It’s painful if ur mother can say such words in pain n she still insists she wants ‘sell herself’😭

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  • @flavour0018
    @flavour0018  9 місяців тому +14

    Watch Previous Ep here
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  • @robertouko9871
    @robertouko9871 9 місяців тому +65

    *Shout out loud to all ladies who doesn't go for short cuts to make a living.. may God bless* 🙏

  • @zulekamusa
    @zulekamusa 9 місяців тому +24

    Vipi Steve, my hubby is an advocate dealing with children matters, he saw the clip and he's ready to represent the gentleman for child custody pro bono.

    • @iamrei4479
      @iamrei4479 9 місяців тому +1

      Hello

    • @ponsandeso6397
      @ponsandeso6397 9 місяців тому +2

      This lady won't be given custody of the kid coz of that kind of life she has chosen

    • @jamesmorgan_o2716
      @jamesmorgan_o2716 9 місяців тому +1

      Steve help , the dad get baby

    • @ErickOkoth-yd8lf
      @ErickOkoth-yd8lf 7 місяців тому

      Hello madam I even have the problem about my child upkeep and custody juu mahali Yuko na mamake simahali pazuri can u connect me plz with your hubby I see if I can get help from him plz

  • @Faluthe
    @Faluthe 9 місяців тому +83

    Jamaa aache haka kajinga kaende and never ever allow her back, because she will crawl back with regrets and psychological buggage. Depression loading.

    • @ioicemauda4604
      @ioicemauda4604 9 місяців тому +2

      Truee 😢

    • @fridahkananu9355
      @fridahkananu9355 9 місяців тому +2

      Kako na ufala sana anaona like life it's simple huku nje

    • @jamesmacharia786
      @jamesmacharia786 9 місяців тому

      Kanathani soft lyf inakujanga hvo tu easily katateseka sna huku nje ni kubad katajua hakajui

    • @Faluthe
      @Faluthe 9 місяців тому

      @@jamesmacharia786 wacha kaende kanyanduliwe. Without brains, private parts suffer the most.

  • @BIGGIE2SAGE_254
    @BIGGIE2SAGE_254 9 місяців тому +12

    Bad company ruins good morals 😪

  • @favourmuchmore7116
    @favourmuchmore7116 9 місяців тому +7

    What a mother can see seated while in the kitchen, a daughter can not see standing on the rooftop.

  • @vincentrotich2296
    @vincentrotich2296 9 місяців тому +5

    Adui wa mwanamke ni mwanamke mwenzake.

  • @joemwaura6783
    @joemwaura6783 9 місяців тому +59

    The Kikuyu reprimand hits so well. Only that the girl is a dunderhead.

  • @gracewangari8121
    @gracewangari8121 9 місяців тому +16

    This thing reminded me the kind of friends i had nikiwa mdogo😢😢😢 they used to try to initiate me to such things like this walikuanga wanajiuza westie...i was so down homless and jobless by then😢😢😢 i thank God soo much HE put fear in me and i never joined those girls na kidogo kidogo nikajiwithdraw kwa hio grp yao😢😢😢 saa cjui wako wapi ama aje...i deeply thank God kwa kunitegeu cjui kungeenda aje....no need ya kutamani life ya mtu. Pole pole am far better from where i was hio time ni God manze... 😢😢😢

  • @godfreykweyu6838
    @godfreykweyu6838 9 місяців тому +30

    Her mother is a gem and she did her best to raise her..... peer pressure is messing this girl but inside she is a good person.

  • @AlbumDumblebee
    @AlbumDumblebee 5 місяців тому +1

    "The child who is not embrased by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth." an African Proverb

  • @chakaeki2786
    @chakaeki2786 9 місяців тому +11

    Mwambieni ukweli atapata ukimwi, atakuliwa nyuma avalie pampers

  • @tabbydiallo2
    @tabbydiallo2 9 місяців тому +10

    The mother looks young &beautiful

  • @denniskmusyoka4094
    @denniskmusyoka4094 9 місяців тому +14

    God, when that time comes, please bless me with such a mother-in-law.

