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  • @aimeylux
    @aimeylux 11 місяців тому +30

    Y’all… my doctor told me I had no “viable” eggs left after our first and the chance of me even getting pregnant again was extremely low. We were devastated but so thankful for our first and only…. then 5 years later… SURPRISE!!! We got pregnant with our perfectly healthy second child. Our kiddos are now 5 & 10. Miracles definitely do happen! Hang in there.

  • @mom_gardener_homeschool
    @mom_gardener_homeschool 11 місяців тому +18

    Your family is so adorable. Love watching your videos. My husband and I experienced miscarriage before we had our boy over 5 years ago and we still have our moments when we get sad about it. Hearing you talk about your experience helps us realize we are not alone, so thank you.

  • @leleemcmurphy2246
    @leleemcmurphy2246 11 місяців тому +11

    Keeping your family in our families prayers & positive vibes/thoughts!🌼Thank you for sharing your families journey & adventures! Enjoy your Swift concert as well as Josh's (& his mates) Mexico trip!

  • @lynseybryan2015
    @lynseybryan2015 11 місяців тому +1

    Both of you guys are amazing for opening up and being so vulnerable! You are helping countless couples suffering in silence from feeling isolated, as if they were the only ones experiencing miscarriages and infertility. You should both be very proud of yourselves. Such a wonderful couple with such sweet handsome little boys. I wish for you all and the health and happiness and hopefully the patter of little feet in the not to distant future. You deserve the very best!

  • @isabelcortes1438
    @isabelcortes1438 11 місяців тому +8

    Love you both!!! Sending big Texas sized hugs and continued positive thoughts and vibes! ♥️♥️

  • @MarciaLeeful
    @MarciaLeeful 11 місяців тому +32

    Great of you to share your fertility concerns as I am sure it helps others.

  • @idbehappy2
    @idbehappy2 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for bringing us along on your journey.

  • @kat_shultis
    @kat_shultis 11 місяців тому

    getting that news would be so tough, im so sorry! prayers for y'all

  • @ellieburnell3242
    @ellieburnell3242 11 місяців тому +8

    Ah the kids did a great job,that place was so cute and cool.

  • @-nellie-m3711
    @-nellie-m3711 11 місяців тому +5

    I don’t actually follow you guys often, But I do have to say That it’s Great to see that your boys are Pool Safe and can Swim under water, enough to Save themselves, I know it’s not legal to have pool fencing in the USA 🇺🇸 like it is here in Australia 🇦🇺 and it certainly warms my heart seeing your boys able to swim at such a young age, all children should at least learn how to save themselves in a situation where there’s a pool. I Respect that about you guys. The rest I’m not going to comment on because I don’t follow you enough to make an assumption about your lives, I just Love how you’ve taught your children to swim and that’s all…!!! Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺

  • @marymacfarlan3204
    @marymacfarlan3204 11 місяців тому +1

    Such a special family ❤️

  • @annaomodeo7318
    @annaomodeo7318 11 місяців тому +1

    Your boys look so happy you are giving them the best childhood which is every parent's dream 😊😊

  • @beckyklepper315
    @beckyklepper315 11 місяців тому +43

    Josh being so open and vulnerable might be able to help more couples get through their own journey. I've had 5 miscarriages and I have 3 sons. They're 20-28 right now. Try not to let the doctor's call get you down. You make beautiful babies. In God's perfect timing another will come along.

    • @nincu5033
      @nincu5033 11 місяців тому +2

      Amen

    • @Lixiepixiedixie_
      @Lixiepixiedixie_ 11 місяців тому +2

      You’re such a strong woman!! Keep on!! God is with you!!

