A similar thing happened to me in England. My response; "Oh! I'm sorry. I didn't know it was your policy. I didn't mean to break it." They canceled the extra charge. No problems, no extra fees. Then I thanked them for not charging me extra. They even gave me a discount for my regular charge for the room. They said it was because I was such a pleasant guest. Trust me, they have a customer for life now.
In the past, I've seen a number of Black female Bloggers/Vloggers (especially those from the U.K. & U.S.A.), where as they attempt to carry their negative 'mental luggage' with them while within foreign lands. It never works out, it never is supposed to work out. Many of them are the same females that feel it is absurd to carry any Black male associates with them.
As a black woman who happens to be born in America, every black woman is not like that. A few of us were raised to show respect for others and have integrity. Humility is a lost art
I wish that is true from my experiences that I have encountered, From England, To Asia, to Australia to the Caribbean, whenever I see B women from America, yup thee goes the loud attitude. Loud, crass and rude. No common courtesy, no common decency.
@johnwayne2103 there are way more of us intelligent humble black women, we're just in the house raising our families and being Wives....like nature intended lol. Feminism and women following th3 natural order of things..that's two different types of women....the females you're talking about are promoted highly on social media because men go for it...plain and simple. Men lie and say they want a real down to earth natural woman, when they find one, she's not what's being promoted on social media so they bypass a real woman....same as rhe real men that get passed by because they're considered to be "too nice". Good and bad in both genders..
“If someone tells me I can’t do something, Unfortunately I try to go do that thing.” That right there sums of the danger of befriending or dating someone who thinks like that. Avoid people like her at all costs for your own safety whether you are at home or abroad.
That right there! She confessed against herself! She's a stereotype in real life. She deserves no help, and she just ruined things for American women who mean no harm and have sense when they travel. She casually said she ordered more because she couldn't and she stoked that argument.
I have been to Italy several times and statyed in local hotels and was treated like a Queen. The people are gracious , food and wine was great and the culture was awesome.
Went to Europe recently. I warned my fellow American female travelers that the food and service are DIFFERENT in Europe and to adjust their expectations (this was before the trip). Like clockwork, they complained about the food, sent food back, complained about how "slow" the service was, etc. I had to have a 2nd convo with the ladies and let them know that If they continued to make a scene on the trip, I would discontinue going on outings with them and a future trip is out. I have no problem with them having preferences, but taking that "American" attitude abroad is not for me. When in Rome....
It's not rude to expect good service. However it is rude when your being impatient and disrespectful for no reason at all. There are people like that here as well it's called being a b*tch. That's not an American thing.
Exactly. Lunch and dinner can take as much as 3 hours. Sit down, enjoy the food. And have a conversation with your friends. Lunch at some restaurants are many different courses over the time you sit to eat. Shops also close at 3 pm. in some nations for a few hours. And open up in the early evening again. And dinner can be as late as 11 pm. Remember, you are in their nation. Their customs apply. Not American costums.
You were right in your actions. People have to adjust their mindset when traveling and unfortunately, Americans in general can be very entitled and this is why I follow the rules when I am a guest.
When I was in Dubai, they made it clear that it would be disrespectful to eat in front of the locals during Ramadan when out in the city. I just waited until I got to my hotel room and ordered room service!
Some of those rules are lifted now and thank God, for the tourism they need to help the city and pretty much promote food and city life it was kinda ridiculous. I went there recently and there are certain parts that it’s really not allowed but Dubai was more lenient, I’m sure in the future they’ll slowly abolish that rule
@AbigaleKirsten So which part about respecting a country's faith & religion rules is ridiculous...??? It is so simple to plan ahead & obey the no-eating rules in a Muslim country during Ramadan...you Americans just don't travel well & struggle with anything outside of your perception...smdh. 🙄
@@imdone2114stop. Just stop. Wht woman don’t have any more rights than a blk woman. But blk woman get away with a TON more foolishness and don’t get checked. And you know it.
I was with her when they told her the policy and it wasn’t written anywhere. If they don’t want people bringing in outside food. It should be in their hotel agreement and a visible sign, near the entrance. With that said, once they did tell her, you got to eat that. It’s their property, their country, their rules. You have to humble yourself. Now I would have an issue if they were trying to search me when I was entering the hotel like some inmate to see if I had food, but if it gets to that level. Ask for a refund and try to find an AirBnb or another hotel. Matter of fact, if she saw it going in that direction, she should have done that immediately. If they were polite in their notification fine. Just follow the rules. If they were a bit rude, abrupt, trying to talk to you like a small child, just go elsewhere. It will probably escalate when dealing with White folks, which will avoid any altercation which can led to an arrest, like that Sassy Trucker chick in Dubai.
Exactly. I would have been annoyed I didn't look at the policy but I would have apologized and looked up the policies so I wouldn't break anymore rules.
Problem is, the U.S. empowers women not to have to apologize for bad behavior, if they even do criminal activity short of "un-aliving" they get at most a "slap on the wrist" (look at female teachers messing around with underage boys as opposed to male teachers messing with underage students)
Maryjane doesn't apologise. Her self-belief is off the scale, she thinks because she's traveled to 129 countries she is far far better than everyone else...
When you lack emotional and intellectual maturity, you think like this. An adult would have apologized for the behavior and explained that the policy was not explained to them beforehand. With a little class and humility, they would have probably dropped the charges, reduced the charges, or something. But some people don't know how to act, and aren't mature enough to handle simple situations like this.
Where I live in Mexico there was a black American woman trying to get out of a rental lease the landlord held her property as collateral for payment. The woman got on social media lied and said the owner had kidnapped her and held her and her daughter hostage she called police and US embassy they told her kick rocks. Ultimately her scheme didnt work and was forced to pay up. 😂😂
And this is exactly what happens in America. This is the kind of behavior that City Girls engage in to manipulate gullible individuals (mainly simps) in America. They think they can take that manipulative attitude across seas? Nah, Brittney Griner paid up, sassy trucker paid up, this Bish paid up. We need to stop letting these heax disrespect us here in America. So they stop disrespecting us overseas. They make us look bad.
Are you serious? She deserved everything that happened to her? So, you’re one of those males who is ok with women being abused I see. She absolutely deserved the hotel charges incurred, but to be assaulted is never the answer. Be for real.
@@josephc.3839 I agree that it's a bad attitude, but nobody should be physically assaulted and smacked in the face like that. It should end at the fine. She broke a rule. There is no corporal punishment for that
A lot of American (Sista's) are conditioned to be loud, rude and disrespectful. They're bringing that same attitude to other countries. Those countries are not dealing with their foolishness.
What in the world is wrong with these entitled young women. No matter how she twists & spins her side of the story SHE’S WRONG! This is an embarrassment to the U.S.
Unfortunately, reports of American travelers behaving, rude, spoiled, entitled and discourteous overseas are legendary. This includes Americans of all races and from all walks of life.
Please stop with the male identification and pick me prose 🙄. “What’s wrong with these entitled young women?” Don’t you mean, “What’s wrong with these entitled Americans?”
Let's be honest, this issue is mostly with women; moreover, mostly with Black women. Trying to rope in everyone is like talking about gun crime while ignoring Black-on-Black shootings.
My family and I just spent two weeks in Italy and surrounding countries. We were consciously humble and polite to everyone that we had interactions with and, in turn, they were kind and accommodating to us. We had a great trip.
Wow so did they tell YOU that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔
@@jewelniles4041 Before we left on our trip this past May, we spent several months researching the the dos and the don’ts of each country that we were visiting. We also made certain that we had a clear understanding of what our AirBnB host permitted, expected, etc. You have to take the time to do your research and get any questions that you still have answered BEFORE you board your flight. Their country, their rules.
My head exploded when she ADMITTED that whenever she is told NOT to do something, she does it!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯What the hell-so she doesn’t follow rules OR LAWS!?!?
My heart smiled when she said how gansta home girl got with her. Must be the righteous indignation within. I always tell my daughter that my humility is my superpower.
But that's why she's different than most of you lame black women, especially you. She comes to UA-cam showing the world the truth about the lost black history shedding light to what no one dared to speak about, while y'all American black women are too weak, happily accepting whatever lies white people shove down your throats. Shake off that slave mentality cause y'all ain't slaves anymore. Y'all are descendants of royalties! And at one point y'all made the rules, you didn't follow them.