  • @roselikhaya5872
    @roselikhaya5872 9 місяців тому +25

    Don't like short cuts, never compare yourself to anyone, never admire anyone's life

  • @eunicewanjiru9392
    @eunicewanjiru9392 9 місяців тому +10

    1Timothy 6:10
    "For the love of money is a source of all kinds of evil. Some have been so eager to have it that they have wandered away from the faith and have broken their hearts with many sorrows."

  • @annekimani8859
    @annekimani8859 9 місяців тому +47

    Nothing is painful than a parent who has struggled to raise you up in a decent upbringing and see you getting lost 😢

    • @leahongegu
      @leahongegu 9 місяців тому +2

      One of the most painful follow ups I’ve watched 😢😢feeling desperate for the mum

    • @annekimani8859
      @annekimani8859 9 місяців тому +1

      @@leahongegu so true this is painful not the vayolence we laugh at

    • @nellyflo9736
      @nellyflo9736 8 місяців тому

      😢 walaii

    • @elizabethmbugua-uk3pj
      @elizabethmbugua-uk3pj 8 місяців тому

      It's so sad akii

  • @mbogowinston
    @mbogowinston 9 місяців тому +14

    The modern women hate the process. They want instant results without struggling.

  • @kampista11
    @kampista11 9 місяців тому +9

    Mum no matter what situation, don't allow this girl to go that direction, she is in a wrong company, stamp your authority as a mother.

  • @tonnyndundahse69
    @tonnyndundahse69 9 місяців тому +9

    The pain in the mothers voice, she knows how difficult the streets are, she want the best for he daughter

  • @kuimurage5068
    @kuimurage5068 9 місяців тому +17

    How gullible is this girl. Lord save her please. This is not the way.😢😢😢

  • @manchesterunitedfc9579
    @manchesterunitedfc9579 9 місяців тому +13

    She is humble but😢,peer pressure 😢

    • @miriamkairu904
      @miriamkairu904 9 місяців тому

      Haki peer pressure ni mbaya hadi kwa grown ups😥

  • @Muthonie
    @Muthonie 9 місяців тому +47

    Sis! Life is hard everywhere. Nothing comes easy.

  • @janetwangari440
    @janetwangari440 9 місяців тому +37

    Comparison is the worst thing in the world, let me run my own race❤

  • @anthonymichweya5800
    @anthonymichweya5800 9 місяців тому +17

    The moment you start living someones life you get everything wrong 😢😢

  • @victorotieno2369
    @victorotieno2369 9 місяців тому +7

    Kazi Ni umalaya, they are afraid of saying the word, call a spade a spade....ati kufurahisha watu😂😂😂

  • @MargretMuthami-ej9zh
    @MargretMuthami-ej9zh 9 місяців тому +6

    Comparison is the enemy of inner peace.

  • @edwardcheruiyot6057
    @edwardcheruiyot6057 9 місяців тому +15

    What i can say is that every successful person can never tell you the hardships he will just tell you the good things

  • @salmanyawera5055
    @salmanyawera5055 9 місяців тому +7

    Team strong team gulf mjipigie makofiii hard working girls 😂0 pressure more dryspel but account inasoma na more respect kwa wenye wanatuelewq❤😂😂😂😂😂

  • @janelubulela2808
    @janelubulela2808 9 місяців тому +40

    The time this lady accepted to have a drink with those ladies is when she was initiated into the trade. That's why she's resolute. It will take divine intervention to get her back. Those who know,know

    • @shishrembo5251
      @shishrembo5251 9 місяців тому +7

      yea..they will be selling her anapewa pesa kidogo hizo zingine wanachukuwa..i wish she can open her eyes aki

    • @janethmakori7942
      @janethmakori7942 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly it's not that easy the more men you sleep with the more shadows and soul ties you walk with

    • @manchesterunitedfc9579
      @manchesterunitedfc9579 9 місяців тому +2

      Exactly

    • @shishrembo5251
      @shishrembo5251 9 місяців тому

      @@janethmakori7942 yea life is spiritual

    • @johnjonee6711
      @johnjonee6711 9 місяців тому

      Huyu ni mbwa mwitu.

