My Experience Dating In Vietnam | A Hidden Gem For Western Men?
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- I just spent two months in Da Nang, Vietnam. Afterwards, Vietnam is definitely one of my favorite countries, if not my number 1 favorite. Although I was only there two months, I did try dating a little bit but found it difficult.
In this video, I will share my experience dating in Vietnam and what I think about Vietnamese women, people, and culture. I will also talk about some of my favorite adventures, including waterfalls, hiking, and motorbike trips in Da Nang, Hoi An, Hue, Que Son, and A Loui.
I have lived in Vietnam, Philippines, Malaysia for the last 21 years. Vietnam has some of the most beautiful women in the world. Very feminine, peaceful and appreciative. But my advice to you is to not look for them in bars, nightclubs, or big cities during the late evening. Your odds of finding a very modest, soft, feminine woman who is traditional and trustworthy greatly improve if you look in smaller cities, villages, and in areas where negative influences from other tourists could have changed her behavior. I found my beautiful wife in the Philippines in a smaller city while grocery shopping. In the 17+ yrs we have been married she has never once argued with me over financial decisions or decisions that impact our overall family security, longevity. Also she is still extremely sexy, fit and has brought so much peace into our home it has enabled me to successfully grow my company to multiple countries.
My advice is simple. Don't look for a girl in the City in bars. In local stores or on the beach. Find a Virgin deep in the country that still does not know anything about sex. Really look deep in to her sexual relations but looking in the hole . Most will lie and tell you they are a Virgin yet if you look between the legs you will see that was a lie. I was 14 and could tell by looking is they were a Virgin or not. If you can't tell then you need a lot of help. Next is simple if you are dating a girl that is 5 feet tall and 150 pounds you know they are well over weight by about 60 pounds and you will be spending more feeding her to fill her needs.
Thanks for your insight. I'm so happy to hear about your success story with your Filipina. My experiences in the Philippines was very positive. I didn't meet any women in Vietnam. I don't go out late at night, just not my lifestyle. But I agree, some of the most beautiful women in the world.
Prove it
@@amitmasram7717 - My proof is my family. My beautiful wife & 2 sons. I am sorry if your life is so full of doubt that you need proof of another man's happiness. Whatever your current situation is, I hope you can find peace in your life. What my message to you and other men, (young and old) is that there is no faster way to find peace than with a very traditional, feminine woman by your side. I wish you peace and happiness.
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I found dating in Vietnam wonderful. Stunningly beautiful, considerate, attentive, fun loving, communicative, open and wife material. I understand dating in Asia. Cold approaches aren’t well received. Repeated light consistent communication so a Vietnamese woman becomes familiar with me works very well. They don’t like pushy style connections. I take walks every day wave and smile and that’s all it took. Western men are used to western dating. I love dating Vietnamese women. Many choices. I’ve never dated in HCM or Hanoi. Phillipines is great also. I prefer the emotional stability of Vietnamese over Thai and Philippine women.
Which cities did you date in, if not HCM or Hanoi? Do you speak Vietnamese?
I don’t speak a word of Vietnamese. I dated in Tam Ky, Da Lat, Sapa, Hue, and other smaller cities. I’ve exclusively dated Asian women for decades and understand they need to be familiar with the man before they date or talk to a foreigner
Good points about emotional stability, being considerate and attentive. Vietnamese people in general were amazing and hospitable. I will try your style if I ever end up back in Vietnam.
Great video. I am from south florida and never have been to southeast asia until last year. in my 50's good shape and good appearance. I love love asian women. I went to thailand three times in the past year. Not only are the women beautiful but everyone is so friendly and guys are also nicer just to go out and grab some drinks. IN the US everyone is more to themselves. I live in a very cool place in America ( delray beach ) however i just love southeast asia. Going to the Phillipines in January for a month then may hit vietnam then thailand again. Your video sounds dead on from what to expect from Vietnam. Stinks that in thailand almost no one spoke english but it was fun. And i mean fun and easy to meet and be with the women. If southeast asia wasnt so far i would be there a week every month!!!!!!! The culture the cost of living is amazing. I also know what you said about the Phillipines must be dead on. However i cant wait to speak english to everyone. LOL ADVICE TO ANY men thinking about going.......GO!!!!! Wish i did it 20 years ago. Also love how the age difference doesnt matter as much. All the best
Thanks Mike! I am thrilled to hear that you got to experience Southeast Asia. I am too in love with the people and lifestyle. The Philippines is probably the easiest to date in for 2 reasons - they speak English and they love Americans, but the lack of infrastructure, the pollution, and the food will eventually wear you down. Vietnam may be the hardest to date but it is still probably my favorite country. Nicest people you'll find and so many fun adventurous things to do, and cheap. And Thailand, for me, kind of has the best of all worlds.