Being black in someone else's country means that you have to be extra-careful and respectful of the rules and laws. You'll find out the hard way. Stop being ignorant and thinking that your attitude will be tolerated in countries that already look down on you for being black. Pick and choose your battles.
Right gotta be extra careful being blk... Wow so have YOU ever heard that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔 wonder if there the same rules for white ppl bc she said she wasn't told this and it wasn't written any where... THEY ARE SCAMMING HER!
@@djw2838 Americans are disrespectful to each other come off it. I live in Miami Florida Americans here are the assholes mostly from NYC.. People that are visiting are much nicer..
It isn't about culture. It's about respecting Law. Right of propiety exists in USA, in Italy and in other countries too. Every company has the right to establishing its own private rules on its propieties. Many hotels, bars, restaurants, disco, cruise boats....don't allow other products. Why? Because they sell food and they have a contract with specific food companies. They are competiting between them, they don't want to allow free promotion of their competitors on their places. They allow you to bring food (from anywhere) inside your room because it's very private place, ot's like your personal space. The hall, the looby, the bar of hotel, the restaurant of hotels....aren't personal spaces, that's why they don't allow it.
I live in the Netherlands born here lived here for half my life. Traveled all over Europe and was in Italy 3 months ago. I have never heard of this policy in my life
It's a standard policy in many European hotels. Why disrespect the hotel & it's menu offerings by bringing in food from outside...??? Where you been staying, in Travelodges...?!?
@@RoarofdalioN some hotels do it in the US as well. But I believe it's just that you cannot eat it in their lobby or dining areas or patios. You have to take it directly to your room.
"Law of Attraction". Positive attitudes attract people. So simple, so effective, such a hard lesson to learn for many. Want to be a leader in your community? Be positive, be friendly, be helpful, and you'll gain allies.
TroyceTV did two videos on her plus several of her victims spoke about how she scammed them. Type Mary Jane Byarm scams and many videos will pop up in the search bar.
My sister and I love traveling and we are so respectful (even in the states because we were raised right) and we have had awesome experiences when there have been misunderstandings. Kindness goes a long way and humility goes a long way.
The entitlement on this Lady is INSANE. How about just be a decent , respectable, responsible human being? How hard is that? When u r in a foreign country you have to logical and sensible. Being Sassy and Mouthful in a foreign country is a recipe for TROUBLE.
i thought racism exists in the US? where are yall getting these entitled privileged attitudes? it can't be from the oppressive US (insert sarcasm) LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
If the Taliban told her she can't wear shorts in their country- would she? Most probably not, because she wants to portray herself as a respectful, brave warrior. If the hotel receptionists in a European country *(Italy, to be precise)* told her she can't order food on their premises- would she abide by their rule? Most probably not, because she wants to portray herself as an innocent black woman being oppressed by malicious white people. Also, I noticed from 06:19 onwards that she was touching her face quite a bit and fluttering her eyes a bit - a cluster of deception.
I lived in Italy. This young woman clearly did not understand the amount of respect for local customs and rules it takes to live there. Especially as a foreigner. She has to do better. This is the result of poor parenting, it is clear she has not been forced to live by other people's rules and dictates at home. Because of this, she took the same incorrect attitude to Italy. She is lucky this did not go worse than it did. We gotta do better. I am embarrassed by her behavior. She made it harder for the next Black African person to stay at that hotel.
@@josephberrie9550 Many could careless. Sometimes they take the time to know and it matters. Since the mass migrations from the Middle East and Africa, I noticed European, quite a few European attitudes have changed when encountering black people of any sort.
This girl has traveled to at least 50 countries over the last 7 years or so, she knows better. I can't wait for her to get her passport snatched and she gets arrested.
"When someone tells me I can't do something, unfortunately, I try to go do that thing." Broken mindset of America. That ideology is not just women, its common with a lot of immature people male and female. When people show you their colors and tell you who they are, you need to listen. Either good or bad, and verbally and through their actions.
Many Americans don't realize that other countries are communal. They have certain vendors, restaurants and businesses they work with as a cooperative. Also the workers in these establishments are unionized professional workers who have done extensive training in hospitality and their respective fields. Americans tend to be more individual whereas these cultures are more interconnected so everyone eats at the table. They are trying help each other to ensure their chefs, porters, concierge make a living to help their families.
I been travelling for well over 20 years, now living in Sydney, Australia. Anytime I travel to foreign countries, I ask what are the rules and act humble.
She needed to find a new hotel and leave and take the unaccounted expenses up with Amex at a later time. To be fair $700 euro is a lot for what they’re saying her offense was.
I'm going to be traveling to Portugal in a few months, so I've been watching a lot of travel videos to try to educate myself on what to expect. Differences in culture/customs. This is a small one, but I'm so glad I saw it in advance. If you go to a restaurant they will automatically bring you bread when you sit down, just like in the U.S. The difference is, they will charge you for it. Even though you didn't ask for it. It just shows up on your bill. For people from Portugal this apparently normal. I think it's important to try to educate yourself as much as possible before you go to another country. It can save you from having problems. And as most other people have said here, the way you respond to people is important. Being nice goes a long way in any country.
I live in Portugal just tell them you don’t want the bread and don’t touch it and they won’t charge you for it. And if you go to places where they don’t have prices on the menu, ask beforehand or go somewhere else they probably will charge you more because you are a “rich” tourist. And you need to bring a lot of patience, people here are very relaxed when it comes to service 😅😂
Don’t touch it. We got a restaurant here that tries this trick & when you say ‘I didn’t ask for it so I didn’t touch it & im not paying for it’ they’re going to say… we can’t serve it, because it was on your table this whole time. Refuse & they’ll remove the charge
@@darylrichardson8567 You simply say "no, thank you" the moment they bring it to the table. It's just a custom here that they serve this without being asked for it. No need to let it sit on the table for the whole meal and then argue about the charge.
Why would they wait a week and plus some to tell her that? She figured out right off what was going on. Confirm hotel policies before staying in the hotel so you're not blindsided.
The fact that people are missing that. Especially BLACK people, is absolutely nuts and shows these ninjas don’t travel any damn where outside the Western Hemisphere.
Don’t say “SISTAS” because Mary Jane does not consider nor carry herself as a Black woman. She carries herself like a Karen tht she wishes she was. She talks about Black women all the time.
I’ve been a passport woman long before the term was coined. I was fortunate to have LIVED (not vacationing) since I was a baby. Do some research on the cultural expectations. Be quiet, polite and watchful. You have to be mindful of your behavior. There is always a way to be polite, apologize and negotiate.
How disrespectful!!! Yes, you must leave the attitude and disrespect at home. I have lived and traveled throughout Europe more than 20 times and never had a problem. Even when rules didn’t make sense, I’ve never argued. If she keeps it up, we might see her on the news begging for the U.S. to free her.
Some twenty years ago Diana Ross (yes the singer) started sassy mouthing customs officials at the airport in London. The officials took her to a room and strip searched her.
Wow so did they tell YOU that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔 apologies would not have helped bc they were SCAMMING HER! Not told that rule AND it wasn't written any where..! Scamming 🤨
I agree with every word you said. They know we are already hated and yet we consistently give them more reasons. We need to stop this entitlement because we may have a western passport. I travel frequently across the world and never encounter any of these issues because I learn to adapt according to customs and cultures. We need to learn tolerance...
@@Muskogee he he he Do me a favor and look in the mirror. What skin color are you. You are going to be judge by the mere fact that you have the same skin color as “Them” you know The Ratchet black people The people who intermittently turn situations that don’t call for aggressive behaviour into aggressive situations There goes the neighborhood 😂😂
I don't know how it works in U.S, but here in Europe, if the hotel has restaurant, which they do in almost every case, they usually have a policy that guests can't order or bring in food from outside, of course you can go outside and eat there.
The problem was that she ordered food directly to the hotel lobby .if she wouldve pick her food up outside the hotel .then they wouldn't have anything to make her pay.this why people need to research the country and hotels rules before buy hotel and flight tickets
She’s so so wrong! She’s not in the USA. She should know better although she’s young, she’s been traveling for years. I’ve always thought after watching her channel that she was a bit entitled. I thought by now she would’ve matured after so much traveling.
