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motivation ka baap Bhai main bhi class 10th mein Hoon. Lekin padai important hai first, fir time bache toh body banana ya chal usko bhi chod de. Judo karate vagarah sikhna bahut fayeda karega is age mein body building se bhi jyada. Ragging aur bullying se bhi bachega
Shwetabh ji ... being a girl...I personally admire you a lot ... your thoughts ...your words. .. your rudest book, everything....and this everything is a truth of life.... love your work❤️
This guy is commendable... Just these 15 mins will help Men community to save their crucial months and years which they would have invested in toxic relationships.
being a girl....I..agree....those girls who have no courage to stand in her feet ..and asking for money from their friends.....are bloody gold diggers.... similarly those spineless men who asks for dowry are gold diggers..
1. Girl with victim mentality 2. FemiNazi {favorism over equality} 3. Drama queen 4. Attention seeker (social media) 5. Girl in need of bhaiyaa (ye kardo vo karwa do) 6. Girl in need of bodyguard 7. Who can't get over ex. 8. Who don't respect you 9. Who friendzoned / brozoned u 10. negative personality
Rushi what's wrong in friend zoning someone u don't see that way? So should girls just fake it and get involved in a relationship?just asking ur opinion. No offence.
I met someone who has 6 of this qualities. And the biggest slogan of her life is to never make any guy her brother. Every guy that she meets becomes her close friend. When I make a new friend who’s is apparently a girl, she has objections 🙇🏻♂️
I blocked my crush when I was in school (2017)and now I'm in college. I liked a girl but I blocked her also(2019)2nd sem. I'm happy that I made these tough decisions and focused on making myself better every day. Brothers if you are reading this I want to say to you that your mental peace should be your highest primacy. Have a great life ahead stranger.
Lekin esa chalta kab tak h?? Like iss video mein jaise bola wese mere sath hua.... She dumped me suddenly now she's in another relationship. Uske sath bhi esa hoga ???
@@sovyamsatyajit5141 bro the fact is tum apne life mai khush raho bhai kahi bhi yeh likha nhi hua ek aadmi ko jeene ke liye aurat ki zarurat he time lo Ager relationship mai aana hi ho toh kum se kum 2 saal watch karo use then go for it
Thank you very much and I wish all of you too for grand success in exams! Just believe in yourself and work consistently! Nothing is impossible! And the best part is I left behind the topper girl who got 82% and I got 83%! I am no natural topper, it is pure hard work+smart work+ consistency!
I still don't understand why guys and girls get into relationship with these toxic kind of partners. Then they watch these videos and comment 'all boys are like this' or 'all girls are like this'. There are good boys out there(maybe they are currently focusing on their career but they are there) and such is the case with girls, I believe...... atleast.
From my experience I have seen looks are given most importance in the start of the relationship will choosing a partner not nature , behaviour etc . I think that's the problem.
Ladkia un ladko ko pasand karti hai jo unke upar domestic violence karte hai fir baad me roti hai ki all boys are the same. Pehle khud galat ladka choose karti hain jaan bojhke fir victim card khelengi .😠
I discovered this channel few weeks ago. I love your content. Being a young woman in her late teens, I have not liked casual dating culture, hookup culture. It's such a waste of time. People who are mature enough to put consistent efforts into relationships should get into dating and serious relationships. I spoke to few guys who wanted to waste my time and were not adding any value to my life, they didn't want to have a future with me so I told them what I was looking for and cut them off. It's better that I focus on myself and wait for the right person to walk in my life
If I had seen this video 3 years ago, I wouldn’t be in a toxic relationship for 3 years because this is the exact same characteristic trait of my ex who used exact same technique to gain sympathy and trust. I can feel every single word you said. When I did the same thing what her exes did as per her toxic actions, she left me. I have realised now that her exes were not toxic, on the contrary she was. According to her, I am her another toxic ex and she must be fooling someone else. God bless him🙏
I just got out of this kind of exact same relationship. It went on for 9 months. We decided to take a break. She does not want to end it forever and so didn't I. I'm lucky I saw this video. I'm going to tell her to fuck off when the time comes. I'm greatful I saw this
bhai main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
Kuch din paihle breakup hua... Nd mera forever wala relationship 3 month me tut gya..😂... Ab jahan jo gaand maraye, marane do... Bas khud pe focus kro khush raho.🔥
Exactly dear... you spoke very well... about the personalities of people... either a girl or boy...sympathy seekers do not deserve sympathy at all...I am a girl and for this reason I will not dislike your video... I really liked it... But a very simple thing I would like to share is we should not particularly target a certain gender because taali kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti😊😊
Bharath thevar ji Gender is not the problem actually I do not understand that why each and everything is judged on the basis of gender... Men and women are the two different creations of God & they can never be same😊😊 Dear this video was for men, I accept... But if I have watched this, is anybody harmed? There are many men too who watch videos which are meant particularly for women..... Also I would like to tell that gender is not the problem, because there are many men too who just seek sympathy. I will not deny with the fact that women don't seek sympathy... But the main thing is jo hmesha se kahi jati hai ki sare ldke bure nhi hote aur na hi sari ldkiya buri hoti hai plsss ek mentality prr restrict na ho😊😊😊
@@saumyahindwan995 why are you even bringing the word GENDER itself ... Shwetabh here was never biased, but anyone can see where you might be coming from....
@@saumyahindwan995 very nice I appreciate you are a girl ,but explained very well to guys .But guys too ask sympathy .... I didn't understand that ...when and how ? I'm not opposing your point ,but just confused
My ex gf was the same infact she tried to suicide multiple times due to this victim personality and then i tried to rescue her by spending all my time, emotions, money, respect, sleep, love, future and finally rescued her from suicidal tendencies but then she made me the villian of her life and cheated on me on the most cruel way possible after 3 years of relationship for another guy and now she narrates to him that how bad i was and she was so much victim, (the same person who narrated me multiple times that if she is alive today that's because of me) at first i cried a lot (rolled in the floor) but now after 6 months I thank god a million times that she cheated on me because i would be never be able to breakup with her even after knowing that she is the most toxic person i have ever met and she is ruining my whole life in every possible way because i didn't wanted to become a another reason to increase her sorrows in life and to start suicidal tendencies again.
@Hassan M. Shaheen Thanks bro, but I have already overcome the situation and moved on its always 100 times better to be alone than being in a toxic relationship, it has become so much stress free and I am enjoying the little happinessess of life like gardening, reading a book, Running long Distances, playing football with friends, making new and simple friends without any unwanted tensions all over the time in my mind.
