Heather Headley - I Wish I Wasn't (Radio Edit)

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  • Опубліковано 24 жов 2009
  • Heather Headley's official music video for 'I Wish I Wasn't'. Click to listen to Heather Headley on Spotify: smarturl.it/HeatherHSpotify?IQ...
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    Lyrics:
    I'm home alone again
    And you're out hangin with your friends
    So you say
    Somehow I know it's not quite that way
    It's getting pretty late
    And you haven't checked on me all day
    When I
    called you didn't answer
    Now I'm feeling like your ignoring me
    I wish that you were home
    Holding me tight in your arms
    And I wish I could go back
    To the day before we met
    And skip my regret
    I wish I wasn't in love with you
    So you couldn't hurt me
    it just ain't fair the way you treat me
    No you don't
    deserve me
    Wasting my time thinking bout you when you ain't never gon change
    I wish I wasn't in love with you so I
    wouldn't feel this way

КОМЕНТАРІ • 9 тис.

  • @mickalebenjamin446
    @mickalebenjamin446 2 місяці тому +539

    Who is still listening this in 2024

  • @lamarmccall8579
    @lamarmccall8579 3 місяці тому +472

    Who’s still listening to this classic in 2024?!

  • @livingliferight87
    @livingliferight87 Місяць тому +56

    This song hits so hard! I’m a 36 year old Latino male that’s experiencing a tough break up and this song is purely amazing and hits home. Men do give it their all and get treated bad as well ladies.

    • @DEREKBSHARP
      @DEREKBSHARP Місяць тому +2

      Stay strong! The one LADY is out there waiting on YOU!

    • @jduwayne1
      @jduwayne1 Місяць тому +1

      @livingliferight87: THANK YOU BROTHER ( because we’re all brother) AS A BLACK MAN I FEEL YOUR SENTIMENTS & THIS SONG TOUCHES THAT EMOTION…!

    • @deondrathomas3579
      @deondrathomas3579 28 днів тому +2

      You are absolutely right!!

    • @ZeldaStrachan
      @ZeldaStrachan 26 днів тому

      Love jgkgkg Chez JFK kmhfjwfh kgkgkgmjgjguhjbj kgkgoigj

    • @SherillHigher
      @SherillHigher 25 днів тому +1

      I agree!! I have seem men hurt as well when it comes to relationships with women

  • @quinnb7672
    @quinnb7672 Рік тому +1230

    This song been a classic in my book. Who else agrees???

  • @reogreen1113
    @reogreen1113 3 роки тому +4066

    Dear black women I’m sorry ❤️🙏🏽 You deserve the world!

  • @roxannerobinson4878
    @roxannerobinson4878 5 років тому +2688

    Fully clothe and singing beautifully. Take us back to these times

    • @abeestarr1986
      @abeestarr1986 5 років тому +12

      True

    • @brandondenver4331
      @brandondenver4331 5 років тому +27

      Might I remind you that Lil Kim and Madonna were a thing back then? Enough said.

    • @LarryOnKeys
      @LarryOnKeys 5 років тому +32

      @@brandondenver4331 yes they were but they were a very small minority in comparison to the rest of the field.

    • @diamondkl8583
      @diamondkl8583 5 років тому +5

      💖

    • @JP-en6cn
      @JP-en6cn 5 років тому +5

      Yep

  • @totallytiffany8064
    @totallytiffany8064 Місяць тому +42

    I’m here on a raining night with a candle burning listening to old music thinking about the good old days 😊😌

    • @SanMarinoSwatKat96
      @SanMarinoSwatKat96 22 дні тому +2

      Where I live it doesn't rain that much, but now we are entering winter and the song fits the atmosphere perfectly. I just wonder in which city the video clip was recorded so I can meet it in the future.

    • @JMT1985MO
      @JMT1985MO 13 днів тому +2

      Thinking about the good old days and planning the good days to come.

    • @cindygarnett3090
      @cindygarnett3090 10 днів тому

      Me too but this music will have u on an emotional roller coaster

  • @Divinereality.
    @Divinereality. Рік тому +773

    Here I am 27 years old going through my first heartbreak and I never would have imagined it would be this painful. I pray my daughter never feels this low over a guy 😢

    • @brittanycrosby1551
      @brittanycrosby1551 Рік тому +30

      Girl Same 😩 sending you a virtual hug ❤

    • @Divinereality.
      @Divinereality. Рік тому +13

      @@brittanycrosby1551 thanks sis 🤗 I love you girl. We got this❣️

    • @alexisdarden9646
      @alexisdarden9646 Рік тому +19

      I'm 27 years old and hope my daughter doesn't go through this at all

    • @Divinereality.
      @Divinereality. Рік тому +11

      @@alexisdarden9646 she’ll be fine as long as she has you. A father plays a huge role in a girls life and his emotional support is everything. You got this & I’m rooting for you 😘

    • @dnicednice7038
      @dnicednice7038 Рік тому +24

      Never! Love no one more then you Love GOD!!!❤️🙏🏼

  • @TheRemixstress
    @TheRemixstress 2 роки тому +1558

    Released in 2002, and 20 years later, this song STILL knocks.🔥🔥

    • @alychanewman4354
      @alychanewman4354 2 роки тому +10

      Yes it does

    • @yardieinfrastructures8291
      @yardieinfrastructures8291 2 роки тому +7

      Thank you girl

    • @vincerumlin171
      @vincerumlin171 2 роки тому +21

      All of her music is better than half what's being played now!