My dad was at khe sanh in 68'. He said it was a beautiful country with great people-well the ones that weren't trying to him and other Marines-that is lol
Haha. I met quite a few Vietnam veterans there that experienced just what you mentioned. Some fear with going back and now they are happily married to Vietnamese women.
@@RoamingRomances to have independence Vietnam now - my country has gone through a lot of pain - If you have a chance to go back, listen to them talk about the wars
Better to use Tinder or Bumble in Vietnam?
In Vietnam Tinder had more women, but I used Bumble more. But I still prefer in person approaching over online dating.
It sounds like it’s more trouble than it’s worth.
Compared to some other countries probably. But they are so beautiful. Vietnam is the cheapest and has the best adventures though.
That's generally true everywhere.
Again, Find em, Feel em, Fuck em, and Forget em. Above all Forget em.
In Southeast Asia, Vietnamese girls are the most beautiful and have highest standard when choosing male partners (almost they're gonna choose Vietnamese guys). Guys in other countries in SEA are usually jealous of Vietnamese guys for getting such the beautiful and white-skinned girls in the region!
Since when did they get jealous? Philippines ALWAYS win international beauty contests because there are so many who fit the bill. By statistics, Americans, Japanese and Koreans are married to more Filipinas compared to other races. Are you dreaming? 😊
I found that to be true as well. The Vietnamese women were less interested in foreigners than any SEA country I've been to. Very traditional. I think the key would be to stay there awhile and learn some of the language.
@@RoamingRomances Vietnam is becoming well off and they are not interested in foreigners who are increasingly viewed as failures in their home country. I've seen a video where an old Caucasian vlogger was ridiculed he approached young Vietnamese crowd and was described as a failure like just counting trains in Vietnam. 😊
Just got engaged to my Vietnamese girlfriend who speaks English. I can confirm they are exceedingly feminine but do not confuse their deference for weakness. Vietnam has extremely strong women when they need to be, they would simply prefer a man to take the lead.
Good point, and I'm thrilled for you and your engagement. Vietnamese women are so feminine and beautiful. I do have some expat buddies that are Vietnam veterans and married to Vietnamese women. They joke how about how much their wives enjoy having complete control over them, but not in a Western modern way. The take very good care of their men.
I was burned by a Vietnam woman.
Sorry to hear that. Interested to hear what went wrong.
I agree been to Vietnam twice now and I could easily live there. The people are lovely and the women beautiful
Glad to hear brother. Vietnam is probably my favorite country so far, and the people are kind, the woman are beautiful just very reserved and traditional, which is actually a great thing.
I'll be leaving for Vietnam in a few months, and I'll be staying for 6 weeks. Really looking forward to it.
Bruce, I'm happy for you and I think you'll love Vietnam. It may be my favorite country so far when considering outdoor adventure and the cost of living. As for dating, it is harder than Thailand and the Philippines.
ASIAN GIRLS ALWAYS PREFER ASIAN GUYS, by seeing the couples in the whole Asia (East & South East), 99%+ asian girls are with asian guys, ok!
But for Western-born Asian guys who live in the West, if he is not good-looking, how can he find girlfriend, or he just accept being single for a long time? Could anybody tell me please?..... (because we all know that Western-born Asian girls prefer White guys, NOT anything as Asian girls living in Asia who always prefer Asian guys)
Everyone knows the ones in the west are brainwashed to hate their own culture lol
I understand your concern. I had a Western born Asian friend in the Philippines. He said the hard thing was that most Filipinos assumed that he was Filipino. But he still did well. The main thing is that you look presentable, let them know that you are from the West, and bring them to nice dates. It may be a little bit harder but you can still do good.
You are over-generalizing. I met and befriended many Thai women who would NEVER date a Thai man. They looked like they wanted to spit when talking about Thai men! Every Thai woman I met loved my nose because it is well-proportioned and is not flat like an Asian nose. A lot of the bar girls I got to know in Pattaya have a Thai man or a Tomboy, and 7 foreign fools sending money from abroad. But a lot have a dream of finding a nice western man to marry and save them and their family from dreadful poverty. The smart ones can do very well for themselves there. Some take care of entire villages in Isaan.
Regarding the language barrier, Vietnamese is a tonal language making it very difficult for a westerner. You may pronounce a word correctly regarding the vowel sound but if you say it with the wrong tone you change the meaning of the word.