Being a girl i would like to clarify the confusion of boys😁😄 that 1. 90 to 95% girls sach main sympathy gain krne vala card play krti hain boys k saamne .. like emotional stories of ex and all.. jo girl ye kre smajh lena ki vo apke saath serious relation m aana nhi chahti wo bs ex ki jagha replace kr rhi hai aapko.. Qki breakup k baad vo akela feel krti hai, jiska solution hai new boy k saath dil behelana. 😄😄... 2. Manlo vo genuinely dukhi h bhi or kuch jyada bura ho gya uske saath to b agr vo ek he baat ka rona roti hai to it means na to uska life ka koi goal hai or na vo aapko aapka goal achieve krne degi, disturb krdegi, aapko samajh he nhi aaega ki isko chodhhu ya rakhu Qki aapko b uski aadat lg jaegi fir..
@@sayanmandal5322 thanku😁😁😁.. Acctully is video pe itne views dekhke meko feel hua ki kafi boys ladkiyo k emotional vale card ka shikar hote hai, to ladki hone k naate meko clarify krna chahiye ki ye sach baat h or bhai mt faso in rone dhone vali k chakkar m.. chahe jitna bura hua ho goal oriented girl ek baat ko leke 24 hour roti nhi rheti
Mam ..har insan alag alag hota hai..kisi gender ko iss taraf se stereotype krna .kehna ki sare aadmi khrab aur lampat hote hai..ya sari ladkiya Shakuni type hoti hai...any such generalisation is bad. How can stereotype people such as these !.. grow up ! .and apne andar ki internalised misogyny jo hai .use nikal feko. Insan Insan alag hota hai. Sabko lekar ek hi group me mar fit kro
That line... agar sachme bura hua hai toh vo bhot waqt lagaane vali hai tumhe batane me.. she'll only share when she trust you Enough !! 🙏🙏.. agree sir ..☺ #Respect
Human beings want compassion from other human being .thats the reason they share there thoughts if u can make them understand its nt abt them when they are hurt it abt the person who made their life miserable by hitting or cheating .show love and make them strong .their are different types of human beings nt girl or boy some shy and dnt say intially abt there past but some are okay with telling it in starting .nothing wrong in that .show compassion if somebody is crying angry they are weak emotionally. Ur stronger then them .if possible make them strong by showing unbiased love to them .😊
Extremely right.. This is applicable for girls too.. like I was trapped by a guy who always used to play a victim card and I was a damn emotional fool. This video is so relatable to my life as well.
main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
He is totally correct I was abused a lot during my childhood and still I have told about this only to a few close friends. A person who has been actually traumatized will avoid talking about it as such as possible. When traumatic events happen to a person they dont talk about it even to themselves and are trying to overcome it under the guise of a smile.
Summary for my future self 1. In all her Stories she is the victim and she's always right 2.but if any girl shares the trauma after she develops a trust in you then she may be genuine but if starts dropping shit in the start itself run asap
We had coffees We went for movies She cried like a baby , when I m leaving her We video called 10 times a day Kissed Started late replies No text even being on line Few days after she has blocked me Now I v cried like a baby It’s three months , she unblocked I BLOCKED
I was in relationship with such victim trait girl for 6 years. Actually she was a narcissistic girl. Now my life is messed with depression, anxiety and i am trying to find myself again. Hopefully i am recovering gradually. Be logical guys not an emotional fool. Please help swetabh bhai. How to get out of this.
It's been 6 months now so I wanna know did u get out of depression and are u happy again? Because I'm going through a breakup myself so I wanna know how long it takes
@@karan6516 getting to the point. No one gonna help you get out of this. Only you trust yourself and start healing. Coming to the solution, just type "Templesounds chakra meditation" in the youtube search box. Start with first chakra(root) and meditate to the sound at 100% volume, if possible connect to a woofer. Don't try to control your thoughts, just flow with it. There are 10 minute series of each(seven) chakra. Put emphasis on ROOT then move on to other six in chronological order. If your relationship was emotionally abusive then listen to throat chakra after root, it will make u feel much better in a short time. Research about chakra on Google. You would be fine in a few months. Have faith in this universe, everything is temporary. 💪✌️
I suffered same thing Whenever we get into fight She always played victim role and made me a villen Even if I admit my mistakes She never admit any mistakes of her I always be a villen I am greatful that relationship end
Damn same I wonder if every girl are like that.... She never admits any mistake and never realises. I even though rarely do mistakes that same mistakes she keeps on repeating everytime.
@@arijit888 Yeah I get, but my gf is the worst of all, although now I have left her but don't know for how many days. They cry and can always blame you at that time and you would just say sorry. The effort you put into the relationship is never balanced.
@@lokeshjha5109 yaa They always blame you Even after 6-7 month my ex still stalk me in social media But I don't give a fuck anymone She never admit her mistakes
Never ever I proposed a girl in may life.. when u say this to my friends they laugh at me. Because most girl who know me dont like me...and I didnt proposed any because I am an introvert.👍👍so no problem
Bhai..its relationship..and my perspective on this is "jab mile chora chori, hui masti thori thori , bas pyar ka naam mat lena , i hate luv stories"😂😂😂...just dont care about these petty things...there is no point in crying over people..
I think the title should be "types of red flags" coz toxic relationships do exist. The partner could be a guy or a girl. As a girl, I've experienced this kind of a relationship and ngl but at some point, I was like this too. I've been through him treating me like this and after that me treating another guy the same way (def regret). But as we grow up, we realize how wrong we were. Over the time I've realized that this is the purpose of life- to not only learn from our own mistakes but others' too. Stay away from these red flags. Save your time, effort, money and mental health! Great video.
The fact that u realised the thing that u have done with that guy have you ever said sorry to him? I am not that lucky to hear a sorry but at least u can say sorry to him and give a good closure to your relationship things.
@@thehealingguy1503 Yes. It was a few months after the breakup. I was going through depression and this feeling of guilt was adding up to it. The least I could do was apologize once again in a more sincere manner. He said he had forgiven me already and moved on and that I shouldn't feel guilty anymore. He's humble to say that but I still get filled with regret when I imagine the amount of pain I caused him. Apologizing made me feel a little better but the wound of guilt won't heal soon enough.
Main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
Thoda sa b smjha hoga?? Brother every second of this video is precious!!!! Damn Lucky to have a person like you in our community! Waiting for other series!🔥
Love you brother.. actually I learned these things because of your old videos and believe me it helps me a lot.. I also improved my English because of you, actually not just because of you but you are also a major aspect in that improvment. A suggestion for you please make permanent vlogs and solve problems in those vlogs you can also create a new channel for that where you play guitar share your travelling experience... 💖✌ Love from Shimla
vivaan gaur bhai agar ladki achi hai ache ghar parivaar se hai to mat puch...agar aise sabse puchne lga to kbi shaddi hi nai kr paoge qki sabka kuch na kuch past to hota hi h...kisi ka limit me hota h to kisi ka limitless....faltu jham maat lo ladki ka present dekho dekho ki understanding h ki nai!!