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 11 місяців тому

    Much prayers to you. I’m sorry to hear that.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @SoftCheeksRoundFace
    @SoftCheeksRoundFace 11 місяців тому +9

    I'm sorry to hear this. Miracles do happen. I had seven years of negative pregnancy tests. My husband and I had so many tests and surgeries to figure out why. We saw three fertility specialists. I was normal and so was he. At the end of the day, they couldn't figure out why. We took a break and then decided to see a reproductive urologist. He ended up doing a sperm DNA fragmentation test on him. It came back with a less than 1% chance of successful conception. He couldn't figure out why his DNA was so fragmented. It turned out a medication that my husband was on was causing it and there were only a handful of research articles hinting that it negatively affects fertility. My doctors wouldn't have known. We titrated him off and put him in a different medication that was known to be a bit friendlier for fertility. I found out I was pregnant two months later. Anyway, I wish you both the best and I hope you can figure out why his morphology is so low. Infertility is so incredibly difficult and stick through it with each other and your boys. And leave room for a miracle as well! ❤

    • @vh2205
      @vh2205 11 місяців тому

      Hi. Do you remember the medication's name or for what did he take it?

  • @bryleygilbert6466
    @bryleygilbert6466 11 місяців тому

    Y’all are so amazing!! 🫶

  • @Coconutluxenaturals
    @Coconutluxenaturals 11 місяців тому +6

    Oh hey guys missed you both and your beautiful boys❤❤ stay happy beautiful souls

  • @dawnpiker9620
    @dawnpiker9620 11 місяців тому

    I feel it’s good to share. To let it out #1…. #2 helps others #3 it will show you there is a whole community out there going thru some of the same problems…. Keep your head up and just live she will come loves she will come 🌈👶

  • @ristopherobbins
    @ristopherobbins 11 місяців тому +5

    Don’t judge your emotions. Don’t let fear drive your experience here on earth. If you get pregnant - get excited🎉. Enjoy that moment and be present. Don’t worry about the past or the future and give yourself the gift of that moment. If the worst does happen, feel those emotions too. But don’t judge yourself for feeling bad. Just experience that and let it go.
    You guys are a beautiful couple and I know infertility is so hard. I just would hate to see fear rob you of those joyous hearts and big smiles.

  • @lizdarling1761
    @lizdarling1761 11 місяців тому +1

    So sorry you are going through this! My husband and I have been married for 17yrs and have been in TTC mode that long. We had 7yrs of infertility and multiple miscarriages for the first 7yrs. IUI & IVF failed; and the RE told us we shld look into other avenues to parenthood. We then had two failed adoptions. then miraculously got pregnant with our oldest daughter had 3 kids in 5yrs. And then since the youngest was born 5yrs ago we’ve had 4 miscarriages. And we’re told to give up so many times. But we conceived our miracle babe in March and he’s doing amazing! Growing and looking so good. I’m very detached so far but getting better as time goes on…. But we can not wait to have him in our arms in about 15wks 🥹❤️
    Babies come exactly when they are meant to!

  • @beckyballard-ve7yg
    @beckyballard-ve7yg 11 місяців тому

    Blessings beautiful family 🙏

  • @izzycase7581
    @izzycase7581 11 місяців тому

    Love you guys so much ❤️❤️

  • @feather8000
    @feather8000 11 місяців тому

    Big love to you guys xx

  • @ana-kv7fs
    @ana-kv7fs 11 місяців тому

    Sorry to hear that ....I remember when you told you story ...than u could not have any kids .but here I are now you have 2 wonderful babys .

  • @STJL
    @STJL 11 місяців тому

    I saw you guys after the TS show! I almost said hello, but it was so late I was sure you were just wanting to get back to where you were staying.

  • @adrivermaak6313
    @adrivermaak6313 11 місяців тому +7

    We have also tried for 3 years to get pregnant, I have had 4 miscarriages and we had the same issues as you and the fertility Dr put my husband on Prelox which really helps with his sperm quality overall. I am now 7 weeks pregnant and hoping this is our rainbow baby. Thank you for you positivity as I know it is so hard to go through this. Thinking of you and sending baby dust your way.

    • @genalena9228
      @genalena9228 11 місяців тому

      Hi,where you live please,or can you give a number of your doctor because my husband have a problem with quality of sperm,we try to have a baby for a long time.Thank you

    • @adrivermaak6313
      @adrivermaak6313 11 місяців тому

      @@genalena9228 We are in Gauteng, South Africa. Its Dr Trouw at Pretoria Fertility Clinic

    • @Shaychanelll
      @Shaychanelll 11 місяців тому

      Hoping for your miracle baby !!! ❤

  • @darrenwanamaker3326
    @darrenwanamaker3326 11 місяців тому

    Love you all ❤🙌

  • @LinaLina-wk1py
    @LinaLina-wk1py 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi 👋 I have 3 kids and 3 miscarriages (total 6 pregnancies). Still wish to have baby #4 but doesn't work...I'm not giving up. Please stay positive and baby dust ❤

  • @amandaowen8251
    @amandaowen8251 11 місяців тому +6

    Momma, you are so blessed! Because of my condition, I’ll never know what it’s like to be married or have children. At all. You have a wonderful husband and two amazing children. What I’d give to have your life.

    • @haley831
      @haley831 11 місяців тому +3

      I’m not sure if it’s the same situation, but my hs sweetheart of 5 years denied himself of love bc of a condition. He physically can’t have children, but his lifespan is supposed to be shortened so he doesn’t feel he “deserves” love. He always said he was just a burden. We broke up for different reasons, but I wish with my whole being he accepts love into his life somehow even if he has a condition. I loved him despite his condition, and if this is your case, please accept the love you so deserve ❤ whatever the case though, I hope you are okay and find peace with your circumstances

    • @amandaowen8251
      @amandaowen8251 11 місяців тому +1

      @@haley831 I have a medical condition that causes infertility.

    • @quicksilver455
      @quicksilver455 11 місяців тому +5

      @@amandaowen8251 dont deny yourself love though if you find someone who is ok with your condition. not everyone wants kids. you can still get married and travel the world etc. and you can consider adopting one day as well. there are many innocent children in the world without parents

  • @izabelam9416
    @izabelam9416 11 місяців тому +2

    I’d strongly suggest you’d change your doctor. There are so many treatments for men to help that and also do sperm DNA fragmentation and find out why that is. Sometimes you might need a procedure (like we did) and a change with diet/adding vitamins and sperm can be improved

  • @lindagentile2380
    @lindagentile2380 11 місяців тому +4

    Never give up... Justin & Rachelle Swannie (UA-cam family) had 3 pregnancy via IVF with Justin only having a 3% mobility) After 1st baby girl miscarriage, then Emma (IVF) & twin boys Rueban & Asher (IVF) & Then all the sudden ... a SURPRISE... a natural Pregnancy a beautiful baby girl (Faye) turning 1 years old this week...
    Don't give up or feel defeated...
    GOD ALWAYS has the last word 🙏✝️
    GBY ALL 🙏❤️💙💙💙🤗✝️

  • @rileighjennings1911
    @rileighjennings1911 11 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry. I’m praying for y’all. God has got a plan for y’all and his plan is always right. I love y’all so much. I’m praying for y’all.

  • @user-lo5gs2gx6y
    @user-lo5gs2gx6y 11 місяців тому +1

    Adorable family💖💞🤗

  • @ZoeeYancey
    @ZoeeYancey 11 місяців тому +6

    I cannot get over how healthy Lauren looks lately!

  • @courtneythorsby1641
    @courtneythorsby1641 11 місяців тому +4

    I would do anything just to have one. Just be thankful for the two you have.❤

    • @stefaniemcgivern1120
      @stefaniemcgivern1120 11 місяців тому

      In the same boat I wish I could just have one my life would be so much better because of that..

    • @sadeto8846
      @sadeto8846 11 місяців тому +1

      They are thankful, but if you have the feeling your family isn't complete you can't do anything to stop this desire.
      You feel like something is missing

    • @stefaniemcgivern1120
      @stefaniemcgivern1120 11 місяців тому

      @@sadeto8846 of course

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 11 місяців тому

      @@stefaniemcgivern1120That’s sad 😢 why is your life not fulfilling otherwise?

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 11 місяців тому +1

      @@sadeto8846That’s kind of saying any version of a family that differs from the “dream” isn’t good enough 😢

  • @genahu2009
    @genahu2009 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful and adorable family. More attractive than Hollywood's.

  • @cindylawrence9628
    @cindylawrence9628 11 місяців тому

    Your boys are sooo cute!

  • @Michelle-kj7wv
    @Michelle-kj7wv 11 місяців тому

    I only had 2 children because we couldn't afford it financially. I am the proud grandmother of 3 boys from our daughter and our son is not married yet. They are both very prosperous and happy. My joy and heart are from my family ❤

  • @Lucky87.
    @Lucky87. 11 місяців тому

    Your bracelets are beautiful. can you make a video about this What gems are they and where did you buy them?

  • @ellieburnell3242
    @ellieburnell3242 11 місяців тому

    And the kids are so cute

  • @cindylawrence9628
    @cindylawrence9628 11 місяців тому

    I live in Utah too! Where about are u guys? Also. Where did u rent the bike and where is the path and lake you ride to? Love your videos!

  • @maggieh5283
    @maggieh5283 11 місяців тому

    I never comment, but it may benefit you all to look into a consult with a urologist who specializes in male fertility. My husband and I tried for 2 years before finally getting to the point of him seeing an urologist (initial basic testing also showed his morphology was on the low end). More testing with the urologist showed the cause was low testosterone. They put him on Clomid to correct it and we were pregnant the next cycle.

  • @livimawob2635
    @livimawob2635 11 місяців тому

    Are you going to Seattle for the concert?

  • @suzyherzog6988
    @suzyherzog6988 11 місяців тому +2

    Just pray about it and leave it in God’s hands 🙏You have 2 beautiful boys so focus on them ❤️

  • @arshidas1203
    @arshidas1203 11 місяців тому +1

    Love u guys❤️

    • @user-qg2yu1jr6m
      @user-qg2yu1jr6m 11 місяців тому +1

      Congrats ur first

    • @arshidas1203
      @arshidas1203 11 місяців тому +1

      @@user-qg2yu1jr6m thanx 😌
      And this is my first ever comment in UA-cam😄

  • @smylyface
    @smylyface 11 місяців тому +2

    I just went back and watched the videos when you were pregnant with Indy. The joy you exuded was beautiful and I know in my heart you will be choosing baby names again in the not too distant future. Speaking of... have you ever considered the name River? It is gender neutral, outdoorsy and goes great with your last name. ❤

  • @brunobarks98
    @brunobarks98 11 місяців тому

    I never comment too but i heard a correlation between the intake of caffeine and miscarriages. From personal experience, I have heard some couples (both male and female) stop drinking caffeine or keep it low and stopped having miscarriages, so maybe its worth to try out for some time just to see if it makes a difference? Wishing you a miracle child, theres only so much doctors can predict or know ❤

  • @MarcieJ2000
    @MarcieJ2000 11 місяців тому

    I do think talking about it helps de-stigmatize infertility, so many of us have been through it

  • @nikkiejones4606
    @nikkiejones4606 11 місяців тому +3

    Guys I do believe your be blessed with another child but it's all in God's timing! Now try to put being pregnant on the back burner for now and enjoy life and your children and then all of a sudden you will realise your late lars! Sending you both and your gorgeous boys much love and prayers xxxx❤️🙏✝️❤️😘😘

  • @MarlessaSouthern-dv4ek
    @MarlessaSouthern-dv4ek 7 місяців тому

    After four children together, my husband and I agreed we were finished, and he had a vasectomy. God performed a miracle in our marriage and after a few years, he had a vasectomy reversal. The surgery failed, so he had a second. After that surgery, it was determined he had low morphology. Because we were blessed with four precious children, we knew we didn't want to go through IVF, but we were given the option to have an IUI. They performed a sperm wash, and we got pregnant on the first cycle. I'm not sure if you've heard of this option, but I wanted to share our story with you since we can relate. God is so good, and His timing is always perfect!!

  • @escapism7946
    @escapism7946 11 місяців тому

    Josh’s tee shirt is interesting

  • @e.j.9135
    @e.j.9135 11 місяців тому

    Of you want you will have a baby ❤❤❤ Miracles happends every day.

