I just found this in my recommended, and I got to say, I LOVE IT.It also reminds me of another artist called "In love with a ghost",with the long titles and everything.
Simply Ebic Men and women can both feel emotions such as love. you're being unrealistic when you said women can't feel that emotion. Maybe the ones that you have met in the past didn't look like they were able to love but I'm pretty sure every women feels emotions such as love (unless they have a mental illness that is preventing them from loving other people.) I'm a woman, all of my siblings are women, my mom is a woman, and i have lots of female friends. And all of us can feel emotions.
my love life is pretty shit. I'm still recovering from an abusive partner who'd threatened to kill himself if I left him, but he never stopped cheating on me either. I'm slowly getting better, and i want to love again.
Choux that sucks you seems like such a nice person! I hope that you recover soon and feel better trust me it'll get better I'm kinda going through the same thing although it's with my parents and my gender.
xXBAKA BOYXx thank you :,) with help from my friends, I have been feeling a lot better. but the trauma still weighs heavy on my mind sometimes. and I have many friends struggling with the same issue, I hope one day your parents will be able to accept your identity! in the meantime, remember that a lot of people support you! (っ´ω`)ﾉ
Wolf Grey I should have gone through with the breakup, but I was too nice back then. he was also my first boyfriend, so that certainly didn't help matters either haha I'm sorry to hear your ex was equally terrible! honestly, your story is pretty much like mine, except my ex didn't bother hiding the fact that he was messing around with his friends. in fact, he actually manipulated me into thinking that because he was honest about it, it must have been okay and that if I didn't accept it, I was being unreasonable. as much as I don't want to ever experience that heartbreak again, I think it's worth trusting people again. there might be lots of shitty people out there, but that just makes the good ones stand out even more, yknow?
there is love everywhere, even in desperate times and struggles. love will find you. i hope to those who arent having such a good time right now know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that there is hope for you. ::) i hope you all feel better
I don't know what this is, but its amazing. It makes me feel this overwhelming sense of content melancholy. It has this sort of...place-less-ness about it. Kinda alleviates that boxed-in, snow globe-like feeling that you get after awhile. Like a drug almost. Thank you so much for this.
Well my love life sucks. I know this boy. He's perfect. He's beautiful, inside and out. But my anxiety/sadness is taking over. I'm slowly drifting away. And it hurts to see someone I love slowly drift away as if nothing ever happened. I love him. I want him to know, but I'm not one to show emotions. He always makes me feel warm and fuzzy and good and relaxed and content with life. But that's creepy to say aloud. So for now I will just keep my thoughts locked away. But it is a dream to dream of him, and then wake up next to him.
Just wanna share: nobody's perfect. If you're expecting them to be, then be careful, you're putting them on a pedestal, and the distance can ruin a good relationship.
If you're reading this, I hope you find the love you deserve one day if you didn't already because you deserve more than the universe can ever offer :)
this is late but thank you for this i really needed it. if you haven't found that love yet then i hope you find it too because you definitely deserve it as well
I recently messaged an ex of mine; I sent him a long message stating that I am sorry that I ended the relationship the way I did. I felt like I played him. I felt like the way I handled things were cruel, but the problem was I didn't realize I was hurting him. I was too young and immature. He was my first boyfriend and I was excited at the idea that I was wanted. I waited almost a full month for him to text me back. He looked at the message right away. It took him a month. I was excited when he finally messaged me back. I wasn't looking for a relationship, I simply wanted to catch up. He will always have a special place in my heart, and I will always be partial to him. I talked to him about my current relationship. It was only brief. I asked him about his love life and I think he took it the wrong way. I was curious. He isn't with a very nice girl and I feel sort of broken. I want the best for him, and I don't want him to get hurt. I know it isn't my place to meddle, so I feel stuck, as if I am watching a show and cannot do anything about the outcome. I leave to go visit my current boyfriend in five days (he lives in Germany, and I in America) and I want to keep in touch with my ex but I feel like that isn't a good idea. I am torn with what to do. We have grown up so different. Our relationship was when I was an 8th grader, and I am about to be a senior. He just graduated. He is dating an 8th grader who is soon to be a freshman. I hate to see him do something stupid like that, you know? I don't know...
Maddy Mack it's okay to stay in contact with him. Just treat him kindly, ask him about his day occasionally, say you're sorry if you feel you did something wrong in the past to him. Hopefully, he will realize what kind of girl he's currently dating and break away to be happy. Hold him close but not too close. Arms length friend. Healing and catching up and learning to trust someone again takes time. Please be patient with him and just be there when he needs you as a friend. Things will be better.
I've learned that this music can be interpreted for a sad or a happy mood. I haven't been having the best past few months and a couple of nights ago this really fitted my sad mood. but today I started getting a bit more social again and started to chat to a chick again that I've liked for a while now and this also seems to fit my cheery mood. this'll probs get lost in comments but oh well, fuck it. I really like Jenny.
5 years of my life spent with someone who never truly loved me romantically. He's my best friend still but it sucks he couldn't tell me sooner. I feel like everything happened how it did for a reason but I can't help but feel like I spent so much time and energy hoping for a future he knew would never happen.
Miatrice just tell him yo. If he doesn't reciprocate then at least you won't have to see him all the time. My boytoy just left me for his girl best friend of four years. He'd had those feelings all this time. We dated for two months. It was my first experience. We both felt like it had the potential to grow, but he was hung up on her so he could never give me what I deserved. You have to try. Get your feelings out there in the open. Then you can move on. I wish he'd told me about his feelings for this girl way before. I could have been his friend sooner.
Miatrice if you like him so much,he is probably understanding... if he is not interested,like I said above he will probably understand and just be friends with him :^) just... do it,try,don't regret,Im not telling you no bullshit... except he can't understand that and is the type of guy to lose contact after a confession (not saying you shouldn't,I mean I don't know shit about who he is)
that was our mistake, we both trusted enough to lend each other our brain, and as we unraveled our thoughts, promises were lost, left with unanswered questions, not even the secrets of the universe can compare, we were the answer, but we decided to both let go, unanswered
About my love life, there's a girl who I'd like to know more about and spend more time with. We went out this one time and i can tell we both enjoyed ourselves. Now , I can't seem to stop thinking about her. I cant decide if I should ask her out again because I will be leaving soon to another country for a few years for my studies. I don't want to break her heart or strain our friendship with a long distance relationship, more so without a strong foundation built (I'm not sure if "foundation" is the best word) So yeah. Either I tell her how I feel and go on taking my chances with her OR I let my feelings fade. Hey, thanks for reading. Please enjoy the music :)
My love life is good right now. One month ago my boyfriend and me broke up (partly because the love life was shit) and now I met a guy who is now my friend with benefits. It's good to not be in a relationship but still having fun. Relationships can be cool but right now it's not the right thing for me. Update: I now have two friends with benefits (ok it's more like small talk and benefits) but i like it. I just hate how my best friend (a guy) calls me "b*tch" now but hooks up in every party with different people.