I had watched this video 3 years back, I understood the concept and now three after Years I am watching this video again.. although I knew everything from this video, I got my partner who fall in this category (point to point), we really enjoyed 3 years of Our life together, yes sometimes It was hard to put any strong denial before her, or any point before her, I thought I will Love her so much that she'll definitely understand and respect my feelings too one day... tragically She ended up with me... Can't figure out what went wrong now I am going through an immense pain, don't know whome to share what to say... So I came to this video again, I never cheated her, didn't even seen another women exept her, to be specific I was devoted to her. The load of guilt, the pain is killing me each day.. if I get any chance at any time of day to pull her back, I will do whatever it takes... Feeling like I don't deserved to be Loved... Sir two days back I had watched Your video "Parents bhagwaan nhi hote" is the category in which my parents fall too.. ( What the coincidences)..!! Sir kabhi time mile toh ek baar aapse zaroor milna chahunga.. aapke video bht help krte hain. I am in Algeciras right now, working on chemical tanker ship as a Marine Engineer, have a job, a career, bht struggle krke job mili so I never let my personal life to affect my professional life, but this pain is now getting beyond my limits.... Worsen day by day.. Aapke videos bs bht help de dete hai. Thank You so much.
@@prafullajha5123 We're going through the same phase, just different people. I know it's hard now, I know it feels the lowest of low in the life. But this pain will be worth it in teaching a new lesson in life. I again had a new low moment in my life right now writing this, I'm literally having tears in my eyes right now. But I know this all will be worthwhile preparation for a bigger setback in our life. We'll keep fighting, Men are known for that 💪. Believe in yourself, believe in time, it'll heal. 💯🥀
Thanks sir to make a video of this it helped me to get out of my victim personality and not to ashamed of speaking about my mistakes 🔥🔥 Thanks sir I love your work
Day by day you're generating new ideas and that's becoming really helpful for us to change our perspective towards life. Thank you Shwetabh bhai for these amazing new ideas which really helps us in opening our eyes, and helping us recognise the dark truths of life. Thank you.
I'm a Girl but trust me I've seen many of my friends like this...so don't bother just focus on career .there is one of friend who was in relationship with a guy but there family didn't accepted becoz of Caste issues she put so many status of how broken she is for 2 weeks then the next week she is engaged with another guy and guess what she was happy and moved on.. Stop being Romeo for girls
I saw this trait in my ex. She used to bitch about her "best friend" and her bf all the time. I dodged that bullet. Almost got back with her a couple of months ago but i gained my senses in time.
U got it now na bro... its never too late to start a new begining, but thinking that plzz dont waste any further time.... wish u success and start working nw
From this video I have bacame ur fan..it's so much relatable.. I don't want to share my story here..but for this big thumbs up for u👍u r doing good work..Kal hi Maine apni life ka sabse bada decision liya h..n I'm happy after watching this
This video literally took me out of depression. Everything you mentioned is true in this video and my ex is now with another man and said that I was toxic. I don’t know how but after that comment I truly hated myself and saw myself as a narcissist and toxic person and self victimised myself. Only to know that she was a red flag but I had so much sympathy for her I couldn’t see it
The problem with single desperate people (including me) is that no matter how much videos we watch we will meet a girl in life and we will do the same mistakes bcuz we are just so lonely we just want a girl and that time we don't think about videos we just jump onto it and do mistakes
Arre Bhai itna kyu thak rha hai, Zindagi hai. insan laat khake he sikta hai. Zindagi tabha hone ke baad uthne me jo Maza hai woh aur kahi nahi. Bc log cancer se lad jate hai ye toh firbi relationships hai. Love is worth the risk. Also there are more good people in this world than bad.
I'm watching this after I've gone through the same ,and Now I'm proud of myself that finally I came out of that toxic circle...And there's no going back
DEVL SLYR eww You're a girl?? And you're talking like that? Shame on you! Introverted people have reserved personality We cannot simply open up to everyone! Have some character..
I just want to say all the girls that please don't play victim to gain his sympathy. These kind of relationships don' last long . Relationship ends as soon as his sympathy for you ends. Just be with one you love. That's it. Give him support. Trust him unless you aren't sure.
1. लड़की की गलतियों को biased होकर ignore मत करो। 2. खुद को प्राथमिकता दो। 3. जब भी ये लगे कि लड़की आपको use करने की कोशिश करे तो उसे reply करना बंद करो और social media में खुद को enjoy करते हुए photos share करो......
Bilkul sahi kaha 👌 My ex was like that and it was a toxic relationship. I cant able to disagree with her, and if I ever try she calls me like her ex. I am happy that the relationship ended. Now I am with a very good girl who is a good human being. Trust this guy's words. He is telling you what I learned with lots of pain. 👌
is Bhai ko shayad boht dhoke mile hai zindagi mein Bhaiya duniya mein ache rishte or ache log bhi hote hai yani ki achi ladkiya bhi Meri bhgwan se yhi dua ki tumhe mile or koi boht boht boht achi genuine ldki mile Jo tumhe itna pyaar de ki tum aake apologize kr sko ki not every women is countable in these characteristics.
I'm sending this video to my ex who i recently broke up with. She is just like this. I tried to explain her why i broke up with her but she couldn't understand this. This video will help her understand her mistakes and grow up and make her future relationships better. Thank you bhai :)
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Bhai aakhen kholdi iss video ne, sab sahi bola
motivation ka baap Bhai main bhi class 10th mein Hoon. Lekin padai important hai first, fir time bache toh body banana ya chal usko bhi chod de. Judo karate vagarah sikhna bahut fayeda karega is age mein body building se bhi jyada. Ragging aur bullying se bhi bachega
Shwetabh Gangwar sir series continue kriye
Men Ki Baat aap se kuch bat share krna chata hu.. kase share karu..
Some girls are watching this to come up with new masterplans 😂
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lol....😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Correct bro
No efforts --> No expectations --> No disappointments ---> Peace of Mind :)
or else Be a big procrastinator in relationship, results are always good
Exactly....... specially person likes me.
@Rahane Editz 😄😁😁
No affairs
@@bhushan326 Bhushan spiting facts here
When I feel lonely, I come in the comment sections & see how all boys are United to focus on career..., I feel motivated & go and study 😅😂😂😂🔥
Ha ha
Lol buddy you are my motivation 😂
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Love u bro.... chlo kaam karte haa
Ngl that's kinda wholesome...
Shwetabh ji ... being a girl...I personally admire you a lot ... your thoughts ...your words. .. your rudest book, everything....and this everything is a truth of life.... love your work❤️
The girls, who watch Swetabh sir, are true legends 🤘👏
@@satyamevajayate5521 true
Me too yaar!
He's my Favourite "famous" UA-camr since the beginning. And I dont even follow the rest. His genuine words and personality is rare .
@@monurajput5608 yes
This guy is commendable...
