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  • @ambercaldas7571
    @ambercaldas7571 Рік тому +76

    Y’all are really proof that people can get through anything truly an inspiration for me

    • @HarrisonMav
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  • @katykeaveney9421
    @katykeaveney9421 Рік тому +67

    Colette your wee mum chat in the kitchen was so sweet and made me want to go hug my mum again (it’s mothers day over here in n.ireland) and say thank you for encouraging me to sing and perform on stage my whole life💚 you’ve always felt like another mother figure to me so thank you for being so loving!🥰 love you shaytards!!🥳

    • @ColetteKati
      @ColetteKati Рік тому +7

      That’s so sweet! Yes go hug your momma! 🤗

  • @TammyToo
    @TammyToo Рік тому +23

    Someday in collage Emmi is going to do a dance recital and some boy will see her and fall in love with her and tell his best friend he will marry her.

    • @SHAYTARDS
      @SHAYTARDS  Рік тому +5

      That made me emotional 🥲

  • @ZebraMovement
    @ZebraMovement Рік тому +8

    i love that shay goes to the dance performances! like even though he might not be into dance he still shows up for his kids! an amazing father

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  • @ayanoakamine8269
    @ayanoakamine8269 Рік тому +8

    Someone once said to me life doesn't go on forever so cherish the small things in life no matter how minor or major they'll effect you that's why I live life how I wanna life's not about money fancy clothes it's about the good memories you make along the way

  • @Itsabigailchilds
    @Itsabigailchilds Рік тому +11

    I can't get over how much they have grown up, and I've been watching the shaytards since 2011 just so much beautiful memories, I love you all forever ❤

  • @imightbetash
    @imightbetash Рік тому +14

    Brock is reminding me more and more of Gavin every vlog, i cannot believe I’ve been watching you guys for his whole life 😢

  • @LaLobita2011
    @LaLobita2011 Рік тому +12

    I think colette and shay's conversation in the kitchen was so cute! Colette is a lot more lax and chill with her humor and i absolutely adore and respect her as a woman. 8 years a fan

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  • @BeingTwinsForever
    @BeingTwinsForever Рік тому +12

    Hey, Collette! On the topic of extracurriculars: my parents forced me to play softball until I was a freshman in high school. It really put a strain on my relationship with my father. So, in high school I got to pick what I did! I chose to do speech & theatre (things my parents didn’t know about) and LOVED it! And they also now appreciate it! Guide them to do things and encourage them to keep involved, but let them find their path!

    • @ColetteKati
      @ColetteKati Рік тому +5

      Love your insight thank you!

  • @mtndanielle
    @mtndanielle Рік тому +8

    I remember Emmi singing let it go all the time

  • @hvnnybee7325
    @hvnnybee7325 Рік тому +18

    Emmi did so good in that short clip! It made me want to see the whole dance!!
    I love seeing them prosper and doing new things. Little gymnastics babytard to hiphop queen emmi

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  • @MsInvestigate
    @MsInvestigate Рік тому +2

    In terms of being involved with picking extracurriculars, my dad pushed me to play sports and it made me go from loving the sport to _dreading_ practice. I tried to tell him I didn't feel the same passion anymore, but ended up doing it for the rest of my HS years.
    From personal experience--and raising my two younger brothers--definitely agree with encouraging kiddos to follow _their_ dreams and interests! And being there for them when they decide to change/decide they don't like something as much anymore. Kids are still trying and discovering! It's so wonderful to the kid to be supportive and encouraging.

  • @pinkversace187
    @pinkversace187 Рік тому +9

    I need Emmi to do a dance day in my life or something because the WAY SHE KILLED THAT PERFORMANCE AND HER FACE EXPRESSIONS Omg and I only got to see some of it I’m already like wow as a dancer myself I can see Emmi passion for it

  • @alexandriacampbell9997
    @alexandriacampbell9997 Рік тому +10

    Just got done watching avia's vlog!! She is such an inspiration 💜

  • @ange5764
    @ange5764 Рік тому +7

    Colette is so wise. I’ve been watching since I was a child and now I’m growing up but hearing Colette speaking about changes makes me wish she had a podcast about general life bc listening to both shady and Colette would be so interesting

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  • @ChristieCora
    @ChristieCora Рік тому +4

    Been watching your channel since 2012 and honestly, I'm so grateful that I came across your videos back then. You've helped me through so much ❤

  • @EmoLatina
    @EmoLatina Рік тому +18

    Hey Colette you’re such an amazing mother. I know back in the days you and shay started a podcast where you offered advice on parenthood and I was wondering if you would ever consider bringing it back. I feel like you give such great advice and insight on motherhood and the challenges of parenthood. I think a lot of new/current parents would love it :) Much love and blessings ❤

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  • @muchahmuaboutnothing2205
    @muchahmuaboutnothing2205 Рік тому +10

    I think it’s vital that kids explore. Our youngest tried gymnastics and hated it so we pulled her. Turns out ballet is her thing! The oldest has tried a LOT but it finally clicked with gymnastics. Just let them have fun and try new things!