If you got the tone wrong, you don't get the word correctly.
Good point. I tried to pick up some words and phrases and experienced what you mentioned. Eventually I got the nuances sufficient enough for them to understand.
It seems like the language barrier would make it so frustrating to do anything. And it would seem like dating would be next to impossible if they don't speak English. Am I not understanding it? I guess you use a phone app for translation?
I think you are on point. I did use a phone app to translate but it is frustrating. There are some that speak English, but far less than half. I wonder how the capital Ho Chi Minh (Siagon) would be. This was in Da Nang.
A lot of women in HCMC speak English, I met my partner there 5 years ago.
Also friends means they don’t hookup, but they will have a long term relationship/marriage.
Hooking up with a foreigner may mean nobody will marry her and ruin her future prospects of having a family.
If you want to hook up and play, pay for it, or go to Cambodia 🇰🇭
@@RoamingRomances HCMC is not the capital. Hanoi is .
@@charlesmassaquoi6717 You're right thanks.
@@ckwicko thanks for your insights. I will check out HCMC next time.
I've been a fluent speaker of Vietnamese for 30+ years (I started learning when i was 17).
When I visit VN I don't plan on telling anyone I speak it, particularly any women I might date. 😏
Thanks for your insights. I've had men tell me the same thing in Thailand. Can you clarify the reason for that? Is it because they assume you have already dated other Vietnamese women, therefore a turnoff?
Becouse its a nightmare getting a longterm visa unlike in the Philippines
That is correct you'd have to get married or teach English to stay long-term in Vietnam. Philippines has the best immigration policy. Can stay there years on just a tourist visa. But, in Vietnam I got a 90-day multiple entry visa pretty easily. If you make a border run you can get another one.
@@RoamingRomancesUnfortunatly Vietnam like Thailand has gone the route of if you are loaded you can get anything you want with a visa. Vip visa in Thailand is $ 30 .000 I believe. They build up their country on the backpackers back in the 80 and 90 ties and now those people are only welcome as tourists to spend money and then they can feck off
@@RoamingRomances My friend's uncle works in Da Nang govt. They said doing runs is completely fine as long as you keep buying new visas.
I was just in Da Nang last week - weather was stunning and the condos were half the price of Chiang Mai and food was fantastic. I found the English amongst the locals was better than I had found in Thailand and even got some local Vietnamese friends who were super friendly. Also the lack of traffic was nice!
Realities Of Dating Women in 'Central Vietnam". OMG! They are more closed and veryyyyyyy old fashion / traditional when it comes to dating or getting anywhere. Take a bit more time and effort before you can get to the center of those lollipops. Hook=Ups are very rare.
Good point man. Very old-fashioned and that can be a great thing if you are able to take your time.
The woman that told you no no in the mall. She might have thought when you asked her for her IG that you were a playboy. It could have been something she saw on the internet...etc
Haha. I hear playboys get manufactured at AHS.
@@RoamingRomances 🤣🤣🤣🤣
In Australia I ended up getting a woman from Taiwan’s instagram from just asking if I needed help at a Sydney trainstation. I just find Asian women who don’t beg for money are gold.
I agree. Similar to the Philippines, I've never had a woman ask for money there, although I understand other men's experiences are different.
I'm 37. Average to attractive for age. 6ft. White. Normal features.
Got tonnes of matches.
But not a good place for fwb, ons.
Better for traditional relationships.
They all wanted something serious.
Thats fine, but as a traveller. I did better in more western places.
Thanks for your insights. Similar to my experience in Vietnam. It wasn't that I couldn't get any matches or dates, but the women were very reserved, traditional, and not into short-term travel hookups.
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I had no problem meeting ladies first time I was in Vietnam and you are correct, you have to put in the time if you want to get them naked, but they don't all need a ring to get between the sheets. If you just want some quick play, go to Apocalypse Now (they call it Apo) or one of the other clubs downtown in HCMC. A hundred US for the night for a pretty one when I was there. More expensive than Thai girls, but it is nice to have a women with real breasts from time to time!
Amazing video!!! how can I contact You Eric? I am planning to move to Hanoi very soon. Thank you so so much.
Thanks for watching Leonardo! Enjoy Hanoi, I have not been there. Was planning to but I fell in love with Da Nang so I just stayed there. You'll love Vietnam. And if you move there and make an effort to learn the language, you will have a wonderful dating experience.
The viewpoint at 0:20 is not on the Hai Van Pass, in fact it's on the way from Prao to Aluoi:)
So clean ?! Hahahaha
@@altran1125 absolutely you're right
Depends on the city I guess. The beach strip in Danang was both clean and breathtaking.
