Listening to this on repeat. "I wish i could go back to the day before we met so i can skip my regret" that hits hard. They just dont make songs like this anymore.
There's soooo much emotion in this song. Whew, that one line, "I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret." That's a powerful line I've lived through. Thank God this song was out when I needed it the most because in that dark space, I could not put words to the emotions, but this was it!!!! It got me through! God definitely blessed Heather with the power of healing in her voice. Not to mention, she's just a beautiful spirit all around.
Don't get me wrong, I admire Heather's immense vocal talent but it would be more accurate to say she's among the best of her time. Whitney, Mariah, Celine, Lara Fabian are her contemporaries (Lisa Fischer also released her debut album around that time too). I don't know about her beating them but I know she's among the best.
Where did all of our singers go? Heather Headley without a doubt has one of the best and most unique voices out there. In the words of Jennifer Hudson, Heather "where you at?"
Ruth Jenkins Check out her FB page. Last I read, she had the lead role as Whitney's character from The Bodyguard, on Broadway (or something like that). She said it was a dream come true to get to sing these songs live.
This song hits so hard! I’m a 36 year old Latino male that’s experiencing a tough break up and this song is purely amazing and hits home. Men do give it their all and get treated bad as well ladies.
I love this song, I use to hear my mother playing it as a child. But now it definitely has a different meaning! Us Black Women deserve to be respected,appreciated and loved too.
Every word in this song I've experience I wasted 2o years of my life with a man who cheat,lie and was so disrespectful it's not even funny when I look in the mirror I feel like slap myself.
Here I am 27 years old going through my first heartbreak and I never would have imagined it would be this painful. I pray my daughter never feels this low over a guy 😢
@@alexisdarden9646 she’ll be fine as long as she has you. A father plays a huge role in a girls life and his emotional support is everything. You got this & I’m rooting for you 😘
BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES , LOVE DOESN'T HURT PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T BEEN LOVED PROPERLY HURT, IN EXCHANGE THEY HURT PEOPLE. I'M GOOD BUT LEARNING FINALLY HOW TO BE LOVED
It hurts so bad, especially when you still have hope but they continuously break your heart. Who knew how hard it would be to just let it go, they will never change..
It a hard especially when you passed so many opportunities and then you trust fall in love get married and 10 plus. Years later this man start acting like a real @$**** just ain't gonna change they say jails institutions or death. Mrs Florida
***** We all want to be loved,But the 1s we love the most just don't love us like we deserve..I do hope your situation improves..If he will take the time to prove to you that it can work..Not the fly by night solution of flowers,watered down apology or the stories of the good times....You need present &future
Happy Birthday Heather Headley born October 5, 1974 R&B and soul singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. She has won one Tony Award and one Grammy Award.
chocoholicSISTA263 Stop being dumb for once I know you are a fan but Libra starts on my birthday September 23rd ends on October 22nd you just can't change astrology don't work like that She's a Libra ♎♎♎♎♎
Where I live it doesn't rain that much, but now we are entering winter and the song fits the atmosphere perfectly. I just wonder in which city the video clip was recorded so I can meet it in the future.
There are a lot of broken hearts here. It gets better! REAL love finds us when we least expect it...Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. In the mean time; lets love ourselves and enjoy life!
+Dee Thomas I can imagine it being tough, especially factoring in children. Time heals all. Focus on and take care of those babies, I'm sure there is no one you love more than them. It will get better!
Home blcalicak ohih and the renlaitionship boiary kaliha rone love you guys too much and kaliha are going through the kids and kaliha rone love you guys too baby girl friends kaliha boyfriend double ⏩ and a Danna ll search 🔎 live in show Katie kaliha your house 🏡 kaliha I know you
John and my parents and friends and family shop are coming in today and I don't think you have time i😅 I'm in y😮 yes 🖐️😉 you can get the renlaitionships hair and my phone 🤳 and my parents will be home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so so very much more 💗 you are my mom and my parents 😘 years 👄❤️ and I 😊
@@b-mec-him796 Ironically my ex just knocked on my door begging me for help. He’s an unmedicated schizotypal. I told him he can’t talk to me unless he gets medicated. So he’s on the streets.
It's now 2023, and this song is absolutely awesome. On point and timeless. It should be featured in a motion picture. I'm surprise it wasn't in one of Tyler Perry's movies. It's truly a beautiful song. She spoke for all women.