    • @briv2403
      @briv2403 Рік тому +10

      From my childhood. This song came out when I was in 4th grade

    • @garfieldlomax5213
      @garfieldlomax5213 Рік тому +7

      @@vincerumlin171 I so totally agree. Heather Headley is red hot with this song.

  • @HairbyTamikaF
    @HairbyTamikaF 3 роки тому +746

    It's crazy how we hear all these songs for years but when you experience this shit....ooooooo it hit different 🤧

    • @stonep8117
      @stonep8117 2 роки тому +17

      Ohhhh, the difference! 🙄 But it's the growth, wisdom & the journey back to yourself. Be well ladies. God bless! 😍

    • @joyhouston9347
      @joyhouston9347 2 роки тому +12

      Every word in this song I've experience I wasted 2o years of my life with a man who cheat,lie and was so disrespectful it's not even funny when I look in the mirror I feel like slap myself.

    • @KeshaNotKaoir
      @KeshaNotKaoir 2 роки тому +11

      I’m going through it RIGHT NOW!

    • @chrissoulful7086
      @chrissoulful7086 2 роки тому +1

      Right

    • @roro_3588
      @roro_3588 2 роки тому

      True💯

  • @laurasammons3924
    @laurasammons3924 Рік тому +263

    Listening to this on repeat. "I wish i could go back to the day before we met so i can skip my regret" that hits hard. They just dont make songs like this anymore.

  • @h3ll0_2
    @h3ll0_2 10 місяців тому +168

    She can act her behind off. She's killing it on "Sweet Magnolias".

    • @yolinedelpe1644
      @yolinedelpe1644 7 місяців тому +1

      Not her on steel magnolias

    • @jeseka2470
      @jeseka2470 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@yolinedelpe1644it is her actually

    • @drieumonay8207
      @drieumonay8207 6 місяців тому +4

      Why I’m over here tryna figure out why she look so familiar

    • @prettyinpinksmith161
      @prettyinpinksmith161 6 місяців тому

      @@jeseka2470 thats Phylicia Rhashad's daughter

    • @natashadaniels2562
      @natashadaniels2562 5 місяців тому +5

      ​@@prettyinpinksmith161 Heather Headley plays Helen on Netfix's Sweet Magnolias

  • @lungelondebele2575
    @lungelondebele2575 5 років тому +1033

    thank God I don't cry when listening to this song anymore

  • @conscioussouthernsoul
    @conscioussouthernsoul 8 років тому +2368

    She was crying while still smiling. That's when you know it's over and she's over it.

  • @christopherneil6522
    @christopherneil6522 Рік тому +705

    Dear black queens 👑 am sorry for all the hurt and pain we put you through whether verbal are emotionally, we're definitely sorry ,my black queens you deserve to pampered everyday,you are the rock in this world, no other can compare to my beautiful black queens, you're one in a million,i am here telling you that we appreciate you 💕

  • @amandalidey329
    @amandalidey329 Місяць тому +22

    Only the broken hearted understand this song, feelings & lyrics. 💞

  • @jessehinton1311
    @jessehinton1311 5 років тому +305

    One of the most underrated, unappreciated artist and song of all time. #SimplyBeautiful

  • @mercedeswilkins5566
    @mercedeswilkins5566 3 роки тому +402

    She is a under appreciated artist. A hit that was totally miss

    • @elsiecharles4815
      @elsiecharles4815 2 роки тому +8

      I totally agree

    • @shamallen8241
      @shamallen8241 2 роки тому +18

      She is really deep in gospel,so eventhough the labels missed watch how God turn it around for her

    • @mercedeswilkins5566
      @mercedeswilkins5566 2 роки тому +6

      @@shamallen8241 yes

  • @TiaraHamilton-
    @TiaraHamilton- 9 місяців тому +60

    I love this song, I use to hear my mother playing it as a child. But now it definitely has a different meaning! Us Black Women deserve to be respected,appreciated and loved too.

  • @lovepurpose5210
    @lovepurpose5210 11 місяців тому +102

    She is simply underrated. She beats everyone of her time. Simply amazing all the way around ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @GarageStudio7
      @GarageStudio7 8 місяців тому +2

      Don't get me wrong, I admire Heather's immense vocal talent but it would be more accurate to say she's among the best of her time.
      Whitney, Mariah, Celine, Lara Fabian are her contemporaries (Lisa Fischer also released her debut album around that time too).
      I don't know about her beating them but I know she's among the best.

  • @levonblack4034
    @levonblack4034 8 років тому +3447

    There are a lot of broken hearts here. It gets better! REAL love finds us when we least expect it...Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. In the mean time; lets love ourselves and enjoy life!

    • @deeexx1056
      @deeexx1056 8 років тому +24

      +Levon Black Very well said , Mr. Black. And very TRUE.

    • @BlessedVivi
      @BlessedVivi 8 років тому +10

      well said..

    • @Speedbraider
      @Speedbraider 8 років тому +34

      Im so glad you wrote this. I needed to see it.

    • @deethomas7747
      @deethomas7747 8 років тому +34

      I Hope it gets better so I can forget him for awhile ,but it's hard when he is the Father of your kids! 😥

    • @levonblack4034
      @levonblack4034 8 років тому +35

      +Dee Thomas I can imagine it being tough, especially factoring in children. Time heals all. Focus on and take care of those babies, I'm sure there is no one you love more than them. It will get better!

  • @TheContentofCory
    @TheContentofCory 3 роки тому +395

    “Why do you want to hurt me so bad?
    I believed in you that’s why I’m so mad😑”
    😭😭😭
    My last relationship

    • @shannahughes6195
      @shannahughes6195 3 роки тому +5

      U will be alright hun

    • @b-mec-him796
      @b-mec-him796 3 роки тому +3

      Me too.. then did sumn I never do... redated him.. smh

    • @TheContentofCory
      @TheContentofCory 3 роки тому +4

      @@b-mec-him796 Ironically my ex just knocked on my door begging me for help. He’s an unmedicated schizotypal. I told him he can’t talk to me unless he gets medicated. So he’s on the streets.

    • @b-mec-him796
      @b-mec-him796 3 роки тому +5

      @@TheContentofCory way ppl snapping nowadays.. may wanna reconsider even if he is medicated.. the world is a strange place now

    • @kihumurofrancis7352
      @kihumurofrancis7352 3 роки тому +2

      But you resemble Brandy are you sisters Frank from Uganda I love the music

  • @serenelibra61
    @serenelibra61 9 місяців тому +54

    There's soooo much emotion in this song.
    Whew, that one line, "I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret." That's a powerful line I've lived through. Thank God this song was out when I needed it the most because in that dark space, I could not put words to the emotions, but this was it!!!! It got me through! God definitely blessed Heather with the power of healing in her voice.
    Not to mention, she's just a beautiful spirit all around.

  • @enzigenes
    @enzigenes Рік тому +149

    This song still punches me in the gut every time I hear it.

    • @dorothyb8041
      @dorothyb8041 Рік тому +4

      And my Heart😢

    • @jermalajones3159
      @jermalajones3159 10 місяців тому

      Me too smh

    • @IENetworkTV
      @IENetworkTV 8 місяців тому +1

      you aren't alone i always say im not gonna cry and I tear up and I a damn man lol

    • @jonj402
      @jonj402 8 місяців тому

      Ditto

    • @billbixby9083
      @billbixby9083 7 місяців тому

      Same here

  • @dayemassey1132
    @dayemassey1132 2 роки тому +410

    The reason good music don't ever get old cuz somebody's going to always experience it through generation and generation.

  • @ruthjenkins242
    @ruthjenkins242 9 років тому +263

    Where did all of our singers go? Heather Headley without a doubt has one of the best and most unique voices out there. In the words of Jennifer Hudson, Heather "where you at?"

    • @valeriebuck3818
      @valeriebuck3818 9 років тому +11

      She took time off to have her baby but is in the studio I hear.

    • @Ntorrence2011
      @Ntorrence2011 9 років тому +3

      She still does music but she does Gospel now

    • @sharqueseialexander8536
      @sharqueseialexander8536 9 років тому +1

      Ikr

    • @darqjade
      @darqjade 9 років тому +13

      Ruth Jenkins Check out her FB page. Last I read, she had the lead role as Whitney's character from The Bodyguard, on Broadway (or something like that). She said it was a dream come true to get to sing these songs live.

    • @juniorslue2335
      @juniorslue2335 7 років тому

      +MovieJunkie ForLife ū

  • @Obitosolosverse
    @Obitosolosverse Місяць тому +9

    15 years old and I'm listening to rnb.. I wish that my generation would listen to this type of music.

  • @garfieldlomax5213
    @garfieldlomax5213 Рік тому +55

    Heather Headley kills it in this song. She is untouchable

  • @Airybabyy24
    @Airybabyy24 3 роки тому +1982

    Do you know how pissed off somebody had to be to say “I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret”. 😂😂💀 I loveeeee this song. 😌

    • @quinnjones1329
      @quinnjones1329 2 роки тому +23

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chulamarie5953
      @chulamarie5953 2 роки тому +63

      I feel this song to the depths of my soul

    • @drjarodishungeats3563
      @drjarodishungeats3563 2 роки тому +20

      Yes, I know! The sad part is even though I know - there are so many times I want to go to the day after I met her. She was incredibly special.