Just these 15 mins will help Men community to save their crucial months and years which they would have invested in toxic relationships.
Shivam Dwivedi Exactly
Shivam Dwivedi Thakur Vidya Mandir
@Jayesh tips and tricks
(j. oi
@@kunaljaiswal89337 kkojl
Perfectly said By Shwetabh Sir
Ye aadmi golddiggers ka business band karwa dega😂
shi he bhai..hamare paise bachege
being a girl....I..agree....those girls who have no courage to stand in her feet ..and asking for money from their friends.....are bloody gold diggers....
similarly those spineless men who asks for dowry are gold diggers..
Hahaha
Sahi h
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1. Girl with victim mentality
2. FemiNazi {favorism over equality}
3. Drama queen
4. Attention seeker (social media)
5. Girl in need of bhaiyaa (ye kardo vo karwa do)
6. Girl in need of bodyguard
7. Who can't get over ex.
8. Who don't respect you
9. Who friendzoned / brozoned u
10. negative personality
Rushi what's wrong in friend zoning someone u don't see that way? So should girls just fake it and get involved in a relationship?just asking ur opinion. No offence.
@Legit Talk mumma's boys means ?
Sahi kaha
@Legit Talk yeah mummas boys mean
I met someone who has 6 of this qualities. And the biggest slogan of her life is to never make any guy her brother. Every guy that she meets becomes her close friend. When I make a new friend who’s is apparently a girl, she has objections 🙇🏻♂️
1.8k dislikes are from the types of girls Shwetabh mentioned. 😂😂😂
Sach Kadwa Hota hai 😂😂🤣
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This shit was 💯% accurate 😯😯😯
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Prakhar Sharma then why r u calling this shit?
@@mahadevrathore3363 r/facepalm
@@pastybean4482 🤦♂️
I blocked my crush when I was in school (2017)and now I'm in college. I liked a girl but I blocked her also(2019)2nd sem. I'm happy that I made these tough decisions and focused on making myself better every day. Brothers if you are reading this I want to say to you that your mental peace should be your highest primacy. Have a great life ahead stranger.
Same here bro
You didnt have to block. Could just ignore.
@@Vineeth_Lifestyle no bro they came with different IDEA so no matter how we ignore our mental health will destroy
Same goes with boys as well . Block them if they destroy ur mental peace.
@@JylthappenedwithmeYadav that's also fine 🙄
Me right now:
How did this guy know my ex's nature 😕😕😕
Same
Because he is shwetabh gangwar
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Because he was her boyfriend
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🙃Boys or Girls, now a days No One Is Inocent
BE SAFE🙂
Lekin esa chalta kab tak h?? Like iss video mein jaise bola wese mere sath hua.... She dumped me suddenly now she's in another relationship. Uske sath bhi esa hoga ???
@@sovyamsatyajit5141 Choose wisely
@@sovyamsatyajit5141 bro the fact is tum apne life mai khush raho bhai kahi bhi yeh likha nhi hua ek aadmi ko jeene ke liye aurat ki zarurat he time lo Ager relationship mai aana hi ho toh kum se kum 2 saal watch karo use then go for it
I can feel it today bro 🥺
I m innocent
love is in the air.... this why....air is polluted 😂😂
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today 4.5 exercise maths completed 👍👍❤
I got 83% in 11th because of you! Aiming for 96% in 12th! Thanks bhai! Ek baar to bade hone ke baad milne aaounga
Gameplay Nxt wow all the best bro :)
Keep it up bro
Good. Keep it up.
Thank you very much and I wish all of you too for grand success in exams! Just believe in yourself and work consistently! Nothing is impossible! And the best part is I left behind the topper girl who got 82% and I got 83%! I am no natural topper, it is pure hard work+smart work+ consistency!
Dhawal Jain show that bish who's the boss in 10th! Study hard and phaad de exam ko
I still don't understand why guys and girls get into relationship with these toxic kind of partners. Then they watch these videos and comment 'all boys are like this' or 'all girls are like this'. There are good boys out there(maybe they are currently focusing on their career but they are there) and such is the case with girls, I believe...... atleast.
True
From my experience I have seen looks are given most importance in the start of the relationship will choosing a partner not nature , behaviour etc . I think that's the problem.
loneliness bro, may don't wanna be alone,
Ladkia un ladko ko pasand karti hai jo unke upar domestic violence karte hai fir baad me roti hai ki all boys are the same. Pehle khud galat ladka choose karti hain jaan bojhke fir victim card khelengi .😠
Girls be like - zor zor se bolkr sabko scheme btade 🔥😂
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@@anushka_guptaaa ladkiyo ne bhi ye video dekhi 😯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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bhai just amazing bhai
you don't know how immensely we've been helped & are being helped by you bhai.
The way you talk very openly makes us realize and find similarities in what we are doing wrong. Thanks
I discovered this channel few weeks ago. I love your content. Being a young woman in her late teens, I have not liked casual dating culture, hookup culture. It's such a waste of time. People who are mature enough to put consistent efforts into relationships should get into dating and serious relationships. I spoke to few guys who wanted to waste my time and were not adding any value to my life, they didn't want to have a future with me so I told them what I was looking for and cut them off. It's better that I focus on myself and wait for the right person to walk in my life
Right sister
First ever Doctor for mens community problem....:)
Any suggestions for neet UG .. I'm givin this year
@@gracesondebbarma1523
Lol, follow swetabh bhai instead of preeti# kabir sigh😂😂
@@paritossh7516 oh sorry I mistook it
@@gracesondebbarma1523 bro mai class 10th mai neet dene wala hu
@@pradipchaterjee9576 pehele 10th mei focus karo ..
900 girls brought his friendzoned guys & ex to dislike this🤣🤣
😂
No Matter whether you are good or bad, you will get block by someone on someday
That's true🙂
Dil par laga tara comment bhai
Haa bhai ek dum sahi bola khuli aakhon se dekhe sapno se bada koi sapna ni hota is behraham or matlabi duniya main khud say bada koi apna ni hota 👌💪💪💪
Satya vachaan 😂😂
Roj hota hu unblock hota tha😂
If I had seen this video 3 years ago, I wouldn’t be in a toxic relationship for 3 years because this is the exact same characteristic trait of my ex who used exact same technique to gain sympathy and trust. I can feel every single word you said. When I did the same thing what her exes did as per her toxic actions, she left me. I have realised now that her exes were not toxic, on the contrary she was. According to her, I am her another toxic ex and she must be fooling someone else. God bless him🙏
Same here. 😅
Same situation brother, i was never able to figure out where the hell it went toxic
@@joshuanirmal9068
I just got out of this kind of exact same relationship. It went on for 9 months. We decided to take a break. She does not want to end it forever and so didn't I. I'm lucky I saw this video. I'm going to tell her to fuck off when the time comes. I'm greatful I saw this
bhai main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
Kuch din paihle breakup hua... Nd mera forever wala relationship 3 month me tut gya..😂... Ab jahan jo gaand maraye, marane do... Bas khud pe focus kro khush raho.🔥
Bhai Shi bola apna bhi 4 month ka kal he kata hai wo bhi forever tha 😅
Randi sab
@Raj Kashyap bhai aap toh neha dhupia jaise baat kar rhe ho
@Raj Kashyap cheat karna decision nhi hota
Mera bhi 3 months mei khatam, ladki mc nikli yaar😂
Exactly dear... you spoke very well... about the personalities of people... either a girl or boy...sympathy seekers do not deserve sympathy at all...I am a girl and for this reason I will not dislike your video... I really liked it... But a very simple thing I would like to share is we should not particularly target a certain gender because taali kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti😊😊
Yup
Hey Bharat...
