Neither of them are real friends to each other…they aren’t accountable with the issues they caused within the friendship, and they don’t communicate well at all. Seems like there’s years of built up resentment from not resolving childhood issues.
This was emotional for me. At one point, i can relate. Its really hard to loose a best friend. Thank you to Karamo, their friendship was restored. Karamo you are blessing to this world. Keep it up good work. I am planning to start a talkshow from next year. Which was my dream from school. You are rocking
childhood friends grow apart all the time. nothing here suggests that kim stopped talking to her just bc she lost weight. assuming people start to keep their distance because they’re “jealous” makes them want to be around you even less.
It seems trivial but one of the greatest ills to friendship and relationships is simply COMMUNICATION. I am glad they found a safe space to express this and rekindle their friendship.
I went through something similar and I tried my best to hang on but We aren’t friends anymore and I’m content with that 🧘🏾♀️….. I lost weight and gained happiness and some people only need you when your down
They seem like the really love each other but they're holding on to stuff from the past and have built some resentment towards each other. They needed to come on here to fully express themselves and to move forward 🥰
Ooooooo I saw thatttttt tooo she was slightly laughing when the friend was getting emotional and that was a red flag for me. Theres a term for it but can't remember the name.
If a friend cuts me off for whatever reason i wouldn’t even want them to look for me, rekindle anything w me i wouldn’t even be worried about it because “Real Friends” don’t you and leave you w/out explaination
She probably couldn't get over that her ex had sex with her fat friend , who she felt didn't have to compete with, and when the other one started losing weight, she couldn't take it as well as she thought she could. I'm sure losing the weight and feeling herself didn't help their friendship. Maybe they can start fresh.
@@mactrek2 OR she could just be hurt that her friend had sex with an ex that she cared about maybe? LOL...why does it have to have anything to do with competition LOL
In high school I was friends with a girl who my mom told me wasn’t my friend and I didn’t listen but the older I got I realized she wasn’t my true friend
Thin blond white women are at the top of the beauty hierarchy in the western world. When you lose weight as a woman ...especially a white woman with blond hair you've gone from the bottom of the pile of white women straight to the top, thats a lot of new power to deal with. Almost everyone treats you like trash when you are fat, then gradually people start treating you like a human and then the beauty ideal, it must feel like a large lottery win??? Plus it sounds like she was toxic pre-weight loss (sleeping with her best friends ex?... thats effed up). Her best friend was abandoned as the weight loss friend got more consumed with her new power. The weight loss friend I'm glad that shes more happy about the way she looks though however she seems indifferent and void of empathy. her best friend needs to sever ties and heal as far as i can tell. Just my opinion, v powerful topic though...should be a documentary 'Desirability and Friendship'
the friendship would’ve ended when she slept with the boyfriend i don’t understand why people do that idgaf how old you’re there’s so many men and women out here get your own.
Nahhh it was more to the story. She slept with her friends bf and the weight loss story is her excuse for them not being friends. She said she didn’t remember and kept playing the victim.
First let me say I am happy she is happy with her body, kudos to her & loving yourself is important.. so congratulations to that 🥳 But it’s clear as day to me that she is the cause of the downfall of their friendship.. It seems like she’s not really saying anything & notice she keeps talking to Karamo instead of to her friend.. & the emotion of the friend seems real legit to me
I was thinking this too. It seems like after she lost the weight her ego got a little too big. I get it, its easy to lose yourself when you have pride in accomplishing an important goal. But she also admitted that she clung onto the only person that showed her compassion and love as a friend. I'm not sure she even realized what that sounded like. Finally, the pain and anger seem real for her friend. She just seems nonchalant about a lot of it, and disingenuous when she's not.
Too sides to every story and once the friend came out telling the really truth the girl that lost all that weight while demeanor change! Nah don’t change now! She painted this whole face picture to the audience. She knows damn well she slept with her friends ex boyfriend
lol I just watched another episode just like this one where the woman said her best friend did this and that and was jealous of her. Come to find out the best friend is a doctor and not jealous of her at all. She distanced herself because she didn't show up to her house warming or her birthday party. She left that part out initially and when Karamo asked her about it she was like I shouldn't have to explain why I wasn't there. I said oh hell no. She almost had me fooled thinking the best friend was the problem, but it was her who caused the problem.