    • @TiffRTR
      @TiffRTR 2 роки тому +16

      I am so glad you clarified that part. I was today years old when I fully heard the lyrics lol

    • @mmoore5190
      @mmoore5190 2 роки тому +10

      @@TiffRTR girl I thought she said screamed my regrets .... I also thought she said I thought I fussed enough w you so you wouldny hurt me 😭😭😭😭

  • @audreywilliams6533
    @audreywilliams6533 4 роки тому +261

    When the tears stop flowing you are healed..🌹

  • @tonyalomax1773
    @tonyalomax1773 Рік тому +180

    It's now 2023, and this song is absolutely awesome. On point and timeless. It should be featured in a motion picture. I'm surprise it wasn't in one of Tyler Perry's movies. It's truly a beautiful song. She spoke for all women.

    • @brianeaddy9600
      @brianeaddy9600 6 місяців тому +5

      Yes it should be in a major motion picture..men and women are going through this every day

    • @CaliDream1886
      @CaliDream1886 4 місяці тому +3

      I was living this when this song came out. To listen to it today brings tears to my eyes. Sadness for the young woman I was then, and tears of joy for the woman I am now.

  • @sharonsingleton9859
    @sharonsingleton9859 Місяць тому +21

    It’s 2024 and I’m still listening 🥰

  • @cyanreedjensen1161
    @cyanreedjensen1161 3 роки тому +401

    “Now I’m drowning in disappointment and it’s hard for me to even look at you.”
    2021 and I’m feeling this in my soul... 💔

  • @darlene457
    @darlene457 5 років тому +2425

    Still listening in 2019. Who else says this is a jam?

  • @RumorsWithMsKay
    @RumorsWithMsKay Місяць тому +6

    Revisiting these old songs now that I’m 28 and they hit so different 😢

  • @lilmama8289
    @lilmama8289 Рік тому +64

    17 years of marriage and 8 children later... This song is the theme song of my life *sighs*

    • @essenceofkace
      @essenceofkace 10 місяців тому +4

      Ohhh no .. I'm so sorry. 15 years 3 kids

    • @videos_1237
      @videos_1237 9 місяців тому +4

      Same 15 years of marriage 4 kids 💔

    • @empress4085
      @empress4085 6 місяців тому

      😔💔

  • @aliadaduncan
    @aliadaduncan 9 років тому +675

    It hurts so bad, especially when you still have hope but they continuously break your heart. Who knew how hard it would be to just let it go, they will never change..

    • @patriciawalker4993
      @patriciawalker4993 9 років тому +1

      It a hard especially when you passed so many opportunities and then you trust fall in love get married and 10 plus. Years later this man start acting like a real @$**** just ain't gonna change they say jails institutions or death. Mrs Florida

    • @kelsimms2401
      @kelsimms2401 9 років тому +4

      Sorry to hear that,sometimes its better to just let go..The pain will be momentarily instead of a lifetime...

    • @kelsimms2401
      @kelsimms2401 9 років тому +5

      ***** We all want to be loved,But the 1s we love the most just don't love us like we deserve..I do hope your situation improves..If he will take the time to prove to you that it can work..Not the fly by night solution of flowers,watered down apology or the stories of the good times....You need present &future

    • @KoldKutta
      @KoldKutta 8 років тому +1

      yo fine ah

    • @daradiant1
      @daradiant1 8 років тому +2

      Amen!

  • @bigcor123
    @bigcor123 2 роки тому +210

    This woman truly knows how to deliver a story! So talented 👏!

    • @wally248
      @wally248 Рік тому +2

      She delivers with a perfect voice

    • @bredabreda884
      @bredabreda884 Рік тому

      One hit wonder

    • @aGwEENapple
      @aGwEENapple 2 місяці тому

      ​@@bredabreda884 she's had quite a few beautiful, frequently played songs

  • @thegirlbehindthemask5308
    @thegirlbehindthemask5308 Рік тому +60

    This song lives in my heart and head rent free. Omg such an amazing song for the broken hearted people.

  • @brandonbrooks7449
    @brandonbrooks7449 Рік тому +32

    You don’t have to be feminine brothers to go through what she’s singing about. It shows that you have a heart of flesh when you feel pain and not a heart of stone! But, we as men also endure pain and suffering behind a meaningful relationship to us. I’m there now. See her at work every night and she treats me like I’m her event or I mistreated her. But it’s all good. I’ll rebound. Stay strong my brothers.

  • @t.ccharles6605
    @t.ccharles6605 3 роки тому +318

    This song will never get old. It will always be in my heart.

  • @chasebroxton743
    @chasebroxton743 4 роки тому +101

    The way she said : "The way you treat me"... I felt that pain. Love is a 2 way street, u open yourself up to getting hurt by loving someone.

