Tiffany Haddish Opens Up About Split With Common Saying "It Wasn't Mutual"

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  • @UnrulyRebel-hd2pl
    @UnrulyRebel-hd2pl Рік тому +147

    Common was like I was here for a good time not a long one 😂

    • @GlendaleAcres910
      @GlendaleAcres910 Рік тому +8

      Why does she keep mentioning it?! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Uh

    • @clwxrf6007
      @clwxrf6007 Рік тому +2

      @@GlendaleAcres910She’s not over it? Plus, they keep asking her because they know they will get a good reaction.

    • @datsapaddlin
      @datsapaddlin Рік тому +8

      Common probably hit her with the “It’s not you it’s me…” 😂

    • @positivevibesyo
      @positivevibesyo Рік тому +3

      ​@@datsapaddlinThat lightskin ish. Lol

    • @jrmarshall120
      @jrmarshall120 Рік тому +2

      @@GlendaleAcres910 , cause she was fallen in love for Common after being with him for probably 5 minutes

  • @Lab90production
    @Lab90production Рік тому +651

    I’ll say this. Just because one person says it was perfect doesn’t mean the same for the other.

    • @coreyedmonds815
      @coreyedmonds815 Рік тому +15

      PREACH!

    • @2sideZ16
      @2sideZ16 Рік тому +7

      Facts

    • @KC-rb4gv
      @KC-rb4gv Рік тому +26

      Exactly. I’ve been in friendships and they think we were perfect friends but it was hell for me and I was willing to let it go

    • @spythe
      @spythe Рік тому +20

      I honestly don't think most women realize the type of stuff a men puts up with just being with them.
      Of course women do as well, but its to a different level
      I like how their all sitting around pretending Tiffany wasn't a character to deal with.... she seems like A LOT

    • @mscardioqueen
      @mscardioqueen Рік тому +20

      But, why a text?

  • @MozzieMutant
    @MozzieMutant Рік тому +164

    “I’m not going out like that”. I don’t know about that. I’ve learnt you can’t control other people’s feelings. So there isn’t really anything you can do when they wake up and decide they don’t love you anymore.

    • @SolarLove7
      @SolarLove7 Рік тому +20

      This is why a lot of partners kill their lovers who trying to leave because “They not going out like that” so a lot of people do know about that.

    • @tiffanierichardson7514
      @tiffanierichardson7514 Рік тому +2

      I agree….one thing I’ve learned is you can’t predict nor say what another person won’t do. You have to be careful making comments about what you won’t do or what what someone won’t do to you. Some people really do not care and will do whatever to you.

    • @kathydb613
      @kathydb613 Рік тому +6

      Yeah... I thought that was a weird thing to say. You can't control others!

    • @tashafrasha
      @tashafrasha Рік тому +4

      I think she's insinuating that she would see the signs/listen before something like that were to happen to her OR she doesn't allow herself to get emotionally involved

    • @kathydb613
      @kathydb613 Рік тому +1

      @tashafrasha Yeah perhaps. I was thrown off a bit. But what you said makes more sense.

  • @pward00
    @pward00 Рік тому +32

    Common has made it clear that he doesn't want have more children. He already has an adult child and doesn't want to be a parent again. Tiffany wants children, so eventually the relationship would have to end b/c they're on different pages. People have to be in relationships with others who they're compatible and have the same values.

  • @cjgameon264
    @cjgameon264 Рік тому +187

    Common has always been one of my favorite MCs. His messages in rap has always been positive, especially when it comes to black women and the empowerment of black women. That said, Common is, indeed, a true player at heart. Taraji P said the same thing about Common, along wit Serena and so many other "top notches" that Common has had. It's like when it's time or should be time to take it to the next level, in terms of an engagement, Common will call it quits. I remember when Taraji P was on the BC and she was saying how Common got extremely close wit her son and when they broke up, she was very hurt because she didn't understand why they broke up. She said the same thing, like the relationship ran its course and when Common came on the BC and they played him the clip, he couldn't give a reason as to why they broke up but he was the one who initiated the breakup. He is always the one who initiates the breakup. Why? *"HE'S A PLAYER."* Common even went as far as to say who had the better catalog, when it comes to have had the best/most notable women (I think it was between him and Drake. CTG had asked Common that question and Common was going down the list like it was all good). But because of his "pro black/conscious stance/keep your head up" type persona, he won't directly say those words (I'm a player) but he is.

    • @sebastienmarvonhalen1166
      @sebastienmarvonhalen1166 Рік тому +26

      Or maybe he is a gentleman and he hasn't spoken about the behavior of these rich entitled women who always think they are the ish. All the wealthy women that I mix with( My wife's friends) thinks the world revolves around them.

    • @901_inspired
      @901_inspired Рік тому +40

      Maybe the brother got commitment issues and don’t wanna speak on it.

    • @cjgameon264
      @cjgameon264 Рік тому +11

      ​@@sebastienmarvonhalen1166maybe..... maybe BUT if you watch the Common Breakfast Club interview, he was talking like, "my dating resume is STACKED! It's better than Drake!" CTG brought up the past beef that him and Common had and CTG brought up Serena Williams and that's how the conversation started but who knows....