  • @Izzy_Walker
    @Izzy_Walker Рік тому +48

    My nineteen and twenty three year old are still living with me,so there’s that 😂💛💙

    • @miraaaaa03
      @miraaaaa03 Рік тому +4

      I’m 19 still with my mom 😂

    • @Saraa89764
      @Saraa89764 Рік тому +3

      @@miraaaaa03 same

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict Рік тому +10

      That's definitely normal especially if they're going to school and/or working and saving for an apartment. I left home the summer I turned 24. I went away to college from age 18-22, and graduate school from age 22-24. Got a job in my field (counseling) 5.5 hours away in a different state. 9 years later I'm only 1.5 hours away from my hometown, back in my home state, with a lifetime job. Sometimes it takes bit to find your footing and I'm glad my mom let me stay when I was home for breaks and summer employment (undergrad was 4 hours from home, grad was 2.5 hours away).

    • @celinapalfrey6001
      @celinapalfrey6001 Рік тому +6

      I’m 22 I still live with my mom 😂

    • @Lostmyspoons
      @Lostmyspoons Рік тому +5

      Why is this funny? The economy and prices for things are insane. This is not funny. This is cruel for anyone living in America

  • @talisabarry5943
    @talisabarry5943 Рік тому +3

    like for real, everytime when Emmi dances, it honestly brings back so many memories when I used to dance, I stopped dancing when covid hit. I honestly miss it so much! keep dancing emmi! get it girlllll!

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  • @Lily.Glasgow
    @Lily.Glasgow 11 місяців тому

    Literally haven’t watched these since 2017 and youse have just popped on my feed and it’s just so nostalgic

  • @haleyabraham102
    @haleyabraham102 Рік тому +2

    the joy the videos bring me!! been watching through it all! love you guys keep going!

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  • @leighannwelk1864
    @leighannwelk1864 Рік тому +1

    Our kids are the same age. I have watched yours grow with mine, I'm on teaching kid #4 to drive and two have moved out. It goes fast! It def makes you appreciate and be grateful for every moment!

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  • @AmberBamber27
    @AmberBamber27 Рік тому +4

    Y’all are amazing parents and raising amazing kiddos!

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  • @xbethbeth1
    @xbethbeth1 Рік тому +1

    The kids are so grown up ♥️♥️ I used to feel the “grieving” just before I went to university and even when I moved home for a bit during COVID, it’s really hard for both (even though the teenagers may not admit it so often!) sending loads of love , have been watching you since the beginning 😊

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  • @marioramirez6490
    @marioramirez6490 Рік тому +10

    Will always be here to support when you guys upload❤

  • @MattPalka
    @MattPalka Рік тому +8

    It's awesome you choose to appreciate and see all parts of such the life-long process of raising your family! Life has so many wonderful tradition transitions. Makes me want to partner and celebrate change as much as I can. My parents were heavily involved in me being curious and trying new things. They wanted me to sample what I wanted to see what I enjoyed and to stick with things for a good amount of time even if I wanted to end them eventually. They never forced me into things and I'm so glad for that. They more walked alongside me in listenin to what I got meaning, interest, and value from. I enjoyed singing but didn't really get into choral or jazz choir more until mid-high school and it taught me SO MUCH about being a BETTER COLLABORATOR in life and doing things well that de-center myself. So much change and problem solving is collaborative.

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  • @sammiew4684
    @sammiew4684 Рік тому +1

    omg i’ve been watching them since i was 8 and first got a phone now i’m 18 and just remember how i cried for like a week because they took a break

  • @marieclaire911
    @marieclaire911 Рік тому +3

    I think you have a great attitude to your kids' development - let them find their own passions and actively encourage them, but also if you see they have talent tell them and help them build their confidence. My parents only really cared for certain elements of success and I found it/still find it hard to find my passions and develop confidence in myself. Been watching you for well over a decade and both you and Shay's insights have been really helpful. But I would say don't force your kids to do something they don't want to, they may well find their way back into it in later life too.

