Why i feel so free in Thailand as a trans woman

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  • @persepolis80
    @persepolis80 3 місяці тому +2026

    We here in Thailand , some people consider Transgender and lady boys are Thai Soft Power and we proud to have these individuals. You can go anywhere and you will find trans people working and living their lives and they are supported. Happy Pride Month! ❤🏳️‍🌈

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +102

      I love that about Thailand and Thai people🥰🙏🏽 ขอบคุณมากคะ

    • @okayperson8416
      @okayperson8416 3 місяці тому +5

      hi!, soft power in what way? just wondering

    • @kamgoogle7115
      @kamgoogle7115 3 місяці тому +45

      ​@@okayperson8416 in the way they represent Thailand in a good sort of way.

    • @libroom9863
      @libroom9863 3 місяці тому +85

      @@okayperson8416we promote our country as the freedom land for LGBTQA+. We have miss Tiffany beauty pageant for trans, Equally marriage, Social acceptance, Night club area for LGBTQA+, Pride Parade to draw tourists

    • @ben361971
      @ben361971 2 місяці тому +15

      are trans men treated with the same respect there? just curious because we dont hear much about them.

  • @nanfahkg1601
    @nanfahkg1601 3 місяці тому +978

    As a Thai, we are open for every concept of genders. In negative point, if someone is homophobic, they just dont care and ignore. They dont bother you, not yelling, not starting a fight. They just ignore and live their own. Sometimes it’s hard to open old people’s mind, but good thing is they wont bother you.

    • @moonmingi4842
      @moonmingi4842 2 місяці тому +24

      THIS! This is so true. Like I’m glad that people have common sense here and not bothering other people sexual preferences 😭 ชอบที่คนไทยเปนแบบนี้นะะ มันดีกว่ามากๆเลย ส่วนมากก้แค่ไม่คุยละไม่สนใจ ซึ่งถือว่าเป็นวิธีที่เราว่าได้ผลมากที่สุดเลยค่ะ555555

    • @sourdroops
      @sourdroops 2 місяці тому +13

      i love that, i wish it was like that in my country. Malaysia could never

    • @user-sg4ov7ng4h
      @user-sg4ov7ng4h 2 місяці тому +11

      i'm guessing the openness comes from the culture/religion? that's so nice, with colonization western Europe put their "traditional" ideologies on other countries that were doing good on equality and stuff, that's the worst. it's good to see a culture open on sexuality, gender etc.

    • @beedt714
      @beedt714 2 місяці тому

      @@user-sg4ov7ng4h no its not due to culture or religion..... its the fact that the GOVERNMENT DOESNT SHOVE TRANS SHIT DOWN THEIR FACES and piss people off

    • @Pr1ya-Night
      @Pr1ya-Night 2 місяці тому

      I didn't know that was the prevalent view of trans people in Thai culture.

  • @pjanoo6973
    @pjanoo6973 2 місяці тому +494

    I hate to admit most of my life I have been pretty close minded towards LGBT but visiting Thailand opened my eyes to just how accepting and friendly we should all be to every walk of life

    • @ELA._.BORATED
      @ELA._.BORATED 2 місяці тому +98

      It takes guts to open up and change views of groups you previously dismissed, it takes guts to talk about it! Awesome you could talk about it😁💖

    • @celestialbanana1
      @celestialbanana1 2 місяці тому

      Hey dude, me too. I grew up in a cult, was hyper masculine, homophobic, conservative etc. I found out I was trans a couple years ago. Very shocking for me and changed my life forever. There's plenty of us LGBT folk that can relate to you. We're not all politically correct snowflakes with twitter accounts crying about pronouns.

    • @swankyangelo
      @swankyangelo 2 місяці тому

      @@ELA._.BORATEDit DOESN’T take guts to not be an asshole and a bigot! You am the 100 people that like this thread

    • @stonerb0y420
      @stonerb0y420 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ELA._.BORATEDeeww it doesn't take guts to not be an asshole. Thats like saying "I used to be racist but now I'm not and that took guts" get therapy

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 2 місяці тому +4

      I had gay friends before they “came out” or even accepted themselves as gay or trans 🎉Does not mean we should judge or treat you any different because of your sexuality. I asked this one girl because she gave me some gay vibes and she denied it… and 2 years later she is now engaged to a woman.

