Ways to Know He’s Interested in You (when dating) 1. He will give you his time, even if he doesn’t have a lot of time to give! This point right here...🔥. 2. He will go above and beyond, he will do for you! 3. He will pay for the date (he’ll go in his bag/he’ll be creative if he has limited money). 4. He does for you, serves you, and expects NOTHING more than your gratitude. **The key thing is time & consistency!** Be blessed! Thank you for these jewels you drop, Tony. May God replenish you each and every time you pour out for the people.
By following those rules he talked about.... the natural order of things can make it easier to see if the guy is a loser or a winner. By being masculine and doing the man's job for a man, (assuming you have a lazy bum or no ambition guy) will make it harder to see his own inadequacies, that might be a bunch of deal breakers for you HAD you , had high priorities in the first place .
Listen to your intuition. You will know when a man is interested. You will see it in his pursuit of you. He calls you everyday. He listen to you. He invest in you. You will see the progression in the relationship. Listen to Tony, he is leading you down the right path. Great video Tony!
In other words ladies let a man be a man...be receptive and allow him to court you...stop thinking that every man is a dog or "no good" that is just fear and negative thinking..raise your standards think positive
Remember the movie “Thin Line Between Love and Hate”. The woman that went above and beyond, he didn’t want. The woman that checked him and held him accountable, is the woman that he wanted.
All of these tips are 100% accurate. This is why I’m still single and not wasting my time with words. Action and consistency validates he’s genuinely interested.
I've always been insecure about receiving from a man. Watching this makes me realize that I have been compensating with so many dysfunctional things. But I'm gonna stop that now. This video was definitely steak and potatoes! Be blessed.
I listen to Tony on my way to work, during lunch break, at home while doing chores, and at night before bed. I’ve adopted him as my big brother because my father hasn’t taught me CRAP about men. Thank you, Tony. Thanks for everything. Be blessed!
The same way a man needs to PUT IN time and consistency, we as women need to GIVE IT time for true colors to show and be consistent in our boundaries. Thanks for helping me to connect these dots
I wish I was able to understand this fully when I was in my mid-twenties. A man truly has to earn your time, attention and eventually your hand. And I'm talking real acts of service, real actions to meet your needs. Not sappy words or empty compliments.
Be blessed! I've been making countless mistakes with men, that's why I am still single at nearly 46. I've barely started to understand what I did wrong. Thanks for your advice.
When you play the video and see all the mistakes YOU made entertaining grown boys ...but no more. I'm learning and I won't make these mistakes anymore.
Even though I'm old enough to be your mother, I still find your ministry to be a blessing in my own life. It's a foolproof measure to help my daughters and other significant women to learn from my mistakes. I truly appreciate your love and dedication to hurting souls around the world. Thank you😊
My ex- gave me his time and still cheated. That was one bad year I was taking it like he was the only man in this world for me but look at me now married and happy.
What I learned from receiving from my kids’ dad all these years is that when he sees I’m happy by what he does... he loves that more than anything else.
It's time out for all the foolishness. I'm tired of falling for the okie-doke with these dudes. To make a long story short, I get off work, get my kids and my house in order and get settled. I Pray to Holy God for wisdom and guidance then I watch these videos until I get a profound understanding. Tony, you have truly been a blessing. Please keep the knowledge in rotation. Be Blessed !! 🙏🏽👌🏽
I was with a narcissistic person whom smothered me with time, acts of services, gifts for over 2 years, but later he was also verbally abusive. So be careful still with those things.
Omg this message has really shown me that I’m not ready for a relationship, and I really need to take some time and reflect on past mistakes and decisions that I have made in my love life. And what I need to look at within myself thank you Tony
This is def STEAK & POTATOES message. I swear every woman needs to be listening to this man! 🙌🏾 Thank you for looking out for us! Appreciate it so much. I listen to your vids every day and I’m learning more, getting stronger and wiser and just staying on top of my game. Thank you! 🙏🏾
"If he doesn't have a job, you are not watching the right video🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..."You killed me with that one Tony...too funny!!! Great video, very informative!!!
Mrs. Black y’all women are so brainwashed by this society smh I went on a date last week with a woman and she asked if I had a job. I told her no. Then she starts trying to clown saying “you think I’m about to waste time with you”. I said I don’t really care. Then she asked what are my plans. I said I am a real estate investor with 9 properties and currently looking to buy 3 more. Her facial expression and attitude turned around. Needless to say I ended the date right then and there. It’s way to easy to figure y’all women out
Tony this is so so so TRUE! I experienced a man that called me EVERYDAY for 3.5 months and we talked an hour plus every day. He carried a good conversation we laughed and really enjoyed each other....Oh and he was a successful Lawyer so his time was money. I couldn't understand how he was able to do it. EVERYDAY no breaks no ghost no games. I absolutely loved!
