Jab Apne Hi Dil Dukhayein To Kya Kare ? How to Deal with Toxic Family Members ?Dr.Shikha SharmaRishi

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  • Опубліковано 9 бер 2022
  • Jab apni family ke hi log negative ho, humari respect na kare, humari value na kare, humari feelings ki kadar na karte ho to hum kya kare jisse ki rishta bhi bana rahe aur humari mental health bhi kharab na ho? Is video me inhi baaton ka solution share kiya hai ki family ke difficult, negative ya toxic members se hum kaise deal kare.
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  • @urvashiagnihotri6158
    @urvashiagnihotri6158 2 роки тому +28

    My mother-in-law is very jealous of me . Whatever I do good thing or work ,she takes credit and always count her work in front of husband and then husband feels that I am wrong and lazy .What I can do Mam?

    • @manseeratsidhu5099
      @manseeratsidhu5099 Рік тому +2

      Same Mera bi

    • @prithviprajapati6596
      @prithviprajapati6596 Рік тому +1

      Mera bhi mujhe mere sasural me saas nanad dono sasur sb ladte hai mujhse jlte hai bahut ziddi hai wo log unki vjah sehi mai rent PE rh rhi hu meri ek beti thi mere liye kahi khade nhi huyeere dukh me yaha tk saas meri mere pati ko bhi nhi rhne deti thi meri beti ko haert problem thi ab wo nhi hai ye log mujhe bahut hurt krte hai Mai kya karu Mai kya please 🙏🙏🙏
      Nand ek Dr hai ek teacher mere sasur mere pati bhi mujhe ejjaaat nhi dete baat nhi karte enke saath rhna padta hai maai kaise khus rhu

    • @Tanav_editz
      @Tanav_editz 9 місяців тому

      Same here

    • @Bhramingirl2.0
      @Bhramingirl2.0 Місяць тому

      Nothing just trust on god u do ur gud work like u r doing god is watching she has to pay one day for this behaviour of her also just self luv is imp just don't care about whether husband is liking ur work or what u r doing ur best

  • @kuchkhatikuchmithimanjuyku3717
    @kuchkhatikuchmithimanjuyku3717 2 роки тому +25

    आपने जो कहा वो सब सही है।पर कभी कभीआप कुछ ऐसे close रिश्तों से मजबूर होते हैं कि उनकीभलाई सोचकर सब गल्त भी चुपचाप सहन करते हो।

    • @vimlakataria8449
      @vimlakataria8449 Рік тому

      Really ✅

    • @vartikasrivastava250
      @vartikasrivastava250 3 місяці тому +2

      True aur kabhi kabhi bhai bahan bhi badal jate hain main bahut emotional hu mujhe bahut rona aata hai but samne wale ko koi fark nahin padta

    • @user-qx8fi5oh7b
      @user-qx8fi5oh7b 15 днів тому

      Apne aap se Pyar kro
      Same hmri life me bhi eaisa hi hai
      ​@@vartikasrivastava250

  • @mahimasharma5157
    @mahimasharma5157 2 роки тому +61

    One of the best video 💞, I m also living like these toxic people, nicely explain, bilkul Aisa lg raha hai jaisa aap mujhe hi smjha rahe ho, thanks for this 👍👍👍

    • @santoshsolanki5311
      @santoshsolanki5311 2 роки тому +3

      Oo

    • @sabanaqvi9283
      @sabanaqvi9283 2 роки тому +1

      Yeh video mere liye Ram badh ka kam krega
      Qk mere husband ka behaviour mere sath bht kharab h

    • @nandnichoudhary736
      @nandnichoudhary736 Рік тому

      Hindi me likhte to samajhte

    • @rupindernath8837
      @rupindernath8837 Рік тому

      @@sabanaqvi9283 same here...my husband is also of same kind...but we can not change them...they will change when they will become old and alone....fir jiska koi fayada nahi..

  • @singwithsimi2720
    @singwithsimi2720 2 роки тому +16

    Your tips help us in how to become fearless in life. But when our family members misbehave or give us mental torture it hurts.

  • @twinkleagrawal3434
    @twinkleagrawal3434 2 роки тому +7

    These ideas dont work in real life.. i believe to break the relation with such toxic person thats the only solution rather than being suffered always bcz of them

  • @vocabkhazana2063
    @vocabkhazana2063 2 роки тому +10

    You are the female sandeep maheshwari... Thank you mam for your valuable assistance.