I am not at all blaming anyone...
Infact I am praising the video😊😊😊
Bharath thevar ji
Gender is not the problem actually I do not understand that why each and everything is judged on the basis of gender... Men and women are the two different creations of God & they can never be same😊😊 Dear this video was for men, I accept... But if I have watched this, is anybody harmed? There are many men too who watch videos which are meant particularly for women.....
Also I would like to tell that gender is not the problem, because there are many men too who just seek sympathy. I will not deny with the fact that women don't seek sympathy... But the main thing is jo hmesha se kahi jati hai ki sare ldke bure nhi hote aur na hi sari ldkiya buri hoti hai plsss ek mentality prr restrict na ho😊😊😊
@@saumyahindwan995 why are you even bringing the word GENDER itself ... Shwetabh here was never biased, but anyone can see where you might be coming from....
@@saumyahindwan995 very nice I appreciate you are a girl ,but explained very well to guys .But guys too ask sympathy .... I didn't understand that ...when and how ? I'm not opposing your point ,but just confused
My ex gf was the same infact she tried to suicide multiple times due to this victim personality and then i tried to rescue her by spending all my time, emotions, money, respect, sleep, love, future and finally rescued her from suicidal tendencies but then she made me the villian of her life and cheated on me on the most cruel way possible after 3 years of relationship for another guy and now she narrates to him that how bad i was and she was so much victim, (the same person who narrated me multiple times that if she is alive today that's because of me) at first i cried a lot (rolled in the floor) but now after 6 months I thank god a million times that she cheated on me because i would be never be able to breakup with her even after knowing that she is the most toxic person i have ever met and she is ruining my whole life in every possible way because i didn't wanted to become a another reason to increase her sorrows in life and to start suicidal tendencies again.
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@Hassan M. Shaheen may god bless you bro.
@Hassan M. Shaheen Thanks bro, but I have already overcome the situation and moved on its always 100 times better to be alone than being in a toxic relationship, it has become so much stress free and I am enjoying the little happinessess of life like gardening, reading a book, Running long Distances, playing football with friends, making new and simple friends without any unwanted tensions all over the time in my mind.
@Hassan M. Shaheen Thank you bro, hope you will also get rid of the bad situation and start living your life joyfully.
@Hassan M. Shaheen you are welcome😊
Being a girl i would like to clarify the confusion of boys😁😄 that
1. 90 to 95% girls sach main sympathy gain krne vala card play krti hain boys k saamne .. like emotional stories of ex and all.. jo girl ye kre smajh lena ki vo apke saath serious relation m aana nhi chahti wo bs ex ki jagha replace kr rhi hai aapko.. Qki breakup k baad vo akela feel krti hai, jiska solution hai new boy k saath dil behelana. 😄😄...
2. Manlo vo genuinely dukhi h bhi or kuch jyada bura ho gya uske saath to b agr vo ek he baat ka rona roti hai to it means na to uska life ka koi goal hai or na vo aapko aapka goal achieve krne degi, disturb krdegi, aapko samajh he nhi aaega ki isko chodhhu ya rakhu Qki aapko b uski aadat lg jaegi fir..
🙏🙏 aap mahan hain
@@sayanmandal5322 thanku😁😁😁..
Acctully is video pe itne views dekhke meko feel hua ki kafi boys ladkiyo k emotional vale card ka shikar hote hai, to ladki hone k naate meko clarify krna chahiye ki ye sach baat h or bhai mt faso in rone dhone vali k chakkar m.. chahe jitna bura hua ho goal oriented girl ek baat ko leke 24 hour roti nhi rheti
@@advkk5686 what language is this
Mam ..har insan alag alag hota hai..kisi gender ko iss taraf se stereotype krna .kehna ki sare aadmi khrab aur lampat hote hai..ya sari ladkiya Shakuni type hoti hai...any such generalisation is bad. How can stereotype people such as these !.. grow up ! .and apne andar ki internalised misogyny jo hai .use nikal feko. Insan Insan alag hota hai. Sabko lekar ek hi group me mar fit kro
@@Balli942 tripaloski 🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️
That line... agar sachme bura hua hai toh vo bhot waqt lagaane vali hai tumhe batane me.. she'll only share when she trust you Enough !! 🙏🙏.. agree sir ..☺ #Respect
Thx
Hoped you've moved on if you're going through something...
Ooo
Hi
Human beings want compassion from other human being .thats the reason they share there thoughts if u can make them understand its nt abt them when they are hurt it abt the person who made their life miserable by hitting or cheating .show love and make them strong .their are different types of human beings nt girl or boy some shy and dnt say intially abt there past but some are okay with telling it in starting .nothing wrong in that .show compassion if somebody is crying angry they are weak emotionally. Ur stronger then them .if possible make them strong by showing unbiased love to them .😊
Now I m single...And just working on my life...
Badhiya!! 😚😚
Jai hind
Good luck
Best
Kat gaya...
I think Shwetabh meant that stay away from specific type of girls. But people in comment section somewhat got the message that "Stay away from girls."
Kuch londe l@@ hote kaya kare haam bhi
M a girl...but i really appreciate ur videos...u speak about the facts...nd thanx for such videos
That's good! Have a powerful life and meaning ful life ahead ! Keeep watching him ! Really helps . Love from LADAKH 💝
@@stanzindawa4814 🤞🏻🤞🏻
Ha ha ha!😅😅
U are being genuine n mature👍🏼
Tum Toh Yohi Triggered Ldki Ho Shaadi Movie Koi Baat Krri Thi Jo Shyd😹
Extremely right..
This is applicable for girls too..
like I was trapped by a guy who always used to play a victim card and I was a damn emotional fool. This video is so relatable to my life as well.
Hi, neha
100%
I have been with insecure guys who aint loyal and fool around with girls just to feel confident abt himself
main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
@@HarshSingh-zd4qpbhai chor do simple tough hoga 4yr se hai to lekin dusra koi way hai hi nhi
@@RajuKumar-hd5po trying very Hard bhai
He is totally correct I was abused a lot during my childhood and still I have told about this only to a few close friends.
