@@d3lightton a technicality, it is... sideplus is the sidemens paid platform, they made this video for there, thus technically it is indeed a sidemen video.
@@d3lightt a video featuring the sidemen filmed by them is a sidemen video, the wording needed to be 'this can be a sidemen channel video on it's own' otherwise grammatically it is incorrect. Sorry to piss on your intellect.
@@bigmo8588 displaying emotions and crying is a human trait not a female trait. Men commit suicide because they are seen as weak for expressing how they feel and thus hide it which is not ok
@@laranja5678 Sounds like those people need help. But by definition a man is the stronger gender and each man should aim to be as strong as possibly both mentally and physically, Its not okay to be weak as a man simple as that.
@@Reypstraptor4269 SHOULD aim to be stronger, SHOULD be strong in a hard minute, not obliged. You must either be a liar and cry a lot or a really lucky individual with no real problems. Why can't I express my feelings only because I was born a certain way? I didn't pick my gender when I was born, neither did anyone. Neither did we pick our race or anything like that. So by your logic all the white people have to do certain things, all the black people have to do other things, all the Asian people have to do another things etc. Mate, we are humans, we choose what we do, we got our mind, not instincts, that's a difference between us and animals. Stay on your Tate stuff, while the generation will keep going. You lot don't make sense)
Harry and Josh having a debate against Ethan and JJ will always be funny. There’s no Simon that brings the posh vibes, there’s no Vik that says dead jokes, and there’s no Tobi that isn’t funny
I think the only scenario where men shouldn't cry is when they lose a boxing fight in their own event, it makes them look like a big baby, especially when they're 30 years of age.
Instead of not assigning a gender to crying like Ethan said, I think the right choice is to assign both genders to crying. Crying isnt manly or womanly, its just humane.
I was thinking exactly what Ethan was saying before he said it. However, my conclusion about not assigning gender to emotions was, 'Crying is not manly.' In reality, crying is neither manly nor feminine; it is just HUMANE
well, for example crying about a lost fight that everyone already forgotten about is not manly, should've just nod and move on and nobody would've lost their respect
You can cry, but only to your very close male friends. But not like how women do it. Dont frikin let yourself weep like a lil girl. But its okay to let it out once in a while. Never cry infront of your lady. She wont respect you after that.
Ok no hang on crying doesn’t mean ur not a man it means u really need mental help it’s ok to cry everyone cries even me I cry sometimes thinking about my grandad and what he would say if he was still alive and I cry cause I think I’m not good enough but no harry and josh are completely wrong
The act to sit and cry and do nothing else is a choice. Being a man is about having control over that, whether you like it or not. Because who else will? Children? Women? Old people? "Dont pray for easy lives my friends. Pray to be...stronger men"
The point was not whether men should cry or not. It was whether it was manly or not. And also I don't think "men should not cry" does not also means "ever". It just in most situations you man up. For example, a woman might cry if her colleague was mean to her but for a man to cry if his colleague was mean to him? Doubt it. So I'd give this one to Harry and Josh.
Fam it doesn’t specify which situation the question is if a man should cry, you can’t say in some situation woman does this and a man does this, like what 😂😂.
@@A_3000 Its not the same thing. Is men should not wear a skirt the same as wearing skirt is not manly. One represent the actual action the other represents the possession of quality/traits.
i do think it’s ok for men to cry but only when no one’s around. If there’s a man in a house he needs to be the one people go to with their problems, if people see him cry it shows weakness. A man can cry in isolation ofcourse to get it out but he needs to show strength when around others
@@haridaspalleeri6765 brother ive seen it first hand, there was a situation with my family where everyone was worried and i didn’t see my dad cry and he was the one keeping everyone hopeful, then there was another scenario where he cried and it made me think fuck if he’s crying we’re all fucked. Obviously in principle it’s ok for a man to cry but for a morality thing in a household if they can keep it together and if they need to cry they can do it when no one’s around to get it out whilst keeping the others hopeful
@@timmy5876 I get your point but I think that's something a leading person would do. If a woman was leading your household, I would hope she did that too. So your dad remained hopeful not because he was a man, but because he was a leader.
Why the arbitrary number? Why not 4 times a decade or something? Crying is an outlet for emotion, simple as that. I’d argue that if you cry for a justifiable reason then that’s more manly than to bottle it up to then cry later or release it some other way.