  • @Sethijasmeet
    @Sethijasmeet 2 роки тому +6

    I am unable to control my mind during an argument with him. He always try to prove me wrong . He always think that he is always right and I am always wrong. He is good to everyone else in the family. I keep thinking about what negative he said about me.

  • @rajanichauhan8250
    @rajanichauhan8250 2 роки тому +5

    Bilkul sahi kaha, aise लोग ओर भी जहर उगल ते है, कुछ भी नहीं समझते हैं.or bohot चालाक हो ते है.selfish hote hai

  • @fathimabee2051
    @fathimabee2051 10 місяців тому +2

    Aap 100% currect bolatha.baahar vaale zaroorat nahi hote ghar vale (husbend beta beti) hi bahut kaafi hai..

  • @triptisadana174
    @triptisadana174 2 роки тому +14

    Dealt a lot with the toxic people around me. But now I have overcome the toxic relationship. And feeling so happy😊

    • @tanyagupta9621
      @tanyagupta9621 Рік тому

      Di apne kya kiya that plzz help me

    • @Great-Bharat-1
      @Great-Bharat-1 Рік тому +1

      I left my home , not in touch with anyone .
      left all known , settled in new city , now v happy . Took 10 yrs to forget them .

  • @ritupatel6279
    @ritupatel6279 Рік тому +1

    Bahot hi achhe se smjaya hai apne. Kafi helpful video hai. Me aise hi toxic peoples k bich reh rahi hu. apne uske man ko achhe se samajkar uske sath kaisa behave kre ye bhot achhe se smjaya hai. Thank you so much. Me ab khud ko develop krungi

  • @vibhajindal9441
    @vibhajindal9441 Рік тому +2

    Aapki baaton se mujhe kai logon ki personality samajh me aayee.
    Thank you so much ❤❤

  • @soniabhandari1184
    @soniabhandari1184 Рік тому +7

    Its a great thing you have shared with people. I thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️. I really need this...bcoz so many toxic people come in our life. You taught ne how to handle them.. 🙏🙏

  • @blushingpurbasa9203
    @blushingpurbasa9203 Рік тому +2

    Thank you soo much Ma'am.. Much needed❤

  • @namitaasit7220
    @namitaasit7220 Рік тому

    Agree with you completely Dr. Shikha. Thank you!

  • @SunitaSharma-nj7oy
    @SunitaSharma-nj7oy 7 місяців тому +2

    You touch each and every point ❤😊..

  • @tirathchauhan3362
    @tirathchauhan3362 2 роки тому +4

    Excellent video . Your advice is precious . I read quite a few self books. Every word you said is so true.

  • @singwithsimi2720
    @singwithsimi2720 2 роки тому +11

    Now I think I'll be able to deal with such people more effectively.

  • @surakshanarang3186
    @surakshanarang3186 11 місяців тому +2

    Hello mam aap ko dekhne aur sun lene se hi kafi positivty aa jati hai. App ka samghane ka method hi aisa hai ki koi bhi sab kuch samagh kar positive ho jayega. Many many thanks🌹 Mam.

    • @drshikha
      @drshikha  11 місяців тому

      You're most welcome 🙏🏻

  • @ushakalra785
    @ushakalra785 Рік тому +1

    Mam, yeh aapki vedio mujhe इतनी अच्छी lagi ki अगर yeh pehle kabhi display hoti to meri life bahut bahut achhi hoti.
    Very very nice, veri useful hope aage bhi aap ऐसी vedio बनाती रहे gi
    Thank you so much😊

  • @Sunshine-kb8xh
    @Sunshine-kb8xh 2 роки тому +6

    this video is bang on and straight to the point... worth listening it... thanku maam... this is such a practical approach to deal with toxic people... and so many points u said are so relatable.. I used to listen bk shivani for this but I nvr got any answers and how to deal... sending good energy to people who hurt us and all ..just seems impractical to me but u explained so well with solutions ... thanku for this video...