I was living this when this song came out. To listen to it today brings tears to my eyes. Sadness for the young woman I was then, and tears of joy for the woman I am now.
BEEN THERE AND FELT THIS BEFORE.. I HAD TO COME TO REALIZE THAT HE TREATED ME THAT WAY CUZ I ALLOWED IT. ONE DAY I STOPPED CALLING AND DID NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS WHEN HE CALLED. TREATMENT HE DID TO ME TIME TO TIME . .. ALL THE MESAGES I LEFT AND HE DID NOTE RETURN MY CALLS .. ONLY WHEN HE WANTED A BOOTY CALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN WHEN HE SUSPECTED THE TRUTH ... I TOLD HIM I WAS MOVING ON AND MET SOMEONE ELSE.. HE WAS SHOCKED.... AND HE FELT ALL THAT I FELT ..LOL.. I SAID I WISH YOU WELL... I MARRIED THE NEW GUY THAT I MET AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 16 YEARS NOW... HE WAS THE BEST MAN AND REALLY LOVED ME...THREE KIDS LATER .. STILL IN LOVE....I WISH THAT I WAS'NT IN LOVE WITH HIM.... BUT GLAD THE RIGHT GUY CAME BY TO SHOW ME REAL LOVE... LADIES ITS EASY FOR A MAN WHEN HE DOES NOT CARE.. HE FEELS NOTHING ALTHOUGH HE KNOWS we AS A WOMEN deserve better FROM HIM.them).. there is true love out there ladies.. Show less
that's right. I don't like being single. but I would rather be happily single than very miserable, and feel like I am giving my all, while the guy is giving, nor putting an ounce of energy in the relationship itself.
Dear women in general, I'm so sorry for all the hurt men out there that have hurt you out of their pain, please try to forgive them and know that it's not the end of the world, though it feels like it at times, especially when you come in contact with them again. Just know that you're better than what they were going through and it's ok. I Love You, your Black brother.
@@nicoleburrows2657 I love you boo, I love all y’all, I just wish our people would come together and stop allowing our enemies to separate and divide us through sewing hate among us and causing us to hate our people and ourselves.
Whitney Houston note @ 3:39.....Heather Headley has a magnificient voice. Her voice conveys all the frailties of a relationship, the anger, the getting over it. Very pretty voice and tone is so deep, soft, melodic. Perfect job by Heather. She is a beautiful woman.
@@agr8tsmile Heather has been acting for Years on Broadway she's an actress and singer with tonys etc so I'm not surprised she's doing well we love her ❤.
Dear black queens 👑 am sorry for all the hurt and pain we put you through whether verbal are emotionally, we're definitely sorry ,my black queens you deserve to pampered everyday,you are the rock in this world, no other can compare to my beautiful black queens, you're one in a million,i am here telling you that we appreciate you 💕
Happy belated birthday Queen Heather and thank you for your beautiful gift of song. Your music truly speaks to my soul because I’ve felt that way a couple of times in my past relationships.💕🙏🏽
I think I have listened to this song over a dozen times. I remember this song back in the day when I lived in B-more & now history repeats itself. The word love is such a strong beautiful word and at the same time sometimes that word is used in the most negative of ways in order to get what that person wants selfishly. I still love the word love because it was not the word that caused the pain it was the actions behind it & that word was also used & taken for granted as well. Although MeMyself&I, I am still FAITHSTRONG & will remain that way....GODISHERE!!
I was mistreated, abused, and manipulated for 6 years. Got up enough courage to walk away but went back. Sometimes God will send you back to show your where you messed up. I’m finally free and will NEVER return back. You can do it!!!
Erica Sheppard ❤ So sorry what you endured but guess what? You're a survivor with a testimony! 🙌 God doesn't "send" us back per se, but allows us to make our own decisions. He desires for us to walk in His way in everything. However He will protect us when we make mistakes. He never wants us to be hurt.🕊 I pray all is well with you currently 🙏
You’re right Bc I went back and NOW I’m finally FREE bc NO One should feel any less than anyone else. I went back and my SAVIOR LIVES and I ran for my life and never went back 6mos ago
God Bless mines tried to come back after 5 years after I got tired of his 🐂💩. I couldn't SLAM the phone down fast enough. So don't think they may not try to come back when you least expect it. Then you will know u over it.