  • @joeybkk
    @joeybkk 3 місяці тому +2184

    the marriage equality bill just passed on june 18!! 🌈🥳💍 we did it besties, love wins!! 😭🙌

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +110

      So amazing!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @elibell5098
      @elibell5098 3 місяці тому +49

      The best global news for Pride Month EVER!!!! So excited for Thailand. :)

    • @joeybkk
      @joeybkk 3 місяці тому

      @@elibell5098 😘🥰😍❤️

    • @Noahsalvatore_1351
      @Noahsalvatore_1351 3 місяці тому +9

      Omg yeesssssss and btw I love ur pfpppp

    • @Chronicstate187
      @Chronicstate187 3 місяці тому +10

      About time. Congratulations yall

  • @ilovemoriahelizabeth4262
    @ilovemoriahelizabeth4262 2 місяці тому +77

    Girl just causally met one of the most famous bl actors in Thailand 😩

  • @rindar9471
    @rindar9471 2 місяці тому +232

    As a Thai and a Buddhist, I think both of these make us so carefree and easy to let things go. No matter what others are, if you're not making trouble or breaking laws then that's fine! You can be whoever you are and love whoever you want. Happy to see you're happy here in Thailand! :D

    • @kinley.-.
      @kinley.-. 2 місяці тому +1

      I wish everyone could be more like this… i had no clue Thailand was like this until watching this video. It’s so lovely to know a place like that exist in a world that’s often rude and harsh 🖤

    • @S3ymira
      @S3ymira 2 місяці тому +1

      Is it because of Buddhism.

  • @ImperfectEnding
    @ImperfectEnding 2 місяці тому +451

    Hahaha that face the Chinese sister made at the end of the conversation 😆😆

    • @ced.ricooo
      @ced.ricooo 2 місяці тому +76

      I know I was like dang she kinda looks pissed LMFAO. She was polite at least.

    • @2thezaza
      @2thezaza 2 місяці тому +36

      I seen that face visiting Bangkok when declining some of the street 'workers' offers

    • @juliemancilla7509
      @juliemancilla7509 2 місяці тому +13

      It was so funny lollll

    • @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij
      @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij 2 місяці тому +25

      I wonder what that was about?
      Was it a facial expression they’re unaware they make? Or a tick ?
      Or was it that they were pissed they didn’t pay/hire them? She’s street walker in china town right?

    • @Nanancay
      @Nanancay 2 місяці тому +34

      @@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ijPretty sure they were expecting payment and were pissed that they wasted business LOL

  • @denseone
    @denseone 3 місяці тому +424

    It is part of the Thai spirit to be free. There is nothing more free than being accepted for who you are, on the inside and the outside.

    • @elibell5098
      @elibell5098 3 місяці тому +10

      I love that!

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 місяці тому +5

      Wow, your words ring true to my soul.

    • @sweetsourorange
      @sweetsourorange 2 місяці тому +7

      I mean Thai also literally means to be free and may I add that being really chill and relaxed is also a part of the Thai spriti

    • @Froggyquack
      @Froggyquack 2 місяці тому

      But you still got to be respectful and behave too. Not like the woke and into your face type of LGBTQ

  • @chung_yw
    @chung_yw 3 місяці тому +780

    I‘m not even a Thai but I’m so proud of Thailand. It’s my favourite country.

    • @inthespace9743
      @inthespace9743 3 місяці тому +6

      Thank you ❤

    • @panpapermate1784
      @panpapermate1784 3 місяці тому +5

      Thank you I hope you go back to visit Thailand again soon. ❤

    • @p41pear
      @p41pear 2 місяці тому +1

      ❤🥰

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much

    • @SofSof.
      @SofSof. 2 місяці тому +1

      Same!!!

