Fran Lebowitz On The Upside Of Being Old

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2024
  • Cultural commentator Fran Lebowitz tells us the upsides of being 'old', and why she doesn't have a guest room so people can't stay over.
    #FranLebowitz #CulturalCommentary #Politics
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  • @user-ls4vb6dq7z
    @user-ls4vb6dq7z 3 місяці тому +106

    I am old enough (like Fran) to remember the reading of Metropolitan Life she gave at one of the midtown libraries in Manhattan. Her famous line, "The opposite of talking isn't listening...it's waiting," has stuck with me for over 40 years.

    • @ER1CwC
      @ER1CwC 3 місяці тому +12

      That quote is so true.

    • @ReadingsinSuspension-gh6uc
      @ReadingsinSuspension-gh6uc 3 місяці тому +6

      I was about 18 when I first read that line, & I found it absolutely hilarious! Used to quote it often, always crediting her, of course.

    • @pierre1050
      @pierre1050 3 місяці тому +2

      She obviously waits to speak instead of listing what another one has to say. That makes her such a stubborn person.

  • @kathywilkowski725
    @kathywilkowski725 3 місяці тому +183

    She is unapologetically herself. She's an original. How refreshing!

    • @psps2034
      @psps2034 3 місяці тому +2

      Alot of people are just being themselves - you just dont like them.

    • @Absurd-Woman
      @Absurd-Woman 3 місяці тому +3

      *Yeah... OMG! Hating Trump is soooo original. She' over overrated. BTW: I'm indifferent to Trump, Biden, the Clintons, Democrats and Republicans.*

    • @davidherz9968
      @davidherz9968 3 місяці тому

      yes but people are themselves people we don't necessarily want to be around with@@psps2034

    • @stationarywanderer7910
      @stationarywanderer7910 3 місяці тому

      She's a transphobe.

  • @B-rian937
    @B-rian937 3 місяці тому +61

    Fran Lebowitz is my spirit animal.

  • @gilbertkelly-sx8gh
    @gilbertkelly-sx8gh 3 місяці тому +47

    Donald Trump makes it easy for people to express their racism - insightful

    • @TheKmonta
      @TheKmonta 2 місяці тому +4

      She's right.

  • @debsylvester2012
    @debsylvester2012 3 місяці тому +38

    You are just the best Fran. I love your brain.
    Thank you. ☮️🌹

  • @XX-zk2lf
    @XX-zk2lf 4 місяці тому +136

    Fran being wonderful as always

  • @filmsforsmartpeople3587
    @filmsforsmartpeople3587 3 місяці тому +31

    I love Fran...I remember her many talk show appearances back in the 70's-80's when they had actual intelligent people on talk shows...

    • @j.b.9895
      @j.b.9895 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow yeah. I remember when talk shows had interesting, intelligent guests on. Now the people are on just to sell something

  • @margaret7688
    @margaret7688 3 місяці тому +29

    Ms. Leibowitz is one of those rare human beings with a true, clear sense of who she is and doesn't make excuses for it. I have always enjoyed her down to earth persona. I always seem to learn about life listening to her. I hope she stays on this earth at least until I am no longer here. I am 70. So there!

  • @craigmiller-randle8921
    @craigmiller-randle8921 3 місяці тому +22

    I’m here to tell you being 60 is so much better than being 20! I wouldn’t ever want to go back to that 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @debbiemetke5938
      @debbiemetke5938 3 місяці тому +4

      Yes, in many ways I agree with you, though the energy dissipates.

    • @craigmiller-randle8921
      @craigmiller-randle8921 3 місяці тому +5

      @@debbiemetke5938 oh yes agree my energy is definitely diminished, if I could have the energy of a 20 year old with the brain of a 60 year old well that would be perfect but as someone great once said youth looks much better than it feels but age feels much better than it looks 😜

    • @debbiemetke5938
      @debbiemetke5938 3 місяці тому +1

      @@craigmiller-randle8921 Ha! Never heard that before. True dat! :-D

  • @kimberknutson831
    @kimberknutson831 3 місяці тому +81

    God, I love that woman. That was really fun to watch. Thank you. : )

  • @JudithRandall-vz1zk
    @JudithRandall-vz1zk 3 місяці тому +10

    She says everything I think and believe. In other words, she's great.