I, for one, absolutely miss Heather Headley in the world of R&B. Her voice is one of the greatest of all time. She's doing alright for herself nowadays, though.
In Kenya 🇰🇪 they’ve coined a word for heartbreak 💔 we call it “Character Development “ because the person really is developing your character so you can heal from it and move on ❤️🩹 😩🥰
The part when she toss the umbrella is proof that this sister is over it. Shedding tears watching & listening to this song. If you never been in her shoes you would not have any idea what she singing about. Great song.
Percy Canty Sr. I was there a long time ago and I played this song while I was in that relationship. It expressed what was on my heart so well.. every time I hear it I get a chill. It helped me to get the courage to get out
Percy Canty Sr. I love love too but that situation luckily didnt shut me down. i was able to leave myself open to love again.. i still struggle but I am present in my situation and realize he is not what my past was.
But you knw what some of it falls on us to cause as I have learned a person only gonna do to you what you allow them to. And oddly enough towards the end I found a comfort in staying cuz it was familiar... But Im on to happier times... Even when we get in one anothers nerves i still feel secure and happy
Released in 2002, and 20 years later, this song STILL knocks.🔥🔥
Yes it does
Thank you girl
All of her music is better than half what's being played now!
From my childhood. This song came out when I was in 4th grade
@@vincerumlin171 I so totally agree. Heather Headley is red hot with this song.
Fully clothe and singing beautifully. Take us back to these times
True
Might I remind you that Lil Kim and Madonna were a thing back then? Enough said.
@@brandondenver4331 yes they were but they were a very small minority in comparison to the rest of the field.
💖
Yep
Happy 50th Birthday Heather Headley!(Born October 5, 1974)😃🥳🎂🎉🎊🎈🎁🍾🥂🤎🎀🌷🌹💐👍🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Happy birthday
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, Mines was on the 7th
Happy birthday libra
I should have known she was a libra she hasn't made one bad song. She's also a 🇹🇹 girl !
Heather Headley is without question on of the most purest voices of our generation!
This song been a classic in my book. Who else agrees???
I agree it’s still 🔥🔥🔥❤️
Me me me
i totally agree
Always 😊❤
Hahahaha.i Had this on vinyl back in my Bk days. I mma go look for it right now.😎
When the tears stop flowing you are healed..🌹
Facts 💯.
@Fkyo Flag lmao😂😭😂🙄
💯
Amen
Same with me
Listening to this on repeat. "I wish i could go back to the day before we met so i can skip my regret" that hits hard. They just dont make songs like this anymore.
Yesss❤
There's soooo much emotion in this song.
Whew, that one line, "I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret." That's a powerful line I've lived through. Thank God this song was out when I needed it the most because in that dark space, I could not put words to the emotions, but this was it!!!! It got me through! God definitely blessed Heather with the power of healing in her voice.
Not to mention, she's just a beautiful spirit all around.
thank God I don't cry when listening to this song anymore
lungelo ndebele I cant wait!!😂🤣
Am crying now too ring charmaine Medford
Same sis
Me too
omg facts
One of the most underrated, unappreciated artist and song of all time. #SimplyBeautiful
yesssssssssssssss
She definitely deserves more recognition. Her voice is insane.
absolutely
Luv her voice is amazing
Jesse Hinton yesssss
The reason good music don't ever get old cuz somebody's going to always experience it through generation and generation.
True
Amen 😊
She is simply underrated. She beats everyone of her time. Simply amazing all the way around ❤❤❤❤❤
Don't get me wrong, I admire Heather's immense vocal talent but it would be more accurate to say she's among the best of her time.
Whitney, Mariah, Celine, Lara Fabian are her contemporaries (Lisa Fischer also released her debut album around that time too).
I don't know about her beating them but I know she's among the best.
Where did all of our singers go? Heather Headley without a doubt has one of the best and most unique voices out there. In the words of Jennifer Hudson, Heather "where you at?"
She took time off to have her baby but is in the studio I hear.
She still does music but she does Gospel now
Ikr
Ruth Jenkins Check out her FB page. Last I read, she had the lead role as Whitney's character from The Bodyguard, on Broadway (or something like that). She said it was a dream come true to get to sing these songs live.