  • @jooknoich
    @jooknoich 3 місяці тому +524

    No matter what you are, Where you from, You're welcome to Thailand. The Land of smile ☺

  • @lkp3335
    @lkp3335 3 місяці тому +170

    Once i joined my mom school reunion and heard that one of my mom’s friend’s son is going to be a ladyboy and another woman’s daughter is turned to tomboy so they laughing and talk about exchanging their clothes 😂

  • @contrastpaul
    @contrastpaul 3 місяці тому +417

    As a Thai person, I'd like to tell you that our elderly love to work. My grandmother is 72 years old, and she still hasn't stopped working because she says staying at home doing nothing is not fun. So, thank you very much for your concern about this. Our welfare state is not comprehensive enough to allow them to live without doing anything or easy at home. This might be because in Thailand, we have a low tax rate and it doesn't cover much. Finally, I wish you meet good people on every trip you take. love ❤

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +13

      So interesting to learn about this thank you 🙏🏽🥰

    • @kinley.-.
      @kinley.-. 2 місяці тому +1

      I love hearing of older people who want to keep working! Both of my grandparents (they’re also around 70-72) have retired from their old jobs but they both still work. They have a small side business working outside in peoples gardens and yards. They love the work they do and my grandma always told me, even when i was a small child, “staying moving is how you stay young!” And i truly believe that!

  • @jopzmail
    @jopzmail 3 місяці тому +202

    The boy you showed in the first minutes - Offroad - is an actor from Boy Love series, like two male lead actors. This segment of the entertainment industry has been growing and receiving attention from fans around the world. It’s another aspect of how much people are open up to diversity in Thailand.

    • @epifanny
      @epifanny Місяць тому

      He used to be part of boyband Laz1

    • @EE-uj6tw
      @EE-uj6tw 29 днів тому

      What do you mean “like two male lead actors”? Are they not men?

  • @Allegra11
    @Allegra11 Місяць тому +16

    Megan Markle is that you?

  • @HolsteinDevil
    @HolsteinDevil 3 місяці тому +103

    UA-cam recommended me this video and I’m not disappointed! I love your attitude and the way you interact with people is so adorable. We Thai people love it so much when we see foreigners try to speak Thai. Doesn’t really matter if your Thai is good or bad, we just truly appreciate how you guys put the time and effort into learning our culture.
    As for the gender equality here, according to my 93 year old grandma, “As long as you’re happy and always being kind to others, you should be alright. What does sexuality have to do with being a good person?” However, we do still have a bit of stigma about trans women here tho. It’s not super harmful but it can be toxic sometimes cuz a lot of people just kinda expect ALL trans women to always be funny or jokesters. It’s almost like they can’t take trans women seriously sometimes. One of my best friends (who is a gay guy) decided to keep his sexuality from the public since his work requires him to be very professional and formal. His twin “sister” is now a trans man tho. So I always tease him how they must have switched souls before birth. lmao

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much🙏🏽☺️ it’s very interesting to learn about your culture 😍

  • @KnewYawkPapi
    @KnewYawkPapi 2 місяці тому +17

    The face that the chinese person made when the conversation was done is absolutely hilarious!!!!!!!!!

  • @kayflip2233
    @kayflip2233 3 місяці тому +142

    Thailand is your spiritual home Dency. You're always welcome here. 🙏

  • @kojimanotkonami4764
    @kojimanotkonami4764 3 місяці тому +114

    I’m glad youtube recommended me this video. You’re so beautiful 😭❤️

  • @princessraphina2506
    @princessraphina2506 3 місяці тому +35

    As a Thai person, I have never thought of Bangkok as a creative city before but when you said it, I really get what you meant. Bangkok is the city with no theme. It’s mixed with a lot of cultures and keep changing Every time I travel to Siam I’m always surprised 😊 Anyway, thanks for sharing this vlog! I really like your vibe 😁💖

    • @pascal590
      @pascal590 29 днів тому

      Haven’t heard it called Siam in so long, pretty cool 😊

  • @sam_savon
    @sam_savon 2 місяці тому +5

    feel bad for saying this but the chinese girl was a little bit weird she was moving like really strangely

  • @paipai5870
    @paipai5870 3 місяці тому +61

    The single offroadddddd😭😭✨✨✨ my baby 🫶🏻

  • @bugginonthewall
    @bugginonthewall 2 місяці тому +14

    bby your energy is so pure, the kindness you give to the locals is something sadly so many don’t bother. You’re gorgeous 🩷🥹

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому +1

      I appreciate that so much ☺️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @PIT72100
    @PIT72100 2 місяці тому +3

    Most Asia Buddhist country accept all genders people.as Long as you are happy .🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ampersignia
    @ampersignia 2 місяці тому +14

    Is it just me or did the Chinese trans woman have really odd facial expressions? Especially when Dency was leaving.