  • @patricenz
    @patricenz 3 місяці тому +28

    Fran was excellent, as expected, and Benjamin Law was absolutely wonderful. And ... the Opera Houuuusssse!!!

    • @JudithRandall-vz1zk
      @JudithRandall-vz1zk 3 місяці тому

      Really? "Absolutely wonderful:"? He did little more than ask a few mild questions.

  • @emilymcnamara5179
    @emilymcnamara5179 3 місяці тому +18

    Thank you, Fran. There is very little that is good about being old. Nobody really appreciates your wisdom or your experience unless you know how to fix their faucet or take care of their child so they can go out to dinner. I also enjoy my time alone but it is nice to know my husband is around most of the time in case I fall and can’t get up.

  • @karinschild9020
    @karinschild9020 3 місяці тому +17

    Haha, she calls us non-New Yorkers Hillbillies when we come to her city. Here in the country we call urban tourists "citiots"

  • @patriciatapia1710
    @patriciatapia1710 3 місяці тому +23

    the host was trying to get Fran to seem more humble, when she doesnt care, she s just right, and she loves it.

    • @neonoires
      @neonoires 2 місяці тому +2

      Right it felt kind of antagonistic at times lol

  • @MrDemoldo
    @MrDemoldo 3 місяці тому +8

    As a human being, it's incumbent upon you to engage your intellect and humanity. Fran exemplifies this by leveraging her cognitive faculties to actualize her fullest potential.
    She remains true to herself, refusing to compromise her authenticity for the sake of others' demands or dependencies.

  • @Medina-bk2fo
    @Medina-bk2fo 3 місяці тому +56

    I'm with Fran: I like people - out there. The best way to keep liking people is to never let them in your house - maybe for coffee..

  • @amandad6513
    @amandad6513 3 місяці тому +22

    I love Fran. Thank you for hosting her!

  • @marzymarrz5172
    @marzymarrz5172 3 місяці тому +8

    She made me nostalgic for my bad jobs. What I loved was how easy they were to leave. No doubts, no second thoughts, no nostalgia. Ah the good old days.

  • @ClueSign
    @ClueSign 3 місяці тому +25

    She's finally graduated to being an "old curmudgeon" instead of a young curmudgeon. God bless her.

  • @Barb6106
    @Barb6106 3 місяці тому +8

    I adore Fran..so smart, whitty and effortlessly snarky. I always come away with a quip to toss around after listening to her. She cares about it all in a way that makes you care- but not really. What a gem.

  • @lindas.martin2806
    @lindas.martin2806 3 місяці тому +16

    I do not like to work anymore either...not since I reached 63. Pretty unacceptable in the USA but I would rather live very, very simply than work like I did when I was young. And instead of gathering things, one of the nice things about being older is enjoying giving things away and uncluttering.

    • @allnyermind
      @allnyermind 3 місяці тому +2

      I agree totally. Why keep working to accumulate more things? I'm 65 and I don't need more things.. I need time, time to read, time to spend with friends,, time to simply think, study, cherish.

  • @janserventi
    @janserventi 4 місяці тому +25

    😂 love you Fran

  • @JJNow-gg9so
    @JJNow-gg9so 3 місяці тому +5

    Respect Fran and nothing but respect. Celebrate who you are.

  • @Kim-lc3fv
    @Kim-lc3fv 3 місяці тому +8

    I've seen her at her show in Copenhagen and she is so fun.

  • @angelscreation1
    @angelscreation1 3 місяці тому +18

    She is 100% on point!

  • @dianebarbera1284
    @dianebarbera1284 3 місяці тому +3

    Yes, Fran. You are right we are always changing jobs in NYC. It was pretty easy. I remember you and am glad to see you again.

  • @LiliWhyte
    @LiliWhyte 3 місяці тому +13

    I'm so happy to hear from Ms Leibowitz! What an icon! I love her!

  • @diaryofanafricanladyutanyo9656
    @diaryofanafricanladyutanyo9656 3 місяці тому +10

    Fran is just like me about not wanting people in my house

  • @roxtar38
    @roxtar38 3 місяці тому +14

    I've always known OF Fran, but in this 6:25 video, I LOVE her.