+MovieJunkie ForLife ū
She is a under appreciated artist. A hit that was totally miss
I totally agree
She is really deep in gospel,so eventhough the labels missed watch how God turn it around for her
@@shamallen8241 yes
Agree..this song in itself was beautiful and her mellifluous soulful voice and songs should have had more acclaim❤
@@shamallen8241she is made for the gospel department
This song hits so hard! I’m a 36 year old Latino male that’s experiencing a tough break up and this song is purely amazing and hits home. Men do give it their all and get treated bad as well ladies.
Stay strong! The one LADY is out there waiting on YOU!
@livingliferight87: THANK YOU BROTHER ( because we’re all brother) AS A BLACK MAN I FEEL YOUR SENTIMENTS & THIS SONG TOUCHES THAT EMOTION…!
You are absolutely right!!
Love jgkgkg Chez JFK kmhfjwfh kgkgkgmjgjguhjbj kgkgoigj
I agree!! I have seem men hurt as well when it comes to relationships with women
I love this song, I use to hear my mother playing it as a child. But now it definitely has a different meaning! Us Black Women deserve to be respected,appreciated and loved too.
Facts!
It's crazy how we hear all these songs for years but when you experience this shit....ooooooo it hit different 🤧
Ohhhh, the difference! 🙄 But it's the growth, wisdom & the journey back to yourself. Be well ladies. God bless! 😍
Every word in this song I've experience I wasted 2o years of my life with a man who cheat,lie and was so disrespectful it's not even funny when I look in the mirror I feel like slap myself.
I’m going through it RIGHT NOW!
Right
True💯
Here I am 27 years old going through my first heartbreak and I never would have imagined it would be this painful. I pray my daughter never feels this low over a guy 😢
Girl Same 😩 sending you a virtual hug ❤
@@brittanycrosby1551 thanks sis 🤗 I love you girl. We got this❣️
I'm 27 years old and hope my daughter doesn't go through this at all
@@alexisdarden9646 she’ll be fine as long as she has you. A father plays a huge role in a girls life and his emotional support is everything. You got this & I’m rooting for you 😘
Never! Love no one more then you Love GOD!!!❤️🙏🏼
This woman truly knows how to deliver a story! So talented 👏!
She delivers with a perfect voice
One hit wonder
@@bredabreda884 she's had quite a few beautiful, frequently played songs
This song still punches me in the gut every time I hear it.
And my Heart😢
Me too smh
you aren't alone i always say im not gonna cry and I tear up and I a damn man lol
Ditto
Same here
This song will never get old. It will always be in my heart.
Amen
❤😊
The way she said : "The way you treat me"... I felt that pain. Love is a 2 way street, u open yourself up to getting hurt by loving someone.
That's too,too true but if you don't take the chance with (love) ❤ sometimes comes hurt, but true honest to (God) love (💖)never ever hurts.🌹🌹🌹✔
So true
Wow 🤩 I got goose bumps on that part the way you treated me like you’re enemy 😎
BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES , LOVE DOESN'T HURT PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T BEEN LOVED PROPERLY HURT, IN EXCHANGE THEY HURT PEOPLE. I'M GOOD BUT LEARNING FINALLY HOW TO BE LOVED
It hurts so bad, especially when you still have hope but they continuously break your heart. Who knew how hard it would be to just let it go, they will never change..
It a hard especially when you passed so many opportunities and then you trust fall in love get married and 10 plus. Years later this man start acting like a real @$**** just ain't gonna change they say jails institutions or death. Mrs Florida
Sorry to hear that,sometimes its better to just let go..The pain will be momentarily instead of a lifetime...
***** We all want to be loved,But the 1s we love the most just don't love us like we deserve..I do hope your situation improves..If he will take the time to prove to you that it can work..Not the fly by night solution of flowers,watered down apology or the stories of the good times....You need present &future
yo fine ah
Amen!
She can act her behind off. She's killing it on "Sweet Magnolias".
Not her on steel magnolias
@@yolinedelpe1644it is her actually
Why I’m over here tryna figure out why she look so familiar
@@jeseka2470 thats Phylicia Rhashad's daughter
@@prettyinpinksmith161 Heather Headley plays Helen on Netfix's Sweet Magnolias
Happy Birthday Heather Headley
born October 5, 1974
R&B and soul singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. She has won one Tony Award and one Grammy Award.