She's even said racism doesn't exist because of all the places she's traveled to, but nobody is gonna put up with bs, she don't have the status to do that in the USA lol, anywhere you go you have to find out if there are extra fees in the small print or if there's tax in that city or town
I’m an older person and I was taught as a young child to treat people the way I wanted to be treated. So far I’ve had no problems with people in my life.🌸 In my opinion she got exactly what she deserved. Obviously she has no idea about the history of the Italian people.🦋
Exactly, she always been a Black Karen. This same girl believes that there is no racism and made a video about it. Mary Jane even recently moved there after she got assaulted at the hotel; smh
@@NovemberReigneShe doesn't really think she's black. I don't know why he keeps calling her sister, she’d be offended. She's a lunatic scammer, and I don't understand how she still has followers.
I stayed at a nice hotel in Boston once and my boyfriend and i bought beer and took it to the room. The next day the front desk said we cannot bring alcohol into the hotel. I apologized, I really did not know! I think the hotel was going to charge us, but since we did not know, we did not get charged. Why be rude to people if they are just doing their job.
Honestly, you could sum it up like this: no matter what color you are, if you go overseas and start being a Karen, you're going to find really quickly that it doesn't go like you expected it to go. That happens sometimes here, too. It really ought to happen more often.
SHE so LUCKY they didn't go upside her head FAM!🤣The State Police over there are NOTORIOUS for busin' people ASS on SIGHT!🤣🤣🤣Them cats have a "Hands On" policy!😅😅
She was the main one saying she don't believe racism exist in other countries your she going Italy they looked at her like an easy target because she's alone. This is her karma for scamming all those women 2 yrs ago......
Im sorry but this is the attitude that get us in trouble. Agree with you 100 % about the stereotype. And what we think is normal is completely rude in other countries and later we want to call it "racism or discrimination" I live in a tourist area in the Caribbean and when my family comes I always tell them to act like is New York in the 70's.
The thing is that her behavior isn't really considered "normal" in the US by most people. She'd have looked just as bad if she was doing this stuff in America.
You barely hear stories of black men traveling having issues, because we face consequences for our actions. It goes with out saying no matter where you go there you are.
Because you are a man dummy, you’re strong, you can defend yourself. Women are weak vulnerable think about it stop being a dumb ass misogynist in a dumb ass wore that makes no sense men rule, weak men cry about women.
As a Black woman, what I notice is most black are prideful and feel entitled to do what they want, talk to other people disrespectfully, not follow rules and somehow feel above being corrected. This video is a prime example. The hotel had a policy you weren't aware of and all she had to do is say sorry, how can she fix it, and go about her business. They might have waived the fee if she showed humility. But no
1. I'm an American woman and if I was in her situation, I would have been SO APOLOGETIC, that they'd either lesson the cost or maybe waive it altogether. That said, I'm sure that it's written in something she signed. 2. Once she learned the policy, she PURPOSELY violated it. No, this isn't ALL American women. I hate how today Americans move. This woman is ignorant. This isn't anything but narcissistic. I mean, who says "if you tell me I can't do something, I make a point to do that thing anyways"? That's not normal behaviors for ANY normal person. Then she basically got a WELL DESERVED spanking. 🤷🏿♀️Come on, y'all know FULL WELL if some VISITOR came into your homes acting like a damned fool like this female did, we'd ALL have humbled her. I don't see why she thought that would fly overseas. This sista was stupid and she got that much needed spanking. Why does she sound like she was brought up by wp?
Exactly most of the time if you're polite and respectful people will try to work with you. Same thing with dealing with the police. I've gotten out of so many situations with just a warning because I didn't immediately become hostile and treated the cop with respect. It really does go a long way. Many times people have discretion when enforcing rules so it's up to them whether they throw the book at you or not.
In the past, I've seen a number of Black female Bloggers/Vloggers (especially those from the U.K. & U.S.A.), where as they attempt to carry their negative 'mental luggage' with them while within foreign lands. It never works out, it never is supposed to work out. Many of them are the same females that feel it is absurd to carry any Black male associates with them.
America is a feminised country. Am not American, but I have interacted with y'all. No shade, but generally they're entitled, loud and painfully ignorant about the rest of the world. Sorry, but so true.
I was in the US Navy and went all around the world. My parents always taught me that when you are a guest in someone’s home you act accordingly. I carried that attitude with me in my travels and made friends with people of many different cultures and ethnicities. Get rid of the haughtiness and I’m an American attitude, you’ll find people will warm to you better.
In a long-term rental, this is usually the policy in Europe if you are staying at a hotel rather than a hostel or a villa. In a hostel there isn't room service. Hotels make a profit from room service, and a lot of people book at certain hotels because of the cook. The physical stuff is out of line, but when you have no wins, it is best to concede. You are ALONE, and the police do fight you over there. They train for that.
@@tonjamarshall4842 more than likely, the hotel's policy us no outside food because that is the deal in the package with the booking agent, but the agent might not tell you, or may have thought you knew of the custom, BUT, 🤔 ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR SITUATION. YOU ARE ALONE IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY AND THEY WILL ALWAYS STICK WITH THEIR OWN ...
Yeah different rules different places but surely it’s a lousy policy. I don’t agree with the sassiness but I have stated in hotels around the world , never knew this was a thing. It seems to me if they are offering lower rates and expecting to make profit of the food then they should have some kind of surcharge if you don’t utilize room service. That is honestly something that should have been communicated upfront because especially in the US no hotel forces you to order food. I have had complimentary nights at MGM and there was zero expectation that I order room service.
American brands must adhere with local rules and regulations. Americans just need to learn to live with other people and adjust accordingly like we all do when travelling. 🇰🇪
Sooo.. They tell you , you owe $$$ and don't show the policy, get some women to assault you and that's ok?? Yes Maryjane should have not continued to order food, but strong arming folks for $$$ and slapping guests at your hotel. WTF..
She got the wrong definition of freedom and don’t realized that it a privileged to be honored in a hotel. Just ruined it for all the good future travelers.🤦♀️
I have traveled outside the US and have been given compliments once they find out I'm American, because I was not loud or disrespectful. Sad that Americans have that reputation.
Wow....i use to follow her. I stopped a year ago. Too many allegations of scamming folks and her denial of racism overseas...her whole estetic and personality changed. If she on Phil show being reported, shyt hitting the fan
Especially her denying racism and getting this experience with the Italian maffia when she breaks their rules. I don't think they would have put hands on a ww
Wow, just came across your channel with this video. Ive watched MaryJane before. Im guessing and praying she is learning from all her mistakes and experiences. This unfortunately seems to be a 👋 painful one. GOD says humble yourself so I don’t have to. Thank you for sharing this also helped me to check myself more. Pride is the opposite of humility so the more I resist pride the better for me in the end!
I don’t know why this has to be related to her race or ethnicity. Seriously, she doesn’t even identify as black so please. There are people all over the world who act like this. Doesn’t matter what race or ethnicity. I’ve worked in a lot of places and many people of many races/ethnicities act like this. Just follow the rules no matter who you are
This is why I was shocked when he kept referring to her as sister, when she would probably be offended. She has been infamously accused of scamming mostly black women, along with her family, at that. She’s just an insufferable human being, it has nothing to do with her skin color.
To be fair, many other countries don't play the identity games that we play here. They will see her as black, regardless of how she identifies. BW, you really need to start defending your worldwide image. This last couple weeks has seen you drop tremendously in the eyes of the world, and are putting other upstanding BW abroad in danger. I'm just saying, there are far more serious issues at stake than these identity politics games.
Her entitled attitude caused the problem. Not every policy would be written. All she had to do was apologise with a smile and adhere to the policy as stated. I really dislike the attitude of many young people, where their opinion on any matter is the only one that counts.... Makes it difficult for the rest of us. I hope she learned her lesson.
Uh actually this happens a lot. The difference is when others are told they violated a rule or two they quickly apologize and own up to it. They don't try coming with the masculine energy because common sense and good "home training" kicks in.