    • @yourfavouritenarcissist
      @yourfavouritenarcissist 2 місяці тому +8

      It was giving MDMA, just from past experience lol but maybe she's just naturally like that.

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому +5

      Lmaooo not mdma 🤣

  • @สุทธิศักดิ์มธุรพงศากุล

    Some old people like to work. Because he thought it made him strong. And it's still valuable. If he doesn't do it, he won't have the strength. and not happy. 😊

  • @tylerhariraksatakoon836
    @tylerhariraksatakoon836 3 місяці тому +32

    Happy Pride! My boyfriend and I are planning a trip there this November from the US. You're such a joy to watch! I love your energy, and thanks for showing us around. Slay mama!!

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +2

      Happy pride!!🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @xlkizww
    @xlkizww 2 місяці тому +3

    13:13 lol her face

  • @gameralove6418
    @gameralove6418 2 місяці тому +5

    I've heard that some parts of Thailand are still anti-gay or transgender, but I was born and raised in Bangkok, and my entire family tree, including my mother's great-grandfather, is from Bangkok. I have no problems at all. At 14, I told my family that I was gay, and my mother was surprised, saying, "Really?" Does this mean I won't be able to hug your baby? I said, "Even though I'm straight, you know I'm not going to have a baby," and she laughed. My father drops my boyfriend off at school every day bc he studies at a different school from me. all my friends are straight males and they didn't believe me at first, but they are ok, like when we travel somewhere and we have to share a bed, they always try to sleep with me. I think it bc somehow they think gays have more hygiene than straight males which I guess it's not true at all.

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому

      That’s amazing I love it, so sweet hat your father drops your bf of at school every day 🥹💖

  • @lisabodette183
    @lisabodette183 2 місяці тому +2

    Thai transgenders has never caused issues in society. In fact we love them because they are so much fun ! half my friends are either gay or trans in Thailand . We coexist as human, as Thai people . Love , straight Thai women ❤

  • @summersummer6806
    @summersummer6806 3 місяці тому +36

    I’m happy to see you happy and enjoying time in my country!! 💕💕💕

  • @glamourmeetsmusic
    @glamourmeetsmusic 2 місяці тому +4

    You look like Megan Markle and Stacey Dash

  • @celinepardijs1821
    @celinepardijs1821 2 місяці тому +4

    the thing with shark finn in food, is that when the shark is caught only the fins are cutt off. and they dont use the rest of the shark, they just discard the rest.

  • @mollyplaykey5415
    @mollyplaykey5415 3 місяці тому +26

    Your clip just pop up to caught my eyes! You looks so gorgeous! Also love your content❤

  • @yothiga
    @yothiga 3 місяці тому +31

    For some language enthusiasts out there, Kathoey is a broader term, and Saw Pra Peth Song (Saw Song for short) falls under the Kathoey umbrella term. Basically, if you are feminine and gay, you can call yourself Kathoey, but if you are transgender, you are Saw Pra Peth Song, though some still call themselves Kathoey.
    Some Kathoey don't want to transition.
    Kathoey actually originated from a word used to describe intersex people, but the meaning has changed over time. In my opinion, the acknowledgment of genders other than male and female created space for a third gender in Thailand a long time ago.

    • @FresherZephyr
      @FresherZephyr 3 місяці тому

      I'm don't agree with that. I think gay in Thai means a man who's love a man and don't want to change their sexuality to be a girl. (Beside that Thai people not including lesbian in gay people. In Thailand if you call gay, it's only mean for male loving male.)
      If a boy want to be a girl but not changing their sex yet, In Thailand he will be called "Toots" or "Tootsies".
      For Ka-Toey accually it's meaning Ladyboy (trangens woman) that already had sex changing under surgery, had long hairs, had artificial boobs. But some people also call 'Toots' who very feminine 'Ka-Toey'.