A person who has been actually traumatized will avoid talking about it as such as possible.
When traumatic events happen to a person they dont talk about it even to themselves and are trying to overcome it under the guise of a smile.
Summary for my future self
1. In all her Stories she is the victim and she's always right
2.but if any girl shares the trauma after she develops a trust in you then she may be genuine but if starts dropping shit in the start itself run asap
We had coffees
We went for movies
She cried like a baby , when I m leaving her
We video called 10 times a day
Kissed
Started late replies
No text even being on line
Few days after she has blocked me
Now I v cried like a baby
It’s three months , she unblocked
I BLOCKED
😂😂😂yahan to mein hi ignore ho rhi hu
Apna kam banta bhad me jaye janta 😂😂
Ego wins
Acchi imagination h
@@ritikadwivedi9851 are bhak
Yes shwetabh bhai... recently I came across this type of girl...trust me each and everything u r saying is true...she was really toxic...
Mahmoodul Hassan same here. She left me hanging in the air and when I asked her if she wanted relationship, she said she just liked me as a friend
Yes I also came across such a gruesome incident...Bro..So leave it nd focous on ur aim
I can totally relate
Me too...
Bro party kar, bhagwan ko prasad chadah , Bhai ,tu baach gaya 🎉🎉
Worked approx 8hrs today bro.. still working till i gotta sleep
sanjay dhungana awesome
sanjay dhungana knsa kaam krte ho 8 ghnte
atif malik , watching UA-cam 😁
Bhai, tu aur 16 ghante kaam kar. Duniya bhar me dindora kyun pit raha hai?
Upendra W mensutra ne kaha hai to work and let ppl know so by tht atleast will work
After hearing his lecture, I am amazed how the present generation has degenerated.
I was in relationship with such victim trait girl for 6 years. Actually she was a narcissistic girl. Now my life is messed with depression, anxiety and i am trying to find myself again. Hopefully i am recovering gradually. Be logical guys not an emotional fool. Please help swetabh bhai. How to get out of this.
It's been 6 months now so I wanna know did u get out of depression and are u happy again?
Because I'm going through a breakup myself so I wanna know how long it takes
@@karan6516 getting to the point. No one gonna help you get out of this. Only you trust yourself and start healing. Coming to the solution, just type "Templesounds chakra meditation" in the youtube search box. Start with first chakra(root) and meditate to the sound at 100% volume, if possible connect to a woofer. Don't try to control your thoughts, just flow with it. There are 10 minute series of each(seven) chakra. Put emphasis on ROOT then move on to other six in chronological order. If your relationship was emotionally abusive then listen to throat chakra after root, it will make u feel much better in a short time. Research about chakra on Google. You would be fine in a few months. Have faith in this universe, everything is temporary. 💪✌️
@@karan6516 its called PTSD..u'll be fine eventually trust me but it will take longer if you fail to maintain 'no contact' rule.
My prayers are with u bro❣️
Just invest your brain on something else...for starters Your Hobby.
Girls Exits
Mensutra: I am about to end this mans whole career
Vo to already exit krgyi na broo
Exist*
Aisi ladki 😂😂😂😂 Siddharth Shukla
Woman's*
@@bhagyodaypatil7965 *women
I suffered same thing
Whenever we get into fight
She always played victim role and made me a villen
Even if I admit my mistakes
She never admit any mistakes of her
I always be a villen
I am greatful that relationship end
Same here
Damn same I wonder if every girl are like that.... She never admits any mistake and never realises. I even though rarely do mistakes that same mistakes she keeps on repeating everytime.
@@lokeshjha5109 yaaa
Most of them are same
@@arijit888 Yeah I get, but my gf is the worst of all, although now I have left her but don't know for how many days. They cry and can always blame you at that time and you would just say sorry. The effort you put into the relationship is never balanced.
@@lokeshjha5109 yaa
They always blame you
Even after 6-7 month my ex still stalk me in social media
But I don't give a fuck anymone
She never admit her mistakes
Never ever I proposed a girl in may life.. when u say this to my friends they laugh at me. Because most girl who know me dont like me...and I didnt proposed any because I am an introvert.👍👍so no problem
Vaah man of culture 😀😎
Mei bhi ek introvert hu. Anxious introvert. Pata nhi mera kya hoga. Mei apna best dunga, social anxiety ko durr karne ki.
A girl will propose u... Be safe tc
Sakt londa😳
@@UBAxTOAA 😂😂🥲🥲
My weakpoint
I can't move on early..I know I am over emotional fool..but thank god I am not fake and cruel....
Same here brother
You aren't alone, bhai.
Mee too.. but I'm Brute .
Same bro
Be proud of yourself
You're a good person
Bhai Khush reh tu yr I know kaisa lgta hai but be tough man
Bhai..its relationship..and my perspective on this is "jab mile chora chori, hui masti thori thori , bas pyar ka naam mat lena , i hate luv stories"😂😂😂...just dont care about these petty things...there is no point in crying over people..
Vaah bhai vaahh😂😂
Op bhai
Bhai sahi real main pyar hoga na yeh sab lines gayab hogi
Or chutiya kaat ke mar jaye to
Explained exactly. This is a thing which we don’t realise at that moment because our brain is playing games with our own self. Keep it up man !
I think the title should be "types of red flags" coz toxic relationships do exist. The partner could be a guy or a girl. As a girl, I've experienced this kind of a relationship and ngl but at some point, I was like this too. I've been through him treating me like this and after that me treating another guy the same way (def regret). But as we grow up, we realize how wrong we were. Over the time I've realized that this is the purpose of life- to not only learn from our own mistakes but others' too. Stay away from these red flags. Save your time, effort, money and mental health! Great video.
The fact that u realised the thing that u have done with that guy have you ever said sorry to him? I am not that lucky to hear a sorry but at least u can say sorry to him and give a good closure to your relationship things.
@@thehealingguy1503 Yes. It was a few months after the breakup. I was going through depression and this feeling of guilt was adding up to it. The least I could do was apologize once again in a more sincere manner. He said he had forgiven me already and moved on and that I shouldn't feel guilty anymore. He's humble to say that but I still get filled with regret when I imagine the amount of pain I caused him. Apologizing made me feel a little better but the wound of guilt won't heal soon enough.
