There was actually a guy that I knew and talked to a little bit when I was in middle school. I didn’t know him really well, but he was always super sweet and smiled and laughed a lot. Freshman year I went to a school in a different town, except for the last three months when I transferred back to my original town’s freshman campus. It was only a couple of weeks after I transferred back that the school issued out their yearbooks. In the front pages of the book, there was his picture, with “In Loving Memory.” I was so confused because I had never seen something like that in person before... so I asked someone I knew what that was about. He had been in a horrible car wreck (where he was a passenger) and died on impact early in the school year. I can’t even remember his last name, but he was one of the few people who smiled and talked to me like I was a human being - during a time where I felt like I should just be erased from existence. For something so small as a smile and a laugh, I remember him to this day, a boy I rarely spoke to and can only remember his first name, and the way he smiled.
If I ever leave someone or cut them off, I make sure they know why. If they say that I ghosted them, I know they're acting dumb because I clearly state the problem and why I left. If people ghost me or just don't talk to me out of the blue, I just move on and find new people that know how to communicate lol.
I dated a girl for two years, then she decided to ghost me. Worst heartbreak I ever experienced, but I moved on with my life and trying to better myself. This is for anyone who is dealing with these type of things. You will heal, the process of moving on will suck but you will eventually heal :)
I was ghosted after 7 months of talking.. I thought it was going well, and then he just stopped responding. I tried saying happy birthday to him and nothing. No acknowledgement and he turned off his read receipts.
That ass probably didn't deserve you Girl. Bet he out there regretting the shit he did. Sometimes fucked up people get out of your loves by themselves, its like a bad case of diarrhoea. It pains when they're there but not replying but once you're done with getting rid of them, they're just another poop
If the girl just told Steve she wasn’t interested it would’ve made things a lot easier for him and he would’ve stopped bugging her. Be honest girls. Stop trying to cushion the blow
thanks geo for explaining for tiff to bart. bart just didn't get it. having a decency to say "we don't work out" is a trait every human being should have.
You can always just unmatch and block people if you aren’t interested 🤷🏽♂️. Then again, texting “Sorry, no longer interested” takes the same amount which is practically none
I ghosted someone on accident, and then I just rolled with it cause I felt too depressed at the time and my anxiety was horrible. I couldn't go back to the app or use Twitter for a while because I was being spammed with DMs from everyone that my bf was friends with and my bf. I felt guilty but I still can't leave a response to this day for closure. 😞
Especially since the person had been younger and I was already a adult so it was yikes and I felt bad for wasting more time since they were always having mental health problems. It was too toxic between us.
All my past high school crushes that i was really awkward around are really sucessful and are literally living their best life .. and im sitting at home alone in my underwear thinking huh they dodged a bullet with me lol
I'm happy that you guys are talking about social awkwardness cuz I have aspberger so now I feel a little better that even you guys have made mistakes. But it sucks for me cuz it will take way longer for me to learn all the "hints" than for a normal person. I have come a long way but I bet there's still many hints that I'm obvlivious to. That's why I appreciate when people are direct so I won't have to make an embarrasment of myself. It sucks ass when someone isn't direct enough and I get my hopes up and I get my feelings crushed when I find out that the person doesn't like me or whatever. I honestly wuldnt get the hint when she said "in a little bit". Because the way I read that is "okay a little later I just need to prepare myself first(go to the toliet, whatever)". I think people need to be more direct if they are going to reject someone, not that cryptic shit... I don't even get how that's a hint, someone explain!
Is it just me or I feel like ghosting/getting ghosted is more polite than them always having to explain why they didnt respond in time? Like alright if they wanna talk to me they will get back lol and if they dont I'll just move on
It's just you. Ghosting is for people who are too afraid of confrontation and too selfish to put themselves in the other person's shoes. At what point would the person know they're being ghosted? I've had great dates (in my perspective, since they ended with a kiss or something) where I never hear from the other person again. So the ghostee is sitting there wasting their time because you don't have the courage to send a text, not even face to face, saying "Sorry but I'm not into it."