    • @charlescoleman3168
      @charlescoleman3168 3 роки тому +1

      That's too,too true but if you don't take the chance with (love) ❤ sometimes comes hurt, but true honest to (God) love (💖)never ever hurts.🌹🌹🌹✔

    • @nicolebyrd6231
      @nicolebyrd6231 3 роки тому +2

      So true

    • @sofiya7453
      @sofiya7453 3 роки тому +1

      Wow 🤩 I got goose bumps on that part the way you treated me like you’re enemy 😎

    • @tanyaharrell688
      @tanyaharrell688 3 роки тому +1

      BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES , LOVE DOESN'T HURT PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T BEEN LOVED PROPERLY HURT, IN EXCHANGE THEY HURT PEOPLE. I'M GOOD BUT LEARNING FINALLY HOW TO BE LOVED

  • @user-uv2ur8wc1e
    @user-uv2ur8wc1e Місяць тому +3

    Hit song a hour an couple minutes to mothers day ❤ happy mother's day to all the wonderful god fearing mothers out there ❤❤❤

  • @islandqueen7342
    @islandqueen7342 Рік тому +64

    She spoke for my heart in this song...even today 2022 😊❤️💯

  • @yaldaboth1889
    @yaldaboth1889 4 роки тому +1278

    If you can relate to this song I pray for your swift healing 🙏🏾❤

  • @darlenescott4165
    @darlenescott4165 6 років тому +752

    I remember crying to this song... I thought I die without you, look at me liviing and breathing without you.

  • @septemberquest6393
    @septemberquest6393 7 місяців тому +15

    It's hard to believe this lovely song ,is at least over 20 years running...it's a beautiful, powerful song still in 2023..the mighty Heather Headley

  • @donhirampick9778
    @donhirampick9778 8 місяців тому +9

    Haven't heard this in soooo many years but listening now in South Africa...man what happened to R&B like this 😢

  • @MrUnique27
    @MrUnique27 2 роки тому +399

    Dear women in general, I'm so sorry for all the hurt men out there that have hurt you out of their pain, please try to forgive them and know that it's not the end of the world, though it feels like it at times, especially when you come in contact with them again. Just know that you're better than what they were going through and it's ok. I Love You, your Black brother.

    • @nicoleburrows2657
      @nicoleburrows2657 2 роки тому +8

      Awwww Joseph thank you for your kind words❤

    • @MrUnique27
      @MrUnique27 2 роки тому +1

      @@nicoleburrows2657 You’re very welcome

    • @MrUnique27
      @MrUnique27 2 роки тому +16

      @@nicoleburrows2657 I love you boo, I love all y’all, I just wish our people would come together and stop allowing our enemies to separate and divide us through sewing hate among us and causing us to hate our people and ourselves.

    • @sunnyhoney7665
      @sunnyhoney7665 2 роки тому +6

      Powerful!

    • @Niqueosaik1998
      @Niqueosaik1998 2 роки тому +3

      This is so sweet, God bless you king 🙏🏾

  • @margomccray6197
    @margomccray6197 2 роки тому +646

    Songs mean so much more when you going through somethings. They just dont make them like they used to. 2021 and still so powerful

  • @daughtaofthesoil3510
    @daughtaofthesoil3510 7 місяців тому +10

    Still beautiful. And then her acting in Sweet Magnolias... just blows your mind. Talent and beauty.

    • @prettyinpinksmith161
      @prettyinpinksmith161 6 місяців тому

      Not her... thats the daughter of Ahmad and Phylicia Rashad

    • @justing.245
      @justing.245 5 місяців тому

      @@prettyinpinksmith161Wrong. That’s definitely her (Heather Headley) playing Helen in Steel Magnolias

  • @sross4158
    @sross4158 Місяць тому +3

    Lyrics was everything!💯

  • @crookskank
    @crookskank 4 роки тому +128

    Goddess. So underappreciated in her day. Bring me back to the golden days of Jill Scott, India Arie, Musiq, Common, Maxwell, Corinne Bailey Rae, etc.

  • @ericasheppard8405
    @ericasheppard8405 3 роки тому +632

    I was mistreated, abused, and manipulated for 6 years. Got up enough courage to walk away but went back. Sometimes God will send you back to show your where you messed up. I’m finally free and will NEVER return back. You can do it!!!

    • @Tiffany_3x
      @Tiffany_3x 3 роки тому +15

      Erica Sheppard ❤
      So sorry what you endured but guess what? You're a survivor with a testimony! 🙌
      God doesn't "send" us back per se, but allows us to make our own decisions. He desires for us to walk in His way in everything. However He will protect us when we make mistakes. He never wants us to be hurt.🕊
      I pray all is well with you currently 🙏

    • @sofiya7453
      @sofiya7453 3 роки тому +9

      You’re right Bc I went back and NOW I’m finally FREE bc NO One should feel any less than anyone else. I went back and my SAVIOR LIVES and I ran for my life and never went back 6mos ago

    • @kaycee9986
      @kaycee9986 3 роки тому +3

      Good girl Erica!🙏

    • @michellefarthing9813
      @michellefarthing9813 3 роки тому +3

      Thank God you found the strength. Many blessings to you ❤🙏😊

    • @kashataylor6430
      @kashataylor6430 3 роки тому +3

      God Bless mines tried to come back after 5 years after I got tired of his 🐂💩. I couldn't SLAM the phone down fast enough. So don't think they may not try to come back when you least expect it. Then you will know u over it.