You are raising these women who really want to learn. The ones that did not have a father to teach them how to interact with men. Thank you sir. I watch you religiously.
@@Dtella55 Proud of you Sis! Mine hasn't cheated or i would of left for good. He was emotionally and verbally abusive. He had many months of therapy before I agreed to come back to my home. If he gets all possessive again, i will leave and not look back or kick him out for good.
aww! my man flew from chicago to fresno and then drove 6 hrs to come and spend with me the few hrs that he had off! We work like crazy so we understand each other; this video hit me because I still feel like I need to do something like that in return. I will just be grateful and stay calm, he didn't ask for nothing but a few hrs of my time in return. I never thought I would appreciate someone's character so much.
He interested if he show you respect, consistency, time, good communication, honestly, keep his words, listening,understanding, service you, he not expecting anything in return but your gratitude. Time, actions, consistency and respect if he dont show these qualities then ladies dont waste your time move on its not worth it I agree tony great and bless message i needed this right on time. Be blessed every one👍👍👏👏☺
I guess after listening to this video, I’m more upset with my parents not telling me the ways of properly dating! This guidance is so logical. Especially when it comes to some of us women (🙋🏾♀️) have out done a dude or two by going overboard in our appreciation. Because we perceived what we (I) was doing was reciprocating after he has done something nice for us (me). Way too many times I can recall outdoing a man I was trying to date. (Not in huge monetary gifts! I’m not that crazy, but still...) I just wish I had learned this decades ago.
Never want a man not able to take care of himself. No finance...no romance! I'm a manager at McDonalds and stay on my grind for our kids. I had to kick him out because he showed me he wasn't growing or even willing to grow. He wasn't expecting me to flip my script. It's just sad I invested 8 years thinking we was gonna be a power couple. I was the power couple. So now I am working so hard to find my femininity again. After being masculine for so long. He is a part time Roofer. You had me laughin laughin when you said McDonalds was always hiring! He has only ever had under the table jobs. Nothing ever on the books and consistent. I snipped him! I did let my desperate insecurity take over...captain save him! Be Blessed!
@Xiu Zu Thank you...for a very long time I was thinking it was me with all the insecurities but I finally realized I outgrew all of mine and was left seeing all of his and remaining supportive until I seen he wasn't making any effort whatsoever. I knew in that moment. I was done.
Girl I did the same to my ex husband... too many times I had to put my cape on.....finally trying to be feminine again after so many years of doing everything.... such a relief now to sit back and have someone else lead😊😊
Be Blessed Tony🙌🏾💯 You are a Blessing to all who are willing to receive your knowledge. GOD is using you in a very unconditional way. Ladies, let's pay attention to this much needed wisdom. Again, Be Blessed Tony!!!
Be blessed! Your wisdom is priceless and I thank God for what you are sharing. All of it I recognize as truth. I watch these videos almost daily. I can’t believe all that I am learning and I’m sharing with my daughter as well. We need more godly men to step up like this and be genuine. It will create less heartache, less single family homes and less work for God because people will have less pain. May God increase your wisdom and continue to take you to great places where your wisdom and voice can be heard! Amen 🙏🏾
What I understand about what Tony is, and has been, saying is that it's not about looking at one aspect, it's about observing a combination of aspects: time, acts of service, respect, kindness, making you a priority, etc, and the key ingredient, consistency. If there's time but no consistency; acts of service but no consistency; respect but no consistency... you get the point, he's not the one. Keep it moving.
Hit it dead on the nail!!! Even if it's time but no consistency, Respect, nor action within his ways on change within internal as well as external. I, mean none whatsoever Ima keep it Trucking.
“A man that is a no good man, he is not going to give you the world and spend all his time, and give you all his time for long, because if he’s playing games, he gotta keep his game going. So if he’s online dating and he meetin women… He doesn’t have a year to give you. He doesn’t have that type of time because he is in the game, so at the most he may give you 90 days.” 🌸It’s best to be patient, objectively observe, keep your emotions in check, be consistently working on you (3Bs), pray for discernment & wisdom, and stay fabulous.🌸 Remember: TIME & CONSISTENCY
Definitely agree with the Daily routine... I’m just learning these things it wasn’t taught to me... and I choose to trust the process and not lower my standards
Great word! I wish there were more men who only want appreciation in return. Some get right to the point in wanting to know if and when they will get the cookie. Sheesh!
Be blessed. Don't knock the poor man from his role. Let him play his role and you play your role. Let him be the man and you be the woman appreciate him without try to do his work. Show your gratitude verbal and/or written. While you are dating, continue to invest in yourself consistently not just to attract him. Time and consistency!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Yes, time and consistency! I love that and the main reason I do is God already has my husband. I have to give God my time and consistency. To work also through me In order to become the better version of me, the godly wife that I am meant to be.🙌
I just discovered your channel and I've been watching your videos for about 4 days now. Today i finally got the courage to confront this guy I have been seeing about him not call me. Our conversations was TEXT ONLY. He simply replied that he didn't like talking on the phone. It really hurt my feelings because from watching your videos I knew right away that it meant that HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO ME! All I said was "OK THEN" and I deleted his number. If I didn't watch your videos I would probably have just excepted it but NO I got the message loud and clear. I needed your guidance 🙏🏾 Thank you. I will keep on watching your videos and educate myself to make sure that I do not end up in a situation like that again. Thank you for blessing us 🙌🏾
I’m going to take some time out to pray just for you as God is Using and Leading you I appreciate you Tony God a Bless you, your family and all that is a part of you Thank you Thank you Thank you!
You are correct with all your points. Anyone disagrees either has little to no standards and therefore don't make the men wait..OR.. they're in denial. Time and consistency are extremely important significators when it comes to a mans interest cos a man isn't busy all those 24 hours. Either you're a priority or you're just another option.
See on one hand talking every day for an hour over a month to three, a woman has fallen in love and caught feelings and most cases he’s a player or narcissistic. I find the talking every day and texting is a way for men to love bomb . I rather prefer the physical action of dates and spending time together as action speak louder than words. This is for the first time meeting or talking online with him. Time reveals all so by 30-60 days they tend to drop off. Dating is tricky as women we want to be open but men take advantage then a guy who is genuine ur cautious with. Not enough quality men/grown men around to practice healthy dating too many games and insecure people. When you do find this genuine guy take ur time but be open but still watch their actions and ask what’s their intentions are and see if his words and action are aligned .
Be blessed .... writing from the time of Covid-19 ... using the time to work on myself ... I especially appreciated your laying out WHEN we can safely demonstrate all the love we have in our hearts as women ... receive gratefully UNTIL the commitment, and then ever after. I also loved the part about CREATIVITY ... the riches of the MIND, in making what is possible beautiful, count for a whole lot. I have been around a lot of local lakes and parks and enjoyed those times of connecting out in the beauties of nature ... it does not take so much money as it does a full investment of whatever is possible.
Toni, this is truth. I had an ex where nothing was ever good enough. A nice meal and simple thoughtful gifts meant nothing. I was every "cheap a$$" in the book. Even our kids would do special things any parent would appreciate. It was never good enough. I applied those same beliefs to the next person and realized I was viewed as trying to outgive or outdo him. I hate that it was percieved that way. It was only because in my last relationship nothing was ever good enough. I feel sad and hope if this is the man God has for me that we can reconnect.
Be blessed! This is all so true. I'll have to send this video to my cousin. They said those words to me when I told them how much I get for an allowance from my man. They said he shouldn't be giving you nothing he has his on stuff to do. I just shock my head. You girls have so much to learn. The man who loves you wants to give you everything he has. Point plank
Be blessed... This is so on point a guy I'm interested in has said the very same thing to me that you have mentioned . We live 3 hrs away talk everyday for more than an hour ,and he drives to come visit me. He is very interested thank you Tony for all you do.!!!
Just watched this tonight.. told this guy he’s wasting my time.. all that texting.. good morning beautiful.. good evening beautiful.. miss me with that and keep it pushing somewhere.. thanks for making this make sense to me! I’m learning a lot from these videos.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That last story you told Sir, Mm mm mm! Lord Have Mercy, "she made it rain, he gave her a famine" WOW!!! Yes, I Know! He was Faking the WHOLE TIME!!! Wide Awake Now, To God Be The Glory!!!🙏 😇😇😇
To God Be The Glory!💛 Thank You for the Thumbs Up whoever you are! Sometimes we have to "Wake Up And Smell Our Own Coffee, Time To Make The Donuts! FULLY AWAKE and In Love With Jesus!!!💛 😇😇😇
I soo appreciate that I found u. The one, saying things as they are. God..... Probably lots of men hates u, but u have full respect from all of us. Thank u soo much
Yes Tony , hes gonna have to work for it now. " no cooking in thong " 😂... much clearer than part 1 because i see why today he chasing me, i just have to make some adjustments...i dont jump for him , you are right 100%
GOD BLESS YOU TONY. IF I HAVE YOU AS A BROTHER 14 YEAR AGO..I WOULD BE WITH THE MAN . THAT GOD HAS FOR ME. BUT I GOT YOU NOW MY BROTHER. I WILL BE READY. THIS TIME. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. GOD GOT YOU . BE BLESS.
gnette twin same here ! We spoke every day for several hours effortlessly, , turned out he was an emotional abuser and a Narcissist.i learned the hard way via physical and verbal abuse .
Hello Tony, I JYST wanted to touch base with you . I am a fairly new viewer who honestly found you by chance. I lost my husband 8 years ago and have had several bad relationships the past 5 years. I am so happy I found you and love all your videos and watch them daily. I have watch many other dating coaches but I must say you are the king to me. You are very insitful.thank u so much!!
Ways to Know He’s Interested in You (when dating)
1. He will give you his time, even if he doesn’t have a lot of time to give! This point right here...🔥.
2. He will go above and beyond, he will do for you!
3. He will pay for the date (he’ll go in his bag/he’ll be creative if he has limited money).
4. He does for you, serves you, and expects NOTHING more than your gratitude.
**The key thing is time & consistency!**
Be blessed! Thank you for these jewels you drop, Tony. May God replenish you each and every time you pour out for the people.
Be blessed
Perfectly explained 💖
True
I am open to this. Dating out here is rough.
Be Blessed
“You let your desperation, frustration, and insecurities disrupt the natural order of things”🔥
Elle Jaye that thang just spoke to me.
💯💯💯💯💯
By following those rules he talked about.... the natural order of things can make it easier to see if the guy is a loser or a winner. By being masculine and doing the man's job for a man, (assuming you have a lazy bum or no ambition guy) will make it harder to see his own inadequacies, that might be a bunch of deal breakers for you HAD you , had high priorities in the first place .
I wasn’t ready for the truth 🤯🤯🤯🤯
"McDonald is always hiring. I dont believe in a man who doesn't have a job." Bless you Tony "A real man is going to go get it."
Listen to your intuition. You will know when a man is interested. You will see it in his pursuit of you. He calls you everyday. He listen to you. He invest in you. You will see the progression in the relationship. Listen to Tony, he is leading you down the right path. Great video Tony!
Taquila Coleman Amen!!!!! I see all these signs!!! That he’s not doing! ❤️
@Taquila Coleman....you are absolutely right! Amen!!
Thank you Tony!!!
Amen
My bro n love told me “ No, man can keep up a lie for a long time. Pace yourself!
Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥
In other words ladies let a man be a man...be receptive and allow him to court you...stop thinking that every man is a dog or "no good" that is just fear and negative thinking..raise your standards think positive
Remember the movie “Thin Line Between Love and Hate”. The woman that went above and beyond, he didn’t want. The woman that checked him and held him accountable, is the woman that he wanted.
Yes!
Yes I remember that👍
Subliminal messages.
C’mon!
You made a very good point
This is wisdom of a father to his daughter. THANK YOU for these jewels.
Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
All of these tips are 100% accurate. This is why I’m still single and not wasting my time with words. Action and consistency validates he’s genuinely interested.
Its honestly better to be a little lonely than miserable with the wrong guy. Great job waiting for the right one. He will eventually show up
Kim Smith amen. Prayerfully and patiently waiting 🙏
Quintessa Bankhead amen!!
Well you can’t show interest without first expressing through words smh
Lark Ford we know thats how it starts ... words! But then what?? Thats what I’m referring to.
I've always been insecure about receiving from a man. Watching this makes me realize that I have been compensating with so many dysfunctional things. But I'm gonna stop that now. This video was definitely steak and potatoes! Be blessed.
I listen to Tony on my way to work, during lunch break, at home while doing chores, and at night before bed. I’ve adopted him as my big brother because my father hasn’t taught me CRAP about men. Thank you, Tony. Thanks for everything. Be blessed!
Be blessed
Nikki M thank you so much for your support!!
Don't feel bad because my step dad taught me nothing as well
Mine nor stepfather
Is my big brother too 😆
He’s right,,, real man are amazing when they show up in your life and are genuine..
Tony said...."If he ain't got a job... you watching the wrong vi-de-o..." ☠☠☠
Lisa McCall 😂😂😂right
😂😂😂😂😂 I 💀
Sitting in my car listening and when he stated that I screamed so loud😂
😂😂😂😂😂
He didn't lie😂😂🤣🤣
The same way a man needs to PUT IN time and consistency, we as women need to GIVE IT time for true colors to show and be consistent in our boundaries.
Thanks for helping me to connect these dots
Sir this was a darn good video. My husband of 21 years who passed away did all those. He was very sweet and thoughtful! Be blessed!!!
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Mines passed away from cancer 22 years of love I'm dating now & he's a good guy but it's scary out here
♥️
Sorry for your loss.
@@ttlilfeet3211 sorry for your loss.
I wish I was able to understand this fully when I was in my mid-twenties.
A man truly has to earn your time, attention and eventually your hand.
And I'm talking real acts of service, real actions to meet your needs. Not sappy words or empty compliments.
Facts💯🗣🗣🗣I learned the hard way never again
Not one lie was told. Class was definitely in session. Be BLESSED
Sure was in session!!!
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Be blessed! I've been making countless mistakes with men, that's why I am still single at nearly 46. I've barely started to understand what I did wrong. Thanks for your advice.
You r watching wrong video if you r talking to a man who doesn’t have a job and is not willing to take care of himself ...😹😹😘Preach 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙌🙌🙌👊🏽❤️❤️
Amen!
If the man doesn’t have a job then “you are watching the wrong video” 🤣😂
“...it doesn’t mean you have to be spread eagle..”😂😂😂. Great line
The truth...lol
You’re definitely right. I can attest to the fact that a man that is interested in you, will definitely give you his time.
When you play the video and see all the mistakes YOU made entertaining grown boys ...but no more. I'm learning and I won't make these mistakes anymore.
Same!
For sure!
Even though I'm old enough to be your mother, I still find your ministry to be a blessing in my own life. It's a foolproof measure to help my daughters and other significant women to learn from my mistakes. I truly appreciate your love and dedication to hurting souls around the world. Thank you😊
My ex- gave me his time and still cheated. That was one bad year
I was taking it like he was the only man in this world for me but look at me now married and happy.
Ok sis. Yes!
Congratulations to you for getting out and finding a real man
You go girl $!!! GOD Bless !! 💔💔
What was your process of seeing that he wasn'tthe only man a available? What did you do? How did you change your mindset?
calanda owens ... congratulations!!!
What I learned from receiving from my kids’ dad all these years is that when he sees I’m happy by what he does... he loves that more than anything else.
“Time and consistency are the main keys in knowing whether a man is interested in you or not”💡
It's time out for all the foolishness. I'm tired of falling for the okie-doke with these dudes. To make a long story short, I get off work, get my kids and my house in order and get settled. I Pray to Holy God for wisdom and guidance then I watch these videos until I get a profound understanding. Tony, you have truly been a blessing. Please keep the knowledge in rotation. Be Blessed !! 🙏🏽👌🏽
My guy friend postmated a meal for me. I thought it was a very kind gesture.
Oh
I was with a narcissistic person whom smothered me with time, acts of services, gifts for over 2 years, but later he was also verbally abusive. So be careful still with those things.
Absolutely correct and now I am married to this beautiful god-fearing man
Amen. That’s awesome 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Be blessed! Stay on the receiving end ladies. Priceless....acts of service, time, respect, and consistency he's interested!!
Omg this message has really shown me that I’m not ready for a relationship, and I really need to take some time and reflect on past mistakes and decisions that I have made in my love life. And what I need to look at within myself thank you Tony
This is def STEAK & POTATOES message. I swear every woman needs to be listening to this man! 🙌🏾 Thank you for looking out for us! Appreciate it so much. I listen to your vids every day and I’m learning more, getting stronger and wiser and just staying on top of my game. Thank you! 🙏🏾
Key word Man not a grown boy!
Nope, we gotta stay away from the boys
@@kimsmith819 We sure do!
Ocean Flower just like a woman should never give a man money, a man should never give a woman money🤷🏾♂️ y’all want fathers not partners smh
Best relationship coach I really appreciate you Tony
"If he doesn't have a job, you are not watching the right video🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..."You killed me with that one Tony...too funny!!! Great video, very informative!!!
Mrs. Black y’all women are so brainwashed by this society smh I went on a date last week with a woman and she asked if I had a job. I told her no. Then she starts trying to clown saying “you think I’m about to waste time with you”. I said I don’t really care. Then she asked what are my plans. I said I am a real estate investor with 9 properties and currently looking to buy 3 more. Her facial expression and attitude turned around. Needless to say I ended the date right then and there. It’s way to easy to figure y’all women out
Tony this is so so so TRUE! I experienced a man that called me EVERYDAY for 3.5 months and we talked an hour plus every day. He carried a good conversation we laughed and really enjoyed each other....Oh and he was a successful Lawyer so his time was money. I couldn't understand how he was able to do it. EVERYDAY no breaks no ghost no games. I absolutely loved!
Honestly god bless you for empowering young ladies and women all over the world. We need more men like you in this world.
Absolutely 🙌🏼🙌🏼
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52 years old and im still trying to learn this. So glad i found your coaching
I am just snapping my fingers and clapping my hands. Continue sir.