    • @DB-hz2os
      @DB-hz2os Рік тому +11

      ​@cjgameon264 yall are running off assumptions because he carries himself as a gentleman who will never throw the women under the bus. Many of these celebrity women are beautiful but have many many issues and it takes time for them to show their true selves. And because Common carries himself that way, I don't see a scenario likely that he's just trying to lead women on just to play them for sex and drop them. He's Common! He could have any woman he wants but wisdom is picking wisely. And his whole past is filled with women that have shown over time they are very problematic & lack the characteristics to be stable in relationships.

    • @imayeseekay
      @imayeseekay Рік тому +5

      You typed a whole dissertation off of a rumor & hearsay.
      You have other issues.

  • @minalove6582
    @minalove6582 Рік тому +28

    I don't want Tiffany to talk about this anymore. It went down like that, it's natural to be hurt, take a week if you have to but no more than a month, “rejection is God’s protection”. Time to let go, let God, and make space for the new.

    • @DeeniceDee
      @DeeniceDee Рік тому +2

      I agree with you.. she needs to concentrate on getting her credibility back and to get back in the limelight of Hollywood.

    • @moonsyoungestsun6550
      @moonsyoungestsun6550 11 місяців тому +1

      I agree. She should have just let people continue to wonder what went wrong between them. Just vent to a few friends, cry it out and act like she's over it to the public. No need to let total strangers all over the world know your pain and then have them make comments analyzing their relationship.
      But what happens when you do let go but that person flaunts their new life in your face, trying ti make you jealous and knowing it probably hurts? Plus, they find an excuse to reach out after years of no contact, only to bring up the past you had with them and then insult you because of hurt they think you inflicted on them?

  • @thebenevolentpatriarch424
    @thebenevolentpatriarch424 Рік тому +417

    I want to hear Common's side of the story

  • @coreyedmonds815
    @coreyedmonds815 Рік тому +90

    Very disingenuous to call it “love bombing” when you didn’t want to change or chose to ignore signs AND discussions. I’ve been there…I’ve been the bad guy, after two years of identifying things I wouldn’t tolerate (lying, being deceptive, etc.) and I lovingly broke it off. She then made me the bad guy.

    • @iamtherealest2everdoit
      @iamtherealest2everdoit Рік тому +7

      You don't know if that was the case though. That is an assumption on your part.

    • @Ray-uv4sk
      @Ray-uv4sk Рік тому

      💯

    • @wilsonmatt781
      @wilsonmatt781 Рік тому +4

      That's what women do. No matter what, she will always make the guy our to be the bad person.

    • @DB-hz2os
      @DB-hz2os Рік тому +5

      Anyone who believes the "it's all his fault and I did nothing" narrative is a fool.

    • @mscstapleton
      @mscstapleton Рік тому +5

      2 years doesn't equate love bombing

  • @ChristyJoiner
    @ChristyJoiner Рік тому +73

    My 1st husband left going to work and never came back. I had no clue he was unhappy. He was affectionate and loving even on the day he left. I was 8 months pregnant with a 3 yr old. I called the police thinking he was dead or hurt, but truth was, he hadn't paid any of the bills in months, and he had taken ALL of the money from the account except $2.16. After 3 days, an eviction notice was on the door, and day 4, lights turned off! Four things I learned: 1. God is real 2. never be with anyone CAPABLE of disappearing (including ghosting) 3. pay my own bills, 4. trust but verify.

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 Рік тому +19

      Whoa! That's just evil. We're you able to get help from family and friends then sue him? Either way I truly hope you were able to bounce back.

    • @ptk4392
      @ptk4392 Рік тому +7

      Must've found out those weren't his kids

    • @VGMDK1999
      @VGMDK1999 Рік тому +2

      Damn!

    • @geraldtone5914
      @geraldtone5914 Рік тому

      You should be offended he left you $2.16 You can't even get a Welch's grape juice with that.

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 Рік тому

      Geeeesh imagine

  • @BFick478
    @BFick478 Рік тому +23

    I enjoyed Lauren on the show!! Never heard of her but she did a great job and fit right in

  • @smo0chi3
    @smo0chi3 Рік тому +41

    Lol common puts women thru what Erykah did to him 😂

    • @JoysWorld2002
      @JoysWorld2002 Рік тому +1

      They are both Pisces (Badu and Common) we tend to run when we feel smothered or trapped. Don’t make it right but I get it….

    • @kelsblair5963
      @kelsblair5963 Рік тому +4

      @@JoysWorld2002it’s dumb and y’all shouldn’t date people until y’all mature period

    • @Fgaentertainment
      @Fgaentertainment Рік тому +1

      ​@Dayosworld as a Pisces to be honest we are not serious people

    • @grega1972
      @grega1972 Рік тому

      Yea both are Pisces , He done ran thru women and she can't be taken serious

    • @Gxport
      @Gxport 11 місяців тому

      @@Fgaentertainmentspeak for yourself.

  • @nolinpowe
    @nolinpowe Рік тому +33

    This has definitely happened to me, I remember I when I was working I was thinking to myself how things were progressing for me and my girlfriend at the time, to the point to where I was ready to cut all my female friends out & get a second job so me & her could get our own place and then she sent a text saying I think we should take a break and just focus on being friends and then I found out a week later that she was in a new relationship and then I also found out that they have been dating while we were in a relationship. That was 6 years ago and I look back and see it as a life lesson to never rush into any type of relationship & to love myself fully first before I get into any type of relationship

    • @HH-gv8mx
      @HH-gv8mx Рік тому +1

      My boyfriend of 4 years Left to go to work and just never came home. There was no conversation, there was no fight. He just left. I was completely blindsided and devastated. Apparently he quit his job the day he left me. I will never understand why

  • @2centsfreelancer
    @2centsfreelancer Рік тому +48

    That never happened to me before. I haven’t broke up w/ someone over the phone since high school lol. That’s a lack of decency.

    • @TCthaCrisis
      @TCthaCrisis Рік тому +15

      People are allowed to do what they want. It isn't a handbook on to break up

    • @2centsfreelancer
      @2centsfreelancer Рік тому +26

      @@TCthaCrisis whatever makes you feel better lol. It’s still a lack of decency however you put it, if you in relationship w/ a person 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @romegrey2600
      @romegrey2600 Рік тому +7

      We don't know the details. Maybe he communicated to her and she didn't take it so he used texting to make her have to see it's real. We ALL KNOW Tiffany is a little crazy so maybe Common didn't want a back and forth. Who knows? Let's hear his side at least

    • @Nedo_ao
      @Nedo_ao Рік тому +3

      ​@@TCthaCrisisYeah a break up is a break up, no matter how it comes. People want a perfect break up

    • @2centsfreelancer
      @2centsfreelancer Рік тому +4

      @@romegrey2600let’s stop! You assuming a lot just like you assuming she crazy lol. Unless you feel like your life danger, even then you can do it public and bring someone. But I’ll understand if a person want to do it over the phone if they feel like theylll be physical harm

  • @razorbldromance83
    @razorbldromance83 Рік тому +80

    So Envy and them are just going to ignore that Tiffany was the only one speaking marriage and asking for ridiculous marriage proposals? Common saw her weirdo behavior and dipped tf out

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss Рік тому +3

      Explain the hundreds of other women then? Oh ok 😂 plus he announced that he’s was a narcissist as if we needed that 😅

    • @2sideZ16
      @2sideZ16 Рік тому +4

      appreciate women like you who actually pay attention to details and don't just go by the first thing you hear

    • @2sideZ16
      @2sideZ16 Рік тому +2

      ​@@dinkybosseverything you just said is irrelevant because she said out of her own mouth that she thought things were perfect and could not be any better if it was up to her they would still be together so obviously there was no issue with other women or anything like that

    • @entertainingsportshighligh7525
      @entertainingsportshighligh7525 Рік тому +1

      FACTS !!!!!

    • @truthteller7357
      @truthteller7357 Рік тому +1

      He was gonna dipped anyways she just speed up the relationship to be over real fast

  • @lw7379
    @lw7379 Рік тому +108

    Common has been consistent with his pattern for literal YEARS. He briefly dates high profile women, and then moves on. Why would Tiffany ignore his pattern, and be surprised by him doing what he does? Did she really think she was going to change this 50 yr old man’s pattern? I want to give her a hug because I know she is hurting. Sorry this happened Tiffany, u deserved more compassion.

    • @markville1061
      @markville1061 Рік тому +13

      the kids on madtv deserve more compassion than tiff’s love life but go off

    • @user-dv3kq3rm4h
      @user-dv3kq3rm4h Рік тому +6

      @@markville1061 You took the words out of my mouth!

    • @keyfield8967
      @keyfield8967 Рік тому +5

      Dude probably gets nervous when relationship becomes more serious...so he bounces...

    • @zbest1eva
      @zbest1eva Рік тому +2

      He's with JHud now and she's made it abundantly clear, she's not interested in marriage.

    • @highdesertsukari
      @highdesertsukari Рік тому +2

      I don't think he's a love bomber... I think he's searching for a project.

  • @azizamyers3520
    @azizamyers3520 Рік тому +23

    They need to come out with a reality show called Surviving Common... its getting ridiculous

  • @chezronstevenson6825
    @chezronstevenson6825 Рік тому +10

    Uncle CTG's, "Maybe he just wanted to do right by his wife," sounded like it came from personal experience. 🤣🤣
    I appreciate the growth and accountability 👍🏾

  • @love_lenia18
    @love_lenia18 Рік тому +61

    Charlemagne gone make me crack up every time 😂😂😂😂
    But on the real us women tend to live in a fantasy when it comes to relationships and love. 8 years no ring it was clear she wasnt the one.

    • @PomegranatesWeather
      @PomegranatesWeather Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂 all truth woman 👩🏿 👏🏿 😂❤ we do be in a complete other world 😂

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 Рік тому +1

      @@PomegranatesWeather I'm honestly confused about something. How can a woman be engaged to a man and suddenly start dating a woman ?

    • @ParisTheGreat
      @ParisTheGreat Рік тому

      ​@@tonyalston4838Bc all women a lil gay. Every woman I know has had they coochie ate by another woman or ate some coochie but not every dude I know has slept with another dude or sucked a dudes oui oui. But they call us "Zesty" for wearing shorts. Okay! 😂😂😂

    • @love_lenia18
      @love_lenia18 Рік тому +3

      @@tonyalston4838 I’m not sure 🤔 I don’t care what I go through in a relationship with a man I’m not eating no coochie

  • @Nedo_ao
    @Nedo_ao Рік тому +13

    Shit most relationship break ups aren't mutual, kinda shit are we talking about. All relationships aren't going to work

    • @TCthaCrisis
      @TCthaCrisis Рік тому

      RIGHT

    • @RoRo_X2
      @RoRo_X2 Рік тому +1

      At least he broke it off rather than dragging it out and cheating. He could’ve gave a call besides a text but he still had the decency to break it off.

  • @WiltChainburland
    @WiltChainburland Рік тому +11

    Charla just made me burst out laughing at work 😂😂 4:57

  • @Cmarie118
    @Cmarie118 Рік тому +8

    Breakups don't have to be mutual...

  • @michellesettles-doughty407
    @michellesettles-doughty407 Рік тому +26

    This the same thing he did to the girl right before he started dating Tiffany. I think he does this to women Bc Erykah Badu did the same thing to him, so it’s like let me get them before they get me🤷🏽‍♀️ Bc Common was devastated when Erykah dumped him!

    • @2sideZ16
      @2sideZ16 Рік тому +3

      Or he could be you know just having fun and living his life no one is forcing these women to get with him they all know the backstory of his past relationships I mean it's public information there's no rule that says he's not allowed to break up with anyone

    • @yourmotherheaux
      @yourmotherheaux Рік тому

      Damn that's some tea 🍵 ♨️

    • @dn30001
      @dn30001 Рік тому +2

      before that, Andre did that to Erykah.... all is fair in love and war

    • @libyajones4578
      @libyajones4578 Рік тому +2

      Read Common's first book...he said he was distancing himself from Erykah...she spoke to him about it...then moved on

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Рік тому

      ​@@2sideZ16Tiffany shouldn't have put that much effort into Common . She must have thought she was different

  • @sirrmanning2769
    @sirrmanning2769 Рік тому +88

    That was me prior to marriage. Treating women with the utmost respect in all phases of their lives and I was always honest. When I was ready to move on I did. Those ladies hated it and some of them became hella ignant about it. At some point during the relationship/friendship, we have to start having true conversations so that everyone is on the same page.

    • @2good2leaveunow
      @2good2leaveunow Рік тому +10

      Yes, but as a grown man, a break up via text?

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam Рік тому +1

      Women HATE rejection. Do you know why the app Bumble built business and friendship parts? Because the women's number one complaint about the app was being rejected. It made them not want to use it.
      The whole premise of the app is women reaching out first and they do not like experiencing a man not choose them. Now imagine being chosen and disposed when that's the attitude.

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 Рік тому

      @@MrColdwilliam- That’s because women should pursue men. It’s not natural.

  • @jlobryan6566
    @jlobryan6566 Рік тому +12

    That sounds like those instances when a person is starting to not enjoy the relationship anymore, but choose not to communicate their feelings. When it has run its course in their head, that’s when they communicate it. They think that the hints they drop were clear, but they don’t come straight out with their feelings until they are completely over their partner.

    • @ebbyc1817
      @ebbyc1817 Рік тому +1

      I remember seeing them in an interview when they were still, in, the relationship. Grown people over 40. Their body language was like two school children too shy to act like they like each other. They were not even touching, just lots of smiling. It was very weird. I don't think they were as emotionally intimate as Tiffany thought they were. Her standards for intimacy are probably really low.

    • @moonsyoungestsun6550
      @moonsyoungestsun6550 11 місяців тому

      @@ebbyc1817 If a guy is emotionally intimate with his wife, does that mean that he should not still be carrying deep anger and hurt from a past relationship? Also, doesn't it mean that he should not feel the need to reach out to the ex and lash out at her about anything from tge past? So, in other words, shouldn't the love and emotional intimacy he has for his wife make him not even care about any hurt he experienced with his ex?

  • @HeartracerX
    @HeartracerX Рік тому +23

    There's always more to the story. Tiffany is controlling the narrative by playing the victim. He saw something in her that was a deal breaker for him and was polite enough to let her go without going into detail. She's probably in a self-reflecting mode that hopefully will bring her to another level of consciousness.

    • @MrScans1
      @MrScans1 Рік тому +5

      I earnestly think it's Common. He has a pattern. No person is perfect. I don't know either person , but some people intentions aren't long term. Some time people will sale forever to get the other person. IJS

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 Рік тому

      Sorry but if she was asked a question was she supposed to lie?

  • @brendamacklin6044
    @brendamacklin6044 Рік тому +10

    This has never happened to me and I can only imagine that she’s been hurt. I hope she can recover from this and move on

  • @delightfullchefeatz8864
    @delightfullchefeatz8864 Рік тому +5

    I've been through this, and it hurts a lot. Someone who is giving you the best of them deserves more. It's a real mind f. It was really confusing.

  • @mikelarryy5
    @mikelarryy5 Рік тому +4

    “I’m not going out like that” is crazy talk..

  • @gilliancottlemathurin8446
    @gilliancottlemathurin8446 Рік тому +49

    I have read Tiffany’s book and can imagine after domestic violence,serious stalking,possessiveness all the other craziness and trauma in her life, suddenly here is someone who makes you feel so invigoratingly alive in every possible way to have that just vanish must have been incredibly hard. Many people would never recover from a mental/physical knockout like that. Tiffany must have thought she just woke up from a really realistic dream 😢

    • @blissdad13
      @blissdad13 Рік тому +3

      Lmao. You can't be serious.

    • @dmvbawse4265
      @dmvbawse4265 Рік тому +1

      @@blissdad13I know lol it’s insanity

    • @blissdad13
      @blissdad13 Рік тому +4

      @@dmvbawse4265 she just wrote a whole lifetime movie lmao.. women's imaginations are a sight to behold.