In a lot of places if there is a restaurant there then they want you to eat there or you can leave the hotel and eat out, they don't like it if you order out and then take it to your room that's basically saying to them that the food at their restaurant isn't good enough. The only hotels that allow that are the ones where there isn't a restaurant in the hotel. Then you have the option of ordering food in or going out to eat or you can bring food back after going out to get it. Always ask the hotel.
I am a B American female and I do agree that a humble attitude will take you far. When you are humble and appreciative people will go the extra mile for you. I certainly think Maryjane could have handled her situation better as seasoned a traveler as she is. As she was being arrogant and dismissive. The hotel owner or manager was way out of line laying hands on. And for that I think it is worth noting a recommended DO NOT stay at that hotel, rating.
M.J's attitude is quite arrogant & rude. Once you're told not to order or bring food into the establishment, do not challenge the owner & staff. M.J was told about the regulation of the hotel, yet she rebelled , mocked and violated their rules in ordering food once again. M.J's video speaks volumes about her immature and childish behaviour. The sneer comments and the victorious laughter for being 'disobedient' sums up how disrespectful M.J is. Law & order is quite important to help maintain a certain balance in societies, organisations and groups . Although M.J is well travelled, she lacks humility and discipline. Sadly, the exposure of various cultures hasn't taught her any manners. As a guest in a foreign country abide by the rules or face the consequences.
Italy is the most visited country in the world and Italians are extremely accommodating to their tourists. Mark my words, they read her the rules and had her sign acknowledgements upon check in and I bet they reminded her of the rules throughout her stay.
We travel as a family internationally, before we go anywhere I sit down with the kids and go over some of the major rules from the country we are going to. I’m teaching them early that you abide by the country you are in laws. Be polite and kind, follow all rules and we will have a great vacation.
She straight up said that she'll do exactly the opposite of what she's told to do, AND SHE'S PROUD OF IT. Hear the Word: 1 Samuel 15:23 "For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, And stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry."
I look at Mary Jane's content from time to time, what you are saying is so true you have to be willing to humble yourself no matter where you are, because it does go a long way and you may end up getting a blessing then punched just keeping it real❤ with love
A similar thing happened to me in England. My response; "Oh! I'm sorry. I didn't know it was your policy. I didn't mean to break it." They canceled the extra charge. No problems, no extra fees. Then I thanked them for not charging me extra. They even gave me a discount for my regular charge for the room. They said it was because I was such a pleasant guest. Trust me, they have a customer for life now.
Yeah, “you catch more bees with honey than vinegar.”
A soft answer turns away strife
-the Bible
Your response is called being polite. It is something that is not taught in
American elementary and high schools any more.
Difference here is you have common sense 😂
@@handsomeman-pm9vy It should be taught at home from, as soon as possible
To keep bringing in food after being told she couldn’t is ridiculous.
Yeah, that was ignorant.
In the past, I've seen a number of Black female Bloggers/Vloggers (especially those from the U.K. & U.S.A.), where as they attempt to carry their negative 'mental luggage' with them while within foreign lands. It never works out, it never is supposed to work out. Many of them are the same females that feel it is absurd to carry any Black male associates with them.
These type of women are delusional
Woman you met the right woman that day that didn't take your bs. She checked you😂
@@Mankind-ik4ie I agree 💯%; that "walking around thinking somebody owe you something" Americanized attitude don't work in the real (old) world.
As a black woman who happens to be born in America, every black woman is not like that. A few of us were raised to show respect for others and have integrity. Humility is a lost art
I wish that is true from my experiences that I have encountered, From England, To Asia, to Australia to the Caribbean, whenever I see B women from America, yup thee goes the loud attitude. Loud, crass and rude. No common courtesy, no common decency.
@johnwayne2103 my Mom and Dad taught all their daughters that "a true lady doesn't have to be loud to be noticed"...that stuck with me my entire life.
@johnwayne2103 there are way more of us intelligent humble black women, we're just in the house raising our families and being Wives....like nature intended lol. Feminism and women following th3 natural order of things..that's two different types of women....the females you're talking about are promoted highly on social media because men go for it...plain and simple. Men lie and say they want a real down to earth natural woman, when they find one, she's not what's being promoted on social media so they bypass a real woman....same as rhe real men that get passed by because they're considered to be "too nice". Good and bad in both genders..
@@naomistar87 Exactly. That's how it should be.
Many of us is not like that.
She’s scammed people too many times to be taken seriously. Even if she’s telling the truth it won’t matter.
Iktr. I wasn't interested enough to watch her full video.
I doubt those Italians were acting 😂
i dont believe this story she told. shes also "been shot" and "kidnapped" 😂
Cocaine is a Helleva drug
Absolutely. I don't even believe anything she hasn't shown video evidence of 😂😂😂
“If someone tells me I can’t do something, Unfortunately I try to go do that thing.” That right there sums of the danger of befriending or dating someone who thinks like that. Avoid people like her at all costs for your own safety whether you are at home or abroad.
That right there! She confessed against herself! She's a stereotype in real life. She deserves no help, and she just ruined things for American women who mean no harm and have sense when they travel. She casually said she ordered more because she couldn't and she stoked that argument.
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Very immature and dangerous mentality
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Right. That's not an American thing that is a trash thing that I've seen from people in many countries.
I have been to Italy several times and statyed in local hotels and was treated like a Queen. The people are gracious , food and wine was great and the culture was awesome.
The food was horrible to me😂😂😂
@@numerologicatarot3333
Italian food is some of the most famous and most praised around the world... pretty much like chinese.
@@Vickzq yea, no… I hated it but I didn’t eat everywhere so I’m sure they have good food somewhere.
@@numerologicatarot3333 what did you have & what was wrong with it?
@@carolynjohnson5073 same. Some of the most pleasant.
Went to Europe recently. I warned my fellow American female travelers that the food and service are DIFFERENT in Europe and to adjust their expectations (this was before the trip). Like clockwork, they complained about the food, sent food back, complained about how "slow" the service was, etc. I had to have a 2nd convo with the ladies and let them know that If they continued to make a scene on the trip, I would discontinue going on outings with them and a future trip is out. I have no problem with them having preferences, but taking that "American" attitude abroad is not for me. When in Rome....
It's not rude to expect good service. However it is rude when your being impatient and disrespectful for no reason at all. There are people like that here as well it's called being a b*tch. That's not an American thing.
I agree with you.
Exactly. Lunch and dinner can take as much as 3 hours. Sit down, enjoy the food. And have a conversation with your friends. Lunch at some restaurants are many different courses over the time you sit to eat. Shops also close at 3 pm. in some nations for a few hours. And open up in the early evening again. And dinner can be as late as 11 pm. Remember, you are in their nation. Their customs apply. Not American costums.
@@vapsa56 They suffer from "Ugly American" syndrome.
You were right in your actions. People have to adjust their mindset when traveling and unfortunately, Americans in general can be very entitled and this is why I follow the rules when I am a guest.
When I was in Dubai, they made it clear that it would be disrespectful to eat in front of the locals during Ramadan when out in the city. I just waited until I got to my hotel room and ordered room service!
Some of those rules are lifted now and thank God, for the tourism they need to help the city and pretty much promote food and city life it was kinda ridiculous. I went there recently and there are certain parts that it’s really not allowed but Dubai was more lenient, I’m sure in the future they’ll slowly abolish that rule
@@AbigaleKirsten let's hope so!
they will straight up put you in jail for that ish......
Which Is Why I Decided Not To Travel To Muslim Countries During That Time
@AbigaleKirsten So which part about respecting a country's faith & religion rules is ridiculous...??? It is so simple to plan ahead & obey the no-eating rules in a Muslim country during Ramadan...you Americans just don't travel well & struggle with anything outside of your perception...smdh. 🙄
She's ENTITLED if the policy is DON'T ORDER FOOD , DON'T ORDER FOOD OR GO TO ANOTHER PLACE
The worst part of this is she readily confessed that when she told what to do,she does the contrary. The behavior of a petulant child of a woman.
Acting like she got the entitlement of a whyte woman and got a wake up! 😂
@@imdone2114stop. Just stop. Wht woman don’t have any more rights than a blk woman. But blk woman get away with a TON more foolishness and don’t get checked. And you know it.
@@imdone2114white women from America get the same reality check abroad.
I was with her when they told her the policy and it wasn’t written anywhere. If they don’t want people bringing in outside food. It should be in their hotel agreement and a visible sign, near the entrance. With that said, once they did tell her, you got to eat that. It’s their property, their country, their rules. You have to humble yourself.
Now I would have an issue if they were trying to search me when I was entering the hotel like some inmate to see if I had food, but if it gets to that level. Ask for a refund and try to find an AirBnb or another hotel. Matter of fact, if she saw it going in that direction, she should have done that immediately. If they were polite in their notification fine. Just follow the rules. If they were a bit rude, abrupt, trying to talk to you like a small child, just go elsewhere. It will probably escalate when dealing with White folks, which will avoid any altercation which can led to an arrest, like that Sassy Trucker chick in Dubai.
She was acting like many foreigners ( illegal immigrants) do when they get to America. The entitlement is sickening.
A simple apology would have gone a long way in this situation.
Yep and not do it again...
Exactly. I would have been annoyed I didn't look at the policy but I would have apologized and looked up the policies so I wouldn't break anymore rules.
Problem is, the U.S. empowers women not to have to apologize for bad behavior, if they even do criminal activity short of "un-aliving" they get at most a "slap on the wrist" (look at female teachers messing around with underage boys as opposed to male teachers messing with underage students)
Maryjane doesn't apologise. Her self-belief is off the scale, she thinks because she's traveled to 129 countries she is far far better than everyone else...
When you lack emotional and intellectual maturity, you think like this. An adult would have apologized for the behavior and explained that the policy was not explained to them beforehand. With a little class and humility, they would have probably dropped the charges, reduced the charges, or something. But some people don't know how to act, and aren't mature enough to handle simple situations like this.
Where I live in Mexico there was a black American woman trying to get out of a rental lease the landlord held her property as collateral for payment. The woman got on social media lied and said the owner had kidnapped her and held her and her daughter hostage she called police and US embassy they told her kick rocks. Ultimately her scheme didnt work and was forced to pay up. 😂😂
They should've left their problems and attitude back hone.
And this is exactly what happens in America. This is the kind of behavior that City Girls engage in to manipulate gullible individuals (mainly simps) in America. They think they can take that manipulative attitude across seas?
Nah, Brittney Griner paid up, sassy trucker paid up, this Bish paid up.
We need to stop letting these heax disrespect us here in America. So they stop disrespecting us overseas. They make us look bad.
Wow. Crazy
Good
Good,they got her lying ratchet ass😂
The very root of the problem, "when someone says not to do something I do it." She deserves EVERYTHING that happened to her.
Are you serious? She deserved everything that happened to her? So, you’re one of those males who is ok with women being abused I see. She absolutely deserved the hotel charges incurred, but to be assaulted is never the answer. Be for real.
@@yardiebabe YES!
@@josephc.3839 I agree that it's a bad attitude, but nobody should be physically assaulted and smacked in the face like that. It should end at the fine. She broke a rule. There is no corporal punishment for that
A lot of American (Sista's) are conditioned to be loud, rude and disrespectful. They're bringing that same attitude to other countries. Those countries are not dealing with their foolishness.
@@yardiebabe😂 Italians not assualting her...they're just correcting her entitled American arse! Their country, their rules, Sis!!
What in the world is wrong with these entitled young women. No matter how she twists & spins her side of the story SHE’S WRONG! This is an embarrassment to the U.S.
Unfortunately, reports of American travelers behaving, rude, spoiled, entitled and discourteous overseas are legendary. This includes Americans of all races and from all walks of life.
Please stop with the male identification and pick me prose 🙄. “What’s wrong with these entitled young women?” Don’t you mean, “What’s wrong with these entitled Americans?”
@@yardiebabeexactly
The hotel is also wrong for applying corporal punishment.
Let's be honest, this issue is mostly with women; moreover, mostly with Black women. Trying to rope in everyone is like talking about gun crime while ignoring Black-on-Black shootings.
My family and I just spent two weeks in Italy and surrounding countries. We were consciously humble and polite to everyone that we had interactions with and, in turn, they were kind and accommodating to us. We had a great trip.
It's not hard is it? The French are the same and it is just more enjoyable to have happy interactions. Everyone benefits.
Wow so did they tell YOU that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔
@@jewelniles4041 Before we left on our trip this past May, we spent several months researching the the dos and the don’ts of each country that we were visiting. We also made certain that we had a clear understanding of what our AirBnB host permitted, expected, etc. You have to take the time to do your research and get any questions that you still have answered BEFORE you board your flight. Their country, their rules.
@@katehack1677 Exactly.
Likewise, I made every effort to be pleasant, and pleasantries were returned.
My head exploded when she ADMITTED that whenever she is told NOT to do something, she does it!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯What the hell-so she doesn’t follow rules OR LAWS!?!?
That's funny cuz when she said that I was like #same
She is a DELUSIONAL, *very BROKE* and an extremely dumb and arrogant *scammer*.
typical
Don't worry. She got slapped sense in for next time lmao!
She will be the next one locked up abroad.
My heart smiled when she said how gansta home girl got with her. Must be the righteous indignation within. I always tell my daughter that my humility is my superpower.
But that's why she's different than most of you lame black women, especially you. She comes to UA-cam showing the world the truth about the lost black history shedding light to what no one dared to speak about, while y'all American black women are too weak, happily accepting whatever lies white people shove down your throats. Shake off that slave mentality cause y'all ain't slaves anymore. Y'all are descendants of royalties! And at one point y'all made the rules, you didn't follow them.
Being black in someone else's country means that you have to be extra-careful and respectful of the rules and laws. You'll find out the hard way. Stop being ignorant and thinking that your attitude will be tolerated in countries that already look down on you for being black. Pick and choose your battles.
they do not look down on you because your black they look down on you because of your arrogant ignorant loudmouthed attitude
Correct. 💯
Well said
Why is being a decent person considered ‘extra’? Just act right.
Right gotta be extra careful being blk... Wow so have YOU ever heard that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔 wonder if there the same rules for white ppl bc she said she wasn't told this and it wasn't written any where... THEY ARE SCAMMING HER!
When you go to someone else home or Country be respectful
How come others don't follow that rule when they come to America!?
@@djw2838 Americans are disrespectful to each other come off it. I live in Miami Florida Americans here are the assholes mostly from NYC.. People that are visiting are much nicer..
It isn't about culture.
It's about respecting Law.
Right of propiety exists in USA, in Italy and in other countries too.
Every company has the right to establishing its own private rules on its propieties.
Many hotels, bars, restaurants, disco, cruise boats....don't allow other products.
Why? Because they sell food and they have a contract with specific food companies.
They are competiting between them, they don't want to allow free promotion of their competitors on their places.
They allow you to bring food (from anywhere) inside your room because it's very private place, ot's like your personal space. The hall, the looby, the bar of hotel, the restaurant of hotels....aren't personal spaces, that's why they don't allow it.
Facts
@@djw2838 I want someone to address your comment asap
I live in the Netherlands born here lived here for half my life. Traveled all over Europe and was in Italy 3 months ago. I have never heard of this policy in my life
It's a standard policy in many European hotels. Why disrespect the hotel & it's menu offerings by bringing in food from outside...??? Where you been staying, in Travelodges...?!?
@@RoarofdalioN some hotels do it in the US as well. But I believe it's just that you cannot eat it in their lobby or dining areas or patios. You have to take it directly to your room.
The fact that she‘s shamelessly telling this story as if she’s in the right explains why she’s travelling solo.
Solo? Perhaps or perhaps not.
No, she traveled there with a group and posted a solo video.
@@LG-universe that makes it even worse if she’s with a group but eating by herself in her hotel room.
You are right if she went with a Man he would be in a fight and locked up at every stop
@@Rudmystershe goes with her boyfriend
Why is everyone shocked at the behavior of this notorious scammer? Everyone in the travel world knows about her for years now.
Yep, I definitely heard stories....
Wait I don’t, what’s her name so I can find the tea 😂
Lord what did she do been gone for a bit?
