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  • @victoriaowoeye
    @victoriaowoeye 3 місяці тому +354

    Great Message!
    I'm not a COMMODITY, I'M A CHILD OF GOD (Created in His Image). I'm valuable and priceless.

  • @baloguntaymee5056
    @baloguntaymee5056 3 місяці тому +339

    Na your boyfriend dey tell you say you're still single😂😂😂

  • @tamaragatling2809
    @tamaragatling2809 3 місяці тому +154

    The Holy Ghost will keep us if we truly want to be kept during our time of singleness. He’s a keeper!🙌🏾

    • @tamarykarenyi5099
      @tamarykarenyi5099 3 місяці тому +4

      An excellent keeper!

    • @sheenamohammed3382
      @sheenamohammed3382 3 місяці тому +2

      @tamaragating well said,it is the truth

    • @olakunleadewole4272
      @olakunleadewole4272 3 місяці тому +2

      But you have your roles to play too

    • @ruthgakpey9851
      @ruthgakpey9851 3 місяці тому +1

      sure He will and He is❤

    • @ruthgakpey9851
      @ruthgakpey9851 3 місяці тому +4

      as for the values...... when you keep them whole hearted you'll loose men but those men are just weights you're loosing and you need to loose them to ascend so you can meet your King...... Your God ordained one. God is helping us

  • @splendidwittyman2611
    @splendidwittyman2611 3 місяці тому +46

    Its better to deal with sexual pressures than to deal with sexual regretion. Its better to burn than to bow. Sexual abstainance is the goal.

  • @mollypeters4408
    @mollypeters4408 3 місяці тому +318

    Jesus is coming back soon, save your soul by choosing to accept him as your personal Lord and saviour today.

  • @gkimbi706
    @gkimbi706 3 місяці тому +51

    Story of my life😢 Help us God. Waiting and rejecting suitors every week and the Godly ones aren't coming forth is frustrating. But we still choose God. God please remember us ohhh

    • @adorableprincess124
      @adorableprincess124 3 місяці тому +13

      Exactly 😢😢
      Godly ones no dey come 😂😂😂
      But I'm sure God is preparing something for us
      We will keep waiting

    • @estyonyi8153
      @estyonyi8153 3 місяці тому +9

      Amen 🙏
      I will rather wait on God than lose my values. Just yesterday someone I know was telling me that my standards are too high, I asked him a simple question, when was the last time you went to Church?
      He said forget about that one, I said really? Keep playing

    • @gkimbi706
      @gkimbi706 3 місяці тому +2

      @@adorableprincess124 amen

    • @gkimbi706
      @gkimbi706 3 місяці тому

      @@estyonyi8153 amen

    • @olubunmmyOluwaseyiAjibade
      @olubunmmyOluwaseyiAjibade 3 місяці тому

      The wait is worth it! I waited for 38years. When God showed up, He gave me one of His own very dearest as my husband.
      He wasn’t surprised I was a virgin at all, he said God had told him his wife was going to be one.
      I kept on seeing orisirisi Esau trying to overshadow my Isaac but I am grateful for the help of God who kept me and consoled me the nights and times I cried during those waiting years. I didn’t even bother going into any relationship again until God’s own came.
      However, I kept on asking and following God’s purpose for my life while waiting.
      Please Keep Waiting but wait rightly. The state of your heart while waiting is very important to God also. Keep the right attitude while waiting.
      Be happy for others even younger ones when they are getting married.

  • @chengetochizema7393
    @chengetochizema7393 3 місяці тому +84

    A friend of mine once had a boyfriend like this ,this is real. You can date a youth leader that still has their values misplaced. Now she is so glad she did not yield to the pressure

  • @oluwatoyinbolaji9373
    @oluwatoyinbolaji9373 3 місяці тому +183

    Sometimes it is not easy to cope as a child of God and still very single, they will tell you to do the needful if the right person is not coming, I received grace not to compromise in Jesus name

    • @pearlchikumbi1675
      @pearlchikumbi1675 3 місяці тому +3

      True and Amen 🙏

    • @MadaUmoruAlesa
      @MadaUmoruAlesa 3 місяці тому +3

      God's grace is sufficient

    • @oluwatoyinbolaji9373
      @oluwatoyinbolaji9373 3 місяці тому

      Amen

    • @samdavid7272
      @samdavid7272 3 місяці тому +3

      The Lord is your strength, I pray everything covering or blocking your right partner from locating you is destroyed by the blood of Jesus Amen.
      Stay Strong, A great light awaits you at the end of the tunnel

    • @Diamondgoldip
      @Diamondgoldip 3 місяці тому +1

      Look for Jesus disciples fellowship, by the time you get their teachings, your decision will be ROCK SOLID.

