Boundaries in Christian Relationships

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  • @Jessica-md4hb
    @Jessica-md4hb 4 роки тому +1

    I have looked and searched for a video like this for a longtime thank you guys for being so thorough and faithful to God to spread the word of purity from God's word.

  • @davidmatengu5726
    @davidmatengu5726 6 років тому +24

    I loved when Karryima said God's standards are not man's standard....

  • @juliacollins3598
    @juliacollins3598 6 років тому +31

    Haven’t heard this type of teaching in over 60 years. The key to success was the love of God as well as being equally yoked with someone who has knowledge of, and commitment to his word..completely. Kinda check and balance each other. So proud of you young couple. I’ll share this with my grands and assure them that what I was taught by my grandmother so many years ago, was alway what was expected. Abstinence and monogamy are not passé.😇

    • @robertsmatthews727
      @robertsmatthews727 4 роки тому +1

      love this concept n Christ. Thank you and your example

  • @jeantownsend6389
    @jeantownsend6389 6 років тому +35

    WOW YOU-TUBE NEEDS THIS!.... LOVE THE WAY YOU GUYS RESPECTS EACH OTHER..PLEASE POST MORE

  • @ThisCCLife
    @ThisCCLife 6 років тому +14

    I love how Karryima was reciting the scripture by memory. I feel those verses you really meditate on and use to work out your salvation, the Lord writes them on your heart. Looking forward to see more of your videos.

  • @josephboyd4406
    @josephboyd4406 6 років тому +13

    This is great keep presenting Christ!!!!!The world needs to hear christians presenting a Holy God!!!

  • @missaraebiaphotography
    @missaraebiaphotography 5 років тому +2

    I love how Isaiah protected your purity. That's truly showing such Christ-like characteristics. You guys are such an amazing example. I sat my younger children down to watch this with them and the wording that you used, and the scriptures were spot on. Sometimes just hearing it from someone else helps and it really did. Thanks for this!!!

  • @claudettemcgibbon5113
    @claudettemcgibbon5113 6 років тому +15

    You are my favorite couple due to your honesty, decency and love for the Lord. I have a request, although this video has such excellent information, the music was very distracting. Both your voices are soft and I felt like I had to competed with the background music to get the full impact of what you are saying. Please consider keeping the background music a lot lower. I do pray for you both. Such a beautiful example of a family that loves God. Thank you and God bless .)

    • @ThePekaryPack
      @ThePekaryPack  6 років тому +5

      Hi Claudette! Thank you so much for you encouragement and super helpful feedback. We’ve heard from a few other people as well about the music volume and will definitely be mindful of that in our future videos. We so apologize that you had to strain your ears this time. Definitely don’t hesitate to let us know whatever ways you feel our videos can be most effective and most God-honoring. Thank you again! :)

    • @jeremygreer7164
      @jeremygreer7164 5 років тому

      AMEN!!!! This is pure AWESOMENESS!!!!

  • @louiselove8212
    @louiselove8212 6 років тому +8

    Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for this video.

  • @ablazulu5566
    @ablazulu5566 6 років тому +11

    Thank you so much for this, I personally needed such helpful advice when it comes to setting boundaries and I like how you explained everything, God bless you guys may you continue blessing us with more videos, love you lots

  • @olamideajewole3352
    @olamideajewole3352 6 років тому +7

    Thank you! Very informative! 😊 God bless you both! 🙏🏾

  • @abesenya4618
    @abesenya4618 6 років тому +8

    Amen God bless you and your family

  • @kelliemurphy2528
    @kelliemurphy2528 6 років тому +11

    You guys are adorable and your messages are encouraging. Thank you for your channel 🤗

  • @Magdala347
    @Magdala347 6 років тому +4

    Thank you guys for posting this video and even your last one. Your transparency has definitely been helpful for me and I know it has been for many others. May God bless you both and your little one as you strive to glorify Him in your individual lives as well as your marriage!🙏👍🏼

  • @denisemckoy3649
    @denisemckoy3649 6 років тому +2

    I love how you all have selected Jesus to be your center piece of your relationship. I can see him in your life.. May he bless you all richly.