Dorie Fann-Purry I'm month older than her Libra Squad♎
Libras rocks!!!! Oct 4 1985 here
chocoholicSISTA263 Heather Headley is a Libra
FullyCommitted Jones Happy Belated Birthday🎈🎁💕♥💚💟💗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🎆🎇🍨🎂💃❤💙💜💞
chocoholicSISTA263 Stop being dumb for once I know you are a fan but Libra starts on my birthday September 23rd ends on October 22nd you just can't change astrology don't work like that She's a Libra ♎♎♎♎♎
Goddess. So underappreciated in her day. Bring me back to the golden days of Jill Scott, India Arie, Musiq, Common, Maxwell, Corinne Bailey Rae, etc.
Heather Headley kills it in this song. She is untouchable
I’m here on a raining night with a candle burning listening to old music thinking about the good old days 😊😌
Where I live it doesn't rain that much, but now we are entering winter and the song fits the atmosphere perfectly. I just wonder in which city the video clip was recorded so I can meet it in the future.
Thinking about the good old days and planning the good days to come.
Me too but this music will have u on an emotional roller coaster
L@@JMT1985MO
What a beautiful ambiance that must be ❤
This song is timeless
Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis Production
This is a real love song. She did that well.
Yes hun I love it too wow i love it !!!!
Lovely T this isn't a love song .....beautiful but not a love song this is the smoothest regret song
There are a lot of broken hearts here. It gets better! REAL love finds us when we least expect it...Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. In the mean time; lets love ourselves and enjoy life!
+Levon Black Very well said , Mr. Black. And very TRUE.
well said..
Im so glad you wrote this. I needed to see it.
I Hope it gets better so I can forget him for awhile ,but it's hard when he is the Father of your kids! 😥
+Dee Thomas I can imagine it being tough, especially factoring in children. Time heals all. Focus on and take care of those babies, I'm sure there is no one you love more than them. It will get better!
It's 2025 and this classic is still gold to my ears
15 years old and I'm listening to rnb.. I wish that my generation would listen to this type of music.
Keep listening
Shes a beauty nD QUEEN
Doesn't mean that you can't ❤
It’s 2024 and I’m still listening 🥰
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Home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so much more than me and kaliha years old 🗝️ keep you up to it is 😞 I 👄 to go to the hospital 🏥
John and my parents and friends and family shop are coming in today and I don't think you have time i😅 I'm in y😮 yes 🖐️😉 you can get the renlaitionships hair and my phone 🤳 and my parents will be home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so so very much more 💗 you are my mom and my parents 😘 years 👄❤️ and I 😊
Arizona State University prom date night 💤🌉 https openings in show Katie
Home blcalicak June 14 sackike thurh est and kaliha are going through the same time family photo shoot
“Why do you want to hurt me so bad?
I believed in you that’s why I’m so mad😑”
😭😭😭
My last relationship
U will be alright hun
Me too.. then did sumn I never do... redated him.. smh
@@b-mec-him796 Ironically my ex just knocked on my door begging me for help. He’s an unmedicated schizotypal. I told him he can’t talk to me unless he gets medicated. So he’s on the streets.
@@TheContentofCory way ppl snapping nowadays.. may wanna reconsider even if he is medicated.. the world is a strange place now
But you resemble Brandy are you sisters Frank from Uganda I love the music
All women who’ve been hurt I am so sorry 🙏🏽 May your hearts be healed ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤
Thank you 😢
“Now I’m drowning in disappointment and it’s hard for me to even look at you.”
2021 and I’m feeling this in my soul... 💔
my feelings .... so on point
THIS HITS DIFFERENT NOW
Songs mean so much more when you going through somethings. They just dont make them like they used to. 2021 and still so powerful
Nothing but the truth 12/2/21
Agree!!!!
Amen.
say that mama!!!!!!!
Hey
It hurts wen u love someone and their action speaks louder than the words that comes from their mouth
💯💯💯💕
Man I wish songs like these were still being released
Still listening in 2019. Who else says this is a jam?
Oh yes it is still a jam
Absolute jam
Such a jam
love this and still jammin to this
Me too
The price we pay for love is sometimes devastating,but it is what it is.!!! A gorgeous gem of a song about love and anguish.Classic.
true
This song is STILL all that!!!
I totally agree with you
55 yrs old Queen and till this day I wish I wasn't in love with this man
She was crying while still smiling. That's when you know it's over and she's over it.
exactly 😏
YESSSSS!
lmfao
Ebony Simmons that's true girl 😂
Ebony Simmons
This song lives in my heart and head rent free. Omg such an amazing song for the broken hearted people.