He (your best friend) might just love you aswell and get jealous about those guys. Ever thought about it? Maybe he senses that you won't give him a chance and tries to hook up with girls to ignore the fact that you're not in reach for him. Boys do cry aswell.
visualizing an entire future with this person. seeing the faces of your children and hearing their cute laughs. head dizzy as you close your eyes and see your spouse playing with your children. being able to feel the warmth of a house filled with the happiness of your small little family. then opening your eyes and realizing it’s all in your head. they would never feel the same way towards you and you know this because you have exposed yourself. you let the vulnerable side of you escape. now you regret it but you have no idea how to stop. day after day, the mind that was once so reluctant to love a soul, suddenly is overwhelmed by the presence of this person. the one that gives your butterflies every time you think about them. the two of you haven’t even met yet, that’s crazy.
my girlfriend (who i met in middle school and had been dating for six years) passed away in a car accident two years ago, haven't felt any semblance of any type (including family or friendship) love since then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
She would have wanted you to grow and love, im incredibly sorry for your loss but I don’t believe she would have wanted to chain you down, it’s up to you to come to terms with that. I understand what you’re going through. I really fucking do. Love is never temporary and neither is a person, so get yourself out there, in respect for yourself and your ex girlfriend.
My love life ? Probably best part of my life, currently dating a beautiful person for now more than 2 years and before we were friends for 5 years. Next year going to China for School Exchange so I'm gonna miss them deeply for 5 months. I left their home 5 hours ago and I miss them already heh how are we gonna do that haha Btw thank you for your remix, I love listening to that kind of music while studying !
This is great, lovely music to listen to while writing. Not homework, I mean I'm sure that's fine too, but writing for the sake clearing your thoughts or something. Anyway, thank you :)
My love life is fucking bad right now. I lost my father and got crazy about this, said alot of shit for the girl i love and dumped her, i tryied to go back and she said dont want to see me never again in her life, im going out with some other girls but i can't focus it isnt the same, i just want my love back. I changed for a best version of mylself, now i understand what was wrong. BTW thanks fot the sets dude, you rocks.
I'm usually an happy extroverted person. Lately I've been put down by some thing, although I don't know what it is. I just come onto old lofi mixes and let my feelings out sometimes, I do it on the old ones cause not many people look at the same comment section over and over again, well, thanks for reading. Lovely.
lol hi. Lofi tends to be a safe space. I used to be more of an extrovert when I was young then I had some trauma from a few different sources and I kinda lost my way for a long while, but I’m getting back to talking more and opening up. I started with the comment section of old posts too. Just know you are welcome and appreciated here. Good luck stranger
Apologies for being late to the party. I have something to share. I am in love with a perfect person. Obviously, no one is really perfect but... To me, she is the very definition of it. Everything she does has this elegance to it, and it's easy to be drawn in. As great as she sounds, being in love with her is the most bittersweet thing I can think of. To love someone who most likely does not return my feelings, it really leaves an ache in my heart. Everything is so complicated, yet still so simple. I don't even know if she can tell that I have feelings for her, that I would give up so much just to be with her. Perhaps she is pitying me. Perhaps I'm pitying myself. I don't know why I continue to go down this path, a road with no real end. Where is my mind going? I should stop now, as I have rambled enough. Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this, even if it's hard to follow. You all have a wonderful day now.
I'm one of those "cliche people" who never had a love life but are dreaming of having one : i often dream about how great it would feel to have somebody who actually cares about me and thinks of me, somebody who loves me whatever i do even if it's embarasing for most people, somebody to whisper me sweet words under the stars, somebody to play my favorite video game with until the sun comes up, somebody to wipe my tears and tell me it's okay when i'm feeling down, but mostly somebody who i could say i love you and would say it back. I keep telling myself that someday this person will finally come into my life and make this dream come true but i've reached my 16th year two days ago and i just keep asking myself : is it because i'm not pretty enough ? is it because i'm too shy ? Is it because i'm not perfect ? *What is wrong with me ?* And honestly it's 3:39 am, my eyes are all puffy from the crying i don't even know if someone will read this comment in the comment section of a 2 years old video whatever i just need somebody to please tell me that i'm alright that i will find that love. I just need a *i love you*. Anyway you said you feel bad what's the matter ?
I told myself I was incapable of love. Then it hit me hard one time. I can say it was a very magical feeling. It lasted a while then we had to break it off. It shattered me, leaving me broken. I'd like to stay incapable of loving after that :')
I'd like to be that one relatable person and say that my love life is shit, but it's actually going really well. I started dating my best friend a few months ago
I've always kinda had a feel for these kind of videos they have a kinda deep meaning but have such a nice upbeat sound and it's just so simple too it's great
well, I was feeling quite down and just laying on a floor, but the world sends me this... and I smile. ❤️the world, ahaha ha don't let em ruin it for ya
I love the way I feel when I listen to this music. It makes me reflect back on my life and then I focus on the sad stuff and then I realize that without it my life wouldn't have a story to it or a meaning because it wouldn't have a problem making there no goal to reach, then the music makes me feel relaxed and want to be with the people I love and just have a meaningful conversation with them.
Abandonment issues from a messy divorce between my parents and my dad killing himself have ruined any chance of a love life for me. Even though I've never been in a toxic relationship, I'm scared that someday I may trap myself in one. Or that a similar situation that my parents went through will happen to me and I never want that shit in my life ever again. And even then, I just don't feel any kind of spark towards anyone, even if they are the kind of person I'd be head over heels for. It sucks because I WANT a meaningful relationship. I want it so badly. But I can't.
The Anime Obsessor you will find someone someday okay? Feelings take time and can be towards the most unlikely people but it does happen. You are worthy and deserving of love. It's okay to have abandonment issues. That's nothing to be ashamed of. You are wonderful (:
welp got a girl but she wasn't sure abt it, but somehow manage to love another, now empty without a thought as she left me for some other, as she walks out, another came in, bright beautiful smile, only a fool fall for it, and i did, another walk out , and now im lone sitting, falling deep into the subconscious gutter.
My love life is fucked :) let me tell you why it sucks broke up with a dude who thinks I have no clue that he's playing mind games But I'm playing back ;) I ought to be ashamed. I know I won't find somebody til I learn to love myself... But it would be better if I had somebody who could help...