  • @georgeopoku9204
    @georgeopoku9204 6 років тому +3

    Thanks for reminding your audience of the power of the Holy Spirit to help in the pursuit of purity in relationships. I think Nemiah was another important lesson. She was not going to give up until she got what she wanted even if that meant covering her head in Mama's dress : talk of persistence.

  • @moexoxo6189
    @moexoxo6189 6 років тому +4

    Yes thanks you!! I needed to hear this.. God is great!!

  • @ElohimsLily
    @ElohimsLily 6 років тому +2

    I'm late but I wanted you both to know that I really enjoyed the video. It definitely spoke to me. I'm single at the moment but I am striving to be more Christ minded. This video brought up so many things that I'll keep in mind whenever I start dating again.

  • @tanyadixon7980
    @tanyadixon7980 5 років тому +2

    Teach this lesson. It can never be taught too many times. Never. Make it plain. Let the truth rain!!💦🌧️🌧️🌧️🌧️
    Boys and girls : Lesson #1: Truly; abstinence AND monogamy is not passé.
    Rule #2: When dating, never be in a house alone with someone that you are dating & sexually attracted to.
    Rule #3: Don't trust your own self-control.
    Rule #4: Avoid long hugs.
    Rule#5: No kissing till you're married. It can lead quickly to "other" things.
    Rule# 6: No touching or massage in certain areas. Boundaries. Realize what is "too much stimulation", and avoid it, if you're still just dating.
    #7 Be mindful of the clothes you wear.
    Run from anything that Kindles lust.

  • @couronneeclatante224
    @couronneeclatante224 5 років тому +1

    Thank you both for doing this. So encouraging to hear that this godly man led his wife to more purity. Inspiring. May God bless you both.

  • @Jade.Mcdowell
    @Jade.Mcdowell 6 років тому +14

    Hi guys, I wanted to know how to maintain waiting for your future spouse when you have been single your whole life. I’m 25 and it’s pretty hard. Also how was your walk in the beginning before you got married? I hear alot of times people say you have to really find yourself in Christ before you can meet that person. Which is true. Last question, when you like someone how do you keep from thinking about them? And is it okay for a girl to talk to the guy first, and how can you tell if he is or not interested in you. Thankyou so much for the inspiring and GOD centered videos.❤️ So sorry for the long questions. Could you possibly make videos on these topics.🤗

    • @charityboss5959
      @charityboss5959 2 роки тому

      Pray and ask God for all things sincerely and he will here your cry. That includes temptations and who he has for you.

  • @kamekiabaker1069
    @kamekiabaker1069 6 років тому +2

    I love this video. It's very honest, unpretentious and applicable. It gives a very practical approach to pursuing purity. Am just smiling a big smile am so moved to see young people living this kind of life it encourages me as a Christian that romance and love can be pure and godly and not made ugly by the world's ideas of what it should be. Your story has given me such proof that this purity in relationship is possible. May God bless your family and may the beauty of Jesus be continually seen in you, your family and your life style .

    • @capatga
      @capatga 6 років тому

      I know. I want a tape of this session.

  • @michelle37a
    @michelle37a 6 років тому +2

    Amen thank you for your testimony and for your desire to serve and honor God

  • @harrietnamayegga6992
    @harrietnamayegga6992 5 років тому

    Thank you so much Katrina and Isaiah for making this video, I have been asking our God to have mercy on me and answer my prayers and after watching this video, I felt God’s voice telling to be pure and true to him. Thanks for the scripture quotations. I humbly ask you to include me in your prayers that I be able to always find peace in Christ and he sends me the right spouse who loves God more than I do. Stay blessed

  • @ziyandadewa6247
    @ziyandadewa6247 6 років тому

    Your family was raised for such a time as this. I also love your speaking back God’s bible promises and expectations. Even though my husband and I waited(now been married for over 20 years) I’ve learnt so much more of the practical godly ways of both the letter and spirit of the law while waiting.

  • @Reflectionsofthesoul7
    @Reflectionsofthesoul7 4 роки тому

    Listening to this video reminded me of Ruth and Boaz from the Bible. How Boaz redeemed Ruth and her identity changed entirely and through their marriage she(despite coming from a sinful Moabite people) Was able to join the lineage of Grace.