  • @mandystanhope
    @mandystanhope Рік тому +12

    Having raised 3 kids to adulthood, i completely understand how you’re feeling Colette. I always say it has been the hardest part of motherhood for me. I love being a Mom and all the things that come with it. I miss the adventures, the events and most of all just having them close. Having said that, currently the only one of the 3 who isn’t with us is our youngest son and he’s out there doing some amazing things. Our oldest son moved back in with us due to needing some time to figure things out and our daughter is on the spectrum although very high functioning but does need us for support.
    I often do feel sad though when I think back to their younger days. Sigh. I have to remind myself that I can be proud for raising such kind and honest young people. You can definitely be proud for that too.
    Also, I learned very early on that there’s zero point in trying to force kids to do activities that they have no interest in because it just causes anxiety and resentment. I think Brock may change his mind about singing as he gets older. I’d love to hear Emmi sing again. She has a beautiful voice ❤

    • @ColetteKati
      @ColetteKati Рік тому +2

      I love this, thank you for sharing! ❤

    • @naomitoevs677
      @naomitoevs677 Рік тому

      They have the rest of their lives to do those other activities

  • @Sturniolofann
    @Sturniolofann Рік тому +4

    It’s crazy how much Collette looks like my aunt I’ve always since since I started watching you guys with the bun I can just see so much of my aunt 💛

  • @Vintagelover12233
    @Vintagelover12233 Рік тому +4

    I love you guys so much. Ty for continuing to vlog.

  • @GTP____4
    @GTP____4 Рік тому +2

    I moved out last year, and from a child’s perspective it made me appreciate what my mother did for me SO much more. Your kids will grow up & leave, only to realise where they were all along was the most beautiful fun safe space they’ll ever have. They always come back ❤

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  • @Xjeiixx
    @Xjeiixx Рік тому +2

    Coming from the kid herself (Im a senior in hs) Letting me pick my own classes was the best thing my mom did for me, I got to try the things I enjoyed at the time. .But when she did push me to do other things like sing in the coir ironically pushed me out if my comfort zone and now I'm more open and can do things I couldnt do before.

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  • @crazybroncofan1990
    @crazybroncofan1990 Рік тому +5

    13:35 In my opinion, I think its about guidance and finding the proper substitute. its one thing to not wanting to do something, but in return not choosing a substitute to replace it isn't productive. Replacing it with art or robotics like your son said is the way to go and productive. Enjoying these videos recently Butlers. Honest and genuine.

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  • @sarre87
    @sarre87 Рік тому +3

    regarding your question: I did A LOT of different extra curriculum activities/ after school activities, but I always ended up quitting and starting something new. My parents never “forced me” or encouraged me to stay at one thing, they just let me quit and start something new. Which led me to never actually stick to something, which I regret now. I wish I had been pushed to stay so I could actually be good at something as an adult 😅

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  • @NAO-vp1tz
    @NAO-vp1tz Рік тому

    Omg i’m turning 26 and i watching u guys when i was kid like more than 10 years omg! I miss u guys then i said why not to watch them i remembers my childhood and the good vibes u guys gave to me .. i like that feeling thanks 🥰🥰🥰

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  • @crazychris1757
    @crazychris1757 Рік тому

    Colette you’re a great mom and always have been fantastic! I think even if they don’t do choir or get into singing during this time period, I’m sure even years down the line it will never be too late for them to start that career!

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  • @bigmike42092
    @bigmike42092 Рік тому +5

    Your family is making me feel old lol love you guys

  • @dawnlynn68
    @dawnlynn68 Рік тому +4

    My daughter and I started watching your family years ago, she’s now 25 and moved out and now she has a daughter, I miss our times together 🥹🥹 we use to do sooo much together. I also have a pug, he’s my 3rd child.. so at least I’m not a complete empty nester 🥹🥹🥹🥹🤷‍♀️

  • @PaolaGabbiMadrid
    @PaolaGabbiMadrid Рік тому +1

    Colette, I totally agree with you on the whole forcing your children to do things. I grew up with 2 parents who were professional violinists so I was exposed to classical music early on and got a violin stuck under my chin at 2 years of age but didn’t really get serious until around 8-10. I was very talented and my mother wanted me to major in music after high school which I did for a year but I hated it! I ultimately became a Nurse BUT I still play in our professional local symphony which has provided me with a perfect balance in life. I never forced my son but told him you’re going to have music in your life so he chose the trombone and played all through HS and college. I think a lot of it is “nature vs nurture.” Much love to all the Shaytards! ♥️🫶

  • @GabeVeasey
    @GabeVeasey Рік тому +2

    Good job Emmi on driving, stay safe!

