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Losing your pets are awful but losing your family is beyond anything you have ever dealt with I lost my mom July 19 to Covid and then in September my niece was killed in a motorcycle accident she was 35…you go on with life and you try to get back to some form of normalcy but losing someone so close I find I will be busy working and out of the blue memories come flooding in and I am crying which then sets the tone for my day I have been watching UA-cam to keep my mind occupied and I have been watching this channel since Zach was in college you feel like an old friend and thank you for helping me get through the pain love you guys be strong you will make it!
So so sorry for your losses. You have been through a lot and are right. You are heard & have my condolences.
The faces you make with Alistair’s incessant talking. Priceless!! Loosing a pet is never easy especially when they die in your arms. I always think about daddy’s little girl who I had for 11 years. I planted a tree in her honor to remember the days we had together. It gets better. You’ll know when the grieving process is over. Hang in the Zack and Alastair. I really look up to you guys and you brighten my day. You two have inspired me to getting a dog for my family. He will be a Corgi and his name will be Barnabas Collins aka Barney for short.
A dog is the BEST thing you can get to help dissipate depression, they have unconditional love for you.
Just like with Bronson, just give it time and let it be. The pain doesnt really go away, its like a heavy rock on the shoulder. But after a while, it will settle and you wont notice it until you remember her. And then you will smile. Glad to see you both are ok despite her absence.
Dear Zach and Alastair, So sorry to hear of your loss. Losing a pet is so hard because of their unconditional love and dependence on us. When they're gone, a piece of us truly goes with them. But hang in there and be patient and it will get better. And fondly remember all the good times and the love you shared with her. Take care, guys!
I completely understand the grief you feel. My husband and I have had to deal with this grief over and over again. It does get aeasier, but it does take time. Our furry babies are here with us for a very short time and everyone hold a piece of our hearts. ❤️
Omg, Zach looks so much like Mario with the moustache and 🧢 on.
Not Mario 😩😩😩😩😭 Alastair is Peach 😭
Thank you, that is exactly what I was trying to remember.
@@yellowmesh7821 Alastair IS and HAS peach
Those staches do not become them😆
I've missed seeing you guys. With tears in my eyes I feel for your loss. The pain never goes away it just get smaller
Oh guys, so sorry to hear about Winnie passing on. I believe I have hurt more with the passing of a pet than a family member so I totally understand what you're talking about Zach. Best wishes to you both for the upcoming holidays.
Sorry to hear of your loss my prayers are with you too and your little one they are a gift so special and I hope you have lots of video memories to celebrate the joys you’re having been together with it takes a little time but one thing is I always like to the clouds and see my loved one chasing Clouds and may you be able to see the same when you look up
I am so sorry to hear about Winnie! I know that you both were fighting for her to get better... although it hurts now, I hope you both know that she knew she was loved and will always be a part of your family 😥
On a separate note, digging the staches fellas and that interaction between you two when Zach was trying to work had me honestly laughing out loud. Be safe, be well, and my heart goes out to both of you during this time of mourning.
I had my own notion of grief.
I thought it was a sad time that followed the death of someone you love.
And you had to push through it
To get to the other side.
But I'm learning there is no other side.
There is no pushing through.
But rather,
There is absorption.
Adjustment.
Acceptance.
And grief is not something that you complete.
But rather you endure.
Grief is not a task to finish, and move on,
But an element of yourself'
An alteration of your being.
A new way of seeing.
A new definition of self.
The emotions you guys are able to express are so real and sometimes raw. Even when you don't know the words, the emotions come through so clearly. Love you two.
I understand your loss of Winnie. I have PTSD and had two support dogs. Italian greyhounds that were brothers and tightly bonded. I lost Flash two months ago because of two bad seizures. Both his brother and I am devastated. Unfortunately , this hasn't been the first time. It comes with life. Just take however long it takes to go through the grieving process .Luckily I still have his brother and my husband . He is so supportive and understanding. Time doesn't heal.... it eventually brings back great memories. My love to you both!
When you both move to your new place, it might be a little easier because her presence will not be in every room, how is Brando coping without big sis? Taking things easy will help a little …… love you both!…… Bev.
