’s very dangerous to watch something that portrays things about Jesus that isn’t true
@@nataliearlene1 if you doesn’t like it then keep it to yourself!!
@@nataliearlene1I believe you fr but I’ll ask God .
when that actor pulls up in
The advert I don’t want him to pray over me I be skipping it quick and I really don’t know why 😂😂