  • @MrDandanhesourman
    @MrDandanhesourman Рік тому +10

    I, for one, absolutely miss Heather Headley in the world of R&B. Her voice is one of the greatest of all time. She's doing alright for herself nowadays, though.

  • @latanyaanderson-gamble7218
    @latanyaanderson-gamble7218 14 днів тому +1

    I think she's underrated. Beautiful voice and I'm going through exactly what she's singing about!

  • @Michelle03971
    @Michelle03971 4 роки тому +612

    She is the true definition of a soul singer she's acting on a Netflix series Sweet Magnolias and she's amazing I love it

    • @edwardthomas6517
      @edwardthomas6517 4 роки тому +14

      Yes, she is killing it on Netflix

    • @cristmazkatz1921
      @cristmazkatz1921 4 роки тому +15

      Really!!! Thanks for the info....Netflix here I come....lol lol...😂😂😂

    • @agr8tsmile
      @agr8tsmile 4 роки тому +20

      Also on Chicago Med its so good to have and see her acting

    • @heisweets
      @heisweets 3 роки тому +14

      @@agr8tsmile Heather has been acting for Years on Broadway she's an actress and singer with tonys etc so I'm not surprised she's doing well we love her ❤.

    • @sillyjam3081
      @sillyjam3081 3 роки тому +8

      I actually bought her CD back then when this came out along with In My Mind. I wished they played this in Sweet Magnolias really fitting 😣

  • @lovelyt5976
    @lovelyt5976 5 років тому +226

    This is a real love song. She did that well.

    • @bobbyscott5778
      @bobbyscott5778 5 років тому +1

      Yes hun I love it too wow i love it !!!!

    • @qfoster3529
      @qfoster3529 4 роки тому +7

      Lovely T this isn't a love song .....beautiful but not a love song this is the smoothest regret song

  • @shenajoseph743
    @shenajoseph743 Рік тому +26

    This song hits you different when you are older.

  • @hawwahafeez6328
    @hawwahafeez6328 Рік тому +25

    I remember having her CD don't know how I acquired it but I would listen to Me Time on repeat I love her voice very much

  • @chantolnoble4632
    @chantolnoble4632 3 роки тому +94

    It hurts wen u love someone and their action speaks louder than the words that comes from their mouth

  • @temarharriott3739
    @temarharriott3739 4 роки тому +3396

    Who else in here still listening to this 2022❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😭

  • @rodneythomas3110
    @rodneythomas3110 Рік тому +42

    She sang the hell out of this song. That high note towards the end set this song on 🔥

  • @yolanda5756
    @yolanda5756 5 місяців тому +5

    ❤2024 & her work is still classic! Her music will stand the test of time

  • @intelligentthinker8085
    @intelligentthinker8085 4 роки тому +111

    This song is timeless

    • @divaslm1
      @divaslm1 3 роки тому +1

      Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis Production

  • @kimee757
    @kimee757 7 років тому +190

    This song is STILL all that!!!

  • @septemberquest6393
    @septemberquest6393 18 днів тому +2

    Love this song...maybe not the content of the lyrics but Heather's voice and the musical tune is lovely.

  • @tiffanymarie6726
    @tiffanymarie6726 7 місяців тому +11

    2023 & this song nvr gets old..🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰

  • @stoneystoney4327
    @stoneystoney4327 4 роки тому +188

    “ I Wish I Wasn’t In Love With You , So You Couldn’t Hurt Me...”
    Who’s here 2020 ❤️

  • @cravingsweets
    @cravingsweets 8 років тому +556

    this song is the truth😢putting hope and energy into the wrong one...been there...never again...I'd rather be happily single

    • @sierria64
      @sierria64 8 років тому +18

      BEEN THERE AND FELT THIS BEFORE.. I HAD TO COME TO REALIZE THAT HE TREATED ME THAT WAY CUZ I ALLOWED IT. ONE DAY I STOPPED CALLING AND DID NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS WHEN HE CALLED. TREATMENT HE DID TO ME TIME TO TIME . .. ALL THE MESAGES I LEFT AND HE DID NOTE RETURN MY CALLS .. ONLY WHEN HE WANTED A BOOTY CALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN WHEN HE SUSPECTED THE TRUTH ... I TOLD HIM I WAS MOVING ON AND MET SOMEONE ELSE.. HE WAS SHOCKED.... AND HE FELT ALL THAT I FELT ..LOL.. I SAID I WISH YOU WELL... I MARRIED THE NEW GUY THAT I MET AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 16 YEARS NOW... HE WAS THE BEST MAN AND REALLY LOVED ME...THREE KIDS LATER .. STILL IN LOVE....I WISH THAT I WAS'NT IN LOVE WITH HIM.... BUT GLAD THE RIGHT GUY CAME BY TO SHOW ME REAL LOVE... LADIES ITS EASY FOR A MAN WHEN HE DOES NOT CARE.. HE FEELS NOTHING ALTHOUGH HE KNOWS we AS A WOMEN deserve better FROM HIM.them).. there is true love out there ladies..
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    • @moonstar247
      @moonstar247 8 років тому +12

      thats is so true you get tired or being sick and tired.