  • @naazkhan995
    @naazkhan995 2 роки тому +7

    Yes... You are right mam actions speak louder than words 💪

  • @rajantrivedi831
    @rajantrivedi831 2 роки тому +1

    Vah..Best guidelines.
    Thanks for this topic...

  • @charulagarwal147
    @charulagarwal147 Рік тому +3

    Thank u mam....bhaut pareshan thi mai aaj...apki video dekh k Dil bahut halka ho gya or face pr smile vapis aa gayi...nd Ur line "same to u back to u" was very funny but helping

  • @mamta1709
    @mamta1709 Рік тому +1

    Best video ever
    Ma'am keep making this type of video's. With examples it's easier for us to understand

  • @kumariarchana743
    @kumariarchana743 2 роки тому +3

    Thank u isi vedio ki jarurat thi .

  • @MrSalil611
    @MrSalil611 Рік тому +1

    V true mam.. but it's been a real struggle to follow what you said .. but a reminder at a very apt time

  • @Networkofcookingwithfrancy
    @Networkofcookingwithfrancy 2 роки тому +2

    Verry informative.. Thank you so much

  • @vibhasarkar7946
    @vibhasarkar7946 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent video. Thanks dear

  • @Lotus80hz
    @Lotus80hz Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much! This is so useful. Aap ne achhi tarah se explain kiya roadmap diya, bahut, bahut Dhanyavaad 🙏

  • @neetatiple5910
    @neetatiple5910 Місяць тому +1

    बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बाते सुनकर

  • @Jogeshree
    @Jogeshree 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you ma'am
    Helpful video ❤❤❤

  • @rockygamer7426
    @rockygamer7426 Рік тому +2

    Mem aapki baato se bahot himmat Or acchi baate sikne milti hai

  • @starflower-lu4it
    @starflower-lu4it Рік тому +2

    Best mamm...very power full speech..life change...👍✌🤗

  • @shilpisstudio2064
    @shilpisstudio2064 2 роки тому +2

    Thankuu maam...
    Apne bohot practical tips share kiye hai.... ☺☺

  • @beautify_intex
    @beautify_intex 2 роки тому +7

    Omg wt a beautiful video exactly same thing m dealing with in my life ❤️

  • @preetimodha3779
    @preetimodha3779 2 роки тому +1

    Superb....Thank you so much

  • @sudeeptanayak4394
    @sudeeptanayak4394 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much maam🙏
    Lots of ❤️
    You r the best guider🙏

  • @spiritualgirl1557
    @spiritualgirl1557 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you Universe for keeping me away from toxic people.

  • @sangitas366
    @sangitas366 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video...☺😘

  • @gitikasehgal2676
    @gitikasehgal2676 Рік тому +2

    Hello mam thanks for ur super teachings ..mujhe ese lg rha hai ki aap mujhe hi sikha re ho .. mujhe bohat jyada support mili hai apki is video se ... kyonki mai ab tk samaj hi nhi paari thi ki ese logo k sath kese reh paaoongi poori life .. thanks mam mujhe mentally strong bnane k lie thanku very much... ❤❤

  • @sonalishesha1199
    @sonalishesha1199 Рік тому +2

    Such a great video helps me a lot

  • @shivashreegupta8590
    @shivashreegupta8590 2 роки тому +1

    Ma'am apki videos ki wajah se maine khud ko pehchana Aur khud ko kaafi had tak improve Kiya thanks ma'am

  • @reenavaishnav5519
    @reenavaishnav5519 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you mam for good way to treating such people ❤❤

  • @ranikashyap9035
    @ranikashyap9035 Рік тому

    Wow 😊amazing first time esa vedio dekha jaha hr problem ka solution easy h jitni tarif ki jaae km h👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sangeetalakhe
    @sangeetalakhe 2 роки тому +3

    Tysm fo dis informative vdo 🙏sach kaha ap ne kuch logon ko ignor hi karna behetar hota hai👍👍kuch log kabhi nahi badal saktey jab tak wo khud khud ko na badle 🙏👍

  • @shaluvats3593
    @shaluvats3593 Рік тому +1

    Wao...u r amazing. I can connect with ur each and every line.

