How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Suzy Ismail (ICNA-MAS Convention)

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 298

  • @naajaxofficialchannel125
    @naajaxofficialchannel125 2 роки тому +14

    When i was growing up my mom was no longer with me because she died when i was only two years but alhamdu lilah my father was both a mom and dad for me and my siblings. He also refused to marry another wife for the sake of us..he was so kind and gave us a love that we should have never gotten. He was there with us when ever we needed. Now he was died 3 years ago. May allah bless him and my mom, and every parents who are both a live or died. From Berbera somalia 🇸🇴

    • @yvettewaritay2654
      @yvettewaritay2654 2 роки тому +1

      You were truly blessed to have such a loving FATHER. 🙏❤️🙏

    • @Al7amdulilah
      @Al7amdulilah 2 роки тому +2

      May Allah grant them both the highest level of Jannat Al Firdous. Allahuma Aaaameen

  • @wendyo.8079
    @wendyo.8079 4 роки тому +317

    Me and my husband hug and kiss our children. We tell them we love them everyday. We do family games together, I know it is not easy to raise kids now, but we must hold on and show them with action that they are loved...and yes , I agree respect is very important. May Allah protect our families, and keep us strong

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 роки тому +3

      Wendy o. Mashallah ameen

    • @bibihajra8869
      @bibihajra8869 4 роки тому +3

      Masha'Allaah lahola laquwatha may Allaah swa protect the Ummaah. AAMEEN 🤲

    • @fmcfmc77
      @fmcfmc77 4 роки тому +8

      May Allah swt make your children the coolness of your eyes and may they grow to become leaders in the Ummah ameen

    • @abdulmareedullah262
      @abdulmareedullah262 4 роки тому +3

      Ameen , Ya Allahuma RabilAlameen .... Aswrwbtuhu ,

    • @famadiop6516
      @famadiop6516 4 роки тому +1

      Amiin

  • @simanabdiali4715
    @simanabdiali4715 2 роки тому +21

    I’m 22 years old, my mom and dad are alive but they have never been in my life. I experienced the life of an orphan as a kid but Alhamdullilah. Now that I am grown when I listen to this type of lectures it makes me cry. You are an amazing mother Mashallah. My Allah grant you jannah❤️

    • @selima1057
      @selima1057 2 роки тому

      May Allah reward you and cleanse all sin in ur heart don’t forget no matter how ur parents treat you dnt reply to them in the same manner rather be nice to them extra let them wonder ,remember you are seeking your Jannah nothing else and u do it only for Allah no cuz u want their approval also a word of advice is try and seek Allah all the time cuz u might transfer this same energy to ur kids without even realizing it.

    • @kamilwadood9093
      @kamilwadood9093 Рік тому

      May Allah bless you

  • @l.a.7078
    @l.a.7078 6 років тому +235

    Your kids are so lucky to have you as their Mom ☺

    • @mehadabdoolkader6424
      @mehadabdoolkader6424 4 роки тому +3

      May Allah bless all of us and follow your good advice

    • @g.d.9619
      @g.d.9619 4 роки тому

      @@mehadabdoolkader6424 ameen

    • @fadumoabdi6737
      @fadumoabdi6737 4 роки тому

      @@mehadabdoolkader6424 )

    • @husseinhassan5222
      @husseinhassan5222 4 роки тому

      Ameen

    • @muhammadjamaluddin499
      @muhammadjamaluddin499 4 роки тому +1

      correct. but between mom and kids relation is within them. I don't think, she doesn't represent complete orders of Islam.

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 4 роки тому +18

    I always pray when my kid is a teenager I will be around her...for now i have no choice but to be away from her to fend for her needs because am the only hope she has as a parent...if i had support from the other side leaving my country would be last thing in my mind....I also pray when she grows up God will grant her wisdom to understand everything.

    • @ahmedabdullahraiyan8419
      @ahmedabdullahraiyan8419 3 роки тому

      inshaallah. i hope allah helps you and answers your prayers.

    • @sadiya2418
      @sadiya2418 3 роки тому

      So proud of you .. May Allah bless you with afiyah💛

  • @kaifali686
    @kaifali686 4 роки тому +9

    My mother is best 😭😭😭😭😭 when i am heartbreak she knws when feel bad or have bad day she knw may Allah bless her.