    • @bloop4255
      @bloop4255 3 місяці тому +5

      Katoey used to be a derogatory term for Thai Trans women, so Sow Song is what someone seems more polite (but there’s still some sense that Trans women aren’t accepted as Cis-women so there’re some people advocating not to assume what to call them) The interesting part is there’s stigmatization towards them that they always be funny (which I personally think humor might become their option to cope with discrimination), but their humor finally reclaim Katoey word to identify themselves.
      There is even a part of the song that goes, P’Katoey told me not to cry, which actually distorted from the original one (The song is Recall by BOWKYLION), but it became went so viral that many trans allies (especially in afab individuals) come to share their stories online when they’ve been empowered by Trans women in bad times, and they start to call Trans women as P’Katoey (P’ is a prefix to call who’s older) as a praise as they’re always supporting us like a sisterhood. After that, the artist gave interviews and thanked P’Katoey for supporting her work also.
      (Just wanted to share my opinion here🤣)

    • @yothiga
      @yothiga 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bloop4255 I feel like Kathoey and Saw song is not always interchangeable because all Saw song wants to be women but not all Kathoey (that I know) wants to be women. Some of my Kathoey friends totally happy with their genitalia.

  • @aimsilaon7644
    @aimsilaon7644 2 місяці тому +9

    Your Thai Accent is really good! Your intonation is almost on point. Thank you for loving our country it’s not perfect but we are full of love 💕

  • @Ash-qf3nd
    @Ash-qf3nd 2 місяці тому +4

    not sure if anyone told you too but offroad is a bl actor as well he starred in a few shows. he played in love in translation and the new one right now Century of love

  • @เตี๋ยวไก่-ป9ท
    @เตี๋ยวไก่-ป9ท 3 місяці тому +12

    In my classroom there are 1-2 lgbtq+ people, yes it is very normal. And we accept it because we are all people.

  • @livewithintention1625
    @livewithintention1625 Місяць тому +3

    13:10 omfg the face she made at the end!!! actually made me gasp I was so not expecting that hahahaha

  • @gloumiel4638
    @gloumiel4638 2 місяці тому +2

    omg i read this so wrong.. i thought it said “ why i dont feel safe in..” and i was like wait.. but isnt thailand like one of the most safe places for lgbtq (esp in asia) 😭

  • @DaveNrch
    @DaveNrch 3 місяці тому +19

    I enjoy watching your videos and the way you meet people. They all look friendly. The last man sharing you Gaolad (chestnut) surprisingly nice. By the way, welcome to Thailand.😁

  • @livingthequarterlife
    @livingthequarterlife 3 місяці тому +12

    Hello from Singapore here. First time chancing upon your video and I love how genuine you express yourself. Making miss Thailand so much!

  • @danyloup1547
    @danyloup1547 3 місяці тому +15

    Thank you for showing Thailand
    Happy Pride ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @TheDeciderGod
    @TheDeciderGod 3 місяці тому +28

    Yeah, but the trans in Thailand will never say they are a woman if they used to be a man or get offended if people say they r a man.

    • @EverydayisFriday-ws7ug
      @EverydayisFriday-ws7ug 3 місяці тому +2

      Because they are not women and there is nothing wrong for being a trans in Thailand.

    • @erinlevere6881
      @erinlevere6881 3 місяці тому +9

      But they still are trans women. Just because they don’t use terms western use doesn’t mean they see themselves as men.

    • @namjooniejoon6814
      @namjooniejoon6814 3 місяці тому +9

      not everyone uses the same terms as western people. why do you even care how other people define their identity man just live your own life

  • @cryssiecrys41
    @cryssiecrys41 3 місяці тому +17

    UA-cam recommended your channel girlie and I think I found a new comfort vlogger to watch 🥰

  • @rambodiehardwarrior749
    @rambodiehardwarrior749 3 місяці тому +11

    Hi Dency. I really enjoy watching your VDO exploring several shops in Bangkok, talking to people, that's so nice. The easiest way to ask "How much?" in Thai is "un-ni tow-rai ka?"..(*un pronounced like 'un' in 'unbelievable'). Have a great time in Bangkok.😊❤❤

  • @PSJish
    @PSJish 3 місяці тому +19

    Offroad Kantapon is the name of the singer you are looking for. Seems like he also plays the protagonist in many Thai BL series, too.

  • @s0s1x
    @s0s1x 3 місяці тому +11

    YOU’RE SO GORGEOUS. I’m glad you’re feeling free here welcome to Thailand na ka ❤️❤️

  • @tammyhuynh8006
    @tammyhuynh8006 3 місяці тому +11

    I love your energy! I hope you continue to have a great time there! Thanks for sharing a bit of your life there.