Yea I don’t think she was ever a real friend. She held onto resentment from teenage years and has all this anger from it shows. Like I get being upset but if you’re still holding onto those feelings, why try to still be her “friend”?
Awkward at best, and not genuine. The friends delivery was so aggressive and overwhelming that I wouldn’t really want to be around her anyway. And, if she really did sleep with her friends ex many years ago, that is messed up and should be acknowledged. I don’t buy that she’s that upset over it, though.
The "friend" extra as hell. She a hater. Been a hater. She ain't even have to bring up the ex bf or none of that. She tried to shame her from the moment she got on stage. Sis, drop her and come over here. We'll do tapas and margaritas 😩
Neither of them are real friends to each other…they aren’t accountable with the issues they caused within the friendship, and they don’t communicate well at all. Seems like there’s years of built up resentment from not resolving childhood issues.
This was emotional for me. At one point, i can relate. Its really hard to loose a best friend. Thank you to Karamo, their friendship was restored. Karamo you are blessing to this world. Keep it up good work. I am planning to start a talkshow from next year. Which was my dream from school. You are rocking
childhood friends grow apart all the time. nothing here suggests that kim stopped talking to her just bc she lost weight. assuming people start to keep their distance because they’re “jealous” makes them want to be around you even less.
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It seems trivial but one of the greatest ills to friendship and relationships is simply COMMUNICATION. I am glad they found a safe space to express this and rekindle their friendship.
she was never a real friend, if a friend leaves you because you chose to lose weight and be healthy, they dont deserve to know you anymore
1000% 💯
Did you actually watch the episode 🙄
@@thomasyoung5013 read the title only and commented it seems…
@@thomasyoung5013 exactly
Lol that’s not what happened. You didn’t watch it … did you? 😂
This is a really nicely done show. Karamo is so human. Thank you for this!
When you Distance yourself, let yourself go you find our who's your real friends
I went through something similar and I tried my best to hang on but We aren’t friends anymore and I’m content with that 🧘🏾♀️….. I lost weight and gained happiness and some people only need you when your down
And just like that Karamo saves yet another friendship 💛💛
They seem like the really love each other but they're holding on to stuff from the past and have built some resentment towards each other. They needed to come on here to fully express themselves and to move forward 🥰
A friend doesn't have sex with a friend's ex. Never ever.
You can ruin a person friendship by sleeping with someone ex
The one who lost weight is a narcissist. She gaslit her friend during the apology and didn’t own up to anything.
I agree.. seems like everyone thinks the friend is wrong but I don’t see it that way
Hmmm..can you explain how she gaslit her friend? I didn't see it that way and I want to understand this perspective.
Ooooooo I saw thatttttt tooo she was slightly laughing when the friend was getting emotional and that was a red flag for me. Theres a term for it but can't remember the name.
She definitely was making a lot of excuses but the “friend” was never a real friend either they both need to go their separate ways honestly lol
Seriously! And clearly has selective memory about what she wants too!
If a friend cuts me off for whatever reason i wouldn’t even want them to look for me, rekindle anything w me i wouldn’t even be worried about it because “Real Friends” don’t you and leave you w/out explaination
Is nobody going to talk about her sleeping with her friends man? And conveniently forgetting,?
It was her ex....and they were in high school. Not saying it's right but she need to let that hurt go.
Exactly, she knows she slept with her man and she crying
She probably couldn't get over that her ex had sex with her fat friend , who she felt didn't have to compete with, and when the other one started losing weight, she couldn't take it as well as she thought she could. I'm sure losing the weight and feeling herself didn't help their friendship. Maybe they can start fresh.
Dats the real question 💯💯
@@mactrek2 OR she could just be hurt that her friend had sex with an ex that she cared about maybe? LOL...why does it have to have anything to do with competition LOL
Run forest run! Don’t re-friend! End this fake friendship
In high school I was friends with a girl who my mom told me wasn’t my friend and I didn’t listen but the older I got I realized she wasn’t my true friend
Thin blond white women are at the top of the beauty hierarchy in the western world. When you lose weight as a woman ...especially a white woman with blond hair you've gone from the bottom of the pile of white women straight to the top, thats a lot of new power to deal with. Almost everyone treats you like trash when you are fat, then gradually people start treating you like a human and then the beauty ideal, it must feel like a large lottery win??? Plus it sounds like she was toxic pre-weight loss (sleeping with her best friends ex?... thats effed up).
Her best friend was abandoned as the weight loss friend got more consumed with her new power. The weight loss friend I'm glad that shes more happy about the way she looks though however she seems indifferent and void of empathy.
her best friend needs to sever ties and heal as far as i can tell. Just my opinion, v powerful topic though...should be a documentary 'Desirability and Friendship'
the friendship would’ve ended when she slept with the boyfriend i don’t understand why people do that idgaf how old you’re there’s so many men and women out here get your own.
Nahhh it was more to the story. She slept with her friends bf and the weight loss story is her excuse for them not being friends. She said she didn’t remember and kept playing the victim.
First let me say I am happy she is happy with her body, kudos to her & loving yourself is important.. so congratulations to that 🥳
But it’s clear as day to me that she is the cause of the downfall of their friendship.. It seems like she’s not really saying anything & notice she keeps talking to Karamo instead of to her friend.. & the emotion of the friend seems real legit to me
I was thinking this too. It seems like after she lost the weight her ego got a little too big. I get it, its easy to lose yourself when you have pride in accomplishing an important goal.
But she also admitted that she clung onto the only person that showed her compassion and love as a friend. I'm not sure she even realized what that sounded like. Finally, the pain and anger seem real for her friend. She just seems nonchalant about a lot of it, and disingenuous when she's not.
Too sides to every story and once the friend came out telling the really truth the girl that lost all that weight while demeanor change! Nah don’t change now! She painted this whole face picture to the audience. She knows damn well she slept with her friends ex boyfriend
lol I just watched another episode just like this one where the woman said her best friend did this and that and was jealous of her. Come to find out the best friend is a doctor and not jealous of her at all. She distanced herself because she didn't show up to her house warming or her birthday party. She left that part out initially and when Karamo asked her about it she was like I shouldn't have to explain why I wasn't there. I said oh hell no. She almost had me fooled thinking the best friend was the problem, but it was her who caused the problem.
if they dont leave each other ALONE
Yea I don’t think she was ever a real friend. She held onto resentment from teenage years and has all this anger from it shows. Like I get being upset but if you’re still holding onto those feelings, why try to still be her “friend”?
crystal seem like she off a perc. 😭😭
righh 😭
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I was thinking the same thing 😂
Congratulations Crystal weight lost
The lady who lost the weight is the messy friend
Funny comments hate the friend but people lose weight do have ego trips no shade
I lost 200lbs got definitely affected my relationship with my ex gf. She got jealous because I was smaller than her
You can't remember who you lost your virginity to oh Lord she look like she was lying
I think they just wanted to be ok tv
I love his show. Which channel does it air on ?
Internet only
Oh ok thanks
No it’s on the CW too
Thanks
I liked that outfit. I just researched Nina Parker. Her line is in Macy's.
Awkward at best, and not genuine. The friends delivery was so aggressive and overwhelming that I wouldn’t really want to be around her anyway. And, if she really did sleep with her friends ex many years ago, that is messed up and should be acknowledged. I don’t buy that she’s that upset over it, though.
I totally agree, I think friend is jealous of her weight loss, she look younger and no bagg under the eyes, ijs
Can we hv full show uploads pls
"on TV" I felt that
This reminds me of Pink Sauce girl
Did karomo say his boyfriends, I just need clarity
Yes, he’s gay? It’s not obvious?
Damn the friend loud and aggressive. And old ass boyfriend at 15 Christ almighty that can’t be it . She’s very angry
Not the dry ass tears.🙄
Kimberly, you don't need her.
This is so petty!
The girl who lost the weight needs to move on, the other one needs GED classes. She’s no friend talking about school days boyfriend.
Hey
I'm only seconds in I don't mean to be mean but Kimberly looks sick
She is very angry. You can be fake friend for a long time. Her face !!!!
Forgive, forgive
Boyfriend hmmm
Hmmmmmmm
Maybe it’s because you’ve both changed.. it happens
That outfit is awful regardless if Nina Parker !
You got that RIGHT!!! Lol
dam
The "friend" extra as hell. She a hater. Been a hater. She ain't even have to bring up the ex bf or none of that. She tried to shame her from the moment she got on stage. Sis, drop her and come over here. We'll do tapas and margaritas 😩
I don't remember if I slept with your dude or not. Yeah the one who lost weight sounds like the prob to me
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