  • @artisthusnatalal3099
    @artisthusnatalal3099 4 роки тому +19

    *If I was brought up with all upbringings that you've talked about, I would be the queen of the world today. But I am now suffering 😢. I pray Allah will help me bring up my children in the best of ways. I don't want them to pass through what I went through!* ☝💟

    • @fadiavw
      @fadiavw 4 роки тому +1

      Assalamu Alaykum, keep in making duah for your children don't leave 1 salaah without making duah for your children... May Allah Swt always accept all our duahs especially for our children Ameen

    • @artisthusnatalal3099
      @artisthusnatalal3099 4 роки тому

      @@fadiavw Ameen sister in sha Allah!

    • @saq546
      @saq546 4 роки тому +1

      Don’t put them in school and what happened to you will not happen to them InshaAllah!

  • @bluemarkt2258
    @bluemarkt2258 4 роки тому +67

    I feel so bad because its not the fault of my parents. It is my because they everytime try to speak to me but i dont listen. Thanks allah i learned how to react to stuff like that. Now my new friends are not real friends they are fake ones. But who avtually need friend when you have parents. I even help my mom and dad in the household

    • @dayyibashuaibuumar5396
      @dayyibashuaibuumar5396 4 роки тому +1

      that's great masha Allah.. keep trying and always seek their forgiveness and Allah's forgiveness upon them... u know parent are the best. ALLAHUMMAH DINAA ALAA SIRATAKAL MUSTAQEEM

    • @khadijahabubakr3502
      @khadijahabubakr3502 4 роки тому

      Proud of u

    • @hanaemohammedsaid9542
      @hanaemohammedsaid9542 4 роки тому

      Blue Markt2 bless you

  • @susanmaris729
    @susanmaris729 4 роки тому +35

    Your advise applies, no matter the ages of our children. We all want to do the best for
    our kids but get so BUSY that we need someone like you to remind us of our priorities.
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @chernohmarah2230
    @chernohmarah2230 5 років тому +67

    May Allah give us good children, Ameen 🙏🙏

  • @cauntongansittiehannahfaro1034
    @cauntongansittiehannahfaro1034 4 роки тому +8

    this hurts knowing that me and my parents are not that open to each other, but they are always in my dua❣️

  • @Zaira693
    @Zaira693 4 роки тому +43

    Such a wise sister MashAllah and such an important topic....May Allah make us great parents and guide our children.

  • @hishemadi6831
    @hishemadi6831 4 роки тому +18

    Beautiful talk , hafidika allah , we need some Muslim like her in this community 👍👍👍

  • @yvettewaritay2654
    @yvettewaritay2654 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent 👍
    Every person in this world needs to hear THIS MESSAGE.

  • @farrahahmed1966
    @farrahahmed1966 5 років тому +25

    Alhamdulila Shukran Dr Suzy may Allah reward you more in life with health and long life

  • @sens2807
    @sens2807 6 років тому +25

    So true, thank you Mashaa Allah. Only a mother understands this. A father does not. It doesnt matter how wise he is. No disrespect to all the 3oelama.

    • @rawshonislam8733
      @rawshonislam8733 6 років тому

      saal true

    • @fadumonor868
      @fadumonor868 4 роки тому +6

      saal, that’s not true!! Not all fathers are the same just like not all mothers are the same

    • @abunadia5506
      @abunadia5506 4 роки тому +3

      Please don’t paint all men with the same brush!

    • @ifranksultan
      @ifranksultan 4 роки тому +4

      Not true saal. I am a dad and I understand this very well.

    • @ifranksultan
      @ifranksultan 4 роки тому +1

      @@fadumonor868 agreed

  • @fakihashami790
    @fakihashami790 4 роки тому +51

    May Allah bless you sister, such an inspiring message

  • @NKDewi
    @NKDewi 4 роки тому +31

    Oct 2019 and just found this amazing video. Alhamdulillah 🍃 May Allah always guides us.

  • @arghubtarar
    @arghubtarar 5 років тому +29

    ماشاءاللہ
    so inspiring and so true

    • @alazad816
      @alazad816 3 роки тому

      In Mauritius the first time in Mauritius pm on the first time in Mauritius pm on the first time in Mauritius pm working

  • @swafiyyarayanabubakar3296
    @swafiyyarayanabubakar3296 4 роки тому +3

    Beutifull message maashaa Allah. Jazakhallahukhair

  • @lailamoozeer761
    @lailamoozeer761 4 роки тому +8

    U are bless sister
    UR kids must be proud and bless to have as mum
    May Allah swt bless my family and grand children to learn n respect
    Ameen

  • @MynameisHussain
    @MynameisHussain 4 роки тому +5

    They will seek someone who listens to them, no matter if that maybe a trap. Very important we need to realize this.

  • @zahedmiah1
    @zahedmiah1 5 років тому +22

    Hope we learn and put it into practice from this beautiful speech and Wish all mother were like u or patents
    JazakAllah Kairan and thank you

  • @shahanaunnisa1635
    @shahanaunnisa1635 4 роки тому +1

    Every line that u are talking is more valuable information about developing kids. Jajakallahu khair. We must take time to talk to them play with them.

  • @MSultana
    @MSultana 5 років тому +18

    Amazing lecture ma sha Allaah!!
    Jazak Allaahu khayran sister.

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 роки тому

      mashuda sultana ikr mashallah🤩🤩👏🏼👏🏼

    • @thenerdkid5790
      @thenerdkid5790 4 роки тому

      @@sbegum29 tolonews

  • @yusufshakirah2138
    @yusufshakirah2138 4 роки тому +18

    O.M.A! This is quite inspiring. Well done, Maa sha Allah 😘👌👍

    • @fmanz7759
      @fmanz7759 4 роки тому

      I really love your lecture

  • @nel1122
    @nel1122 4 роки тому +5

    Very powerful and practical speech. Jazakallahu khayran.

  • @hamidabithi7535
    @hamidabithi7535 4 роки тому +5

    ma shaa Allah, such a valuable lecture. May Allah bless our sister Dr.Suzy Ismail for such an important reminder, Ameen. Jazakallah Khair ICNA.

  • @samreynolds3789
    @samreynolds3789 4 роки тому +19

    LOOK Your CHILD in the EYES & TELL them ,”I LOVE YOU “!

  • @muardfuard8457
    @muardfuard8457 4 роки тому +7

    May Allah increase our knowledge .
    very beautiful and valuable msg.

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 роки тому

      Muard Fuard ameen

  • @aseelsoul992
    @aseelsoul992 4 роки тому +7

    Great lecture ! Allahumma barik

  • @delwarm1
    @delwarm1 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah, I wish I had the opportunity of listening this advisory and valuable lecture 30 years before, this is a gem and wish every parents can listen to this, we need to share it with whoever we know.

  • @safiraalyad3483
    @safiraalyad3483 5 років тому +5

    MasyaAllah! You're such a pleasant muslimah Sister Suzy! May Allah Bless you :)

  • @nurhidayah3670
    @nurhidayah3670 4 роки тому +5

    Indeed !!!!

  • @maxamadamin9056
    @maxamadamin9056 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you sister I would love to apply this advice when I get the chance of becoming a mother

  • @rahmaspeech
    @rahmaspeech 6 років тому +12

    Bless you sister

  • @mohammadarifsharifi2867
    @mohammadarifsharifi2867 4 роки тому

    You are a greatest mother, the lucky people have mother like as you.

  • @sdsfgsty
    @sdsfgsty 4 роки тому +4

    One of best and important lectures

  • @bisonmma-kickboxing2511
    @bisonmma-kickboxing2511 4 роки тому +8

    Great Speech Sister .. Mashallah

  • @Anbaro.
    @Anbaro. 4 роки тому +7

    ما شاءالله جزاك الله خيرا
    very beautiful and very inspiring

  • @isatoumboge8657
    @isatoumboge8657 4 роки тому +1

    Thank so much sister for the wonderful massage

  • @sugrasabri8427
    @sugrasabri8427 5 років тому +2

    Super advice. Don’t know why people comment rudely!

  • @jayabdih1
    @jayabdih1 4 роки тому +4

    Greetings from Kota Kinabalu city. Alhamdulillah very inspiring motivating talk. May Allah reward you abundance of health and knowledge.

  • @joannedouglas3250
    @joannedouglas3250 4 роки тому +2

    I tell my 4 year old tht I love her no matter what.everyday.and i kiss and hug her every day

  • @bibihajra8869
    @bibihajra8869 4 роки тому +3

    Jazakillaah khayr lovely sis,
    So true and inspiring words.
    May Allaah swa reward you in both worlds and answer all the Ummaah's lawful DUAS.

  • @hasaneurope4603
    @hasaneurope4603 4 місяці тому

    💙💙u whomever i am whomever i may be not keep your deen there is paradise ,

  • @SUNSHINE-ji7lj
    @SUNSHINE-ji7lj 6 років тому +12

    Beautiful Message many Blessings.. Thank U

    • @imanindeen
      @imanindeen 5 років тому

      @M.M.R.S M.M.R.S Why? Don't question someone's belief. Allah know the heart.

    • @imanindeen
      @imanindeen 5 років тому

      @@salahdiinali7755 What is that supposed to mean? There are millions and millions of black Muslims in the world, and I've see Muslims from all over the world not wear hijab, so how does someone "look Christian"?

    • @salahdiinali7755
      @salahdiinali7755 4 роки тому

      Khadija Oh I’m sorry my little sister wrote that

    • @salahdiinali7755
      @salahdiinali7755 4 роки тому

      Khadija I will never say that

    • @salahdiinali7755
      @salahdiinali7755 4 роки тому

      @Khadija I’m black myself and my sister said that for some reason

  • @abdifatahmohamed8531
    @abdifatahmohamed8531 4 роки тому +4

    Great speech sister, Masha Allah

  • @fatmaosman8439
    @fatmaosman8439 4 роки тому +2

    Mash Allah It's a beautiful speech 💕

  • @faridaalieva2241
    @faridaalieva2241 4 роки тому +7

    100% true Thanks 🙏🏽💕💕👏🏽

  • @sittirahmaahmad7607
    @sittirahmaahmad7607 4 роки тому +5

    MaashaAllah

  • @sydneycabral7997
    @sydneycabral7997 4 роки тому +1

    Very true and impressive speech

  • @ambiamash2194
    @ambiamash2194 4 роки тому

    So inspiring word to our tday tomorrow and our future kids life,may Allah gave u more yrs to live to inspire in the right way

  • @draasifkhan8505
    @draasifkhan8505 4 роки тому

    Jazak Allah khair Sister.
    One of the best Motivating talks I have listened. Being a Busy Dr. Myself & a Out of Sight Father of 3 Teens, I understand what they are facing due to my Absence, even though we stay in the same house, Walls have been Created
    Jazak Allah khair once again

  • @soulafaalchihan7947
    @soulafaalchihan7947 5 років тому +5

    Jazaky Allah khayra sister🌷

  • @maryam9767
    @maryam9767 4 роки тому +1

    Really thanks for such a nice guideline.it really helps a lot.am very much thankful to Allah that I listened or watch this session of u.

  • @fgobaid387
    @fgobaid387 4 роки тому +3

    Excellent!
    I needed it !
    Ameen

  • @yusraabdi9761
    @yusraabdi9761 5 років тому +5

    It’s a beautiful teaching

  • @mohammadarifsharifi2867
    @mohammadarifsharifi2867 4 роки тому

    My sister All protect you and your family.

  • @humble9472
    @humble9472 4 роки тому +1

    Masha allah right on sis jazak allahuqyr

  • @ousmanediaw6820
    @ousmanediaw6820 4 роки тому

    Mashallah sister may Allah protect you and your family it's a very beautiful speech

  • @NurulAmin-gm8qi
    @NurulAmin-gm8qi 2 роки тому

    Alhumdulillah.How nice her explain !
    Its also zannati work. Congregation
    my happy sister.Amin.Bangladesh.

  • @letzplay2356
    @letzplay2356 3 роки тому

    Mashallah aunty Suzy me and my mama lisen to this 10 times a day 👍👍👍👍I thought of a bamboo tree

  • @hawajama2500
    @hawajama2500 4 роки тому +1

    Mansha Allah sister, thanks for sharing that beautiful topic, and Allah reward you sister

  • @aamenahgaffar731
    @aamenahgaffar731 4 роки тому +1

    Alhamdulillaah.. You have given a very good message.

  • @nibsawchoy5054
    @nibsawchoy5054 5 років тому +3

    Masha allah what a smart sister

  • @salwaammar9294
    @salwaammar9294 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks a lot for such an incredible talk.

  • @uzmamajeed1790
    @uzmamajeed1790 4 роки тому +4

    Beautiful message 💯❤️

  • @LoG-22
    @LoG-22 4 роки тому

    Ma Sha Allah Tabarak Allah. very enlightening and profound subject matter. May Allah SWT reward all your efforts with the best in the worlds. Ameen

  • @sadiaibrahim3210
    @sadiaibrahim3210 5 років тому +2

    Jazakallahul Khairan

  • @sz4366
    @sz4366 4 роки тому +1

    Barakallah Dr. Suzy. Very inspirational.

  • @fatumakadute7959
    @fatumakadute7959 4 роки тому +2

    Ma shaa Allah jazaka Allah kher

  • @b.i.n.a2959
    @b.i.n.a2959 4 роки тому

    Jazak Allahu Khairan...very usefull instructive talk...each & every words sooo true..may Allah help & guide us to guide our youngsters...Ameen

  • @sul81
    @sul81 4 роки тому

    mashallah, shukran Dr Suzy, may the Almight Allah grant you abundantly

  • @mohammadkuso7048
    @mohammadkuso7048 4 роки тому

    i am very happy to join website i will join insha allah & learn more from program as a muslim what i belive futre is for islam

  • @imaduddinahmed4442
    @imaduddinahmed4442 4 роки тому

    So proud to listen

  • @user-tn6sy9dl2g
    @user-tn6sy9dl2g 3 роки тому

    We’re our children’s role model 🌞

  • @elennabaron1465
    @elennabaron1465 4 роки тому +2

    Childre give a happy family and happy life
    Thank you allah so much I love you allah ,Im happy all the time

  • @zemzemmuhamed5067
    @zemzemmuhamed5067 4 роки тому

    You are the best mom and teller

  • @bangladeshivloggerjoley1757
    @bangladeshivloggerjoley1757 4 роки тому +6

    Very nice video ❤️💖 Alhamdulillah

  • @yvettewaritay2654
    @yvettewaritay2654 2 роки тому

    Your word pronunciation is perfect! 8/15/22

  • @razaqzaynab8460
    @razaqzaynab8460 4 роки тому

    Jazakallahu khairan sis May Allah increase ur knowledge

  • @sarahazeem1056
    @sarahazeem1056 2 роки тому

    Amazing lecture Ma sha Allah

  • @thriving_muslim_home_education
    @thriving_muslim_home_education 4 роки тому

    May Allaah All-Mighty forgive us and guide us all worldwide to righteousness until our last breath or the last day, aameen! 🌏🕋 #UniversalJusticeandWorldPeace

  • @blessedbeautiful3872
    @blessedbeautiful3872 4 роки тому +1

    Learning hw l will rise my children insha Allah

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 6 років тому +6

    Good Stuff. BaarakAllah

  • @almashaneef8207
    @almashaneef8207 5 років тому +3

    Beautiful message 👍

  • @shainnak5555
    @shainnak5555 4 роки тому +1

    I can't stop crying when i watching this vedio coz my daughter is now 16 and I left her since she was 1year and 3months old I never been her when she grows up I dont have any memory when she was a baby but now she is 16 years old and never she her long time bcoz im working away from her since 2005

  • @shereenshehab4345
    @shereenshehab4345 4 роки тому

    نفع الله بكي واسخدمك ولا يسبدلك ابدا. ما شاء الله جمييله المحاضره

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 2 роки тому

    Very good speech. Thank you.

  • @alimasud711
    @alimasud711 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this very beneficial lecture. Alloh SWT blesses to the speaker and the audience.

  • @raziav818
    @raziav818 4 роки тому

    Assalamu alaikum wa rahmathullai wa barakathu thank you so much sister for giving such a wonderful msg to all parents.May Allah give u more options to teach abt dealing with our sweet teens which will be very helpful to a parent like me . Inshallah we will raise our teen in the way of deen .

  • @roqaiamohammad8188
    @roqaiamohammad8188 Рік тому

    What a useful and nice lecture!! thanks

  • @khadijakimana8809
    @khadijakimana8809 4 роки тому +1

    Man Sha Allah! thank you sister , may Allah bless you!

  • @goodlifeoman604
    @goodlifeoman604 4 роки тому

    Your conversation it's really nice keep doing well God bless you

  • @innallaahaamaassaabireen5209
    @innallaahaamaassaabireen5209 3 роки тому

    اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ عَلَى نَبَيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ وَعَلىٰ آلِهِ (مـا أنـا عـلـيـه و أصـحـابـي) وَصَحْبِهِ وَسَلِّمْ تَسْلِيمًا ﷺ
    ( إِنَّ اللَّهَ وَمَلَائِكَتَهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا صَلُّوا عَلَيْهِ وَسَلِّمُوا تَسْلِيماً) سورة الأحزاب Verse 56
    Blessings of ALLAH be upon Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam and the progeny of our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam
    ALLAHUMMA SALLI ALA SAIYYEDINA MUHAMMADIN NOORIL ANWARI WA SIRRIL ASRARI WA SAIYYEDIL ABRAR
    Oh ALLAH, shower thy blessings on Hazrat Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam, Who is light, actual light, mystery among the mysteries, and the leader of the excellents.

  • @ayoubbrown_
    @ayoubbrown_ 3 роки тому

    Jazakum Allah yjazikum

  • @samanthaphillip5268
    @samanthaphillip5268 4 роки тому

    Asalamwalekum may Allah bless u and ur family always....Respect!

  • @On_Point10
    @On_Point10 4 роки тому +1

    MashAllah this was a fruitful vid.

  • @thriving_muslim_home_education
    @thriving_muslim_home_education 4 роки тому

    Wa Antum Fa Jazakumullahu Khayran. Thank you. Aameen! 🌏🕋