  • @anastasiamurugi53
    @anastasiamurugi53 9 місяців тому +10

    She's a good mother

  • @anthonymichweya5800
    @anthonymichweya5800 9 місяців тому +16

    Don't ignore the parents advice,,you gonna regret

  • @ToxicAfricanKing
    @ToxicAfricanKing 9 місяців тому +22

    She's blessed with such a good mom! Notice how worried she was about her grandchild and even the daughter. It's so unfortunate she's just so naive and wants to be a muttonhead like Ciku. There's a reason as to why parents tell us to be wary of the company we keep for they are a reflection of who we are, or who we want to be. Friends like Ciku are not good for anyone.

    • @wanjikuperish7462
      @wanjikuperish7462 9 місяців тому

      Uyu ako n mom mzuri,,nmelelewa n single mom pia but ukieza jaribu kumshw ujinga ka huu anakuangusha apo hadi man stivo anapotea khai

  • @dalmasnyambane6484
    @dalmasnyambane6484 9 місяців тому +4

    her level of education tells it all.

  • @raymondomondi5974
    @raymondomondi5974 9 місяців тому +9

    BMS-Unataka kuanza kukunywa pombe?
    Dem -Mmmmh.
    Mimi - Ahahahaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @ruthkemmy
    @ruthkemmy 9 місяців тому +5

    Utakufa vibaya sana baby gal una.announce mbele ya mamako unaenda kujiuza 😢😢😢😢😢 kitakuramba sanaaa your mum is against it,,, those hyenas will give you the snake minus money wanakuangalia tu venye una yap

  • @rashidkipkemboi5157
    @rashidkipkemboi5157 9 місяців тому +5

    Mum the best ❤

  • @opondostephen
    @opondostephen 9 місяців тому +17

    The craving desire she has for that job is not because of money, its a spiritual demon of prostitution. To appease those spirits, there has to be sexual covenants and possible flow of blood. Good job BMS

  • @iqtarab535
    @iqtarab535 9 місяців тому +34

    In this life no comparison otherwise you will never know the value of what you have until you loose it 🙄🙄🙄

    • @Kwa123
      @Kwa123 9 місяців тому

      Kuna point hapa

  • @HubasaFamily254
    @HubasaFamily254 9 місяців тому +4

    Kumbe she was serious,ameamua kuchukua upoko kama profession, kang'ura 🤷🤷🤷, welcome to the cold streets....

  • @felixomondi1776
    @felixomondi1776 9 місяців тому +54

    Why is she even granted a platform and audience to contemplate and publicize such absurdity?

  • @BowensVince
    @BowensVince 9 місяців тому +17

    What a wonderful mother I wish I had someone in life like who can advice me and guide me through life

    • @gracewangari8121
      @gracewangari8121 9 місяців тому +2

      We have God dea

    • @BowensVince
      @BowensVince 9 місяців тому

      @@gracewangari8121 Amen I forget that thanks for reminding me

  • @johnkuma6867
    @johnkuma6867 9 місяців тому +15

    Hiyo maisha ya umalaya utaweza dada?Watu watakuwa wanamuingilia kwa mkundu ,kuma na mdomo kwa wakati moja. Sister hatapenda hiyo.maisha ya umalaya si rahisi. Utapewa 20,000.00 uingizwe mboro mbili kwa kuma na 30 000.00 mboro ya tatu kwa mkundu. Please usijaribu hiyo maisha. Utalie sana kukumbuka siku Ile ulikuwa umekaa hapa ukiambiwa usijaribu hiyo kazi. Mkundu itakuwa inavuja,kuma iko na vipele na mwili iko na super ukimwi. Nimekuonya usijaribu hiyo kazi ya kilimani

    • @onyangoleah7387
      @onyangoleah7387 9 місяців тому +3

      @johnkuma6867...say it loud...this lady will regret😢

    • @johnkuma6867
      @johnkuma6867 9 місяців тому

      @@onyangoleah7387 hiyo nayo ni kazi ya mtu kufanya ukiwa na akili zako kamili?

    • @faithgoga3983
      @faithgoga3983 9 місяців тому +2

      Na kutibu ugonjwa wa sti ama std is damn expensive

    • @rosekemuntonchabera5087
      @rosekemuntonchabera5087 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂 noma sana

    • @lisaayuma8668
      @lisaayuma8668 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @iqtarab535
    @iqtarab535 9 місяців тому +60

    Not all friends are best friends 😔🙄 others are for mission 🥴🥴

  • @Mama-A
    @Mama-A 9 місяців тому +10

    This girl was too young for marriage...too young for a kid...too young to make heavy decisions about life.infact inafaa akue anawatch cartoons....women grow mentally from 25years and up.