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@@StoneyLover93Mary Jane
She’s a grifter and a scammer…..she absolutely did this intentionally…….and she absolutely was thirsting for a viral video!!!!!!! 🙄
Lol. Mistake made right from the start. It surprises me how people still don’t realize how far a smile and humility can get them
Blk wiman find it offensive to be expected to smile. Kevin Samuels did a whole video on it. Atrocious attitudes
"Law of Attraction". Positive attitudes attract people. So simple, so effective, such a hard lesson to learn for many. Want to be a leader in your community? Be positive, be friendly, be helpful, and you'll gain allies.
Sorry, but black people have been way too humble for too long. Please have some self respect.
Exactly it gets you a long way
@@dherman0001 she wasnt in her community
They have become so entitled that they think it is human nature to be that way, instead of seeing it as a character flaw.
🙄 ugh Americans 🥴
Right 🎯 ✅️
Facts
We THINK we are entitled! She got a wake up!😂
BINGO !
🙏Amen you Preaching, Wisdom will save your life ❤️
Please respect other people culture. Please don't make it hard for other that want to travel. We all need freedom from the USA
“Freedom” from USA…you win the ignorance award for the week.
I agree.
Facts
Black folks ruining it for everyone else
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Phil this girl is a known travel scammer and she’s straight broke.
Fr ??? They go end up putting her on a list and the next country she shows up to they gonna ready for her.
What's a "travel scammer"?
How do you know she's broke?!
@@michellelove8146just look her up.,.
TroyceTV did two videos on her plus several of her victims spoke about how she scammed them. Type Mary Jane Byarm scams and many videos will pop up in the search bar.
My sister and I love traveling and we are so respectful (even in the states because we were raised right) and we have had awesome experiences when there have been misunderstandings. Kindness goes a long way and humility goes a long way.
The entitlement on this Lady is INSANE. How about just be a decent , respectable, responsible human being? How hard is that? When u r in a foreign country you have to logical and sensible. Being Sassy and Mouthful in a foreign country is a recipe for TROUBLE.
She isn’t any of those things. She has scammed her followers out of thousands of dollars. She has no moral compass.
It's called being a decent human being no matter where you are.
@@millennialodyssey5956 100% spot on.
Yes she's successfully travelled pretty much all over the world. 🎉
She also goes to these countries and tells people that she isn't Black...she tries to tell people that she is another race
She did say if someone tells her not to do something, she does it, giggle, giggle !! 🙄🙄🙄🙄😤😤😤
Yep, she’s clearly stuck in puberty smdh
We saw how well that worked out! 🥴
@@dpruitt808well I now reach the part with the assault 😅
i thought racism exists in the US? where are yall getting these entitled privileged attitudes? it can't be from the oppressive US (insert sarcasm) LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, getting locked up abroad because of your entitlement ain't no joke, she needs to quit the nonsense
If the Taliban told her she can't wear shorts in their country- would she? Most probably not, because she wants to portray herself as a respectful, brave warrior. If the hotel receptionists in a European country *(Italy, to be precise)* told her she can't order food on their premises- would she abide by their rule? Most probably not, because she wants to portray herself as an innocent black woman being oppressed by malicious white people. Also, I noticed from 06:19 onwards that she was touching her face quite a bit and fluttering her eyes a bit - a cluster of deception.
I lived in Italy. This young woman clearly did not understand the amount of respect for local customs and rules it takes to live there. Especially as a foreigner. She has to do better. This is the result of poor parenting, it is clear she has not been forced to live by other people's rules and dictates at home. Because of this, she took the same incorrect attitude to Italy. She is lucky this did not go worse than it did. We gotta do better. I am embarrassed by her behavior. She made it harder for the next Black African person to stay at that hotel.
she isnt black african she is american a citizen of the USA
@@josephberrie9550ya, making blk people look bad. Don’t think they won’t think twice about letting more blk people book there. And it’s her fault.
@@josephberrie9550 Many could careless. Sometimes they take the time to know and it matters. Since the mass migrations from the Middle East and Africa, I noticed European, quite a few European attitudes have changed when encountering black people of any sort.
This girl has traveled to at least 50 countries over the last 7 years or so, she knows better. I can't wait for her to get her passport snatched and she gets arrested.
@DJRenee Why are you wishing evil upon her?
You ninjas are your own worse enemies.
"When someone tells me I can't do something, unfortunately, I try to go do that thing." Broken mindset of America. That ideology is not just women, its common with a lot of immature people male and female. When people show you their colors and tell you who they are, you need to listen. Either good or bad, and verbally and through their actions.
There is a group of people (yes she is part of it) who think that mentality makes them cute and cool….like a child.
Many Americans don't realize that other countries are communal. They have certain vendors, restaurants and businesses they work with as a cooperative. Also the workers in these establishments are unionized professional workers who have done extensive training in hospitality and their respective fields. Americans tend to be more individual whereas these cultures are more interconnected so everyone eats at the table. They are trying help each other to ensure their chefs, porters, concierge make a living to help their families.
She's a documented scammer...this just her karma.
She claims she 'lives'' in Dubai & that is her home...but yet her accommodation is void of anything personal & resembles an Airbnb every time...
I been travelling for well over 20 years, now living in Sydney, Australia. Anytime I travel to foreign countries, I ask what are the rules and act humble.
She needed to find a new hotel and leave and take the unaccounted expenses up with Amex at a later time. To be fair $700 euro is a lot for what they’re saying her offense was.
I'm going to be traveling to Portugal in a few months, so I've been watching a lot of travel videos to try to educate myself on what to expect. Differences in culture/customs. This is a small one, but I'm so glad I saw it in advance. If you go to a restaurant they will automatically bring you bread when you sit down, just like in the U.S. The difference is, they will charge you for it. Even though you didn't ask for it. It just shows up on your bill. For people from Portugal this apparently normal. I think it's important to try to educate yourself as much as possible before you go to another country. It can save you from having problems. And as most other people have said here, the way you respond to people is important. Being nice goes a long way in any country.
I live in Portugal just tell them you don’t want the bread and don’t touch it and they won’t charge you for it. And if you go to places where they don’t have prices on the menu, ask beforehand or go somewhere else they probably will charge you more because you are a “rich” tourist. And you need to bring a lot of patience, people here are very relaxed when it comes to service 😅😂
Don’t touch it. We got a restaurant here that tries this trick & when you say ‘I didn’t ask for it so I didn’t touch it & im not paying for it’ they’re going to say… we can’t serve it, because it was on your table this whole time. Refuse & they’ll remove the charge
@@darylrichardson8567 You simply say "no, thank you" the moment they bring it to the table. It's just a custom here that they serve this without being asked for it. No need to let it sit on the table for the whole meal and then argue about the charge.
It's a beautiful country, you will have a blast! Safe travels.
Portugal is beautiful and the people are really nice and friendly. I lived in Porto for 2 years. Have a wonderful trip 🧕🏾
She should have closed out her hotel stay and WENT to another place to eliminate the problem but DON'T EVER CHALLENGE OTHER COUNTRIES
Agreed.
Exactly! I would have left because I wouldn't have trusted the food
@@michellelove8146facts
you have a great show teaching wisdom/common sense
Why would they wait a week and plus some to tell her that? She figured out right off what was going on. Confirm hotel policies before staying in the hotel so you're not blindsided.
The fact that people are missing that. Especially BLACK people, is absolutely nuts and shows these ninjas don’t travel any damn where outside the Western Hemisphere.
Scamming her...780.00 for food and towels is excessive.
@@FireandSwordofYah That's insane! I would've put them on blast.
I wouldn't take her word for it.
@@BCNeil I would definitely need it in writing.
She is what a child that wasn't disciplined grows up to be.
Not abused…exactly…
@@sexygabby30 Discipline is not abuse. Abuse is abuse. When you’re not disciplined and you get everything you want, this is what you become.
Fatherless black woman....pay attention
@@loguegvery true discipline is done out of love
It keeps children out of trouble
Don’t say “SISTAS” because Mary Jane does not consider nor carry herself as a Black woman. She carries herself like a Karen tht she wishes she was. She talks about Black women all the time.
I’ve been a passport woman long before the term was coined. I was fortunate to have LIVED (not vacationing) since I was a baby. Do some research on the cultural expectations. Be quiet, polite and watchful. You have to be mindful of your behavior. There is always a way to be polite, apologize and negotiate.