It's now 2023, and this song is absolutely awesome. On point and timeless. It should be featured in a motion picture. I'm surprise it wasn't in one of Tyler Perry's movies. It's truly a beautiful song. She spoke for all women.
Yes it should be in a major motion picture..men and women are going through this every day
I was living this when this song came out. To listen to it today brings tears to my eyes. Sadness for the young woman I was then, and tears of joy for the woman I am now.
Only the broken hearted understand this song, feelings & lyrics. 💞
Yes indeed 😢
NAH!
Yes! ♤♤♤ ❤
I was literally just singing this song outloud while getting ready for work to my dog. Lol. I guess it got stuck in my head. 🤷♀️
this song is the truth😢putting hope and energy into the wrong one...been there...never again...I'd rather be happily single
BEEN THERE AND FELT THIS BEFORE.. I HAD TO COME TO REALIZE THAT HE TREATED ME THAT WAY CUZ I ALLOWED IT. ONE DAY I STOPPED CALLING AND DID NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS WHEN HE CALLED. TREATMENT HE DID TO ME TIME TO TIME . .. ALL THE MESAGES I LEFT AND HE DID NOTE RETURN MY CALLS .. ONLY WHEN HE WANTED A BOOTY CALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN WHEN HE SUSPECTED THE TRUTH ... I TOLD HIM I WAS MOVING ON AND MET SOMEONE ELSE.. HE WAS SHOCKED.... AND HE FELT ALL THAT I FELT ..LOL.. I SAID I WISH YOU WELL... I MARRIED THE NEW GUY THAT I MET AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 16 YEARS NOW... HE WAS THE BEST MAN AND REALLY LOVED ME...THREE KIDS LATER .. STILL IN LOVE....I WISH THAT I WAS'NT IN LOVE WITH HIM.... BUT GLAD THE RIGHT GUY CAME BY TO SHOW ME REAL LOVE... LADIES ITS EASY FOR A MAN WHEN HE DOES NOT CARE.. HE FEELS NOTHING ALTHOUGH HE KNOWS we AS A WOMEN deserve better FROM HIM.them).. there is true love out there ladies..
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thats is so true you get tired or being sick and tired.
Silent prayer
that's right. I don't like being single. but I would rather be happily single than very miserable, and feel like I am giving my all, while the guy is giving, nor putting an ounce of energy in the relationship itself.
+Chelsea Bone I agree just do you and be happy.
I fell in love with this song in 2011! Who’s still listening in 2024, 29 years young!
I'm still listening to this song I sang this to my girl
67 years young missing my husband
She's doing such an amazing job on Sweet Magnolias I came to listen to her unique vocals again! 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹!
🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
Happy Birthday Heather Headley enjoy your day, what a Beautiful woman.
You can feel the emotion in this song. One of my favorites
Lawd this song gets me everytime..I want to cry for no reason. It touches my soul.
Dear women in general, I'm so sorry for all the hurt men out there that have hurt you out of their pain, please try to forgive them and know that it's not the end of the world, though it feels like it at times, especially when you come in contact with them again. Just know that you're better than what they were going through and it's ok. I Love You, your Black brother.
Awwww Joseph thank you for your kind words❤
@@nicoleburrows2657 You’re very welcome
@@nicoleburrows2657 I love you boo, I love all y’all, I just wish our people would come together and stop allowing our enemies to separate and divide us through sewing hate among us and causing us to hate our people and ourselves.
Powerful!
This is so sweet, God bless you king 🙏🏾
Amazing just beautiful happy new year ❤❤❤
Whitney Houston note @ 3:39.....Heather Headley has a magnificient voice. Her voice conveys all the frailties of a relationship, the anger, the getting over it. Very pretty voice and tone is so deep, soft, melodic. Perfect job by Heather. She is a beautiful woman.
Her voice is beautiful and portrays the emotion in this song. It's my first time listening to it, and I love it!!!!!! Heather Headley rocks!
Anthony Rapp Lover
It's hard to believe this lovely song ,is at least over 20 years running...it's a beautiful, powerful song still in 2023..the mighty Heather Headley
2024 and this hit like the first time I heard it . Stop playing with peoples lives and feelings if u don’t want them
That is so true. It's not a very good feeling. In fact it's the most painful feeling.