Grief takes time and is one of the hardest emotions to go through. Keep doing what you both have always done….love one another and be there for each other. You are both strong . You’ll get through this. ❤️❤️
❤️ I love y’all. So sorry for your loss. It’s truly devastating. I feel like it can be harder than an actual person because you spend more time with an animal usually, waking up to them every day, going to bed close to them every night. There’s no way around feeling that loss 💔
Sometimes words just don't get it - they can't portray the depths of sorrow and hurt when a love passes. How fortunate you are to have so many great loves in your life! Each love adds to your growth, wisdom, and maturity that you share so openly with so many people. Do you know truly know the impact you've made in so many lives because of who you are? Zach you'll get through it one day at a time by living through all of the emotions and challenges death brings. Know that you are loved and take the time you need to heal. Your community is here for you!
A very emotional VLOG as well as a funny one. Alistair's constant nagging is hilarious and your reactions are timeless. Winnie will always be in your hearts and she will be with you in spirit. Please let time do the healing. Hugs guys.
My heart goes out to you guys 💕💕
My dogs are my kids, I volunteer in dog shelters and I’m also a dog trainer, so as you can guess these animals are my whole life…I totally empathize with your pain, with your grief…Losing a pet, especially a dog, is like losing a piece of you.
I’m so so deeply sorry, sending you all my love and support from Italy 💕💕
My 8 year old gentle giant of a cat was purring on my shoulder a month ago when he suddenly had a heart attack and went limp. Dead in my arms. Nothing I could do to help him.
He hadn’t been sick. It was completely unexpected and I’m still totally numb, unable to feel any grief at all or even miss him yet.
He was my cuddle buddy for tv time every night. I don’t even know how I can still breathe without him here with me.
I think Andrew Garfield expressed the death of his mother very well last week on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert. (November 23, 2021)
He said “I hope this grief stays with me because it’s all the unexpressed love that I didn’t get to tell her...” He went on to say that “I can honor the most beautiful person I’ve ever experienced in my life through my art, and use it as a way to heal, use it as a way to sew up the wounds, ‘cause that’s what we do.”
I don’t know if he was quoting someone else, but I know it’s true.
Make that tribute video guys. Make it together and no matter how hard it is to do, no matter how long it takes, no matter how jagged the stitches, try to sew up your wounds.
From my shattered heart to yours. ❤️😸✌️
My cat passed earlier this year from cancer. I spent $$ doing chemo and meds. She lived a year with chemo and meds but the cancer came back full force and I had to let her go. It gutted me BUT the love she gave me is greater than the hurt of her passing.
I can't even imagine what i would do when i lose my two pugs. they are the world to me. Like my kids. Im so sorry for your lost Zach..
How fantastic to see you both again. Losing a dog is so hard. We lost our beautiful Betty just before last Xmas. End of an epoch. And selling houses is so stressful. Even when you want to move. Getting the timing right. But one foot in front of the other is the only way forward (for me). I love your videos - and that sweet little dog! Stay strong. Know you’re loved. 😘😘😘
I am so sorry you lost Winnie! It's never easy and she was such an amazing, loving baby! She had a loving and beautiful life with dads like you two. My love to you both!
It's like loosing an organ, some part of you that's deep inside of you. I've been through it, too. I feel for you. I wouldn't give up all of the wonderful memories for anything, though. Even knowing the pain I would eventually feel when I lost my dog, I would still live through it again, if I could. All we can do is love them and let them let them enrich our lives. Hang in there!
I am sorry for your loss. Even though you go on, you keep the love and good memories of a cherished pet. A family member you CHOSE to have as part of your life. You did the best you could for Winnie. I am sure those last moments she felt the love you had for her. Take your time to grieve it's natural and part of the healing process. Love to you both! Thanks for sharing this tough time with us. We love you guys!!!!
OMG finally a couple that seems so real, so wonderfully ordinary, without all the real (and pretend) drama. You're not trying to entertain or put on a show. It's just your lives together. So happy to have found you... and it doesn't hurt that you both look SO good. Oh yeah.
Hello guys so sorry to hear about Winnie's passing she was very blessed to have had both of you in her life . You are both two beautiful people I hope you know how much of an impact you make in people's lives , keep smiling you will both go far .
Alastair with mustache looks good
Hi Zack and Alastair, I enjoy watching your videos :) Grief can be hard to deal with at times, especially when they're other issues you need to deal with in life. 11 years ago I lost my brother and father within 3 days of each other. I remember standing in the living room looking into the kitchen as paramedics worked for 45 minutes on my Father as he lay on the floor, before they pronounced him dead! That memory will always be with me, but I am glad I was there when my Father passed away, I consider it an Honour and a Privilege to have been there for his final moments! Grief can be likened to a stone in a stream, over time the movement of the water removes the rough edges. Remember, you have EACH OTHER! :) Take Care
The grief you feel from loosing a fur family member is real and so hard. We just lost one of our pugs Thanksgiving morning. We had to do that final act of love. You know they are no longer suffering but it does not stop that intense grief that is there. My heart goes out to you both.
We feel you boys . We had to say good bye to our three labs over 18 months, all around the age of 14yrs. That was 2yrs ago now and we miss them dearly. Last night my 21yr old cat dropped into an eternal sleep. we hope it gets easier for you with losing Winnie. ❤Treasured memories ❤ Family❤Mickey❤
the headphones bit was adorable in every way
So very sorry for y’all’s loss. Unless you have lost a beloved pet you can’t even Fathom the loss . it’s a family member. Sending love and hugs.
Just sending lots of love your way. I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost one of my for babies last year and it broke my heart. I still think of him constantly and he’s the screensaver on my phone to this day. I have two new babies sense and they’re great at letting me fill them with love and loving me back. I wish the best for both of you.I appreciate the fact that you open up their lives to all of us. It’s interesting to see that we all have the same struggles as we go through each day. It’s nice to know you have a support system out there if you need it. If ever anything I can do! Just reach out have a good week boys. Matt
Zach is like a cat that you buy a toy, and then they pay more attention to the box
Little Girl had a Wonderful life with two Loving Daddys. Much Love and Respect. Peace.
I absolutely love you guys! you are literally my favorite couple on youtube. and HOW sorry I am about Winnie. I lost my Cavalier just a year ago, and it's still hard when I think about him. This is all grief man, it all comes in waves and effects the weirdest part of your lives. I promise you will feel "normal" again and get back to being excited about the little things about life. I lost my first true love to a tragic death 30 years ago and the ride I was on for years to follow, I learned a lot about grief. It will get better. I'm sending you all my love and peace to two very special guys.
Blessings and love for you both. Our dog has been gone 6 years ago and we still cry. Just feel safe in knowing you are loved. By each other and the Moniz family. Our dogs will always be our children.
I’m so sorry that you both are experiencing this. My husband and I thought we were having issues with our dog last month and we both cried and were stressed. It turned out we got a second opinion and she’s back to normal for a 12.5 year old dog. She is family and she does matter. Humans tend to not deserve the love a dog gives them and we take their love for granted. We make sure we give our dog love everyday. We know a time will come that will change our life forever and it will be sad and it will be hard but together we will get through it. Set some goals for each day and communicate to each other. ❤️❤️
I'm having a little celebration for myself when Zack's new video comes out. I like any of your expressions of feelings and love for each other. And I really like Zack's mustache! When it came to memories, it's really hard to lose a piece of your family, as if you had an operation and cut out a part of your body.
I totally understand what you’re going through. We lost both dogs within a month to cancer. It will get better. Just know you gave Winnie an amazing life no matter how short. She was loved. Love you both.
I’m sorry for the loss of Winnie. I’ve lost my fur baby so I understand. You’re left with precious memories, death cannot take them away. There’s no time limit for grief. I’ve followed you guys since the beginning. I love both of you.
I'm so sorry about Winnie. She was so sweet. Losing someone, pet or human, puts a hole in your heart. Sending you hugs and love ❤
Big Bear Hugs to you both to help you heal as you mourn the loss of Winnie. Keep the happy thoughts in mind: the silly things she did, how she made you laugh and melted your heart and soul. Strength, wellness, safety, love, laughter and joy is always wished for you.
Oh, you lost Winnie? I am so, so sorry. I send you much love and pink light for your hearts. Be safe and well.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take comfort in knowing Winnie had a wonderful & blessed life with you all. It’ll take time, but each day will get a little easier. I speak from experience. Keep sharing your heartfelt videos! Sending you all love and hugs! ❤️ 🐶
The best, hilarious, wholesome twosome with meaningful messages th whole way through Thank you for sharing a small part of your life together.