Do you have any idea how dumb and hypocritical your sounding? Lol Imean sure in some cases which I'll explain more on later on it is yes selfish, and a sense of escapism to not confront with a problem. But if you want to use the argument of people that ghost is being "too selfish of putting themselves in the other person's shoes" Try to also put yourself in the person that ghosted you shoes. All I've read was your perspective on how it went for dates, But sounds to me like your just being defensive of maybe you having had bad breath ,😂 so that's why your calling them a selfish prick afraid of confrontation after kissing you on the last date 👀 (because you said dates' with a plural that ended with kisses) which granted also personally to me would be a dick move on the other persons end to completely ghost u like that, but maybe they thought that was the nice way of ending it, some things are better left unsaid ey? Besides you can't classify and generalize all people that ghost are afraid of confrontation, granted I generalized too in saying it was more polite to ghost, but my point was that honestly you never fully know what is going on with the other persons life, so when it comes to friendships or relationships , I should have enough awareness to know whether its a moment of me reaching out again to see if everything is okay with them, or to give them some space. Maybe when it's more important things on the other hand like work/school/medical related, it is the persons duty to be as reliable as possible to at least respond their not able to do it in time for something that is a time crunch for them and affect their work or livelihood. Or in more leisure things when in the planning of going out together to at least say last minute their not able to come, or coming late. In fact, I missed ur response (which I'm sorry for the late response by the way) because no.1 I forgot about it and no.2 I didn't receive a notification for it only to find out just now 5 days after you responded, because I received a notification 22 hours ago of someone liking my comment. Also 6 other people agreed with me so it wasn't just me 😂
If people stopped relying on digital communications for meaningful human interaction, and stopped living through their phones, this wouldn't be an issue since you won't be so invested. I don't like checking into social media, and only do so from time to time. If there's a message I missed, it's because I was in between that time frame, or I checked a message quickly before, got busy, forgot about it.
Some people feel reassured by ghosting others sorriest shit ever. I try never to ghost anyone. The exception being it's someone who I know is trying to take advantage of me. Even then i call them out, and tell them why we won't be hanging out anytime soon.
The day after this guy I was talking to told me I should visit him in New York, he ghosted me and then he called me crying a year later apologizing bc a girl did the same to him lol. Karma is r e a l.
You guys should react to the video about the train situation where the girl was being hit because she was Asian and no one helped her, well only 2 people helped her and when the person recording helped her and she was hitting him, he restrained her and then everyone decided to help in. This lady kept searching in her bag for the pepper spray or the stronger pepper spray, she couldn’t find it so she kept kicking the girl and hitting her with keys and umbrella
I think there’s a lot of accidental ghosting though like i have moments where i’ll be on Tinder for a few days but then i get really bored of going on the app.
This past October someone I went to school with passed away suddenly. I think he was the first person I went to school with that passed too. Idk what he died of but it was suddenly is all I know.
Bart: I don’t think I’ve ever ghosted anyone Me, an OG fan: what about that time you dined and dashed (I don’t remember what’s it called but you eat and leave) and felt bad
On OkCupid if you reach out to somebody in a message their profile disappears until they reach back out to you which sucks because it gives one side power and that's the terrible thing about social media is that it gives all these people who don't deserve power power and they use it abusively like blocking people muting people and social media has destroyed the ability to really solve issues and iron things out
Hi jk, im a long time fan from indonesia. I havent watched jknews videos for months. Im shocked to see how skinny david so is now and to see how fast geo lost weight after taika. You guys are great. Love you jkcrew
7:34 I feel like some fans might get super excited if Bart farted😂😂 "DUDE ITS A BART FART! ITS A BART FART! HAHA OH MAN IT REALLY IS AS BAD AS THEY SAY ON THE VIDEOS!" Lol Bart should def not fart.
Steve: I looked her up and she's dead now 😂😂
There was actually a guy that I knew and talked to a little bit when I was in middle school. I didn’t know him really well, but he was always super sweet and smiled and laughed a lot. Freshman year I went to a school in a different town, except for the last three months when I transferred back to my original town’s freshman campus. It was only a couple of weeks after I transferred back that the school issued out their yearbooks. In the front pages of the book, there was his picture, with “In Loving Memory.” I was so confused because I had never seen something like that in person before... so I asked someone I knew what that was about. He had been in a horrible car wreck (where he was a passenger) and died on impact early in the school year.
I can’t even remember his last name, but he was one of the few people who smiled and talked to me like I was a human being - during a time where I felt like I should just be erased from existence. For something so small as a smile and a laugh, I remember him to this day, a boy I rarely spoke to and can only remember his first name, and the way he smiled.
That's sad. May he rest in peace.
"Shes dead now... thank god" 😂 holy shit steve! He said outloud what everyone else would be thinking about their exs 😂
It seems like the app is preventing someone from being strung along rather than from being ghosted
Yeah I am really not sure there is any real way to prevent ghosting.
It does both tbh, cause when you tell someone that it’s not gonna work out, that’s not ghosting anymore
well it's your fault if you think someone who's ignoring you is good to have a relationship with
I died during the old timey part of ghosting 😂😂💀💀
B randon I kept replaying that part. It was funny
😂
I actually wouldn't mind a whole episode of them just doing more and more old timey bits
SAMEEE OMFG
This is lowkey an amazing skit idea.