You are raising these women who really want to learn. The ones that did not have a father to teach them how to interact with men. Thank you sir. I watch you religiously.
“Captain save him🦸🏽♀️” never over invest ladies... thanks Tony for these morning 💎💎💎you be dropping 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Be Blessed...
I over invested and learned the hard way. I left my husband for 7 months so he could get himself together and relearn to take care of himself
Truth.... 💯💯
@@kimsmith819 Sorry but left for good ex SAG a narcissist...serial cheating
@@Dtella55 Proud of you Sis! Mine hasn't cheated or i would of left for good. He was emotionally and verbally abusive. He had many months of therapy before I agreed to come back to my home. If he gets all possessive again, i will leave and not look back or kick him out for good.
aww! my man flew from chicago to fresno and then drove 6 hrs to come and spend with me the few hrs that he had off! We work like crazy so we understand each other; this video hit me because I still feel like I need to do something like that in return. I will just be grateful and stay calm, he didn't ask for nothing but a few hrs of my time in return. I never thought I would appreciate someone's character so much.
He interested if he show you respect, consistency, time, good communication, honestly, keep his words, listening,understanding, service you, he not expecting anything in return but your gratitude. Time, actions, consistency and respect if he dont show these qualities then ladies dont waste your time move on its not worth it I agree tony great and bless message i needed this right on time. Be blessed every one👍👍👏👏☺
I'm teaching all that I've learned to my 3 daughters.
I guess after listening to this video, I’m more upset with my parents not telling me the ways of properly dating! This guidance is so logical. Especially when it comes to some of us women (🙋🏾♀️) have out done a dude or two by going overboard in our appreciation. Because we perceived what we (I) was doing was reciprocating after he has done something nice for us (me). Way too many times I can recall outdoing a man I was trying to date. (Not in huge monetary gifts! I’m not that crazy, but still...) I just wish I had learned this decades ago.
our parents cant teach what they don't know ...
@@clarkclarke You're correct, and dating has changed so much over the years.
Parents were broken. Not excusing them. But they couldn't give you what they didn't have.
“You shoot him the $2500 because you’re trying to by love because you’re desperate”. 😩 Lord have mercy
Jasmine Ivory girl he said it so quick I died ☠️😩
Never want a man not able to take care of himself. No finance...no romance! I'm a manager at McDonalds and stay on my grind for our kids. I had to kick him out because he showed me he wasn't growing or even willing to grow. He wasn't expecting me to flip my script. It's just sad I invested 8 years thinking we was gonna be a power couple. I was the power couple. So now I am working so hard to find my femininity again. After being masculine for so long. He is a part time Roofer. You had me laughin laughin when you said McDonalds was always hiring! He has only ever had under the table jobs. Nothing ever on the books and consistent. I snipped him! I did let my desperate insecurity take over...captain save him! Be Blessed!
@Xiu Zu Thank you...for a very long time I was thinking it was me with all the insecurities but I finally realized I outgrew all of mine and was left seeing all of his and remaining supportive until I seen he wasn't making any effort whatsoever. I knew in that moment. I was done.
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Girl I did the same to my ex husband... too many times I had to put my cape on.....finally trying to be feminine again after so many years of doing everything.... such a relief now to sit back and have someone else lead😊😊
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It's been a month since you made your comment. Hope you're doing better. I wish you the best for 2020 🙌🏽🎈🎉💪🏼👍🏽😙
I definitely have to stop one upping a man on a date, I never looked at it the way you explained, Thank you Tony for this information 😊, Be Blessed ‼️
Gems Gems!! Most dating coaches who are men literally be speaking only to cater to the female audiences but Tony, he speaking truth!!! Be Bless🙌
Be Blessed Tony🙌🏾💯
You are a Blessing to all who are willing to receive your knowledge. GOD is using you in a very unconditional way. Ladies, let's pay attention to this much needed wisdom. Again, Be Blessed Tony!!!
Be blessed! Your wisdom is priceless and I thank God for what you are sharing. All of it I recognize as truth. I watch these videos almost daily. I can’t believe all that I am learning and I’m sharing with my daughter as well. We need more godly men to step up like this and be genuine. It will create less heartache, less single family homes and less work for God because people will have less pain. May God increase your wisdom and continue to take you to great places where your wisdom and voice can be heard! Amen 🙏🏾
What I understand about what Tony is, and has been, saying is that it's not about looking at one aspect, it's about observing a combination of aspects: time, acts of service, respect, kindness, making you a priority, etc, and the key ingredient, consistency. If there's time but no consistency; acts of service but no consistency; respect but no consistency... you get the point, he's not the one. Keep it moving.