Main aisi ik relationship me 4 year se hu wo hamesha merese jhut bolti hai or bol deti hai bad me jab mai pakad leta hu toh ki tum gussa karte ho esliye jhut boli kya karu bhai na mai use chodh paa raha kyuki 4 saal ke rishte me kitne sare emotions yaadein or moments hote hai you can relate or na reh pa raha hu uske aise behaviour ki wajah se jab mai baat ni krta hu to use kayi dino tak koi farak nahi padta hai mtlb chill krti hai wo ghumne jayegi or enjoy kregi mai hi msg kruga use hamesha har ladai ke baad sorry to usne 4 saal me 4 baar bhi nahi bola hai mujhse or mai es liye bhi ni chodh paa rha kyuki maine physically bhi uski adat daal li hai jiski wjh se wo mujhe use krrhi hai or hr baad pichle baar se ganda behaviour karti hai kyuki wo acche se janti hai ki ye mujhe nahi chodh payega kabhi ye confidence bai use or bhai maine sabko dur krdiya friends family sabko sirf eski wajah se hai dur jane ka sochta bhi hu to kaha jau to phir laut kar esi ke pas chla jata hu esi ka ye fayda utha rahi hai maine pura carrier tabah hogya es situation me bhai jis ladke ke maths me 12 board me 93 marks aaye the wo graduation ke second year me har subject me fail hai year back lggya hai smjh rhe hoge ki kis level par mentally tod diya hai esne mujhe please guide me anyone mujhe asa lagrha meri life khtm ho gayi hai esko choose krke lgrha sab khtm carrier pura khtm hogya aisa lgrha hai bhai mai esse har baar breakup Karta hu or laur kar wapas esi ke paas chla jata hu bhai or jab breakup bhi hota hai to main ese stalk karta rehta hu har jagah insta WhatsApp pe ki kab online aayi kya status lagya kaha gayi yahi sab bhai mai kya karu maine aaj hi breakup kiya hai next kya kru
Thoda sa b smjha hoga?? Brother every second of this video is precious!!!! Damn Lucky to have a person like you in our community! Waiting for other series!🔥
Love you brother.. actually I learned these things because of your old videos and believe me it helps me a lot.. I also improved my English because of you, actually not just because of you but you are also a major aspect in that improvment. A suggestion for you please make permanent vlogs and solve problems in those vlogs you can also create a new channel for that where you play guitar share your travelling experience... 💖✌ Love from Shimla
Jaw falling truth....It has happened to me very recently...
Mahmoodul Hassan u not alone
First heart... following u since u opened mensutra channel...
bhai yeh batao ki Ladki se uska past relationship ke baare mein puchna chaiye while going for arrange marriage
vivaan gaur bhai agar ladki achi hai ache ghar parivaar se hai to mat puch...agar aise sabse puchne lga to kbi shaddi hi nai kr paoge qki sabka kuch na kuch past to hota hi h...kisi ka limit me hota h to kisi ka limitless....faltu jham maat lo ladki ka present dekho dekho ki understanding h ki nai!!
yes you should
Exactly aisi hi hai😂😂how the hell can u be so accurate??? Thanks for saving me
Are bhaii tu.
I regret how come I didn't find this channel a little earlier yarrrrrr😭
Metooooooo
lol feels embarrasing to be here again
I am a girl and I support you 😉
Launda itna chutiya hai apna replies bhi delete kar diya.
@@baphometwingsof666 karega hi na usko ehsaas hogaya ki jo baatein usne kahi woh galat hai :)
Wow
MUJE BHAI KAR LO 😂😂😂
@@amritabhattacharya5427 hey... Fool.. if u don't want to watch video.. thn don't watch
Don't simply show off here
Exactly I was in the same situation. And the relationship ended within 4 months only.
sonu gujrati , RIP
Hindi
sonu gujrati bhai 4 mahine kheech gaya kaafi hai teri angreji ke hisab se
Rohit Saini now it's okay?
Rohit Saini learning from the guys like you. Thanks
sonu gujrati haha..cool
I had watched this video 3 years back, I understood the concept and now three after Years I am watching this video again.. although I knew everything from this video, I got my partner who fall in this category (point to point), we really enjoyed 3 years of Our life together, yes sometimes It was hard to put any strong denial before her, or any point before her, I thought I will Love her so much that she'll definitely understand and respect my feelings too one day... tragically She ended up with me... Can't figure out what went wrong now I am going through an immense pain, don't know whome to share what to say... So I came to this video again,
I never cheated her, didn't even seen another women exept her, to be specific I was devoted to her.
The load of guilt, the pain is killing me each day.. if I get any chance at any time of day to pull her back, I will do whatever it takes... Feeling like I don't deserved to be Loved...
Sir two days back I had watched Your video "Parents bhagwaan nhi hote" is the category in which my parents fall too.. ( What the coincidences)..!!
Sir kabhi time mile toh ek baar aapse zaroor milna chahunga.. aapke video bht help krte hain.
I am in Algeciras right now, working on chemical tanker ship as a Marine Engineer, have a job, a career, bht struggle krke job mili so I never let my personal life to affect my professional life, but this pain is now getting beyond my limits.... Worsen day by day..
Aapke videos bs bht help de dete hai.
Thank You so much.
Time will heal you. Head's up king, or you'll drop your crown 👑.
@@ultimatechattingzone441 Thanks it means a lot
@@prafullajha5123 We're going through the same phase, just different people. I know it's hard now, I know it feels the lowest of low in the life. But this pain will be worth it in teaching a new lesson in life. I again had a new low moment in my life right now writing this, I'm literally having tears in my eyes right now. But I know this all will be worthwhile preparation for a bigger setback in our life. We'll keep fighting, Men are known for that 💪. Believe in yourself, believe in time, it'll heal. 💯🥀
The same shit happened to me .....I can feel your pain....
I have gone exactly through this situation. It was very tough for me to get over her memories. But, now I understood. Thank you so much
Research suggests that over 50% of women In relationships now have a 'Back-up' Partner
Read full article link given in reply below
Link www.scoopwhoop.com/amp/relationships/here-is-why-your-girlfriend-probably-has-a-backup-partner/
@@robertleto9356 I like the line
every Bella has a Jacob in her life, despite being with Edward Cullen.
@@PK-gj3mm i am also a twilight fan
@@parikshitpanigrahi7674 I am not
"A survey of 1000 women" Bruh
My ‘Step’ Mom was a pschopath and I was in depression and anxiety when I was 12 now I am out of it
Well done 👍
You sound like the type of girls he's talking about but congrats
@@dawnstar24 😆
Thanks sir to make a video of this it helped me to get out of my victim personality and not to ashamed of speaking about my mistakes 🔥🔥
Thanks sir I love your work
Day by day you're generating new ideas and that's becoming really helpful for us to change our perspective towards life. Thank you Shwetabh bhai for these amazing new ideas which really helps us in opening our eyes, and helping us recognise the dark truths of life. Thank you.
I'm a Girl but trust me I've seen many of my friends like this...so don't bother just focus on career .there is one of friend who was in relationship with a guy but there family didn't accepted becoz of Caste issues she put so many status of how broken she is for 2 weeks then the next week she is engaged with another guy and guess what she was happy and moved on.. Stop being Romeo for girls
Motivating and still hilarious comment 😂😂 how ppl emotions cahnges
Exactly!