  • @sunookimbiased
    @sunookimbiased 2 місяці тому +2

    Bro, you watched offroad? Ur so lucky 😢😢

  • @jayp7117
    @jayp7117 3 місяці тому +10

    This is the first video I saw you. And now you’re my favorite UA-camr. love your energy!

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому

      Wow tnx so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽☺️

  • @BodinNaPhuket
    @BodinNaPhuket 3 місяці тому +10

    I just randomly saw this video and the titles are catching my attention!
    After that, I realized I had just falling in love with your vibes, your attitude, your style, the way you talk in Thai, your accent, your tone, and your positive energy! Thank you so much for sharing this, and I hope you have an enjoyable experience in Thailand. ❤ ขอบคุณครับ 🙏🏻🫡😁🫶🏻

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much kaa 🙏🏽☺️

  • @thewebsweweaved
    @thewebsweweaved 2 місяці тому +5

    Fan uit NL, ook ts, vindt het heel knap dat je gekozen hebt voor je eigen leven en de uitdaging aangaat in een land waar je je fijner voelt, NL gaat hard achteruit.. groetjes x much respect

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much babe 🙏🏽💖

  • @latreces464
    @latreces464 3 місяці тому +7

    You look like Stacey Dash, an American Actress from the 90's. Are you aware of her?

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +1

      Haha yes I’ve heard Stacey dash a few times 😂🙈

  • @danteshollowedgrounds
    @danteshollowedgrounds 2 місяці тому +3

    That's cool and good to hear honestly 😌😎👌 America is so weird and wild but

  • @monnakornpawatmanotham5935
    @monnakornpawatmanotham5935 3 місяці тому +3

    คนไทยยุคนี้ไม่ถือเรื่องนี้นะครับ
    สบาย ๆ ขอแค่ไม่สร้างความเดือดร้อนให้คนอื่นก็พอ 😍

  • @Beep-Boop101
    @Beep-Boop101 2 місяці тому +1

    The west is driven by political beliefs the left vs right vise versa , while Thais is conservative the people maintain a centered open mind,respect , and common ground unlike parts of the western world where we tend to want to fight for personal superiority

  • @AS-od6dg
    @AS-od6dg 3 місяці тому +2

    Thais are becoming more aware of the importance of using non-discriminatory and respectful language. The term "สาวประเภทสอง" (second type woman) may now be seen as divisive and inappropriate. Using the term "trans" is a better and more universal choice.

  • @ranyenglish
    @ranyenglish 3 місяці тому +8

    OMG! You’re so beautiful. I’m glad to see you enjoy being here :)))

  • @oshdi8589
    @oshdi8589 3 місяці тому +3

    I personally don't think ka-toey (กะเทย) is an inappropriate word to call transwomen. Since it has always been used for so long as referred to "people with both male and female inside their hearts or body". But maybe because of some discrimination, this word can seems offensive to some, if being said by those who aren't part of the community.

  • @anaissilva6278
    @anaissilva6278 3 місяці тому +6

    I found your video through the way (offroad's fandom) and you are so cute 🥹 btw he is the nicest, most sweetest soul too

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +2

      Oh really from his fandom🙈? That’s so funny haha thank you so much 🙏🏽☺️

  • @BeingAnneChannel
    @BeingAnneChannel 3 місяці тому +5

    You are absolutely stunning. You have got beautiful smile. ❤
    You are right! In Thailand you can be whatever you want. Be free and always be safe here. We respect you as the way you are.

  • @cosmic_841
    @cosmic_841 2 місяці тому +4

    I love that Thailand really preserve it's country like the freedom and beautiful scenery and the way people wont talk bad abt your sexuality

  • @Snaksj2
    @Snaksj2 2 місяці тому +1

    I hope my country ztayz thiz way, and doezznt change bc of zome ztupid wezternerz opinionz love u

  • @zombie-boneszz
    @zombie-boneszz Місяць тому +2

    I’m so glad you like it in Thailand! I’m Thai and I’m very glad that Thai people are usually okay with people from the LGBTQ+ community! Even if someone doesn’t like it, they don’t rlly say anything to you! They just mind their own business! But it’s nice to see that you liked it here in Thailand!