    • @angieangiel2666
      @angieangiel2666 Рік тому +1

      Her ex husband said she lied about him abusing her.

    • @dmvbawse4265
      @dmvbawse4265 Рік тому

      @@angieangiel2666 are we really surprised?.

  • @BlaqDynomite
    @BlaqDynomite Рік тому +59

    There are ALWAYS signs someone isn’t happy in a relationship so none of you are blindsided, you just wasn’t paying attention or listening. Also, it really doesn’t matter how a person breaks up with you, when it’s over, it’s over. Rather it’s a nice or rude break up, it’s over. Take your time to heal up and move on.

    • @im4real72
      @im4real72 Рік тому

      Breakfast club stop bringing on these women with all this masculine energy.

    • @nunyabusiness3516
      @nunyabusiness3516 Рік тому

      Facts 💯

    • @TheBlackDorothyZbornak
      @TheBlackDorothyZbornak Рік тому +8

      Serious question...why does "Rather" and "Whether" confuse you? They are not homonyms and do not mean anywhere near the same thing!

    • @empressorius
      @empressorius Рік тому +1

      ​@@TheBlackDorothyZbornak Hilarious comment! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @SoulBeauty1111
      @SoulBeauty1111 Рік тому

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @jameswade9202
    @jameswade9202 Рік тому +8

    Common displayed COMMON SENSE. Salute to the brother. 🫡

  • @TC-sl3wz
    @TC-sl3wz Рік тому +12

    I think you should date to find out what you like and don’t like, but people shouldn’t give false hope.
    It’s hurtful when someone leaves you, but I rather someone tell me and move on.

  • @talishak100
    @talishak100 Рік тому +6

    Common is a F boy just like Loren said. He knew Tiffany was wanting to just be friends in the beginning, they both told the story. Also, everyone knows her story of being abandoned and being a foster kid. The least he could have done was to break things off with class, but instead he gave her the Eric Badu treatment. SMH

    • @TCthaCrisis
      @TCthaCrisis Рік тому

      I knew right away you were a woman.

  • @rhonnieminnie
    @rhonnieminnie Рік тому +146

    I had literally the same thing happen to me. Had a wonderful healthy relationship...then out the blue he called and said it wasn't working. We never fought. We agreed on about 85% of things....he never talked to me again 🤷🏾‍♀️. I had to do 2x a week therapy because it made no sense. Then i learned about dismissive avoidant, which Common's therapist said he was.
    They literally blindside you with an abrupt break up with little explanation and act like you never existed. Its very painful 😔

    • @designzbyjulez9838
      @designzbyjulez9838 Рік тому +32

      Tiffany, is too Goofy she has to know when to turn it off!

    • @princerose233
      @princerose233 Рік тому +13

      Didn't she say common wasn't her type. Now she is wondering why she got dumped?

    • @Pugetwitch
      @Pugetwitch Рік тому +13

      I was just going to say he's clearly a narcissist who's never been forced to have to look at the roots of his trauma and deal with the shadow work.

    • @Pugetwitch
      @Pugetwitch Рік тому +7

      ​@@designzbyjulez9838what the hell does that have to do with the point that's being made here in this comment?

    • @jackieblue4128
      @jackieblue4128 Рік тому +29

      He found someone else he liked more

  • @MsJoiBella
    @MsJoiBella Рік тому +5

    Apparently this actually happens way more then what people realize. I saw a thread of people sharing how husbands & long time BFs just simply woke up & left. Yeah something happened, they just didn't want to be in the relationship anymore.

  • @melissahpk1459
    @melissahpk1459 Рік тому +31

    Happened to me after 7 months of dating. This man even planned and paid for us to have a romantic Valentine’s Day weekend back in 2022 in the Poconos mountains and a week before we were to leave he ghosted me. Being me, I don’t chase after NO man. So when the weekend came and went with no communication from him, I called the Airbnb and explained what happened and the women refunded me ALL his money back. After several months passed I reached out to him and told him what he did was rude and a weak ass punk move. He tried to explain, but all I wanted was an acknowledgment what he did was so F**K up! He apologized and again tried to explain and I told him to seek forgiveness from his God, being a former pastor and all 🙄 and wished him well and hung up!

    • @IllMatic97
      @IllMatic97 Рік тому +2

      That's kinda funny

    • @eltonthomas2637
      @eltonthomas2637 Рік тому +3

      Learn to make mean chicken sandwich.

    • @ptk4392
      @ptk4392 Рік тому +8

      Why you so mad you stole his money I see why he ghosted you. You got the devil in u

    • @JackieLastrada
      @JackieLastrada Рік тому

      "Former pastor". I guess he lost his hotline to the Most High. Sorry that happened Melissa.

    • @TimmyG-vt3xv
      @TimmyG-vt3xv Рік тому +4

      ​@@ptk4392word and then called to brag 🤦‍♂️

  • @bejaylagrone4084
    @bejaylagrone4084 Рік тому +6

    I'm sure common will never come out and say anything about it, but we definitely need to hear his side of the story.

  • @thecunninlynguist
    @thecunninlynguist Рік тому +16

    She gotta understand One Day It'll All Make Sense and that common will always tell tell us I Used to Love H.E.R.

