Thinking of marriage? Listen to these 4 lessons first.

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  • @kabategyekieunice1083
    @kabategyekieunice1083 Рік тому +3

    Thank youuuuuuuu about the finances!!! I don’t know why people look at me like am crazy when I say I believe in one pool of finances for a couple...it eases transparence, trust and growth!!!

  • @mapulemolly
    @mapulemolly Рік тому +5

    How can I like this a thousand times? I just love Flavia so much.😍

  • @rodgerskamugisha8833
    @rodgerskamugisha8833 Рік тому +4

    My take home from this vlog :Seasons & updating settings. Thanks Flav

  • @pkikt.9763
    @pkikt.9763 Рік тому +29

    I really love how Flavia gives us real life lessons that she herself has learnt from. If we pay attention, really pay attention , choose and focus on our growth, re-arrange our prioties among other things, we just might save ourselves therapy charges in the near future.

  • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
    @KihemboNyakatoPamela Рік тому +31

    I'm not married yet but our pastor always gives us marriage tips and this has helped me prepare for marriage.
    He always tells us that "a husband is the first baby at home"
    2. See your marriage as the best & happiest marriage, don't compare your marriage with other people's marriages
    Now I've learnt more
    Thanks Fla ❤❤❤❤
    Dear Heavenly Father , your daughter is now ready for marriage 😔😔

    • @fitmisshadijjalubega2001
      @fitmisshadijjalubega2001 Рік тому +1

      Ameeen.Ameen

    • @dianababirye5476
      @dianababirye5476 Рік тому +4

      My dear,first set foot there.
      Start applying them,it ain't easy but workable

    • @rachealmbatinaki4476
      @rachealmbatinaki4476 Рік тому +2

      Let your husband show up now and then in JESUS'S NAME Amen and Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @davidmutebwa62
      @davidmutebwa62 Рік тому +1

      Hey baby. I'm looking for you!

    • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
      @KihemboNyakatoPamela Рік тому

      @@rachealmbatinaki4476 AMEN AMEN AND AMEN, THANKS DEAR 🙏🙏🙏

  • @hidayahnakiguli3658
    @hidayahnakiguli3658 Рік тому

    I just love every bit of your tip.well come back on the channel. Looking forward to learn more.

  • @aishamasimbi
    @aishamasimbi Рік тому +3

    Indeed your the big sister anyone could ever have, thank you and God bless you Flavia

  • @rinaharinda2028
    @rinaharinda2028 Рік тому

    The good thing about understanding seasons, you will always be joyful doing anything 💯

  • @GracesIntentionalliving
    @GracesIntentionalliving 4 місяці тому

    This is very profound .. understanding what season you are in helps you to manage the journey that you're taking. Knowing what you are doing at the certain time is very good to control stress. Stress from experiences can affect your goals.

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse Рік тому +2

    Thank you for these, esp on understanding seasons, that can be a stone in the shoe but glad you explained it so well.

  • @mcLeah1
    @mcLeah1 Рік тому +3

    Efforts on both sides is soooooo important ❤

  • @haphiegood1800
    @haphiegood1800 Рік тому +1

    I love listening to her❤😊

  • @ankndamacklyne5264
    @ankndamacklyne5264 Рік тому

    I love the words, thanks for teaching us Mrs Flavia

  • @megansandranagasha2872
    @megansandranagasha2872 Рік тому +3

    Sooo glad you're back with these words of wisdom!!

  • @joannamanya4167
    @joannamanya4167 Рік тому +1

    Understanding seasons in marriage is great, growing together is key. Thank you Mrs K. Marriage learning everyday.

  • @latiifananziri4583
    @latiifananziri4583 Рік тому

    Goodness this is brilliant Flavian, thank you for sharing… much love ❤

  • @ishaazisharon6573
    @ishaazisharon6573 Рік тому

    go go gal I like the reality in this, most important the excel mission is a correct point.

  • @oliviabamwenda1328
    @oliviabamwenda1328 Рік тому +6

    Flavior I've been married for over 15 years and you are absolutely 💯 right. Season season season what a great lesson God bless you.