  • @graceebojielu2509
    @graceebojielu2509 3 місяці тому +20

    "If you can give it to me you can give it to others"
    I screamed

  • @fatmatakamara455
    @fatmatakamara455 3 місяці тому +21

    Motive is important. Some people maintain their virginity so they can have something to boast about. Others are content losing to the man who will marry them. But when we choose sexual purity because we want to honor God, there’s Grace on every side.

  • @Chantieslife
    @Chantieslife 3 місяці тому +42

    I am not a common commodity like those on the market. I am a valuable daughter of God. I am a king and priest, a holy nation,set apart for the Master's use.
    Hallelujah!🙌🏾
    Thank you so much for this video. God bless you Winlows🙏🏽

  • @reghaaghogho4791
    @reghaaghogho4791 3 місяці тому +66

    Sex before marriage is a sin. I am valuable that's why I will not compromise on the Godly values I have

    • @ellalorlornyo
      @ellalorlornyo 3 місяці тому +1

      Your husband will be proud of you as mine was proud of me😊

    • @ceced353
      @ceced353 2 місяці тому

      Say it louderrr 😝

  • @OGHOGHOI
    @OGHOGHOI 2 місяці тому +7

    Many ladies are going through this. We pray for our Single ladies for grace to keep standing in Jesus name amen

  • @Queenestherstrybe
    @Queenestherstrybe 3 місяці тому +96

    He said he wants to marry me, I can see it in his eyes😂😂😂😂

  • @danielleisblessed
    @danielleisblessed 3 місяці тому +5

    True love demonstrates reverence for God… Amen!!

  • @IfeoluwaAdesina-b5y
    @IfeoluwaAdesina-b5y 3 місяці тому +90

    "You are losing them because they are not compatible with your values."
    I am valuable.

  • @sylviabaah-tuahene8656
    @sylviabaah-tuahene8656 3 місяці тому +194

    Anyone who cannot align with your values is not worth keeping.
    Never compromise on your values because God is faithful.
    He always comes through for us and makes things beautiful in His time. There's no need to stress or worry.

    • @pearlchikumbi1675
      @pearlchikumbi1675 3 місяці тому +1

      Oh, Amen 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻😊

    • @sylviabaah-tuahene8656
      @sylviabaah-tuahene8656 3 місяці тому

      @@pearlchikumbi1675 Amen!

    • @Surrendered45
      @Surrendered45 3 місяці тому +1

      Amen and single woman cares for how she may please the Lord , be holy in body and spirit. Single men kmow how to possess their vessel in santification and honor! Married women please their world ,husband! Respectgully commenting ., GOD KEEP what you commit to him faithfully .. when you value your soul and body . Is for the Lord .. he will preserve you. ❤stand on word of God .. we are valuable.. His Royal diadem💎💎❤

    • @MariaWaYesu
      @MariaWaYesu 3 місяці тому +1

      AMEEN

  • @isaaclebbie3254
    @isaaclebbie3254 3 місяці тому +44

    A timely and timeless message for our generation. Thank you Winlos

  • @OisaseimeOhiorenoya
    @OisaseimeOhiorenoya 3 місяці тому +6

    The courtship alone is an unequal yoke

  • @ChillieCakes
    @ChillieCakes 3 місяці тому +16

    She has patience, I would have walked away on that first Sentence😂

  • @GodAgenda
    @GodAgenda 3 місяці тому +63

    The problem with most women is that they focus on marriage instead of focusing on their purpose in life. If you know what God has called you, do in life, and you pursue it. Purpose driving men will be the ones to pursue you, and they will never do anything to jeopardise losing you.
    Take it from someone this principle has worked for.

    • @girlcode3564
      @girlcode3564 3 місяці тому +1

      Amen💛

    • @Jesi410
      @Jesi410 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for this

    • @brendahachieng2507
      @brendahachieng2507 3 місяці тому

      ❤❤

    • @sunshiney15
      @sunshiney15 2 місяці тому

      Exactly

    • @peacenharmonyy
      @peacenharmonyy 2 місяці тому +1

      The day we Nigerian Christian women jointly believe and accept that marriage is not the goal and purpose of life, things would be better for all of us.
      We pray and hope that day comes.

  • @olaideadekunle-akinbinuade7820
    @olaideadekunle-akinbinuade7820 3 місяці тому +33

    Keep your values…..I keep my values because am valuable

  • @Sudio51Babe
    @Sudio51Babe 3 місяці тому +7

    Uphold your values oooh. Especially if it will affect your walk with God. Don't settle!!

  • @LifeJennie
    @LifeJennie 3 місяці тому +16

    Don’t compromise!❤
    Lord help us

  • @mautinagemo6383
    @mautinagemo6383 3 місяці тому +32

    God who created sex no know wheytin E dey do ?
    Yes he knows but it's not designed for unmarried.
    Any man that promise you marriage and yet pressurizing you to have sex with you run for your life .
    This message is for everybody yet not for everyone but for those who will follow the godly standard.

    • @estyonyi8153
      @estyonyi8153 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes, because she compromised with him, trust has been lost.
      My Pastor always tells us this. He said the man won't trust you again, because you have even doing it with him, why can't you do it with others.
      I pray God will help us to endure to the end 🙏🙏

  • @monikscoan9936
    @monikscoan9936 3 місяці тому +8

    am priceless, am precious, am valuable and am not cheap.

  • @davedaveson4973
    @davedaveson4973 3 місяці тому +2

    "You have values because you're valuable" 💯

  • @gracep9060
    @gracep9060 3 місяці тому +6

    Give your loyalty first to God and you will never be disappointed or rejected.
    Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all the good things you desire will be added.
    Learn to know and trust God . He will not withhold any good thing from you.
    I believe that if you don't have whatever, its because it's not good for you at that time.
    Get to a place where God is enough(seeking Him daily and living a godly life, led and helped by the Holyspirit). Its the best and most rewarding mindset to have. It is a solid ground

  • @enochchichebem3406
    @enochchichebem3406 3 місяці тому +14

    Oh my God😭😭😭😭😭
    Pastor Anwinli God bless you ma for that words oooo, this message is for me, you are speaking to me directly ..
    God bless THE WINLOS for this wonderful clip ..
    Thank you JESUS for the insight 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @oluwatoyinbolaji9373
    @oluwatoyinbolaji9373 3 місяці тому +30

    God help me, cos people think keeping value is an old school lifestyle. God give us the grace to maintain our value irrespective of what people are saying or pressure in Jesus name 🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇

    • @samdavid7272
      @samdavid7272 3 місяці тому +1

      God bless you

    • @josephinezgyogluu5517
      @josephinezgyogluu5517 3 місяці тому

      Amen ✨️ 🙏

    • @nevergoin28
      @nevergoin28 3 місяці тому +2

      I remained a virgin until I was 25 when I got married. I do not regret. People will mock you laugh at you blah blah but pleasing God is better and He will reward you. please just wait you have all the time to do this thing you will even get tired sef . 😂😂

    • @oluwatoyinbolaji9373
      @oluwatoyinbolaji9373 3 місяці тому

      @@nevergoin28 thank you

  • @victoriawilliams1190
    @victoriawilliams1190 3 місяці тому +9

    God’s laws does not make us lose “people or things” but rather protect us and keep us from trouble.
    Jeremiah 29:11

  • @abigaildzanie1700
    @abigaildzanie1700 3 місяці тому +11

    Beautiful message. I'm proud to follow the WINLOS. God bless your ministry

  • @musondadaisybwalya4329
    @musondadaisybwalya4329 2 місяці тому +1

    Whoever is compatible with your values makes the right companion for you

  • @deborahoppongtwumasi8673
    @deborahoppongtwumasi8673 3 місяці тому +4

    Had i know is always at last. I pray GOD to grant us more grace to endure to the very end.Amen and Amen

  • @leonardilunamienelomien9317
    @leonardilunamienelomien9317 3 місяці тому +9

    Thanks for this timely message. Our values are our most cherished intangible assets. We need to hold on to them at all cost.
    May we find strength in God to hold on to our values even when it is difficult.

  • @Favouredchasi77
    @Favouredchasi77 3 місяці тому +4

    I recieve GRACE not to compromise against my values

  • @frams-tv4015
    @frams-tv4015 3 місяці тому +14

    What is wrong can never be right my brothers and sisters, sometimes it is all for our good as individuals.
    people may give you so many reasons why you should give up on your values and dignity but wait until the Lord rewards you for it.
    I am a testimony to this, so stick to your godly values no matter what it costs.
    May God continue to bless the Winlos with strength and resources to keep up this good work IJN amen🙏

  • @OgoChukwu-dy5dw
    @OgoChukwu-dy5dw 3 місяці тому +2

    You are valuable because of your values

  • @RitaSakala
    @RitaSakala 3 місяці тому +2

    This is a powerful message thank you so much it so timely our generation needs to hear this.God bless and protect everyone reading this,especially my young ladies,you are valuable please take care of yourselves and know that pressure will come but stand strong.

  • @oluwatoyinbolaji9373
    @oluwatoyinbolaji9373 3 місяці тому +3

    God bless the Winlos, thanks for all your messages, it is always accurate message for me at this season of my life.

  • @priscillaagyei7068
    @priscillaagyei7068 3 місяці тому +6

    GOD BLESS THE WINLOS ❤👏🙏

  • @barneyfriday810
    @barneyfriday810 3 місяці тому +2

    Gold is hidden deep underneath the ground. Correct and diligent Minners who truly want to get it do labour hard to obtain them. Gold can never show up on the surface and say I am available, you have to dig deep down before obtaining them. Cheap commodities are flowers. And you know how oftentimes flowers carelessly entertain their tentacles, everybody passing can carelessly plug and throw them away because they have no use for them. Christian ladies, You are more than Gold, you are not a cheap commodity, infact, you are not a commodity. You are Vessel unto honour, set aside for noble purpose. Young men, if you cannot dig deep to get gold on the ground, go and rest or remain single or celibacy. God bless The WINLOS.

  • @stellananno5176
    @stellananno5176 3 місяці тому +3

    God may You please by Your grace help us not to compromise against You and our values

  • @gloriabassey5859
    @gloriabassey5859 3 місяці тому +1

    holyspirit thank you for this great message just gave me hope.

  • @deborahidowu2056
    @deborahidowu2056 3 місяці тому +2

    My story ooo may God help I am just loosing guys because of this values but i will keep standing ooo. What i notice is when you open uour legs you open your destiny keep waiting for God he will reward he eill surely reward 😢

  • @pearlchikumbi1675
    @pearlchikumbi1675 3 місяці тому +2

    If you have to compromise to keep them, then maybe...just maybe that's God telling you that they are wrong for you...Great video as always Winlos... Blessings always 🙏🏻🙏🏻😊

  • @jacobbridget1758
    @jacobbridget1758 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm so glad i came across this video, almost wanted to do same.

  • @ronxamazingstory
    @ronxamazingstory 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless you.❤❤❤

  • @tidjanjallow
    @tidjanjallow 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for making videos like this

  • @borenleboluwatife226
    @borenleboluwatife226 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey guy, point of correction,I'm not a commodity, I am Abba's treasure.

  • @luvlyj89
    @luvlyj89 3 місяці тому +1

    A man of God is worth the wait 🙏🏿

  • @estherEtimEmmanuel
    @estherEtimEmmanuel 3 місяці тому

    Anyone who cannot align with your values is not worth keeping
    Great message 😊

  • @Veronica-chance
    @Veronica-chance 3 місяці тому +1

    This is helpful thank you so much

  • @StephiesMart
    @StephiesMart 2 місяці тому

    In most cases almost all the ladies I know married through this. Some even got pregnant and those who didn't slept with their spouses severally making my faith look like a joke. But I know my faith is in christ alone. So I will not be moved. Salvation is personal.