I honestly felt the same, the thing that happened to me was I began to little by little love myself, but I was still weak. Then I met this boy who honestly helped me so much more. Its not good hat I needed him but Idk people are different we need different things
exactly... when I was in love i did tend to feel better about myself, but before that I felt good about myself before a boy, just slowly i think heartbreak made me feel bad about myself tbh xD ... Im talking to this guy now who makes me feel better and it does help somewhat. It's positive affirmations.
My love life is good, fell in love with a girl 4 years ago, loved her to death, she left me. We got back together a year ago. i find myself not giving her attention she deserves or enough love, not prioritizing her in my daily schedule. Ignoring her a lot and feeling like an asshole for doing that. She left me four years ago despite being addicted to her and now that I don't shower her with love she stays with me. Weird world. It's not just her, in all honesty I stopped feeling romantically in love with anyone ever since she left me 4 years ago. I am with her now in a healthy relationship, but I can't say I love her as I once did or fell in love with anyone ever since that day she left me. I can't fall in love anymore. True love is a once in a life time thing. True love when you feel you would die without the other. When that other abandons you your heart breaks and you can no longer love again. Or so was my case.
Zyreth Z that's okay. Feelings come and go. If she makes you happy, stay with her. Hold her close. Sometimes feelings don't appear as a strange twinge in your heart. Your body can be aware of it but not your mind and that's perfectly okay. If you want her to stay around then let her. But always remember you have a right to be happy. And if being by yourself is what makes you happy, then do it if you truly feel like you need it. It'll be alright. I promise.
everyone’s talking about their love life in the comments, so let me tell you about mine. I used to be in love with this girl. she was my first love. we dated in middle school and very early high school. I was convinced we would never end despite how toxic our relationship could be. I just loved her too much to ever even consider losing her as an option. she and I were very serious for our age. she had a bright blue pixie cut and big glasses which she only wore half of the time. she was fairly pale and had a lot of freckles. she laughed too loud, she spoke with no remorse, she was bold and so adventurous. she got me out of my comfort zone. we were mad. madly in love, but also mad at the world...together. we went through our rebellious phase together. it was an exhilarating time of my life. whenever I pass the old abandoned building we hung out at and graffitied I feel so nostalgic. so many places in town hold memories with her bc all we did was go out and cause trouble together. but of course, a crazy love ended with a feast breakup. she was very controlling and threatened to kill herself a lot. I was too blinded by love to let her go. I refused to. eventually she decided she couldn’t keep hurting me bc the pain became more prevalent than the love and the happiness. after we broke up a boy I confided in tried to use me. he took me to the woods and we drank alcohol together and I was upset. I was ranting and I needed comfort. we cuddled, but that’s all I wanted from it. he tried groping me and I started bawling my eyes out and we never spoke or hung out again after that. a few days later I find out that he made out with my ex in public. I tried asking her friend about it and her friend told my ex I was asking, she messaged me being very rude and hostile. I was only going to warn her...he went to my ex after I rejected him. he was petty. she was going to get used. but after she decided to curse me out before even listening to me I blocked her and we never spoke again...until this year, much much later in my high school days. she reached out to me to apologize for our past and thanked me for everything I had ever done for her. she said if it wasn’t for me she wasn’t sure what would’ve happened to her. I forgave her then. for it all. at least I helped her out, you know? she didn’t deserve to fall down the wrong path and she definitely would’ve if i hadn’t helped. it was nice knowing I wasn’t useless, that my efforts mattered. they may not have mattered to her then, but they did in the future. everything you do matters. your impact on ppl matters. what you say, what you do. I thought it didn’t bc she never acknowledged my efforts, but when she did I was glad. I wasn’t so hurt and angry and resentful anymore. I was the one who ultimately got screwed over, but I did get taught a few lessons and had a good first experience. love doesn’t have to last to be love. love can be painful, love can be fleeting. love comes in various forms. I learned yet another form of love recently. one of my childhood best friends and I connected romantically. it’s been beautiful and passionate. and so much more mature. he’s always been there for me, he’s seen me evolve as a person for years and years. he’s seen every undesirable side of me and still loves me to his fullest extent. he would go to the ends of earth for me and I would do the same for him no questions asked. this love is teaching me what real commitment feels like. we exchanged our promise rings recently and we have plans to get apartment together after we graduate. we have plans for the far far future. this boy has loved me since the seventh grade and I don’t doubt that he’ll love me well into my old age as well. he’s my perfect fit and I thank god or whatever is out there for blessing me with him. he’s not just my boyfriend, he’s my best friend. I want to tell him everything before anyone else whether it’s the best news ever or the worst news in the world. he’s my stability, he’s my rock. and whether I realized it or not, he always has been 💛
Honestly cant believe its taken me this long to post this; but thanks for the mix. it's gotten me through some pretty rough days and it's made the great days even better. Cheers!
I just want a girl who can be my friend, Not somebody who is obligated to love me because I love them too and not get in fights when I feel their love isn't enough, Somebody who isn't afraid to lock themselves in a room with me knowing that i'm not interested in love, just a friend.
A friend with whom to play video games, laugh together, talk about things that both enjoy, one to open your heart when you want ... A good friend, huh? I want one too ...
i think i finally met someone who really cares for me and its so fucking beautiful, guys. makes me fell special and shit, its great. it feels like this is all i ever wanted, you know? someone i really really care, want and love that don't leave any doubts about how i'm also cared, wanted and loved. life really is worth it.
I haven't fallen in love. I've liked a few people here and there, but they seemed to take advantage of my feelings. So now I'm just going with the flow I guess. Good luck out there to everyone having a hard time with relationships, or even those who are smooth sailing. And it's okay to be single♡
Since everyone is sharing...My love life feels very complicated, especially for someone my age..A lot of my friends are worried about me thinking I'm getting sucked into having Stockholm syndrome..Reason being the person I love makes my life a little complicated.. I love them but I've cried so many times over the things they've said to me and made me go through..They make me feel like I can't leave the house or spend time with my friends or go out and do things I enjoy, and when i do, they're not interested in hearing about how it went or the pictures I took.. it makes me feel uninteresting and sad.. because they're the first person I want to tell.. but they're the last person who wants to hear. I think they have a personality disorder and depend on me greatly because of it. They're not aware of this, and I'm not really sure what to do.. we're currently "not dating" but we still say I love you.. I still feel so anchored to them, it kind of hurts when I can't kiss them because of this "not dating" situation. I want to say these things to him but I'm not courageous enough.I'm scared of making him upset or hurting him because i care about him.. but I just keep telling myself that I need to be able to live my life freely and breathe.. The reason I haven't broken up with them is because I feel like they're growing to teach themselves to be independent while still being happy in life. I feel like I'm helping that. I feel like through time things will be okay, but at the same time i keep getting scared that things will never change.They're kind to me.. but I still feel so.. empty handed? I feel like I'm giving it my all while they give it their.. as much as they feel like it? I feel like they have more control over my life than in my own relationship and I don't really know what to do.. I just know one of these days ill get the courage and the moment to tell them how I feel in all of this.. I don't want to leave them.. but I'm scared of our future..I just hope its a good one..
Wolfie sun Oh, this doesn't sound good. I don't know your exact situation but from my experience I can say that ending a relationship in which you feel sad is the right thing to do. You don't owe them anything if they make you feel so bad. I hope you make a decision that you are happy with and have a good future.
I feel like this with everyone. I don't like to let go of people either. Recently I had to let go of someone I truly wanted and wished and hoped I could fix and make happy again... but I couldn't. If you really really love them, encourage them to get help. If they refuse and become angry, then please distance yourself from them. I know this seems terrible to say but they need to be away from you in order to really gain independence. I'm proud of you for being so kind. But please, take care of yourself too okay friend? ♡♡♡
mine is pretty fucked up broke with my girl once again, she thinks I did everythin I did to control her, to hurt her, fuck it. it ain't true... i wanna talk to her, tell her everythin i feel but i know it ain't the time and waiting is killing me internally. this feeling of losing someone you love because of a missunderstanding... when both parts don't pay the rescue of the relationship it ends up sunk... damn... i love her and im sure she loves me, but why do we hurt ourselves so much?
first mix... you guys want more?
Syros Hell Yeah!!💙
Syros yes please
nah.
Absolutely! Love what you do!!!
Oh fuck yeah
at first I thought the UA-cam notification was a text. got me scared
LOL
Willy Bumbum same I was like wtf😂
Willy Bumbum same 😂😂
love how everyone else is saying same when they know thats a lie 👌
sAME
When UA-cam recommends something posted 7 minutes ago... And it's awesome.
When youtube tells you that this video was posted less than a minute ago... And you're not even subscribed. And the video is a month old.
Renegade5o same happen now
The artist for the picture is Illya Kuvshinov.
Mr. Ambiguous 👌👌👌 an angel
thank you!
Mr. Ambiguous lol thanks I think it has the link the description too I'm not too sure
Anna-Marie Lange ilya is a dude i think
Mr. Ambiguous omg yas! I follow her on insta.Such talented artist!
Don't feel bad to ask me how's my love life going, but feel terrible knowing you did.
I'm high AF beat the S y s t e m
High as fuck and this hurt my heart
I'm high AF Im drunk as f and this is dope
I'm high AF wat
I'm high AF what love life? OOOHHH!! get fucking roasted toasted and 3 different kinds of chard. XD jk m8 love you.
by the way, I feel bad. I never told you how swell this sounds
Stella Stenla Nikko Nikko niiii
Omar Ramirez nikko nikko no. haha jk
Nico Nico I don't get the reference ;-;
Amateur Mango Nico nico kk
Zero Accords legend has it, he did suck him off
I just found this in my recommended, and I got to say, I LOVE IT.It also reminds me of another artist called "In love with a ghost",with the long titles and everything.
TheAustistic27 lol your pfp is from one of their videos I remember the Pokémon on the Starbucks looking cup
yesh its exactly like that artist i wonder if this person has ever heard them
TheAustistic27 haha - I actually thought this was one of their videos and they changed the channel name ;;
TheAustistic27 yess when i read the title i thought it was them
TheAustistic27 also reminds me of an artist called lophee? Thought it was the same guy for a second....
its 2023, funny Im still coming back here for that " by the way I feel bad" and the beats
i'm in love with someone that loves me back, and it feels great.
women cant feel emotions, such as love. sorry to be the one to break it to you
Simply Ebic lol you're so bitter 😂
im not being bitter im a gender realist
Simply Ebic Men and women can both feel emotions such as love. you're being unrealistic when you said women can't feel that emotion. Maybe the ones that you have met in the past didn't look like they were able to love but I'm pretty sure every women feels emotions such as love (unless they have a mental illness that is preventing them from loving other people.)
I'm a woman, all of my siblings are women, my mom is a woman, and i have lots of female friends. And all of us can feel emotions.
Simply Ebic Woah somebody broke your heart. You okay buddy?
5 years later this is still my favorite lofi
Same! 💕
same !!@@joy.limon_
my love life is pretty shit. I'm still recovering from an abusive partner who'd threatened to kill himself if I left him, but he never stopped cheating on me either. I'm slowly getting better, and i want to love again.
you will!
Choux Wish you well!
Choux that sucks you seems like such a nice person! I hope that you recover soon and feel better trust me it'll get better I'm kinda going through the same thing although it's with my parents and my gender.
xXBAKA BOYXx thank you :,) with help from my friends, I have been feeling a lot better. but the trauma still weighs heavy on my mind sometimes.
and I have many friends struggling with the same issue, I hope one day your parents will be able to accept your identity! in the meantime, remember that a lot of people support you! (っ´ω`)ﾉ
Wolf Grey I should have gone through with the breakup, but I was too nice back then. he was also my first boyfriend, so that certainly didn't help matters either haha
I'm sorry to hear your ex was equally terrible! honestly, your story is pretty much like mine, except my ex didn't bother hiding the fact that he was messing around with his friends. in fact, he actually manipulated me into thinking that because he was honest about it, it must have been okay and that if I didn't accept it, I was being unreasonable. as much as I don't want to ever experience that heartbreak again, I think it's worth trusting people again. there might be lots of shitty people out there, but that just makes the good ones stand out even more, yknow?
there is love everywhere, even in desperate times and struggles. love will find you.
i hope to those who arent having such a good time right now know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that there is hope for you. ::) i hope you all feel better
thanks
moegi Your words are so pleasant
much needed, thanks. same to you.
Maleah Donaldson ah no problem ! I'm glad :)
Luca 金 thank you :) faith will come to you as well :))
If anyone's curious about the quote its from "Love Actually".
I don't know what this is, but its amazing. It makes me feel this overwhelming sense of content melancholy. It has this sort of...place-less-ness about it. Kinda alleviates that boxed-in, snow globe-like feeling that you get after awhile. Like a drug almost. Thank you so much for this.
vanessa reynolds Content melancholy... perfect way to put it
My new forever mood- content melancholy
idk it feels melancholy and reminiscent but not happy or enjoyable. it's like a fake calm.
There are people who care about you and they always will, life is a gift don't waste it
In 500 years, probably less, no one will know who you or any of your friends are. And what happens on earth stays on earth.
LMAO
true
yeah, you're the man.
hard to believe especially when I care so much for someone
Well my love life sucks.
I know this boy.
He's perfect.
He's beautiful, inside and out.
But my anxiety/sadness is taking over.
I'm slowly drifting away.
And it hurts to see someone I love slowly drift away as if nothing ever happened.
I love him.
I want him to know, but I'm not one to show emotions.
He always makes me feel warm and fuzzy and good and relaxed and content with life.
But that's creepy to say aloud.
So for now I will just keep my thoughts locked away.
But it is a dream to dream of him, and then wake up next to him.
i hope you can tell him how you feel about him very soon :)
anyone can accomplish anything
wanna talk about it?
Audrey W If you want that situation to finish just ask him out
Just wanna share: nobody's perfect.
If you're expecting them to be, then be careful, you're putting them on a pedestal, and the distance can ruin a good relationship.
You think he's perfect because you dont know him well enough.
If you're reading this, I hope you find the love you deserve one day if you didn't already because you deserve more than the universe can ever offer :)
Rachel 💞💕thank you💕💞
this is late but thank you for this i really needed it. if you haven't found that love yet then i hope you find it too because you definitely deserve it as well
Suzanne Z awww you’re so welcome! I’m so happy that my words resonate with you and I hope that they gave you a bit of faith for what is to come :) 💗✨
I love this... listening to this since 2017.
Love you.
@@jsmxke7058 aww ty 💕
I recently messaged an ex of mine; I sent him a long message stating that I am sorry that I ended the relationship the way I did. I felt like I played him. I felt like the way I handled things were cruel, but the problem was I didn't realize I was hurting him. I was too young and immature. He was my first boyfriend and I was excited at the idea that I was wanted. I waited almost a full month for him to text me back. He looked at the message right away. It took him a month. I was excited when he finally messaged me back. I wasn't looking for a relationship, I simply wanted to catch up. He will always have a special place in my heart, and I will always be partial to him. I talked to him about my current relationship. It was only brief. I asked him about his love life and I think he took it the wrong way. I was curious. He isn't with a very nice girl and I feel sort of broken. I want the best for him, and I don't want him to get hurt. I know it isn't my place to meddle, so I feel stuck, as if I am watching a show and cannot do anything about the outcome. I leave to go visit my current boyfriend in five days (he lives in Germany, and I in America) and I want to keep in touch with my ex but I feel like that isn't a good idea. I am torn with what to do. We have grown up so different. Our relationship was when I was an 8th grader, and I am about to be a senior. He just graduated. He is dating an 8th grader who is soon to be a freshman. I hate to see him do something stupid like that, you know? I don't know...
Maddy Mack it's okay to stay in contact with him. Just treat him kindly, ask him about his day occasionally, say you're sorry if you feel you did something wrong in the past to him. Hopefully, he will realize what kind of girl he's currently dating and break away to be happy. Hold him close but not too close. Arms length friend. Healing and catching up and learning to trust someone again takes time. Please be patient with him and just be there when he needs you as a friend. Things will be better.
I've learned that this music can be interpreted for a sad or a happy mood. I haven't been having the best past few months and a couple of nights ago this really fitted my sad mood. but today I started getting a bit more social again and started to chat to a chick again that I've liked for a while now and this also seems to fit my cheery mood. this'll probs get lost in comments but oh well, fuck it. I really like Jenny.
Zachary Lyon That is good for you :)
Got any luck my dude?
How u doing fam
fire mix!
a checkmarked comment with only 23 likes and 0 replies (1 now) from 4 YEARS AGO??
Only 46 likes, damn
Btw bootleg boy, love your mixes
Love your mixes
i remember finding this in 2017, lifes sad asf because its so quick but these were definitely good times
when you realized the kid who said "by the way, I feel bad. I never asked you how your love life is going" was the voice of ferb from phineas and ferb
jamie Nice profile pic
lmao
You mean Thomas Brodie sangers or something?
Kretzschmeister it's from the movie "love actually"
Oh gawd, the mental images of ferb in a black jacket on stage with a mic singing this and dancing all smooth. Plz kill me
5 years of my life spent with someone who never truly loved me romantically. He's my best friend still but it sucks he couldn't tell me sooner. I feel like everything happened how it did for a reason but I can't help but feel like I spent so much time and energy hoping for a future he knew would never happen.
Mine was about to be 2 years. Same situation. I felt that and my heart sunk. We all deserve better
Right person at the wrong time. Nobody to blame but our lame fate
when you are now in love with a good friend and don't know what to do.. even though he lives far away. makes it even more difficult..
Miatrice just tell him yo. If he doesn't reciprocate then at least you won't have to see him all the time. My boytoy just left me for his girl best friend of four years. He'd had those feelings all this time. We dated for two months. It was my first experience. We both felt like it had the potential to grow, but he was hung up on her so he could never give me what I deserved. You have to try. Get your feelings out there in the open. Then you can move on. I wish he'd told me about his feelings for this girl way before. I could have been his friend sooner.
Miatrice
if you like him so much,he is probably understanding...
if he is not interested,like I said above he will probably understand and just be friends with him :^)
just...
do it,try,don't regret,Im not telling you no bullshit...
except he can't understand that and is the type of guy to lose contact after a confession
(not saying you shouldn't,I mean I don't know shit about who he is)
I only clicked cause of Ilya's art but ayy this is very serene
that was our mistake,
we both trusted enough to lend each other our brain,
and as we unraveled our thoughts,
promises were lost,
left with unanswered questions,
not even the secrets of the universe can compare,
we were the answer,
but we decided to both let go,
unanswered
By me
Blurryhs this is beautiful I want more of this from you
Rachel love it
Rachel Rabanales r u hitting on me
UA-cam actually recommend me something good. Wow.
ikr, not a clickbait buzzfeed video for once.
Milky Bath mood
About my love life, there's a girl who I'd like to know more about and spend more time with. We went out this one time and i can tell we both enjoyed ourselves. Now , I can't seem to stop thinking about her. I cant decide if I should ask her out again because I will be leaving soon to another country for a few years for my studies. I don't want to break her heart or strain our friendship with a long distance relationship, more so without a strong foundation built (I'm not sure if "foundation" is the best word)
So yeah. Either I tell her how I feel and go on taking my chances with her OR I let my feelings fade.
Hey, thanks for reading. Please enjoy the music :)
Steve Chang what happened
I hope you guys are doing well
Even thought it's 2 years latee
i love how pure this is. listening to this, not having a care in the world.
welp, my love life is swell thanks for asking.
to all of you reluctant about love, be patient and be kind to yourself.
My love life is good right now. One month ago my boyfriend and me broke up (partly because the love life was shit) and now I met a guy who is now my friend with benefits. It's good to not be in a relationship but still having fun.