  • @frontricefield
    @frontricefield 11 місяців тому

    josh is such a wonderful dad,and maybe working too hard.this might make your mind stress and make sparm in a diffent shape.wait and see.your kids are so gorgeous,but still small and make you exhausted.
    just enjoy your time not think about another baby now👍enjoy it in Mexico😊❤

  • @dianakurland2500
    @dianakurland2500 11 місяців тому

    Lovely people

  • @sarahmabry1083
    @sarahmabry1083 11 місяців тому

    I was diagnosed with PCOS and endometriosis in my early twenties and told by not one doctor but three, that I would not be able to get pregnant on my own and was even less likely to carry to term, in January of 2012 I got my first positive pregnancy test, not even a week later I had severe cramping and bleeding, a visit to the er confirmed I was most likely miscarrying…that was a Friday, Monday morning I went for my blood draw and ultrasound to check if I had in fact miscarried and if a D&C was needed….during the ultrasound they found my daughter’s heartbeat and my hcg level later showed that it had tripled since the Friday before. She was born the 13th of September 2012, and another surprise, her sister was born in March of 2016. Sometimes doctors get it wrong in the end it’s in God’s hands and no one really knows what he has planned for them.

  • @martinetempelman
    @martinetempelman 11 місяців тому +1

    For fertility, let your husband take a good quality ginger supplement. It did help us!

  • @Diane_Meredith
    @Diane_Meredith 11 місяців тому +1

    You have two of the cutest baby boys ever!!! You should think of future grandchildren... That's gonna happen sooner than you know. ❤

  • @pjwo40
    @pjwo40 11 місяців тому

    Indi Fishy!

  • @Bestfledermaus
    @Bestfledermaus 5 місяців тому

    Don’t get discouraged. I’ve seen stranger things happen.

  • @NeverTooLateForAchange
    @NeverTooLateForAchange 11 місяців тому

  • @marir6872
    @marir6872 11 місяців тому

    Some answers 🙏 Please give male prenatals and supplements a try

  • @user-hf5vd7iq3x
    @user-hf5vd7iq3x 4 місяці тому +1

    Hello

  • @J-tt1lu
    @J-tt1lu 11 місяців тому

    6:20

  • @Alitheiamono
    @Alitheiamono 11 місяців тому +6

    Don't be upset. be grateful for the two children you have already had. My husband and I have a 0% chance of having a child due to poor sperm quality and we have not yet had a child even though we have been married for 10 years. so live it now with your sweet children and it doesn't matter if a 3rd child isn't coming. there are those of us who don't even have one. with lots of love from Greece.

  • @nincu5033
    @nincu5033 11 місяців тому +1

    Do not listen to doctors but belive and pray God. Only He gives Us children.💜💜

    • @emu9520
      @emu9520 11 місяців тому +1

      Science does…the sperm and the egg

  • @Odiekins
    @Odiekins 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m not trying to be mean, but she may not weigh enough consistently for her hormones to cooperate.

  • @heyrey818
    @heyrey818 11 місяців тому

    Maybe it's time to try IVF, to have more reassurance? Then you can choose the gender too and have a girl.

  • @Itsundertheblood
    @Itsundertheblood 11 місяців тому +2

    My gosh just be glad you can get pregnant

  • @bethkatzenberger851
    @bethkatzenberger851 10 місяців тому

    Sweetheart at 11 years old I had emergency surgery that resulted in a partial hysterectomy. Drs told my mom ( I lost my dad at 5) that they hoped she wasn’t looking forward to being a grandma in the future because I would never have children….. I was married 1 month, I was pregnant, a week before her first birthday I was pregnant again, I week before her birthday I found out I was pregnant with my son. Drs can only predict, based on statistics . You’re not a statistic. I feel with my whole heart that God is preparing the most beautiful 🩷 bundle for you guys 💕💕 You guys are such amazing, fun parents and with structure ❤ Not many people can combine love and structure, you guys do it with ease. I follow several of you guys, y’all remind me so much of myself. My baby will be 35 tomorrow.

  • @KPM24
    @KPM24 11 місяців тому

    This Video will help a lot of people ❤🫶