  • @TheH42G
    @TheH42G 3 місяці тому

    Lord Jesus, thank you for these valuable lessons.

  • @Sparklessssssssss
    @Sparklessssssssss Місяць тому

    It’s your spirit that should be test

  • @adawuedeakueteh157
    @adawuedeakueteh157 3 місяці тому +1

    Such a timely message

  • @biilungyeng5549
    @biilungyeng5549 3 місяці тому +2

    I really like that consulted with someone

  • @iGuideHub
    @iGuideHub 3 місяці тому

    This reminds me of how the devil persistently tempts and pushes us towards sin. Immediately we succumb, he promptly shifts to blaming us
    May God help us to continue keeping our values. Continue helping us Lord🙏
    Let our No be No!!
    No Compromise!!

  • @michaelpeace9147
    @michaelpeace9147 3 місяці тому

    Oh my... thank you too Ma💖 and Sir

  • @mensahdeborah1055
    @mensahdeborah1055 3 місяці тому

    I will wait upon the Lord than compromise my values❤

  • @patienceamarh5893
    @patienceamarh5893 2 місяці тому

    Hmmmm, the sad reality is that most Christians are guilty of this situation. We fall into this temptation before we realize it.
    May God have mercy.

  • @darleinemillordtse6319
    @darleinemillordtse6319 3 місяці тому +6

    Sadly, we've encountered a lot of God fearing ladies fall in this nonsense.
    LORD Strengthen your girls in JESUS name.

  • @paulegharevba2874
    @paulegharevba2874 3 місяці тому +1

    This guy is very convincing in a devilish way

  • @akwa513
    @akwa513 3 місяці тому +3

    She should have replied in the first scene, I am not “a common commodity”.. Don’t compare me to suya.. I am wayyyy more valuable!!

  • @LIDWithOma
    @LIDWithOma Місяць тому

    Great message...@the winlows. Sex like fruits, is good only when the time is ripe.
    And I strongly believe this is a message for the ladies. When a man asks for sex before marriage, he is making a proposal. It's either a Yes or a No. The choice is yours. And the consequence too,

  • @NikkisNature-m9n
    @NikkisNature-m9n 3 місяці тому

    These kinds of men......they challenge using what we want the most. Its so interesting. Only waiting on God makes sense. Not to our feelings or the situation or the storm. He just makes sense especially in hind sight...he is clearer than 20/20vision

  • @francisfiamekor-g7f
    @francisfiamekor-g7f 3 місяці тому

    Seeing in the eyes is not enough...should have seen the heart too

  • @ericaneeqjesu5168
    @ericaneeqjesu5168 3 місяці тому +3

    It will shock you that this is still happening and some parents very vibrant and active in the Lord are encouraging their children to test before.

    • @n.e5190
      @n.e5190 3 місяці тому

      Honestly

  • @ritaasomadu
    @ritaasomadu 3 місяці тому +1

    What ladies forget when men use commodities as analogy is that; most times they end up not acquiring such commodities especially when it doesn't conform to their taste.

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this, a great reminder for me I appreciate 🙏🏻🥰

  • @chimax1362
    @chimax1362 Місяць тому

    Oga if u can’t wait,Dey go na😂

  • @unitychikosi2130
    @unitychikosi2130 3 місяці тому +1

    Very helpful

  • @YasintaShemu-ot7xy
    @YasintaShemu-ot7xy 3 місяці тому +1

    Love u guysss🥰🥰💖💞💓💓💓💓🇹🇿🇹🇿

  • @reghaaghogho4791
    @reghaaghogho4791 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless the WINLOS forever, amen. Thus is a huge lesson

  • @GodandStory
    @GodandStory 3 місяці тому +2

    I realized that the secret to making a million is saving for a better investment. I always tell myself you don't need that new Maserati or that vacation just yet. That mindset helped me make more money investing. For example last year I invested 80k in stocks and made about $246k,but guess what? I put it all back and traded again and now I am rounding up close to a million

    • @exoticblue123
      @exoticblue123 2 місяці тому

      🎉🎉🎉 Praise God! Delayed gratification, people of this generation don't understand.