That's some braindead shit right there, fym more than once every 2 years. There is no limit to crying. Some people have a shittier life than others and cry more, some people have it easier and are better at handling their emotions. The only way I could see crying being "feminine" is if you cry at every little thing.
@@dragonmaster3207because it really wasn’t that serious, this whole video is about taking a side, I don’t have a strong opinion either way but between the 2 sides I’d say its not manly
Nowadays anytime masculinity is a topic I’ve noticed that people always give points that are either against masculinity or changing masculinity , never appreciating masculinity, and when femininity is a topic people are always giving it praise lol . Weird how society is trying to feminize the younger male generation
I suggest you should flip the team if the argument got heated, imagine going 180 on your opinion 😂
YES!!!! that would create howlers!
That would be so funny😂 now I wanna see this lmao
that would be so sick
great suggestion, does anyone know if they've done this ?
this can be a sidemen video on its own
it is
@@d3buggr no it isnt
@@d3lightton a technicality, it is... sideplus is the sidemens paid platform, they made this video for there, thus technically it is indeed a sidemen video.
@@baconrastas he is obviously referring to a video on the channel named SIDEMEN. Sidemen themselves call these videoes for "sideplus videos".
@@d3lightt a video featuring the sidemen filmed by them is a sidemen video, the wording needed to be 'this can be a sidemen channel video on it's own' otherwise grammatically it is incorrect. Sorry to piss on your intellect.
JJ rocking the middle school presentation on a book he didn’t read vibes here
Mate, that was magnificent. Behz actually cooked...
@@m44n11 as a man you shouldn't be scared to express yourself
being emotional is a feminine trait, regardless of how much you argue it @@retnugnahte
@@bigmo8588 displaying emotions and crying is a human trait not a female trait. Men commit suicide because they are seen as weak for expressing how they feel and thus hide it which is not ok
@@laranja5678 Sounds like those people need help. But by definition a man is the stronger gender and each man should aim to be as strong as possibly both mentally and physically, Its not okay to be weak as a man simple as that.
@@Reypstraptor4269 SHOULD aim to be stronger, SHOULD be strong in a hard minute, not obliged. You must either be a liar and cry a lot or a really lucky individual with no real problems. Why can't I express my feelings only because I was born a certain way? I didn't pick my gender when I was born, neither did anyone. Neither did we pick our race or anything like that. So by your logic all the white people have to do certain things, all the black people have to do other things, all the Asian people have to do another things etc. Mate, we are humans, we choose what we do, we got our mind, not instincts, that's a difference between us and animals. Stay on your Tate stuff, while the generation will keep going. You lot don't make sense)
This one - Harry knew exactly where the line was… and he did in fact go over it 🌨️
Nah he actually just took it fully up the nostril 😂
honestly josh and harry actually did quite well😂
but got to say idk what Josh does his mannerism just make me not take him seriously.
Ethan looking like jiminy cricket 😆😆😆
😭😭😭
I did not expect Harry and Josh to cook that well together.
This was the best sidemen content I’ve seen in a while. Not hating. Love their stuff, but this was god tier.
Harry and Josh having a debate against Ethan and JJ will always be funny. There’s no Simon that brings the posh vibes, there’s no Vik that says dead jokes, and there’s no Tobi that isn’t funny
@@Asferprivateholy stray😭😭just enjoy the content man
@@Asferprivate You're not wrong but wtf lmaooo
@@Asferprivate nah simon is finee
@@Asferprivateyou know the most iconic moments were given by vik
valid points lads
its mad how hes saying that to ksi and behzer😂😂
Jeez! Go Ethan!!! You Cooked!
A GOATed opening line for a debate 4:26
Harry and Josh are being sarcastic by the way
@3:31 HARRY COOOOKEDD!!! LMAOOO
Get kids and discover a whole new world of feelings.
Damn, this might be the reason why I should subs to side+ right now
where the hell did the cocaine line (no pun intended) come from??? 🤣🤣
Bro behz started cooking fr
Why is nobody talking about Harry at the end 😂
This shi valid tho 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
make this a sidemen video with its own set
Well said Ethan ❤
Ethan’s Karen mode is very comfortable here
Your dead brain is very comfortable.
I think the only scenario where men shouldn't cry is when they lose a boxing fight in their own event, it makes them look like a big baby, especially when they're 30 years of age.