  • @starflower-lu4it
    @starflower-lu4it Рік тому +1

    Same hai meray saath ...good bahuth sukoon mila aap ki batay sunkar...Alhamdulillah

  • @nainaverma2600
    @nainaverma2600 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing tips....very true 👍

  • @crochetarte
    @crochetarte Рік тому +1

    Thank you ji 🙏😍😍
    Jiwan ki behtareen sikh dene ke liye 🥰🥰

  • @AlkaSingh5196
    @AlkaSingh5196 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot ma’am, ur way of explaining is so nice 😊

  • @manya7049
    @manya7049 2 роки тому +2

    Mam I continuously watching ur vedios... And now I m changing myself

    • @drshikha
      @drshikha  2 роки тому +1

      Glad to know that!

  • @vibhajindal9441
    @vibhajindal9441 Рік тому +1

    Awesome video. ❤
    So true😮
    Thank you

  • @Sejal390
    @Sejal390 2 роки тому +1

    Can't tell u who s that toxic people in my life..but ur vedio Is really needed today.. thanks

  • @rutujadeshpande1450
    @rutujadeshpande1450 Рік тому +1

    Much needed,,, thank you 🙏

  • @preetilambachugh36
    @preetilambachugh36 11 місяців тому +1

    This is all I needed❤️ thanks mam

  • @diptibaranwal6018
    @diptibaranwal6018 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for beautiful video ☺️

  • @bloodshedgamerz9935
    @bloodshedgamerz9935 2 роки тому +4

    Ma'am...agar woh toxic person mera husband ho ga toh mai usse kaise dittach ho paungi,.. I am facing this problem from last 10/12 yrs... I am working women but my husband always saying bad words for me..he is very egoistic person and I can not leave him becoz of my son... I can't tell you and can't explain my pain... But bcoz of him I have a lot of negative thoughts in my mind... Aur uski tarah mujhye sub negative hi lagta hai... Kya mai isse kabhi bhar nikal pavungi??😭

  • @silk0192
    @silk0192 2 роки тому +5

    Very helpful tips 🙂🙏🙏

  • @kshiprabansal7426
    @kshiprabansal7426 Рік тому

    Thank you.. Got the answers of my question

  • @julianadsouza6870
    @julianadsouza6870 2 роки тому +2

    It's true mam 👍🏽 Thank u 🙏🏾😊

  • @divyasharma5920
    @divyasharma5920 Рік тому +2

    Sahi baat ,na he apne goals batane hai na he apne plans etc just hi hello , and ignore

  • @kamleshlal2745
    @kamleshlal2745 2 роки тому +3

    Bahut bahut achha samjhaya aapne 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @manjulatajena8900
    @manjulatajena8900 Рік тому +1

    This is the best vidio of world for life saving l. God bless you l salute you mam❤

  • @rishitakumari5221
    @rishitakumari5221 2 місяці тому +1

    Hopefully I am able to apply in my life ❤

  • @umavrajandekar5795
    @umavrajandekar5795 Рік тому

    Sahii hai mam ..Mai bhi eise logo ke sath rah Rahi hu...nice tips..ty dear

  • @k-concepts8920
    @k-concepts8920 9 місяців тому +3

    We should ignore them utmost, but they are toxic due to their pain it's absolutely wrong..... it's nature of a personna which is permanent, so just boycott him, her or they.

  • @madhusmitaborah5355
    @madhusmitaborah5355 2 роки тому

    Great video Mam ♥️Thank you very much

  • @tongamete4618
    @tongamete4618 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much madam... For great msg ...👍👌

  • @madhubalathakur5096
    @madhubalathakur5096 Рік тому +1

    Waoo bilkul right mam.....best speach

  • @rashmibajpai225
    @rashmibajpai225 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best video ❤️❤️

  • @rupalichawke1731
    @rupalichawke1731 Рік тому +1

    Bohot acha samjhaya apne thanks 👍🙏

  • @motivatingschoolkids2253
    @motivatingschoolkids2253 Рік тому +1

    How sweet thoughts keep it up

  • @binduchoudhary6005
    @binduchoudhary6005 Рік тому

    Nice video. Apke bolne ka trika Bht Acha h or bate bhi bilkul dhratal se judi h.. Kyoki ap khud ek aurt h ap Bht ache se smjh payi h or smjha payi h.bilkul ese hi videos ki hr aurt ko jrurt rhti h. Thanks.