  • @judithejangtravelblog
    @judithejangtravelblog Рік тому +2

    Our big sister is back 🎉❤thank you Flavia.

  • @JosephineTibasabwa
    @JosephineTibasabwa Рік тому +1

    A lot of wisdom in here right from the beginning 💯

  • @rutharrikod
    @rutharrikod Рік тому

    Lots of respect. This is wisdom, thanks beauliful

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 Рік тому +5

    "Seasons & update settings in marriage" wowww🥰 this's soo nice and actually important to learn in marriage,on the issue of money my dear some pipo are selfish,some men out there want their wives to support them yet they can't do it in return
    Thank soo much Flavia
    We appreciate 🤗🤗🤗

  • @munashemushamba9793
    @munashemushamba9793 Рік тому +1

    Your wisdom is on another level. Thank you

  • @lillianahumuza5474
    @lillianahumuza5474 Рік тому +1

    The content here in is just everything 🙌. Seassssoooonnnssssss ehhhhhhhyyyyy

  • @Doreen-123
    @Doreen-123 Рік тому

    You are so real Flavia ,

  • @estherkessie
    @estherkessie Рік тому +2

    This is so helpful dear, we have to evolve through the seasons.

  • @carolhighlyfavored6348
    @carolhighlyfavored6348 Рік тому

    You are so lovely Flavia you are!! Thank you so much for always sharing, love you 🥰

  • @remetseirene9607
    @remetseirene9607 Рік тому +3

    Wow, that's what I always tell women. There is a season for everything. If you don't put much effort in that season, you will go back and work on it in the wrong time frame

  • @joanitanyangoma
    @joanitanyangoma Рік тому +1

    The best YT episode i have watched in a long time and I am not even married. I love that the lessons apply across board. We had really missed you, Flavia 😍

  • @carolbagonza4295
    @carolbagonza4295 Рік тому +3

    How is it that you are such a knowledge bank😍.. Thank you for sharing..You are absolutely right dear on everything. Very tru how can you grow together if you are not moving together if you are not doing it together.thank you Flav

  • @arinaitwearran918
    @arinaitwearran918 Рік тому

    Brilliant! Love the vulnerability. Sharing bases on personal experiences, especially the mistakes, are the best ones.

  • @gifttwikirize7066
    @gifttwikirize7066 Рік тому +1

    So inspiring
    Learning the season u r in is so important

  • @littlemissy421
    @littlemissy421 Рік тому +2

    The big sis we all need to have 😘thanks for the nuggets nalongo❤ ur looks are🔥🔥

  • @margaretmuthoni8464
    @margaretmuthoni8464 Рік тому

    One of the best lessons you shared Flavia. Thanks

  • @AshleyRuth-h3d
    @AshleyRuth-h3d Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing am learning alot

  • @kaudhaesther3386
    @kaudhaesther3386 4 місяці тому

    It's important for sure to share finances together but know how to go about it

  • @NanoziJustin
    @NanoziJustin Рік тому

    There is tym for everything,thank u Flavia

  • @mawandasulaiman
    @mawandasulaiman Рік тому

    God bless you🙏🏾, this is gold you are sharing. So real and open-minded.❤

  • @patricianinsiima9802
    @patricianinsiima9802 Рік тому

    Wow! Thank you Flavia. I never get enough. You are talented at what you do. Keep it up

  • @alphamediaug
    @alphamediaug Рік тому +3

    It's been long but always glad to drink from your cup of wisdom

  • @estheroluka8598
    @estheroluka8598 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing Flavia..Be blessed.