Bro you hating him in every comment section get a life go on a hike
@@ItzAsap. Aww you poor thing, someone's upset because I offended his lord and savior, remember to dust the shrine buddy.
@@ainsleyhelliot cry
@@ItzAsap. Why should I? I'm not the one crying like a toddler because their master lost a boxing fight, get a diaper change, little guy.
@@ainsleyhelliotyou are why abortions are still legal btw
Haven't laughed at a sidemen vid like I did in this one in a while ngl (the full vid is so funny)
Ethans laugh tho hahah everytime makes me crack a smile
Actually Harry cry's when the waiter brings his Nando order with lettuce and Josh cry's doing foot jumps 🤣
But wait, I cry when I laugh.. does it count
POCKET SAND is the only reason for a man to cry
this is great
I have side+ and I cant find that video , searching for videos are kind of bad there, otherwise W content
KSI looking like he’s holding his brain in that durag
Nice one
We need debate competition in main channel
This is top tier content 😊
Anyone else think JJ says "fool exclusive experience" instead of "full exclusive experience"
Instead of not assigning a gender to crying like Ethan said, I think the right choice is to assign both genders to crying. Crying isnt manly or womanly, its just humane.
I mean "manly" doesn't really mean anything. A man can be anything really. Masculine might be the right word they were looking for
Why’d I think of the rock instantly aswell 😭
guys left school and are doing exactly that as adults for content, brilliant
Ethans trim 🔥
What video is this ? What's The title i have to search to get this video
its from side+, paid subscription
Crying is not manly. It's human. When a woman cries we don't call it manly.
You mean we don't call it womanly?
Holy shit he cooked
low-key harry not wrong ...
I think it’s okay to cry once in a while if needed as a man. Crying more than that is unnecessary and you gain nothing from it.
Who says you're supposed to gain something from crying? Dance in traffic.
@@nickgirdwood3082 well there’s no point if you’re not going to gain anything. Why put yourself through an emotional state if there’s nothing to gain.
crying releases stress so you could say you can gain a feeling less stressed@@Febow
@@singingcoversweekly3108
Well you could release stress in other more valuable things training running etc..
@@_.__._._.____. there are other options for releasing stress ofc but I'm just pointing out it can have a use
ABSOLUTE BANGER ARGUMENTS !!!!!!
Behzs saved jj hard there 😂😂
Harry has convinced me that I am not a man because I cry.
Rock cried……
Nah these points were valid
Also Harry trying to virtue signal the agreeing on the 50-50 split on divorce was a huge L in this episode.
Damn sidemen do alot
I was thinking exactly what Ethan was saying before he said it. However, my conclusion about not assigning gender to emotions was, 'Crying is not manly.' In reality, crying is neither manly nor feminine; it is just HUMANE
Harry the wise 😂
We all come into this world crying, it’s not a gender thing.
What video is this?
Men shouldn’t cry
Sad they make you pay for something like this, bunch of sellouts
A bit of raw a day keeps the doctor away init harry cmonn
well, for example crying about a lost fight that everyone already forgotten about is not manly, should've just nod and move on and nobody would've lost their respect
Preach 🙌
You can cry, but only to your very close male friends. But not like how women do it. Dont frikin let yourself weep like a lil girl. But its okay to let it out once in a while. Never cry infront of your lady. She wont respect you after that.
Faith is rubbing off kn eithan.
.... not in a good way
Wtf was the last 25 seconds about 😀🤣🤣
I love harry
What a load of crap this is
Men can cry but using that as a way to get sympathy is what Harry calls Crying are for kitties.
The really small group of people who is taking this seriously just stop. It's just a goofy video, just have fun watching it.
"having fun" *unsubscribes*
Ok no hang on crying doesn’t mean ur not a man it means u really need mental help it’s ok to cry everyone cries even me I cry sometimes thinking about my grandad and what he would say if he was still alive and I cry cause I think I’m not good enough but no harry and josh are completely wrong
Right after "I am fat and wanna kill myself"?
JJ is so bad at speaking 🤣
Hug Ethan plzz!🙂🙂
The act to sit and cry and do nothing else is a choice. Being a man is about having control over that, whether you like it or not. Because who else will? Children? Women? Old people? "Dont pray for easy lives my friends. Pray to be...stronger men"
Deji crying 😂
2:42 Behz wtf have you done 😢. Gender politics are so much already and now people are going to get the idea of emotion and identity. 😂
Ethan is a lost cause
Loving Feminist Harry 😂
Feminist ?what
@@zorlockts5744(him going on about the struggles of women)
CRYINGGGGG 😂😂😂
The point was not whether men should cry or not. It was whether it was manly or not.