  • @thisha36
    @thisha36 3 місяці тому +8

    Your Thai pronunciation is awesome 💗

  • @hoffmaestro88
    @hoffmaestro88 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for resonating how it's really like to be out here to the rest of the world. Regardless of how we're so third-world country on so many things in life today. BUT the threshold of acceptance for the LGBTQ community in this society has made me think that we're also lightyears ahead of many other countries. For what it's worth, I'm grateful for Thailand and the whether it is the unconditional love or positive human connection we're willing to give each other. Why treat someone poorly just because they wanted to speak for they/themselves (see what I did there lol). I'm straight as a ruler but I'm telling you now. In Thailand, your voice will always be heard! Deep down we are all human, all the same flesh and blood. Recently, the senate has just passed the same-sex marriage legislation (the first in Southeast Asia) so it's really great to see how we're striving to be better here and there as well. To all pride communities worldwide, come to Thailand and let us be where your heart is at

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому

      I agree with you !!☺️☺️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @amaliejuuljakobsen956
    @amaliejuuljakobsen956 2 місяці тому +2

    omg you look like megan markle

  • @superbedmattress1278
    @superbedmattress1278 3 місяці тому +10

    Thank you for this video.. It makes me happy to see people come together here in Thailand and the world citizens feel like home here.

  • @laiyaijekiel2810
    @laiyaijekiel2810 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm a Thai woman and I love my LGBTQ friends. They're all lovely people and humorous :)❤

  • @LatinaKamilla
    @LatinaKamilla 2 місяці тому +3

    Sis, you are gorgeous! I made UA-cam videos too YEARS ago I gotta get back into it but how wonderful to see a gorgeous sister looking like a model and living her best life out and about. Seriously, I’m so proud of you and I genuinely mean that ❤
    P.s. what was up with that other trans woman you talked to and when you said by to each other she rolled her eyes and looked OVER IT. Lolll aww hell nawwww hahahah 😂

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much sis!! I appreciate it ☺️💖🫶🏼🫶🏼 I dont know what happened but looking back I was like …🤣 such a funny moment.

  • @Natascha1979
    @Natascha1979 3 місяці тому +6

    Hey Dency!
    Leuke video. Ook heel erg fijn om te horen dat je je daar vrij voelt. Heb het gevoel dat het in Nederland rap vermindert, de tolerantie. Dit was de eerste video die ik van je tegenkwam. Benieuw naar de rest. ❤️

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank uuu!!🙏🏽☺️ elk land heeft natuurlijk minder en goede kanten maar het lijkt wel achteruit te gaan ja :(

  • @DannyStrange236
    @DannyStrange236 3 місяці тому +7

    Love your personality and attitude, wish you happy in Thailand 🇹🇭

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +1

      🥰🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Genshin77-ze1ml
    @Genshin77-ze1ml 3 місяці тому +2

    I am Thai and I think it doesn't matter what you are , just dont make an illegal thing or step over on other peaple right. so everything will be fine ❤🎉😊

  • @Wendykim771
    @Wendykim771 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my gosh, he or she looked just like Megan Marcos ..

  • @aimsilaon7644
    @aimsilaon7644 2 місяці тому +4

    Your Thai Accent is really good! Your intonation is almost on point. Thank you for loving our country it’s not perfect but we are full of love 💕

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому

      Wow thanks so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @flarred
    @flarred Місяць тому +1

    i love the term ladyboy and the way that they say it is so cute it. warms my heart

  • @trivianene
    @trivianene 3 місяці тому +2

    fun fact: in thailand, the gays are the popular one in school. they mostly have lots of friends

  • @msbabycakes
    @msbabycakes 2 місяці тому +1

    omg the guy that randomly took a photo of you guys was so creepy! stay safe out there girly

  • @pang711
    @pang711 3 місяці тому +3

    Omg you are so beautiful. I’m a Thai lady and feel so happy that you enjoyed your time there. Btw, you reminded me of Megan.. you looks alike her!

  • @WalpitaGamage-Green
    @WalpitaGamage-Green Місяць тому +1

    Looking like the Duchess of Sussex...

  • @smc5200
    @smc5200 3 місяці тому +1

    Sexual orientation is not weaponized or part of a political agenda. It just is.

  • @marcobranco526
    @marcobranco526 2 місяці тому +3

    Thing about Bangkok is I find it hard to breathe, the humidity is on another level.