    • @zipporah.xhex.6694
      @zipporah.xhex.6694 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂Cartoon wallae

    • @Muthonie
      @Muthonie 9 місяців тому

      True. She's also not considering the effects of her choices

    • @Blessedandchosen
      @Blessedandchosen 9 місяців тому

      Very true.She is still young,green and naive

    • @Mama-A
      @Mama-A 9 місяців тому

      @@Blessedandchosen huyu hata hajielewi

    • @lextar9729
      @lextar9729 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂Haki ww

  • @stephennjiru
    @stephennjiru 9 місяців тому +25

    If you don't know the value of loyalty, you will never understand the damage of betrayal.

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 9 місяців тому +1

    Cheers to us who are hustling in gulf clean money

  • @michaelwafula1625
    @michaelwafula1625 9 місяців тому +2

    What a mother in law that is!!

  • @nesbitmiriti4366
    @nesbitmiriti4366 9 місяців тому +3

    Shiru +wababa+ D- huyu ashapotea😂.

  • @ms.muthoni9740
    @ms.muthoni9740 9 місяців тому +6

    This girl is too innocent she needs counseling

    • @stevenmutumbu2860
      @stevenmutumbu2860 9 місяців тому

      Labda ni silent Criminal no gwetua na vile ako na Mum caring.

    • @erenestawanjiru1935
      @erenestawanjiru1935 8 місяців тому

      It's Poverty Pushing One Saaaana....Not Good But Weaaaaah

  • @christophervitar9085
    @christophervitar9085 9 місяців тому +8

    Wise words from caring mum, she will live to regret

  • @zakiakusaja8603
    @zakiakusaja8603 9 місяців тому +4

    Ukimwi utakupokea huko wa baba amekula maisha hata wakifa hawana cha kupoteza wewe mtoto mdogo wakupe ugojwa na wakufumue huko nyama utakuwa mgeni wa nani maisha ndo yatazidi kuwa magumu mara mbili ya hapo shari yako😢😢😢

  • @Boiz6975
    @Boiz6975 9 місяців тому +8

    When the head is empty.....private parts suffers most in the name of kuishi poa/kujitafutia/.....choices have consequences period

  • @iqtarab535
    @iqtarab535 9 місяців тому +10

    The gal will know truly not all that glitters is gold 🙄🙄🙄

  • @georgejuma9221
    @georgejuma9221 9 місяців тому +16

    Don't overtrust friends to the extent of giving them your head running away with it to their dark destination 😂😢😢😢😮

    • @charity4908
      @charity4908 9 місяців тому +1

      Hawa marafiki yake, wata mchezea ataona na kinywa.

    • @georgejuma9221
      @georgejuma9221 9 місяців тому +3

      @charity4908 she is green, and they want to benefit from her being ignorant

    • @gracekamau6798
      @gracekamau6798 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @keeneds
    @keeneds 9 місяців тому +4

    I respect that...she did not cheat. She opted to leave first and declare the direction she wants to take.

  • @mikeandrew9417
    @mikeandrew9417 9 місяців тому +10

    this why the cycle never ends

  • @arodiboyi
    @arodiboyi 9 місяців тому +4

    I detest this line "Watu ama ndoa nikuvumiliana" this how they end up six feet under......

  • @brianisinga2180
    @brianisinga2180 9 місяців тому +3

    The good thing is that this video is on the internet. She will watch it later in the future.

  • @user-bi3zu2vs2c
    @user-bi3zu2vs2c 9 місяців тому +2

    😢😢😢 kwani haoni vile wasichana wanauliwa wanatupwa😢😢tafuta kazi sweat until you get your own money please

  • @bigpoppa2024
    @bigpoppa2024 9 місяців тому +1

    Haka kadanda hakajiulizi kama hao marafiki zake wako na maisha poa na pesa nyingi,kwanini wanakaa wasichana wengi kwa nyumba moja????sikama pesa wanayo kila mtu angekuwa kwake!!!!!