  • @johngalt5411
    @johngalt5411 3 місяці тому +12

    I love Fran

  • @davidanthonystone5165
    @davidanthonystone5165 3 місяці тому +6

    I am a native N Y er and remember the 1960’s and 7O’s
    for I was in my 20’s. I was interested in $ or a career then
    Until the 1980’s. However I
    Adore and Abhor N Y and feel grateful that I have a rent control apartment with garden

  • @TroyBrooksPainter
    @TroyBrooksPainter 3 місяці тому +6

    That interviewer graded on my nerves. Fran was gracious and smart as always.

    • @moimeme6533
      @moimeme6533 3 місяці тому

      he sorta missed the point several times esp at the beginning and she rescued the moment with aplomb

  • @skypics
    @skypics Місяць тому +1

    Just saw her at Roy Thompson Hall in Toronto, brilliant! Man, she gets around.

  • @barbarabrooker2502
    @barbarabrooker2502 3 місяці тому +10

    I LOVE Fran Liebowitz-authentic. Smart. Says what we think.

  • @brucemajors7525
    @brucemajors7525 3 місяці тому +1

    New York City is now so wonderful, having enacted all of Fran's party's policies and ideas. Way to go Fran!

  • @Collageartist69
    @Collageartist69 3 місяці тому +4

    She is right. I love her.

  • @joanlyoung1
    @joanlyoung1 3 місяці тому +9

    Fran is awesome.
    Truthteller!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @heatherwhite2788
    @heatherwhite2788 3 місяці тому +49

    Nobody can go wrong looking down on Trump 😂

  • @nanny287
    @nanny287 2 місяці тому +1

    Her unbridled honesty is incredibly refreshing. Love her!

  • @ryangrey8643
    @ryangrey8643 Місяць тому

    Saw her give a speech in the 80’s at Franklin Marshall college and she was amazing! Had no idea who she was before that.

  • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
    @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 2 місяці тому +1

    Love this intelligent interesting lady

  • @LeCrenn
    @LeCrenn 2 місяці тому +2

    "He enables them to express their racism, which is apparently so pleasurable they don't care what else he does." Bingo. That is exactly it.

  • @MariaAyub-ma-sentient24
    @MariaAyub-ma-sentient24 3 місяці тому +2

    “It is better to be twenty but you don’t have a choice”-best line of the interview. 😂

  • @cg9612
    @cg9612 3 місяці тому +9

    Fran, how was the airplane journey this time? What books did you read enroute? Was your plane delayed from landing in Aus.?

    • @LiliWhyte
      @LiliWhyte 3 місяці тому

      That would be a better interview than we got here!

  • @EvelynBaron
    @EvelynBaron 3 місяці тому +2

    Fran using humour rather than rage to address the Dunning-Kruger effect not localized anymore, I don't know how she does it. Watched an interview with Jon Stewart 7 years ago where he was so angry and simultaneously addressing an audience of young people. He was visibly fighting with himself to keep even a modicum of the public persona he struggled to maintain so as not to discourage the younger generation from completely abandoning any kind of public discourse, in retrospect was chilling. Glad she's still around. Glad he hasn't given up.

  • @user-xi5re1mo8p
    @user-xi5re1mo8p 3 місяці тому +1

    Fran understands life like no one else

  • @Misshattans
    @Misshattans 3 місяці тому +1

    She is 💯 correct. We do not like tourist or working.

  • @jamesrobiscoe1174
    @jamesrobiscoe1174 2 місяці тому

    Fran Lebowitz speaks for a lot of us. Civic leaders can learn a lot from her bold and forthright views. She certainly is a fine observer of our social and political culture. Long may she flourish.

  • @ziziscorsese9475
    @ziziscorsese9475 15 днів тому

    Fascinating woman !

  • @barbarabrooker2502
    @barbarabrooker2502 3 місяці тому +1

    I love her. Love her VOICE. Her truths. I am 87, the founder of the first age march in history-age pride for ALL ages. I'd rather be 87 than 20 so I disagree with Fran. But I LOVE HER. I also hate domestic life.

  • @EK-cr5ht
    @EK-cr5ht 3 місяці тому +2

    I don't think he gets Fran, really. Well, I do and I love her.

  • @rodneyhamilton2562
    @rodneyhamilton2562 3 місяці тому +2

    The thing about getting old is that you have to work towards it when you are younger, otherwise you will grow old ill prepared and will not be able to enjoy the upsides of being old. Most of them have to be earned.

  • @mrmink
    @mrmink 3 місяці тому

    She laid it out just right!

  • @katnap9189
    @katnap9189 3 місяці тому

    Totally agree Fran!

  • @aslfdjalskjflkajs134
    @aslfdjalskjflkajs134 3 місяці тому +1

    I felt like the interviewer wanted her to seem like a woman of the people, but instead she was just herself and good for her. Confidence in your own being is underrated, and it's not like she was being rabid and attacking people, she made statements, either factual or opinion, and left it at that. My word is my word and that's enough for me - I've said my piece.

  • @moimeme6533
    @moimeme6533 3 місяці тому +3

    the interviewer missed the point at the beginning and she discreetly bailed him out 3 times

  • @PatriciaDryburgh
    @PatriciaDryburgh 2 місяці тому

    I love this woman!!!

  • @dottieparker7274
    @dottieparker7274 3 місяці тому +1

    LOVE LOVE LOVE ❤❤❤

  • @banshee7743
    @banshee7743 3 місяці тому +1

    She's spot on about trump

  • @doloreswylie3067
    @doloreswylie3067 17 днів тому

    When she was young she was very beautiful ,interesting and unique…still is …and just adorable.

  • @suzannemostafavifar1686
    @suzannemostafavifar1686 3 місяці тому +1

    “ herds of hillbillies”. Wonderful observation!

  • @johndillon9791
    @johndillon9791 3 місяці тому

    Right on

  • @kentdunne1320
    @kentdunne1320 3 місяці тому +1

    Any time she is saying something, I feel a broom sweeping a cobweb in my brain.

  • @irockluculent961
    @irockluculent961 3 місяці тому

    Nice interview! I like Fran and I like Sydney, so what a good combination...

  • @christianruiz5385
    @christianruiz5385 3 місяці тому +1

    If you ever want a definition of what a real New Yorker is : she is it!

  • @Brian-os9qj
    @Brian-os9qj 3 місяці тому +1

    Fran is a treasure

  • @Rosiedelaroux
    @Rosiedelaroux 3 місяці тому +1

    I love you Fran - the brightest star in the UNIVERSE

  • @amusicment4829
    @amusicment4829 3 місяці тому +1

    Love her!

  • @cidsanta4204
    @cidsanta4204 3 місяці тому +1

    ♥️ Fran

  • @bluelv
    @bluelv 3 місяці тому

    One of Americas best exports! ❤️

  • @Apollo_Blaze
    @Apollo_Blaze 3 місяці тому

    I love Fran so much. She has said that holding grudges is in the same category as having standards....I totally agree with her on that and on SO many things.....I would love to sit around and have drinks with her. None of her videos are ever long enough.

  • @waniaxaviermonteiro8487
    @waniaxaviermonteiro8487 3 місяці тому

    Fran is an unique person. Very genuine.

  • @skyeblu817
    @skyeblu817 3 місяці тому +6

    In New York no matter how rich you are you still end up walking on a filthy sidewalk to get to your $500 meal. Haha.

    • @lobstermash
      @lobstermash 2 місяці тому

      Air people don't walk on the filthy sidewalk. The limo takes them to the red carpet under the porte cochere at the restaurant. They get into the limo under the porte cochere at the house or apartment building. 😀. That's how come they can wear pale pink satin slippers in the rain.

  • @kgolem79
    @kgolem79 3 місяці тому

    Fran is Fabulous!

  • @jamesktucker979
    @jamesktucker979 3 місяці тому

    I am an American, and a Bush Republican. I love Fran.

  • @user-ek3rn7qe1f
    @user-ek3rn7qe1f 3 місяці тому

    A complete original.

  • @rumorhasit9506
    @rumorhasit9506 3 місяці тому +36

    I agree with Fran's estimation of Donald Trump.

    • @wwbuirkle
      @wwbuirkle 3 місяці тому +2

      She's wrong and she's dangerous

    • @c.a.savage5689
      @c.a.savage5689 3 місяці тому

      ​@@wwbuirkle luckily she's not running for president, eh?