@@amandalidey329absolutely AGREE 😢
Haven't heard this in soooo many years but listening now in South Africa...man what happened to R&B like this 😢
She is the true definition of a soul singer she's acting on a Netflix series Sweet Magnolias and she's amazing I love it
Yes, she is killing it on Netflix
Really!!! Thanks for the info....Netflix here I come....lol lol...😂😂😂
Also on Chicago Med its so good to have and see her acting
@@agr8tsmile Heather has been acting for Years on Broadway she's an actress and singer with tonys etc so I'm not surprised she's doing well we love her ❤.
I actually bought her CD back then when this came out along with In My Mind. I wished they played this in Sweet Magnolias really fitting 😣
Do you know how pissed off somebody had to be to say “I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret”. 😂😂💀 I loveeeee this song. 😌
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I feel this song to the depths of my soul
Yes, I know! The sad part is even though I know - there are so many times I want to go to the day after I met her. She was incredibly special.
I am so glad you clarified that part. I was today years old when I fully heard the lyrics lol
@@TiffRTR girl I thought she said screamed my regrets .... I also thought she said I thought I fussed enough w you so you wouldny hurt me 😭😭😭😭
Yes, this will always be one of THOSE songs that just touches you. ❤❤❤
please come back music like this i miss you
rihanna forever they don’t make “it” no more🙁.
“ I Wish I Wasn’t In Love With You , So You Couldn’t Hurt Me...”
Who’s here 2020 ❤️
2021
I remember I couldn't wait to hear this song on the radio back in day on the quiet storm. Ahh bring back so many memories!
Me too i was in. Michigan city,Ind. right by Chicago wgci quite storm at night omg
SweetPetiteBelle 😅😅 so true! I remember the days!
SweetPetiteBelle me too. :)
Love this song...maybe not the content of the lyrics but Heather's voice and the musical tune is lovely.
Dear black queens 👑 am sorry for all the hurt and pain we put you through whether verbal are emotionally, we're definitely sorry ,my black queens you deserve to pampered everyday,you are the rock in this world, no other can compare to my beautiful black queens, you're one in a million,i am here telling you that we appreciate you 💕
Ummm hmmm
Talk is cheap!! --just playing
Thank you for saying that.
GO, Heather!
@@cherissejones5477 😂
THANKS dear 🥺😘
Thank you so much. Black men also deserve the best from us. We need each other. ❤❤❤
At least someone does!
Omg 😭💔 I never thought I’d relate to this song. I was very young when this came out
Life neh!
You hv a good taste my frend 😍😍😍
ng'cela inumber yakho
If you can relate to this song I pray for your swift healing 🙏🏾❤
Please do
Thank you 🙏
Too late
Thank you... it hurts so badly.
Why thank u
Happy belated birthday Queen Heather and thank you for your beautiful gift of song. Your music truly speaks to my soul because I’ve felt that way a couple of times in my past relationships.💕🙏🏽
I think I have listened to this song over a dozen times. I remember this song back in the day when I lived in B-more & now history repeats itself. The word love is such a strong beautiful word and at the same time sometimes that word is used in the most negative of ways in order to get what that person wants selfishly. I still love the word love because it was not the word that caused the pain it was the actions behind it & that word was also used & taken for granted as well. Although MeMyself&I, I am still FAITHSTRONG & will remain that way....GODISHERE!!
You are so right!
Amen
my testimony .. .
in those few words you have summed up the way I feel about the word "love". Amen hunni 😢👌🙌💯
I swear I know where you're coming from smh
classics must be played everyday
Yes ndeedy I truly agree!
I was mistreated, abused, and manipulated for 6 years. Got up enough courage to walk away but went back. Sometimes God will send you back to show your where you messed up. I’m finally free and will NEVER return back. You can do it!!!
Erica Sheppard ❤
So sorry what you endured but guess what? You're a survivor with a testimony! 🙌
God doesn't "send" us back per se, but allows us to make our own decisions. He desires for us to walk in His way in everything. However He will protect us when we make mistakes. He never wants us to be hurt.🕊
I pray all is well with you currently 🙏
You’re right Bc I went back and NOW I’m finally FREE bc NO One should feel any less than anyone else. I went back and my SAVIOR LIVES and I ran for my life and never went back 6mos ago
Good girl Erica!🙏
Thank God you found the strength. Many blessings to you ❤🙏😊
God Bless mines tried to come back after 5 years after I got tired of his 🐂💩. I couldn't SLAM the phone down fast enough. So don't think they may not try to come back when you least expect it. Then you will know u over it.