The Mario and Luigi mustaches are amazing. ❤️
"Yes, Darling? How can I help you?" Hee hee 😁❤️
Also, condolences for your loss. I remember when B passed how hard it was for you then. A dog's love is so pure and special because it seems to stay only a short while, but it is never forgotten.
My deepest sympathy. It's not easy losing a soul that you love. They take part of you with them.
I can’t tell you how much I have missed you two! I am so sorry about Winnie! Rest assured that you did everything within your power for her. She will definitely be the most loved dog in heaven! Loving this video with you just hanging out together. Zach’s dirty laugh is delicious! I totally understand how you feel about Winnie. I have two old dogs and my husband is terminally ill so I will probably be alone before too much longer. Don’t sweat about the Winnie video we dog lovers totally understand your grief. Sending you love and kisses! Stay safe and keep loving each other just like you do! ❤️💋🏴❤️💋🏴
It is very true when your heart is ripped out when your beloved pet dies. I had it happen to me and it was months before I could stop crying right out of the blue Zack and Alastair. It does eventually get better but the memories never fade.
Adoption of a child is definitely a serious business. I think you two are ready to adopt and would benefit greatly from having a child. I think you would make great parents, and it would certainly give y’all a greater reason for being.
Grief is never ending...but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of Faith...it's the price of Love.
I’m sorry for your loss. We, as humans, are so fortunate having these little souls as part of our lives, when one pass away it is like a family member passing but, we are gifted with the ability to convey our love to a new family animal almost completely, therefore years after still some pain when remember but the new member seal the void fully and incredibly quickly. Love you guys
You guys are dealing with loss of a family member, changes and grief take time to process. Continue to find joy and comfort in your love and support for each other, and talk to each other about how you feel. Much love sent your way for peace and comfort, it will get better, I promise……xo
I’m so sorry to hear about Winnie. Always remember that you gave her a wonderful life and that she’ll always be with you.
The best advice I can give anyone going through such a loss is to allow yourself the time to grieve. You will be through it when you are through it and not a moment sooner. I had to put my cat down on the way to work a few years ago and that hurt more than I thought it would. I grieved losing him for longer than I thought I would. Even worse was the second cat walking around the house looking for him and making a forlorn gry I hadn't heard before. We both got each other through it. You guys will get each other through it and you will be able to think of her and laugh, and cry, and laugh again until you are just happy to have had her for a while in your loves. Great video. *hugs*
The two of you are so beautiful together. You love is truly seen throughout you videos. Alistair even when bothering you makes you smile from ear to ear. You do the same for him I see it every time I watch your videos. You have so much love for you kids that the pain of saying their names cuts to your hearts. I can tell you that Winnie and Brando (I think was his name) are together looking down on the two of you proud to have had you as dads. Carry on with the love that you have for each other and for your kids. My daughter is the same way about her babies. You take them form her, hurt them or if illness comes their way she fights to the end for them and would do everything and anything for her babies. That is what I see in you Zack and you Alistair. Zack be strong you have one hell of a loving man next to you< I can tell he has your back no matter what. The two of you are about to start a new adventure together. and I wish you aoll the best in tat adventure. Much love to the both of you.
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You have my condolences on the loss of sweet Winnie. In 21 years together, we have lost four of our eight so you have my prayers for strength and comfort. Honestly, I think the move will help. It will never remove your memories but it will remove some of the visual triggers which are happening multiple times a day heeling the pain so very fresh.
Hello fellas, As glad as I am to see you this evening, I am so sorry to hear that you lost Winnie. While you feel your family is diminished, ultimately you will find your love is stronger.
Good luck with the move….make a new home for your family.
As I mentioned in another one of your videos, Im fairly new to your channel and the more I watch of your recent & previous videos, I grow more appreciative of the life you have together and share with everyone. The honesty you share of the loss of your puppy and the eloquent way you decibe the hurt and the sadness really touched a place in my heart for you guys. You continue to amaze me in how you portray the beautiful relationship you share. It must be amazing to be personal friends with you, makes me wish there were more people like you out there.