    • @marcellusraines3892
      @marcellusraines3892 7 років тому +8

      Silent prayer

    • @chelseabone9238
      @chelseabone9238 7 років тому +22

      that's right. I don't like being single. but I would rather be happily single than very miserable, and feel like I am giving my all, while the guy is giving, nor putting an ounce of energy in the relationship itself.

    • @kimdavis9908
      @kimdavis9908 6 років тому +3

      +Chelsea Bone I agree just do you and be happy.

  • @iammrcarter5099
    @iammrcarter5099 Рік тому +21

    its 2022 and this song is still an amazing song, we all can relate to the lyrics. I wish healing on anyone hurting right now and may unconditional love, understanding and most importantly peace of mind find you.

  • @divinegaming4295
    @divinegaming4295 5 місяців тому +3

    Her eyes in this video spoke everything I needed to hear and the song just put it all into words! I’m a great eye reader and I read all of those emotions!

  • @doriefann-purry4750
    @doriefann-purry4750 7 років тому +149

    Happy Birthday Heather Headley
    born October 5, 1974
    R&B and soul singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. She has won one Tony Award and one Grammy Award.

    • @PinkPanther_947
      @PinkPanther_947 7 років тому +4

      Dorie Fann-Purry I'm month older than her Libra Squad♎

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 6 років тому +4

      Libras rocks!!!! Oct 4 1985 here

    • @PinkPanther_947
      @PinkPanther_947 6 років тому

      chocoholicSISTA263 Heather Headley is a Libra

    • @PinkPanther_947
      @PinkPanther_947 6 років тому

      FullyCommitted Jones Happy Belated Birthday🎈🎁💕♥💚💟💗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🎆🎇🍨🎂💃❤💙💜💞

    • @PinkPanther_947
      @PinkPanther_947 6 років тому +2

      chocoholicSISTA263 Stop being dumb for once I know you are a fan but Libra starts on my birthday September 23rd ends on October 22nd you just can't change astrology don't work like that She's a Libra ♎♎♎♎♎

  • @ljay6138
    @ljay6138 9 років тому +106

    She is so underrated to me ... she is one of the best

  • @SherwinWeekes
    @SherwinWeekes Місяць тому +2

    It's has been a classic and always will be very beautiful song

  • @meghanfox4491
    @meghanfox4491 Рік тому +14

    The white girl appreciates this song too 😂❤

  • @shanicejackson1252
    @shanicejackson1252 4 роки тому +661

    Who else still listening this in 2020 🔥😭😭❤️❤️🥰

  • @jcrx211
    @jcrx211 3 роки тому +237

    Almost two years later and here I am still healing. Who knew love could take such a toll 😩😂

    • @Flash-zg2ho
      @Flash-zg2ho 3 роки тому +4

      A lot of us 🤧

    • @oliverjackson9008
      @oliverjackson9008 3 роки тому +8

      It is so painful.

    • @honeybee3685
      @honeybee3685 2 роки тому +6

      3 years for me...I'm still trying...

    • @alishar2827
      @alishar2827 2 роки тому +6

      Love is the greatest emotion ever until its gone. Then it's becomes the worse. But loving means we a living @allie04Rose

    • @PeopleWithPaula
      @PeopleWithPaula 2 роки тому +7

      In Kenya 🇰🇪 they’ve coined a word for heartbreak 💔 we call it “Character Development “ because the person really is developing your character so you can heal from it and move on ❤️‍🩹 😩🥰

  • @yannayang3649
    @yannayang3649 2 місяці тому +2

    Adult me appreciate this song wayyyyy moreeeee

  • @laxaviermallory6569
    @laxaviermallory6569 11 місяців тому +12

    I’ve had this song on repeat for the past couple days going thru a breakup it’s been a month but it sends chills thru my body how did you know my story maaam 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @rihannaforever388
    @rihannaforever388 7 років тому +108

    please come back music like this i miss you

    • @gobanene7461
      @gobanene7461 5 років тому +1

      rihanna forever they don’t make “it” no more🙁.

  • @dannidoll21
    @dannidoll21 7 років тому +175

    I remember I couldn't wait to hear this song on the radio back in day on the quiet storm. Ahh bring back so many memories!

    • @josephplummer5503
      @josephplummer5503 7 років тому +3

      Me too i was in. Michigan city,Ind. right by Chicago wgci quite storm at night omg

    • @lametriavirgo2845
      @lametriavirgo2845 7 років тому +3

      SweetPetiteBelle 😅😅 so true! I remember the days!