  • @Boos_Boswell
    @Boos_Boswell Рік тому +9

    It’s time to keep it real and be honest about people that improperly manage our hearts! #letsgetrealandheal

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 Рік тому +2

      It's also time to be real and honest about dating traumatized people who refuse to get help for their problems and blame everybody else

    • @Boos_Boswell
      @Boos_Boswell Рік тому

      @@tonyalston4838 I 200% agree. People have to start OWNING their mental health and how they show up and navigate in the world. #letsgetrealandheal is my hashtag. I believe in this so much I trade marked it! It’s real out here. Be well. Blessings 🙏🏽

  • @rebareynolds2511
    @rebareynolds2511 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Breakfast Club for being a part of my healing today. ❤❤❤

  • @UnrulyRebel-hd2pl
    @UnrulyRebel-hd2pl Рік тому +14

    Common was laying down that pipe 😂 shawty still thinking about him like crazy

  • @LastoftheMohicans116
    @LastoftheMohicans116 Рік тому +4

    “Love bombing” is par for the course when it comes to relationships. Facts!

  • @brittanyglenn03
    @brittanyglenn03 Рік тому

    Great points Lauren❤

  • @TheRealJohnDough
    @TheRealJohnDough Рік тому +2

    The bully one was awesome 😂. Well played

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 Рік тому

      @@lovechelseamd I'm honestly confused about something. How can a woman be engaged to a man and suddenly start dating a woman ?

  • @qiyamahl9255
    @qiyamahl9255 Рік тому +6

    I really enjoyed Lauren on this segment! She needs to come back.

  • @crazebamm
    @crazebamm Рік тому +3

    Lmao I was with this girl I was in love with! Everything was “perfect” and then on our anniversary I get a text saying let’s take a break. No closure no nothing. Bummer. It is what it is.

  • @mikezooper
    @mikezooper 11 місяців тому

    That’s the best podcast chair I’ve ever seen! 😊

  • @GINGERJOI
    @GINGERJOI Рік тому +2

    The guest host is so beautiful and I love her commentary 😊

  • @thereviewhourwithEpodcast
    @thereviewhourwithEpodcast Рік тому +3

    There are always signs, maybe signs that Tiffany ignored because she was in love with him. I just cannot believe that he broke up with her that way in order to hurt her. Maybe he knew that she is the type of person that won’t let you go easily.

  • @bmac85north
    @bmac85north Рік тому +5

    Love bombing is a medical term in Psychology used to describe the beginning stage of a toxic relationship with a narcissist!! They do this to every victim and will continue to do if u are good supply for them by jumping in n out of ur life!! I've experienced this and sometimes it can last weeks or it could last as little as 3 days!! Quit using these terms so loosely smdh!!! Narcissist is used to loosely as well, meanwhile folks are really experiencing these sadistic monsters first hand n it is hell to say the least!

    • @debbiedoodiedandi
      @debbiedoodiedandi Рік тому

      Yeah... I always thought Love Bombing was something that happened at the beginning of a relationship. Essentially "too much, too soon" . Tiffany and Common dated for over a year.

  • @HarlemsFinest85
    @HarlemsFinest85 Рік тому +1

    Sleeping with the bully of your Ex is Expert level Pettiness lmao

  • @Dreyonce8
    @Dreyonce8 Рік тому

    Went thru this last year 😩

  • @Muzzlecrowe-li9kt
    @Muzzlecrowe-li9kt Рік тому +18

    Common dealing with stuff from his past. If he can’t commit but the relationship is going good then he has an insecure attachment and it stems from the past

    • @TheIcemanthomas
      @TheIcemanthomas Рік тому

      U don’t know that man enough to come to that conclusion..

  • @mondingo67
    @mondingo67 Рік тому +30

    I had a similar situation in my early 20s. Me and my then girlfriend were getting on well, sex was good. Then 2 years in the relationship she hit with a phone call and said she saw a tarot reader who told her that my zodiac sign was not compatible with her zodiac sign?😭 I was like what??? I couldn't believe that sheeet! Tried to make her change her mind to no avail. She then changed her phone numbers...saw her by accident a year later. She invited me for drink to apologise. I said yeah we could that. We then made some sweet love. 3 days later she she phoned me to tell me we made a mistake sleeping together. I told her nah I wanted to smash, I really wanted her box again.😅 she said she was not in her right state of mind and wanted some space apart again. I was like you know what? That's cool with me! Over the years I kept bumping into her... She got married and saw her with her husband. I said to myself. I wish I could tell him how crazy Juliette (that's her name) was!😅

    • @RosiaMarz
      @RosiaMarz Рік тому +26

      So I guess…you weren’t her Romeo? I’ll see myself out.

    • @arlenedennis9446
      @arlenedennis9446 Рік тому +7

      @@RosiaMarz😂😂

    • @thebolb
      @thebolb Рік тому

      She used you bro....and I'm sure that it wasn't for sex

    • @terencesmith3853
      @terencesmith3853 Рік тому +5

      Dude u dodged a bullet on that one!🧐 Stay strong 💪💪💪💪💪💪let love find u loving....And the right girl will show up. 👍👍👍👍😎Peace.