Relationships can be cool but right now it's not the right thing for me.
Update: I now have two friends with benefits (ok it's more like small talk and benefits) but i like it.
I just hate how my best friend (a guy) calls me "b*tch" now but hooks up in every party with different people.
Das ist mein Name Good for you buddy. I'm glad to hear it
He (your best friend) might just love you aswell and get jealous about those guys. Ever thought about it? Maybe he senses that you won't give him a chance and tries to hook up with girls to ignore the fact that you're not in reach for him. Boys do cry aswell.
why these comments full of damn poets
le lo roses are red,
Violets are blue.
Spaghetti.
wanna talk about it
roses are red
mom's spaghetti
400 lb florida man self-circumsized with a machete
i thought that said dumb poets, but i still agree
le lo Because this community is awesome. We share our feelings.
visualizing an entire future with this person. seeing the faces of your children and hearing their cute laughs. head dizzy as you close your eyes and see your spouse playing with your children. being able to feel the warmth of a house filled with the happiness of your small little family. then opening your eyes and realizing it’s all in your head. they would never feel the same way towards you and you know this because you have exposed yourself. you let the vulnerable side of you escape. now you regret it but you have no idea how to stop. day after day, the mind that was once so reluctant to love a soul, suddenly is overwhelmed by the presence of this person. the one that gives your butterflies every time you think about them. the two of you haven’t even met yet, that’s crazy.
I LOVE THE TALKING IN THE BEGINNING OmG
I used to listen to this in elementary school. I miss those days.
I'm so hungover at a friends house and this is beautiful and doesn't make me sick so thank you
Yes Now I hope you feel better now!
These tracks don’t even make me feel sad, just chill
i love love actually
Like the movie? because that movie was ass
back in my 2017 feels and i love it so much
my girlfriend (who i met in middle school and had been dating for six years) passed away in a car accident two years ago, haven't felt any semblance of any type (including family or friendship) love since then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
...I am so sorry.
i’m so sorry for your loss. i hope you’re doing okay.
She would have wanted you to grow and love, im incredibly sorry for your loss but I don’t believe she would have wanted to chain you down, it’s up to you to come to terms with that. I understand what you’re going through. I really fucking do. Love is never temporary and neither is a person, so get yourself out there, in respect for yourself and your ex girlfriend.
I see your post is a year old but I really hope you found someone or something letting you cure and grow as a person to something bigger and better
This video is what got me into lofi almost 2 years ago, and will forever be my favorite mix and channel
i love it when im listening to this chill music then a rlly loud trivago ad comes on
this mix made me so happy, this is a genuine thank you, it's been a tough couple days
My love life ?
Probably best part of my life, currently dating a beautiful person for now more than 2 years and before we were friends for 5 years. Next year going to China for School Exchange so I'm gonna miss them deeply for 5 months. I left their home 5 hours ago and I miss them already heh how are we gonna do that haha
Btw thank you for your remix, I love listening to that kind of music while studying !
Ailin how's chine going so far?
Or could just be trying to keep their signifcant other's gender anonymous, ya never know :/
I hate to be like this, but how did the 5 months away work out?
Ailin I’m glad you’re happy. I hope you stay happy.
i used to listen to these all the time to read. i finally found this channel again, and it’s going to get me back into reading 💗
This channel is so underrated
Cant believe it’s been 3 years since I first heard this mix , it’s been one of my top favourites ever since
This is great, lovely music to listen to while writing. Not homework, I mean I'm sure that's fine too, but writing for the sake clearing your thoughts or something. Anyway, thank you :)
you're*
@@regularskeleton1752 "...writing for the sake of clearing you are thoughts.." so does that sound right to you
ive never listened to anything like this. im hooked. chill vibezz.
My love life is fucking bad right now. I lost my father and got crazy about this, said alot of shit for the girl i love and dumped her, i tryied to go back and she said dont want to see me never again in her life, im going out with some other girls but i can't focus it isnt the same, i just want my love back. I changed for a best version of mylself, now i understand what was wrong. BTW thanks fot the sets dude, you rocks.
I never get bored of this lofi.
4 years ago, I was in highschool when this dropped. Now I'm in the military. Things got better but I'm still working on what I want.
4 years later and I'm still bumping this🔥🔥🔥
u people seem like a nice group to coexist with
ikr, these comments make me feel safe
I'm usually an happy extroverted person. Lately I've been put down by some thing, although I don't know what it is. I just come onto old lofi mixes and let my feelings out sometimes, I do it on the old ones cause not many people look at the same comment section over and over again, well, thanks for reading. Lovely.
lol hi. Lofi tends to be a safe space. I used to be more of an extrovert when I was young then I had some trauma from a few different sources and I kinda lost my way for a long while, but I’m getting back to talking more and opening up. I started with the comment section of old posts too. Just know you are welcome and appreciated here. Good luck stranger
Make more of this or anything you feel fits, this is a masterpiece.
This piece of art was uploaded a few days after my first breakup. It was the first lofi set I'de ever heard, and is still my favorite.
Apologies for being late to the party. I have something to share.
I am in love with a perfect person. Obviously, no one is really perfect but... To me, she is the very definition of it. Everything she does has this elegance to it, and it's easy to be drawn in. As great as she sounds, being in love with her is the most bittersweet thing I can think of. To love someone who most likely does not return my feelings, it really leaves an ache in my heart. Everything is so complicated, yet still so simple. I don't even know if she can tell that I have feelings for her, that I would give up so much just to be with her. Perhaps she is pitying me. Perhaps I'm pitying myself. I don't know why I continue to go down this path, a road with no real end. Where is my mind going?
I should stop now, as I have rambled enough. Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this, even if it's hard to follow. You all have a wonderful day now.
Kyle Fawcett I think you're a beautiful lovely person who is worthy of anyone's love. I'm sure she loves you! Things will work out friend♡
soft and useless You know, for someone with "useless" in their name, that is the opposite of what you are. Thank you
Kyle Fawcett Pfff thank you...
ay I know I'm a bit late to the party but how are things?
hope it's going well till now...
I'm one of those "cliche people" who never had a love life but are dreaming of having one : i often dream about how great it would feel to have somebody who actually cares about me and thinks of me, somebody who loves me whatever i do even if it's embarasing for most people, somebody to whisper me sweet words under the stars, somebody to play my favorite video game with until the sun comes up, somebody to wipe my tears and tell me it's okay when i'm feeling down, but mostly somebody who i could say i love you and would say it back.