R0YALT1 you get it!! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing this I wrote it down to remember it. God bless you and your family and work love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
Hit it dead on the nail!!! Even if it's time but no consistency, Respect, nor action within his ways on change within internal as well as external. I, mean none whatsoever Ima keep it Trucking.
Thank you ROYALT1!
“A man that is a no good man, he is not going to give you the world and spend all his time, and give you all his time for long, because if he’s playing games, he gotta keep his game going. So if he’s online dating and he meetin women… He doesn’t have a year to give you. He doesn’t have that type of time because he is in the game, so at the most he may give you 90 days.”
🌸It’s best to be patient, objectively observe, keep your emotions in check, be consistently working on you (3Bs), pray for discernment & wisdom, and stay fabulous.🌸
Remember: TIME & CONSISTENCY
I'm sending this to my 28yo daughter.... She needs it !! Be blessed y'all !!! 💗💔❤
Keep the steak & potatoes coming! Time & consistency is key. Thank you Tony be blessed
He nails it, ladies.....Go head Tony Gaskins with yo BAD SELF - Be blessed, Sir...
Be blessed!!!!! She made it rain and he gave her a famine.... Good one.
In this life!, If he doesn't have a job/some type of job.. FACE IT, he's a growing boy!!!
Self-Love❤️
Be Blessed! This is learning / growth for me. Time and Consistently.I don’t give men money! Point Blank Period!
Definitely agree with the Daily routine... I’m just learning these things it wasn’t taught to me... and I choose to trust the process and not lower my standards
Amen, I refuse to lower my standards, I'm in the line with you.
I'll teach you Melissa
Great word! I wish there were more men who only want appreciation in return. Some get right to the point in wanting to know if and when they will get the cookie. Sheesh!
Be blessed. Don't knock the poor man from his role. Let him play his role and you play your role. Let him be the man and you be the woman appreciate him without try to do his work. Show your gratitude verbal and/or written. While you are dating, continue to invest in yourself consistently not just to attract him. Time and consistency!
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Yes, time and consistency!
I love that and the main reason I do is God already has my husband. I have to give God my time and consistency. To work also through me In order to become the better version of me, the godly wife that I am meant to be.🙌
Be blessed! Please listen to the whole video!
I just discovered your channel and I've been watching your videos for about 4 days now. Today i finally got the courage to confront this guy I have been seeing about him not call me. Our conversations was TEXT ONLY. He simply replied that he didn't like talking on the phone. It really hurt my feelings because from watching your videos I knew right away that it meant that HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO ME! All I said was "OK THEN" and I deleted his number. If I didn't watch your videos I would probably have just excepted it but NO I got the message loud and clear. I needed your guidance 🙏🏾 Thank you. I will keep on watching your videos and educate myself to make sure that I do not end up in a situation like that again. Thank you for blessing us 🙌🏾
Be blessed! Listen all the way to the end ladies.
Thank you SOOOOO much! I know daily I am closer and closer to attracting my husband.
I’m going to take some time out to pray just for you as God is Using and Leading you
I appreciate you Tony
God a Bless you, your family and all that is a part of you
Thank you Thank you Thank you!
Be blessed brother. So many women need to hear this!
Why do I feel like I’m the only one who would enjoy those chips and a drink at a lake hahaha but then again I love the outdoors
I would too 😊
You are correct with all your points. Anyone disagrees either has little to no standards and therefore don't make the men wait..OR.. they're in denial. Time and consistency are extremely important significators when it comes to a mans interest cos a man isn't busy all those 24 hours. Either you're a priority or you're just another option.
You have wisdom beyond measure. The TRUTH is within you. Thank you for sharing spiritually based knowledge.
See on one hand talking every day for an hour over a month to three, a woman has fallen in love and caught feelings and most cases he’s a player or narcissistic. I find the talking every day and texting is a way for men to love bomb . I rather prefer the physical action of dates and spending time together as action speak louder than words. This is for the first time meeting or talking online with him. Time reveals all so by 30-60 days they tend to drop off.
Dating is tricky as women we want to be open but men take advantage then a guy who is genuine ur cautious with. Not enough quality men/grown men around to practice healthy dating too many games and insecure people. When you do find this genuine guy take ur time but be open but still watch their actions and ask what’s their intentions are and see if his words and action are aligned .
"Rock his socks" "no good man" "salad with croutons"😂😂😂 You are so funny and real. True stuff though. Be Blessed
BE BLESSED!! THIS RIGHT HERE. SOMEBODY BETTER BE LISTENING. I KNOW I AM... THANK YOU ALWAYS!!
Tony's facial expressions be killin' me though 🤣🤣 Keep dropping them gems, Tony!