  • @poonamvarlani4100
    @poonamvarlani4100 Рік тому

    Well explained ma'am effective tip to deal with such people especially family close members Thankyou ma'am 💕💕

  • @jayashreesulegai3541
    @jayashreesulegai3541 2 роки тому

    Very very helpful.
    Thank you 😗❤

  • @dr.vinitarawat7911
    @dr.vinitarawat7911 2 роки тому +2

    Koi aisa person jis se ham emotionally behad attached ho agar wo toxic ho to deal karna struggle ho jata hai aur kai bar depression bhi hone lagta hai....Thank u so much mam hope now I will deal with some of my current situations...plz relationship management par aur suggestion jarur dijiyega

  • @harshabhatia47
    @harshabhatia47 Рік тому

    Sooo Beautiful n True video ✨👍🏻👌🏻☺️💖🙏🏻

  • @goura.k.1958
    @goura.k.1958 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Dr.shikha for your useful thought a

  • @UshaDhoot
    @UshaDhoot Рік тому

    बहुत अच्छा से बताया, धन्यवाद🙏🙏

  • @kkjewels3108
    @kkjewels3108 2 роки тому

    Dr shikha apne jo kuch bhi Kaha m ek ek word se relate kr pa rahi hoon or bahut kuch clear hua h thank u so much🤗

  • @poojagaikwad1090
    @poojagaikwad1090 Рік тому

    Great video
    Thank you so much ma'am

  • @surbhithodge8366
    @surbhithodge8366 2 роки тому +2

    Helpful viedo thank you so much Didu 😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘💖💖

  • @nitabhatia4197
    @nitabhatia4197 9 місяців тому +1

    Life is not a limited time like train journey
    It's soooooo difficult to stay with a toxic person in a family.
    Pala tau padta hi hai
    But there is no other option other than keeping quiet.
    But to maintain peace in family one person suffers and stays unhealthy.

  • @rekhachawla604
    @rekhachawla604 Рік тому

    Thanku so much for sharing such a nice video👍👌👌🌹🌹🙏🙏

  • @madhusmitanayak4920
    @madhusmitanayak4920 3 місяці тому +1

    😮😮👌👌 ekdum sahi kya video

  • @anujatamang7399
    @anujatamang7399 2 роки тому +1

    There are some people who are toxic in my life.... thank you❤

  • @mamtaraninagra4809
    @mamtaraninagra4809 2 роки тому

    Very very helpful video for me.thanku so much ma'am 🙏

  • @MrsMagic-es2yf
    @MrsMagic-es2yf 2 роки тому +1

    thanku for this video mam ❤️❤️

  • @manya7049
    @manya7049 2 роки тому +2

    Mam your haircut is very nice👍 and u looking awesome in this

  • @sunderdreams
    @sunderdreams 7 місяців тому +1

    Hmmmm..shi kha tha apne aaj k video me ....agr koi bar bar hurt kr rha h to galti hmari he h...hm dubara use moka de rhe h.... superb ho yr ap...🎉

  • @soniatitus226
    @soniatitus226 Рік тому +1

    Thanku mam ...this is my story ...my husband abused me my family a lot very badly after he drunk a lot....but I prayed to God one day he should change....

  • @specific_life
    @specific_life 2 роки тому +2

    U r right..

  • @nabztoonz
    @nabztoonz 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank u so much. I really needed this 😊❤

    • @drshikha
      @drshikha  11 місяців тому

      You are so welcome

  • @debasmitadas4701
    @debasmitadas4701 2 роки тому

    Exilent man, you are right

  • @priyankasingh-qp1gs
    @priyankasingh-qp1gs Рік тому +1

    Best video h ye apka 😍

  • @archanalokhande4274
    @archanalokhande4274 Рік тому +1

    Really super, an thank you so much❤🙏 mam

  • @SoniSingh-ch9mp
    @SoniSingh-ch9mp Рік тому

    Mam aapne bahut acha samjhaya...Thank you very much 💐💐

  • @diyaraghuvanshi7732
    @diyaraghuvanshi7732 2 роки тому +1

    Thanku mam and good job👏👏👏👏👏🥰

  • @ambikaharichandan349
    @ambikaharichandan349 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u very much Shikha ji 🙏 aap ne meri bahut badi problem solv kardiya. 🙏