  • @allo8339
    @allo8339 6 років тому +1

    Wooooooow I have not heard this for along time ..... a couple celebrating God's doing and representing Christ Jesus to the fullest..... congrats ! I wish I could get a white man who believes n respects God like that 🙏

  • @detchaczoble
    @detchaczoble 5 років тому

    That couple talks from heart. Thank you for sharing with the world rhe words of God. Young people need to listen more to you. Ut would be nice to be in christian channel so more people can benefit from your story. Keep it up!

  • @Gassyyetclassy
    @Gassyyetclassy 6 років тому +4

    How was the transition of being impure, to becoming pure? What advice would you give to someone, who has an impure past, wanting to become pure, but still seems to struggle from mental temptations? What's the best advice for breaking free from the impure mentality?

  • @richardmontgomery8235
    @richardmontgomery8235 6 років тому +2

    Love you guys... Thanks for doing this... Mic.2:7d "Do not My words do good To him who walks uprightly?"

  • @apolenelopez4906
    @apolenelopez4906 5 років тому

    thank you for being an instrument... may God continue to bless and use you guys...

  • @godsgirrrl721
    @godsgirrrl721 5 років тому +2

    Wonderful example❤️ God bless you guys💕

  • @reasonalemayehu475
    @reasonalemayehu475 5 років тому

    God blessings to you two 🙏🏽 I’m so impressed I pray that, this generation will be thriving to honoring God 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Belove8000
    @Belove8000 6 років тому

    “I’m just so irresistible” 😂her laughter is great.. beautiful family ☺️🙏🏽

  • @lulu2.056
    @lulu2.056 5 років тому +1

    You guys are such an inspiration!

  • @omarivalerie
    @omarivalerie 6 років тому +2

    LORRRDDDD I NEED THIS!

  • @lesedithokozilegoqwana9740
    @lesedithokozilegoqwana9740 6 років тому +1

    I really love you guys. I definitely see Christ in you guys:-)

  • @annackiehaimbili1824
    @annackiehaimbili1824 3 роки тому

    Useful information praise the Lord

  • @donnacooke2126
    @donnacooke2126 5 років тому

    I subscribed to your channel after seeing the wonderful proposal. God bless you both, yall are a cute couple :)

  • @alischaschmidt7821
    @alischaschmidt7821 6 років тому

    Mrs Pekarys you are so pretty I can’t even describe it I believe it’s the beauty of Christ in you

  • @alisacollins5195
    @alisacollins5195 6 років тому +2

    Yes! Glad to see y'all doing well! I can relate to this I've been married for almost 26 its the best way God way ❤

    • @ThePekaryPack
      @ThePekaryPack  6 років тому +2

      Wow, congratulations on 26 years! Your marriage is as old as we are (25 + 26)! What a blessing! Thank you for the encouragement Alisa.

    • @alisacollins5195
      @alisacollins5195 6 років тому

      Yes we married young 22 and 23 years of age! Still young not even fifty yet! People ask us what's our secret...we say doing like the bible says and you want to wrong! 😘😘😘

  • @hauwapyusuf
    @hauwapyusuf 6 років тому

    love u guys, I have been waiting for this. God bless u all

  • @chloelewis3113
    @chloelewis3113 6 років тому +1

    You are both the best!!

  • @erikaseaton4684
    @erikaseaton4684 6 років тому +3

    Awesome!!!

  • @njsatish
    @njsatish 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing on purity, we are missing the messages on purity and holiness nowadays

  • @priscielove1279
    @priscielove1279 6 років тому

    Wow... thank you guys... this was awesome

  • @Gassyyetclassy
    @Gassyyetclassy 6 років тому +3

    I love y'all!

  • @alischaschmidt7821
    @alischaschmidt7821 5 років тому +1

    Thank you so much guys! It is hard for me to hear you speak because of the loud background music😅

  • @clarak.mallah4137
    @clarak.mallah4137 6 років тому

    Beautiful. Amen

  • @pakawanmalayavech101
    @pakawanmalayavech101 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful lovely family

  • @jaynewithers8332
    @jaynewithers8332 4 роки тому

    They are adorable.