What were the dating gems your older male friends gave you for dating in Vietnam?
I was advised to use Bumble or VietnamCupid. Learned a few pickup lines like “em dap lam” which translates to something like “you are beautiful”. I am not a big fan of pickup lines but when you butcher them with your accent, they are hysterical. And of course, with Vietnamese women, just play a slow, friendly approach, although I was given the opposite advise and to be direct by another guy.
Thank you 🙏🏼
vietnam is pretty terrible for dating, IMO. Thailand, Malaysia and Philippines are much better. Vietnam has the language barrier. And even if you find a girl who speaks good english (which isn't too hard in the big cities) the majority of Vietnamese girls wouldn't seriously consider a long-term relationship and settling down with someone who is non-vietnamese. They're often just interested in dating a white person for a little while. But know it would disappoint their parents etc to marry outside of the culture.
if you're just looking for a not-serious type thing though Hanoi and HCMC are good fun. And Vietnam is in general pretty unique and awesome. so definitely worth experiencing
Thanks for your insight. I did experience what you were saying. There wasn't much interest, especially compared to the Philippines. Vietnam surprised me as far as adventure, pretty good infrastructure too. Absolutely gorgeous country.
Not for me.
Isn't it obvious? If you really search for a real relationship YOU learn the language. If you're looking just for sex, YOU expect the girls to speak your language. So pathetic, really 😢
Absolutely agree with you..thailand.malaysia and Philippines much much better than. Vietnam.
In Southeast Asia, Vietnamese girls are the most beautiful and have highest standard when choosing male partners (almost they're gonna choose Vietnamese guys). Guys in other countries in SEA are usually jealous of Vietnamese guys for getting such the beautiful and white-skinned girls in the region!
I found that to be true as well. The Vietnamese women were less interested in foreigners than any SEA country I've been to. Very traditional. I think the key would be to stay there awhile and learn some of the language. Still, I was able to get phone numbers from beautiful Vietnamese women.
Hey there, to anyone that's reading, I was wondering if you could please address and/or spread the hate video where Theo Von says he would eat a vietnamese person. As a Vietnamese American I have experienced so much hate in this world that I'm just going crazy. Not a single person chose to be born as who they were born as, yet others feel the need to put down and bash others down, to dehumanize them and say they would eat people from a specific ethnic group. I was just wondering if you could spread the word and bring the awareness to such hate. Thank you!
Why worry about people who are shallow minded and insane? I grew up in a little town in western Canada and the only foreign family in town were refugees from the Vietnam war, and they ran a great little restaurant and everyone liked them. The kids all played music and were social as hell. Anyway, don't let the idiocy of a few people kill your spirit.
Looks like you just travel to date some girls... many other interesting things to do in Vietnam I think.
A wise man once said not to judge a book by the cover. Yes, of course dating is a part of my travels. But in Vietnam I spent three months going all around Vietnam. Didn't even kiss a single woman. I'd consider it my favorite country.
@@RoamingRomances yeah I live in Vietnam since 2011 and still love it.
What you do for a living??? Get a job this is a very old subject,live vietnamese people alone….
Thanks for watching.
"Smoking Hot". I'd prefer a mind-to-mind relationship, where the extras are better.
That is important I agree.
Cambodia is cheaper.
It's definitely not.
I didn't find Cambodia to be cheaper although I only stayed in Cambodia for 10 days. My apartment in Da Nang 5 blocks from the beach was $270. With washing machine, kitchen, one bedroom.
If you have to go to another country to find women, then the problem isn't with the women you meet.
Do what makes sense for you. I'm not here to judge.
Maybe women too picky fat in own country
@@RoamingRomances Yep. Why keep trying to sell ice to an eskimo. Go to a place where women actually desire you.
Sorry to hear about where you're at now. I just came from there and I'm in Saigon. "You need Tuk Tuk???" lol
How you liking Saigon? I am in Rio de Janeiro at the moment
@@RoamingRomances Hey thanks for responding! I like it. It's exciting. It feels VERY classy after Thailand and Cambodia. I'm on my 6th day I think. I don't know when I should move on to Dalat and then Nha Trang. I have a 90 day visa and I'm probably staying for about 70-75. I kind of want to get to Da Nang because from Da Nang and north is where its really awesome from what my research shows. I'm envious of your current location. I'm sorry about my original comment..............all the people asking me to give them money and the Tuk Tuk drivers kind of wore me down though. :)
@@ascendant95 there are no tuk tuks in Vietnam!!