Dislikers are those angel girls 🤣
The best channel on UA-cam.... which shows us reality and opens eyes of various boys from these fake feminism and overrated girls... 🔥🔥👍
Yes bro
Overrated ..... Lmao 😂
*Agaya apna bhai* 😙😙
I saw this trait in my ex.
She used to bitch about her "best friend" and her bf all the time.
I dodged that bullet.
Almost got back with her a couple of months ago but i gained my senses in time.
I wish i could get this video earlier 😣
U got it now na bro... its never too late to start a new begining, but thinking that plzz dont waste any further time.... wish u success and start working nw
Boys =i will follow his instructions form now
Girls = they knew our plan 'A' . it's time to use. B
Watch his second video for preventing from plan b
Bohot saare ladke aisi ladkiyo k Sath fase hue hai.. it means ki bohot saari ladkiya aisi hai who play victim card.
game khelane do bhai sab me maturity aa jayengi to mature logo ki value decrease ho jayengi
Who else can relate it with their ex ?
Nice abs bro☹️🦾
@@amanrawat1741 yeaa....
@Scouts Honor bro i didn't thought about that😅😅
bhai yaarr aap bhai ki trah ho yar ekdum sach bat krte ho aap .... you are superb bro..!!!
As a girl, I can vouch, listen to this guy 🙏🏼
What do you think about such type of girl what swetabh talked about?
From this video I have bacame ur fan..it's so much relatable.. I don't want to share my story here..but for this big thumbs up for u👍u r doing good work..Kal hi Maine apni life ka sabse bada decision liya h..n I'm happy after watching this
Thank you so much man. I usually end up late with any girl if I feel she's toxic but this time, you saved me. Fantastic facts💯💯😈
Bhai mudde ki baat uthai h gadar 100%true main cheeze aise highlight kri ki ankhein khul gyi 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 luv u dil se
This video literally took me out of depression. Everything you mentioned is true in this video and my ex is now with another man and said that I was toxic. I don’t know how but after that comment I truly hated myself and saw myself as a narcissist and toxic person and self victimised myself. Only to know that she was a red flag but I had so much sympathy for her I couldn’t see it
The problem with single desperate people (including me) is that no matter how much videos we watch we will meet a girl in life and we will do the same mistakes bcuz we are just so lonely we just want a girl and that time we don't think about videos we just jump onto it and do mistakes
Practice NoFap
Arre Bhai itna kyu thak rha hai,
Zindagi hai. insan laat khake he sikta hai. Zindagi tabha hone ke baad uthne me jo Maza hai woh aur kahi nahi. Bc log cancer se lad jate hai ye toh firbi relationships hai. Love is worth the risk. Also there are more good people in this world than bad.
Yar thinking matters at all.
@@zephyrdos7622 you are wrong I believe there are more bad people
@@zephyrdos7622 ekdom sahi bat vai 👍🏽
I’ve been guilty of this. Very well explained.
to be honest after after hearing these.. literally tears came out..I believed a girl so much. she also did the same...
I'm watching this after I've gone through the same ,and Now I'm proud of myself that finally I came out of that toxic circle...And there's no going back
Meri ex aaj aae thi mne bhaga diya
Sb bhai ki motivation h😍😘😘
Hahahahahaha
This man really deserve a noble in this field ( love related talk )
I am highly introvert. I don't talk to gals much .
bb ki Vines STOP SPAMMING!
same
Me too
I don't talk to boys either
Good
DEVL SLYR eww
You're a girl??
And you're talking like that?
Shame on you!
Introverted people have reserved personality
We cannot simply open up to everyone!
Have some character..
Trueeee...we need to learn that every story has two sides..... And the only biasness we should keep is for our parents! Love em
Huge respect sir you are saving the male gender.
Exactly
Right bro
Bhai aapne bccha liya ek saal hogye breakup...ke thanx to u and God...bhai ....ab maza aarha h akele hi...goals pe focus...h...ek dam sharp....😎😎😎😎
I just want to say all the girls that please don't play victim to gain his sympathy. These kind of relationships don' last long . Relationship ends as soon as his sympathy for you ends. Just be with one you love. That's it. Give him support. Trust him unless you aren't sure.
Brother I can't thank you enough for this video.
These 15 minutes have change my life 🙏🙏🙏
Bhai 3 saal ho Gye ladkio se ab chat band kardi hain ab to kabhi kabhi lagta hai Mai gay to nhi
Gay nai bhai maturity kehte hain esse 👍👍👍👍
😂
Keep it up
Bhai ladki chhodne ko bola...
Muth maarna nhi chhodne ko kaaha
Rohit Ranjan bhaine banaya hai video muth/porn k upar.so you can watch it!by the way your comment made me laugh😂😂😆 thanks yaar.
1. लड़की की गलतियों को biased होकर ignore मत करो।
2. खुद को प्राथमिकता दो।
3. जब भी ये लगे कि लड़की आपको use करने की कोशिश करे तो उसे reply करना बंद करो और social media में खुद को enjoy करते हुए photos share करो......
Bilkul sahi kaha 👌 My ex was like that and it was a toxic relationship. I cant able to disagree with her, and if I ever try she calls me like her ex. I am happy that the relationship ended. Now I am with a very good girl who is a good human being. Trust this guy's words. He is telling you what I learned with lots of pain. 👌
I want to have coffee with this man.
The dislikes are from those girls...
Watching and reading comments to know what all the other people are saying to Mensutra Bhai.❤️🤙
Not only girls, infact boys are also like this......
You girls deserve it
is Bhai ko shayad boht dhoke mile hai zindagi mein
Bhaiya duniya mein ache rishte or ache log bhi hote hai yani ki achi ladkiya bhi
Meri bhgwan se yhi dua ki tumhe mile or koi boht boht boht achi genuine ldki mile Jo tumhe itna pyaar de ki tum aake apologize kr sko ki not every women is countable in these characteristics.
I'm sending this video to my ex who i recently broke up with. She is just like this. I tried to explain her why i broke up with her but she couldn't understand this.
This video will help her understand her mistakes and grow up and make her future relationships better.
Thank you bhai :)
Bhai insani nature hai wo wo waise hi rahegi
I wish this was known to me atleast 4 yrs back. I love this man. Thank you Bhai!
INDIAN ladki se RUSSIAN ladkiya jyafa aachi hoti hai . Loyal, polite.
Yes
Ldke bhi. Indian ldko ko bss family k liye unpaid maid chaiye
@@aditibisht22 ya shi bat h ..aur sasur apne samaj ki bhi honi chahiye ye sb thop dete h
Bhai patwa do 😂😂
@@aloowalia2849 kaun Elon
In short shwetabh bro said jab kahani apni hoti hai to galti hamesha dusrekihi hoti hai 😂😂