  • @sharonatenate9040
    @sharonatenate9040 9 місяців тому +3

    The lady needs serious counseling stevoh, Ata ka ataki bwanake n poa n kujichunga uku inje sikuzuri vl anafikiria

  • @4Forward
    @4Forward 9 місяців тому +1

    She needs counseling... She is speaking her heart which is true but deeply she is soo disturbed. I feel her pain.. Poverty n lack of money can make you make crazy choices you might regret

  • @Deffaratti
    @Deffaratti 9 місяців тому +4

    Most of shikus wanapenda soft life hizi majina huwa ziko na mambo.

  • @kishdaniels
    @kishdaniels 9 місяців тому +2

    Huyu ndio Mwalimu wa hesabu aliitanga " lazybones". Kanaogopa hadi kufikiria

  • @Wamae254
    @Wamae254 9 місяців тому +2

    This naive girl will REGRET!!!

    • @techyard828
      @techyard828 9 місяців тому +1

      Yea because io kitu sio yake ni influence tu nikimwagalia yy sio type ya mtaa

  • @louiseoluoch
    @louiseoluoch 9 місяців тому +1

    This girl need to listen to her mum, cos mums knows best and your mum want the best for you. She also need to understand that all that glitters is not gold, Shiku can look polished and loaded but her life is full of sadness and regret.

  • @edwardgondi3610
    @edwardgondi3610 9 місяців тому +1

    It was early for thz lady to get married, she's still young let her mom take her back home for more advice.....!!that slyqueen deceived her and poisoned her mind...poleni sana

  • @KENNETHONYANGONyamitta
    @KENNETHONYANGONyamitta 9 місяців тому +4

    True mummy ❤❤❤

  • @edwinomondi5656
    @edwinomondi5656 9 місяців тому +12

    Comparison is the thief of Joy!

  • @kigai1522
    @kigai1522 9 місяців тому +2

    I rerepeat again, money is the root to all evils. I just heard her say, "ni kazi itanipea pesa poa". 😢😢😢 Money money money 💰💰 we all chase the bag but let's be keen kuna ufalme wa mbinguni .

  • @jacobkorir6736
    @jacobkorir6736 9 місяців тому +3

    There's no shortcuts in life ladies you have to work for it

  • @dennisogeto6623
    @dennisogeto6623 9 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤ Mother of the year May God help her

  • @jamaatuu
    @jamaatuu 9 місяців тому +2

    Hii ‘soft’ life is not soft at all. The things gal child does for that ‘easy’ money ain’t easy at all.

  • @jina253
    @jina253 9 місяців тому +1

    Let her go,atapata character development uko ndio atajua aligi mess,tama inaua pusi

  • @ivykerry3110
    @ivykerry3110 9 місяців тому +9

    Nowadays success is so slow😢😢. Time flies so fast n patience is not in our route.

    • @Penalty252
      @Penalty252 9 місяців тому +4

      From college I ones worked as a security, people pointed fingers at me but at end am who I am.

    • @stevenmutumbu2860
      @stevenmutumbu2860 9 місяців тому

      ​@@Penalty252They says good things comes to those who waits and patience is Gold +44

  • @cyndiehnyashiroz4630
    @cyndiehnyashiroz4630 9 місяців тому

    Never regret one day coz one day this guy will be lovely in life,very peaceful and there will be no space for ypu and time will be already out.....He is coolest guy and trying all much for you....Shiko wanakudanganya u dnt wat they passed thru ndo wakafaulu or wat they are going thru ndo wamake a living,they might be lying to u ndo u join😢😢😢😢be careful

  • @sharoneshimuli1438
    @sharoneshimuli1438 9 місяців тому +1

    The wine she took had kasomething...this gal apelekwe kwa maombi she will recover..she is not herself

  • @nancynashipae1505
    @nancynashipae1505 9 місяців тому +1

    The best mum ever

    • @stevenmutumbu2860
      @stevenmutumbu2860 9 місяців тому

      Mum wake ni mu Caring lakini anaongelesha ukuta😢😢

  • @otomunyariki9417
    @otomunyariki9417 9 місяців тому +1

    Muulize tena kwa sauti ...atamalizia wapi .? Kaburi tu 😢

  • @JohnMwangi-jv3pp
    @JohnMwangi-jv3pp 9 місяців тому +1

    Its like she has already made her descions, wababas for life .she is not even afraid of her mother