  • @DarrellHibbler
    @DarrellHibbler 3 місяці тому

    ...👍🏾🙏👍🏾✨✨✨TRUTH VALUABLE GOT PATIENT TRUTH LOVE WILL WAIT... GREAT EPISODE ...👍🏾...THE WINLOS FAMILY... I HOPE TO Y'ALL TO CONTINUALLY STAY UP STAY BEST AND STAND GRATEFUL AND LOVES AND SAFETY AS I SEE Y'ALL IN Y'ALL NEXT EPISODE SO OKAY BYE...💚OUT TO Y'ALL✨✨✨👍🏾🙏👍🏾...

  • @komuhimbolillian2459
    @komuhimbolillian2459 3 місяці тому

    Very wise woman 💗💗Iets value our values more becoz majority of men are after using us

  • @hannatuluka3809
    @hannatuluka3809 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless the wilos

  • @staciandavidson5786
    @staciandavidson5786 3 місяці тому

    My God this video tell me to wait on God even more,

  • @thefaithazi
    @thefaithazi 3 місяці тому

    Very great lesson and timely!

  • @raelkere
    @raelkere 3 місяці тому

    Learned...As Ladies We Should Not Lower Our Standards 👏👏👏...

  • @ThandokaziMagege
    @ThandokaziMagege 2 місяці тому

    I've learnt 😮❤

  • @excelshedrack1275
    @excelshedrack1275 3 місяці тому +1

    Glory to God

  • @towelakaonga7402
    @towelakaonga7402 3 місяці тому

    Thank you very much cause nowadays 😢

  • @Elanay18
    @Elanay18 3 місяці тому

    Actually, for a woman it's not safe to be alone with a man at his place. Watching this made me understand better why my Pastor forbid us to do it. Same rule for men, to protect them.

  • @estherdalo6001
    @estherdalo6001 3 місяці тому +2

    Then go for common commodities ❤❤❤. Greater heights WINLOS.

  • @KuddizaAmos
    @KuddizaAmos 2 місяці тому

    Bro spoke a lot but only quoted "taste and see" 😂

  • @edwarddarkwah5562
    @edwarddarkwah5562 3 місяці тому +2

    Great lessons here from the winlos ❤❤❤

  • @tejiribuebu
    @tejiribuebu 3 місяці тому +1

    My friend is going thru this I can't talk again because she is 40 already she is already checking in her standards I see the worries in her eyes plus family pressure I don't know the scripture to use again o

  • @jesusandmykids
    @jesusandmykids 3 місяці тому +2

    The moment he compared her to a commodity 🙄🙄

  • @yomide_naturals
    @yomide_naturals 3 місяці тому +2

    I rather be single than come below my standards, I prefer to be single than to sin against my God

  • @efua_hasford
    @efua_hasford 3 місяці тому +1

    Youth leader! Na waa oooo😢

  • @jessicaaiyamenkhue
    @jessicaaiyamenkhue 3 місяці тому +1

    I am valuable
    I am Gold

  • @Iconicbeautii
    @Iconicbeautii 2 місяці тому

    Guys that do this to women- you know you shall reap what you’ve sown. Be careful.

  • @iamsharlalakay
    @iamsharlalakay 3 місяці тому +1

    0:44 “GET OUTTA MY HOUSE!”

    • @iam_diaE
      @iam_diaE 3 місяці тому +1

      Straight up

  • @mordecaimusa2609
    @mordecaimusa2609 3 місяці тому

    Why do some men flip on this kinds of situations so easily, Hold unto your values with all pride

  • @onyinyechicollete2862
    @onyinyechicollete2862 3 місяці тому +1

    I AM NOT A COMMODITY. I'M A CHILD OF GOD

  • @idara_israel
    @idara_israel 3 місяці тому

    Thank God for deliverance, funny thing is if you don't have the word of God and wisdom of the Holy Spirit with self control... they'll convince and manipulate till you fall.

  • @stevenleabon8032
    @stevenleabon8032 Місяць тому

    I mean yes she had choice to. 😢❤😊