And also I don't think "men should not cry" does not also means "ever". It just in most situations you man up.
For example, a woman might cry if her colleague was mean to her but for a man to cry if his colleague was mean to him? Doubt it.
So I'd give this one to Harry and Josh.
It's the same thing buddy. It's not manly or womanly to cry. It's neutral, It's just a outlet for an emotion
You lose this one
Fam it doesn’t specify which situation the question is if a man should cry, you can’t say in some situation woman does this and a man does this, like what 😂😂.
@@A_3000 Its not the same thing. Is men should not wear a skirt the same as wearing skirt is not manly. One represent the actual action the other represents the possession of quality/traits.
@@IQ.trivia225 It also does not specify never either. Infact the topic was not about men should cry or not itself. It was if men cry, is it manly.
This isn’t even the official sidemen account 😂. This is getting taken down
It is official. It's for their Side+ subscription.
@@ScribeSeph no it’s not 🤣 why would they post content that you need to pay for on UA-cam
it is official bro...there was some channel had uploaded side+ content already had been taken down
@@eimansfq1860 defo not official why would sidemen post side+ content on UA-cam 🤣.
it is the official channel 💀its literally a short clip lmao stop acting like they posted a whole hour vid@@MelzdreamAlt
what was awesome
lets take advice on how to be a man from people who promote onlyfans and degeneracy. nah they fell off.
😭😭😭
maybe start making good content for fcking MORESIDEMEN again and stop posting everything on sideplus broskis, do u not have enough moneysss already
Jesus wept & He’s the most powerful man ever.
Save Yours Tears 😢
@@Tango-_- pardon?
Alexander the Great weeping because he couldn’t conquer the moon is so clear
i do think it’s ok for men to cry but only when no one’s around. If there’s a man in a house he needs to be the one people go to with their problems, if people see him cry it shows weakness. A man can cry in isolation ofcourse to get it out but he needs to show strength when around others
if that is the case he's not around nice people. Why the dichotomy
@@user-dg6bl2ry2y??? are u gonna cry in front of ur kid? so they know they can't rely on u?
holy shit I hope you get help if you believe what you're saying.
@@haridaspalleeri6765 brother ive seen it first hand, there was a situation with my family where everyone was worried and i didn’t see my dad cry and he was the one keeping everyone hopeful, then there was another scenario where he cried and it made me think fuck if he’s crying we’re all fucked. Obviously in principle it’s ok for a man to cry but for a morality thing in a household if they can keep it together and if they need to cry they can do it when no one’s around to get it out whilst keeping the others hopeful
@@timmy5876 I get your point but I think that's something a leading person would do. If a woman was leading your household, I would hope she did that too. So your dad remained hopeful not because he was a man, but because he was a leader.
Ofc Ethan would defend crying he's the biggest cry baby in the group😂😂
U mad lil bro😂
And your crying now?
Ethan is the epitome of the liberal male of western society lol , always expect some leftist sensitive bs from him
It’s okay for men to cry every now and then but it’s not manly. There should be a limit to it too, crying more than once every 2 years is excessive
Why the arbitrary number? Why not 4 times a decade or something? Crying is an outlet for emotion, simple as that. I’d argue that if you cry for a justifiable reason then that’s more manly than to bottle it up to then cry later or release it some other way.
@@dragonmaster3207dumb take
That's some braindead shit right there, fym more than once every 2 years. There is no limit to crying. Some people have a shittier life than others and cry more, some people have it easier and are better at handling their emotions.
The only way I could see crying being "feminine" is if you cry at every little thing.
@@dragonmaster3207because it really wasn’t that serious, this whole video is about taking a side, I don’t have a strong opinion either way but between the 2 sides I’d say its not manly
I dispise men crying and i was working in mental health .so i moved to IT .
Nowadays anytime masculinity is a topic I’ve noticed that people always give points that are either against masculinity or changing masculinity , never appreciating masculinity, and when femininity is a topic people are always giving it praise lol . Weird how society is trying to feminize the younger male generation
What is manly. A good question that you will never know the answer JJ.
What is it?