    • @hopee.968
      @hopee.968 6 років тому +2

      SweetPetiteBelle me too. :)

  • @April-201
    @April-201 3 місяці тому +7

    2024 still hits ❤

  • @user-jn6or5re6d
    @user-jn6or5re6d 4 місяці тому +2

    Heather Headley is truly a Gem 💎

  • @nomfundohlongwane2376
    @nomfundohlongwane2376 5 років тому +70

    Omg 😭💔 I never thought I’d relate to this song. I was very young when this came out

  • @songserenade2210
    @songserenade2210 7 років тому +163

    The price we pay for love is sometimes devastating,but it is what it is.!!! A gorgeous gem of a song about love and anguish.Classic.

  • @cyndiabrown6299
    @cyndiabrown6299 7 днів тому +1

    My husband pass seven months now forty five years…gave him,he gave me & now heaven is his home….our home on earth isn’t my home anymore. Give yr mate yr all & all & have no regrets.

  • @ladiviv8466
    @ladiviv8466 Рік тому +7

    Why is that when youre going through a breakup all the lyrics in these songs fit the way you feel...I cant wait to feel better right now it just simply hurts and I dont have any more words😔

  • @danielbarrett1558
    @danielbarrett1558 5 років тому +1172

    Who else listen to this 2019? I do 😊😍🤗🤗🤗

  • @catchthisbuck
    @catchthisbuck 9 років тому +698

    Sucks to ever feel this way, especially when you're still in it and got 10 years invested.

    • @1220AXB
      @1220AXB 9 років тому +8

      Bro u ain't Neva LIED

    • @MrSlimbro
      @MrSlimbro 9 років тому +3

      Greg it does get better

    • @1220AXB
      @1220AXB 9 років тому

      Were is she anyway

    • @MrSlimbro
      @MrSlimbro 9 років тому +2

      Greg I've been through it . it will get better

    • @corias5868
      @corias5868 9 років тому

      I like what u said

  • @remonicaross7235
    @remonicaross7235 Рік тому +6

    THANK YOU FOR THIS SONG, HEATHER!! IT REALLY HELPED ME IN 2003 UNTIL 2014!! A CLASS ACT WITH A BEAUTIFUL VOICE.

  • @marshaleedowner4971
    @marshaleedowner4971 Рік тому +7

    This song never gets old one of 🙏 the worlds greatest hits....🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @robinbell2327
    @robinbell2327 5 років тому +694

    When God remove people from your life let them go
    They can hurt more staying than leaving
    Accept your worth
    I’m here June of 2019
    I love this song

    • @Thollis1987
      @Thollis1987 4 роки тому +8

      Yes thank you!

    • @lovingmylife9415
      @lovingmylife9415 4 роки тому +8

      Wow!! Lesson learned again

    • @jalisachandler9455
      @jalisachandler9455 4 роки тому +4

      Robin Bell thank you, I needed to see this

    • @charlinerichardson8918
      @charlinerichardson8918 4 роки тому +4

      AMEN

    • @gailsmith1269
      @gailsmith1269 4 роки тому +1

      I love my r&b, and Heather headly is the best! She songs well, and is the best. I can sing and she is the perfect sound. There is no one like her now. Where are our new r&b singers real singers. Where are the real live bands? People that played keys, rhythm guitar, drums and horns. Where are our young black musicians? For some groups. Thats the best team. Well I will now listen to tamia and Macey gray of course whitney. Love to all, and God bless us all g

  • @Teflon_tone
    @Teflon_tone 8 років тому +236

    You can literally feel how this could be so painful for someone even if you not in the same situation

    • @kristibarrett1976
      @kristibarrett1976 8 років тому +12

      no one ever wants this kind of pain... for sure

    • @staciadaniel3080
      @staciadaniel3080 8 років тому

      very sad song

    • @kayciagordon4696
      @kayciagordon4696 8 років тому +4

      +ToneEsco
      been there. it was wicked. it still drives me crazy every time i think about it. i wish i didn't still love him

    • @jayessy1
      @jayessy1 8 років тому +3

      apparently 638 people have no feelings

    • @catricayoungblood6758
      @catricayoungblood6758 8 років тому +5

      +Jay Jose ... that is the 660 people that hasn't been really in love yet.

  • @donaldvassell
    @donaldvassell 2 місяці тому +4

    2024 song still is blazing

  • @samukeshelembe1113
    @samukeshelembe1113 16 днів тому +1

    I’m down on bended knees, requested that we go back to this R ‘n B… have artists recording music videos in the rain 🥹🥰

  • @clarencehenderson7634
    @clarencehenderson7634 4 роки тому +635

    Who's still listening in 2020? I am 👍

  • @PMChannel.
    @PMChannel. 8 років тому +24

    Whitney Houston note @ 3:39.....Heather Headley has a magnificient voice. Her voice conveys all the frailties of a relationship, the anger, the getting over it. Very pretty voice and tone is so deep, soft, melodic. Perfect job by Heather. She is a beautiful woman.

  • @alexkeuning5736
    @alexkeuning5736 Місяць тому +2

    I still Love this song. Heather is Amazing.

  • @2kidslynn
    @2kidslynn 7 місяців тому +6

    These lyrics!!! 🔥 Song is so good!! ❤