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  • @hannahnitz4684
    @hannahnitz4684 Рік тому

    Totally see and understand your point about wanting to sorta push (without pushing) your kids into doing certain things. I think it's totally fine to say hey! you're good at this! give it a go! encouragement and acknowledgment is so great for kids. but ultimately I think if they don't wanna do it, then that's okay! you'll still get to enjoy hearing them sing in the car :)

  • @miastruckhoff5202
    @miastruckhoff5202 Рік тому +3

    Brock and his Rubiks cubes reminds me of Gavin and the kendamas😂love your family!

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  • @RonnieFarrellofficial
    @RonnieFarrellofficial Рік тому +4

    Best amazing beautiful family ever I’ll always remember forever Love you all so much

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  • @rutamankiene1577
    @rutamankiene1577 Рік тому +1

    So nostalgic to watch your video. Inwached every vlog in 2009-2011 i think and in 2012 I started dating my now husband and now we have two boys 1 and 4. I wached you bc your family was the family I always wanted, the dinamics was so beautiful and my family was way different. And now I just realised that this is what I have now. I've created my own family that I love. Thank you for shining the way. We struggle with health, energy and finances but I love my family just as I did love yours. Cheers from Lithuania

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  • @KonamiKonami
    @KonamiKonami Рік тому +19

    Anyone else remember a video where Shay vlogged sneaking up on Emmie singing in the bathroom and she was super talented?

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  • @melrose3429
    @melrose3429 Рік тому +7

    Shay, Colette thank you so much for everything a little over like 3 years ago. I was in the hospital from a brain disease called encephalitis. It’s basically a swelling of the brain, but when I got better was when you guys posted videos again and to me it was a sign that everything will be ok … so thank you so much for doing videos y’all mean a lot to me ❤❤❤❤ love you all so much

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  • @420boxysama
    @420boxysama Рік тому +1

    I remember I did choir for a year back in like the fourth grade, I am in no way sing, but I do appreciate the bit I learned from there, again, what he does he's not generally important, but the fact that he does something is what is the real issue

  • @sprout8156
    @sprout8156 Рік тому +1

    I was never forced, wish I was for some moments in life but I’ve always wanted to play the guitar , was never pushed and now I’m 25 and took my own initiative 2 years ago to start learning and I’ve got there!
    No matter what I think the best part is being involved in what their involved in just like you said!
    It all works for us kids but life never comes without it’s regrets

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  • @cayla18
    @cayla18 Рік тому +5

    For a split second I thought Brock was Gavin. It really is crazy how fast it all happens. I’ve been watching since I was 9 and it feels like I’ve blinked and now I’m 22. Bittersweet ♥️

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  • @Babylandy1
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    I overly 🤣 encouraged a few of my kids to do choir all the way through high school and in the end they were very grateful that I did.

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    I love y’all sm

  • @Moonlite.88
    @Moonlite.88 Рік тому +6

    I like the idea of at least being encouraging in their activities. I think if you can find subtle ways for your kids to practice doing what they're good at as much as possible, then that would be a great way to do it without it feeling forced.

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  • @conniejohnsoncj8724
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    I always say the best thing my mom gifted me with was the freedom to be me. She never forced myself or my 6 sisters to do things we didn’t want to do. She also was bendable with discussion when she said no and you presented her with a good argument for wanting your yes. May not have been the day she said no, but she at least thought about what you presented for your request of a yes and if it was reasonable she would change her no to a yes. This worked both ways, sometimes no stayed no and I knew and understood why.

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  • @HamzaHussain316
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    U guys always make me laugh everyday and i remember Malaki the dog i missing him I watch the old vlogs when he was alive and the memories man was sick ngl

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  • @jezlynm1
    @jezlynm1 Рік тому +1

    i tried lots of different extracurricular activities growing up but as soon as i didn’t like something my parents pulled me out and i never ended up sticking with anything or learning to be comfortable with not liking everything about that activity. now that i’m older i look back and wish my parents made me stay in something because i would love to know how to dance or play piano etc. but once they get older and they decide if they want to do something they didn’t keep up as a kid it’s never too late! it just might not be the same as if they started when they were little.

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  • @AGoldenBoon
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    My Mom made me do baseball until 9th grade. Yeah I have mixed feelings cause I never wanted to go but if I didn’t I would have spent every Summer playing video games all day. So for my kids I’m not sure, I’d want them to do something but it wouldn’t have to be a sport if they didn’t want to. I did acting and did enjoy that but getting outdoors is important too. It’s tricky.

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  • @urmomasf
    @urmomasf Рік тому +2

    i love you guys so muchh

  • @HelenBeeee
    @HelenBeeee Рік тому +4

    Just discuss why they are not interested and get a feel for their commitment because if they are not committed then they won’t be learning or enjoying it. Let’s face it singing in a choir is not mandatory to enjoying singing. I didn’t do choir as a child but joined choir as an adult and thoroughly enjoy the experience. I did art classes and became an artist sooooo don’t be too worried they are all different and appreciate that you have a potential robotic scientist who may sing in an adult choir 🤓

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  • @Footprinces
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    Colette you can give them your opinion but don’t force ! They always find their way!! They need to find their own passion ❤️❤️❤️

  • @RhondaRTEM
    @RhondaRTEM Рік тому +3

    When Emmi gets all her makeup on, she reminds me of Taylor Swift. ❤️

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      I never thought of that but I see it!😮

  • @adamgraham5977
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    Im in the garaggeee, im in the garagee

  • @katgirl1921
    @katgirl1921 Рік тому +1

    when i was in middle school all the way til i graduated high school i was in choir and in high school i was in show choir singing and dancing i had so much fun just something that i wanted to do i met a lot of good friends i still talk to now i have fun memories and pictures of my time being there and then i have them on my facebook as well as my high school choir teacher great times but my mom wanted me to dance when i was little or join clubs and stuff i did not want to til middle school and high school i had like the best time she just let us pick whatever we were interested in. hope that brook does what makes him happy as well as the rest of the children. Time does go by fast i cant believe my cousin son is already going to be five and going to school soon we are so happy for him time needs to slow down and my other cousin son he is in high school now wow time flies one day they are born now they are almost out of high school learning to drive wow

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  • @ouryayommay9435
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    i grew up watching you guys and avia and i are the same age. it's so strange to see emmy driving after not watching for a good several years. i feel like she was just 9! also weird to hear daxton talk lmao. he's an entire person now

  • @pascale110
    @pascale110 Рік тому +3

    I would never force my kids to do anything they don’t want to do but encourage them to at least try . My wants aren’t theirs necessarily so as parents we have to accept that.

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  • @Naehh2
    @Naehh2 Рік тому +3

    Oh Emmy (and Cole) should SING MORE! 😍 I forgot she has a amazing voice, ah wishing to see more singing content E&C duo! Or others too ❤️

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  • @jayneholmes5704
    @jayneholmes5704 Рік тому +2

    I always enjoy your videos, thanks for sharing.

  • @CherryBerry48
    @CherryBerry48 Рік тому +2

    great job emmy, loved this whole video

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  • @BloodyAngel88
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    Crazy helicopter parenting can be a problem when a kid's trying to get into something or decide what to do. BUT encouraging and sharing insight into things you know is usually greatly appreciated. Heck, I'm 35, have been playing with things like graphic design and digital art for years...but I still ask my graphic designer mom for tips and tricks.

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  • @Agpals
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    OKAYYY Emmi can DANCE!

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    i thought of yall the other day im about to be 26 and idk how often carl still uses it or if he does but for yearssssss ive always used “best spot in the lot” idk if he still says that lol but brought back hella memories on why i use it lol glad yall still making videos

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  • @lovejazz2348
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    Such a calm drive instructor mom lol my dad oh man lol

  • @timelymanner-nz
    @timelymanner-nz Рік тому +5

    This reminded me of the time very little Emmi had a tissue stuck up her nose 😆

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  • @JeanHenry77
    @JeanHenry77 Рік тому +3

    I love when Emmy is on the video.aka babytard. I would want her to be my BFF if i was her age. I am alot older. lol. I just love watching all of you guys. It makes me happy that you all are back on youtube providing me with your world.

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  • @dayyemm5608
    @dayyemm5608 Рік тому

    I think we are living in a world where opportunities to learn in a structured way, doesn't stop after the school years. If he doesn't want to do choir now, whether that's because he has more motivation for other things, there's a teacher he isn't fond of, or any other reason. It's important to remember it doesn't mean that will be his only opportunity 🙌🏻
    It's 100% better to not add any pressures, or negativity!
    You've done amazing with all your kids, they all seem to have such strong drives for what they want, and that in itself will benefit them when they go out to try and achieve their goals. Always share your own passions with them, and give them something to think about. But ultimately cheer them on with whichever paths they choose to take. Let their mistakes and achievements, guide them.
    I've only just found that confidence in my late twenties, I had a lot of pressures during my school years, I always went with my gut, but was put down for those choices. Quite a few sessions of therapy and mental health struggles later, and Ive finally got that confidence, to pair with the drive I always had.

  • @ev6n
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    love your videos!

  • @amydyce8151
    @amydyce8151 Рік тому +2

    I love you guys!

  • @svietasharpe334
    @svietasharpe334 Рік тому

    PREACH YES! My mom forced me to wear certain things growing up since middle school, it was awful, hated all of my clothes but she wanted a certain daughter and I was not that

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  • @danieltwambi3563
    @danieltwambi3563 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos 😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @PrincessPeyten
    @PrincessPeyten Рік тому +3

    I heard on Avia’s vlog that she ordered her Taylor Swift Tickets for the era’s tour my parents are gonna get me tickets for my birthday I’m so excited I went to her 1989 tour the reputation tour and I saw her perform at the 7th annual we can survive concert and my mom and I were supposed to go to the lover tour but covid got in the way but it’s okay I can’t wait to go to this one😁😁😁

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  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 Рік тому +4

    Happy Sunday, Shaytards!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖🎇🎉👍. Avia is a great person with good vibes and lots of fun activities. WOW!!😍😍😍😍😍😍

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  • @LGraphicsMedia
    @LGraphicsMedia Рік тому +3

    woohoo!! new shaytards vid!

  • @ashleighmasters3087
    @ashleighmasters3087 Рік тому +1

    The lady in the bottom left hand corner at 21:05 made me laugh

  • @iluvcharmed77
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    The title scared me for a second. I don't know what I would do if the Shaytards were no longer a part of my life. I would listen to you guys read from the dictionary if that's what it took lol I do wish you guys would start up the WTKGTS podcast again ❤

    • @ColetteKati
      @ColetteKati Рік тому +2

      Haha! Websters family reading night here we come!!!

  • @aluminatedclub
    @aluminatedclub Рік тому +1

    Last time I saw these videos was like 10 years ago, crazy.

  • @CourtneyRose14
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    Love, Love, love the Shaytards you guys are one of my favorite UA-camrs

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  • @kariccio
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    100% let them pick. Encourage and support their natural skills, but their interest is way more important. On the other hand, if they’ve chosen an activity, but decide they don’t like it after a few practices, I believe in “forcing” them to finish out the season as to not let down a team, teach perseverance, and commitment, etc. unless there is a major problem/reason that overpowers.
    you’re a fantastic mom. You’ve always supported and encouraged all of their interests from what I have seen, even with the smallest of things❤️

  • @KeriNganArt
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    Me crying after watching 2 seconds of Emmi dance 😭😭😭😭

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  • @RurouniKenshinShinta
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    Great vlog, felt like a classic, shay looks a lot happier as well which is nice to see.

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    I love you guys so much been a fan since day one and I love your family vlog you’re such amazing person to watch and make my day amazing been part this journey for a year now and now I’m 23 years old.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😅😅😅😅

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  • @stephaniebasler241
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    I haven't watched you all in forever. But omg Brock is sooo old, I was watching when he was a baby. Thats nuts. You both are amazing parents! I will be watching more. I miss you all.😅

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  • @marysullivan1588
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    Brock you are a beast ❤ let your kids try different stuff and pick what they like .

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  • @Gohappygirl
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    Emmi has shays funny humor

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  • @Lilly123s
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    Emmi is so funny 😂

  • @miclooha
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    Wow, my lovely family, watch you since 2014

  • @fawnjenkins7266
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    My kids talk like Brock about cubic cubes, too! "What is a megaminx" has come out of my mouth before more than once!

  • @matatana40
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    HI SHAYTARDS LOVE YOUR VLOGS ❤❤❤

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  • @acishetwhiteman9117
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    i love blondie

  • @jessicamoss870
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    Emmis dance looked fun I want to see the rest of it lol I want to do that

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