    • @dance4life1208
      @dance4life1208 Рік тому +12

      She not crazy she just didn’t want you and couldn’t be honest. And when you saw her you was the best option available for sex but then she regretted it

  • @krystala17
    @krystala17 Рік тому +2

    It has happened to me, I didn’t do pulse check because of everything was going good. When it happened it made me rethink and made me nervous moving forward with others. Started asking to much is everything good because I didn’t want to be blindsided again. Now I don’t do that but I did because of what happened to me.

  • @ireeblount8238
    @ireeblount8238 Рік тому +2

    2 things happened. Tiffany said she wanted real estate vs a ring and she wanted to adopt a child or have a child.
    Common doesn’t want either of those.

  • @curlyvirgo58
    @curlyvirgo58 Рік тому +4

    She didn't study his relationship patterns. He's there for a short time, not a long time.

    • @TCthaCrisis
      @TCthaCrisis Рік тому

      Or maybe he just didn't like her.

  • @marygonzalez-pf7cb
    @marygonzalez-pf7cb Рік тому +4

    Please please add Lauren to the show She is all that and is intelligent in her comments and discussions😺

  • @deseanjones2273
    @deseanjones2273 Рік тому

    1:41 lol not this girl saying you can’t like her nomo 😂😂😂😂

  • @RollOutShow
    @RollOutShow Рік тому +1

    This has happened to me in my last relationship. The sad thing is a couple of my “friends” still invite him to things we are having. I had to put my foot down! They were not thinking of my feelings at all! 😒

  • @jaida9944
    @jaida9944 Рік тому +3

    Common is a Pisces man 😅🤭

  • @KamiePhresh
    @KamiePhresh Рік тому +4

    Common a savage. 😂 Also the women he’s dated are top tier !!!

  • @alexhenderson5153
    @alexhenderson5153 Рік тому

    Yup, ...just happened to me life goes on

  • @devzeppilin
    @devzeppilin Рік тому +1

    Common did Tiff how Erykah did him, she just called buddy and said “Peace & light… I like somebody else. Peace.”… he learned from the best. 😂

  • @fancynfreeme
    @fancynfreeme Рік тому +3

    Common has a track record of loving and leaving women.

  • @cc5200
    @cc5200 Рік тому +4

    I think people who know they're not going to be in a relationship long-term, should avoid getting involved with others they know want more than they want. Its nothing wrong if you're that way, but date like-minded people, that may cut down on unnecessarily hurting someone.

  • @lmoore3122
    @lmoore3122 Рік тому

    Cthagod's comment about Rock paper scissors took me out 😂

  • @truthteller7357
    @truthteller7357 Рік тому

    There is always warning before the storm

  • @Rico513
    @Rico513 Рік тому +10

    Women will cry about being led on and will beg for men to be honest and tell them the truth so we are not "wasting their time"...and yet when we are honest and tell the truth about not being compatible as an effort to not lead them on, they will find reasons to gaslight you for doing so and act like everything is your fault without taking accountability 😂. Guys, and women, just have to realize that with some people of the opposite sex, usually there will be times where u are in a lose/lose scenario and it is best to do you and keep it moving.

    • @qthequick
      @qthequick Рік тому +2

      I myself are very honest with women about not being in a space to be able to nourish a relationship (it’s the absolute truth) they HATE the truth of it doesn’t fit what they feel or their narrative 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Рік тому +1

      ​@@qthequickit's appreciated because the 40 year old fboy who disappears is ridiculous 😂

  • @torriemcglory2149
    @torriemcglory2149 Рік тому +3

    I think her mouth did it. She talked "too much" herself out of that relationship. She was too excited and spoke too soon on their relationship in the first place. Common was just cooling and being quiet BUT not her. She seems like a great person and so does he so there's none of that type of energy over here. But moving forward she should stay more private. Ya'll remember when she said she wasn't taking her BC or didn't want too and wanted kids and he didn't want anymore kids....remember that folks; red flag.....

  • @tharris2853
    @tharris2853 Рік тому +2

    A text message? He had no respect for her. Anyone that values another person at least has a conversation.

  • @tachi8615
    @tachi8615 Рік тому +1

    Common saw that Aries Spear skit and was like "I'm out ✌️"

  • @CamronSmiles125
    @CamronSmiles125 Рік тому +3

    This sister did her thing as co host ❤

  • @WeCoachMentalHealth
    @WeCoachMentalHealth Рік тому +7

    All women: yes we’re heading for marriage
    All men: man my roster is fire right now

  • @nubbe_z
    @nubbe_z Рік тому +2

    It wasn't a lost, just a lost in time. A lesson in love

  • @malehlohonolo8463
    @malehlohonolo8463 Рік тому +2

    "Maybe he finally decided to do right by his wife"😂😂😂💔

  • @gospel3067
    @gospel3067 Рік тому +4

    If I remember correctly Tiff wanted kids. Common daughter was getting ready for college and he was one & done. Perhaps she kept pressing him and he decided to just exit so she could be with a man that could make that happen.

  • @mikashae8651
    @mikashae8651 Рік тому +3

    She needs to let this be the last mention for her and she needs to level up like Serena.

  • @raharmonnelson7537
    @raharmonnelson7537 Рік тому +1

    Upfront and honest isn't enough ....

  • @mikibell7323
    @mikibell7323 Рік тому

    "It's always scissors." 😂

  • @plan2b501
    @plan2b501 Рік тому +7

    Common is doing the Hotep-Player thing...comes in all ecclectic and spiritual and moves around like a player. Tiffany, Taraji, Serena, Angela Rye, Erykah, now Jennifer Hudson. Not PH'ing here but its not like its a secret. Same thing on the other side of the fence happens with DiCapprio.