If I ever leave someone or cut them off, I make sure they know why. If they say that I ghosted them, I know they're acting dumb because I clearly state the problem and why I left. If people ghost me or just don't talk to me out of the blue, I just move on and find new people that know how to communicate lol.
Same. I agree with that.
“She’s dead now” wtf Steven 🤣🤣🤣🤣. So messed up that I laughed.
David's weight loss made his eyes look a lot bigger.
what the fuck happened to him why he look so fit?? is this the power of BARBELL BRIGADE!!!
knightmare knight It’s the power of walking and Muay Thai, my friend
He looks a little bit like that one guy from the cancer eye emoji episode they did
Lordt why this make me laugh so loud bahaha
Honestly when he laughs I think he looks like Bruce from Nemo lol. He looks good tho💪🏽👏🏽
I'm kind hearted. I tell people they're dead to me
Asia Amazing How sweet
Mood
To be honest, That's still better than being ignored 😂
Why is the floor so damn dirty?😂
Grimm_Gen right??
Savage Steve!! Gotta love him 😂
“Ghosting” has been around forever. It just has a name now.
They ghosted brigee !!!!
Lmaoo
Coatzin GMZ lmfao!!! Ikr! Poor doggy.
Imagine stealing a dog just to throw it away lol
Wait, what?! What happened to Brigee!
emmaasdfghjkl1 They got rid of her
I feel like the CEO of the dating app company got ghosted and he/she was like fuck this shit not anymore
Damn Steve😭😭😭 11:20
I swear david always tell that story loll
yeah i swear i heard it before too lol
I dated a girl for two years, then she decided to ghost me. Worst heartbreak I ever experienced, but I moved on with my life and trying to better myself. This is for anyone who is dealing with these type of things. You will heal, the process of moving on will suck but you will eventually heal :)
Being ghosted really does put you in a place. Glad you developed a winning mentality.
@@Waymen. Thank you brotha' and you ready for Tet ? It's coming real soon lol
@@kevinvo668 Of course. Take care my dude
Yo, that got hella dark at the end. lmao
Ghosting is childish but if someone constantly harrases you then fair is fair lol
LifePathTwentyTwo Then you just block or report then, easy.
6:55 Yo David's ears are upside down
Steve is hands down the best guest to ever come on here 😂 and Theo is a close second. We need both them as regulars
Steve's story of the girl who rejected him 😂😂
11:18 haha that was epic!
My dog likes to ghost me all the time.
I was ghosted after 7 months of talking.. I thought it was going well, and then he just stopped responding. I tried saying happy birthday to him and nothing. No acknowledgement and he turned off his read receipts.
That ass probably didn't deserve you Girl. Bet he out there regretting the shit he did. Sometimes fucked up people get out of your loves by themselves, its like a bad case of diarrhoea. It pains when they're there but not replying but once you're done with getting rid of them, they're just another poop
his wife found his second phone.
Sendoh Jin he was 18 soooo girlfriend maybe but I doubt it
Women do that shit to guys everyday over nothing sorry it happened to you but I'm not sorry for women
If the girl just told Steve she wasn’t interested it would’ve made things a lot easier for him and he would’ve stopped bugging her. Be honest girls. Stop trying to cushion the blow
Ghosting builds character. I mean, I’m joking, but it does teach you a lot.
Being Ghosted is the worst thing in the world
Happens for a reason though
I wouldn’t ghost you ;)
@@RVFFICA true
@@choppercent6516 what's you ig?
Paul Has Pepperoni Nipples @mcawesomem
Is it just me or does this video have better video quality?
This ep is gold.
thanks geo for explaining for tiff to bart. bart just didn't get it. having a decency to say "we don't work out" is a trait every human being should have.
I've been ghosting people since 1989 when I was 5 five years old.
I love Steve Greene lol
Haven’t heard of Badoo since the Vine days
Tiff so alluring she make me wanna sing to sailors from a deserted island.
Mark Steenson what is this
@@Lol2z2 what do you mean?
I love this new Tiff meme
@@michelle7455 so insightful he/she make me wanna wear a monocle to bed
But can you provide like Casey? She's high maintenance now 😁
Steve and David y'all wrong for that
nah it was funny
I wish they have an equivalent for job interviews, like at least let me know if I didn’t make it
I like this idea, i hope more apps adapt this
You can always just unmatch and block people if you aren’t interested 🤷🏽♂️. Then again, texting “Sorry, no longer interested” takes the same amount which is practically none
When Steve said "She's dead, thank God" Omg that went dark lol.
This episode had me CRACKING the fuck up😂😂
Too funny
Steve + David + Joe = best combo ever 😎
David looks so good👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I ghosted someone on accident, and then I just rolled with it cause I felt too depressed at the time and my anxiety was horrible. I couldn't go back to the app or use Twitter for a while because I was being spammed with DMs from everyone that my bf was friends with and my bf. I felt guilty but I still can't leave a response to this day for closure. 😞
you are egoistic and a coward
Gzz Ra jesus christ relax. if someone needs to take a break for their mental health lowe them
@@tobegenevieve4856 get healthy making others unhealthy. fuk u
@@creepingtornado it was other shit too but at the time my dad had died and some of my other family members were dying it was a lot to handle
Especially since the person had been younger and I was already a adult so it was yikes and I felt bad for wasting more time since they were always having mental health problems. It was too toxic between us.
Tiff always wants an example
This is the most relatable JKNews video ever for me.
Steve is wilddddddd. I love it
All my past high school crushes that i was really awkward around are really sucessful and are literally living their best life .. and im sitting at home alone in my underwear thinking huh they dodged a bullet with me lol
🎶Took her to the crib and you i f×××× cause i toot and boot cause i toot and boot it wooaahh woooooo🎶
11:19 Damn, Steve. Hahaha. 😂
Can't wait for this app to evolve into Roselia.
I know he was joking but Steve almost made me spit out my drink when he said the girl is dead
I'm happy that you guys are talking about social awkwardness cuz I have aspberger so now I feel a little better that even you guys have made mistakes. But it sucks for me cuz it will take way longer for me to learn all the "hints" than for a normal person. I have come a long way but I bet there's still many hints that I'm obvlivious to. That's why I appreciate when people are direct so I won't have to make an embarrasment of myself. It sucks ass when someone isn't direct enough and I get my hopes up and I get my feelings crushed when I find out that the person doesn't like me or whatever. I honestly wuldnt get the hint when she said "in a little bit". Because the way I read that is "okay a little later I just need to prepare myself first(go to the toliet, whatever)". I think people need to be more direct if they are going to reject someone, not that cryptic shit... I don't even get how that's a hint, someone explain!
I freaking love Steve's dark humor
Wait. Are they color coordinating?!
Totally agree with Geo.
I've been ghosting most people since high school and now I have no friends 😢
Is it just me or I feel like ghosting/getting ghosted is more polite than them always having to explain why they didnt respond in time? Like alright if they wanna talk to me they will get back lol and if they dont I'll just move on
It's just you. Ghosting is for people who are too afraid of confrontation and too selfish to put themselves in the other person's shoes. At what point would the person know they're being ghosted? I've had great dates (in my perspective, since they ended with a kiss or something) where I never hear from the other person again. So the ghostee is sitting there wasting their time because you don't have the courage to send a text, not even face to face, saying "Sorry but I'm not into it."
Do you have any idea how dumb and hypocritical your sounding? Lol Imean sure in some cases which I'll explain more on later on it is yes selfish, and a sense of escapism to not confront with a problem. But if you want to use the argument of people that ghost is being "too selfish of putting themselves in the other person's shoes"
Try to also put yourself in the person that ghosted you shoes. All I've read was your perspective on how it went for dates, But sounds to me like your just being defensive of maybe you having had bad breath ,😂 so that's why your calling them a selfish prick afraid of confrontation after kissing you on the last date 👀 (because you said dates' with a plural that ended with kisses) which granted also personally to me would be a dick move on the other persons end to completely ghost u like that, but maybe they thought that was the nice way of ending it, some things are better left unsaid ey?
Besides you can't classify and generalize all people that ghost are afraid of confrontation, granted I generalized too in saying it was more polite to ghost, but my point was that honestly you never fully know what is going on with the other persons life, so when it comes to friendships or relationships , I should have enough awareness to know whether its a moment of me reaching out again to see if everything is okay with them, or to give them some space.
Maybe when it's more important things on the other hand like work/school/medical related, it is the persons duty to be as reliable as possible to at least respond their not able to do it in time for something that is a time crunch for them and affect their work or livelihood. Or in more leisure things when in the planning of going out together to at least say last minute their not able to come, or coming late.
In fact, I missed ur response (which I'm sorry for the late response by the way) because no.1 I forgot about it and no.2 I didn't receive a notification for it only to find out just now 5 days after you responded,
because I received a notification 22 hours ago of someone liking my comment. Also 6 other people agreed with me so it wasn't just me 😂
10:12 same David same 😂 every day of my existing life is spent like that
Steve is da GOAT.🐐
If people stopped relying on digital communications for meaningful human interaction, and stopped living through their phones, this wouldn't be an issue since you won't be so invested.