I keep telling myself that someday this person will finally come into my life and make this dream come true but i've reached my 16th year two days ago and i just keep asking myself : is it because i'm not pretty enough ? is it because i'm too shy ? Is it because i'm not perfect ? *What is wrong with me ?* And honestly it's 3:39 am, my eyes are all puffy from the crying i don't even know if someone will read this comment in the comment section of a 2 years old video whatever i just need somebody to please tell me that i'm alright that i will find that love. I just need a *i love you*.
Anyway you said you feel bad what's the matter ?
maybe i'm not capable of love
chloe mcentire I think you are. You are lovely friend
chloe mcentire You are. Even if you dont feel like you are.
I told myself I was incapable of love. Then it hit me hard one time. I can say it was a very magical feeling. It lasted a while then we had to break it off. It shattered me, leaving me broken.
I'd like to stay incapable of loving after that :')
Hopefully one day I will get to meet my soulmate and we can water the garden from their balcony.
i like that this music feels like a distant dream. Like childhood memories of Saturday mornings and lucky charms. Mom's loving smile.
I'd like to be that one relatable person and say that my love life is shit, but it's actually going really well. I started dating my best friend a few months ago
awww happy for you, buddy
I've always kinda had a feel for these kind of videos they have a kinda deep meaning but have such a nice upbeat sound and it's just so simple too it's great
well, I was feeling quite down and just laying on a floor, but
the world sends me this... and I smile. ❤️the world, ahaha ha
don't let em ruin it for ya
I love the way I feel when I listen to this music. It makes me reflect back on my life and then I focus on the sad stuff and then I realize that without it my life wouldn't have a story to it or a meaning because it wouldn't have a problem making there no goal to reach, then the music makes me feel relaxed and want to be with the people I love and just have a meaningful conversation with them.
okay but why did youtube just suggest me this? and why is this song perfectly describing my situation rn?
Abandonment issues from a messy divorce between my parents and my dad killing himself have ruined any chance of a love life for me. Even though I've never been in a toxic relationship, I'm scared that someday I may trap myself in one. Or that a similar situation that my parents went through will happen to me and I never want that shit in my life ever again.
And even then, I just don't feel any kind of spark towards anyone, even if they are the kind of person I'd be head over heels for. It sucks because I WANT a meaningful relationship. I want it so badly. But I can't.
The Anime Obsessor you will find someone someday okay? Feelings take time and can be towards the most unlikely people but it does happen. You are worthy and deserving of love. It's okay to have abandonment issues. That's nothing to be ashamed of. You are wonderful (:
sometimes i find music that represents how i feel that doesnt involve words and i have to say this is one of those songs
welp got a girl but she wasn't sure abt it,
but somehow manage to love another,
now empty without a thought as she left me for some other,
as she walks out,
another came in,
bright beautiful smile,
only a fool fall for it,
and i did,
another walk out ,
and now im lone sitting,
falling deep into the subconscious gutter.
listenin to this since its released and it still releases the same feelings I had back then
thanks syros
love is a lie people are pain life is suffering
m@ff why are we still here ..... just to suffer?
I agree but one day there will be people who will change that for us
YES
mostly
m@ff sigh
I love coming back to this.... it’s a bit of nostalgia I used to always listen in 8th grade...
My love life is pretty good, I've never dated someone
Divereh Good don't! Unless you know it's the one cause it hurts so bad...
I have a girl who's hitting on me but I don't want no serious relationship, I'm good by myself
Thank you for this music i am always stressed but when i hear to your music it just makes it go away please kept up the good work.
My love life is fucked :)
let me tell you why it sucks
broke up with a dude
who thinks I have no clue
that he's playing mind games
But I'm playing back ;) I ought to be ashamed.
I know I won't find somebody til I learn to love myself...
But it would be better if I had somebody who could help...
we're here for you. (if that wasn't figurative)
Nice poem. That's how I feel too
hi thanks 😖❤
I honestly felt the same, the thing that happened to me was I began to little by little love myself, but I was still weak. Then I met this boy who honestly helped me so much more. Its not good hat I needed him but Idk people are different we need different things
exactly... when I was in love i did tend to feel better about myself, but before that I felt good about myself before a boy, just slowly i think heartbreak made me feel bad about myself tbh xD ... Im talking to this guy now who makes me feel better and it does help somewhat. It's positive affirmations.
the art is perfect with this mix.. so relaxing
My love life is good, fell in love with a girl 4 years ago, loved her to death, she left me. We got back together a year ago. i find myself not giving her attention she deserves or enough love, not prioritizing her in my daily schedule. Ignoring her a lot and feeling like an asshole for doing that. She left me four years ago despite being addicted to her and now that I don't shower her with love she stays with me. Weird world. It's not just her, in all honesty I stopped feeling romantically in love with anyone ever since she left me 4 years ago. I am with her now in a healthy relationship, but I can't say I love her as I once did or fell in love with anyone ever since that day she left me. I can't fall in love anymore. True love is a once in a life time thing. True love when you feel you would die without the other. When that other abandons you your heart breaks and you can no longer love again. Or so was my case.
Zyreth Z that's okay. Feelings come and go. If she makes you happy, stay with her. Hold her close. Sometimes feelings don't appear as a strange twinge in your heart. Your body can be aware of it but not your mind and that's perfectly okay. If you want her to stay around then let her. But always remember you have a right to be happy. And if being by yourself is what makes you happy, then do it if you truly feel like you need it. It'll be alright. I promise.
Thank you, very much.
Zyreth Z you're welcome. I hope I helped some.
You did :)
THE CLOTHES IN THE PIC ARE SO PRETTY
everyone’s talking about their love life in the comments, so let me tell you about mine.