How disrespectful!!!
Yes, you must leave the attitude and disrespect at home. I have lived and traveled throughout Europe more than 20 times and never had a problem. Even when rules didn’t make sense, I’ve never argued.
If she keeps it up, we might see her on the news begging for the U.S. to free her.
Some twenty years ago Diana Ross (yes the singer) started sassy mouthing customs
officials at the airport in London. The officials
took her to a room and strip searched her.
LOl, you know they sacrifice their own what do you think they will do to you.
Wow so did they tell YOU that you couldn't order food from other places other than the hotel or wipe your face on a wash cloth if you have make up on... NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤔 apologies would not have helped bc they were SCAMMING HER! Not told that rule AND it wasn't written any where..! Scamming 🤨
@@handsomeman-pm9vyI think I remembered hearing about that years ago
@@jewelniles4041 - RIGHT! ☝🏾
the fact that she recorded that video, heard her actions, and still thought she was in the right is insane
Mental illness
I agree with every word you said. They know we are already hated and yet we consistently give them more reasons. We need to stop this entitlement because we may have a western passport. I travel frequently across the world and never encounter any of these issues because I learn to adapt according to customs and cultures. We need to learn tolerance...
We? You mean "they." Stop putting every black person or woman in one sack.
@yb7qy sadly we are in 1 sac to others. And we will be treated according to how previous black people interacted with them
@@Muskogee he he he Do me a favor and look in the mirror. What skin color are you. You are going to be judge by the mere fact that you have the same skin color as “Them” you know The Ratchet black people
The people who intermittently turn situations that don’t call for aggressive behaviour into aggressive situations
There goes the neighborhood 😂😂
Why don’t you see situations like this happen to WP ? Not just in Europe, but in Asia and Latin America
'We' you mean 'Black Women.'
I don't know how it works in U.S, but here in Europe, if the hotel has restaurant, which they do in almost every case, they usually have a policy that guests can't order or bring in food from outside, of course you can go outside and eat there.
The problem was that she ordered food directly to the hotel lobby .if she wouldve pick her food up outside the hotel .then they wouldn't have anything to make her pay.this why people need to research the country and hotels rules before buy hotel and flight tickets
It’s a BS rule so I usually sneak food in a backpack or smth
😂😂😂😂😂😂 how about I just don't go
@@theuncensoredaboriginal I don't remember asking anyone to go..
It’s absolutely RIDICULOUS!!
I refuse to have any hotel tell me what I will eat or if I can eat in my room or not.
I think she lied about the whole thing cause she scams her followers. She needed an excuse for not sending the postcards lol.
"He said leave your attitude at home" thats the problem, when you don't know how to act at home, theres no way you're going to act right anywhere else
So true .Americans need to act right in america despite the legal freedom we have
She’s so so wrong! She’s not in the USA. She should know better although she’s young, she’s been traveling for years. I’ve always thought after watching her channel that she was a bit entitled. I thought by now she would’ve matured after so much traveling.
Nah, I don't see that happening with her anytime soon
She's been travelling but she's so narcissistic she learns not a damn thing
Italians just as hood lol, she forgot
She's even said racism doesn't exist because of all the places she's traveled to, but nobody is gonna put up with bs, she don't have the status to do that in the USA lol, anywhere you go you have to find out if there are extra fees in the small print or if there's tax in that city or town
She needs to be stopped. She is a whole scammer.
Respect goes a long way
I’m an older person and I was taught as a young child to treat people the way I wanted to be treated. So far I’ve had no problems with people in my life.🌸 In my opinion she got exactly what she deserved. Obviously she has no idea about the history of the Italian people.🦋
Exactly, she always been a Black Karen. This same girl believes that there is no racism and made a video about it. Mary Jane even recently moved there after she got assaulted at the hotel; smh
@@NovemberReigne hopefully she will come to her senses...
@@NovemberReigneShe doesn't really think she's black. I don't know why he keeps calling her sister, she’d be offended. She's a lunatic scammer, and I don't understand how she still has followers.
I stayed at a nice hotel in Boston once and my boyfriend and i bought beer and took it to the room. The next day the front desk said we cannot bring alcohol into the hotel. I apologized, I really did not know! I think the hotel was going to charge us, but since we did not know, we did not get charged. Why be rude to people if they are just doing their job.
Honestly, you could sum it up like this: no matter what color you are, if you go overseas and start being a Karen, you're going to find really quickly that it doesn't go like you expected it to go.
That happens sometimes here, too. It really ought to happen more often.
I was stationed in Italy for 4 years and NEVER, EVER had a problem!💯them Italians will CHECK your funky attitude ladies!👊💯
What is she doing in Italy by herself. Where is your man? Oh I forgot you don't have one because your independent 😂
SHE so LUCKY they didn't go upside her head FAM!🤣The State Police over there are NOTORIOUS for busin' people ASS on SIGHT!🤣🤣🤣Them cats have a "Hands On" policy!😅😅
@@quincywright2821I heard about their police too
They already don't like us because of the beat down they received by Ethiopians during WW1.
@@Blackrage843he MEN always get it!🤣🤣we ain't STUPID 🤣 They'll break your arms so you CAN'T fight back!🤣🤣
Three phrases that will make traveling to any country Please thank you and excise me gets you along way
She was the main one saying she don't believe racism exist in other countries your she going Italy they looked at her like an easy target because she's alone. This is her karma for scamming all those women 2 yrs ago......
Their country, their rules .. Period ..
Amen
Love your attitude and how you express your views. Very real!❤
Im sorry but this is the attitude that get us in trouble. Agree with you 100 % about the stereotype. And what we think is normal is completely rude in other countries and later we want to call it "racism or discrimination" I live in a tourist area in the Caribbean and when my family comes I always tell them to act like is New York in the 70's.
The thing is that her behavior isn't really considered "normal" in the US by most people. She'd have looked just as bad if she was doing this stuff in America.
@@BiggieTrismegistus THIS!!! ❤
Great content sir, a real wake-up call for americans in general.
Spot on! Brilliant commentary my friend!
You barely hear stories of black men traveling having issues, because we face consequences for our actions. It goes with out saying no matter where you go there you are.
Right
Because you are a man dummy, you’re strong, you can defend yourself. Women are weak vulnerable think about it stop being a dumb ass misogynist in a dumb ass wore that makes no sense men rule, weak men cry about women.
Facts because we as guys will pull each other aside and just say sorry and pay the fee and keep it moving..
@@Dogdad-333 not the ignorant but they barely traveling out the country
Don't jinx it bruh, passports pookies was on they bullshyt in DR. We flying under the radar for a min.
As a Black woman, what I notice is most black are prideful and feel entitled to do what they want, talk to other people disrespectfully, not follow rules and somehow feel above being corrected. This video is a prime example. The hotel had a policy you weren't aware of and all she had to do is say sorry, how can she fix it, and go about her business. They might have waived the fee if she showed humility. But no
not true, most blacks do not go into white places believing they will be treated fairly, that's whites and black women with degrees.
You are not a black woman saying this lie.
If you were a black woman you wouldn’t have to state it. There are people alll over the world who are like this
This is a damn lie …… entitled ?? really smh
@@Bereal-yd5gh
You probably want to promote the stereotype
The scammer got humbled is what you mean????
No who did she think she was going over there being hard headed and disrespectful 😩
1. I'm an American woman and if I was in her situation, I would have been SO APOLOGETIC, that they'd either lesson the cost or maybe waive it altogether. That said, I'm sure that it's written in something she signed. 2. Once she learned the policy, she PURPOSELY violated it. No, this isn't ALL American women. I hate how today Americans move. This woman is ignorant. This isn't anything but narcissistic. I mean, who says "if you tell me I can't do something, I make a point to do that thing anyways"? That's not normal behaviors for ANY normal person. Then she basically got a WELL DESERVED spanking. 🤷🏿♀️Come on, y'all know FULL WELL if some VISITOR came into your homes acting like a damned fool like this female did, we'd ALL have humbled her. I don't see why she thought that would fly overseas.
This sista was stupid and she got that much needed spanking. Why does she sound like she was brought up by wp?