I, for one, absolutely miss Heather Headley in the world of R&B. Her voice is one of the greatest of all time. She's doing alright for herself nowadays, though.
2020 and I’m an extra grown ass man still listening to Heather Headley on this beautiful track. So underrated, so much beauty and pain in her vocals
Almost two years later and here I am still healing. Who knew love could take such a toll 😩😂
A lot of us 🤧
It is so painful.
3 years for me...I'm still trying...
Love is the greatest emotion ever until its gone. Then it's becomes the worse. But loving means we a living @allie04Rose
In Kenya 🇰🇪 they’ve coined a word for heartbreak 💔 we call it “Character Development “ because the person really is developing your character so you can heal from it and move on ❤️🩹 😩🥰
2021 and forever. This song still hits the right spots!!!!🔥❤.
Thank you Heather Headly this song is soulful!!!
Lyrics was everything!💯
I remember crying to this song... I thought I die without you, look at me liviing and breathing without you.
That's right hun!!!
AMEN
Exactly😊😝
Lol
Yep......
Still beautiful. And then her acting in Sweet Magnolias... just blows your mind. Talent and beauty.
Not her... thats the daughter of Ahmad and Phylicia Rashad
@@prettyinpinksmith161Wrong. That’s definitely her (Heather Headley) playing Helen in Steel Magnolias
She is so beautiful and her voice blows me away! Especially at 3:37 - 3:45.
Yesssss she killed it
This is by far one of my favorite songs 🎵 ❤️ because the words are so powerful and true...
She is so underrated to me ... she is one of the best
Man! Still one of the best songs ever.
I think we all been here and just wish we could have made BETTER choices💯✔😞
Rhonda Crews you never lied...😘
Rhonda Crews
man MN
Hit song a hour an couple minutes to mothers day ❤ happy mother's day to all the wonderful god fearing mothers out there ❤❤❤
Who is here in 2025
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ME....💜💜💜
Who else in here still listening to this 2022❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😭
temar Harriott on my playlist
Yaaaaaas
=Timeless
@@deelive3531 me too darling
@@terrihill6982 ok
Her voice and lyrics is so soothing 😌
Such a beautiful song can't stop listening to this one ❤
The part when she toss the umbrella is proof that this sister is over it. Shedding tears watching & listening to this song. If you never been in her shoes you would not have any idea what she singing about. Great song.
Percy Canty Sr. I was there a long time ago and I played this song while I was in that relationship. It expressed what was on my heart so well.. every time I hear it I get a chill. It helped me to get the courage to get out
Ree Coles my heart stills hurt. To have loved and not be loved back. That hurts. I guess I'm just a sucker for love. "love don't love no one"
Percy Canty Sr. I love love too but that situation luckily didnt shut me down. i was able to leave myself open to love again.. i still struggle but I am present in my situation and realize he is not what my past was.
But you knw what some of it falls on us to cause as I have learned a person only gonna do to you what you allow them to. And oddly enough towards the end I found a comfort in staying cuz it was familiar... But Im on to happier times... Even when we get in one anothers nerves i still feel secure and happy
You're good. I was crushed. I applaud you for being able to live life and enjoy love again. "I wish I was......"
Who is still listening this in 2024
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Classic shit here
Me!
Me!!
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This song is speaking to me in volumes. I got this on repeat at work right now. I wish I never met, loved, or cared about you 😭.
The pain 💔😢 but we are all powerfull in our own ways. Be smart about your life choices we still here in may 2024😊
20 years later I still go back and listen to this album….. beautiful and talented
Okay...it's 2022....STILL BANGIN!!!!🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Listening to it right right now
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@@yardieinfrastructures8291 ddddddwe see a
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What u said
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Love is never painful, people ignorance towards love is where the pain exist. Keep ya head up, love is around, be patient and let it discover you
Roderick Ridges great words...dont blame love* blame selfishness and disrespect, but never love*
Thanks
Roderick Ridges if it hurts that ain’t love 👌🏾
Collette Brown Zip Exactly
You are absolutely right, love is never suppose to hurt, just the ignorange of people, if it were meant to be it will...
Revisiting these old songs now that I’m 28 and they hit so different 😢