I swear 😭😭😭
Agree totally. So happy I was raised with old school morals and values...
Time, consistency, and service.
Be blessed .... writing from the time of Covid-19 ... using the time to work on myself ... I especially appreciated your laying out WHEN we can safely demonstrate all the love we have in our hearts as women ... receive gratefully UNTIL the commitment, and then ever after.
I also loved the part about CREATIVITY ... the riches of the MIND, in making what is possible beautiful, count for a whole lot. I have been around a lot of local lakes and parks and enjoyed those times of connecting out in the beauties of nature ... it does not take so much money as it does a full investment of whatever is possible.
I love that you sugar coat nothing, and break it all down with a thorough explanation to address every possible excuse that could be given. 🙏🏼
Toni, this is truth. I had an ex where nothing was ever good enough. A nice meal and simple thoughtful gifts meant nothing. I was every "cheap a$$" in the book. Even our kids would do special things any parent would appreciate. It was never good enough. I applied those same beliefs to the next person and realized I was viewed as trying to outgive or outdo him. I hate that it was percieved that way. It was only because in my last relationship nothing was ever good enough. I feel sad and hope if this is the man God has for me that we can reconnect.
I appreciate you posting this. There are levels & most men & women dont realize this. 💯💯
Exactly! 😊
Be blessed! This is all so true. I'll have to send this video to my cousin. They said those words to me when I told them how much I get for an allowance from my man. They said he shouldn't be giving you nothing he has his on stuff to do. I just shock my head. You girls have so much to learn. The man who loves you wants to give you everything he has. Point plank
I just watch it and started it over. I need to watch this again.
Im never confused when you talk, I hear you clearly all the time.
Be blessed... This is so on point a guy I'm interested in has said the very same thing to me that you have mentioned . We live 3 hrs away talk everyday for more than an hour ,and he drives to come visit me. He is very interested thank you Tony for all you do.!!!
Just watched this tonight.. told this guy he’s wasting my time.. all that texting.. good morning beautiful.. good evening beautiful.. miss me with that and keep it pushing somewhere.. thanks for making this make sense to me! I’m learning a lot from these videos.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That last story you told Sir, Mm mm mm! Lord Have Mercy, "she made it rain, he gave her a famine" WOW!!! Yes, I Know! He was Faking the WHOLE TIME!!! Wide Awake Now, To God Be The Glory!!!🙏
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To God Be The Glory!💛 Thank You for the Thumbs Up whoever you are! Sometimes we have to "Wake Up And Smell Our Own Coffee, Time To Make The Donuts! FULLY AWAKE and In Love With Jesus!!!💛
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I soo appreciate that I found u. The one, saying things as they are. God..... Probably lots of men hates u, but u have full respect from all of us. Thank u soo much
Be blessed. You’re truly the epitome of a King. Love everything you present to us. Thank you for all u do
Tony is not giving you fluff he is keeping it real!!! Thank you Tony
Yes Tony , hes gonna have to work for it now. " no cooking in thong " 😂... much clearer than part 1 because i see why today he chasing me, i just have to make some adjustments...i dont jump for him , you are right 100%
GOD BLESS YOU TONY. IF I HAVE YOU AS A BROTHER 14 YEAR AGO..I WOULD BE WITH THE MAN . THAT GOD HAS FOR ME. BUT I GOT YOU NOW MY BROTHER. I WILL BE READY. THIS TIME. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. GOD GOT YOU . BE BLESS.
Im learning so much from you! Thank You. Be Blessed!
I talked to someone for one hour a day, and he turned out to be a narcissist!!!!
gnette twin same here ! We spoke every day for several hours effortlessly, , turned out he was an emotional abuser and a Narcissist.i learned the hard way via physical and verbal abuse .
One hook a narcissist uses is time and attention... sorry you went through this but happy you lived to tell your story.. you can save lives
What's the meaning of Narcissist? I hear lots of Women using this term on UA-cam
Katt this!! If this ain’t the truth
Curious, for how long did you talk to him? More than 3 months?
Thank you Tony Gaskins! Time tells all!!! Thank you for the steak and potatoes because we need it!
BE BLESSED! This is so true. I haven't met a man like this yet, but when I do...I'll recognize it.
I absolutely love all this knowledge given!! I can listen all day!! It makes so much sense its a shame!!! Be bless all!!!!!
Hello Tony, I JYST wanted to touch base with you . I am a fairly new viewer who honestly found you by chance. I lost my husband 8 years ago and have had several bad relationships the past 5 years. I am so happy I found you and love all your videos and watch them daily. I have watch many other dating coaches but I must say you are the king to me. You are very insitful.thank u so much!!