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Exactly most of the time if you're polite and respectful people will try to work with you. Same thing with dealing with the police. I've gotten out of so many situations with just a warning because I didn't immediately become hostile and treated the cop with respect. It really does go a long way. Many times people have discretion when enforcing rules so it's up to them whether they throw the book at you or not.
Wp? No, we know better than to act like this hyena
In the past, I've seen a number of Black female Bloggers/Vloggers (especially those from the U.K. & U.S.A.), where as they attempt to carry their negative 'mental luggage' with them while within foreign lands. It never works out, it never is supposed to work out. Many of them are the same females that feel it is absurd to carry any Black male associates with them.
America is a feminised country. Am not American, but I have interacted with y'all. No shade, but generally they're entitled, loud and painfully ignorant about the rest of the world. Sorry, but so true.
I was in the US Navy and went all around the world. My parents always taught me that when you are a guest in someone’s home you act accordingly. I carried that attitude with me in my travels and made friends with people of many different cultures and ethnicities. Get rid of the haughtiness and I’m an American attitude, you’ll find people will warm to you better.
Word
That lady straightened her ass up👍👍
In a long-term rental, this is usually the policy in Europe if you are staying at a hotel rather than a hostel or a villa. In a hostel there isn't room service. Hotels make a profit from room service, and a lot of people book at certain hotels because of the cook. The physical stuff is out of line, but when you have no wins, it is best to concede. You are ALONE, and the police do fight you over there. They train for that.
I think it was a B & B, I can't think of why there be a problem with bringing food to a hotel in Italy unless it was a very small hotel.
They have to deal with African refugees
@@tonjamarshall4842 more than likely, the hotel's policy us no outside food because that is the deal in the package with the booking agent, but the agent might not tell you, or may have thought you knew of the custom, BUT, 🤔 ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR SITUATION. YOU ARE ALONE IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY AND THEY WILL ALWAYS STICK WITH THEIR OWN ...
@@dpjmj I know, it's their custom!
Yeah different rules different places but surely it’s a lousy policy. I don’t agree with the sassiness but I have stated in hotels around the world , never knew this was a thing.
It seems to me if they are offering lower rates and expecting to make profit of the food then they should have some kind of surcharge if you don’t utilize room service. That is honestly something that should have been communicated upfront because especially in the US no hotel forces you to order food. I have had complimentary nights at MGM and there was zero expectation that I order room service.
He’s Right t”They make a policy for ninjas 🥷 Period ‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Shr couldn’t wait to correct your arse though🤣🤣🤣🤣😳I’m so glad you didn’t push her ‼️🎉🤣
Attitude is everything!
American brands must adhere with local rules and regulations.
Americans just need to learn to live with other people and adjust accordingly like we all do when travelling.
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Thank you for explaining how flying around europe works and giving so many examples.
Sooo.. They tell you , you owe $$$ and don't show the policy, get some women to assault you and that's ok?? Yes Maryjane should have not continued to order food, but strong arming folks for $$$ and slapping guests at your hotel. WTF..
You in their country. It's not America.
She experienced the Italian maffia. These hotels are owned by some families and that's how they operates.
She got the wrong definition of freedom and don’t realized that it a privileged to be honored in a hotel. Just ruined it for all the good future travelers.🤦♀️
I have traveled outside the US and have been given compliments once they find out I'm American, because I was not loud or disrespectful. Sad that Americans have that reputation.
Wow....i use to follow her. I stopped a year ago. Too many allegations of scamming folks and her denial of racism overseas...her whole estetic and personality changed. If she on Phil show being reported, shyt hitting the fan
Especially her denying racism and getting this experience with the Italian maffia when she breaks their rules. I don't think they would have put hands on a ww
Italian Tia Angie slapped the foundation off the sista’s face! Two words-“ Travel Responsibly.”
Wow, just came across your channel with this video. Ive watched MaryJane before. Im guessing and praying she is learning from all her mistakes and experiences. This unfortunately seems to be a 👋 painful one. GOD says humble yourself so I don’t have to. Thank you for sharing this also helped me to check myself more. Pride is the opposite of humility so the more I resist pride the better for me in the end!
I don’t know why this has to be related to her race or ethnicity. Seriously, she doesn’t even identify as black so please. There are people all over the world who act like this. Doesn’t matter what race or ethnicity. I’ve worked in a lot of places and many people of many races/ethnicities act like this. Just follow the rules no matter who you are
This is why I was shocked when he kept referring to her as sister, when she would probably be offended. She has been infamously accused of scamming mostly black women, along with her family, at that. She’s just an insufferable human being, it has nothing to do with her skin color.
To be fair, many other countries don't play the identity games that we play here. They will see her as black, regardless of how she identifies. BW, you really need to start defending your worldwide image. This last couple weeks has seen you drop tremendously in the eyes of the world, and are putting other upstanding BW abroad in danger.
I'm just saying, there are far more serious issues at stake than these identity politics games.
Her entitled attitude caused the problem. Not every policy would be written. All she had to do was apologise with a smile and adhere to the policy as stated.
I really dislike the attitude of many young people, where their opinion on any matter is the only one that counts.... Makes it difficult for the rest of us. I hope she learned her lesson.
Somebody tell her that she is NOT in America!
Actually I'm so happy that she has shared her experience because this could happen to anyone... she help to bring awareness of this experience...
Uh actually this happens a lot. The difference is when others are told they violated a rule or two they quickly apologize and own up to it. They don't try coming with the masculine energy because common sense and good "home training" kicks in.
In a lot of places if there is a restaurant there then they want you to eat there or you can leave the hotel and eat out, they don't like it if you order out and then take it to your room that's basically saying to them that the food at their restaurant isn't good enough. The only hotels that allow that are the ones where there isn't a restaurant in the hotel. Then you have the option of ordering food in or going out to eat or you can bring food back after going out to get it. Always ask the hotel.
I am a B American female and I do agree that a humble attitude will take you far. When you are humble and appreciative people will go the extra mile for you. I certainly think Maryjane could have handled her situation better as seasoned a traveler as she is. As she was being arrogant and dismissive. The hotel owner or manager was way out of line laying hands on. And for that I think it is worth noting a recommended DO NOT stay at that hotel, rating.
M.J's attitude is quite arrogant & rude. Once you're told not to order or bring food into the establishment, do not challenge the owner & staff. M.J was told about the regulation of the hotel, yet she rebelled , mocked and violated their rules in ordering food once again. M.J's video speaks volumes about her immature and childish behaviour. The sneer comments and the victorious laughter for being 'disobedient' sums up how disrespectful M.J is. Law & order is quite important to help maintain a certain balance in societies, organisations and groups . Although M.J is well travelled, she lacks humility and discipline. Sadly, the exposure of various cultures hasn't taught her any manners. As a guest in a foreign country abide by the rules or face the consequences.
Italy is the most visited country in the world and Italians are extremely accommodating to their tourists.
Mark my words, they read her the rules and had her sign acknowledgements upon check in and I bet they reminded her of the rules throughout her stay.
As an ITALIAN...we thank u for ur kind words!!!!GRAZIE MILLE E TORNA PRESTO😍😍😍
How do you know that ? :o
We travel as a family internationally, before we go anywhere I sit down with the kids and go over some of the major rules from the country we are going to. I’m teaching them early that you abide by the country you are in laws. Be polite and kind, follow all rules and we will have a great vacation.
You are so 💯 with this!!! Great video!!!🎉
She admitted to being oppositional on purpose
It’s not about being black. I travel international all the time as a black man. I gotten nothing but love.
However, you're a man, not a woman. Totally different experience
She straight up said that she'll do exactly the opposite of what she's told to do, AND SHE'S PROUD OF IT. Hear the Word:
1 Samuel 15:23
"For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, And stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry."
Oh wow, she is a seasoned world traveler, I'm surprised that she melted down like that.
Younger Modern women aren’t used to being told no that’s why
An entitled brat is an entitled brat, no matter where you go
It's all in her eyes. She wants to get along on the surface, but when confronted, she showed herself and went dismissive.
I look at Mary Jane's content from time to time, what you are saying is so true you have to be willing to humble yourself no matter where you are, because it does go a long way and you may end up getting a blessing then punched just keeping it real❤ with love
"When in Rome, do as the Romans do". In this case...literally