So so sorry for you guys loss. I completely understand and empathize with you. I had my girl for 16 years and she was definitely like my child. I had to put her to rest in 2018 and I still mourn her. I bawled uncontrollably through the entire process, before even leaving the house. Hardest thing I've ever done. Sending lots of love and positive vibes in you guys direction.
Our girl Karma left us in early July last year. We didn't really function properly again until Jan-Feb this year, kind-of depression, low to no motivation, couldn't make things, just moving through each day. We both still have moments when we remember her and we're both more inclined to cry easily still. We decided we were ready to bring a new dog into our lives in February this year; we got a rescue girl, who has helped us to feel like we're a whole family again. You'll get through, boys. Smiles and love to youse from the mad Tassie uncles.😁😁😘😘
Losing your baby is the deepest cutting pain!! A lot of it is just time..and continuing coz life keeps coming so no choice but to keep pushing. There are flashbacks coz the love is always there....we did move!
Sorry for your loss. Winiford was such a sweetheart.
Your very moving video really got to me Zach. Brought back memories of my last dog Patrick and when I lost him. You'll never forget miss Winnie and you'll never stop missing her but it will hurt less with time. Take all the time that you both need. Whenever you're ready to make a video about her, I'm sure it will be very well done and will probably bring a tear to my eye. Best wishes to you both always and good luck with your upcoming move. Thanks again for sharing carefully selected bits of your life with us. Looking forward to whatever you share with us in the future!🤗🤗🤗 (nice 'staches by the way!😁).
Sorry to hear about Winnie. Sucks to lose our Fur Babies. Lost mine a year and half ago. Still miss her!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you both did everything possible to save her. Time and holding on to each other is the only thing to get you both through this tragedy. Again you have so many people pulling for you both.
Zach, you and Alistair are experiencing grief. In my home we lost our Puppy (15 years old) about one month ago and I recognize the symptoms. Be gentle with yourselves and one another. These feelings and malaise will pass, but it may take a while.
Time will heal you as much as anyone heals from such a loss. With animals, it seems best to find a new one at the beginning of his/her life ... and love it into your life as you did with Blue.
It's not a "replacement", it's an affirmation of life and love!
Guys I think you will like it here in El Paso, I've lived here for the past 16 years, I'm originally from Arkansas. I love the dry heat and low humidity. Would like to meet you both in person, if so give me a hollar sometime.
Oh wow, I'm in Arkansas btw
@@rickwaggoner8479 kewl, what part?
So sorry for your loss. Unless you have lost a pet you can’t begin to Fathom the loss it’s like a child it’s your family number anyway sending much love and hugs
You two look so happy and peaceful, so happy to see it
To be able to mix humor with heartache in a video where the transition from one to the other is this seamless is impressive. You definitely have not forgotten how to make a video. Sorry to know you are still hurting so much from the loss of Winnie, and I hope that time does heal that wound.
It made me feel better to see Zach having the same kind of difficulty dealing with Winifred that I would have. Honestly it takes me a few years- literally years- before I can look at photos of my former pets and keep myself together. I get envious of Zach’s ability to use his art-forms to deal with feelings because I just don’t know where to begin with mine sometimes. I think he gives me a kind of outlet that way.
Definitely!! ❤️😸✌️
Losing a pet is like losing a child. Sorry you are going through the pain. Great channel. Nice to see two men in love being a family. Thanks for representing for the other 90% of us.
Hi...Oh my...You guys got mustaches! Very interesting handsome dudes 👌
What is going on with these staches? Whatever it is I’m diggin’ it!
I just started to follow you guys and I admire all that you do. I’m following your journey and I thank you for allowing us to be part of it. I have my boyfriend of almost 14 years and we are currently many miles apart. Circumstances that we need to do that sometimes life can be cruel. We are going through a rough batch financially and we both had to make a difficult decision. We maybe far from one another but our love & trust for one another is what keeping us stronger to survive this difficult part in our lives. I’m sorry for your loss. We have two dogs that I miss so much and I’m praying everyday to be back home soon. Thank you guys for all you do, much appreciated it. Also, I enjoy your “Coffee & Tequila” blog, so refreshing to hear your hot topics. Zach, I’m a big Britney Spears fan and I love watching your reactions with your buddy Troy. One last thing to Zach, I also love horror movies and I enjoy your “My bloody Judy” commentary and discussion on all scary movies, thank you!