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  2 місяці тому +1

      The humidity is intense that’s true haha

  • @chantal9768
    @chantal9768 3 місяці тому +4

    Wat een leuke video, knappe meid ben je 😊. Geniet van het mooie Thailand, ik mag gelukkig 7 juli ook weer richting Bangkok vliegen. Lieve groetjes uit Eindhoven

  • @loganducusin6155
    @loganducusin6155 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the lady boys, I love thailand in general! The difference between these lady boys and the toxic trans community in the west is that these wonderful lady boys accepted their biology and respect it. They know who they were and they accpeted the fact that they are different and NOT trying to fit in a certain gender. That's the sole reason why they are soooooooooo happy and toxic free, because they accepted who they are. I know I will get a lot of hate by saying this, but I do really think that there is a HUGE DIFFERENCE betweem the asian trans community vs the west and I hope that the toxicity won't reach these wonderful people. To Dency, I'm really happy that you have found acceptance in thailand and I can see that you truly are happy

  • @angelbading
    @angelbading 2 місяці тому +2

    you have a meghan markle vibe. go girl

  • @joeysanchez7880
    @joeysanchez7880 Місяць тому +2

    Girl, you look like Meghan Markle

    • @85hr
      @85hr Місяць тому

      no frrr

  • @pompitousoflove
    @pompitousoflove 2 місяці тому +3

    Delicacy was the right word! Very cool video thank you.

  • @vssugakookie2398
    @vssugakookie2398 2 місяці тому +1

    Offroad performing...I love him! He's an idol and BL actor. His bl ship is Daou/Offroad. They are very ship..to the point some think they are a real couple. They HAVE NOT come out as one though. Just shipped together and are very close friends

  • @MonkeyhammerTP
    @MonkeyhammerTP 2 місяці тому +2

    Trans or not, you are stunning. 😍

  • @ddd4783
    @ddd4783 3 місяці тому +6

    ยินดีต้อนรับครับ คุณสวยมากกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกกก

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому +1

      ขอบคุณมากคะ

  • @Yeosangtiny5289
    @Yeosangtiny5289 2 місяці тому +1

    I love Thailand so much 🥹

  • @YAYAYAVOICE
    @YAYAYAVOICE 3 місяці тому +1

    We call ladyboys 'สาวสอง' (Saow Song). It means 'Woman Type 2' because we don't want to call them ladyboys. We want to respect that they are a kind of woman. So, we call them 'สาวสอง' (Saow Song)... BTW I love your vlog and your style!! You're gorgeous ☺️❤️❤️

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much!!🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Mew2MUSE
    @Mew2MUSE 3 місяці тому +3

    UA-cam recommends your video to me and I thought you were a model or an actress because you look so beautiful in your thumbnail

  • @Dom-vi4nu
    @Dom-vi4nu 3 місяці тому +3

    เมื่อเร็วๆนี้ ลิซ่าก็ได้มาถ่าย MV ที่เยาวราช

    • @meeek.9972
      @meeek.9972 3 місяці тому

      มิน่าพี่คนนั่นถ่ายรูปที่เยาวราชแบบเหมือนปิดถนนเลย คนที่ถ่ายรูปกับคนดังๆเยอะๆอ่ะ

  • @wanderotter4667
    @wanderotter4667 Місяць тому +1

    Wat een leuke video! Ik snap helemaalwaarom je in Thailand wilt wonen. :)

  • @snowflakes90
    @snowflakes90 3 місяці тому +4

    First time I am here but I’ve got first impression..really.
    Nice to see you. I wish I could have a friend like you. 🎀

    • @lifewithdency
      @lifewithdency  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much kha ☺️☺️🙏🏽

  • @SPL3NDID
    @SPL3NDID 2 місяці тому +2

    You're so gorgeous 💕

  • @NateWithWho
    @NateWithWho 3 місяці тому +3

    Showing why Thailand is #1 the country to retire to.

  • @samisolaris
    @samisolaris 2 місяці тому +3

    hello, as someone who was always interested by the diversity of thailand's capital city, i loved your vlog showcasing it. it's so beautiful so see your experiences there and the people there (and you) are so charismatic, much love 💞

  • @redeutteok1
    @redeutteok1 2 місяці тому +1

    As a Thai gay, i’m really proud to be born in this country. And for all LGBTQ+ people who suffering from homophobic your country is, i hope someday you move to live here legally! We’re always welcome! 🙏🏻🇹🇭