I used to be in love with this girl. she was my first love. we dated in middle school and very early high school. I was convinced we would never end despite how toxic our relationship could be. I just loved her too much to ever even consider losing her as an option. she and I were very serious for our age. she had a bright blue pixie cut and big glasses which she only wore half of the time. she was fairly pale and had a lot of freckles. she laughed too loud, she spoke with no remorse, she was bold and so adventurous. she got me out of my comfort zone. we were mad. madly in love, but also mad at the world...together. we went through our rebellious phase together. it was an exhilarating time of my life. whenever I pass the old abandoned building we hung out at and graffitied I feel so nostalgic. so many places in town hold memories with her bc all we did was go out and cause trouble together. but of course, a crazy love ended with a feast breakup. she was very controlling and threatened to kill herself a lot. I was too blinded by love to let her go. I refused to. eventually she decided she couldn’t keep hurting me bc the pain became more prevalent than the love and the happiness. after we broke up a boy I confided in tried to use me. he took me to the woods and we drank alcohol together and I was upset. I was ranting and I needed comfort. we cuddled, but that’s all I wanted from it. he tried groping me and I started bawling my eyes out and we never spoke or hung out again after that. a few days later I find out that he made out with my ex in public. I tried asking her friend about it and her friend told my ex I was asking, she messaged me being very rude and hostile. I was only going to warn her...he went to my ex after I rejected him. he was petty. she was going to get used. but after she decided to curse me out before even listening to me I blocked her and we never spoke again...until this year, much much later in my high school days. she reached out to me to apologize for our past and thanked me for everything I had ever done for her. she said if it wasn’t for me she wasn’t sure what would’ve happened to her. I forgave her then. for it all. at least I helped her out, you know? she didn’t deserve to fall down the wrong path and she definitely would’ve if i hadn’t helped. it was nice knowing I wasn’t useless, that my efforts mattered. they may not have mattered to her then, but they did in the future. everything you do matters. your impact on ppl matters. what you say, what you do. I thought it didn’t bc she never acknowledged my efforts, but when she did I was glad. I wasn’t so hurt and angry and resentful anymore. I was the one who ultimately got screwed over, but I did get taught a few lessons and had a good first experience. love doesn’t have to last to be love. love can be painful, love can be fleeting. love comes in various forms.
I learned yet another form of love recently. one of my childhood best friends and I connected romantically. it’s been beautiful and passionate. and so much more mature. he’s always been there for me, he’s seen me evolve as a person for years and years. he’s seen every undesirable side of me and still loves me to his fullest extent. he would go to the ends of earth for me and I would do the same for him no questions asked. this love is teaching me what real commitment feels like. we exchanged our promise rings recently and we have plans to get apartment together after we graduate. we have plans for the far far future. this boy has loved me since the seventh grade and I don’t doubt that he’ll love me well into my old age as well. he’s my perfect fit and I thank god or whatever is out there for blessing me with him. he’s not just my boyfriend, he’s my best friend. I want to tell him everything before anyone else whether it’s the best news ever or the worst news in the world. he’s my stability, he’s my rock. and whether I realized it or not, he always has been 💛
these mixes are nothing short of magic, thank you.
Still listening in 2024
Same
Honestly cant believe its taken me this long to post this; but thanks for the mix. it's gotten me through some pretty rough days and it's made the great days even better. Cheers!
I just want a girl who can be my friend, Not somebody who is obligated to love me because I love them too and not get in fights when I feel their love isn't enough, Somebody who isn't afraid to lock themselves in a room with me knowing that i'm not interested in love, just a friend.
A friend with whom to play video games, laugh together, talk about things that both enjoy, one to open your heart when you want ...
A good friend, huh?
I want one too ...
This HAS to be my favourite soothing mix.
by the way, i feel bad. more people need to appreciate you.
this song make me super happy and calm. omg
my love life is a mess. Living in a homophobic country...with homophobic classmatess...trying to charm the girl of my dreams
PaintCauldron Stay strong, you'll get through it. Good luck and be safe!
that's rough man, hang in there! Things have a way of working themselves out eventually
I believe in you! Please don't give up♡
PaintCauldron Love and light to you :)
Holy shit, sAmE!!!
i think i finally met someone who really cares for me and its so fucking beautiful, guys. makes me fell special and shit, its great. it feels like this is all i ever wanted, you know? someone i really really care, want and love that don't leave any doubts about how i'm also cared, wanted and loved.
life really is worth it.
All I have to say is, thanks UA-cam for recommending this video to me
the first three beats got me in my feelings
kuvdhinov_ilya arts :3
I love these relaxing mixes, please don't stop uploading. Also love the creativity with the titles
Wow. The happiness and mellowness of this comment section really reflects that of the song, with the exception of a few poisonous personalities.
I haven't fallen in love. I've liked a few people here and there, but they seemed to take advantage of my feelings. So now I'm just going with the flow I guess.
Good luck out there to everyone having a hard time with relationships, or even those who are smooth sailing.
And it's okay to be single♡
Since everyone is sharing...My love life feels very complicated, especially for someone my age..A lot of my friends are worried about me thinking I'm getting sucked into having Stockholm syndrome..Reason being the person I love makes my life a little complicated.. I love them but I've cried so many times over the things they've said to me and made me go through..They make me feel like I can't leave the house or spend time with my friends or go out and do things I enjoy, and when i do, they're not interested in hearing about how it went or the pictures I took.. it makes me feel uninteresting and sad.. because they're the first person I want to tell.. but they're the last person who wants to hear. I think they have a personality disorder and depend on me greatly because of it. They're not aware of this, and I'm not really sure what to do.. we're currently "not dating" but we still say I love you.. I still feel so anchored to them, it kind of hurts when I can't kiss them because of this "not dating" situation. I want to say these things to him but I'm not courageous enough.I'm scared of making him upset or hurting him because i care about him.. but I just keep telling myself that I need to be able to live my life freely and breathe..
The reason I haven't broken up with them is because I feel like they're growing to teach themselves to be independent while still being happy in life. I feel like I'm helping that. I feel like through time things will be okay, but at the same time i keep getting scared that things will never change.They're kind to me.. but I still feel so.. empty handed? I feel like I'm giving it my all while they give it their.. as much as they feel like it?
I feel like they have more control over my life than in my own relationship and I don't really know what to do.. I just know one of these days ill get the courage and the moment to tell them how I feel in all of this..
I don't want to leave them.. but I'm scared of our future..I just hope its a good one..
Wolfie sun Oh, this doesn't sound good. I don't know your exact situation but from my experience I can say that ending a relationship in which you feel sad is the right thing to do. You don't owe them anything if they make you feel so bad.
I hope you make a decision that you are happy with and have a good future.
THanks... I hope everything works out too uwu
I feel like this with everyone. I don't like to let go of people either. Recently I had to let go of someone I truly wanted and wished and hoped I could fix and make happy again... but I couldn't. If you really really love them, encourage them to get help. If they refuse and become angry, then please distance yourself from them. I know this seems terrible to say but they need to be away from you in order to really gain independence. I'm proud of you for being so kind. But please, take care of yourself too okay friend? ♡♡♡
the feels, i love them.
mine is pretty fucked up
broke with my girl once again, she thinks I did everythin I did to control her, to hurt her, fuck it. it ain't true...
i wanna talk to her, tell her everythin i feel but i know it ain't the time and waiting is killing me internally.
this feeling of losing someone you love because of a missunderstanding... when both parts don't pay the rescue of the relationship it ends up sunk...
damn... i love her and im sure she loves me, but why do we hurt ourselves so much?
:c
yo don't put sad faces i feel even worse xD
ah srry ;w;
Don't give up bro
yo thanks for the love. means a lot in this hard time
this is one of my favorite mixes ever