Alistair I love The Wheel of Time. I don’t even care that they have changed it. I read all the books several years ago and the characters are just like family.
I wish I could tell you that this gets easier, but, sadly, it does not. I am 68 years old now and have out lived so many of my pets. Concentrate on the good times and try to forget the bad, and eventually the pain lessens. Very excited for your new changes coming up. Best of luck and thanks for sharing your lives with us!!
Awe guys I am so sorry to hear about Winnie. She had an amazing life with you as her dads! Sending lots of love your way.
I am so sorry gents, You don't get over it you learn to live with it, but each day that passes makes it a tiny less painful a little more bearable to get through the day as the good memories will always be there to look back upon.
Always makes me smile to see you upload. ❤️ Winnie will always be missed, and she has touched so many people through these videos. Thank you for sharing her. Love you both!
So sorry you guys for the loss of Winnie. Allow yourself to take the time to grieve her she was your far baby. Take your time, Great video all around as always again I am so sorry for you guys loss
Sending my condolences on your loss of Winnie, I can fully understand what your going through, my favorite video of Winnie is her and Brando in the pool, and Alastair voicing over Winnie about the water, that it was questionable as to it being sanitary. Thanks for sharing your loss with us. Take care Zach and Alastair and Brando.
So sorry to hear of Winnie's passing. I will really miss her as well.;😢😢😢
So sorry for the loss of your beloved Winnie. Me and my kittens send hugs❤️❤️❤️
Hey guys, I'm so sorry about Winnie. Losing a fur baby is always hard and you will heal in your own time. Thanks for sharing your story.
❤ you A & Z!
Moving through grief is always tough. But move through you must.
Forget the dark days. Remember the bright ones. Those who can't be with you now will be with you again...someday.
Love each other as you do so well. You are souls that have bonded for life.
Believe in Yourself. Be You.
I just want to express how much I was so very sorry to hear about Winifred. I do understand the love. I had my cat for 13 yrs. I can't have children. And that baby was my child. I live you both. I always looking to see yalls vlog. It's like you put such truth in your videos. We get to see pieces of your soul. I pray God be with yall during this difficult time. HAPPY Holidays 🌟🎄❄☃️
Always a joy to wake and see a vid from you both! Loved Alastair being annoying with the facts about your name zach gave me a giggle. Sending virtual hugs to you all, lovely seeing little Winnie by the bed 💜
God I love you guys. You are both so damn cute and your love for each other is so obvious. Take your time doing the tribute to Winnie. We know how much you guys love your animals and you are right when you say that if you haven't lost one, you have no idea of the sense of loss you suffer. I still miss my last furry girl so much. Pain never really goes away. Stay sweet guys.
I grew up in a family where the kitchen and or the dining room table was used as an office desk in the day time. Come dinner time it was time to clear off the table. When a pet passes it is always a hope that it passed without any pain or anxiety. I work for hospice and I've never heard of a hospice for animals but maybe one day.
I’m so so sorry about your baby girl!! I know the feeling!! The best way I feel to help with loss is HONOR HER by finishing the video and plant a little tree or art work or whatever makes your heart cope and help it heal for both of you to keep her memory alive!! Don’t fall into that depression cuz it can easily happen!! I really care for you both and hope you find that spark again and come back with 🤗 JAZZ HANDS!! 😂 THANKS FOR THE OPEN WINDOW TO YOUR DAY TO DAY!! 💋
Zach, that's a nice video yesterday and I'm proud of you, thanks to your husband, Alastair!!
Hello, and greetings from Springfield, Missouri--Been watching your posts for some time and I really like them. Sorry about your loss. Everyone who has EVER owned a pet feels your pain. My Italian Greyhound died 15 year's ago and STILL I miss him. Much love y'all..Brian
Sorry to hear about *Winnie* . I know what it is like to lose you baby and trust me it is hard even so many years later when you randomly remember things that they did. It takes time but it does get easier.
Losing a pet is a deep sorrow. Some day both of you will be able to look back and smile when you remember the love Winnie gave you both. Best wishes.
I'm very sorry for the loss of your beloved girl, but please be comforted in each other. Ms. Sharon