    • @ManMilkDeezNutz
      @ManMilkDeezNutz Рік тому +2

      You forgot about Laura Dern. The white woman from Jurassic park.

    • @cperkins5050
      @cperkins5050 Рік тому

      Common just wasn’t feeling her. He’s a 1% man, he has countless options.

  • @dmacus68
    @dmacus68 Рік тому +7

    To break up over a message is pretty common

  • @jamespulliam3672
    @jamespulliam3672 Рік тому

    It happens sometimes we see stuff and it's over

  • @JEGlobalConcepts
    @JEGlobalConcepts Рік тому

    Paper work scissors it’s always scissors 😂😂😂

  • @shazzari
    @shazzari Рік тому +3

    Noooooo I can’t believe she left TMZ. She was always such a great voice when it comes to informing on the culture after Van’s departure

  • @Cam-LTowing-qz3cu
    @Cam-LTowing-qz3cu Рік тому +4

    It’s hard, but I think it’s fine to leave a relationship like that. When you’re in a relationship you wanted to feel like the person wants to be with you they don’t have to be with you. That’s how you know it’s real. It’s happened to me. I’ve done it to other people I respect people are allowed to get up and leave whenever they want. It hurts, but I’d rather them do what they wanted their life, then stay in be unhappy, so I just make a life with my partner that she wants to stay in but she’s free to go whenever she wants which I hope is never, but there’s no force

  • @latoyaracquel1680
    @latoyaracquel1680 Рік тому +1

    If you’re not perceptive, it can appear that the break up came out of nowhere. Because even if a third party enters the mix, you can usually sense the shift.

  • @410balla
    @410balla Рік тому

    4:59 Cthagod funny as shit 😂

  • @ShalamarEntertainmentGroupLLC
    @ShalamarEntertainmentGroupLLC Рік тому +25

    My ex and I were together for 4 years. I found out very early on that he was still in love with his BM and I told him to go back to her. He swore up and down ‘it wasn’t like that’. Eventually we went from spending mad free time together to him dipping for days (then weeks) at a time. I get triggered when I hear the phrase ‘I felt safe’. He was and STILL is the only person that made me feel that way and the healing that I have had to do since this relationship ended has been hard and it has been extremely emotional. I wouldn’t even wish this on anyone and right now-I don’t see myself dating anytime soon

    • @user-dv3kq3rm4h
      @user-dv3kq3rm4h Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry that happened to you. Did he go back to the BM?

    • @Kyle97492
      @Kyle97492 Рік тому

      I mean you did push him away

    • @deltahodges1375
      @deltahodges1375 Рік тому +2

      🙏

    • @dance4life1208
      @dance4life1208 Рік тому +5

      Why date someone with a BM in the first place

    • @ShalamarEntertainmentGroupLLC
      @ShalamarEntertainmentGroupLLC Рік тому +5

      @@user-dv3kq3rm4h I came to find out that this was a pattern for him. Don’t really know WHY…but apparently he never ACTUALLY leaves

  • @TCthaCrisis
    @TCthaCrisis Рік тому +7

    -If she broke up with him over the phone would this even be a story?
    -Why is nobody assuming that maybe she was a problem?
    -Why is she even still talking about it publicly especially?
    -Has he even spoke on it or has he moved tf on?(Rhetorical)

  • @HH-gv8mx
    @HH-gv8mx Рік тому +1

    My boyfriend of 4 years Left to go to work and just never came home. There was no conversation, there was no fight. He just left. I was completely blindsided and devastated. Apparently he quit his job the day he left me. I will never understand why.

  • @donjuaaan8329
    @donjuaaan8329 Рік тому

    Common looks like Al Reynolds: they might be from the same haplogroup. If that’s the case, he might have a hankering for bussy 🤷🏾‍♂️ 😆

  • @VeeMarieS
    @VeeMarieS Рік тому +14

    Loren is gorgeous and is definitely going to do big things after TMZ!

  • @thankyouagainT
    @thankyouagainT Рік тому +8

    Tiffany will be alright 🎉🎉

  • @kwacas
    @kwacas Рік тому

    THIS sounds like the pilot episode of "Insecure"

  • @40WattPlasmaBeam
    @40WattPlasmaBeam Рік тому

    I've been thru that many times

  • @cosmo1boi
    @cosmo1boi Рік тому +3

    We been knew. You’re not supposed to date a community Dique. Grab it, enjoy it, and then let it go.
    Otherwise you’ll end up like a salty clown. Bless your heart, Tiff.

  • @ktrimble8111
    @ktrimble8111 Рік тому +3

    If this was Lori Harvey the conversation would be different. Lol hard to ignore how biased a certain group is.

  • @simonmaduxx6777
    @simonmaduxx6777 Рік тому

    Paper, rock, scissors, its always scissors.. LOLOLOLOOLOLOLLLOLOLOLOL
    + Banging the bully as revenge has got to be one of the best things I've heard all year. That'll teach her 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sebastienmarvonhalen1166
    @sebastienmarvonhalen1166 Рік тому +1

    For the past few years everyone is throwing the words Narcissistic and Toxic for every type of behaviour. And I'm certain without spell check they couldn't even mention the word .