    • @wwbuirkle
      @wwbuirkle 3 місяці тому

      @@c.a.savage5689 Yea well she's tuff to look at

    • @davezwick5539
      @davezwick5539 3 місяці тому

      @@wwbuirkle Lucky for us that she doesn't care what you think.

  • @semmaville
    @semmaville 3 місяці тому +1

    Luv you Fran ❤❤❤ I’m a dumdum that adores old age… it fits me really well… 😊🎉

  • @endlessnameless6494
    @endlessnameless6494 3 місяці тому +6

    She's always been cool. And please, guys- never drink and drive. Stay safe, call a cab if you must! 11,000 die each year. Don't be one!

  • @gstavella
    @gstavella 3 місяці тому

    Fran is our national treasure.

  • @marianfrances4959
    @marianfrances4959 3 місяці тому

    Shes awesome!👍😎🇨🇦

  • @DippyHippie
    @DippyHippie 3 місяці тому +7

    So sad….no cc,what’s a deaf person to do?😢

  • @lisahinkofer2085
    @lisahinkofer2085 3 місяці тому +1

    Love her

  • @dominicportelli7468
    @dominicportelli7468 3 місяці тому

    I give this a thumbs up before I even watch it cause I'm sure it'll be a cut above intellectually.

  • @ballet07
    @ballet07 3 місяці тому

    Love her!!!❤

  • @melodymcnamara
    @melodymcnamara 3 місяці тому

    Yes

  • @dwaswad
    @dwaswad День тому

    Fran is coming to a theater near me soon, so I checked out this video to see if I would enjoy her show. Her diatribe about Donald Trump and those who like him made it easy for me to save some money; not bothering to go to her show. I dislike Donald Trump‘s personality, but there is no way he is a danger to America or the world. In fact during his administration, things worked way better than during this Biden administration. DWA - Prof. Emeritus, UC Irvine.

  • @mairimillar6606
    @mairimillar6606 3 місяці тому +1

    Love Fran. So charming, intuitive, direct and honest. A breath of fresh air.

  • @djhbr
    @djhbr 3 місяці тому

    Imagine a mix of Kramer, Larry David and Joe Pitka ... that's Fran Lebowitz.

  • @karenbenning2166
    @karenbenning2166 3 місяці тому

    I love her humor, Have often wondered if she is really a grumpy old person or that is just her comedic person that we get to see and chuckle over. By the way I disagree w her politics-but she is still a very funny lady.

  • @pamr4040
    @pamr4040 3 місяці тому

  • @blqeddie2946
    @blqeddie2946 3 місяці тому

    Fran is the funniest woman on the earth 😂

  • @PrincessOPD_Utah
    @PrincessOPD_Utah 3 місяці тому

    😊😊😊😊😊

  • @12thDecember
    @12thDecember 3 місяці тому +7

    I like the way she just came out and said, of TFG supporters, "They're wrong." Not sugarcoating or coddling by saying, "I _think_ they're wrong." Just flat out, "They're wrong." Because they are.

  • @themanwnoname3454
    @themanwnoname3454 3 місяці тому

    I think Senator Sandwers is fantastic & if Donald Trump was elected President would posit the question “If the USA is the leader of the free world when exactly has Western Democracy failed?”

  • @TheKmonta
    @TheKmonta 2 місяці тому

    "herds of hillbillies" ....Yep, she is right about that....and I agree with just about everything she is saying.

  • @MsGeekomatic
    @MsGeekomatic 3 місяці тому +9

    Tourists add ZERO to a location.

    • @yvonneplant9434
      @yvonneplant9434 3 місяці тому

      I live in Old City in Philadelphia. It's where some of the important historical buildings are.
      I am absolutely not looking to the tourist hordes who will start to show up in the Spring.

    • @BenSussmanpro
      @BenSussmanpro 3 місяці тому

      @@yvonneplant9434Philly is my hometown but moved away a long time ago. It’s a really underrated historical gem. And Philly used to get a higher class of tourists (better educated, classier dressed, & less louche) than NYC, don’t know if that’s still true.

    • @Thumperoo
      @Thumperoo 3 місяці тому +1

      except their money ? No ? Not even that ?

  • @braised44
    @braised44 3 місяці тому +1

    Fran....brash..bold.. funny!

  • @user-jp9cn9gv1g
    @user-jp9cn9gv1g 3 місяці тому

    She’s right.