  • @blackylampard640
    @blackylampard640 9 місяців тому +2

    The mother has a right to arrest this girl to save her from this shit

  • @Queen-ci8pq
    @Queen-ci8pq 9 місяців тому +3

    She is cute, kuja Saudi mamaa tuhustle, uavoid STIs

  • @mugunaangaine8066
    @mugunaangaine8066 9 місяців тому

    This one is sad...God have Mercy

  • @juliewambui2618
    @juliewambui2618 9 місяців тому +1

    She's just like prodigal son in the bible.At times people you need to let people do what they want and learn from the world.She may ignore the counsel of her mum but she's going to regret.

  • @user-ty4xl1er8j
    @user-ty4xl1er8j 9 місяців тому

    This mother is soft to her daughter

  • @kckc1294
    @kckc1294 9 місяців тому

    The mum should take temporary custody of her grandchild .... baby's needs and safety comes first

  • @franciscamunyiva7735
    @franciscamunyiva7735 9 місяців тому +1

    Uuuuuuuui aki this girl... I really feel for her and the mum and the hubby. Na ameamua ya ukweli kufanya umalaya. Look at the mum she's the one who's supposed to be in this, this gal is lost. But mum let the child be left with the dad. Kijana take ur child and move to a different environment and move on. We also gave birth at 20 but we struggled to be where we are. Gal listen to ur mum. The world will teach u, lesbianism, kufanywa nyuma, taking drugs etc even the leader of that gang told u lazima uamue coz it's not easy, remember those words... What's not easy, definitely it's the things they go through meaning hata u can go with someone then he refuses to pay u after fucking u left, rt, center the whole night.

  • @timxtv2621
    @timxtv2621 9 місяців тому

    This is jezebel spirit, she needs deliverance,,oribasakandarakebaralasikarrappasayarapppa🙏

  • @stephnjesh563
    @stephnjesh563 9 місяців тому +14

    Let her learn from her actions

  • @stephennjiru
    @stephennjiru 9 місяців тому +9

    Be humble and always remember to stay kind to everyone because you will not stay fresh forever.

  • @nyokskinyah8246
    @nyokskinyah8246 9 місяців тому +1

    Madness huku ni kurogwa aki . She will regret

  • @mercynafula3902
    @mercynafula3902 9 місяців тому

    I just turned 23 yrs old and i remember one day nishawahi danganywa na a friend nkasave 5k ya kuingizwa hii saff but I thought about it for a second time nililia sana na hiyo pesa nikapeleka church kama tithe...so far so good i thank God am okay now hata kama ni kuhustle.

    • @user-we5cf3oz5j
      @user-we5cf3oz5j 9 місяців тому

      Kwani inalipiwa 😅😅😅😅😂😂

  • @sca2018
    @sca2018 9 місяців тому +7

    Shiko is staying in the same plot

  • @janemuthoni723
    @janemuthoni723 9 місяців тому +1

    Hata toka aende hajabadilisha hata nguo,give her time you’ll get her here crying begging her man to come back,akifunguliwa mara moja atajua uzuri wa umalaya

  • @ceciliakingori174
    @ceciliakingori174 9 місяців тому

    People should understand no situation is permanent

  • @Vgm891
    @Vgm891 9 місяців тому

    Hapa kama mzazi unasema , "I did my best ,you chose your life " maisha ni yako

  • @roseundisa4283
    @roseundisa4283 9 місяців тому +1

    This girl need prayers, Hata hajui Chenye anasema,

  • @stephenmpole2472
    @stephenmpole2472 9 місяців тому

    Watoto huekelewa vitu mingi😢.. you chose your life girl.

  • @cyrusmatheka6357
    @cyrusmatheka6357 9 місяців тому

    This girl is not herself she needs deliverance and counseling please step by step ....stivi guide her na make sure she keep off that company.....juu she is might be going through alot so it's better tumejua mapema before it happens so guide her please akuje back to her normal senses