I don't like checking into social media, and only do so from time to time. If there's a message I missed, it's because I was in between that time frame, or I checked a message quickly before, got busy, forgot about it.
11:20 Fucking killed me. Also Joe's face at 11:26
11:20 Dammit Steve
STEVE WAS ON FIRE LOL
At first I thought I had seen this video before but no, David just told that date story for the 20th time 😂
I got a cramp in my side suppressing my laugh to not awake my family.
Some people feel reassured by ghosting others sorriest shit ever. I try never to ghost anyone. The exception being it's someone who I know is trying to take advantage of me. Even then i call them out, and tell them why we won't be hanging out anytime soon.
Why can't they just tell the person that keeps messaging to leave them alone
Some people don't live on social media and the only reason they turn on their phone/computer is to do a specific task not involving social media.
@@Un1234l yeah I can see that happening
that's the whole point because they are cowards and can't be honest they rather just run away (ghost)
Damn good episode
“Tooted and booted” the terms I heard for my generation in similar actions are: Netflix and chill, dip’n’ditch, smashin’dash.
The day after this guy I was talking to told me I should visit him in New York, he ghosted me and then he called me crying a year later apologizing bc a girl did the same to him lol. Karma is r e a l.
You guys should react to the video about the train situation where the girl was being hit because she was Asian and no one helped her, well only 2 people helped her and when the person recording helped her and she was hitting him, he restrained her and then everyone decided to help in.
This lady kept searching in her bag for the pepper spray or the stronger pepper spray, she couldn’t find it so she kept kicking the girl and hitting her with keys and umbrella
babyjinnie provide a link. Or like something googleable. How we gonna copy and paste that into google and find the article?
@@megankidd4671 yeah really lol..
If you haven't notice, they're 6 months behind with the news. 🤣
I think there’s a lot of accidental ghosting though like i have moments where i’ll be on Tinder for a few days but then i get really bored of going on the app.
Never laughed at someone's death so hard! 😂
Steve... Man you're insane 😂
11:20 omg steve wth but like idk
This past October someone I went to school with passed away suddenly. I think he was the first person I went to school with that passed too. Idk what he died of but it was suddenly is all I know.
Put the ghost in the ghoster while you make yourself a cup of ghostee
Creeps aren't gonna take "it's not gonna work out" as a good enough explanation. They will hound you for more specifics and still be dissatisfied.
How many times have we heard this david story :)
What's the app?
Bart: I don’t think I’ve ever ghosted anyone
Me, an OG fan: what about that time you dined and dashed (I don’t remember what’s it called but you eat and leave) and felt bad
am I the only one that thought of Raja and Raven when they said tooted and booted?? hasgssajdh
STEVE GREEne LOl too FUNNY!!!
I don't remember "tooted & booted" but I do remember "rip & dip"
Love your guys shit hahaha all the way from new Zealand
12:05 everyone know a person like that
Fucking Steve!! 😂😭 “ I looked her up a couple years ago and she’s dead. Thank god.” 😂😂😂😭😭💀 what a beautiful man.👏🏾👏🏾
11:20
Lmfaoooo Steve at 9:49 Goddamnnnn
joe shaking while getting a girl's number thats soooooo cuteeeeee. id give u my # anyday joe bear
Damn, Badoo? I remember back in the Vine days when everyone was advertising that app
I thought ghosting is going invisible while still being online.
Uhhh, my headache came back from laughing so hard...
I learn so much from JKN I fucking love this video and channel
On OkCupid if you reach out to somebody in a message their profile disappears until they reach back out to you which sucks because it gives one side power and that's the terrible thing about social media is that it gives all these people who don't deserve power power and they use it abusively like blocking people muting people and social media has destroyed the ability to really solve issues and iron things out
Hi jk, im a long time fan from indonesia. I havent watched jknews videos for months. Im shocked to see how skinny david so is now and to see how fast geo lost weight after taika. You guys are great. Love you jkcrew
When i read the title i thought dammm they have an app to stop ghost!!! Lol
no Barton. it's not always my fault @ 4:20 my fault for meeting asshos though.
7:34 I feel like some fans might get super excited if Bart farted😂😂
"DUDE ITS A BART FART! ITS A BART FART! HAHA OH MAN IT REALLY IS AS BAD AS THEY SAY ON THE VIDEOS!" Lol Bart should def not fart.