Gay son confront his mom

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  • Опубліковано 2 лис 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 135

  • @EwaldBarrink
    @EwaldBarrink 3 місяці тому +24

    A day I will never forget... .Sometimes dreams can come true. Btw it is a windmill or in dutch windmolen. I hope that you, your mom and other followers from your community will visit Amsterdam (again) in the future. In august we have the Canal Pride people are very welcome. ❤ and hug to you all always. ❤🏳️‍🌈❤️

  • @warrenpaine
    @warrenpaine 3 місяці тому +15

    I'm glad you corrected your Mom so quickly. Heterosexuals who think being Gay is a "choice" need to ask themselves when they "chose" to be attracted to the opposite sex.

  • @ovejasinpatas
    @ovejasinpatas 3 місяці тому +24

    I love the vlog, I can see that you and your mom really love each other and she is beautiful

  • @neonachas
    @neonachas 3 місяці тому +12

    When I came out in 1986, homosexual sex had only just been decriminalised in New Zealand. My father had proved his homophobia several times to me as was growing up which was why I waited until I was nearly 25, and in a supportive and loving relationship before coming out. As soon as I came out my father said I was no longer part of *his* family, and not to contact my grandmother, relatives back in Scotland, etc. At that time, because both my parents were brought up to believe a woman did what her husband said, my mother, in tears, studded with my father. After my sister's wedding, my partner and I left NZ for Australia. However, upon my grandfather's death, I'd inherited stuff in Scotland which my father was determined to have back, so he commenced court action. To prevent hiring lawyers in 3 countries, I returned to New Zealand, while my partner stayed in Australia. It was only supposed to be for 3 months max ... but my father drew it out more and more. Seeing what he was doing, I resigned everything to my 2nd cousin still living in Scotland so my father wouldn't see anything of it, and the income would remain in Scotland. A decade later, my parents separated, and my mother, sister, and her family wanted to get in contact with me. We did so, and my mother apologised for her earlier attitude saying she had been brought up to obey the head of the house and that was my father, but the separation and subsequent divorce had opened her eyes and she realised agreed been wrong. Our relationship isn't perfect, but it's a lot better than it was when my homophobic father was around. However, mum has returned to Scotland, abs it sends like she won't be able to fly back here. I have multiple myeloma so my chances of getting back to Scotland to see her reduce day by day as the disease progresses (currently in remission so feeling better), but I'm currently unlikely to see her again except through messenger, etc.

    • @neonachas
      @neonachas 2 місяці тому +2

      @@LewisEgan-yd7xt I was 24 when i came out.

    • @AmaliaEducation4
      @AmaliaEducation4 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry for what happened to you and these stories mean a lot to me, you went through it so less of us have to go through the same, thank you❤️❤️❤️

  • @dallasljones
    @dallasljones 3 місяці тому +13

    The opening is superb!

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 3 місяці тому +10

    Thank you Art for the video of you and your mom. The video was heart warming, and nice to see. Please cherish your mother and your time with her. Thank you fpr opening up about your time together in Europe. Please keep doing what you do with your channel.

  • @brittsaunders4621
    @brittsaunders4621 3 місяці тому +2

    You know I've been a fan of yours for a long while now, and I've simply adored your mom ever since you "introduced" her to us all. And even longer, when you told of the sacrifice she made to put you on the path of having the life you've always wanted. Your relationship with your mom is truly beautiful. My mom is 80, and I call her a few times per week and see her a couple times per year. This has been the case since my dad died in 2019. We have always been a close-knit family, but my mom has needed someone to lean on more than ever since we lost my dad. I'm grateful for her every day, and take nothing for granted! Пожалуйста, передай маме твоей прекрасной самые лучшие пожелания от меня! 💖💖💖

  • @matisslazdins8897
    @matisslazdins8897 2 місяці тому

    the way her eyes are shining when she talked about you......real unconditional LOVE !!!🥰

  • @ThomasBoyd-d7j
    @ThomasBoyd-d7j 3 місяці тому +18

    Awesome. Thsnks Art Bezrukaveko. Brilliant family ❤

  • @rew3737
    @rew3737 3 місяці тому +6

    I do hope your mother can visit the US soon! You two have such a strong bond. Thanks for sharing!