  • @evanrobbins9947
    @evanrobbins9947 5 років тому

    I was really encouraged by this video. I have a lot of respect for both of you for making purity a priority in your relationship. My girlfriend and I are trying to remain pure in our relationship. I was wondering if you had any other books or resources that you found helpful during dating/engagement.

    • @ThePekaryPack
      @ThePekaryPack  5 років тому +1

      That brings us immense joy to know that this video was an encouragement to you. Our aim is to point people to Christ through our lives, so hopefully you will cling to Jesus throughout your pursuit of purity. He's the only One who can make us desire righteousness. And yes, we read "You + Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity" by Francis and Lisa Chan! SO GOOD!! Highly recommend.

    • @evanrobbins9947
      @evanrobbins9947 5 років тому

      @@ThePekaryPack Thank you so much for the quick response. I bought the book and am looking forward to reading it and growing closer to God.

  • @lynnevand
    @lynnevand 6 років тому

    Beautiful truth guys.

  • @november6172
    @november6172 6 років тому +3

    Yayyyyy new video!
    Love you guys! 🤗💖

    • @ThePekaryPack
      @ThePekaryPack  6 років тому +1

      Aw thank you November! Love your name by the way! It's the month Nemiah was born in! :)

    • @november6172
      @november6172 6 років тому

      The Pekarys Aw thank you!! 😊
      Can't believe she's already almost 1!
      Birthday month twins 😁

  • @karenamador5574
    @karenamador5574 6 років тому +1

    Hi, it would be nice if you subtitle them, I do not know anything about English :( and I like their channel.
    God bless you, what a beautiful family.

  • @chiomaalbert8160
    @chiomaalbert8160 6 років тому +1

    Why is their baby so cute😭😍😍😍

  • @ohyeah2269
    @ohyeah2269 5 років тому

    Thanks guys great video

  • @capatga
    @capatga 6 років тому

    I am gonna show this video to my granddaughter . Will you guys be offering tapes of these sessions . I would like to purchase this one .

  • @pakawanmalayavech101
    @pakawanmalayavech101 3 роки тому

    🎈💐Beautiful lovely family

  • @jerryholbrook13
    @jerryholbrook13 3 роки тому

    Thankyou

  • @Khulismonica
    @Khulismonica 6 років тому

    Love this😊

  • @Belove8000
    @Belove8000 6 років тому

    Nemiah aaah so cute 🤗🥰

  • @waakkeuppp
    @waakkeuppp 5 років тому

    Beautiful family

  • @dorothyrosegreen5110
    @dorothyrosegreen5110 5 років тому

    How's the new addition ,haven't heard from you guys hope all is well

  • @CayLily
    @CayLily 6 років тому

    Hey I wonder do you guys go to a Baptist or Pentecostal Church I don’t know if I missed it. But I haven’t heard the name?

    • @ThePekaryPack
      @ThePekaryPack  6 років тому

      We actually attend a non-denominational house church! It’s a collection of house churches in the Bay Area called We Are Church. If you want to hear more about it, here’s the website: wearechurch.com :)

  • @lachellecarter7
    @lachellecarter7 6 років тому

    Love you guys

  • @EvakarenMuriithi
    @EvakarenMuriithi 6 років тому

    💛💛

  • @jmarcyful
    @jmarcyful 6 років тому +2

    How I wish more “Christians” would follow what the Bible teaches about fornication. Even the preachers engage in fornication before marriage.
    How sad is that🙁. No respect for the word of God
    You should write a book about purity before marriage. God bless you🙏🏼

  • @joesephhalecki4695
    @joesephhalecki4695 6 років тому

    Your. baby. Is. so .beautiful. I'm . in..a. long. distance. Relationship...Interracial. But. She. Is. Beautiful. ...And. cant...Wait.. To. marry. Her ..God. .Bless. you.

  • @fred9098
    @fred9098 3 роки тому

    babe is too cute

  • @pepepene9060
    @pepepene9060 2 роки тому

    I am so happy that I don't believe in any supernatural fictional being, especially gods.

  • @MissAbsss
    @MissAbsss 6 років тому +2

    I love this. 35yo and waiting to be found and married. Thanks for sharing this