  • @kemigishajesicca8332
    @kemigishajesicca8332 Рік тому

    It’s the Seasons bit for me. Thanks Flavia👏👏👏

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie2798 Рік тому +1

    Good lessons there. Thanks for sharing

  • @nantezaprossy668
    @nantezaprossy668 Рік тому

    Woooow the one year off was really essential and a beautiful one, the vibe is mwaa. I love the words season's seasons seasons. Oh Lord teach to number our days

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 Рік тому

    Thanks dear for sharing ❤❤

  • @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp
    @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp 8 місяців тому

    l really love you Flavia,eshi ogambagye orujungu

  • @tushabejudith7653
    @tushabejudith7653 Рік тому

    Key note for me: people's expectations and opinions don't matter!!!

  • @sumayanakato
    @sumayanakato Рік тому

    Thanks so much for sharing maama.

  • @greatstar3866
    @greatstar3866 Рік тому

    Wow.. thanks Flavia for this.

  • @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20
    @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20 Рік тому +11

    Key words; Know the season and update settings accordingly, but most importantly, what hurts the other doesn't necessarily hurt you.

  • @daisywangila6285
    @daisywangila6285 Рік тому

    Her voice...👌

  • @glonah01
    @glonah01 Рік тому +1

    Glad to hear these while still single 😅❤️❤️

  • @edmondletasichosen
    @edmondletasichosen Рік тому

    Congratulations on your 4-year anniversary and welcome back dear Flavia! Thank you so much for sharing these valuable lessons ma’am! Stay blessed! 🙏🏾❤

  • @mutesibetty-hd7xg
    @mutesibetty-hd7xg Рік тому +1

    True bby gal that’s what we should understand and learn

  • @rwamsrit
    @rwamsrit Рік тому

    This is so true thnx Flavia love ❤

  • @beforeido6265
    @beforeido6265 Рік тому +1

    Am blessed by this

  • @shakie_my_love
    @shakie_my_love Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much mummy... ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nserekoshafique8717
    @nserekoshafique8717 Рік тому

    Thank you for those real-life lessons...

  • @mercyjumaofficial1943
    @mercyjumaofficial1943 Рік тому

    True...some challenges from others shouldn't be mine. Yesss seasons very important...
    So a marriage may not fit into your previous season! Wow!..key lesson, and it's not weakness
    Expectations and opinions of others don't and shouldn't matter!!! Yes yes especially family😂.
    Apo kwa pesa... Yea we didn't grow up with the money together responsibility, so it's really difficult sometimes, but like you say...we choose what our marriage should be like❤

  • @britahnuwamanya4761
    @britahnuwamanya4761 Рік тому

    Really really insightful..

  • @womanoffaith1806
    @womanoffaith1806 Рік тому

    Blessings Flav love u

  • @godsveryowndaughter4009
    @godsveryowndaughter4009 Рік тому +2

    Update your settings😊that's a good one

  • @shaniceo8291
    @shaniceo8291 Рік тому

    You nailed ❤this my dear , you look awesome..............❤❤❤Mrs Kabura, I love everything you are all about. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 on your new bundle of Joy , Iam super happy for u, enjoy your season. ❤❤❤

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 Рік тому

    Expectations and opinions of others don't matter.

  • @kansiimejustine88
    @kansiimejustine88 Рік тому

    Oohh seasons.... thank you so much Flavia for this. This conversation is very educative. God bless you and your marriage more and more.

  • @musenerohilda9040
    @musenerohilda9040 Рік тому +1

    Seasons a thing God has put on my heart

  • @cathieempress7854
    @cathieempress7854 Рік тому

    You always hit the right spots 😊 Thank you to a Fav❤.... Update your settings and finances.. key takeaways 😊

  • @kizzaflavia7900
    @kizzaflavia7900 Рік тому

    Thanks Flavia for always sharing with us life lessons ❤respect

  • @winniembabazi2355
    @winniembabazi2355 Рік тому

    This ended way before it should have, most educative vlog, God bless your family dear❤

  • @nakayagaprossy1249
    @nakayagaprossy1249 Рік тому

    True
    Seasons is a great things

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Рік тому

    Finances have learnt fromy parents over 20 years in marriage.
    They have joint account and each seperate account..but some family investments they share costs

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Рік тому

    And people's thinkings and expectations

  • @namafaris
    @namafaris Рік тому

    Bless you for sharing. I can relate to 1 & 2. Thank you, it helps to know that someone else is experiencing life as I am.