  • @papaalpops2902
    @papaalpops2902 3 місяці тому +5

    Wonderful video, Art! I loved how you spoke about your mom at the end. And glad to hear she thinks so highly of Johnny ~ you are a terrific couple ✌❤

  • @diegom.1803
    @diegom.1803 3 місяці тому +4

    beautiful vlog Art ❤️ The intro has made me immediately emotional 🥺 it was lovely to see you and your mom together again ! Hopefully you could see each much more often soon 🥰 also very beautiful how your mom described what se thinks of Johnny ❤️

  • @Papa_Joe6
    @Papa_Joe6 3 місяці тому +18

    When you Mom said Hetero for LGBT I almost fell of my chair laughing, she is so cute, You Mom has got some style, for sure. When the staff put Bobby and Mishka in bed and they unpacked for you I got to say that is really some great service. So glad you got to meet Evel hope that's how you spell it ...sorry if not. When your Mom started to describe Johnny I couldn't help to cry, but Mom's always now best. Thank you for sharing this little bit of your vacation with Mama B with us. xoxo💋

    • @dallasljones
      @dallasljones 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Papa_Joe6 it think it's Edvard!

    • @Papa_Joe6
      @Papa_Joe6 3 місяці тому +1

      @@dallasljones TY

    • @diegom.1803
      @diegom.1803 3 місяці тому +3

      I think it’s edwald 😊

    • @Papa_Joe6
      @Papa_Joe6 3 місяці тому +2

      @@diegom.1803 🤣🤣TY

    • @dallasljones
      @dallasljones 3 місяці тому +3

      @@diegom.1803 I think you are correct

  • @edwelty
    @edwelty 3 місяці тому +2

    I miss my mother everyday after she passed in 2003. Your mom loves you very much. She knows your life is wonderful in the US. This was beautiful.

  • @duane_f
    @duane_f 3 місяці тому +17

    Cancel the new apartment! Oh, it was another click-bait title. This was a very personal and moving vlog, which was worth the long wait for it to premier. 😆Your mom is so wonderful, I hope you can visit with her more often in the near future. Thanks for sharing this time with the two of you. 👍👍👍👍👍💗💗

  • @amberforte94
    @amberforte94 3 місяці тому +1

    How beautiful that she accepts who you are. A lot of parents don't. You're lucky. You all have a beautiful bond. ❤😊 She's a lovely woman!

  • @joesimeao7611
    @joesimeao7611 3 місяці тому +14

    Your mom will like love and accept anyone you choose to be with and besides pumpkin is awesome and good looking to 👍👍❤️❤️🥰🌈

  • @gajlambert4008
    @gajlambert4008 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful in every way Art, you and your mother are a blessing for both of you!

  • @marial8235
    @marial8235 3 місяці тому +1

    Art and his Mom are so cute together❤. I’ve been missing my Mom a lot lately. Thanks for sharing yours.

  • @Upsidedowntugboat
    @Upsidedowntugboat 3 місяці тому

    Your mom is such a beautiful person. I am so glad that you have this relationship with her and I really hope that someday she will be able to come and visit you. Thank you for sharing this. It is very uplifting to see such positivity and love when I am in a dark place. Definitely brings hope. ♥️♥️

  • @markgordon5387
    @markgordon5387 3 місяці тому +15

    I never left my mother. She passed away at 85 in 2020, and I never left her. I never came out. She wouldn't have liked me being gay. Taking care of my mother comes with blessings according to the Bible.

    • @markgordon5387
      @markgordon5387 3 місяці тому +7

      I was about a month shy of 51, when she died. I told my maternal grandmother, when I was 17, that I couldn't have another boyfriend, because I had to take care of my mother. After my boyfriend in high school, I quit being with a guy. I miss my boyfriend from high school, and I'd give the world to be with him, but he lives with a guy. I won't break them up. Let him be happy.

    • @Emanuel-uh1uo
      @Emanuel-uh1uo 3 місяці тому +4

      What kind of blessings does taking Care of a mother who doesn't fully accept you come with?

    • @markgordon5387
      @markgordon5387 3 місяці тому

      @@Emanuel-uh1uo "Honor thy father and thy mother, so that you shall live upon the land I will give to you." The Bible promises long life to me. My mother had long life. Her grandparents lived only to 75 and 67.

    • @kaleb8743
      @kaleb8743 3 місяці тому

      @@markgordon5387 you should find other guys

    • @Emanuel-uh1uo
      @Emanuel-uh1uo 3 місяці тому +1

      @@markgordon5387 did your mother take care of her parents?

  • @dannyuchiha9017
    @dannyuchiha9017 3 місяці тому +9

    This vlog was beautifully made art

  • @ToddRGuy
    @ToddRGuy 2 місяці тому

    So glad you got to spend some precious moments with your mother. What a wonderful glimpse into life in the Netherlands and your time together.

  • @dalemettee1147
    @dalemettee1147 3 місяці тому +1

    Art, your mom is absolutely beautiful and I can see how you love her so much.🥰

  • @paulkent2840
    @paulkent2840 3 місяці тому +2

    I lived in Netherlands for a while, and flew my parents out for a hoiliday, we also went to Kerkehoff tulip fields, it was a week to remember, my parents are now passed, however the memories are still fresh in my mind. once again another beautiful blog from you Art, you remain a very cool guy. uk fan.

    • @SimonAZ
      @SimonAZ 3 місяці тому

      Keukenhof. Kerkhof is a cemetary in Dutch.

  • @drdem00
    @drdem00 3 місяці тому +2

    I was listening To public radio, Woman was saying In the 50s She was a nurse's aid In nursing home A very elderly woman was sitting on bed crying. She asked What was wrong.. My mother I miss her She died When I was 10. It wasn't long after mister Lincoln was shot... Her grief was as fresh as yesterday .....

  • @Studycase3000
    @Studycase3000 3 місяці тому +2

    Sorry I often comment at something cute/funny at beginning of vid' but I come back at the end to say how beautiful your time was. It is nice you took a follower out for tea. More people should do these type of things. Your closing statement on calling, loving your mother or if they are gone , memories. Mine has past, she was my Queen. Seeing you spend time and showering your mom for the love and trust she gave you to make it out here is beautiful. Until next time Art (only YT for social media so..) Peace, Love and Joy to you and yours. 🥰

  • @fb668
    @fb668 3 місяці тому +12

    Glad your mom likes Johnny

  • @darksider9534
    @darksider9534 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for being considerate Art for people who no longer have their mums around. I love the relationship you have with your mother, please cherish every moment you are able to spend with her and tell her much you love her! ❤

    • @artiomboy
      @artiomboy  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @jimbo6059
    @jimbo6059 3 місяці тому +1

    It's a windmill. They are used predominantly in the Netherlands to pump out water and keep the low lying areas safe from flooding.

  • @brendamusante9086
    @brendamusante9086 3 місяці тому +5

    Art, such a good kid visiting your Mom! Handsome twunkish twink ... only meant in the nicest way. Have a great trip! Best, Rich (& Brenda) 😊😊

  • @philstoll1157
    @philstoll1157 3 місяці тому +10

    lovely video with Mom! ❤

  • @DMTW
    @DMTW 3 місяці тому +7

    Art, since you mentioned you couldn't see your Mom for five years while living in the US. I assume that is was the wait for the Green Card. Now that you have the card, have you promptly applied for your citizenship? When you have your citizenship, it is very easy to sponsor your Mom to come over to live in the US permanently. Your fans and I look forward to that day when you have your boyfriend, best friend (short guy with big nose) and your mom in the same country.

  • @katherineraessyoung
    @katherineraessyoung 3 місяці тому +1

    So much love. You're so lucky to have such a sweet lovely Mother

  • @vicb5098
    @vicb5098 3 місяці тому +1

    Well. She certainly has some courage to be interviewed on a public forum. Bravo!

  • @anuarvonen
    @anuarvonen 3 місяці тому +9

    Lovely Family !!!! Always!!!! Lovely Ones!!!! Always!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️ Hugs!!!! Anu Suomi Finland 2024 ( Girl) ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️

  • @tonyn5699
    @tonyn5699 3 місяці тому +3

    You are the most amazing guy. So proud you are my friend

  • @MarkieAlonzo
    @MarkieAlonzo 2 місяці тому

    This is beautiful! Your mother is very beautiful and loving. Thank you for the reminder to always have the memories of mine. Hugs from sunny Arizona

  • @davidbrandt8704
    @davidbrandt8704 3 місяці тому +10

    Awesome and beautifully done you rock

    • @artiomboy
      @artiomboy  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @tonyn5699
    @tonyn5699 3 місяці тому +5

    Nothing more beautiful than a pic of field of tulips for the possible exception of a pic of you and your mon

  • @drone-time
    @drone-time 3 місяці тому +1

    Windmills are a sign of Amsterdam/Netherlands because they used them very effectively to drain the water from the land to make it into farmland. The wind powers the windmill which drives the pump that drains the fields. They used windmills to power all sorts of industries before the industrial revolution.

  • @chefjeff1000
    @chefjeff1000 3 місяці тому +4

    Such a wonderful story to share

  • @FABWaldorf
    @FABWaldorf 3 місяці тому +1

    Fergus Dublin Ireland
    Wonderful to see you with your Mother. Someday
    soon, you will be with her, when she moves to the
    U.S. Love,
    Fergus 😘

  • @miguellehman6951
    @miguellehman6951 3 місяці тому +1

    That was lovely ARTIOM boy....you have a loving mother and you are the best son..enjoy her company as long as you can. We only ever have one mother... Great VLOG and beautiful tulips .. that was a windmill I think you asked about... Thanks very much xxxxx😊😊😊

  • @BillHanson-wu4nh
    @BillHanson-wu4nh 3 місяці тому +1

    Art such a sweet video. And that thing you saw in the garden was a windmill which creates energy most likely to pump water.

    • @BillHanson-wu4nh
      @BillHanson-wu4nh 3 місяці тому

      Always happy to see you Been following since Chicago LA and Austin Texas days. So much growth it's beautiful to witness.

  • @Studycase3000
    @Studycase3000 3 місяці тому +1

    League of Champions (she meant the free, out gay community I assume) Mom gets a FULL pass and pardon, even Ally certified for all the love she has for her baba/son. to her❤

  • @drdem00
    @drdem00 3 місяці тому +1

    This has got to be my favorite episode yet Forcing my partner to watch it. LOL !!! By the way who's ever Moderator here ? Can we see if my Pumpkin Club came through ? Sorry I'm terrible at stuff like that Big Thanks !!!
    Jerry

  • @donnieharper4735
    @donnieharper4735 3 місяці тому +1

    WHAT A WONDERFUL VIDEO WITH YOUR MOM AND YOUR MOST BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE AT THE END ❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!!

  • @cityguyusa
    @cityguyusa 3 місяці тому +5

    Rain in Amasterdam? Who knew? Who didm't know?

  • @BadWolffff
    @BadWolffff 2 місяці тому

    The Keukenhof! It’s lovely there, if a bit touristy.

  • @kjc160
    @kjc160 3 місяці тому +7

    Sweet vlog ❤❤❤

  • @warrenpaine
    @warrenpaine 3 місяці тому +1

    Your Mom did a very good job of raising you. I'm sure she's very proud of you.

  • @victordepaul1061
    @victordepaul1061 3 місяці тому

    Just watched your video. Sorry I missed the premiere and the live chat but I never got a notification like usual plus I had family over for dinner. Happy to see you and your mom together again Art.🥰🥰🥰

  • @calvind2054
    @calvind2054 3 місяці тому

    Your mom is very beautiful and she looks so young. I look forward to the day she gets to come to America and meet Johnny. It will be an exciting time.

  • @warrenpaine
    @warrenpaine 3 місяці тому +1

    6:05 I may never get to the Netherlands but thanks to this video I feel like I got a little taste of what it is like to be there.

  • @Papa_Joe6
    @Papa_Joe6 3 місяці тому +6

    Holy Moly 🫣😱🤣

  • @marioprivacy9411
    @marioprivacy9411 3 місяці тому +1

    Well Done, Art...
    This was a while ago, Easter 2024 in Amsterdam(?)
    I hope you've recovered a bit from the Dutch.
    Keep vlogging...

  • @vatodiablo
    @vatodiablo 3 місяці тому

    If you like looking at windows, see Alfred Hitchkock's Rear Window with James Stewart and Grace Kelly! I lost my mom in 2014, but several years before that to dementia, the slow death. Like yours to you, my mom was my rock.

  • @Dallas-214
    @Dallas-214 3 місяці тому +4

    Mom❤❤❤❤

  • @willem9538
    @willem9538 3 місяці тому

    If you want to be able to have a great queer experience in Amsterdam, come for the Milkshake festival. Takes place annually the weekend before the pride parade.

  • @charlie619-fz4gv
    @charlie619-fz4gv 3 місяці тому +4

    This was very. sweet.!❤

  • @Jackson-g4u
    @Jackson-g4u 3 місяці тому +1

    > for what it's worth, i have been several times to Eagle Blue in Tokyo - it is lots of fun, very friendly bar, easy for foreigners to spend a couple hours, very welcoming bartenders ~

    • @Jackson-g4u
      @Jackson-g4u 3 місяці тому +1

      we lost my mom just before covid - i miss her every day - thank you for this touching video tribute to your mother's dedication to you ~

  • @АняЯкубовская-ш4щ
    @АняЯкубовская-ш4щ 3 місяці тому +2

    Спасибо огромное Артёму
    Безрукавенко за интересную беседу с его мамой ведь обычно родители плохо реагируют на то что их сын гей во всяком случае в России и вообще на пространстве бывшего СССР
    То есть даже к дочери лесбиянке отнесутся более снисходительно если только не в Чечне Дагестане и вообще не на Кавказе и в средней Азии

  • @jeffreyolson4508
    @jeffreyolson4508 2 місяці тому

    You and Johnny should come to Albuqueque in the beginning October for Balloon Fiesta!! Hundreds of hot air balloons flying every day for over a week!!!

  • @BrandonCallifornia
    @BrandonCallifornia 3 місяці тому

    Windmills and tulips, as, wooden shoes and cheese are the signs for Netherlands 🇳🇱 🎉

  • @Matt_H2O
    @Matt_H2O 3 місяці тому

    So beautiful. Thank you Art, for sharing this experience. Your mom is so lovely. 💖💖🌈🌈
    420 - you know what time it is 🤣

  • @danielsiqueiros2016
    @danielsiqueiros2016 3 місяці тому

    Dank u, I too miss Amsterdam. I think this may be the year I return.

  • @beastscooter
    @beastscooter 3 місяці тому +1

    I have such anxiety over people who write and post comments on YT videos! Oh wait....!

  • @allanxxxxxxxx
    @allanxxxxxxxx 2 місяці тому

    Hi Art a bit sad vlog when you look into the reason why all this has happened due to the war starting in 2014 and you leave your home and mum from Ukraine Donetsk you have a wonderful mother and all the best and hope your mum gets to see you in the USA

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 3 місяці тому

    What a beautiful video you and your beautiful mother ❤😊

  • @ernestosuarez1617
    @ernestosuarez1617 3 місяці тому +3

  • @jrome9825
    @jrome9825 3 місяці тому

    Omg your such a inspiration for me starting a youtube channel soon❤

  • @joseantoniovelilla7807
    @joseantoniovelilla7807 3 місяці тому +1

    Beutiful voyage ❤

  • @kevingirard7844
    @kevingirard7844 3 місяці тому

    Your mom is so pretty Art. Was the Windmill the item on the tour that you were asking what the name of?

  • @tonyn5699
    @tonyn5699 3 місяці тому +2

    Mom

  • @keithgale1641
    @keithgale1641 3 місяці тому

    Great video Art. ❤

  • @AnaStevenTravel
    @AnaStevenTravel 3 місяці тому

    Very Nice. Our Amsterdam trip was amazing. Its online

  • @ricardotongol567
    @ricardotongol567 3 місяці тому +4

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Sameer_gaming5915
    @Sameer_gaming5915 3 місяці тому

    Great mother

  • @abitztv1165
    @abitztv1165 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing this video, watching from Philippines ❤️.

  • @charlesritt5088
    @charlesritt5088 3 місяці тому

    You look really good in glasses

  • @ottogray4699
    @ottogray4699 3 місяці тому +2

    Windmill

  • @davesimon1257
    @davesimon1257 3 місяці тому +1

    Ok❤❤❤

  • @davesimon1257
    @davesimon1257 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤absolutely beautiful work ❤❤

  • @АняЯкубовская-ш4щ
    @АняЯкубовская-ш4щ 3 місяці тому +2

    Очень хорошо что Артём
    Безрукавенко находится в США и посещает такие страны как Нидерланды ведь если бы он жил в России ему пришлось бы несладко
    Да и в Украине я думаю не лучше
    Тем более это всё усугубляется войной между этими странами так что друзья мои нет войне с Украиной и Россия будет свободной

  • @alfredbonnabel7022
    @alfredbonnabel7022 3 місяці тому +2

    Are you with the original boyfriend?

  • @darronroberts9765
    @darronroberts9765 3 місяці тому

    Ĺove mum sometimes ignorance is bliss ..... just love your boy and screw the rest of the world .. politics and politically correct is as honest as arts mum

  • @austintidwell5493
    @austintidwell5493 3 місяці тому

    I am single and looking for a boyfriend

  • @daanjr175
    @daanjr175 3 місяці тому

    Im from Amsterdam does your mother live there?

    • @artiomboy
      @artiomboy  3 місяці тому +1

      She lives in Poland

  • @hailcob494
    @hailcob494 3 місяці тому

    Click bait title 😵‍💫

  • @BJ-xh8tg
    @BJ-xh8tg 3 місяці тому

    1:20 "...ask her in Russian..? Aren't you both Ukrainian ?

    • @gregoryshawn100
      @gregoryshawn100 3 місяці тому +1

      They are from the Donetsk region (eastern Ukraine) where most people speak Russian as their first language.

  • @bobbyemberger7223
    @bobbyemberger7223 3 місяці тому

    Hi all those is bob how yu all doing

  • @MichaelJames-z2e
    @MichaelJames-z2e 3 місяці тому

    What a drama queen. I mean there was such an exaggeration when you wrote the video title as "confront my mom". However, there was nothing to confront she's already accepted you.

  • @juststiv9550
    @juststiv9550 3 місяці тому

    Хороший русский язык 😊😅

  • @ВиталийКоршак-д1к
    @ВиталийКоршак-д1к 3 місяці тому

    Этот красивый паренёк, феноменален! Русский знает в совершенстве, мову тоже, польский, в совершенстве! А английский, будто он роджен не обоятельной русской, или украинской, а английской мамой!

  • @romankuzawinski
    @romankuzawinski 3 місяці тому

    Art You hare a Beautifil mother 10 moths have passed since my mother died loved my mother very much Mainem ROMAN From WARSAW POLAND

  • @davidandtom8238
    @davidandtom8238 2 місяці тому

    SUGAR DADDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT B/F!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!