  • @sylivianyamwiza3066
    @sylivianyamwiza3066 Рік тому

    Thank u Flavia for great lessons

  • @BabiryeFatuma-r2p
    @BabiryeFatuma-r2p 9 місяців тому

    Thanks dear

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 Рік тому

    Main point... season... for me

  • @danielkyaligonza53
    @danielkyaligonza53 Рік тому

    very insightful

  • @musiimentaagnes1246
    @musiimentaagnes1246 Рік тому

    Am learning soon coming in marriage 😄 thank you dear 💓

  • @RebeccaItungo
    @RebeccaItungo Рік тому

    💯 True thanks Flavia for sharing ❤

  • @daisylillian594
    @daisylillian594 Рік тому

    Thank you Flavia

  • @ruth8647
    @ruth8647 Рік тому

    I love this lady, I just want to know how you went through that cheating scandal! I find myself in the same position only that I’m not a celebrity, I find it hard to forgive, confused etc

    • @sarahkwebihaw.7564
      @sarahkwebihaw.7564 Рік тому +1

      No woman will tell you the real truth of how they handled cheating spouse. Seek counseling. Talk to people you trust . Usually once a person cheats, they cheat again!!!

  • @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx
    @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx Рік тому

    Why didn't I meet you before .I needed these lessons before

  • @namjoon3749
    @namjoon3749 Рік тому +1

    Qtn how do u deal with growth especially financially one having to leave home maybe to deal with a job far

  • @reymojohn1046
    @reymojohn1046 9 місяців тому

    Nice lessons

  • @YoramAmampa
    @YoramAmampa Рік тому

    Wish u the best in everything

  • @nakajigosandra5953
    @nakajigosandra5953 Рік тому

    Just love u ❤❤flavia,ive followed u since teenz club on wbs🥰🥰🥰

  • @mahorojulian6746
    @mahorojulian6746 Рік тому

    Love you babe.. Thank you💯💕

  • @kabasiitapriscilla5504
    @kabasiitapriscilla5504 Рік тому

    Woow great show ❤

  • @judithamuge1161
    @judithamuge1161 Рік тому

    Right on time

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364
    @shamelesstumuhaise3364 Рік тому

    thank you for this

  • @martiasmugisha
    @martiasmugisha Рік тому

    Is it me or did I miss the 4th thing

  • @yvanokuba1649
    @yvanokuba1649 Рік тому

    Actually - 'upgrade the settings'

  • @sumayamya357
    @sumayamya357 Рік тому

    We love you always

  • @kisakyejaquiline259
    @kisakyejaquiline259 Рік тому

    Good message

  • @nazziwanasha2876
    @nazziwanasha2876 Рік тому +2

    Wow Flavior season OMG am 32 I have 2kids my co wife died 2month back and hubby says I have to take over the 6kids add my 2=8 am I ready for this season wow😮

    • @mbabazimichelle5155
      @mbabazimichelle5155 Рік тому

      Ehhhh...isn't that too much??

    • @nakazibwerashidah484
      @nakazibwerashidah484 Рік тому

      Struggle is real

    • @cynthia-jo1zz
      @cynthia-jo1zz Рік тому +2

      What do you mean co wife??? What life have you lived to make these decisions?? Ohhh we have a long way to go to change things

  • @lifeofachom
    @lifeofachom Рік тому +11

    I wouldn't mind combining money with a husband, but most men cheat and it will hurt worse knowing our money was spent on a lodge😒

    • @namjoon3749
      @namjoon3749 Рік тому +2

      U discuss leave a few to urself

  • @nanyanziaidahyawe
    @nanyanziaidahyawe Рік тому

    Very interesting

  • @Kigali15
    @Kigali15 Рік тому

    Imbahi kikazii

  • @atuhairwecharity01
    @atuhairwecharity01 Рік тому

    So real❤

  • @taturekaanthony273
    @taturekaanthony273 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤wow